this nigerian's problem is his entire point of mental origin is the woman and what is good for her is good for me. hafeez is not the point of his own mental origin.
He’s right about how chasing girls destroys your ability to work on your purpose. I was fixed on getting girls a few months ago. Then I realized that I didn’t need to do that. Now I’m just chilling and really focusing on building more. My purpose is always going to come first.
no cap!! ... I derailed from my purpose a few months ago after women started paying attention, it was fun having sex with different women, but you get to see all this time, resources and energy lost. all t his mindless sex just led me to nowhere. Thankfully I regained control of it, better being on one's purpose than on different vaginas every week.
You're not the only one. I took care of my ex, she moved down to another state and was cheating the whole time. Then when I left she tried to lie to the police and take me to court but she never went because I had screenshots. Be careful with who y'all talk to.
I credit AMS and Corey Wayne for my success today. I first herd “purpose” from them. Then, I got the idea to become a personal trainer from AMS. Now, I have my own gym and getting closer to opening up the next one!
All I needed was to repent from my ways of thinking and everything else didn't matter. Sadly too many level up but there burdens are still there. And we as men are stubborn we don't like change until you prove what you say.
Haf forgetting one of AMS' big talking points about female strategies: " Some women are very good actresses" . You can do all the "vetting" you want but at the end of the day , you have no idea until you go thru it
If you don’t get chills off this intro, you have no soul. Everything Hafeez said was spot on about AMS 100%. Brothas let’s protect and support these national treasures we’ve been blessed with 💪🏾
In my opinion It seems like AMS was speaking generally when it came to relationships with women but Hafeez was trying to deep dive down to the most minute detail of what he was saying. Like "I just can't agree that every single girl ever etc.". It's not that Hafeez was wrong, it's that he was talking about the rare occasion you meet a girl that is not everything AMS says they are. It's better to be safe and let her prove herself just like we have to. Hafeez made it clear he doesn't like Red Pill content then basically talked relationships with the King of Red Pill content lol. And HE moved it there. They could've stuck to business and suits. I enjoyed the first 3/4 though and I'm glad they kept it respectful. That's enough for me.
This is easily one of the BEST talks of the year! Loving AMS’s new & evolved glow up and swagger with the suit 😍🙌🏽 more black men in suits!! AMS is from my hometown of Montgomery, Alabama and I’m so happy to see him stick to his dirty south accent! It goes so well with his hilarious sense of humor! Hafeez you’ve done an exceptional job executing this talk! I stand with all your ideas 100% and commend you sticking to your values and morals no matter what whilst respecting other people’s perspectives and even challenging other people’s views in a respectful thought provoking manner! 😉💜💜
For someone who's heavily committed to his purpose, its reassuring to hear AMS clarify that you can't chase purpose and women. Purpose is #1, high value habits and ambition will cause them to come naturally
Hafeez, that wasn’t your best interview though you should’ve let your guest speak, and not be too emotional and think out of the box .. Average guys trying to be better are watching you... AMS was a master class 👏👏
The way AMS broke down how to build things yourself to become a millionaire in 10 years is really incredible anyway can become successful. Also another great pet of this interview is that as a man you have to find solutions to your problems as a mad this was a real gem 💎. AMS and roommates this was the best episode of 2022 for the podcast 💯💯💯
Lmaoo AMS remind me of my uncle. I got into trouble with gangs and had to move in with my aunt and uncle. My uncle was super strict and stern but always kept it real. He was a pastor but wouldn’t mind talking to me like a man behind closed doors to build my character. I thank that man for saving my life every time we talk
I entered this sit down w/ just a high school diploma. At the end of the interview I feel like I have a PhD. Thanks for the game and knowledge gentlemen. 🙏
I think AMS covered everything really well this is why he’s the goat. If you try and break up with a girl and she don’t go berserk she didn’t like you like that and you wasn’t her top pick.
AMS and Corey Wayne started this path for me and then to Jesse & Jordan Peterson over the years and bought their books to learn more about myself and what to do to achieve my purpose.
I truly appreciate your perspective Hafeez! Love this interview. No matter who you are, you gotta hold yourself accountable without blaming anyone else. That victim mentality is poison
Took me a while to realize this is the same OG GOAT AMS. Man has had another huge glow up. Awesome to see people come back on the show better than ever. Excited for the next conversation.
