Or worse worse, applying the same shallow 0-10 scale on him that he does to everyone else. There are no words to describe how much I despise that method of “grading” people’s looks. It is peak shallow.
This is why I’m out. I’m 6’5”, decently in shape, not ripped but not fat and not super skinny, I make $265000 owning my own business. Went through a divorce, lost everything because I refused to lose my kids. Literally took on all negative aspects of my marriage so I could keep my kids and it cost me a few hundred grand plus she still gets child support even though my kids live with me 90%. Because “there can’t be a disparagement between my x and my house “ so I get to pay $900 a month for the one weekend my daughter spends with her mom every month or two. Now that money was given she magically didn’t care where my daughter is. If y’all blue pilled ppl want us to “come back” we need to change the family court system. That would go a long way. If the money was taken out of the equation I think it world change behavior and get men feeling better about the situation.
I don't know your situation, I would guess there were a ton of warnings. I would guess the better women were not exciting. We warned my brother, his friends warmed him. The priest told him not to marry her. He did not listen. He was a cop, he had problems and drank. She decided to have affairs and not go to counselling. He is no longer alive, the kids are a mess. That woman destroyed my entire family. I am the only one left of my original family. The moral is choose wisely. Do not marry spoiled, trash. The excitement isn't worth it.
In the early 2000s, I divorced my wife. I won the children, but it took over a year and a half. But, at that time, I was the 5th man to win his children in that country in MN. It was all because of the lawyer who was the one behind all those fathers. He knew how to tell me 1:20:50 what to do and what to stay away from as the divorce was going on. I'm sorry to hear of how bad you have gone through with yours.
@@wednesdayschild3627 while I am looking back there we’re warning signs. There’s no way I was going to see them in my mind too late 20s. My point is that there shouldn’t be debilitating consequences for a decision like that which also overwhelmingly prefers one side. Men should be given equal custody from the start not every other weekend. Research is showing that if a kid is going to be in a single parent household living with the father sees less abuse, sexual assault, and more stability. Most men want their kids and when you take them away from the fathers the statistic of self harm and suicide are immense. While you can say “pick better” it wasn’t my fault that she didn’t seek help for her depression post pregnancy which turned into a drinking and drug habit which turned into mental and physical abuse which led to many other things. This was after 9 years of marriage and two more years trying to work it out with no progress. This happened almost ten years after we got together. Men shouldn’t be discarded when it comes to family court. Men shouldn’t be paying child support to the level that it breaks them financially and it’s obvious it’s not all going to the kids because you’re still on the hook for 70% of all expenses plus the support payment. It wouldn’t be an issue if the family court system actually benefited the kids. What we have now is a punishment system that overwhelmingly hits men. I’m sorry about your brother.
@@wednesdayschild3627top notch execution on your victim blaming, I really liked the way you also managed to assume entire personality flaws based on a few short sentences, but the really expert-level performance was tying that in with projection based on a family member's experience who had their decision making ability distorted by addiction. Really, bravo.
@@knox7945 Yep next will be the single dad basement chicks that cant leave their house because their only outside interaction has been with snap chat or IG or TT beauty filters and cannot interact in person because they are so used to recording and editing their best bits. Every time they go to meet the guy they have been "situation" face timing with the reality smacks them hard in the face and they say straight up, thanks, but no thanks. Glass half empty, glass half full, but too many believe their glass is full. Because they believe the hype they generated with their filters.
No thanks, I don’t like a man who’s a hoe. Being a little more “experienced” than me isn’t a problem, but if you’re just as loose as the girls you’re criticizing, then you’re no better. This is Andrew Tate levels of stupid.
In my experience most women value personality over looks, but on a dating app they don’t have too much more to go on. It’s better to get to know girls in the real world. Find something you like doing and join a club. Not the gym, the gym is not ‘social' in the same way that, for example, a hiking club might be.
35, male, single, los angeles, id say im above average in the looks department, 6 figures, i have opted to not date any girls with kids. My entire dating pool is so small its crazy. I will not lower my standards.
Why are you not married with kids of your own at 35 making 6 figures? That is a red flag to women fitting your "criteria". Just sayin, if you're still single or dinking around you better have a good explanation otherwise you're just as bad as those you judge.
