Girl Chat I Turn Offs & Deal Breakers in Relationships
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- Hi everyone,
Today's video is the first part of a new series of girl chat videos I will have on my channel called Boba & Chat! I am so happy to have my good friend Nawal here as we go over our turn off and deal breakers with men. We went over bad hygiene, lack of emotion, deen, finances, qabil among other things. Thank you to everyone who sent in a suggestions! This was super fun to film! Let me know what other topics you want me to discuss in the comments.
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😂❤️ you guys are sooo sweeet I had so much fun recording this.. watching it with my whole family now 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Bella, I love your channel as well. Always flowlesss masha Allah. Its been a while since you last posted a video. I'm waiting habibti💖🌺
Muna K hey love thank u for the kind remarks look out for me inshallah ill be more consistent this year!
Honestly needed this, it’s a nice break from depressing world we are in
deen literally means a way of life. A guy with a good deen embodies the character of Prophet Muhammad(PBUH).. your marriage is going to be so sweet
What a pleasant surprise, best collaboration ever. A nice break from all the chaos that's going on right now.
My deal breaker is when men ask me out after knowing me for few days as it makes me feel like I’m being forced to except their advances. I think a health relationship should start of with a friendship and then develop to into a relationship because the friendship will act as a bond between the couple regardless of what difficult they face later on
Same! I like to move slow.
When you said you get offended that they didn’t offer but that you would ask, I related to that so much😂😂
One thing I like abt this video is as humans how diverse our turn ons and off are aka our perception . NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE'S TURN OFF INFLUENCE YOU
Omg who says princess? Am I your daughter? Lmao loved watching you two.
😂 you would be surprised
your friend's personality... my goodness I'm HOOOOOKED. LOVE HER LOVE HER LOVE HER. Love you too Osob but man your friend is soooo nice.
You guys have such different energies lol. Osob is so chill and bella is going a thousand miles a minute lmao.
Lol yup, must be why we get along so well
Omgggg yes I feel you on the career part. My ex told me that studying political science is for dumb people. That he doesn't like my degree. I understand that it's difficult to find a job in that field but the fact that he put me down like that was so mean
Gosh that’s so mean..I don’t understand how someone thinks they are helping you by telling you what you are studying is dumb..like how is that supposed to help. There is some people that just love to put themselves above others and undermine everything. Sometimes it be your own family!
@@asistar87 Thank you and yesss!!!! He always bragged about himself but always put me down. n exactly sometimes family are so negative!!
Loved it!! And your friend is sooo pretty Allahuma Baarik!! You guys were speaking nothing but factsss the whole vid, my biggest turn off def has to be a man who has nothing going for him 🥴 how can you be so comfortable on your moms couch bud?? I agree with the tribe thing, that is the lasttt is my worries. I’m from Seattle and the tribe thing isn’t that big tbh
Usually VERY picky with girl youtubers idk bro i get cringed out or just dont like their attitude but for some reason i LOVED yall personalities and subbed right away
Mashallah this collab was everything 💕🙌🏾
Two absolutely gorgeous women 😍😍😍😍 really enjoyed this video. Turn offs for me are a lack of manners for everyone from waiters to family members, childish behaviour like when hanging with their boys is a priority alllll the time and controlling vibes'
I hate that!
Me too. I guess all girls think the same. 💁
Wow, Osob- you called out my toxic trait straight up 😭😭; I won’t ask but I’m offended that you haven’t offered. My husband is not naturally caring when I’m sick and it drives me bonkers- I’m tryna practice sabr, but yo 3years in, when is he gonna get it 💀💀🥰
I know girl! It’s so important to express what we need. Men are not mind readers though I wish they were 😂
Yesssss we’ve been waiting for this collab 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Really liked this girl chat. I've come across other similar video of somali girls and have found myself cringing and not completing the videos because I felt the level of conversation was basic/men centred. This video was defo not like that. Would love to see more!
I love this collab! It’s so entertaining and educational. Can we have a second collaboration please?
Loved this Osob! Can u please do a skincare routine?
This was so nice to watch 🥰 please do more of these segments.
AHHH MY TWO FAVEEESS 🇨🇦 🙏🏿❤️ Great video!!
OMG this is soo good defo should do another one, the qabil part got me. By the way from the UK and we defo don’t have qabil problems 🤦🏽♀️
My friend tells me she can't marry isaaq because they started the war .
Yusra Ismail OMG 😆 where do you live? And what the heck, her parents must be very sick people 🤢. Really my family has every Somali qabil and we are proud. I would love 💕 anyone who is gabooye to join in my family
@@hands1301 Im from London and isaaq people didnt even start war . Siad barres regime started it by discriminating against us. Its obviously BS her parents are telling her. I hate to say it but I feel like tribalism will never end because parents a telling their kids these things.
You guys are so funny loved this video 💖
Thanks for watching ❤️
MashaAllah I enjoyed this, keep it coming siz.
Nawal has amazing teeth mashallah. pearl-like smile wlhi.
MashaAllah lovin’ this collab!!
Love this video! You guys please talk about dating apps! This is something that most ppl are not talking about, but it’s the way it is now. Would love to see what apps you use 😀 likes and disses 😀
I loved this ! More girl talk ‼️❤️
I love this video the energy from the woman with the brown hijab (sorry I forget names so quick and too lazy to check it while I type lol) anyway she’s definitely great vibes I agree with her 100%
I laughed so hard!! Keep these coming!