Been I minute sense I used to binge watch ams. Glad to see these brothers continuing to teach not jus our young man but grown adults who need that push to follow they dreams
Your Purpose is like a summer bird. It will swiftly fly away from you if you don’t capitalize on it when it’s in season. I see so many young man with big dreams of being a reknown DJ. Or dreams of owning their own clothing brand. Or dreams of becoming a world class motivational speaker. However, once they see that it’s not as “easy” as they thought, they start procrastinating and making excuses like “I just don’t have enough Time” or “let me focus on money now” or my all time favorite: “I want to be stable first” instead of giving their purpose everything they have. They take that burning desire in them for granted, and think that they can just “focus on other things” for the moment, and then like some desperate hitchhiker, their passion will just magically be waiting for them further along that road of life. Waiting to be wielded again once they “feel comfortable”. Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way. Your burning desire for greatness is an opportunity that comes once in a lifetime. Carpe Diem.
I presume you're a woman and have had people provide for you in some way or form? Be an average man for a year, no one providing or assisting, and let's hear what you think.
@@devnotes00 I get that..but AMS n Rafeez did not start with suits. But where they are at, they can. They look like successful men. And they are. I mean if you're not there in your life, don't pretend. But there are nice casual clothes outhere indeed!!
AMS BE saying stuff that other dating coaches don’t say ! Just like us woman have Preference too, not every woman is going to like you and remember The woman you don’t like Another guy wants her but can’t have her but you can we all go through it no matter what you look like
Always great to get an AMS interview. His influence is greater than l think anyone realizes, we'll hear about it in 5-10 years when all the HVM start crediting him.
The interviewer spent more than half of the vid tryina stand up for the unicorn women of female nature. The reason AMS says what he says is cause he is helping and looking out for the majority of guys. The dude spending too much time putting himself and personal views in the discussion versus being open to AMS view point or the audience view point. Respectfully.
AMS! I want to extend my deepest appreciations and a lot of my success to you!! I started watching you from the very beginning in 2017! You are a king in his own throne. I wish you good health and further success brother.
If you wear a suit you got to wear it at places where it’s appropriate where it makes sense though. The suit looks nice but it’ll look out of place if you wear it for a bowling date or something more casual
Its almost like Hafeez refuses to believe the darker side of female mating strategies & puts the blame on men on why it’s dark. Contradicts the channel a little
Great convo. Hey Hafeez, I recommend for you to vary up your tone. Your tone is mostly a shouting tone (personally I perfer at least 70percent of a chill tone, and no more than 30 percent of a shouting tone). Having too much of a shouting tone makea it a little bit harder to listen.
Buying some more suits right now 🔥 Sophisticated, intelligent, stylish men on their purpose will always be on top of the hypergamy chart of other high value women. Focus on securing that abundance lifestyle and the rest will follow 🤝
Big props to AMS, democrats had slaves back in the day and now they have black folks as mental slaves, victim mentality is the worst thing you can give someone.
The funny thing is a lot of people think democrats have black people playing victim, most of y'all know one or two black people and try to speak for all. If you ask most back people, they will tell you they don't like republicans or democrats. I vote mostly demorcats because I agree with more of their stance but at the end of the day I don't trust them. Both republicans and demorcats have the same mission and fight for only people in their class and that look like them.
Between myself and Afiz, one of us definitely don’t understand what the red pill is. I have always thought that red pill is seeing behind the curtains and facade of everything, and taking 100% accountability for how you turn out in life. I thought when you become red pill, you know not to blame anyone for anything, you just see things how they are and you maneuver everything and obstacles to get to where you want to be. Edit: some people don’t use the word red pill, they just call it being up on game or being a man or etc; i don’t necessarily care what we call it, i just understand.
From what I’ve seen, red pill seems a bit more extreme than that. I think that what you’re describing (from my experience) is a healthier, more balanced mindset.
@@kevindibassinga that is red pill at its core. Its just that most people misinterpret it for something else. Heck, I even thought that redpill was all about women until a couple days ago.
