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Use the 'Mike Tyson'(or other fighters or some dude who can manhandle you) method if you can say it to Tyson to his face without filing a lawsuit against him for assualt then it's safe to say to other people. Otherwise it's not a polite thing to say😅
Psych, Con Men are the most polite out there. Your the kind of person who gives your preacher and Ushers as a referance for a job, Im the employeer who sees thru your fraud and ask for people who know you more than a couple hrs on sunday.
My favorite self proclaimed proverb is: Pray that you live such a life that the weeds filter you out. You'll enjoy the harvest without any weeds to sift through.
1. If you are seated and someone you are meeting or are introduced to at the table, stand up, don't shake their hands sitting down. 2. Ties into the above, wait till that person is seated before you take your seat. 3. If someone is leaving before you (not going to the bathroom or some short term like that) stand when they do. Well that's just what we learned in the Caribbean.
Apart from being the right thing to do, good manners really does make for good style. Class isn't what you wear or what you own. It's what you are inside.
When it comes to start eating I like to wait for the cook. My Mum always broke her back making us the most delicious food and she deserves to sit down enjoy her work with her family, not enter mid chaos and miss most.
IN the "old days" - i.e. 20 years ago, this was all taught by PARENTS. Now people have to go to RUclips to learn basic manners and behaviour. Well, at least it's done by someone we respect!
I was just debating this on a self defense channel the yesterday about what to do in rough neighborhoods. My points were that most people just want to go about their day. If you have to be in a rough area, become a "Gray Man" (blend in as much as possible, you're not likely to get targeted if you're not noticed), be polite (general respect as he said in the video), and be compliant (yet be ready and able to defend yourself). Someone else argued how they wouldn't take any rudeness. Look, I have had to travel to places like Downtown LA, Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago, Oakland, etc for work. If I was rude and upsetting people, I was going to have a rough time getting out. Some refused thinking it was best to be the tough guy all the time, loud and abrasive. I would rather be the polite guy in my warm bed than the tough guy in my cold grave.
Manners maketh the man. Be impaccable with your word. What this means is that your words are very powerful. Only say what you mean and mean everything that you say. Proper etiquette does two things: it brings the right people around you, and it keeps the wrong people away.
I love this video on a favorite topic! Outstanding opening, and categorizing manners is brilliant! Thanks for recommending “The Four Agreements”, I’ll read it. Best quote, I think, is “If someone does complain about you being a decent human being, you’re not the one with the problem.” This seems to me to be one of the best of your videos. Thank you!
What I have made one of my rules is: I ilve in the Netherlands, I'm not dutch, but I speak dutch fluently enough. Whenever I'm out with someone who does not speak dutch, I'm going to use english when talking to waiters, bartenders, that kind of people. Only when it becomes neccessary I'll switch to dutch.
I have a rule for opening doors. this was very big in the middle east when i went there. Its called the Yameen Rule (Right rules). The person on the right hand side goes through a door first; if you're part of a group, the right most person goes first and so on. If you want to show courtesy, come the left side of the door and open it for your colleagues and come in after everyone else has. This prevents those awkward "no you first" moments. if you got caught on the right side, accept the courtesy and go in first no complaints, all thanks.
Hi,iam from India.I learnt about body language from a book.I used those techniques and watched many videos like from rmrs. When my teacher scolded me I avoided eye contact,because you should not watch eye to eye when you get scolding.But my teacher found that and said" don't put up your face as if you are innocent"😅 Anyways I love Antonio's video💙
You nailed every one of these! It's a sad state of affairs when this needs to be "taught" on a You Tube video. I should just be a part of learning to become an adult. Bravo to you!
It’s amazing how many people don’t use please and thank you especially when speaking to shop or restaurant staff. My dad never says either and it’s so embarrassing bringing him out anywhere 🙄
Eye contact when listening is easy for me, but when speaking, constant eye contact causes me to get distracted and lose my train of thought. I need to work on that.
Great content! So much of this is based on basic mindfulness and being aware of the people & situations we are in. Being present is huge! I see people displaying bad manners chiefly because they are so engaged with their phones. For example people on the phone letting a door slam in someone’s face simply because they are so wrapped up in their device that they don’t notice someone right behind them. Being present is so key to having proper manners.
