This video really hit me hard. I am a Yemeni girl who had a miscarriage then divorced and was the talk of town. I went through depression went from am extrovert to an introvert. It took me a months to stop caring what people say and stand on my feet again. Alhamdulilah with the support of my father he encouraged to study business. After a year I graduated with my BA started to worked in Real estate achieved my goals all as a divorce women. Alhamdulilah then got married. I love watching your video and how raw beautiful they are, you touch so many.
I love that your story doesn't include a 'man' as a savior in your hard times but places so much emphasis on your connection with Allah to get you through your situations♥
I am my own man 🤪 I have got what it takes. My only saviour is Allah swt. Inshallah, if a good man comes along, then its from Allah swt blessing me. But for now, I am just focused on me and me only 💞
Let's not fall into western feminism its OK to be self sufficient but what does islam say? Be a single person no? Islam wants women to be married to the point Allah even says a man could marry 4 women so women can be married. These aren't my words words of Allah this notion of western Muslims now stating "I dont need a man I don't need anything but Allah" well Allah is telling you to get married to the point it is half your deen...
@@billcaan4192 marriage is not mandatory. So calm yourself. The person above is not demonizing marriage, they are saying that one should be content and love their self before thrusting themselves in a relationship, that could very well wind up in them being abused. Since you want to sit here and act like western feminism is the problem let’s talk about the abuse a lot of Muslim women face due to cultural norms by the same men they are told they need to marry to complete half their deem.
As a divorced, suffering guy myself, having been abandoned with two kids, you brought me to tears at the end of the video. I am glad that everything is getting better for you. Your video and hard-earned insights are really mind-opening and inspiring. Best wishes from Turkey.
I’m literally going through the same story. Divorce, failing business, depression family issues 💔 may Allah give us patience. I don’t know how long I can go on for.
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
I’m so glad that amidst this current wave of ”my life is perfect, you should have everything figured out in your 20s and all things are going great as planned” there’re still some people like you, keeping it real and not being ashamed of admitting that life is made of up and downs and is far from being perfect ! Sending you lots of love and encouragement ❤️
Very true, life is still "not perfect" In fact, its so tough and hard. I genuinely didn't think this video would gain any attention or anyone would care, but I am so happy that you relate to this and see that I shared my true life that many of us relate to.
Single mother to 7 . You and I are the same age … I sense people see it as failures but the compassion you gain from these experiences are life changing for the world . I was homeless as well and had to move in with my parents for 3 years before I could get a home for us. You are a fabulous inspiration . Blessings to your family .
I am not a Muslim woman but I wanted to let you know that as my first video I've watched of yours I am truly inspired. I live in the UK and our Muslim community is large and very much loved....at least in Leicester where I live. Thank you for your wonderful spirit and willingness to share your journey with us viewers. I am a new subscriber and I can't wait to start going through your previous videos. Xxxx
Honestly I’m going through the hardest time of my life right now and some days I feel hopeless. But seeing you for the first time and this video was a reminder of strength, dedication, perseverance and love for our beautiful religion Islam. Thank you for giving me hope again and helping me see things in a new perspective ❤️
This video popped up on my suggested. I didnt have any idea who you were. I got so sucked into your story. When you said your brand was Zharaa the Label... goosebumps. Ive heard about your brand and seen your clothes all over IG and youtube, on so many influencers, loved the pieces. So amazing mashaAllah hearing how far youve come. Even more incredible knowing the faith behind the brand. I will be purchasing something from you asap now!
Amber 🥺 you have no idea how this comment just made my day. I will be forever grateful to have your genuine love and support ❤ Thank you for sharing this with me 💞
@@ZahraaBerro Keep working keep chasing your career continue getting older and continue lowering your chance of any genuine guy marrying you again. You liberal feminist types want a reformed version of Islam and by trying to reform it you have muslim women 30/40+ that own houses cars have a good salary but no man will want you. This is because a man doesn't care how successful a woman is financially a man wants and needs a woman that will raise his children and be a home maker.
@@blackflagarmy5010 And yet we look at educational attainment when we choose a spouse? I mean, like her I also got my degree in accounting. But if you ask me, if I have a choice I would rather stay at home and raise my kids well. Whilst that is my dream I am afraid to say it to a man or even to open about the subject of me not having a job when discussing marriage. I even met a man who told me straight to my face that women staying at home, raising kids was long gone. That the family's future would be better if both of us work and raise the children as well. A lot of men nowadays prefer successful spouses. I felt at that time like it was such a big sin for women to ask to stay at home and be cared for. Of course, not everyone is like that, but unfortunately, this still stands today. We, women, need to take up the slack not because we want to, but because we have to. If we don't get an education, no one marries us. If we didn't come from a wealthy family, we need to work and help our parents, to try and save for a wedding. I mean, it's not all black and white. And by the way, we need to prepare for that one day you divorce us and we have to start over.
@@ikkee5936 You don't agree with the way I'm conveying my message because your too sensitive the whole world has become sensitive political correctness bs. You're going to come across people from all walks of life speak act communicate diffrent learn to tolerate it and quit being so damn sensitive.
I’m glad I came across your story and channel. I have been trying to get married for a while and sometimes get depressed when I can’t. I see so many Muslim girls get married and I feel like I’m loosing out . But marriage is not all there is and I have come really far in life. I hope for the best for you and everyone reading this!
I promise you marriage is not everything ! I used to think that before I got married. I remember always thinking about it and always wanting to get married. But now when I am married I think that it gets romanticized in society , it’s not Quite what i expected , and your partner can’t make you happy if you aren’t whole yourself first. I would have worked on me a little more before i got married. My inner self and heal my wounds and get closer to Allah swt ❤️🥰
One should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
Your journey is a true example of how people can flourish through even the most difficult life hurdles if they have a strong support network in their family. So inspiring.
Hamdella, I think the most important thing is that YOU want to get out of the difficulty. Everything else can help, but you will always be your greatest influencer.
Asalaam alaykum. I am a father with daughters around your age. I came across your channel this am and started listening to your story. Alghamdullilaah you have grown by life’s challenges that was thrown at you. You have learnt what others take years and I mean years to learn. May Allah always grant you barakah, gheir and abundance of Rizq. Sharing this with people firm of Rizq. They learn from you.Don’t ever lose yourself from Allah’s path he put you on. May Allah always keep you on the road of siraatul mustakeem and mayvprosper and go from strength to strength. In shaa Allah. Ameen. (I shared this with my daughter may she find a good role model in you in shaa Allah) much love 💕 may Allah bless you. Salaams
"your struggles, they define you, they help you, they're what's gonna push you to be where you want to be in life".. Thank you Zahra. I am going through a very bad situation at the moment and your words help me to realize that I am strong enough to going through this
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!***** Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, ***6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped** 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men. ***8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.****
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
I love how you keep saying "This isn't the best thing for me right NOW" it's so brilliant Subhanallah. It's so easy to get discouraged from something you're passionate about after you've hit a rough patch. It's fine to take a step back from things until you have the resources to take it up again. And it's so important to take all the lessons you can from the process of getting to that point again and learn from them.
Just realized that the hardship we go through is all we need to be ready for the next stage of our lives! I no longer runaway from my problems ! Thanks for sharing
You are such an inspiration, ma sha Allah! I am a revert going thru a divorce and living back home with my parents with my 1 year old. Working 30 hours weekly lol. I feel so stuck here 😔 (Parents aren’t Muslim and not the ideal environment to raise my son). Hearing your story gives me hope and motivation that I can become successful. Thank you for taking the time to share ❤️
Your days will get better. Just focus on yourself, how you can grow and make an independent living for you and your son. Praying for you mama. You will be just okay ❤
I’ve been in a similar situation. Don’t feel stuck, Allah’s help will come and it will come in ways you would’ve never expected. Just pray to Him and trust in His plan 💕 InshaAllah all the best for you sis
Allah knows your struggles pray to him and he’ll see you through. The struggles are the things that will make you a better person if we don’t struggle we will never know what we are capable of. Divorce is very tough but Allah knows your situation and what’s better for you. May Allah replace what you had with something better and may Allah show your parents the path of success.