WHAT IS RP? RP is simply an awareness. It’s an awareness of the nature of human interactions. This extends to include not only dating; but religion, philosophy, and politics. NUANCES This awareness also rests on a spectrum ranging from the naive optimism of Blue Pill to the absolute binaries of the Black Pill. And so naturally different groups form along this spectrum; each coming to different conclusions from this awareness and using such conclusions to suggest different pathways that men should take. (For example, the passport bros, the War Room, the MGTOW movement, The OG AMS sleazeball gang, etc. And all these groups are linked together under one space that we refer to as the “manosphere”; which has also become an umbrella term for any male self improvement channels. MISINTERPRETATION People commonly use red pill to refer to the brand of pathways that encourage men to 1.) avoid marriage because of legal pitfalls 2.) revere the traditional conservatism of pre -feminist agendas. And so we categorize ourselves in the space as blue, purple, red, or black pill. However, it is important to remember that the true red pill is not a pathway at all, rather it is the underlying origin of awareness for all the pathways.
Love, love, love this convo. The second part of this is gonna get a lot of people worked up, lol. I fully agree with Feez that thinking of women as a monolithic group that only operate on hypergamy is nonsense. Women, like men, are both more complicated than that (operating on far more than simple hypergamy), and more varied than that (both the degree of hypergamy and, to a lesser extent, the drivers of hypergamy will differ from woman to woman). I also agree with AMS that the hypergamous nature of women is always a factor in relationships (my wife, for example, always wants more even when I'm good with what I have), it's just not the only factor. I agree with both that a man should operate in pursuit of his purpose rather than women per se, and the proper response to a problem you encounter is to improve in order to overcome it. Great conversation overall. Would honestly love to hear more exploration of these competing viewpoints from people like these two that can express their differing views with eloquence and grace.
What most Manosphere guys don’t understand about hypergamy is that it’s all about action and not about intent. The word hypergamy was first coined back in 1881 in India by a British man named Sir Denzil Ibbetson in his book Panjab Castes. Hypergamy originally described the Practice of a woman being married into higher echelons of the Hindu Caste system. Fathers would marry their daughters off to a member of a tribe that was superior to theirs. In other words hypergamy was coined to describe the nature of Hindu families using arranged marriages to “upgrade” their wealth and social status. The Father would find a high caliber man for his daughter to marry, so the entire family could reap the benefits. The opposite of hypergamy is Hypogamy, marrying and dating down. This is what men practice. The problem with the red pill space is that they constantly frame hypergamy in a negative light, giving the worst examples. But according to history and etymology, hypergamy is neither good nor bad, it simply is.
Bro let me say this I’m a year late but I needed this reminder and apply it more to my life so thank you and AMS in advance and when I start my RUclips channel I’m giving a shout out to y’all just know that
The young guys coming up don't yet have the maturity to move past the basics. Your audience is at different stages in their lives. They need help at each of those stages.
I look up to both of you. I think the part where you were talking about hypergamy I think Hafeez missed out an opportunity there to understand what AMS was trying to point out. Yes we should aim to be the best versions of ourselves and pick the RIGHT type of women. But that doesn’t exclude that things may happen out of your control. Like you both acknowledged you could lose your job and have to downgrade your lifestyle which could mean you could potentially lose your women. And Hafeez is saying if you’re as ambitious, hardworking and you pick the right women you wouldn’t need to deal with that. And I think it’s coming from a more optimistic view where he assumes most men would need to be as ambitious/hardworking and therefor be able to get back up so they wouldn’t need to worry about losing their woman. And also assuming that good girls wouldn’t at some point turn more hypergamous. And I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing but we can’t paint this picture that a women gon stick by your side struggling with you if mayority of women would leave eventually. It may not be right away but just love and being a good girls will not guarantee she’ll stay when you find yourself in a situation. But we need to prepare men to deal with these things. And not just aspiring high value men but also the average men. If every men was The Standard they would all be average. So in order to help men in general we would need to speak to them at their level. Because not every guy gon be rich and as ambitious. I think Hafeez focusses on men that aspire to be that which is why he kind of dismisses the issues the more average men deal with. I think AMS has a better understanding there.
to be honest i can understand why this youtube account has been abandoned. AMS came here for an interview but it turned out to be more of an interrogation. no hate but just feedback, Hafeez should talk a little more calmly and ask more interested questions, with every question he asks he then answers himself
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this nigerian's problem is his entire point of mental origin is the woman and what is good for her is good for me. hafeez is not the point of his own mental origin.
ayyyeeee I’m about to get some suits I got one but I want a few now
Yooo soo what code do we have to put in to shop tho on the site? @
Thanks for having me bro!
the fucken goat!