Then why was a Lieutenant maced by a Cop for being polite? Its proof on you tube that your statement is false. I can wait until your polite to a feminazi, they will bust your balls for opening a door for them.
Antonio I think they're speaking about me in this video. My wife always comments how I do all of these for everyone. I will always ask someone that is carrying a lot of things if they would mind if I help or if they would like some help. People always look at me funny, but I just tell them that not everyone needs help but it feels good to have someone offer it even when they don't need it.
Very true! I learned to think of “Menschen” as a higher quality of human being, ones of impeccable integrity, honor, and conduct. A status to strive for and very hard to attain! I like your translation.
Which is the same phrase, because the ‘man’ in ‘manners maketh man’ refers to mankind, not men. It’s a very old phrase, first found in English in ‘the Vulgaria’, it’s also the motto of New College, Oxford and Winchester college.
A bit late to this party. Good manners go a long way with me. You also talk about respect. Same thing and the two go hand in hand. Also lets not forget kindness, compassion, graciousness, dignity and integrity. If you have all these things, then you are a gentleman.
Such an appropriate lesson and time to be shown. This needs to be shared by everyone who watches it to everyone... ESPECIALLY our kids, educators and politicians... EVERYONE. Now I am going to give away my age in that. I actually still have the book I was given as a young child. That addresses... teaches... manners and etiquette. Additionally when I joined the Corps, yes believe it or not the Marine Corps. Taught these same lessons as part of its leadership training. Some how so much of this has been lost in our society.
The exciting thing about eye contact is that in some cultures like mine, keeping eye contact was generally seen as a challenge, as if you disagree or disprove. I will say that it's a little lenient nowadays, but they would still see it as disrespectful for the older generation.
As always, everything is 100% correct! Majority of people nowadays are just brainwashed into crap and terrible behaviour. Manners are not only good sign of intelligent person, but also necessary for connection with other person. No manners, it is as if you were not able to finish primary school. I really mean it. Most people nowadays don´t function on even primary level, which is so terrible. No wonder then, that most people don´t have a healthy relationship anymore and are not able to be attractive to someone in general. That is, because people lack primary skills, that everyone should know. Good video and everyone should take it seriously.
Amazing people have to be told to wash their hands and cover their mouth while coughing too, and stay 6 feet apart. I was taught that at age 3 by my grandmothers . Amazing kids mooch off the parents until 26 or more, its rude too mooch, no respect to parents, but now you have raised a new generation of Narcisists who are easily offended when called out. Had 6 girls who thought I was rude for charging them for everything they ordered and ate, they didnt want to pay for it all , because they couldnt eat it all, but I was rude for pressing theft of service on them and having them arrested. They were very polite up until then.
As a woman watching this, I have to say i personally find it extremely attractive when a man had manners such as these. I know this video is a few years old, but i thank you for it. Ignore the raging feminists Kings, the real women know your worth 👑
HOME RUN!! This was the best video!! I think young men need to see this. I'm so thankful and proud for being raised a southern gentlemen. These values was drilled into us our lives from the beginning. I do most of these things. I need to work on things. I tend to poke the bear, escalate situations. Speak my mind, say what I mean and mean what I say!!! No one likes a lier but most people can't handle honesty.
Many years ago I checked out every book on manners for gentlemen from the library and read the small bit of info that was available online at the time. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made. A lot of them are out dated and some modern people would find offensive, but if you pull that behavior out around the right type of people, it’s like a key to a door. Suddenly some old lady who wouldn’t give you the time of day, thinks of you as her grandson. Haha
One of my most important tenets is to not place expectation of my manner/etiquette/ethics unto other people. The reason is twofold: First, I am a man of mistakes. I say not to place expectation unto other people, but I break from time to time. Although I will try to be aware of when and why I stray, I feel that if I can't hold true to my own beliefs, then it's unfair to place judgement on others. Second, I do not know anyone else's circumstances. It could very well be that the person in question holds true to good mannerisms almost all the time, but I just happen to be there when they made their mistake, which may even be out of their control. Another person might not have had the support structure or experience to be mindful of other people. In both cases, if I provide the example, it could give the first person a reminder of slipping from their belief structure, and I could provide the second person the motivation to change themselves to be better FOR themselves.