There comes a time when you have to find the strength to save yourself. You have to decide you’re worth more than your pain. You’re stronger than your trauma. You’re braver than what’s destroying you. No one can make that decision for you, you have to make it yourself.
I can relate to most of what you've been through, did drop-shipping and it failed, tried doing business and also failed and later on got divorced...Was unemployed and broke for a while but Alhamdulilah i got a stable job, focusing on self-improvement and growth. Still healing and becoming a better muslim.
"If this is gonna take me away from you take it away from me and if this is gonna bring me closer to you then keep it for me" ❤️it shows your level of faith in Allah ❤️❤️
I am a single mum of two and have been through alot and am telling you I needed this .It was under recommendations and I can say it's worthy it.Love you sister for sharing this it has helped me so much 💕.I know things are about to get better for me 💪🤗.
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!***** Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, ************6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped************* 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
All love to you, as a older, in my 40's single mother, raising my children totally alone. Going for my masters in psychology alone I understand. Wish you the best such wonderful culture you have. All blessing to you and your family.
Yesterday, I had my GCSE exam ( it’s basically a Cambridge exam that you give in year 11 in England,Pakistan and just other countries that follow the Cambridge education system) It was an additional mathematics exam like AP math, calculus basically. Mine really didn’t go so well while everyone else said theirs went really well and I felt so incredibly upset because my goal is to go to this university in Canada but with a bad grade in an exam I wasn’t sure if I could. Then when I was scrolling RUclips I came across your video and I’m genuinely so motivated and calm now. Allah really works out a way for everyone and puts them through trial. Success doesn’t always come first, maybe this was a lesson for me to have worked harder. This video kind of gave me a broad perspective and opened my eyes a little.While everyone is going/ has gone through struggles like you have they come out with a positive outcome and they thank God for their difficulties. Whereas for me I just gave a high school exam that will add up to my transcript, but it’s not the end of the world. Maybe I do well or whatever happens will be for a reason!
Exactly how you worded it, success doesn't come from the first try. I promise if you keep on trying, you will see the results you yearn for ❤ Allah bless
This popped up and I clicked on it because it sounded like my struggles as well. And I really needed to hear this! It resonated with me and made me realize that I’m not the only one and there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing ❤️may Allah bless you and your family always. “Execution is always respected” loved that!
Not a Muslim, but I'm an entrepreneur at heart and a personal development junkie, and this made me feel spoken to. Thank you! Would take business advice from you any day.
Asaalamu alykum wa rahmatullah wa barakahtahu! This takes a lot of courage to share such personal details of your life. May Allah heal you & replace what you’ve lost with so much better. I was also raised in a single parent household & alhumdullilah I turned out to be fine. You’re an awesome mom Allahumabarik. Remember when Allah loves His slave, He tests them. & Wallahi Allah loves you a ton. Stay strong, Allah is always with you ( & SO ARE WE!)🤲🏼 SQ
It's amazing to see that living in a society filled with people who love to get away from religion, you have held on to the rope of Allah and are grateful for it. May Allah grant us all the capability to hold on to our beliefs no matter the tests we go through.
How i came to this channel? Was on bed crying on failures and efforts without any positive results. Was hurt by closest person in life. Was thinking of my ability to take my passion forward! Was doubting if i am doing it right! Subhanallah ! Here is an answer, the motivational video youtube suggested. For sure suggestion is also from Allah . This is not the first time though. Alhamdulillah in sha Allah He is best planner and our support
You’re so inspiring!!!!!!! You chose to “BE YOU”, and “NEVER GAVE UP” that’s why😍😍😍😍😍 I know the video is almost 30 minutes long😂😂 but didn’t knew how it ends so fast. Love yew!! And keep doing you!! ☝🏼😇🤗
Magnesium helped me. I had sleeping problems since age 11 up to last year age 35 so it fixed my problems of 25 yrs. Like allergymeds it needs time to build up in the body.
I take every single day but it seems useless. I have got depression and sleep medications as well, but there is no positive result. I feel like I am slowly dying.
its really empowering to see someone so motivated after so many downfalls throughout your life, hats off to your mother and father for raising such a wonderful women.
Amazing. You’ve really worked hard and battled through it. Life isn’t easy but that persistent, the drive and determination to keep trying over and over again pays off in the end. Always have faith. Loved your story so very inspiring. May Allah keep you and your family blessed and all the success. Amazing example to your children. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing! You have inspired me to keep pushing. I am a revert from a small town. Recently divorced with a 2 year old and I am the only Muslim in my family. I want an Islamic life for my son and I and I believe Allah will guide me to make that happen for my son and I Ameen! Keep doing what you are doing. So many of us need examples and just seeing the courage of someone else help tremendously!
Omg! I was like low key having the worst day ever I thought I was living the worst life ever! I have been trying so many things with life and everything seemed like it was failing but literally I have watched this video and I am more motivated then ever before!! Thank you for opening my eyes and telling me I can do it! May god bless you!
I think we often so harsh on ourselves, something's is not for everyone or just not your time yet, as long we counting to growing and learning that should be enough and eventually things will line up insha Allah, thanks for sharing sis ❤
This was so moving... So happy to hear you're in a good place now. I hope this reaches every young Muslim out there. Your unwavering faith and connection to Allah is very inspiring. 🤍
I don’t know you but your video showed up in my feed. I love how strong you are! You’re self made. Failure is honestly just giving up. And you didn’t give up. That’s why you are successful. And you’re right-all the hardships you go through can make you stronger. This inspired me today!😊
This video really spoke to me. Although everyone's struggles are different, you are right we are given what we can handle. It is hard to recognize that when you are going through hardship but it is important to continue to have faith and grow from all our difficult experiences ❤️❤️❤️Congratulations on creating your own vision and brand!
I was crying thinking about my own struggles but damn girl I feel so so so inspired. MashaAllah. It's so true and so so sad that we are still dealing with these kinds of issues in the society or as a muslim community where another woman has to feel this way. May Allah guide us all ameen. ❤️ I hope your brand can be one of the biggest brands in the future in sha allah.
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!***** Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, ***6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped** 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men. ***8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.****
Love love love this ♥️ Muslim or not, I think this goes for women all across the BOARD. I am Jamaican with Jamaican parents from a Christian background. I’m here listening like “Yessss, praise God, praise Allah!!” 🤣 you spoke facts. I appreciate this video and your commitment. I pray all good and all protection continues to surround you. Can’t wait to pave the way with more women like you! Blessings!!
Yeah you got to work hard to be up there. Literally I'm in my undergrad career, it gets hard and overwhelming and i feel like im all over the place but sometimes i try to remind myself that in order to get where i want to be i have to go through many trials. its like going up a mountain. Thank you for this video
Thank you Zahraa for sharing your story with us!! This video randomly appeared in my feed, sometimes god brings you motivation through unexpected ways. I’m 26 and feel very demotivated to not have achieved what I should have until now but content like yours make me realize its never too late and we just gotta keep hustling. Thank you for such great video and i have also checked your brand’s website, its amazing!!
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!***** Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, ************6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped************* 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
I have not finished this video yet, but girrrrl you are an inspiration! I can't even imagine being a single mom of two, and building a life from square one.
Aww this was such an amazing chat. Really felt like it's my older sister speaking to me and giving me heartfelt advice. Please do more videos like this! I benefited so much, mashaAllah!
Loved this video sister. So relatable especially since I also had my first child in 2012 and then got divorced. I am now running my own business. I think you should do more business advice related videos, since you gathered to much experience from trying and learning x
God i really love this girl this is the first time seeing her or watching a video but I love her vibe and I never finish watching divorce videos because they turn me off but her saying her story was so different than the other videos I’ve watched. I’m glad she was able to find her way and be successful and work so hard
this is the first time I come across your channel and girl lemme tell you this video of yours is like therapy , I haven't doubted a single word you said in there , you seem super genuine and honest , even when you spoke of your past experiences you didn't idealize your reaction to any of it cuz failure takes a toll on us no matter how strong we can be . this is really uplifting , I salute your courage , good luck !