@mindlightwave I have a 17 year old son who lives with his mother, I just divorced my wife after finding out she was cheating on me. Also yes, I see the "hypocrisy" but my ex had a son who I raised for 8 years. I'm not going to raise someone else's kid again.
I'm an old guy in my 50's. Been married to my wife since we were 19 and started dating at 16. In my mind these apps are like a meat market. It is so cold to rate people they way they do. Just go out and meet a girl in the right way and not treat her like meat.
The problem is that the worse wmn get, the more competition there is for the ones that aren't terrible, which means more guys have even less of a chance.
I had a friend who I was close to tell me she was still talking to her ex-boyfriend and used to get weekly allowances by old rich guys she was in relationships with in the past. She was just playing her defense before it got messy. Guys, just don't bother trying to love the h@e out of her soul. It's a losing battle. Get your action and go. Never look back.
36:14 something you fail to realize Jeremy is that you still have to go through a breakup and make mistakes to do that postmortem. the amount of mistakes you get to make in a relationship now compared to back in the day is shockingly low. how many breakups and how much pain is a guy gonna have to go through before he's "good enough" at it to make it? you keep saying a lot of guys are blackpilled, when in reality they're just tired of having to go through pain and rejection to know better, and as a result would rather just not start.
instead of being together unhappy or divorce people could, oh I don’t know, repent of their selfishness and better themselves. But that requires real effort
Another generation and we're going to be living in Children Among Men for real.... Except the reason why no one's had a kid in like 20 years is just because no one is having sex any more.
Love this guys illustrations. They are both true and hilarious. A lot of people think hoe-math is trying to convince men to not date. He is simply explaining the rules of dating, not promoting some sort of MGTOW perspective. If you can't find a decent woman, its because YOU suck. Either your ambition, your character, or search area/criteria. I got to pick the best out of 4 or 5 girls 5 years ago because I was hard working, high performing, and highly disciplined. Aesthetically I'm a 5 in the relationship with a 7 that has been very supportive over the last 5 years, 3 of which I have dealt with severe health issues. Shes helping me run a company, plays video games, is very modest, and regularly challenges be intellectually. You have to be willing to work hard searching, and not at the bar or club. Find a value oriented institution to participate at. A Charity, church, volunteering.. Be ready for disappointment, as you will typicially have to go through at least 3-4 failed relationships. They are simply knowledge and experience for the next opportunity. Network with people. Build friendships. Spend money sparingly. Do things as a group with friends. Show them the community that also comes with you.
I will point this out. The moment that an AI sex robot can help clean my 1:12:53 house, I'm thinking of getting one. Also, you can find free corn on the internet.
RUclips seems to absolutely refuse to put you in my top seven in my subscriptions lmao youtube sucks And furthermore, your channel is the first one that I've ever subscribed to that wasn't automatically put at number one in my subscriptions And not only that , but it was never put in The first seven subscriptions ever 🤔🤔 But don't worry, I'll scroll down to find it everyday and like and comment
As i have aged, i realized that the signs are easy to see, if a woman is working retail, its highly likely she has her own values, she aint rich, or if she is, likely does not have rich taste and values the person more, and it will take you just a few minutes to work out "is she good mother material" regardless if she wants kids or not, that tells you so much about a woman. Im relatively open myself, I dont expect anything from the future at this point, if something was off about a woman that she likes me and i dont feel the same and the "shall we date" questions pop up, ill just say im only good for a romp, either way we get something and move on, or dont.
I’m 5’9 and I had 0 problems dating when I was younger. I had a girl I met 17 years ago just tell me that she wanted to pay me to donate to be the father of a child since she wanted kids and wasn’t married.
The laws around doing that are weak and even if she signs a legal that says you have no responsibility she can still sue you and she'll still likely win.
you can get hold of almost anything... so long as you use a 3rd party connection. have someone buy and ship to you. It will cost more.. but if you really want it, thats the way
Yo Jeremy, great interview. In case you were alluding to the tinyhats having cultivated a higher IQ due to selective ethno-religious breeding (about 1:25:30), this is yet another self-aggrandising myth. The studies used to determine that only referenced verbal intelligence, and the methodologies of those studies were quite flawed. For more information I'd suggest viewing the excellent video on the subject by the channel Leather Apron Club. It's a very satisfying and amusing watch.