Fighting over these exact point with my wife over our son. Raised southern, married Oregon. So different, even just simple things like hat on inside and simple words
I once had a boss who said, ‘’Thank you” for everything. I could bring in report that was daily and expected, but I always got thanked. The work environment was incredibly pleasant.
My father was old school career military, and he made sure I observed all of these rules before I was old enough to wear long pants. He also taught me to respect my mother, never, ever to begin eating before her, and always open the door. I remember several times when he would rap me actoss the back of my knuckles with the flat end of a spoon if I failed to observe proper table manners. I thank him every day for teaching me correct manners, it has served me well.
I could only chuckle when I saw the Aspen and Stetson colognes. I still love them. I still wear them. Polite, gentlemanly, & masculine but not intrusive scents.
THANKS FOR POSTING I was fortunate I grew up around people who set this example ... now it is my turn to set a good example ... I was shown good examples and bad examples and got to make my own decision ... but I knew the difference
One manner I would like to add, and I guess in these times it's especially important, Don't touch everything, and when you do grab something, do it with a purpose. I guess as human beings we like to touch and feel things, especially when out shopping, it's a way for us to make sure that the item is up to our standards. But how much do we really need to touch things? I am not saying don't touch anything, I am saying, if you are gonna do it, do it with a purpose. Another one, especially in these times, respect people's private zones. Give people space when you can, about 1,5 to 2 meters as being recommended these days, especially inside. If you are gonna walk past someone, do it with a bit of space in between you if you can, have situational awareness, may there be a moment where you might need to pass close by someone when walking, can you hold up a moment and let that other person pass by on a safe distance? If you are gonna walk past someone, can you do it and then be sure to keep enough distance between you two?
Thanks for your videos, Antonio! This one is really great Would you cover advanced table manners? Not those in your old short video but how to use knife and fork, how to eat different types of meat properly etc.
During my early days of training at USMC Quantico the company CO spoke on the issue of using four letter words he stated that" four letter words are used by men who were to stupid to know the words to use in their place". He was right, swear words really have no useful place in conversation. You will be noticed for the lack of their use.
Loved the video, I've talked to many who fail to properly start/end the conversation. I think it's pretty simple to say hello/take care instead of just jumping into a subject or saying OK and hanging up...
Hi from Oamaru Sth island New Zealand. Animals have manners too. Just feed the poultry and stand back you will see Mr Rooster stand on one feet watching the woman folk eat first. Its pretty cool to watch.
I would add a few things: 1. Say excuse me after you sneeze 2. If you are seated, stand up to greet a person entering the room, especially if they are older. 3. Shake your feet before getting in a vehicle when it's snowing or raining
Dear Antonio, I have been watching your videos for a while and I have to admit that I am amazined with the content. Big thumbs up for that! You convey an imporatant message in a nice, enjoyable and transparent way. As an addition to the video, I would add two points: 1. What should be the order of service at the table -> a) olderst ladies b) oldest gentlemen c) other ladies d) other gentelmen e) kids , 2. Order of greeting people -> when a lady accompanies a gentleman, you should greet her first. Have a good week, take care and stay safe! Greetings from Poland 🇵🇱.
I’m not the type to comment but my dad wasn’t in my life so I kinda grew up with this thug mentality and persona. trying to come out of it before I hit my twenties , this helps a lot , you are changing peoples life’s with this
A great book that I highly recommend for every man. George Washingtons Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior. Some may be a bit outdated but it's a great book that every Man should own.
This is the reazon why you follow this channel and i really like it A good man with a nice family who show me in truly way good adivices to improves my personale care my manners my health and my dress style Some time i not agree but i really love this channel Thanks
In the middle east people usually call men by their child's name like "Father of Xyz"...it suits a lot more when told in Arabic "Abu Xyz" both in professional and private settings. I am personally impressed with this because knowing someone by their name is really nice but remembering their child's name makes it really very pleasing.