This made me start sobbing at work. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I'm on the path of graduating with my bachelors next year. I graduate a year early than my class, but I chose a degree that requires a masters. Although choosing a college degree and career path seems like a mediocre trial one can go through, this issue has made my mental health decline and made me more focused on crying (since I don't know what I'm doing and feel like I wasted my financial aid on a worthless degree) rather than focusing on my classes. I majoring in psych first, realized you need more education so I switched to health science, but realized it also needed further education. I don't want further education, I'm a Muslim woman who wants to be done with school and focus on financial growth since I come from a not so financially stable family. People tell me "do what you're passionate about", but I literally have no passion. All I think about is salary and the time it'll take me in college. I don't really like anything in any field to do what my "passion" is. I feel like if I change to anything will set me back, but is it really worth it if I stitch to something I'm still not sure of? I want to focus on my deen and don't want to waste my time nor do I want to take out loans and go into debt. I have felt so helpless and anytime I research I hit dead ends and break down again. I think the trial is not what I will do in college/degree, I think the trial is how much sabr will I have with the unknown. I've lost a lot of hope in many things in my life, and feel so lost and don't have a sense of direction. Thank you for sharing your experience it really means a lot. If anyone has advice leave it down below:)
Thank you Zahra! This is so inspired me and made me no longer feel like a failure in education or career. Tbh, I only graduated from high school and didn't go to college bcs of one thing. It was really hard, but I believe it was the best decision I made and I ended up taking a makeup and fashion design course with a short time, working all day at the computer store but it didn't last long 5 months later I decided to quit my job for one thing and now Alhamdulillah I have fashion hijab business and as makeup artist. Of all that has happened in my life, I've learned that success doesn't have to come at the beginning but at the right time, bcs " But they plan, Allah plans. Surely, Allah is the best planners. " ( Quran 8 : 30 ) 💕💕
Such a motivational story I am going through a bad marriage even though I am working now but don’t have that courage to get divorced thinking how will I survive alone with my son ...ur struggle gave me a hope that I can do it
@@mycanadianlife1608 What horrible advice! @Touqeer Sana, please don't listen to this person. You don't have to stay in a bad marriage and you don't have to give up custody of your child. Please seek counseling and find a way to live your life.
Thank you for sharing your life. It just shows how raw life is. These days with social media in place everything looks so perfect we forget to realise success comes with so many hurdles, tears, broken relationships, discrimination, sleepless nights and the list could just go on! Btw I love ur accent 💓wishing you a blessed and successful life i’A
I loved this. As a young woman in her 20's, this really helps guide me and remind me that where I am now, is not where I am meant to be just yet. You gave me some hope to push through my struggles, alhamdulilah. Thank you for the chat sis. May Allah reward you and protect you and your family. Ameen!
Thankyou for this real and honest video, the title is refreshing for the viewer who is living in reality vs Instagram, glamorous filter. Im 33 and never got to finish uni in my 20's. It was consistent domino effects with me whenever I've tried to be successful and progress in life. I am now learning to just accept my fate and take each day as it comes.
You are such an inspiring woman! I love how honest, courageous and persevering you are!! Your kids are so lucky to have you!!! ❤️ Keep it up giiiirl you're rocking it in every single way 🥰
Thank you for sharing your story. I have a similar story, divorced twice and single parent. And I actually was looking to see if anyone else out there with same situation, this is first video of its kind. Thank you for letting me know We are not alone. We should support on another not mock (no matter how many children or divorces you have) ❤️ May we always please Allah tallah and have him watch over us
Agreed. Im here to share that people like us exist. I won't hide it, I am not ashamed of whats happened. My journey taught me so much. praying for you 💗
Hi I just discovered your channel and I want to say that you're such an amazing role model for not only Muslim women and single mothers but also for men and women going through tough times. I know you're a hustler and will achieve much more success in the future. Do always stay gracious with your prayers so that you're strong and protected from unnecessary jealousy and hate. Thank you for sharing your story!
Zahraa sister thank you so so much for talking so openly about everything. Everyone goes through different hardships and gets successful - if they are meant to be - in different ways. But still, your story inspired me a lot and gave me the motivation that I needed. I rethink some of my plans again and am eager to find out what Allah has planned for me🥺 May Allah make you, your loved ones and everyone who is part of ummati muhammad saw. successful in this and in the next world 🥺
You're honestly such a huge inspiration. I don't think you quite realise how much of an impact your story has to young people (since we all face different types of hardships at different times in our life) but I just have this huge urge to tell how grateful I am to you for sharing your story. Your resilience and optimism is just so admirable and the fact you didn't turn away from Allah (SWT) really speaks volumes on your faith and trust in God. Keep it up girl, your actually the wonderful role model I've been looking for, thank you !! ❤
This quaran verse allows sex with prepubescent girls according to Muhammad Hijab, here is the kink to his RUclips video ruclips.net/video/0gjUC4HR90E/видео.html
Your story if very inspiring! You are a great role model to your kids and to other women. Ignore other people's negative remarks or double standards. You have worked hard and you deserve to be happy!
This is my first time here and the fact that I am relating to everything she's been through makes me wanna cry and the same time smile May Allah make it easy for all of us🙏
Yes, culture stupidity, boy's are raised like kings and the females are their servants, when will people bring up kids with equality? My boy's do what my daughter's do, ladies never marry mummy's boys or only son or child!!!
I just fell upon this video by chance and I was touched by your story. We are always going through hard times but sometimes you feel like your the only one. We don’t realize that there are many people out there going through the same situation, so thanks for shedding light on your story and motivating women to get up and be confident to make it on their own. I don’t know who you are but after watching this video I feel like I’ve known you for years.☺️ Good luck in all your endeavours I hope I can muster the courage to do the same in my life 😬
Related to your story so much, married and had a baby young, moved from Massachusetts to California with just my husband while i was heavily pregnant and had my daughter in California and life was just terribly depressing for me no matter what others tried, was only happy and left once i had my baby honestly. Went to live with my mom when i got back home and just with in the last year was able to get a place for my daughter and I and life’s just been moving forward. I appreciate you’re story so much. I am ready for the better days to pour over me the way they have for you. Blessings, you’re an inspiration
You're right, just having someone to relate to. I never had that when I went through this 🥺 But hamdellah, things happen for a reason. Much love always ❤
I truly loved this video, there’s so much there Mashallah you have so much confidence now. I feel like so many girls can learn from you lessons, mindset everything. Myself I’m 20 years old and just trying to hustle too but not really knowing my direction and feeling pulled in many directions by others… marriage, this route that etc. I would love to know more about your hustle and how to get started - networking, how you put yourself out there, tips, what exactly did you do? Would be so helpful lots of love, may Allah shower you with even more blessings ♥️
I just liked seeing the end result. Your success after hardships. That we can make it. And also the fact that it takes a lot for us to be transparent so I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability... I guess most importantly we must accept that not everything is in our control and staying focused on our goals and determined and not giving up is sometimes the choice to make
I randomly came accross your channel this morning and im so glad i did. The words that you are saying and your motivation has totally remotivated me to push through any difficulties in my life. Sending you hugs from the UK london xxx You go girl 🥰 #a new subscriber
This popped up on my suggestions and I quickly clicked on it. I watched the entire video from start to finish. It made me cry, it made me smile and it made me cheer for you. Masha'Allah you are so strong, so encouraging, and such an inspiration to so many women and I don't even think you know that. I'm going through an extremely difficult time in my marriage, I know it's very toxic, unhealthy and I have so many things holding me back from just getting up and leaving and never looking back. Listening to you getting your life on track after everything like divorce and failing at your businesses gives me the the hope and motivation to Insha'Allah make the right choices for myself so that I can not continue putting myself through unnecessary pain. So I can take back my life and be at the healthy and happy point that I was once in.
Strong woman Subhanallah, I love how honest and inspiring your speech is Allahuma barik. This is a powerful message and thank you for it🥺❤️ May Allah shower more blessings and preserve your happiness. You truly deserve the best❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing your story. I commend you for walking away and telling yourself you deserve better. I’m 28 and haven’t married and I’m happy to be alone.