My god how far the Assassin's Creed franchise has fallen since the days of Ezio Auditore. I was pretty much done with the games after yhey killed of Desmond
Just be X, bro. You likely have numerous other attractive qualities that make up for your average height. Not all skills can be built up to the modern baseline for women's attraction cues by every man. Just be 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, bro.
1:00:48 yeah, those are gonna be there for straight women too. Both sexes will be living their fantasy live separately. No one will take on the effort of working on a relationship.
Preach. Nobody wants to work for anything anymore. We’ve tossed out quality for convenience and if there is one thing they are right about, it’s that online dating further commodified people and relationships. I’ve made many attempts to online date and they were all false starts. The minute I’m done creating a profile it just feels disgusting, like I’m lowering my self worth and of everyone else there, and I delete the account pretty quickly.
I’m 5’10 and I’ve never had a problem attracting women. Does height matter to women? Sure but many more traits matter quite a bit more. I find there’s a sizable group of men online that obsess about women only wanting a guy that’s 6 foot tall and makes 6 figures - this is just absurd.
If you've tried dating on modern dating apps, you will be suprised at the amount of women who literally put in their bio "if you are under 6' tall, don't bother". Or post their height and say "must be taller than". Whatever percentage of women post that on their bio, there's more that think that. It used to be more, until they realized that a lot of guys view that as superficial and disqualify them for saying such things.
I know you keep saying this on just about video I see you post on, including Stardusk, but you're far older than the current dating demographic and the environment and landscape has changed. I wonder why you watch some of these videos when your mind is so made up that your anecdote, exception to the rule, means the rules aren't the norm.
Eh this is more about *modern* women than women in general, as in the stereotypical woman that our culture produces. If someone criticizes ancient men or other men of the past, it doesn't mean they necessarily hate men either.
This man needs to work more on his image. He will have more credibility if he looks like someone that knows how to take care of himself. The opposition might be mentally unstable but most of left wing RUclipsrs physically look healthy.
I’m glad he didn’t show his face. Don’t need people to try to cancel him for speaking the truth.
Or worse, doxing.
Or worse worse, applying the same shallow 0-10 scale on him that he does to everyone else. There are no words to describe how much I despise that method of “grading” people’s looks. It is peak shallow.
@@buffaloalice8413 are you a woman?
@buffaloalice8413 there's nothing shallow about being realistic. If you do t like it then that's okay but it's a normal thing to judge by looks.
@@buffaloalice8413 everyone grades everyone. Get over it
The more they fight the blackpill the stronger it gets lol
Yeah the more dumb people get, all the black pillers do is cry and whine and offer no solutions to anything. They should just F off.
This is why I’m out. I’m 6’5”, decently in shape, not ripped but not fat and not super skinny, I make $265000 owning my own business. Went through a divorce, lost everything because I refused to lose my kids. Literally took on all negative aspects of my marriage so I could keep my kids and it cost me a few hundred grand plus she still gets child support even though my kids live with me 90%. Because “there can’t be a disparagement between my x and my house “ so I get to pay $900 a month for the one weekend my daughter spends with her mom every month or two. Now that money was given she magically didn’t care where my daughter is.
If y’all blue pilled ppl want us to “come back” we need to change the family court system. That would go a long way.
If the money was taken out of the equation I think it world change behavior and get men feeling better about the situation.
what a mess, who would willingly sign up for this?
I don't know your situation, I would guess there were a ton of warnings. I would guess the better women were not exciting. We warned my brother, his friends warmed him. The priest told him not to marry her. He did not listen. He was a cop, he had problems and drank. She decided to have affairs and not go to counselling. He is no longer alive, the kids are a mess. That woman destroyed my entire family. I am the only one left of my original family. The moral is choose wisely. Do not marry spoiled, trash. The excitement isn't worth it.
In the early 2000s, I divorced my wife. I won the children, but it took over a year and a half. But, at that time, I was the 5th man to win his children in that country in MN. It was all because of the lawyer who was the one behind all those fathers. He knew how to tell me 1:20:50 what to do and what to stay away from as the divorce was going on. I'm sorry to hear of how bad you have gone through with yours.
