So happy to see you getting this at a young age. You’re not going to look back and regret not having done that load of laundry or dishes, you’re going to regret not spending more time with your son during those absolutely precious years where he needed you. It will be a struggle, but you’ve got this. You blink, then they’re adults. Going through that myself right now. Thankful I let the house be messy and spent time with them. Good job, Mama!
Thank you for sharing this. I don’t have children but i have a mother with alzheimers that i care for and it’s overwhelming when i or her create expectations that is not being fulfilled. It’s ok to just chill, enjoy and be spontaneous
This is literally what I worked on this morning in therapy! I am a determined person and that can be a really good and helpful trait when it's needed... But as a SAHM, I can't live every day like that anymore.
Beautiful 💖that’s so true please make the most of your days with your baby my darling daughter is 16 now and the years went past in a flash x and what a good mum you are xx
I think you are right and when you have a small child you have to go with the flow. We also need to remember that they are allowed to have mood swings just like adults and that they are not going to be happy everyday. My daughter is the same age as your son and it seems like her energy levels just jumped up in a day and now she gets into everything. I also have stage four endometriosis and just had major surgery so it’s hard to remind myself sometimes that it’s okay if I’m too tired and I don’t have the energy to play with her. As mums we have to accept that we are never going to be perfect and we can’t always be in mum mode 24/7. I love my daughter and although I can’t run or chase after her I cuddle her and give her as much love as I can ❤
Honestly $$ wise might not be where you put pressure on self to be but you eat healthy as a family, your son is active in play in/outdoors, family oriented- I Think you are rich. My husband stayed home with son since I was nurse, my sons best memories are from parents being available, not all the “stuff”. He is now 26 year old who has good job(maintenance-didn’t like college) & owns his house.
@@cometasporelcielo I’m a content creator, I get many things for free. from the sound of your many comments sounds like you have a lot of big feelings about this subject. maybe a good opportunity to ask yourself where that comes from. truly hope you’re okay ❤️🩹
So happy to see you getting this at a young age. You’re not going to look back and regret not having done that load of laundry or dishes, you’re going to regret not spending more time with your son during those absolutely precious years where he needed you. It will be a struggle, but you’ve got this. You blink, then they’re adults. Going through that myself right now. Thankful I let the house be messy and spent time with them. Good job, Mama!
Thank you for sharing this. I don’t have children but i have a mother with alzheimers that i care for and it’s overwhelming when i or her create expectations that is not being fulfilled. It’s ok to just chill, enjoy and be spontaneous
This is literally what I worked on this morning in therapy! I am a determined person and that can be a really good and helpful trait when it's needed... But as a SAHM, I can't live every day like that anymore.
@@KH-hr5xm yes! this is very much myself!
Thank you so much for sharing this, truly. It helps more than you can ever know ❤
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Beautiful 💖that’s so true please make the most of your days with your baby my darling daughter is 16 now and the years went past in a flash x and what a good mum you are xx
I think you are right and when you have a small child you have to go with the flow. We also need to remember that they are allowed to have mood swings just like adults and that they are not going to be happy everyday. My daughter is the same age as your son and it seems like her energy levels just jumped up in a day and now she gets into everything. I also have stage four endometriosis and just had major surgery so it’s hard to remind myself sometimes that it’s okay if I’m too tired and I don’t have the energy to play with her. As mums we have to accept that we are never going to be perfect and we can’t always be in mum mode 24/7. I love my daughter and although I can’t run or chase after her I cuddle her and give her as much love as I can ❤
Well said ❤ I can completely relate.
This is so true!❤
‘kids slow you down, but perhaps thats the point.’
What I do is a will divide my tasks into certain days I don’t do it all in one day because I will feel overwhelmed.
Videos of him doing this instead of sitting unattended and crying in a daycare, missing his mom
Honestly $$ wise might not be where you put pressure on self to be but you eat healthy as a family, your son is active in play in/outdoors, family oriented- I Think you are rich. My husband stayed home with son since I was nurse, my sons best memories are from parents being available, not all the “stuff”. He is now 26 year old who has good job(maintenance-didn’t like college) & owns his house.
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This is so sweet. Im in my 40s and can not bring myself to have children. Anytime I feel like "its time" something always happen to pull me back. 😢
ah yes. so low income with a $300 power wheels right there in the video.
@@cometasporelcielo I’m a content creator, I get many things for free. from the sound of your many comments sounds like you have a lot of big feelings about this subject. maybe a good opportunity to ask yourself where that comes from. truly hope you’re okay ❤️🩹