Legend!
"Let's play big bank take little bank" Kevin Samuel
Thank you for making a real man! Learnt a lot from you these years
The OG
Dude, I am seriously proud of AMS...Ive watched him grow over the years and this brother deserves every bit of success from his hard work!!
He been on his purpose 🙏 big bro leading by example
Facts
Indeed! He is a legend
Fr crazy how far he’s come man
Terrific workshop....
1. work 1 or 2 jobs
2. S&P 500 & index fund
3. Legal zoom
4. build LLC insurance
5. upgrade dress code
6. network
7. delayed gratification
8. build new network
9. have mentors
10. workout
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He’s right about how chasing girls destroys your ability to work on your purpose. I was fixed on getting girls a few months ago. Then I realized that I didn’t need to do that. Now I’m just chilling and really focusing on building more. My purpose is always going to come first.
no cap!! ... I derailed from my purpose a few months ago after women started paying attention, it was fun having sex with different women, but you get to see all this time, resources and energy lost. all t his mindless sex just led me to nowhere. Thankfully I regained control of it, better being on one's purpose than on different vaginas every week.
You're not the only one. I took care of my ex, she moved down to another state and was cheating the whole time. Then when I left she tried to lie to the police and take me to court but she never went because I had screenshots. Be careful with who y'all talk to.
They can get you killed too!
@@Dsparks_ what a terrible person sorry you had to deal with that smh
not really. you can do both. people just dont balance it out. work 5 days a week. socialize on weekends. simple
I noticed that since Kevins Samuels died, AMS has been more collaborative than before. RIP Kevin
I noticed to, just like when 2PAC died Biggie Smalls (Notorious B.I.G) became more humble and his rap style changed.
@@HipHopFanatic-s8y Have you listened to "Long Kiss Goodnight"?
@@BabsW yes Tupac, I heard "long kiss goodnight".
@@HipHopFanatic-s8y Biggie certainly wasn't humble on that track
All he needs now is a better camera and start interviewing women!
I credit AMS and Corey Wayne for my success today. I first herd “purpose” from them. Then, I got the idea to become a personal trainer from AMS. Now, I have my own gym and getting closer to opening up the next one!
10-15x
Corey Wayne was where I started too. He’s the real OG
Nice bro
On a similar pathway here bro, great work here! I'm proud to hear this from you man
Respect bro 💪🏽
"Once you find fulfilment from your purpose, the need for female validation goes away" - WOORRRD....AMS growing up and cleaning up nicely
A Word!!!!
All I needed was to repent from my ways of thinking and everything else didn't matter. Sadly too many level up but there burdens are still there. And we as men are stubborn we don't like change until you prove what you say.
Damn man, I owe so much in my life to AMS. Started following the fella 5 years ago. One of the best decisions in my life of a 23 year old.
Hell ya discovered him at 28. Stopped chasing and now 32 with my own business
Haf forgetting one of AMS' big talking points about female strategies: " Some women are very good actresses" . You can do all the "vetting" you want but at the end of the day , you have no idea until you go thru it
Happened to me when I married my ex-wife. She played the part perfectly
Some of these woman deserve an Oscar
If you don’t get chills off this intro, you have no soul. Everything Hafeez said was spot on about AMS 100%. Brothas let’s protect and support these national treasures we’ve been blessed with 💪🏾
I didn't get chills from the intro.
@@kippreggelogan9570 😳😳😳
Thank you Anthony!
Hafeez is always good at explaining himself but I really wish he would have let AMS finish some of his own explanations and sentences
He was too excited
Idk how many people look at Hafeez and thinks that they want to be like him, regardless of how much money he has
@@Kobble8 lol forreal tho, regardless I respect his hustle
Yea he was on Kanye "ima let you finish" energy
In my opinion It seems like AMS was speaking generally when it came to relationships with women but Hafeez was trying to deep dive down to the most minute detail of what he was saying. Like "I just can't agree that every single girl ever etc.". It's not that Hafeez was wrong, it's that he was talking about the rare occasion you meet a girl that is not everything AMS says they are. It's better to be safe and let her prove herself just like we have to. Hafeez made it clear he doesn't like Red Pill content then basically talked relationships with the King of Red Pill content lol. And HE moved it there. They could've stuck to business and suits. I enjoyed the first 3/4 though and I'm glad they kept it respectful. That's enough for me.