@@wednesdayschild3627 while I am looking back there we’re warning signs. There’s no way I was going to see them in my mind too late 20s. My point is that there shouldn’t be debilitating consequences for a decision like that which also overwhelmingly prefers one side. Men should be given equal custody from the start not every other weekend. Research is showing that if a kid is going to be in a single parent household living with the father sees less abuse, sexual assault, and more stability. Most men want their kids and when you take them away from the fathers the statistic of self harm and suicide are immense.
While you can say “pick better” it wasn’t my fault that she didn’t seek help for her depression post pregnancy which turned into a drinking and drug habit which turned into mental and physical abuse which led to many other things. This was after 9 years of marriage and two more years trying to work it out with no progress. This happened almost ten years after we got together.
Men shouldn’t be discarded when it comes to family court. Men shouldn’t be paying child support to the level that it breaks them financially and it’s obvious it’s not all going to the kids because you’re still on the hook for 70% of all expenses plus the support payment.
It wouldn’t be an issue if the family court system actually benefited the kids. What we have now is a punishment system that overwhelmingly hits men.
I’m sorry about your brother.
@@wednesdayschild3627top notch execution on your victim blaming, I really liked the way you also managed to assume entire personality flaws based on a few short sentences, but the really expert-level performance was tying that in with projection based on a family member's experience who had their decision making ability distorted by addiction.
Really, bravo.
It’s funny, every time I hear “judge not” I hear “don’t highlight my shame.”
I hope you enjoy it when you are the one being judged :)
Excellent crossover!
Getting Hammerhand on here would be epic
Social media hasn't changed people, but it has provided people with unprecedented opportunity.
I believe it exposes them for who they are.
It has amplified what people are
@@loveinthevalleyjust like money
@@janelleg597 100% correct
@@knox7945
Yep next will be the single dad basement chicks that cant leave their house because their only outside interaction has been with snap chat or IG or TT beauty filters and cannot interact in person because they are so used to recording and editing their best bits.
Every time they go to meet the guy they have been "situation" face timing with the reality smacks them hard in the face and they say straight up, thanks, but no thanks.
Glass half empty, glass half full, but too many believe their glass is full. Because they believe the hype they generated with their filters.
He is a very inovative channel.
He just described joe bidens and the democrats philosophy
Feminism
"Chin up gangsta, you been knew the love was fake."
"... that ass was real though.😢"
*Hugs*
No guy's men are supposed to be experienced, women's value lies in their inexperienced.
Godzilla had a stroke trying to read this
@@janelleg597same, does your right arm work well yet? Mines stuck in a boot loop.
No thanks, I don’t like a man who’s a hoe. Being a little more “experienced” than me isn’t a problem, but if you’re just as loose as the girls you’re criticizing, then you’re no better. This is Andrew Tate levels of stupid.
spoken like a pedo
Spaghetti baseball portcullis indigo.
In my experience most women value personality over looks, but on a dating app they don’t have too much more to go on. It’s better to get to know girls in the real world. Find something you like doing and join a club. Not the gym, the gym is not ‘social' in the same way that, for example, a hiking club might be.
Wow you believe everything people tell you huh?
"Not wanting to be humiliated by a guy who has done more cool shit in his life" isn't the same as "valuing personality".
35, male, single, los angeles, id say im above average in the looks department, 6 figures, i have opted to not date any girls with kids. My entire dating pool is so small its crazy. I will not lower my standards.
Well, you are living in LA.
My pants are soaked with shit bro can I borrow a pair of your trousers ?
@@buffaloalice8413 haha I mean it's not as bad as it's made out to sound but it's pretty terrible. The chicks are hot but retarded.
Why are you not married with kids of your own at 35 making 6 figures? That is a red flag to women fitting your "criteria". Just sayin, if you're still single or dinking around you better have a good explanation otherwise you're just as bad as those you judge.
@mindlightwave I have a 17 year old son who lives with his mother, I just divorced my wife after finding out she was cheating on me. Also yes, I see the "hypocrisy" but my ex had a son who I raised for 8 years. I'm not going to raise someone else's kid again.
I'm an old guy in my 50's. Been married to my wife since we were 19 and started dating at 16. In my mind these apps are like a meat market. It is so cold to rate people they way they do. Just go out and meet a girl in the right way and not treat her like meat.