As someone who's a Christian, I really, like really, love following ladies such as yourself who are social media'esque but yet still faithful and rooted in your Islamic faith. It's so beautiful. 🙏🏾❣️ And I love your content, and appreciate you being this open and true about your journey. Thank you Z!😘 May you and your family continue to thrive and grow and receive all of Allah's blessings. ❤️❤️
I love the way you talk about your story and faith.. amazing and so raw. Thank you for sharing your story! I definitely want to support fellow Muslim women!
zahraa, your story was very beautiful! the fact that you didn't give up is amazing. you are such an amazing women. may Allah guide you in the right path. 💛 sending much much love to you!! have a great day. 💛
I can relate to you a lot….being divorced twice myself…having to raise a kid on my own n not to forget how judge mental society can get especially for a woman
Really proud of you, currently I am at the worst phase of my life experiencing tons of failure at the age of 23 and thought of giving up but your video really motivated me to keep hustling and try all the possible way out until you make it.
I really appreciate your channel. Amidst all these perfect lives, one has got the guts to actually share how awful she has been thru and that it is not so unique. That's true women empowerment right there. I'm inspired by how you started over again and again. I can relate to that thing you said about execution. The only thing that I would say though is that I get that same tense feeling I get from entrepreneurs. The thing they always talk about, ''hustling day and night'' which to me is not a good concept to keep promoting. We all know the difficulty one goes thru in running a business or even in improving one's self. It's a lot of discipline and hard work. But to me, that is somehow a form making it appear that that is the ''standard'' and ''only'' way of doing things if you want to be more successful or if you want results. When in fact studies show that people who tend to have a more holistic life and is in have a positive and healthy mental state, are more productive than the one that is stressed out. There is value in being patient with yourself and organically growing along the way.
I feel like I just got knew friend. I'm so excited to meet you and be inspired by you. We have great similarities. Mom of four early thirties Muslim living in America. I have been through quite too that at this point in my life and ready to change and do something great for myself. I love your confidence and thank you for sharing your story.
This was really inspirational. I've been following you on Instagram for a while now but I'm happy to hear more of your story. May Allah continue to bless, guide, and protect you and your family.
Im here after your post about being a single mom and having an empty iftaar table. I felt that. Although I am not a single mom, last year’s ramadan and eids were so difficult for me. I’ve had 2 missed ramadans from my husband and that was okay but last year I felt so lonely. He was away while I had my first child to take care of business and he spent it with his family, brothers, sisters in law and their kids while I was here by myself all alone struggling to even have the mood to do anything. But this year we are together. But i still feel a sense of emptiness maybe because I see my in laws overseas gathering and going out and spending holidays with eachother when I was there I didn’t really see them.
Everyone has their own struggles and I appreciate you for sharing your story. The comments, however, are confusing me. I really hope you hijabi influencer girls don't want to influence young girls to "normalize divorce" as many "liberal" women often do... I've seen modern women divorcing men for the most basic of matters. He didn't want a picnic day every two weeks? Divorced. He wanted his kids in a different school than she did. Divorced. He wanted to train his daughter to cover her hair from the age of six. Divorced. I can go on and on about this. Divorce isn't a good thing. It's simply a hard decision that becomes inevitable sometimes, but it is severely disliked by Allah so please don't approach a marriage with divorce as your side option. One last thing, "independence" isn't as glamorous as the west makes it seem. Children aren't meant to be raised by a single parent. But of course, there are times when it cannot be helped. Kudos to you for actually managing to pull it together.
@@alphafish4756 even if that is to be believed, looking upon the life of the prophet S.A.W himself, we find that he always saw divorce as the extreme last resort for a couple. Zaid R.A and Zainab R.A were incompatible from the start with Zainab's decent being from a wealthier, nobler family. They were miserable together and Zaid kept asking the prophet's S.A.W permission yet the prophet S.A.W kept advising him to try and patch things up. Moreover, the 3 divorce system explicitly mentioned in the Quran is also proof of how the third and actual divorce, upon which your spouse is not yours anymore, is kept at a large distance of over a month (I think) from the first time a man expresses his wish to divorce his wife. It's a long process in Islam, the length of it serving the purpose that if, within the span of the 40 or so days, there is even a slight chance of reconciliation, the couple can still mend the relationship.
@@zunaslogic4128 Yes obviously I agree with this no one in their right mind would do first thing as divorce, we dont know what their marriage was like to take this final step.
If I could like this video 10 times I would ❤️❤️ It’s amazing to see how strong you are and regardless of the trails you’re still standing strong.. this motivated me so much to push myself harder even through the hard times.. thank you for the story and may allah protect you and give you more happiness 💕
I came across this video at a really critical part of life when I wasn't sure if i can do this on my own as a single parent. think I'm more courageous now to try after watching this. Thank you
I am glad that I found your channel. You are soooo inspirational! I hope you continue to inspire women across the globe! I just checked out your website and it is awesome!
This video really hit me hard. I am a Yemeni girl who had a miscarriage then divorced and was the talk of town. I went through depression went from am extrovert to an introvert. It took me a months to stop caring what people say and stand on my feet again. Alhamdulilah with the support of my father he encouraged to study business. After a year I graduated with my BA started to worked in Real estate achieved my goals all as a divorce women. Alhamdulilah then got married. I love watching your video and how raw beautiful they are, you touch so many.
QUEEEN!!! Own your struggles and KILL IT ❤ Proud of you girl!!!
Fellow yemeniyya here, الله يرضى عليك
ان بعد عسر يسر
This made me so happy, I am happy that your father was present to support you, they usually don't have the best rep but al hamdoulilah !
Our community is shitty and backwards sorry that you got treated like that
@@moonlightreveries1459 glad someone said it, cause it’s true
I love that your story doesn't include a 'man' as a savior in your hard times but places so much emphasis on your connection with Allah to get you through your situations♥
I am my own man 🤪 I have got what it takes. My only saviour is Allah swt. Inshallah, if a good man comes along, then its from Allah swt blessing me. But for now, I am just focused on me and me only 💞
@Amanda Rivera 🤪 YES !!! we all sound like this haha!
Let's not fall into western feminism its OK to be self sufficient but what does islam say? Be a single person no? Islam wants women to be married to the point Allah even says a man could marry 4 women so women can be married. These aren't my words words of Allah this notion of western Muslims now stating "I dont need a man I don't need anything but Allah" well Allah is telling you to get married to the point it is half your deen...
@@billcaan4192 marriage is not mandatory. So calm yourself. The person above is not demonizing marriage, they are saying that one should be content and love their self before thrusting themselves in a relationship, that could very well wind up in them being abused. Since you want to sit here and act like western feminism is the problem let’s talk about the abuse a lot of Muslim women face due to cultural norms by the same men they are told they need to marry to complete half their deem.
@@billcaan4192 and Islam encourages marriage but does not make it forbidden to be single. Watch how you choose to interpret things
Respect girl. Life is not a fairytale… unfortunately most young girls are not told that growing up. You’re doing an amazing job at life.
So true! I thought life was a fairytale 😱 One day it just hit me and it hit hard.
@@antimatterwave3747 in fact God himself said : life isnt for fun but for testing
MashaAllah ♥️♥️♥️
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@@babyhabel474 NEW MUSLIMS PERFORMING UMRAH,VERY EMOTIONAL AND TEARFUL
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As a divorced, suffering guy myself, having been abandoned with two kids, you brought me to tears at the end of the video. I am glad that everything is getting better for you. Your video and hard-earned insights are really mind-opening and inspiring. Best wishes from Turkey.
Goddamn man
Best wishes to you. Praying for you
May Allah make it easy for you
@@sanaakhadija4704 Allah?
@@Aristocratic13 god?
I’m literally going through the same story. Divorce, failing business, depression family issues 💔 may Allah give us patience. I don’t know how long I can go on for.
Allah has a plan sister keep strong
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
السلام علیکم
I am looking for wife
Single divorced widow
I’m so glad that amidst this current wave of ”my life is perfect, you should have everything figured out in your 20s and all things are going great as planned” there’re still some people like you, keeping it real and not being ashamed of admitting that life is made of up and downs and is far from being perfect ! Sending you lots of love and encouragement ❤️
Very true, life is still "not perfect" In fact, its so tough and hard. I genuinely didn't think this video would gain any attention or anyone would care, but I am so happy that you relate to this and see that I shared my true life that many of us relate to.