AMS may not be the most eloquent speaker. But he's charismatic, engaging and VERY intelligent when it comes to business.
Forget eloquent people need to hear the truth. There are too many snake tongue liars on this planet.
@@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 Facts.
I agree but I would add to that he's very intelligent in general not just business...a wise OG
He is from Alabama.
That's what makes ams AMS
This is easily one of the BEST talks of the year! Loving AMS’s new & evolved glow up and swagger with the suit 😍🙌🏽 more black men in suits!! AMS is from my hometown of Montgomery, Alabama and I’m so happy to see him stick to his dirty south accent! It goes so well with his hilarious sense of humor! Hafeez you’ve done an exceptional job executing this talk! I stand with all your ideas 100% and commend you sticking to your values and morals no matter what whilst respecting other people’s perspectives and even challenging other people’s views in a respectful thought provoking manner! 😉💜💜
Thank you Jasmine!!
I can spot u 200 yards away 🧘🏽♂️
For someone who's heavily committed to his purpose, its reassuring to hear AMS clarify that you can't chase purpose and women. Purpose is #1, high value habits and ambition will cause them to come naturally
I feel like you can. Focus on purpose during the weekday and women on the weekends. I’ve seen multiple people do it
Purpose is the key!
Glad to see the OG back in the show dropping more gems🔥
Hafeez needs to stop conflating the red pill and the black pill.
Exactly he sounds like a feminist 😢😢😢 sad to see
Love it when AMS hops on other folks podcasts! AMS the GOAT!
This is when student outshines the master (subscribers) so also respect to AMS to giving credit to Corey Wayne (student outshining the master )
Hafeez, that wasn’t your best interview though you should’ve let your guest speak, and not be too emotional and think out of the box .. Average guys trying to be better are watching you... AMS was a master class 👏👏
True, he didn't come across as professional at all. it seemed like he was a fanboy of AMS as they talk about serious topics there.
He lost me when he said women wouldn’t clean house if you respectfully asked for a divorce smh in what fcking world ?
Hafeeze, the point is that not every woman WILL, but every woman CAN. Not to be in fear, but to be aware how the nuts and bolts work.
Hafeez is a goofy 😂
AMS the GOAT tho. Good interview..
Fax. Dork.
No fr tho!! You can tell he believes in love and that a women won’t do him dirty just because he’s honest lol. I’m weak 💀🤣
Bruh was arguing with all emotions and based on just his beliefs 😂
His all me me me...while the are talking about men in general
When the legends talk, we listen. Appreciate you guys!
The way AMS broke down how to build things yourself to become a millionaire in 10 years is really incredible anyway can become successful. Also another great pet of this interview is that as a man you have to find solutions to your problems as a mad this was a real gem 💎. AMS and roommates this was the best episode of 2022 for the podcast 💯💯💯
More of such shows are needed. Much love from Lusaka, Zambia. Africa is watching.
🤞🏾🇿🇦
Lmaoo AMS remind me of my uncle. I got into trouble with gangs and had to move in with my aunt and uncle. My uncle was super strict and stern but always kept it real. He was a pastor but wouldn’t mind talking to me like a man behind closed doors to build my character. I thank that man for saving my life every time we talk
I entered this sit down w/ just a high school diploma. At the end of the interview I feel like I have a PhD. Thanks for the game and knowledge gentlemen. 🙏
I think AMS covered everything really well this is why he’s the goat. If you try and break up with a girl and she don’t go berserk she didn’t like you like that and you wasn’t her top pick.
This is Legendary. Loved witnessing the growth of this channel and AMS over the years. We live and we grow gentleman!
We got you!!
AMS and Corey Wayne started this path for me and then to Jesse & Jordan Peterson over the years and bought their books to learn more about myself and what to do to achieve my purpose.
We need more podcasts with AMS ... you taught me everything that l know about this game ... thank you sir
No, you need it. Only black men call it "game".
You know he will be back!
Awesome colllab. I appreciate both the passion from Hafeez and the growth from AMS. Self improvement is key. Get good
Thank you!!
I truly appreciate your perspective Hafeez! Love this interview. No matter who you are, you gotta hold yourself accountable without blaming anyone else. That victim mentality is poison
Took me a while to realize this is the same OG GOAT AMS. Man has had another huge glow up. Awesome to see people come back on the show better than ever. Excited for the next conversation.
