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Dating Advice, Fighting, and Love Stories w/ Trent and Laura Horn | The Lila Rose Podcast E29
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- Опубликовано: 19 апр 2023
- Today I talk with Trent Horn, author and host of the popular Christian apologetics podcast, the Council of Trent, and his wife Laura Horn, host of the hilarious RUclips Channel Too Far with Laura Horn. Trent and Laura share their journey of long-distance dating, how they knew they found “The One,” and effective ways they’ve learned to communicate as a married couple. The Horns also shed light on some practical advice for finding a spouse.
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Today I talk with Trent Horn, author and host of the popular Christian apologetics podcast, the Council of Trent, and his wife Laura Horn, host of the hilarious RUclips Channel Too Far with Laura Horn. Trent and Laura share their journey of long-distance dating, how they knew they found “The One,” and effective ways they’ve learned to communicate as a married couple. The Horns also shed light on some practical advice for finding a spouse.
You just let the world and especially the Republican base see where you REALLY are. But you're young and probably naive to certain things. There's a saying "Don't let the good become the enemy of great." I'd enhance that further by saying "Don't let the great become the enemy of the perfect." You trashed President Trump in the most stupid comment I've ever seen from the fake Republican pro-establishment side I've ever seen.
No other Republican dared to challenge things in the arena of Roe Vs Wade. Only Trump made a meaningful change. No other candidate will even try and nor should they.
You called for centralized federal authority over the issue which is unconstitutional from the start. But worse, you're calling for a further concentration of power at the federal level -- a power which ALWAYS changes parties and one party finds ways to ratchet things into a far worse direction when they have it back. The striking down of RvW removed that federal stranglehold and removed justification for continued support for abortion clinics and preventing that power from being used again.
More abortions have been prevented under Trump's changes than any other US president in history and that can only be undone if that power becomes a federal issue again.
I could go on about how the notion of state level decisions and the differences among them are crucial to the continual development and preservation of US culture -- ESPECIALLY religious culture. You know what the left does with concentrated federal power and you know when they have it again, they will double down on the damage they cause. I am appalled that you do not understand this in the slightest.
It will require a constitutional amendment to do what you seek and I'm for it. But before such a thing can happen, the contrast among the governments among the states need to be laid out for all to see just as we see it in criminal policy in blue states and clue cities. It's striking and disgusting for the nation to see but it's also clear. In time, the states will shift red and ONLY then can we hope to get a constitutional amendment to preserve the lives of the innocent unborn.
I encourage you to take back what you have asserted about Trump and the enormous progress he made in the area of preserving life. Trump's plan is EXACTLY as I described above. The states need to stand on their own policy. If done at the federal level, the states can shift the blame for their policies there... where nothing gets done without fearless citizens like Trump doing the things every Republican promises but never does.
The Conservative Treehouse has alerted the conservatives across the country to you and I know I'm not the only voice directing his attention on you.
DO THE RIGHT THING.
Counsel*
Hi Lila, I loved this conversation with you and the Horns. I was wondering, have you ever considered becoming Catholic? I’m curious what your thoughts are. I became Catholic in 2020 and I absolutely love the mass and receiving the body, blood, soul, and divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ ✨. Your podcast is good for my soul! Thank you!
@@geoffmead4581 Lila IS catholic.....
"would you be okay with this person raising your children if they died?"
That's really good advice!
Huge respect to Laura. She was a nurse and she gave up her career for Trent and kids. That’s a gem of a woman
Wasn't much of a trade-off. Being a mother is far more rewarding and is her primary vocation. Working outside the home can only be done if morally justified.
In fact she was happy to let go of her career.
I loved the honesty in this one. One of my favorite Catholic apologists and pro life speakers (together with Lila), Laura is adorable☺
I'd love to hear this interview when they hit 20 years. Lila, I LOVE the way you speak of your gratitude for your marriage and children.
Present your needs as needs and not as complaints…biggest thing I got from this. Thank you, Lila, Laura and Trent!
Hey Alex! Awesome to see you here. Wonderful debate with Mr. White.
I loved this. We need more of them as a couple. 😅
Dang, how do i find a girl as freaking hilarious as Laura!?
Usually Girls who are very close to God and supper happy, at least 95% of my experience has confirmed the same, get closer to young Christian adult groups and you’ll find out !
You won’t
@@SenorCinema I actually did find a girl like her recently haha but thanks for your note of encouragement 😁 whatever tough thing you're going through right now, I hope it gets better soon :)
@@Matt_Reinhart happy for you, ❤️👊😌
@@Matt_Reinhartawww this was a cute update!
I love how down to earth these two are.