@@ZahraaBerro
From Indonesia
Facts, I was thinking the same thing
@@ZahraaBerro
From you
All moms are heroes, I see my wife and she makes me proud of her everyday.
Your a good man for noticing, some men will not notice the struggles and sacrifices their wives make...
So good to hear a man actually be grateful and appreciate his wife unlike many men who do nothing but take them for granted
@@saarax3687 completely agree
@@MI-hw7fy so do I
Such a beautiful comment Ibrahim..
Your wife is very lucky alhumdulillah😊
Single mother to 7 . You and I are the same age … I sense people see it as failures but the compassion you gain from these experiences are life changing for the world . I was homeless as well and had to move in with my parents for 3 years before I could get a home for us. You are a fabulous inspiration . Blessings to your family .
السلام علیکم
I am looking for wife
Single divorced widow
I am not a Muslim woman but I wanted to let you know that as my first video I've watched of yours I am truly inspired. I live in the UK and our Muslim community is large and very much loved....at least in Leicester where I live. Thank you for your wonderful spirit and willingness to share your journey with us viewers. I am a new subscriber and I can't wait to start going through your previous videos. Xxxx
I’m from Leicester 😊
👋 same here
Aww thank u for the love and acceptance means a lot x
this is such a cute message ❤🙏
Alhamdulilah
Honestly I’m going through the hardest time of my life right now and some days I feel hopeless. But seeing you for the first time and this video was a reminder of strength, dedication, perseverance and love for our beautiful religion Islam. Thank you for giving me hope again and helping me see things in a new perspective ❤️
This video popped up on my suggested. I didnt have any idea who you were. I got so sucked into your story. When you said your brand was Zharaa the Label... goosebumps. Ive heard about your brand and seen your clothes all over IG and youtube, on so many influencers, loved the pieces. So amazing mashaAllah hearing how far youve come. Even more incredible knowing the faith behind the brand. I will be purchasing something from you asap now!
Amber 🥺 you have no idea how this comment just made my day. I will be forever grateful to have your genuine love and support ❤ Thank you for sharing this with me 💞
@@ZahraaBerro Keep working keep chasing your career continue getting older and continue lowering your chance of any genuine guy marrying you again. You liberal feminist types want a reformed version of Islam and by trying to reform it you have muslim women 30/40+ that own houses cars have a good salary but no man will want you. This is because a man doesn't care how successful a woman is financially a man wants and needs a woman that will raise his children and be a home maker.
@@blackflagarmy5010 Asalaamu alaikum, I agree on your point of view (as a woman) but I don't agree on the way you're conveying this message.
@@blackflagarmy5010 And yet we look at educational attainment when we choose a spouse? I mean, like her I also got my degree in accounting. But if you ask me, if I have a choice I would rather stay at home and raise my kids well. Whilst that is my dream I am afraid to say it to a man or even to open about the subject of me not having a job when discussing marriage. I even met a man who told me straight to my face that women staying at home, raising kids was long gone. That the family's future would be better if both of us work and raise the children as well. A lot of men nowadays prefer successful spouses. I felt at that time like it was such a big sin for women to ask to stay at home and be cared for. Of course, not everyone is like that, but unfortunately, this still stands today. We, women, need to take up the slack not because we want to, but because we have to. If we don't get an education, no one marries us. If we didn't come from a wealthy family, we need to work and help our parents, to try and save for a wedding. I mean, it's not all black and white. And by the way, we need to prepare for that one day you divorce us and we have to start over.
@@ikkee5936 You don't agree with the way I'm conveying my message because your too sensitive the whole world has become sensitive political correctness bs. You're going to come across people from all walks of life speak act communicate diffrent learn to tolerate it and quit being so damn sensitive.
I’m glad I came across your story and channel. I have been trying to get married for a while and sometimes get depressed when I can’t. I see so many Muslim girls get married and I feel like I’m loosing out . But marriage is not all there is and I have come really far in life. I hope for the best for you and everyone reading this!
Keep asking, keep hoping, don't give up asking and He will never give up on you! :)
I promise you marriage is not everything ! I used to think that before I got married. I remember always thinking about it and always wanting to get married. But now when I am married I think that it gets romanticized in society , it’s not Quite what i expected , and your partner can’t make you happy if you aren’t whole yourself first.
I would have worked on me a little more before i got married. My inner self and heal my wounds and get closer to Allah swt ❤️🥰
One should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
Your journey is a true example of how people can flourish through even the most difficult life hurdles if they have a strong support network in their family. So inspiring.
Hamdella, I think the most important thing is that YOU want to get out of the difficulty. Everything else can help, but you will always be your greatest influencer.
@@ZahraaBerro totally agree 😊
Everyone has a story and it doesn't matter whether you show it to others or choose to keep it to yourself. Were all valuable
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From indonesia 😊
You like cadar ?
Asalaam alaykum. I am a father with daughters around your age. I came across your channel this am and started listening to your story. Alghamdullilaah you have grown by life’s challenges that was thrown at you. You have learnt what others take years and I mean years to learn. May Allah always grant you barakah, gheir and abundance of Rizq. Sharing this with people firm of Rizq. They learn from you.Don’t ever lose yourself from Allah’s path he put you on. May Allah always keep you on the road of siraatul mustakeem and mayvprosper and go from strength to strength. In shaa Allah. Ameen. (I shared this with my daughter may she find a good role model in you in shaa Allah) much love 💕 may Allah bless you. Salaams
Wa'alaikumsalam,,,
"your struggles, they define you, they help you, they're what's gonna push you to be where you want to be in life".. Thank you Zahra. I am going through a very bad situation at the moment and your words help me to realize that I am strong enough to going through this
I am from sudy Arabia l want frnd for you
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!*****
Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
***6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped**
7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men.
***8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.****
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
I love how you keep saying "This isn't the best thing for me right NOW" it's so brilliant Subhanallah. It's so easy to get discouraged from something you're passionate about after you've hit a rough patch. It's fine to take a step back from things until you have the resources to take it up again. And it's so important to take all the lessons you can from the process of getting to that point again and learn from them.
Just realized that the hardship we go through is all we need to be ready for the next stage of our lives! I no longer runaway from my problems ! Thanks for sharing
No doubt 🥺
It’s “realized” its the better way to spell
You are such an inspiration, ma sha Allah! I am a revert going thru a divorce and living back home with my parents with my 1 year old. Working 30 hours weekly lol. I feel so stuck here 😔 (Parents aren’t Muslim and not the ideal environment to raise my son). Hearing your story gives me hope and motivation that I can become successful. Thank you for taking the time to share ❤️
Your days will get better. Just focus on yourself, how you can grow and make an independent living for you and your son. Praying for you mama. You will be just okay ❤
I’ve been in a similar situation.
Don’t feel stuck, Allah’s help will come and it will come in ways you would’ve never expected. Just pray to Him and trust in His plan 💕 InshaAllah all the best for you sis
May Allah make things easy for you sister ❤️
Allah knows your struggles pray to him and he’ll see you through. The struggles are the things that will make you a better person if we don’t struggle we will never know what we are capable of. Divorce is very tough but Allah knows your situation and what’s better for you. May Allah replace what you had with something better and may Allah show your parents the path of success.
Hang in there!!!! Sending love from a sister!!!!!
There comes a time when you have to find the strength to save yourself. You have to decide you’re worth more than your pain. You’re stronger than your trauma. You’re braver than what’s destroying you. No one can make that decision for you, you have to make it yourself.
I can relate to most of what you've been through, did drop-shipping and it failed, tried doing business and also failed and later on got divorced...Was unemployed and broke for a while but Alhamdulilah i got a stable job, focusing on self-improvement and growth. Still healing and becoming a better muslim.
Honestly Zahraa, I don't know you personally but I am so proud of you. This is so inspirational.
Thank you habibti ❤
Even though am a guy, I can definitely relate to you and your struggles. I’m glad you came out stronger.
I appreciate that, truly.
"If this is gonna take me away from you
take it away from me
and if this is gonna bring me closer to you
then keep it for me"
❤️it shows your level of faith in Allah ❤️❤️
I am a single mum of two and have been through alot and am telling you I needed this .It was under recommendations and I can say it's worthy it.Love you sister for sharing this it has helped me so much 💕.I know things are about to get better for me 💪🤗.