First time coming across a RUclipsr called Nawal gang shitttt💕
Beautiful ladies. I love the videos. Make some more soon💖😍😘
We will thank you
inshallah sis
hellow ladies what a talk i love it.. wow manshallah where were you galz i longed for such chat thank you.
thank you sista
I’m loving the colab!!!!!!! I want to see more
I wanna hang out with you ladies 🥰🥰 love this
:) anytime sista
Marry someone on the same level of ur deen so u can work on it together
Osob side comments made me feel attacked looool same age as you two great advice mashaAllah tabarakAllah
These women are gorgeous Manshallah 😍😍😍
Ive seen few RUclipsrs. You guys are reasonable mashallah
‘My deal breaker is tribe’ audubilah 😭😭
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❤️❤️I love this mashallah May Allah bless you both
I have been married for 21 years and I don’t want to be called baby, honey or anything else.
Lol so funny, I used to cringe at the idea of being called baby by a love interest, and then I got married and bam lol I all of a sudden love it lol
Saying baby and my love when it’s only week 2 of talking is such a turn off. Not that the word baby is offensive, but if you could say that to me and we’ve only known eachother for a week, what do you call all these other xaliimos in your luuq? It just shows me that the nigga is fast as hell
Girl even Imams are sayin “babe” in 2020😭😭😭! We just leveling up I guess
Ahhhh such pretty and funny girls mashallah. I was laughing the entire video !!
you’re both so beautiful, mashallah. ❤️
Wow I really ❤️ you friend and need to checkout her channel.
Yes check her out @bellabigdeal
U guys are so cute mashallah 😭❤️
Best combo ever!!!
Sis said financially literate 🤣
i love this duo
Another great video sis pls come to London
I love this video💘
LOVED THIS!!!!!!
Guys your glowing
Thank you Otim
Men wants their women to have more modest clothes..but persue the ladies dress less modest
....Make it make sense.
Less modest is for friendly interactions
Mansha'Allah..
what is these men talking bout makeup .... like um sir i need more u gonna help ?????
Right! The nerve
mashallah loved the chat ladies!
Are they even friends now? they do not even follow each other anymore?
great video, what lip color are you wearing?
I don't know how I got surprised by the accent of a stranger, kinda presumptuous of me, but still surprising.
Love your videos
Signed a mirror you’re the best sister
MashaAllah my sisers ❤❤❤
First time I came across your channel nd I assumed you were from London den I hear your accents I’m like sis😂
People always say that to me, especially on snap lol idk why
Osob Beauty idk why I was expecting it Lmaooo it’s cuh I’m from the uk Nd you could just tell whos from the uk idk how but I acc tho you were
30? Mashallah you look 20
I have a crush on you Osob ☺️
Good job
5:24 As far as I'm aware, I haven't come across a Qur'an verse where Allah advised women to not wear pants. Just me? 😐
Mnsha allah beautiful girls ❤️
Your bone structures...howww!!?its unreal!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
🔥🔥🔥
Never build a man. Watch SheRaSeven1 RUclips Chanel for great advices
Mashallah does the one in black have a man 👀😍
I’m very interested to know what they drinking 😭😂
it's boba tea
"i wont ask you but i will be offended if you don offer" ladies smh
First aaaahhh
So quick!
Love you my sis scribe to your other channel if I subscribe to your Friends channel oh I love her do you actually I was playing Roblox with her last time she was there and he’s like the best friend to me and also you are you are my best friend you are my Besty to my life
your the best amira!!!
Good funny video but Osob I thought you were Dhulbahante lmfaooo you have the akhlaq and the looks of a Dhulbahante chick. And I think Bella is Marehan 🤣😆
Do tell what are they?
MashaAllah you’re 30?? I thought you were 22 or 23 max
Where are you’re hijabs from
Please 😍😍
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So funny
Salaam alaikum ❤
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Hidjabaya is the first foldable prayer abaya in the Muslim fashion world.
How we can create cooperation between us?
At the end of the day the man is responsible for the woman (Quran). If he doesnt give you a curfew then what is the man for the woman? If he doesnt care where and when the woman is outside then he doesnt care about his responsibility and I cant imagine him having much Taqwa wAllahu alam
What he is not is my/our Dad. Alhamdulillah God already filled that position, his position is being a husband. You Husband should care about were your going and want to know were you are only when the intention behind those questions is for safety reasons ,not out of ownership or anything like that. Also there’s many ways to show that someone cares. How hope you’re having a nice day and May Allah bless you in every way❤️
K wait ! Didn’t you not know that the minute the meher happens that positions moves automatically to your husband lol. and your dad is no longer your responsibility!
zamzam guled yes agree! Unfortunately a lot of women dont know that or just dont want any man telling them what to do or dont. I believe this is why lots of marriages fail.
With qaabill it’s not bad in the U.K.
Trust me it is my friend told me isaaq people started the war so she can't marry one
@@Rayan_04689 lmaooooooo how did that work out for her? Qabiliste chikaz are funny.
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Nothing wrong with using terms of endearment. Why should people police their language of affection to one another. It's not ceeb or haram. Y'all need to get with it is what it is.
Nothing wrong with it, we were joking around. Everyone has their own comfort level.
Gosh the one in the Black is super annoying and seems childish and does not seem wife material from how she talks. The other seems mature and feminine and discerning. Guess why she was a wife once. And the other I would assume never married and men in her area may not want to marry her- her talk is just “gen z” even tho she is in her 30’s. Very odd how both are diff. Sleep downs no talk normally. People will talk you serious when you don’t speak fast.
She interrupts a lot. Wow.
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The girl in black doing too much really.