You made so many good points in this video! Good manners, consideration for others, is sorely lacking in today’s society. My Grandmother used to say “good manners, makes a good neighbour. Good manners will take you through the world” She was right. When I interviewed for the job that I have now, I walked up to the front desk, and said “Good afternoon” to the receptionist, introduced myself, and asked her her name. This was ingrained in me from my youth, so I did this as a matter of habit. When they hired me, they told me that I was the only unanimous hire, then they told me why. They told me that the receptionist had been at the company for 20 years, and they do not hire anyone that she does not like! She was so impressed by how I greeted her, and I was the only candidate who asked her her name. She liked me instantly, and we are good friends, today. Do not be an elitist! Treat everybody with respect, because your actions reflect your character. Be respectful to everyone, not just the people you PERCEIVE to have the power to do something to benefit you. This is both good character and good practise. You never know what influence a person may have!
As someone with a mild form of autism, I find that direct eye contact is difficult and uncomfortable - it actually makes it more difficult to listen to whoever is talking. As a child growing up in western culture, I had "forced eye contact" therapy and it was more traumatizing than helpful. Naturally, it makes making friends (and especially trying to date) difficult and I sometimes have trouble being taken seriously (and the foreign accent doesn't help). Other than that, I picked up on most manners just fine - holding the door, cleaning up after myself (at least in shared areas), saying "excuse me", etc.
Having a high regard for manners as being the grease on the wheels of humanity, I would argue that the primary difference between man and beast is that of having a soul...
Antonio, thank you for preaching this! Manners and chivalry are dying and I don’t agree with it! I have a comment: While sitting in front of your bookcase, it is an intelligent spot! You often keep the camera from your midriff-up, but in front of your library in a leather chair, back the camera up - you could have a great looking scene of power and presence. Show your whole person in your domain. Keep doing what you’re doing! Love it!
from SEA here.. no can do looking at elders in the eye. perhaps once in a while and only for a couple of seconds so they know that you're listening/paying attention to them
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Please just don't do that Kingsman thingee
Isn’t the elbows on the table rule outdated?
@@drewski2001 why risk it tho
I hear you found out how the algorithm works, so hereby my interaction and I'll make sure to like the video more people need to know these things
@Ernest Alonzo Or just do some basic email phishing.
Manners are not just a key attribute to being a Gentleman, it is "the" key attribute to being a gentleman.
Yes sir! May I use that and thank you sir.
Here is another rule: don't make a comment on something online, whether its on RUclips, Facebook, Twitter, or the like, that you wouldnt say to their face.
Amen
Well said sir 👌🏼
Amen bro.
Use the 'Mike Tyson'(or other fighters or some dude who can manhandle you) method if you can say it to Tyson to his face without filing a lawsuit against him for assualt then it's safe to say to other people. Otherwise it's not a polite thing to say😅
Yep!! For this reason I am off all SM except YT. It’s toxic.
Proper etiquette does two things: it brings the right people around you, and it keeps the wrong people away.
Psych, Con Men are the most polite out there. Your the kind of person who gives your preacher and Ushers as a referance for a job, Im the employeer who sees thru your fraud and ask for people who know you more than a couple hrs on sunday.
My favorite self proclaimed proverb is: Pray that you live such a life that the weeds filter you out. You'll enjoy the harvest without any weeds to sift through.
@@floydschake704 you don't know shit I see thru your lies
A little bit of kindness and etiquette goes a long way
It drives me crazy how many people out there doesn’t know much about manners.
Doesn't 😂😂😂
1. If you are seated and someone you are meeting or are introduced to at the table, stand up, don't shake their hands sitting down.
2. Ties into the above, wait till that person is seated before you take your seat.
3. If someone is leaving before you (not going to the bathroom or some short term like that) stand when they do.
Well that's just what we learned in the Caribbean.
Apart from being the right thing to do, good manners really does make for good style. Class isn't what you wear or what you own. It's what you are inside.
When it comes to start eating I like to wait for the cook. My Mum always broke her back making us the most delicious food and she deserves to sit down enjoy her work with her family, not enter mid chaos and miss most.
IN the "old days" - i.e. 20 years ago, this was all taught by PARENTS. Now people have to go to RUclips to learn basic manners and behaviour. Well, at least it's done by someone we respect!
It is still taught by parents who care and it was not taught by shit parents twenty years ago.