Trent, Laura , Lila! What more could a Catholic ask for than all these amazing people in a room together! Also I love the love story!!❤❤
Laura is so funny! She’s a little firecracker! 😂
they went to adoration after dinner and he proposed?? 😮😍
I'm a millenial Catholic as well, almost the same age as Trent, my wife is around the same age as Laura, she went on a Focus mission trip to Honduras with her back in her college days. Its funny because I acted similarly to the way Trent did, when I asked my wife to be my girlfriend, she said she just wanted to be friends. I gave her an ultimatum and told her I have enough friends already, either be my girlfriend or we stop talking. She said yes to being my girlfriend, and here we are about to be married for 8 years. I'm glad I gave my wife that ultimatum, she may have friend zoned me had I not.
Sheesh. And did you put a knife to her throat when you said that to her?
@kevinrhatigan5656 lol of course not, I just knew what I wanted, and I didn't want to be friends, I was ready for a serious relationship, and if she wasn't, I was going to move on. She was glad I did that, she has told me that women do want that, they want a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it. I feel like that is what is lacking in today's dating scene. Men don't want to be men and pursue a woman they are interested in, men are so afraid to ask a woman out, they'd rather stay in the friend zone, then no one is happy.
@@rcwarrior868 I see what you mean, but call me an idealist, I think that in relationships things ought to flow naturally without having to resort to brusque remarks about how you either become my partner or I'm out. Glad it worked out though
@@kevinrhatigan5656 I see what you mean, and trust me our relationship did and does flow naturally. Things were going so well that i knew she was the one, and she knew i was the one too just a few weeks into getting to know each other, she was just scared of how good things were going and both of us had just gotten out of long term relationships about a year before we met. So in short she kind of needed that push to take the leap into another relationship, we are both very happy that we did take the leap, our 8 year wedding anniversary will be in August and God has blessed us abundantly. Gods love for us is clearly seen through the unconditional love that we have for one another in the sacrament of holy matrimony. Its a beautiful thing.
Fantastic episode with a fun trio. Laura just lights up the room. Trent is so down to earth. And Lila is a wonderful host!
Awesome to see you all together interacting
Trent and Lila...a pro life tour de force!
Pro-life and pro-stupid. I'm pro-life but I'm not willing to grant the Federal government centralized power to rule on the thing. Even if it did assume centralized power, it would be in violation of the US Constitution. Therefore the only way to address the issue is the same way the issue of slavery was address -- a constitutional amendment. Recall that slavery was allowed under the constitution and even though the emancipation proclamation was enacted, it was also unconstitutional and also only affected slavery in the south.
"Good intentions" sure... but that's what paves the road to hell.
@@erroneus00 Are you willing to grant the federal government centralized power to call murder illegal? It's the same principle, my friend.
@@catholickirby I'm going to ask you to ask yourself that question while pretending you didn't ask it. It's a damned silly question. Under Federal law and under every state's law, if someone kills a pregnant woman, the person is charged with TWO COUNTS of whatever form of homicide they determine. Murder is already illegal under every jurisdiction. All that has to happen is for SCOTUS to rule that it is murder to abort a baby. A new law is not needed. But as it stands, murder by state or by war and by many other circumstances are effectively legal. We do not live in a reality devoid of granular details and moral exceptions. Ultimately, a federal bad on abortion will ALWAYS fail in one of two ways: (1) legislative vote or (2) Democrat control would REVERSE IT and make it worse.
You have to look beyond the immediate and look to future results and outcomes.
For example, look at our surveillance state as we have it today. The NSA's data collection program is working 24/7, without probable cause (unconstitutional!) collecting the data of every US American in this country. Even though this program was initiated long before 9/11, it was 9/11 which was used to justify its use under the new federal intelligence restructuring under the patriot act. At the time, we (the people) thought it was a good idea because "9/11." But today, we see it is grossly abused in horrifying ways where the IG over intelligence reported illegal warrantless access to the NSA databases without redactions by tens of thousands of "authorized" people every single year.
My point in that is to show how power, especially when centralized, is 100% guaranteed to be abused. This is why the constitution was written to limit power from the start. Power ALWAYS finds its way into "the wrong hands." And even in "the right hands" the character of those hands often shifts.
If Jesus himself were in charge of our government, that would be the only imaginable "right hands" for massive centralized power. All other people are completely corruptible.
@@erroneus00 Those are fair points. But a federal law against abortion is a negative law: i.e. "you can't do X". It isn't a positive law like "you may collect this information" or anything like that. And since a federal law against abortion would be a negative law in the same vein as negative laws (against murder) that already exist, I'm not so sure it would have the same potential for abuse. But I agree with you that SCOTUS or the culture at large recognizing that abortion is already murder and thus illegal, but be sufficient as well.
I don’t know why but “dang it my Trent fairy” is hilarious to me
I love these three people! God bless you all and the work you do. ❤
Very lovely couple! Really enjoyed this interview! What a beautiful proposal after Adoration! WoW! Beautiful.