16:12 start
Peacock just went woke with their new trailer called queer planet.
I like how the one soft guy was an actual soft guy mocking soft guys.
The problem is that the worse wmn get, the more competition there is for the ones that aren't terrible, which means more guys have even less of a chance.
So which gender is getting all these "unlimited options" in their sexual prime?
Women because they're all screwing the same so called high tier guys
Maybe you two could fuck
I had a friend who I was close to tell me she was still talking to her ex-boyfriend and used to get weekly allowances by old rich guys she was in relationships with in the past.
She was just playing her defense before it got messy.
Guys, just don't bother trying to love the h@e out of her soul. It's a losing battle. Get your action and go. Never look back.
Great content
This should be a great collab. Lets go deep.
36:14 something you fail to realize Jeremy is that you still have to go through a breakup and make mistakes to do that postmortem. the amount of mistakes you get to make in a relationship now compared to back in the day is shockingly low.
how many breakups and how much pain is a guy gonna have to go through before he's "good enough" at it to make it?
you keep saying a lot of guys are blackpilled, when in reality they're just tired of having to go through pain and rejection to know better, and as a result would rather just not start.
instead of being together unhappy or divorce people could, oh I don’t know, repent of their selfishness and better themselves. But that requires real effort
Both men and especially women really to self reflect.
Just repeating yourself won't change anything. Only you can do that
If you have to lie about your height to even get your foot in the door that tells you everything you need to know about women
Another generation and we're going to be living in Children Among Men for real....
Except the reason why no one's had a kid in like 20 years is just because no one is having sex any more.
Love this guys illustrations. They are both true and hilarious.
A lot of people think hoe-math is trying to convince men to not date. He is simply explaining the rules of dating, not promoting some sort of MGTOW perspective. If you can't find a decent woman, its because YOU suck. Either your ambition, your character, or search area/criteria. I got to pick the best out of 4 or 5 girls 5 years ago because I was hard working, high performing, and highly disciplined. Aesthetically I'm a 5 in the relationship with a 7 that has been very supportive over the last 5 years, 3 of which I have dealt with severe health issues. Shes helping me run a company, plays video games, is very modest, and regularly challenges be intellectually. You have to be willing to work hard searching, and not at the bar or club. Find a value oriented institution to participate at. A Charity, church, volunteering.. Be ready for disappointment, as you will typicially have to go through at least 3-4 failed relationships. They are simply knowledge and experience for the next opportunity. Network with people. Build friendships. Spend money sparingly. Do things as a group with friends. Show them the community that also comes with you.
God is just good
The rules of dating: Don't date.
I will point this out. The moment that an AI sex robot can help clean my 1:12:53 house, I'm thinking of getting one. Also, you can find free corn on the internet.
RUclips seems to absolutely refuse to put you in my top seven in my subscriptions lmao youtube sucks And furthermore, your channel is the first one that I've ever subscribed to that wasn't automatically put at number one in my subscriptions And not only that , but it was never put in The first seven subscriptions ever 🤔🤔 But don't worry, I'll scroll down to find it everyday and like and comment
As i have aged, i realized that the signs are easy to see, if a woman is working retail, its highly likely she has her own values, she aint rich, or if she is, likely does not have rich taste and values the person more, and it will take you just a few minutes to work out "is she good mother material" regardless if she wants kids or not, that tells you so much about a woman.
Im relatively open myself, I dont expect anything from the future at this point, if something was off about a woman that she likes me and i dont feel the same and the "shall we date" questions pop up, ill just say im only good for a romp, either way we get something and move on, or dont.
I’m 5’9 and I had 0 problems dating when I was younger. I had a girl I met 17 years ago just tell me that she wanted to pay me to donate to be the father of a child since she wanted kids and wasn’t married.
Don't do it dude trust me
That's nothing to brag about lmao just another scam simpy.
The laws around doing that are weak and even if she signs a legal that says you have no responsibility she can still sue you and she'll still likely win.
This is the worst advice 😂 it's speed running child support 😅
Steal some Indian dudes jlzz and give her his juice, that way you'll get to troll her good.
Do a show with Hammerhand, the mgtow monk.
I can’t get the book in Australia 😢
you can get hold of almost anything... so long as you use a 3rd party connection. have someone buy and ship to you. It will cost more.. but if you really want it, thats the way
I'm so bored p
RUclips context comments. Can you turn them off?