Blessings sister.
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!*****
Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
************6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped*************
7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men.
8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
You should have thought before marrying to a muslims. 2 such cases Benazir Hina and Hina Parween are on channel of AWAZ E KHAWATEEN. To carry on a relationship,m is a matter of one's culture and I am judging that muslims men have absolutely no respect for relationship and when wife gets pregnant, they begin to roam around other ladies. They can not control themselves during wife pregnancy
All love to you, as a older, in my 40's single mother, raising my children totally alone. Going for my masters in psychology alone I understand. Wish you the best such wonderful culture you have. All blessing to you and your family.
Hello Anna
Yesterday, I had my GCSE exam ( it’s basically a Cambridge exam that you give in year 11 in England,Pakistan and just other countries that follow the Cambridge education system) It was an additional mathematics exam like AP math, calculus basically. Mine really didn’t go so well while everyone else said theirs went really well and I felt so incredibly upset because my goal is to go to this university in Canada but with a bad grade in an exam I wasn’t sure if I could. Then when I was scrolling RUclips I came across your video and I’m genuinely so motivated and calm now. Allah really works out a way for everyone and puts them through trial. Success doesn’t always come first, maybe this was a lesson for me to have worked harder. This video kind of gave me a broad perspective and opened my eyes a little.While everyone is going/ has gone through struggles like you have they come out with a positive outcome and they thank God for their difficulties. Whereas for me I just gave a high school exam that will add up to my transcript, but it’s not the end of the world. Maybe I do well or whatever happens will be for a reason!
Exactly how you worded it, success doesn't come from the first try. I promise if you keep on trying, you will see the results you yearn for ❤ Allah bless
@@ZahraaBerro Allah bless you too❤️
This popped up and I clicked on it because it sounded like my struggles as well. And I really needed to hear this! It resonated with me and made me realize that I’m not the only one and there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing ❤️may Allah bless you and your family always. “Execution is always respected” loved that!
Not a Muslim, but I'm an entrepreneur at heart and a personal development junkie, and this made me feel spoken to. Thank you! Would take business advice from you any day.
Asaalamu alykum wa rahmatullah wa barakahtahu!
This takes a lot of courage to share such personal details of your life. May Allah heal you & replace what you’ve lost with so much better.
I was also raised in a single parent household & alhumdullilah I turned out to be fine. You’re an awesome mom Allahumabarik.
Remember when Allah loves His slave, He tests them. & Wallahi Allah loves you a ton.
Stay strong, Allah is always with you ( & SO ARE WE!)🤲🏼
SQ
Ameen
Salam! Brother
Really appreciate you for the timesaquare taraweeh!Masha Allah a great event
It's amazing to see that living in a society filled with people who love to get away from religion, you have held on to the rope of Allah and are grateful for it. May Allah grant us all the capability to hold on to our beliefs no matter the tests we go through.
How i came to this channel? Was on bed crying on failures and efforts without any positive results. Was hurt by closest person in life. Was thinking of my ability to take my passion forward! Was doubting if i am doing it right! Subhanallah ! Here is an answer, the motivational video youtube suggested. For sure suggestion is also from Allah . This is not the first time though. Alhamdulillah in sha Allah He is best planner and our support
You’re so inspiring!!!!!!! You chose to “BE YOU”, and “NEVER GAVE UP” that’s why😍😍😍😍😍 I know the video is almost 30 minutes long😂😂 but didn’t knew how it ends so fast. Love yew!! And keep doing you!! ☝🏼😇🤗
aww!! Girl i have no idea, sometimes when I start talking, its hard to stop because I get so passionate 😂 Thanks for supporting me Rinchen ❤❤
Hi beautiful
I have insomnia which kills me and I don't really know if I will have any better days. Please make dua for me I have absolutely no energy left 😢
Try this site: www.duas.org/bedtimedua.htm It might really help you 💖🙏
Magnesium helped me. I had sleeping problems since age 11 up to last year age 35 so it fixed my problems of 25 yrs. Like allergymeds it needs time to build up in the body.
I take every single day but it seems useless. I have got depression and sleep medications as well, but there is no positive result. I feel like I am slowly dying.
@@norali6439 so sorry to hear it. Hopefully in the future your sleep issues will be cure somehow!
Same here. I’ve been thru absolute hell - my mind is hopeless and refuses to believe in anything and my body even refuses to carry myself. I feel dead
its really empowering to see someone so motivated after so many downfalls throughout your life, hats off to your mother and father for raising such a wonderful women.
Amazing. You’ve really worked hard and battled through it. Life isn’t easy but that persistent, the drive and determination to keep trying over and over again pays off in the end. Always have faith. Loved your story so very inspiring. May Allah keep you and your family blessed and all the success. Amazing example to your children. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing! You have inspired me to keep pushing. I am a revert from a small town. Recently divorced with a 2 year old and I am the only Muslim in my family. I want an Islamic life for my son and I and I believe Allah will guide me to make that happen for my son and I Ameen! Keep doing what you are doing. So many of us need examples and just seeing the courage of someone else help tremendously!
you got this. keep striving, may Allah bless you and your Son. AMEEN. lots of hugs and kisses your way
@@prettygirlclub.7719 Thank you ☺️
Omg! I was like low key having the worst day ever I thought I was living the worst life ever! I have been trying so many things with life and everything seemed like it was failing but literally I have watched this video and I am more motivated then ever before!! Thank you for opening my eyes and telling me I can do it!
May god bless you!
I think we often so harsh on ourselves, something's is not for everyone or just not your time yet, as long we counting to growing and learning that should be enough and eventually things will line up insha Allah, thanks for sharing sis ❤
This was so moving... So happy to hear you're in a good place now. I hope this reaches every young Muslim out there. Your unwavering faith and connection to Allah is very inspiring. 🤍
I don’t know you but your video showed up in my feed. I love how strong you are! You’re self made. Failure is honestly just giving up. And you didn’t give up. That’s why you are successful. And you’re right-all the hardships you go through can make you stronger. This inspired me today!😊
السلام علیکم
I am looking for wife
Single divorced widow
I appreciate your honesty and story as a women going through a divorce.
This video really spoke to me. Although everyone's struggles are different, you are right we are given what we can handle. It is hard to recognize that when you are going through hardship but it is important to continue to have faith and grow from all our difficult experiences ❤️❤️❤️Congratulations on creating your own vision and brand!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me 💗💗
@@ZahraaBerro ...
I was crying thinking about my own struggles but damn girl I feel so so so inspired. MashaAllah. It's so true and so so sad that we are still dealing with these kinds of issues in the society or as a muslim community where another woman has to feel this way. May Allah guide us all ameen. ❤️ I hope your brand can be one of the biggest brands in the future in sha allah.
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********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!*****
Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
***6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped**
7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men.
***8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.****
Salam alaikum
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Love love love this ♥️ Muslim or not, I think this goes for women all across the BOARD. I am Jamaican with Jamaican parents from a Christian background. I’m here listening like “Yessss, praise God, praise Allah!!” 🤣 you spoke facts. I appreciate this video and your commitment. I pray all good and all protection continues to surround you. Can’t wait to pave the way with more women like you! Blessings!!
@Wish Princess Charming Was Real I know that’s why I said I was saying “praise Allah”
Yeah you got to work hard to be up there. Literally I'm in my undergrad career, it gets hard and overwhelming and i feel like im all over the place but sometimes i try to remind myself that in order to get where i want to be i have to go through many trials. its like going up a mountain. Thank you for this video
And yes please make more videos like this i feel like im listening to an older sister giving me advice
Okay so i have shopped at Zahraa the label without knowing that YOU are the creator of it!! Omg!!! Your brand is huge maa shaa Allah so happy for you
Thank you so much!! Wow, subhanallah what a small world ❤️
Thank you Zahraa for sharing your story with us!! This video randomly appeared in my feed, sometimes god brings you motivation through unexpected ways. I’m 26 and feel very demotivated to not have achieved what I should have until now but content like yours make me realize its never too late and we just gotta keep hustling. Thank you for such great video and i have also checked your brand’s website, its amazing!!
saaaame 😭
********The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!! Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!*****
Philippians 2,5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
************6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not regart equality with God a thing to be grasped*************
7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant,[3] being born in the likeness of men.