HERE FOR LAURA....AND TRENT!
She's SOOOOOOO PRETTTTYYYY.....
😂😂
I wanted this to come up!!
This!!!!!!!
Isn't that a quote from one is Laura's videos? I'm so happy for both of these ladies husband's!
They both are! ❤
Thank you for this lovely interview, Lila!
Deeply pray for me for my very future marriage vocation with kids.
God bless, Rev. 21:4
@lilarosepodcast this is awesome and should be a series with other married couples. ❤
This is the very first podcast I listened to till the end. I couldn't get enough 💖💖💖
That was a treat :)
I would have loved to heard more about Trents non Catholic family.
Considering who their son is...how can that be?
Though I think I have heard Trent say that his relationship with his dad isn't great.
That could be why he is such a good dad.
I am loving your interview
Great show! 😍😍😍
9:58 Trents face when being called a bad boy lol :DD
**Dave Chapelle crack meme format**
Y’all got any more of them Laura Horn podcasts
heheheeh
Trent is soooooo smart and has such wonderful advise, Laura too, but really took in Trents advise for young adults (I have 4 sons) and will pass this along. Love them.
It was refreshing to hear Laura address her need for a clean house and how it was just too much for her to handle. The proverbs 31 woman did have a team but it is also a description of her life journey. Laura has 3 little kids under her roof to take care of 24/7 while Trent travels. She's basically saying she needs support. Good job!
Awesome couple! On the break up part. Trent you might’ve also been influenced with societies idea of what a relationship is supposed to be and that therefor long distance can’t work. My husband and I were long distance in different countries. We talked every day. I was finishing my masters degree as he was going for his engineering degree for 2 1/2 years. He traveled about 3 times during that time. And I did not at all feel our life was different when we got married. I knew him through and through. Especially since we do not fornicate or cohabitate. If anything I believe long distance has also protected us not to fall into sin and focus on really getting to know each other and figuring out if we were compatible mentally and spiritually.
Lovely perspective. Thank you for sharing that!
Trent is a wonderful husband. Laura is a beautiful wife. They have lovely kids. And they glorify God with their marriage.
Love all of you
Pro life badboy😂 is makeup covering up my black eye😂 ps this is shot very well
Lila is really grilling these two! 😂😂
53:32-53:38 is the golden nugget of this whole video. lol
as a saying goes if you love someone set it free, if comes back it's yrs to keep but if doesn't its never meant to be GB
Married christians to single christians who are searching for a spouse: “You first need to focus on yourself and God, that's why you are still single”.
Also married christians to single christians who do not search for a spouse anymore: “You are being selfish, you should marry a create a family since you aren't pursuing a religious vocation”.
9:16 I feel you Lora 😅
37:29 Advice for men and women
2 minutes in and I already see why Trent wanted to marry her lol
Lila, you need a new phone case!
Lol. Yep.
Initiating on Facebook 😂 does feel old
Lol laura is so funny
Great podcast, kinda ironic 2 pro life apologists started talking on Facebook a pro choice company!
Please edit Laura at 33:25 😂😂😂
Yes! Catholic families! Let’s multiply!
41:05
It's it just me, or did your heart burn within you? I think we just heard a message from Holy Ghost.
I love how Lila asked if the statement was in the Catechism, she heard it too!
46:13 ❤
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8:59 Trent spitting truth about courtship and the female pschye. Got to play a little bit and evoke emotion. Comment for traction.
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And that’s how she died : D
🚨🚨🚨I disagree about therapists.. I have had quite a few therapists in my youth, each of which lead me down extremely dangerous paths. For example, my wanting to save myself for marriage, and dislike of pornography was blamed on the childhood sexual abuse I suffered, and Catholicism. As a teen, therapists ordered me to pleasure myself, and one tried to pay someone to have a sexual experience with me. I can go on and on. And this was not in one little pocket of town. This was across different states, and different times in my life. I give an enormous HELL NO to “therapy” , and a warning to parents. I wish I could go on and on about the demonic advice and treatment I got. NO WAY. And I hope a parents reads this who is considering getting their children therapy.
This makes me angry because of jealousy. You see I was married and I thought it was a great marriage we have 2 amazing daughters and good jobs and we didn't argue. We disagreed but not argue. I was so happy and refining existence and feeling better each day. And then my wife told me on my youngest 3rd bday to get out!!! I don't love you anymore. I didn't know what to do. There was no discussion no 2nd chance nothing but get out!! That was 2009 and I'm still hurting from it. My girls are amazing and I can't imagine life without them but marriage stabbed me in the back. So now I'm jealous of those who are happy.
I feel you...
Just remember, it's the lover not the love.. hang in there...
lol everything was perfect…okay. You are just a perfect guy, that’s why you get angry, literally angry, at good people having a good marriage.