Hail Shane Davis!
Yo Jeremy, great interview. In case you were alluding to the tinyhats having cultivated a higher IQ due to selective ethno-religious breeding (about 1:25:30), this is yet another self-aggrandising myth. The studies used to determine that only referenced verbal intelligence, and the methodologies of those studies were quite flawed. For more information I'd suggest viewing the excellent video on the subject by the channel Leather Apron Club. It's a very satisfying and amusing watch.
My god how far the Assassin's Creed franchise has fallen since the days of Ezio Auditore. I was pretty much done with the games after yhey killed of Desmond
Hail EVS!
I boycotted Modern Vara Dark and you should too because she uses the same pictures of herself angry without doing different pictures of herself.
39:00 *hava nagila intensifies*
Unrelated to this video.. in regards to MXR...help!
Im 5.9 and never had an issue with dating because of that. Just speak and comunicate well and be a good human.
Just be X, bro. You likely have numerous other attractive qualities that make up for your average height. Not all skills can be built up to the modern baseline for women's attraction cues by every man.
Just be 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, bro.
@@loganblackwood2922 just be handsome man. It’s easy. I do it all the time. Haha
Where is your x-men 97 videos😂😂😂
Those American Flag overalls in the opening are magnificent.
Nothing more American than breaking flag etiquette and turning it into clothing.
Im having trouble finding the self max levels assessment. Do you guys know where it is?
Take a shower dude
@hellafitzgerald if you're going to troll, at least be clever or whity about it.
@@wyopaul6866 No like I’m serious
@@hellafitzgerald how so? Why do you believe this is good advice in response to someone looking for a link to a personality assessment app?
The site is "level check (.) Ai" (RUclips seems to have gotten rid of the comment
1:00:48 yeah, those are gonna be there for straight women too. Both sexes will be living their fantasy live separately. No one will take on the effort of working on a relationship.
Preach. Nobody wants to work for anything anymore. We’ve tossed out quality for convenience and if there is one thing they are right about, it’s that online dating further commodified people and relationships. I’ve made many attempts to online date and they were all false starts. The minute I’m done creating a profile it just feels disgusting, like I’m lowering my self worth and of everyone else there, and I delete the account pretty quickly.
I’m 5’10 and I’ve never had a problem attracting women. Does height matter to women? Sure but many more traits matter quite a bit more. I find there’s a sizable group of men online that obsess about women only wanting a guy that’s 6 foot tall and makes 6 figures - this is just absurd.
If you've tried dating on modern dating apps, you will be suprised at the amount of women who literally put in their bio "if you are under 6' tall, don't bother". Or post their height and say "must be taller than". Whatever percentage of women post that on their bio, there's more that think that. It used to be more, until they realized that a lot of guys view that as superficial and disqualify them for saying such things.
@@TreaxvourI promise women’s issue with you is not your height, it’s that you watch videos like this
Yes it does, its like a hot women trying to explain to a fat ugly girl how to attract a man. Tall men don't get it they live in a different world
I know you keep saying this on just about video I see you post on, including Stardusk, but you're far older than the current dating demographic and the environment and landscape has changed. I wonder why you watch some of these videos when your mind is so made up that your anecdote, exception to the rule, means the rules aren't the norm.
@@hellafitzgeraldI can see how you interact with people here. Why do you gaslight them? Does it make you feel good to crap on everyone?
Hail Comics gate!
This is all missing God. I wonder what would happen if people would rely on Christ as they should how the dating scene would change.
Correct
ur church thinks touching each other is a sin so f off
Dude, what the hell happened to your channel?
what's up incels, how ya doing?
Eh this is more about *modern* women than women in general, as in the stereotypical woman that our culture produces. If someone criticizes ancient men or other men of the past, it doesn't mean they necessarily hate men either.
@@limemason cut the bullshit
This man needs to work more on his image. He will have more credibility if he looks like someone that knows how to take care of himself. The opposition might be mentally unstable but most of left wing RUclipsrs physically look healthy.
Lol
oop u said the quiet part out loud . please look at all these redpill men and tell us who looks sane ?
You guys are clueless
You need to do a video with @brandonjamal too.