8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
I have not finished this video yet, but girrrrl you are an inspiration! I can't even imagine being a single mom of two, and building a life from square one.
You're an inspiration to me. Thank you for being out there, and for sharing your journey. Much love!!!
She sounds to be good woman with a good heart. I hope everything always finds her well in her life .
Aww this was such an amazing chat. Really felt like it's my older sister speaking to me and giving me heartfelt advice. Please do more videos like this! I benefited so much, mashaAllah!
Thank you Reem, I appreciate your feedback girlie! What kind of videos ?
Loved this video sister. So relatable especially since I also had my first child in 2012 and then got divorced. I am now running my own business. I think you should do more business advice related videos, since you gathered to much experience from trying and learning x
God i really love this girl this is the first time seeing her or watching a video but I love her vibe and I never finish watching divorce videos because they turn me off but her saying her story was so different than the other videos I’ve watched. I’m glad she was able to find her way and be successful and work so hard
this is the first time I come across your channel and girl lemme tell you this video of yours is like therapy , I haven't doubted a single word you said in there , you seem super genuine and honest , even when you spoke of your past experiences you didn't idealize your reaction to any of it cuz failure takes a toll on us no matter how strong we can be . this is really uplifting , I salute your courage , good luck !
This made me start sobbing at work. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I'm on the path of graduating with my bachelors next year. I graduate a year early than my class, but I chose a degree that requires a masters. Although choosing a college degree and career path seems like a mediocre trial one can go through, this issue has made my mental health decline and made me more focused on crying (since I don't know what I'm doing and feel like I wasted my financial aid on a worthless degree) rather than focusing on my classes. I majoring in psych first, realized you need more education so I switched to health science, but realized it also needed further education. I don't want further education, I'm a Muslim woman who wants to be done with school and focus on financial growth since I come from a not so financially stable family. People tell me "do what you're passionate about", but I literally have no passion. All I think about is salary and the time it'll take me in college. I don't really like anything in any field to do what my "passion" is. I feel like if I change to anything will set me back, but is it really worth it if I stitch to something I'm still not sure of? I want to focus on my deen and don't want to waste my time nor do I want to take out loans and go into debt. I have felt so helpless and anytime I research I hit dead ends and break down again. I think the trial is not what I will do in college/degree, I think the trial is how much sabr will I have with the unknown. I've lost a lot of hope in many things in my life, and feel so lost and don't have a sense of direction. Thank you for sharing your experience it really means a lot. If anyone has advice leave it down below:)
Thank you Zahra! This is so inspired me and made me no longer feel like a failure in education or career. Tbh, I only graduated from high school and didn't go to college bcs of one thing. It was really hard, but I believe it was the best decision I made and I ended up taking a makeup and fashion design course with a short time, working all day at the computer store but it didn't last long 5 months later I decided to quit my job for one thing and now Alhamdulillah I have fashion hijab business and as makeup artist. Of all that has happened in my life, I've learned that success doesn't have to come at the beginning but at the right time, bcs " But they plan, Allah plans. Surely, Allah is the best planners. " ( Quran 8 : 30 ) 💕💕
Please mention your fashion hijab . I don't personally wear them, yes my brother converted to Islam so via him I have exposure to the culture.
Such a motivational story I am going through a bad marriage even though I am working now but don’t have that courage to get divorced thinking how will I survive alone with my son ...ur struggle gave me a hope that I can do it
Do what ever think is good for your life in here and after.
Stay strong.
@@mycanadianlife1608 no . No mother would want to leave her child.
@@mycanadianlife1608 no…
@@mycanadianlife1608 What horrible advice! @Touqeer Sana, please don't listen to this person. You don't have to stay in a bad marriage and you don't have to give up custody of your child. Please seek counseling and find a way to live your life.
Thank you for sharing your life. It just shows how raw life is. These days with social media in place everything looks so perfect we forget to realise success comes with so many hurdles, tears, broken relationships, discrimination, sleepless nights and the list could just go on! Btw I love ur accent 💓wishing you a blessed and successful life i’A
I loved this. As a young woman in her 20's, this really helps guide me and remind me that where I am now, is not where I am meant to be just yet. You gave me some hope to push through my struggles, alhamdulilah. Thank you for the chat sis. May Allah reward you and protect you and your family. Ameen!
Thankyou for this real and honest video, the title is refreshing for the viewer who is living in reality vs Instagram, glamorous filter. Im 33 and never got to finish uni in my 20's. It was consistent domino effects with me whenever I've tried to be successful and progress in life. I am now learning to just accept my fate and take each day as it comes.
Inspirational!! Your sincerity shines through the video and catches ppls attention through and through! You go girl! So proud of you!
You are such an inspiring woman! I love how honest, courageous and persevering you are!! Your kids are so lucky to have you!!! ❤️ Keep it up giiiirl you're rocking it in every single way 🥰
You are so kind walla! I appreciate you 🥺
Thank you for sharing your story. I have a similar story, divorced twice and single parent. And I actually was looking to see if anyone else out there with same situation, this is first video of its kind. Thank you for letting me know We are not alone. We should support on another not mock (no matter how many children or divorces you have) ❤️
May we always please Allah tallah and have him watch over us
Agreed. Im here to share that people like us exist. I won't hide it, I am not ashamed of whats happened. My journey taught me so much. praying for you 💗
Hi I just discovered your channel and I want to say that you're such an amazing role model for not only Muslim women and single mothers but also for men and women going through tough times. I know you're a hustler and will achieve much more success in the future. Do always stay gracious with your prayers so that you're strong and protected from unnecessary jealousy and hate. Thank you for sharing your story!
Everything good and bad that you’re experiencing is for your own good and developing your character. Be grateful and be compassionate with yourself❤️
Your perseverance is admirable and your journey through it all is truly inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story! 🥰♥♥♥
Zahraa sister thank you so so much for talking so openly about everything. Everyone goes through different hardships and gets successful - if they are meant to be - in different ways. But still, your story inspired me a lot and gave me the motivation that I needed. I rethink some of my plans again and am eager to find out what Allah has planned for me🥺 May Allah make you, your loved ones and everyone who is part of ummati muhammad saw. successful in this and in the next world 🥺
She is so good ...oh my god
I'm literally impressed by your story, inspired and happy for your success.
Thank you Marjan ❤
You're honestly such a huge inspiration. I don't think you quite realise how much of an impact your story has to young people (since we all face different types of hardships at different times in our life) but I just have this huge urge to tell how grateful I am to you for sharing your story. Your resilience and optimism is just so admirable and the fact you didn't turn away from Allah (SWT) really speaks volumes on your faith and trust in God. Keep it up girl, your actually the wonderful role model I've been looking for, thank you !! ❤
This quaran verse allows sex with prepubescent girls according to Muhammad Hijab, here is the kink to his RUclips video
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Your story if very inspiring! You are a great role model to your kids and to other women. Ignore other people's negative remarks or double standards. You have worked hard and you deserve to be happy!
This is my first time here and the fact that I am relating to everything she's been through makes me wanna cry and the same time smile
May Allah make it easy for all of us🙏
Impressive story about vision and determination. Blessings going forward. Your name which means “radiance” has been appropriately chosen for you!
Good on you sis. So many sisters are in a similar predicament and I feel we must start looking closer to the men we are raising
Yes, culture stupidity, boy's are raised like kings and the females are their servants, when will people bring up kids with equality? My boy's do what my daughter's do, ladies never marry mummy's boys or only son or child!!!