Sounds to me like ams is really starting to grown and is maturing more mentally and spiritually ..keep up the good work bro 👊🏿
Been I minute sense I used to binge watch ams. Glad to see these brothers continuing to teach not jus our young man but grown adults who need that push to follow they dreams
Your Purpose is like a summer bird. It will swiftly fly away from you if you don’t capitalize on it when it’s in season. I see so many young man with big dreams of being a reknown DJ. Or dreams of owning their own clothing brand. Or dreams of becoming a world class motivational speaker. However, once they see that it’s not as “easy” as they thought, they start procrastinating and making excuses like “I just don’t have enough Time” or “let me focus on money now” or my all time favorite: “I want to be stable first” instead of giving their purpose everything they have. They take that burning desire in them for granted, and think that they can just “focus on other things” for the moment, and then like some desperate hitchhiker, their passion will just magically be waiting for them further along that road of life. Waiting to be wielded again once they “feel comfortable”. Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way. Your burning desire for greatness is an opportunity that comes once in a lifetime. Carpe Diem.
very helpful this
I presume you're a woman and have had people provide for you in some way or form? Be an average man for a year, no one providing or assisting, and let's hear what you think.
Multiple small businesses is necessary.
One business literally may not work during winter for example
😂 AMS said hmm hm and right about 300 times 🤣 🐐
Honestly you don't even need a suit, a blazer and slacks or chinos are a good starting point for those trying to change their style
Naaah the suits it's for another mindset. They are killing it👌🏾
@@sabineduchard1775 yeah I know but not everyone has the cash to bust out the $400 or so suit so I'm just imagining the ground floor starting point
@@devnotes00 I get that..but AMS n Rafeez did not start with suits. But where they are at, they can. They look like successful men. And they are. I mean if you're not there in your life, don't pretend. But there are nice casual clothes outhere indeed!!
AMS BE saying stuff that other dating coaches don’t say ! Just like us woman have Preference too, not every woman is going to like you and remember The woman you don’t like Another guy wants her but can’t have her but you can we all go through it no matter what you look like
Facts ..he doesn’t get the respect he deserves in my eyes
Soo true!
@@jasminealexia 💯
Always great to get an AMS interview. His influence is greater than l think anyone realizes, we'll hear about it in 5-10 years when all the HVM start crediting him.
GREAT convo 🤎💫🖤👍🏾💯 .. I enjoyed the energy from both of you brothas
After living in Mobile, AL for 5 years, I love hearing AMS's south Alabama accent, living north of the Mason Dixon Line now.
Bro I’m in Mobile 🤣I feel you
What Alpha Male Strategies said at the beginning is all I needed to hear from the video. He's right.
Two very smart guys having a great conversation. Will be great to see more of these discussions in the future
I am so grateful for this interview! Thank you to both of you, gentlemen. May God continue to bless you.
Thank you Dee
this is one of those interview where you just let the legend talk.. just sit back and let the goat give game
What an amazing conversation. AMS is brilliant.
Thank you for the great interview Hafeez.
This is probably one of the best videos I have seen. Hit incredibly hard shaping a new mentality with realistic, unfiltered approach.
Thank you.
This was a great video guys. This conversation was needed.
The interviewer spent more than half of the vid tryina stand up for the unicorn women of female nature. The reason AMS says what he says is cause he is helping and looking out for the majority of guys.
The dude spending too much time putting himself and personal views in the discussion versus being open to AMS view point or the audience view point.
Respectfully.
He was annoying asf. Like do your own podcast if you want to express your opinions. But when you have a guest speaker it’s about them not you.
Thank you for the Wisdom Hafeez and Ams. Its Always refreshing to hear you guys
AMS! I want to extend my deepest appreciations and a lot of my success to you!! I started watching you from the very beginning in 2017! You are a king in his own throne. I wish you good health and further success brother.
Where's Chris- The Star of the SHow?????
They were brutally honest wit me on this one..I need this..I’m bout to level up..
AMS coined the term “High Value Man” for sure no doubt
If you wear a suit you got to wear it at places where it’s appropriate where it makes sense though. The suit looks nice but it’ll look out of place if you wear it for a bowling date or something more casual
Yea or when it’s 90 degrees
Its almost like Hafeez refuses to believe the darker side of female mating strategies & puts the blame on men on why it’s dark. Contradicts the channel a little
Great convo.