Yup my dad always asks me to say hello to guests. No matter who they are he says atleast say hello and then continue whatever you were doing.
This is great advice for both men and women; it all boils down to respecting our fellow human beings.
I was just debating this on a self defense channel the yesterday about what to do in rough neighborhoods. My points were that most people just want to go about their day. If you have to be in a rough area, become a "Gray Man" (blend in as much as possible, you're not likely to get targeted if you're not noticed), be polite (general respect as he said in the video), and be compliant (yet be ready and able to defend yourself). Someone else argued how they wouldn't take any rudeness. Look, I have had to travel to places like Downtown LA, Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago, Oakland, etc for work. If I was rude and upsetting people, I was going to have a rough time getting out.
Some refused thinking it was best to be the tough guy all the time, loud and abrasive. I would rather be the polite guy in my warm bed than the tough guy in my cold grave.
Random person but not random advice good dadvice
Hahaha love it!!
So much helpful information in one video! Thank you, Antonio!
Steven is the epitome of impeccable manners. Amazing!
Steven is such a wonderful person
We love you Steven
I love that movie. I just bought it on RUclips. It never gets old.
I do too. Definitely one of my favorites.
Manners maketh the man. Be impaccable with your word. What this means is that your words are very powerful. Only say what you mean and mean everything that you say. Proper etiquette does two things: it brings the right people around you, and it keeps the wrong people away.
I love this video on a favorite topic! Outstanding opening, and categorizing manners is brilliant! Thanks for recommending “The Four Agreements”, I’ll read it. Best quote, I think, is “If someone does complain about you being a decent human being, you’re not the one with the problem.” This seems to me to be one of the best of your videos. Thank you!
The new framing technique for the camera is amazing, the background is blurred and you are th focus of the lens, love it!
It’s actually another lens on the camera he has, which is opened up so that it blurs the background. Going to guess he’s using an F-Stop of 2.8
What I have made one of my rules is: I ilve in the Netherlands, I'm not dutch, but I speak dutch fluently enough. Whenever I'm out with someone who does not speak dutch, I'm going to use english when talking to waiters, bartenders, that kind of people. Only when it becomes neccessary I'll switch to dutch.
I have a rule for opening doors. this was very big in the middle east when i went there. Its called the Yameen Rule (Right rules). The person on the right hand side goes through a door first; if you're part of a group, the right most person goes first and so on. If you want to show courtesy, come the left side of the door and open it for your colleagues and come in after everyone else has.
This prevents those awkward "no you first" moments. if you got caught on the right side, accept the courtesy and go in first no complaints, all thanks.
Hi,iam from India.I learnt about body language from a book.I used those techniques and watched many videos like from rmrs.
When my teacher scolded me I avoided eye contact,because you should not watch eye to eye when you get scolding.But my teacher found that and said" don't put up your face as if you are innocent"😅
Anyways I love Antonio's video💙
You nailed every one of these! It's a sad state of affairs when this needs to be "taught" on a You Tube video. I should just be a part of learning to become an adult. Bravo to you!
Communication manners, something I'm working on myself. Thanks for the tips as usual Antonio! ♥
Antonio is a wonderful mentor and I'm sure he's also a great father. Thank you sir
It’s amazing how many people don’t use please and thank you especially when speaking to shop or restaurant staff. My dad never says either and it’s so embarrassing bringing him out anywhere 🙄
I bet you let Dad pay the bill, how rude you mooch.
Eye contact when listening is easy for me, but when speaking, constant eye contact causes me to get distracted and lose my train of thought. I need to work on that.
Great content! So much of this is based on basic mindfulness and being aware of the people & situations we are in. Being present is huge! I see people displaying bad manners chiefly because they are so engaged with their phones. For example people on the phone letting a door slam in someone’s face simply because they are so wrapped up in their device that they don’t notice someone right behind them. Being present is so key to having proper manners.
An Officer and a gentleman. Works everytime !!
Then why was a Lieutenant maced by a Cop for being polite?
Its proof on you tube that your statement is false. I can wait until your polite to a feminazi, they will bust your balls for opening a door for them.
I just recently watched the kings man movies and they're so cool and fun at the same time.
