Narcissist Triangulation
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I was sucked into his life by feeling sorry for him, had 2 yr affair, I could see he enjoyed having me in competition with the wife, I stumbled upon narcissist videos, the light bulb went off, I left. I also called him out being a narcissist, he didn't like that at all. I told him, you can no longer use me as a crutch. No contact was the best for finally seeing the manipulation clearly
Notice how YOU take zero responsibility for YOUR choice.
And who is the narc again?
U r not a victim.
Triangle is like the trinity of a narcissist: me, myself and I
Absolutely 💯
Yep they pit you against someone or imaginary person to make you feel less than.
Parents can be Narcissistic Triangulators too. I know one who divides his family so he can be Boss
Spot on!
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My ex best friend was like this. The triangulation techniques are exactly how she’d treat me. Especially making sure I knew she was hanging out with people she just claimed to hate over me. She loved to rub anything she could in my face and deny that she was clearly trying to make me jealous. She wanted me to be jealous of her boyfriends and her friends. Some of them I’m still friends with, we were all screwed over by her at some point, getting triangulated by her without even noticing.
hearing you at the end struck a chord!!!
about the person testing you- he always said it was "constructive critism" so for example:
i'm brand new at making videos. he likes to point out how someone has more subs than me, or loves to tell me when I made a mistake in editing. (did i mention i'm BRAND NEW to making videos??) he also told everyone we were competting for subs when I wasn't even aware of this - narcissists love to use you to make them look good, but they DONT want you to look better than them
Going through this now. Been through this with him before but after this discard it’s the worst one . I am fighting for my freedom mentally and emotionally.
I'm glad to understand that this is a systematic manipulation tool. My ex narc would flirt with bartenders, waitresses, and constantly walk away from me (in a bar/social setting) to talk to other women. I lost my cool the day he placed his beer in an acquaintance's blouse/cleavage, pulled his hands back and said, "look, no hands. The perfect beer holder". And, in case anyone was wondering (LOL), yes, he did DISCARD me a few years later for a new perfect supply, puppet, etc.
Thats so horrible!. Ex husband would do the exact same things. Peace, love and healing to you.
I had a husband that did very similar things.
I was abandoned by him while he flirted with other women.
Mine did just this with me, unknowingly, for the main supply. Now, we're friends while he plays the victim.
My ex did this. Then she & I asked him some shit at the same time. Then he sent us both the same message saying fuck you both. You're ganging up in me lol
These RUclips videos are very educational.
A mutual female friend -
Oh She is so bubbly, I like hanging out with her
Yup. This is exactly what went down when I got discarded. He came back from a 10 day trip in Italy where he was cheating on me the entire time and suddenly had no interest in spending time with me or telling me about his trip. Always had plans with “friends” he claimed. I inflicted a narcissistic injury calling it out and claiming i felt neglected. He raged at me and blamed me for making him feel bad and accused me of being needy. Eventually I figured out they weren’t friends at all. He was going on dates and already had my replacement lined up when I got discarded. He even bragged about being “in demand” and loving the “confidence boost” in his own words. He was a textbook overt grandiose narcissist.
Yeah that is the exact current situation my ex wife pulled
She is "besties" with the new supply and doesn't miss an opportunity to make a point of prioritising him
So predictable 🤮🤢
Wow! Great information and that's what he would say to me until I stood up for myself and said enough is enough!
This video was extremely helpful. I absolutely love the way you read from the text and then expanded upon the scholars' words. Especially, because I have gone through EVERY single word spoken and completely understand myself in relation to the Narc much better now. Thank you!
As always, great information, Ben! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
My ex did this with his ex wife right before I left him, he denied it of course. It’s hurtful, manipulating and downright disgusting.
Great video explains it very well
I ordered this book thanks to ur recommendations and I’m excited to begin reading it. I’m learning a lot just from ur videos on the chapters
I'm sending you all my positive energy and good wishes as you work towards healing and growth
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What is the name of this book ?
Key word manufacturer jealousy or competition
This is exactly what she did with her "..just a friend..." - who, unsurprisingly, became her boyfriend after her reactive abuse, devaluation, and eventual discard of me. I just recently fell for a single short term hoover, but have been no contact now for almost a month. I still hope she's able to someday become self-aware like Ben, but I am certainly not holding my breath, lol. She put herself into therapy for other issues, and I tried to get her to see the things that she does, but she is just not ready to look in the mirror at this juncture. She may never get to that point.
The sad thing is, she is the second N in a row for me, and the previous one was way worse. The prior one was malignant....maybe even dark triad. So I was slow to see the more covert and hidden flags with this one, since my prior experience was so violent and destructive.
I'm a f-ing narc magnet, I swear.
Second narcissist, I lost 4 kilos in 5 months from the anxiety. Was already small, So I became skeletal.
It's a strange thing, thanks, be blessed all in Jesus shalom
Wow...
He complains about female work mates, but they phone & text him all the time. He initiates it my sending a prompting text msg.
He triangulates me with
Work mates
Exes
Females
It s high school vibed
The best way to handle it is to say have the other women, go no contact and don’t play their game correct? Mine did this with my writer, I left his label. Then he robotically said Inlove you. He had me so pissed, I texted my ex husband he was jealous of & said Wanna come over and have sex, and sent the text to the malignant narcissist. I also told him no when he wanted to stay friends, and wrote a song unmasking him, oh yeah, and told him he has what Ted Bundy has. Mess with me dickhead Narc. Plus, Sony executives are after him for lying about having their distribution. I’m a very loving, giving person, but do feel I’m a Super Empath who got narcissistic at him. Told him to get braces, a wig, and that he sucked in bed too. Bet that hurt. His labels getting destroyed and I think he’s obsessed with me because he still posts at me, and I think is many fake profiles reaching out, I can tell know how, I told myself yesterday if this new model guy who’s profile started in Oct asks if I still love & miss my husband it’s him, guess what it asked?? He was always jealous of my husband.
OMG, that's how I met my ex. Disgusting!
Oh my son has invited me to his Mums birthday, but you are not invited.
Same here. I was never invited though we were already living together.
He comments on females we know ie -
One mutual friend -
Do you think she has lost weight ?
Do you think she had a boob job ?
How old do you think she is ?