Hey Hafeez, I recommend for you to vary up your tone. Your tone is mostly a shouting tone (personally I perfer at least 70percent of a chill tone, and no more than 30 percent of a shouting tone). Having too much of a shouting tone makea it a little bit harder to listen.
Emotional for no reason
Buying some more suits right now 🔥 Sophisticated, intelligent, stylish men on their purpose will always be on top of the hypergamy chart of other high value women. Focus on securing that abundance lifestyle and the rest will follow 🤝
Exactly.
Only if they know how to talk to women and get them wet.
He is like the father i never had and opened my eyes. I dont agree with everything but most of it
Guys you still have a lot, really a lot to learn with AMS! We believe that you think you even know more than AMS. We all felt that in this interview.
Big props to AMS, democrats had slaves back in the day and now they have black folks as mental slaves, victim mentality is the worst thing you can give someone.
The funny thing is a lot of people think democrats have black people playing victim, most of y'all know one or two black people and try to speak for all. If you ask most back people, they will tell you they don't like republicans or democrats. I vote mostly demorcats because I agree with more of their stance but at the end of the day I don't trust them. Both republicans and demorcats have the same mission and fight for only people in their class and that look like them.
Sometimes Hafeez, I don’t agree with your suit color choices, but that green on white is 🔥🔥🔥 ✊🏾
Pure gold! Thank you for blessing us and sharing. This renewed my spirit and belief in strong righteous men
Between myself and Afiz, one of us definitely don’t understand what the red pill is. I have always thought that red pill is seeing behind the curtains and facade of everything, and taking 100% accountability for how you turn out in life. I thought when you become red pill, you know not to blame anyone for anything, you just see things how they are and you maneuver everything and obstacles to get to where you want to be.
Edit: some people don’t use the word red pill, they just call it being up on game or being a man or etc; i don’t necessarily care what we call it, i just understand.
From what I’ve seen, red pill seems a bit more extreme than that. I think that what you’re describing (from my experience) is a healthier, more balanced mindset.
@@kevindibassinga that is red pill at its core.
Its just that most people misinterpret it for something else. Heck, I even thought that redpill was all about women until a couple days ago.
You’re spot on. A lot of people just let the few extreme guys ruin it for the whole
WHAT IS RP?
RP is simply an awareness. It’s an awareness of the nature of human interactions. This extends to include not only dating; but religion, philosophy, and politics.
NUANCES
This awareness also rests on a spectrum ranging from the naive optimism of Blue Pill to the absolute binaries of the Black Pill. And so naturally different groups form along this spectrum; each coming to different conclusions from this awareness and using such conclusions to suggest different pathways that men should take. (For example, the passport bros, the War Room, the MGTOW movement, The OG AMS sleazeball gang, etc. And all these groups are linked together under one space that we refer to as the “manosphere”; which has also become an umbrella term for any male self improvement channels.
MISINTERPRETATION
People commonly use red pill to refer to the brand of pathways that encourage men to 1.) avoid marriage because of legal pitfalls 2.) revere the traditional conservatism of pre -feminist agendas.
And so we categorize ourselves in the space as blue, purple, red, or black pill.
However, it is important to remember that the true red pill is not a pathway at all, rather it is the underlying origin of awareness for all the pathways.
Facts. That’s what I’ve always thought it was about. Knowing how to navigate women and life in general and what things are really about💯
Very motivating 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I’m beginning to see my purpose
R.I.P to The Godfather 🙏🏾 I’m buying suits left and right.
AMS is the 🐐 He really played a big part in me changing my mindset and getting on my purpose after the lockdown!
Thank you Hafeez. Thank you AMS. Thank you for everything.
Can't wait to peep. Going to peep this one on the TV💯
I think the Standard should be a movement for men.
2 brothers kicking game🔥🔥
All this value for free, this is life changing information. Great Interview!
The Boss Player touches down on TR Headquarters⚡💯
Love, love, love this convo. The second part of this is gonna get a lot of people worked up, lol.
I fully agree with Feez that thinking of women as a monolithic group that only operate on hypergamy is nonsense. Women, like men, are both more complicated than that (operating on far more than simple hypergamy), and more varied than that (both the degree of hypergamy and, to a lesser extent, the drivers of hypergamy will differ from woman to woman). I also agree with AMS that the hypergamous nature of women is always a factor in relationships (my wife, for example, always wants more even when I'm good with what I have), it's just not the only factor. I agree with both that a man should operate in pursuit of his purpose rather than women per se, and the proper response to a problem you encounter is to improve in order to overcome it.