Lol me too
Antonio I think they're speaking about me in this video. My wife always comments how I do all of these for everyone. I will always ask someone that is carrying a lot of things if they would mind if I help or if they would like some help. People always look at me funny, but I just tell them that not everyone needs help but it feels good to have someone offer it even when they don't need it.
An interresting fact in Germany we translated it "Manieren machen uns zu Menschen." Meaning: manners maketh human.
Very true! I learned to think of “Menschen” as a higher quality of human being, ones of impeccable integrity, honor, and conduct. A status to strive for and very hard to attain! I like your translation.
Which is the same phrase, because the ‘man’ in ‘manners maketh man’ refers to mankind, not men. It’s a very old phrase, first found in English in ‘the Vulgaria’, it’s also the motto of New College, Oxford and Winchester college.
I always joke with my family about asking to be excused from the table because no one ever does
A bit late to this party. Good manners go a long way with me. You also talk about respect. Same thing and the two go hand in hand. Also lets not forget kindness, compassion, graciousness, dignity and integrity.
If you have all these things, then you are a gentleman.
I was brought up to be well mannered. I've taught my son the same way. A well mannered man is sooo attractive (swoon).
Incest is not polite.
Such an appropriate lesson and time to be shown. This needs to be shared by everyone who watches it to everyone... ESPECIALLY our kids, educators and politicians... EVERYONE. Now I am going to give away my age in that. I actually still have the book I was given as a young child. That addresses... teaches... manners and etiquette. Additionally when I joined the Corps, yes believe it or not the Marine Corps. Taught these same lessons as part of its leadership training. Some how so much of this has been lost in our society.
The exciting thing about eye contact is that in some cultures like mine, keeping eye contact was generally seen as a challenge, as if you disagree or disprove. I will say that it's a little lenient nowadays, but they would still see it as disrespectful for the older generation.
As always, everything is 100% correct! Majority of people nowadays are just brainwashed into crap and terrible behaviour. Manners are not only good sign of intelligent person, but also necessary for connection with other person. No manners, it is as if you were not able to finish primary school. I really mean it. Most people nowadays don´t function on even primary level, which is so terrible. No wonder then, that most people don´t have a healthy relationship anymore and are not able to be attractive to someone in general. That is, because people lack primary skills, that everyone should know.
Good video and everyone should take it seriously.
It's amazing that video's like this need to be made. But they do. So thank you for sharing this information with others.
Amazing people have to be told to wash their hands and cover their mouth while coughing too, and stay 6 feet apart. I was taught that at age 3 by my grandmothers . Amazing kids mooch off the parents until 26 or more, its rude too mooch, no respect to parents, but now you have raised a new generation of Narcisists who are easily offended when called out. Had 6 girls who thought I was rude for charging them for everything they ordered and ate, they didnt want to pay for it all , because they couldnt eat it all, but I was rude for pressing theft of service on them and having them arrested. They were very polite up until then.
I am glad that most of this has been common knowledge to me growing up.
As a woman watching this, I have to say i personally find it extremely attractive when a man had manners such as these.
I know this video is a few years old, but i thank you for it.
Ignore the raging feminists Kings, the real women know your worth 👑
Great video!
Respect yourself and respect others, and that's 90% of etiquette.
HOME RUN!! This was the best video!! I think young men need to see this. I'm so thankful and proud for being raised a southern gentlemen. These values was drilled into us our lives from the beginning. I do most of these things. I need to work on things. I tend to poke the bear, escalate situations. Speak my mind, say what I mean and mean what I say!!! No one likes a lier but most people can't handle honesty.
Many years ago I checked out every book on manners for gentlemen from the library and read the small bit of info that was available online at the time. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made. A lot of them are out dated and some modern people would find offensive, but if you pull that behavior out around the right type of people, it’s like a key to a door. Suddenly some old lady who wouldn’t give you the time of day, thinks of you as her grandson. Haha
"Sing luwih duwur seko ilmu kui ADAB !!!" - Maners Maketh Man
One of my most important tenets is to not place expectation of my manner/etiquette/ethics unto other people. The reason is twofold:
First, I am a man of mistakes. I say not to place expectation unto other people, but I break from time to time. Although I will try to be aware of when and why I stray, I feel that if I can't hold true to my own beliefs, then it's unfair to place judgement on others.