We need to take a closer look at the entitled women we are raising
I just fell upon this video by chance and I was touched by your story. We are always going through hard times but sometimes you feel like your the only one. We don’t realize that there are many people out there going through the same situation, so thanks for shedding light on your story and motivating women to get up and be confident to make it on their own. I don’t know who you are but after watching this video I feel like I’ve known you for years.☺️
Good luck in all your endeavours
I hope I can muster the courage to do the same in my life 😬
Related to your story so much, married and had a baby young, moved from Massachusetts to California with just my husband while i was heavily pregnant and had my daughter in California and life was just terribly depressing for me no matter what others tried, was only happy and left once i had my baby honestly. Went to live with my mom when i got back home and just with in the last year was able to get a place for my daughter and I and life’s just been moving forward. I appreciate you’re story so much. I am ready for the better days to pour over me the way they have for you. Blessings, you’re an inspiration
Just found your channel. And honestly just wanna simply say, thank you. Sometimes all we need is to hear those words from someone else. Much love 💗
You're right, just having someone to relate to. I never had that when I went through this 🥺 But hamdellah, things happen for a reason. Much love always ❤
I truly loved this video, there’s so much there Mashallah you have so much confidence now. I feel like so many girls can learn from you lessons, mindset everything. Myself I’m 20 years old and just trying to hustle too but not really knowing my direction and feeling pulled in many directions by others… marriage, this route that etc. I would love to know more about your hustle and how to get started - networking, how you put yourself out there, tips, what exactly did you do? Would be so helpful lots of love, may Allah shower you with even more blessings ♥️
I just liked seeing the end result. Your success after hardships. That we can make it. And also the fact that it takes a lot for us to be transparent so I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability... I guess most importantly we must accept that not everything is in our control and staying focused on our goals and determined and not giving up is sometimes the choice to make
I randomly came accross your channel this morning and im so glad i did. The words that you are saying and your motivation has totally remotivated me to push through any difficulties in my life. Sending you hugs from the UK london xxx You go girl 🥰 #a new subscriber
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This popped up on my suggestions and I quickly clicked on it. I watched the entire video from start to finish. It made me cry, it made me smile and it made me cheer for you. Masha'Allah you are so strong, so encouraging, and such an inspiration to so many women and I don't even think you know that. I'm going through an extremely difficult time in my marriage, I know it's very toxic, unhealthy and I have so many things holding me back from just getting up and leaving and never looking back. Listening to you getting your life on track after everything like divorce and failing at your businesses gives me the the hope and motivation to Insha'Allah make the right choices for myself so that I can not continue putting myself through unnecessary pain. So I can take back my life and be at the healthy and happy point that I was once in.
Subhan’Allah. You come up in my suggestion and I really needed to hear this! Can’t wait for more videos sis x
Strong woman Subhanallah, I love how honest and inspiring your speech is Allahuma barik. This is a powerful message and thank you for it🥺❤️ May Allah shower more blessings and preserve your happiness. You truly deserve the best❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Naimah 💖
Thanks for sharing your story. I commend you for walking away and telling yourself you deserve better. I’m 28 and haven’t married and I’m happy to be alone.
As someone who's a Christian, I really, like really, love following ladies such as yourself who are social media'esque but yet still faithful and rooted in your Islamic faith. It's so beautiful. 🙏🏾❣️ And I love your content, and appreciate you being this open and true about your journey. Thank you Z!😘 May you and your family continue to thrive and grow and receive all of Allah's blessings. ❤️❤️
I love the way you talk about your story and faith.. amazing and so raw. Thank you for sharing your story! I definitely want to support fellow Muslim women!
thank you for being so vulnerable and inspiring!!🌼🌼🌼
zahraa, your story was very beautiful! the fact that you didn't give up is amazing. you are such an amazing women. may Allah guide you in the right path. 💛 sending much much love to you!! have a great day. 💛
I can relate to you a lot….being divorced twice myself…having to raise a kid on my own n not to forget how judge mental society can get especially for a woman
Really proud of you, currently I am at the worst phase of my life experiencing tons of failure at the age of 23 and thought of giving up but your video really motivated me to keep hustling and try all the possible way out until you make it.
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I really appreciate your channel. Amidst all these perfect lives, one has got the guts to actually share how awful she has been thru and that it is not so unique. That's true women empowerment right there. I'm inspired by how you started over again and again. I can relate to that thing you said about execution. The only thing that I would say though is that I get that same tense feeling I get from entrepreneurs. The thing they always talk about, ''hustling day and night'' which to me is not a good concept to keep promoting. We all know the difficulty one goes thru in running a business or even in improving one's self. It's a lot of discipline and hard work. But to me, that is somehow a form making it appear that that is the ''standard'' and ''only'' way of doing things if you want to be more successful or if you want results. When in fact studies show that people who tend to have a more holistic life and is in have a positive and healthy mental state, are more productive than the one that is stressed out. There is value in being patient with yourself and organically growing along the way.
I feel like I just got knew friend. I'm so excited to meet you and be inspired by you. We have great similarities. Mom of four early thirties Muslim living in America. I have been through quite too that at this point in my life and ready to change and do something great for myself. I love your confidence and thank you for sharing your story.
This was so inspiring, thank you for sharing Zahraa!! May Allah bless you and your family ✨💗
Thank you Maheen , same for you iA ❤
This was really inspirational. I've been following you on Instagram for a while now but I'm happy to hear more of your story. May Allah continue to bless, guide, and protect you and your family.
Im here after your post about being a single mom and having an empty iftaar table. I felt that. Although I am not a single mom, last year’s ramadan and eids were so difficult for me. I’ve had 2 missed ramadans from my husband and that was okay but last year I felt so lonely. He was away while I had my first child to take care of business and he spent it with his family, brothers, sisters in law and their kids while I was here by myself all alone struggling to even have the mood to do anything. But this year we are together. But i still feel a sense of emptiness maybe because I see my in laws overseas gathering and going out and spending holidays with eachother when I was there I didn’t really see them.
Aww girl i’ve been through divorce too and i know how difficult it is. You are an inspiration and may Allah make things easy for you ahead Ameen
We are all here for each other 🥺❤️ Stay blessed babe
Everyone has their own struggles and I appreciate you for sharing your story.
The comments, however, are confusing me. I really hope you hijabi influencer girls don't want to influence young girls to "normalize divorce" as many "liberal" women often do...
I've seen modern women divorcing men for the most basic of matters. He didn't want a picnic day every two weeks? Divorced. He wanted his kids in a different school than she did. Divorced. He wanted to train his daughter to cover her hair from the age of six. Divorced. I can go on and on about this.
Divorce isn't a good thing. It's simply a hard decision that becomes inevitable sometimes, but it is severely disliked by Allah so please don't approach a marriage with divorce as your side option.
One last thing, "independence" isn't as glamorous as the west makes it seem. Children aren't meant to be raised by a single parent. But of course, there are times when it cannot be helped.
Kudos to you for actually managing to pull it together.
divorce being disliked is a weak hadith
@@alphafish4756 even if that is to be believed, looking upon the life of the prophet S.A.W himself, we find that he always saw divorce as the extreme last resort for a couple. Zaid R.A and Zainab R.A were incompatible from the start with Zainab's decent being from a wealthier, nobler family. They were miserable together and Zaid kept asking the prophet's S.A.W permission yet the prophet S.A.W kept advising him to try and patch things up. Moreover, the 3 divorce system explicitly mentioned in the Quran is also proof of how the third and actual divorce, upon which your spouse is not yours anymore, is kept at a large distance of over a month (I think) from the first time a man expresses his wish to divorce his wife. It's a long process in Islam, the length of it serving the purpose that if, within the span of the 40 or so days, there is even a slight chance of reconciliation, the couple can still mend the relationship.
@@zunaslogic4128 Yes obviously I agree with this no one in their right mind would do first thing as divorce, we dont know what their marriage was like to take this final step.
If I could like this video 10 times I would ❤️❤️
It’s amazing to see how strong you are and regardless of the trails you’re still standing strong.. this motivated me so much to push myself harder even through the hard times.. thank you for the story and may allah protect you and give you more happiness 💕
Maha, I felt the love ten times wallahi! Thanks for being so amazing 😍
I came across this video at a really critical part of life when I wasn't sure if i can do this on my own as a single parent. think I'm more courageous now to try after watching this. Thank you
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I am glad that I found your channel. You are soooo inspirational! I hope you continue to inspire women across the globe! I just checked out your website and it is awesome!
My favourite novel ✨✨
Thank you for sharing this Zahra :)) this is very inspiring and I’m so glad I watched this ❤️