Great conversation overall. Would honestly love to hear more exploration of these competing viewpoints from people like these two that can express their differing views with eloquence and grace.
What most Manosphere guys don’t understand about hypergamy is that it’s all about action and not about intent.
The word hypergamy was first coined back in 1881 in India by a British man named Sir Denzil Ibbetson in his book Panjab Castes.
Hypergamy originally described the Practice of a woman being married into higher echelons of the Hindu Caste system. Fathers would marry their daughters off to a member of a tribe that was superior to theirs. In other words hypergamy was coined to describe the nature of Hindu families using arranged marriages to “upgrade” their wealth and social status. The Father would find a high caliber man for his daughter to marry, so the entire family could reap the benefits. The opposite of hypergamy is Hypogamy, marrying and dating down. This is what men practice.
The problem with the red pill space is that they constantly frame hypergamy in a negative light, giving the worst examples. But according to history and etymology, hypergamy is neither good nor bad, it simply is.
This is powerful, we should all strive to be the very best we can. 💪🏿💯🔥
It sounds like such a cliche now. Especially with the emoji's lol
Bro let me say this I’m a year late but I needed this reminder and apply it more to my life so thank you and AMS in advance and when I start my RUclips channel I’m giving a shout out to y’all just know that
That green and white looks AMAZING on his skin😍
Hafeez' Philosophy sounds like the book of proverbs, while AMS' philosophy sounds like the book of Ecclaisciasis
This bout to be a heavy hitter. Got AMS looking like Charles Barkley @ the Hall of Fame 🐐
Hafeez stay yelling dogg 🤣🤣🤣
Hafeez really think he be saying something
AMS switch da swag up 🫡
The young guys coming up don't yet have the maturity to move past the basics. Your audience is at different stages in their lives. They need help at each of those stages.
Clean look fellas , Ams the dam pink panther Clean 🦈📈
🔥🔥🔥interview but daaam Hafeez let ‘em COOK!!
Gonna be listening to this during my workout :))
Suits, i cant wait to be professional I’m ONLY WEARING SUITS!
Last time AMS was on here he had a black polo shirt , fast forward now he rocking a 🔥 suit .. I see the growth
Fire episode man the jems y'all are dropping is phenomenal
One of the best videos in a long time
That intro boi! That was good! Good to hear the legend is such a great guy mane!
These are the type contents that I like thanks Roommate and AMS
I look up to both of you.
I think the part where you were talking about hypergamy I think Hafeez missed out an opportunity there to understand what AMS was trying to point out.
Yes we should aim to be the best versions of ourselves and pick the RIGHT type of women. But that doesn’t exclude that things may happen out of your control. Like you both acknowledged you could lose your job and have to downgrade your lifestyle which could mean you could potentially lose your women.
And Hafeez is saying if you’re as ambitious, hardworking and you pick the right women you wouldn’t need to deal with that. And I think it’s coming from a more optimistic view where he assumes most men would need to be as ambitious/hardworking and therefor be able to get back up so they wouldn’t need to worry about losing their woman. And also assuming that good girls wouldn’t at some point turn more hypergamous. And I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing but we can’t paint this picture that a women gon stick by your side struggling with you if mayority of women would leave eventually. It may not be right away but just love and being a good girls will not guarantee she’ll stay when you find yourself in a situation.
But we need to prepare men to deal with these things. And not just aspiring high value men but also the average men. If every men was The Standard they would all be average. So in order to help men in general we would need to speak to them at their level. Because not every guy gon be rich and as ambitious. I think Hafeez focusses on men that aspire to be that which is why he kind of dismisses the issues the more average men deal with. I think AMS has a better understanding there.
Well spoken
i love ams so much. keep up the good work
I ain’t never clicked so fast!
Please let AMS finish his thoughts without cutting him off..great show though
to be honest i can understand why this youtube account has been abandoned. AMS came here for an interview but it turned out to be more of an interrogation. no hate but just feedback, Hafeez should talk a little more calmly and ask more interested questions, with every question he asks he then answers himself
That’s absolutely fantastic talk. Imma White guy from Poland but I enjoy the content.