Second, I do not know anyone else's circumstances. It could very well be that the person in question holds true to good mannerisms almost all the time, but I just happen to be there when they made their mistake, which may even be out of their control. Another person might not have had the support structure or experience to be mindful of other people. In both cases, if I provide the example, it could give the first person a reminder of slipping from their belief structure, and I could provide the second person the motivation to change themselves to be better FOR themselves.
I love walking in places and then locking the door(s) thereafter
I keep doors open for men and women and I often get no thanks from anyone…I don’t get that
Fighting over these exact point with my wife over our son. Raised southern, married Oregon. So different, even just simple things like hat on inside and simple words
I got chills from the beggining of the video
I'm grateful for this vid. My manners towards others always needs to be improved.
I once had a boss who said, ‘’Thank you” for everything. I could bring in report that was daily and expected, but I always got thanked. The work environment was incredibly pleasant.
Kingsman films are so underated
Not by me
After Covid its a bit more awkward to meet someone. I’m used to shaking hands but now It’s always a little awkward
manners makers man was a actually the motto of my english exchange school wer I went in 9th grade. Such a flashback when i saw the movie
My father was old school career military, and he made sure I observed all of these rules before I was old enough to wear long pants. He also taught me to respect my mother, never, ever to begin eating before her, and always open the door. I remember several times when he would rap me actoss the back of my knuckles with the flat end of a spoon if I failed to observe proper table manners. I thank him every day for teaching me correct manners, it has served me well.
I could only chuckle when I saw the Aspen and Stetson colognes.
I still love them. I still wear them.
Polite, gentlemanly, & masculine but not intrusive scents.
THANKS FOR POSTING I was fortunate I grew up around people who set this example ... now it is my turn to set a good example ... I was shown good examples and bad examples and got to make my own decision ... but I knew the difference
One manner I would like to add, and I guess in these times it's especially important, Don't touch everything, and when you do grab something, do it with a purpose. I guess as human beings we like to touch and feel things, especially when out shopping, it's a way for us to make sure that the item is up to our standards. But how much do we really need to touch things? I am not saying don't touch anything, I am saying, if you are gonna do it, do it with a purpose.
Another one, especially in these times, respect people's private zones. Give people space when you can, about 1,5 to 2 meters as being recommended these days, especially inside. If you are gonna walk past someone, do it with a bit of space in between you if you can, have situational awareness, may there be a moment where you might need to pass close by someone when walking, can you hold up a moment and let that other person pass by on a safe distance? If you are gonna walk past someone, can you do it and then be sure to keep enough distance between you two?
This is so relevant right now. Courtesy is the farthest thing from common these days.
I love the books you recommend! Is there a list of books everyone should read?
Thanks for your videos, Antonio! This one is really great
Would you cover advanced table manners? Not those in your old short video but how to use knife and fork, how to eat different types of meat properly etc.
I love your videos brother 😎🔥👌
Never start eating before the most important person present.
During my early days of training at USMC Quantico the company CO spoke on the issue of using four letter words he stated that" four letter words are used by men who were to stupid to know the words to use in their place". He was right, swear words really have no useful place in conversation. You will be noticed for the lack of their use.
Loved the video, I've talked to many who fail to properly start/end the conversation. I think it's pretty simple to say hello/take care instead of just jumping into a subject or saying OK and hanging up...
I dig your shirt and jacket.
Hi from Oamaru Sth island New Zealand.
Animals have manners too.
Just feed the poultry and stand back you will see Mr Rooster stand on one feet watching the woman folk eat first. Its pretty cool to watch.
I would add a few things:
1. Say excuse me after you sneeze
2. If you are seated, stand up to greet a person entering the room, especially if they are older.
3. Shake your feet before getting in a vehicle when it's snowing or raining
a wonderful saying, and possibly my favorite way to start a fight
Dear Antonio, I have been watching your videos for a while and I have to admit that I am amazined with the content. Big thumbs up for that! You convey an imporatant message in a nice, enjoyable and transparent way. As an addition to the video, I would add two points: 1. What should be the order of service at the table -> a) olderst ladies b) oldest gentlemen c) other ladies d) other gentelmen e) kids , 2. Order of greeting people -> when a lady accompanies a gentleman, you should greet her first. Have a good week, take care and stay safe! Greetings from Poland 🇵🇱.
I’m not the type to comment but my dad wasn’t in my life so I kinda grew up with this thug mentality and persona. trying to come out of it before I hit my twenties , this helps a lot , you are changing peoples life’s with this
They are these manners that make us unique. Thank you so much.
A great book that I highly recommend for every man. George Washingtons Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior. Some may be a bit outdated but it's a great book that every Man should own.
This is the reazon why you follow this channel and i really like it
A good man with a nice family who show me in truly way good adivices to improves my personale care my manners my health and my dress style
Some time i not agree but i really love this channel
Thanks
Excellent Video. Thank you.
in Finland it's downright sign of dishonest person, if he/she don't make eye contact when interacting with someone.
Antonio A love from *INDIA* 🇮🇳
Thank you for this, I totally agree. I’m happy to have manners brought forward like this. I feel it’s important.
its my lucky day! what a great find!
In the middle east people usually call men by their child's name like "Father of Xyz"...it suits a lot more when told in Arabic "Abu Xyz" both in professional and private settings. I am personally impressed with this because knowing someone by their name is really nice but remembering their child's name makes it really very pleasing.
thank you for your show. if the men present themselves to others that way; they may realise that other people will enjoy their company with them.
All things my parents drilled into me in my youth - should be common knowledge!!
You made so many good points in this video! Good manners, consideration for others, is sorely lacking in today’s society.
My Grandmother used to say “good manners, makes a good neighbour. Good manners will take you through the world”
She was right. When I interviewed for the job that I have now, I walked up to the front desk, and said “Good afternoon” to the receptionist, introduced myself, and asked her her name. This was ingrained in me from my youth, so I did this as a matter of habit. When they hired me, they told me that I was the only unanimous hire, then they told me why. They told me that the receptionist had been at the company for 20 years, and they do not hire anyone that she does not like! She was so impressed by how I greeted her, and I was the only candidate who asked her her name. She liked me instantly, and we are good friends, today.
Do not be an elitist! Treat everybody with respect, because your actions reflect your character. Be respectful to everyone, not just the people you PERCEIVE to have the power to do something to benefit you. This is both good character and good practise. You never know what influence a person may have!
Was looking for Deaver Brown. Found Antonio Centeno. Sense, Compassion, the Golden Rule. Thank you for the guidance and encouragement!
This is one of my favourite videos from you. So much good information in one video.
Great advice. Thanks for posting!
As someone with a mild form of autism, I find that direct eye contact is difficult and uncomfortable - it actually makes it more difficult to listen to whoever is talking. As a child growing up in western culture, I had "forced eye contact" therapy and it was more traumatizing than helpful. Naturally, it makes making friends (and especially trying to date) difficult and I sometimes have trouble being taken seriously (and the foreign accent doesn't help).
Other than that, I picked up on most manners just fine - holding the door, cleaning up after myself (at least in shared areas), saying "excuse me", etc.
1:45, hey that's Thomas Frank
Manners are SO underrated nowadays.. a mere afterthought. It’s not just about what you do, but the manner in which you do things
Having a high regard for manners as being the grease on the wheels of humanity, I would argue that the primary difference between man and beast is that of having a soul...
Nice video and that speach i set on my sms ringtone
Antonio, thank you for preaching this! Manners and chivalry are dying and I don’t agree with it!
I have a comment: While sitting in front of your bookcase, it is an intelligent spot! You often keep the camera from your midriff-up, but in front of your library in a leather chair, back the camera up - you could have a great looking scene of power and presence. Show your whole person in your domain.
Keep doing what you’re doing! Love it!
In my life, I was always mocked by my teachers 👩🏫 for my manners
They are the problem, not you.
@@lucascontarde9067 you are right
The only caveat to holding doors is secured areas. It makes me feel a little bad, but it is required.
Very helpful video and I will reshare this!
Nicely done!
Maintaining eye contact is a basic and powerful communication tool
from SEA here.. no can do looking at elders in the eye. perhaps once in a while and only for a couple of seconds so they know that you're listening/paying attention to them
loved this buddy
These are very important to spread