(This is going to sound like a dumb question.) But how can I be a good man if I'm not even sure about what it truly means to be a good man? I still feel like there's a lot of things I don't know.
@@lauriex8832Not OP, but my take on that is, if you're taking up time arguing what a good man should be then you already have a grasp of what it entails to be a good man. So instead of talking about it, BE it. Similarly, after watching a few videos on self-improvement you'd already have the basic tools and a good idea of what to do, so instead of falling into the procrastination trap of watching the videos and accumulating the theorical knowledge, take action and do it! (saying that as someone who's fallen into that trap). One could even argue that, depending on what you want to improve, you already kinda know what to do even without watching the videos. And watching the videos is a guilt free way of delaying action. Cause you've convinced yourself that you need to learn this or that before taking action.
@@lauriex8832 it's not a dumb question, I'm glad you asked it! The reply that @littlemisshowei gave is accurate and it's exactly what I would reply too 😁
I really needed this, I've been just addicted to youtube videos because i think it'll give me knowledge about improving my life but i already do know what i should do i just dont do it... this kind of consistent self awareness is what i and many people need. thank you for creating :)
It's common to experience setbacks, especially when we start seeing some progress and then return to old habits. The important thing is recognizing the pattern and understanding what led to it. What do you think is the key factor that caused you to fall back into those old ways? Could it be that the results you saw were not the kind that truly resonated with you or brought lasting change?
@@Zoydotheman made me less anxious and can talk with anyone without feeling scared, i have a couple business ideas aswell
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You just red my mind. That's what I'm talking about. This is also an addiction. Speaking a lot about improving and letting things go, but actually staying as a consumer of self improvement. People need to LIVE REAL LIFE AND QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA. 💯
Awesome video man, I totally agree with you. Most of those videos are just a dopamine hit and nothing else. I stopped watching those videos and I was recently shocked when I found a "banned" ebook on Forbidden Pages. I was rly depressed and procrastinated so much, but picking up this book and actually applying the knowledge helped me out a lot.
i was also trapped in information overloading, i was reading so many self improvement books , watching self development videos that came on my feed, then i realize that i have been just increasing my knowledge but i am not executing it, if you are getting knowledge but u are not taking actions then that knowledge goes in vain, i hope this video reaches out to everyone who is facing the problem of information overloading, thanks for this video people need it.
Few days ago I've realized that there's no right answer how to live a life .I was stuck in the loop,searching the for the seemingly"perfect "answer, not realizing that it is already there.We all know what's best for us,we are just lenient to take action.
exactly what i need to hear at this very moment. i took months repeatedly watching 'how to start a youtube channel' but i never started. because by watching it, it gives me a sense of... yea i can watch more of these and feel 'accomplished' when in fact, i have done nothing. just before i clicked on your video i told myself it's time to stop and not watch any of 'how to start a youtube channel' kind of video because i NEED TO START RIGHT NOW!
This video really does have an excellent point: taking action is the most important part Same sh*t, different day. Don’t want the same sh*t? Do something different.
"Just do something different " Bro I have school, homework, study, sleep, eat, extracurriculars every week and these things can get extremely repetitive. Especially because I'm not in college so I can't just "go to a cafe" or any public place without my parent's permission. 😭😔🤚
@@snowy_days333 this is me as well, I don't really know what to do to improve. honestly i'm just waiting for summer break to come so i can focus on myself
Good point. I find myself watching self improvement videos, making to-do lists and plans, but then feeling like thats enough. and i dont really spend the actual time on it. its just mental masturbation, it becomes a form of procrastination or a form of entertainment. im trying so hard to really live that life with consistency but damn...
Damn, that's what I was looking for! It feels so good to make plans and being like: yeah I am going to research and looks for this and do this bam bam etc " and feeling the excitement and motivation but yeah...that's it. Not doing it and just feeling the feeling day by day. It's so exhausting! Like wtf I want actually DO IT and feeling the change and stuff. Everytime it's the same!
It means u lack discipline my friend.....ur not ready to put in the work ......to take the first step....or it might even be fear of failure...most of us Neva get to start something because of the fear of failure....@@cj_jc00x
I don't usually comment on videos but to me your video was a confirmation of what I've been doing recently after years of therapy and watching these self-improvement videos. I've finally started taking action after gaining the knowledge I needed to start. And it's the best I've been in a long while. It may sound silly and simple but actually doing things makes me feel much better afterwards. I've learned a lot and now it's time to take action! Prepare yourself and go! This is your sign to act! Life keeps going and you deserve to enjoy it. Good luck everyone, you can do this! 🎉❤
I never knew people had this problem. It took me one motivational video to just start working out, eating well and pursuing my dreams. I just watch those videos daily to see if theres anything new to learn. But its nice that you are posting this for people that do struggle with these issues!
God bless you man. I was addicted to watching "how to study" videos instead of actually working on school assignments. I was also overthinking learning a lot. I just had a great wake-up call thanks to you. You are right, the knowledge is within me all along, I will get cracking starting today. Thx for sharing!
I just started studying(more like getting my work done) every day from 4 to 6pm no excuses, but idk how to actually study like learn things thats the reason im so addicted to these types of videos
@@eugeemz I think as long as you're getting stuff done and putting those techniques into practice, you're on the right track!! Just don't watch them without doing any work (like I did) lol
I like watching them because it's company, and it's nice to be around people who want to improve. but for a looong time I did just watch these as a replacement for taking action. this is an important thing to be aware of
I just did twenty, and it was the most productive thing I got out of today's productivity video binge. It's easy as a content creator to wonder if you can cause a positive change in people's lives, so there you have it, you did. I was tired and enjoying a drink after work, so it wouldn't have happened otherwise. I'd also like to add that, just like you said, I'd already seen all the ideas that get floated around. I started the grind years ago, and it worked out for me. Life's gotten tougher again and I've gotten rusty; I lost some of the drive that I had once I saw things getting better across the board, so I'm revisiting this as a content type to remind myself that applying the principles is worth it.
Swear to god no one have ever been so right, i get what you said and its exactly right. Thank you! You changed my life, best self improvement video ever.
Man this was amazing thank you and much needed reminder. Often we get stuck in analysis paralysis thinking we’re making progress by watching more and consuming more when in actuality we’re not. Less watching, more action.
Nice. This is exactly what i’ve been thinking lately. Just by watching videos or planning life is not gonna get better. Only the product of your consumption changes, but you don’t change. That’s why success is built with actions not words or videos
bro 💯💯,i was also addicted to seeking motivation from videos but slowly i started to understand that i was just wasting my time by watching such videos, now I am self motivated
This is amazing , i just opened youtube to watch one of those videos and this video pop up into my screen “stop watching” now i will change my plan and do some real work , Thank u ✨
Thank you for this video. I love the fact that is actually short, so it doesn't actually take much more of our time into that cycle of just watching good content but not taking action. The message feels more genuine due to that.
Damn. This was so so so good. I have had this same thought a bunch of times. It kinda reminds me of the whole "when I have XYZ, then I'll be happy" paradigm, when I've already got everything I need get there. Thanks for the reminder!
Thanks chulde! I really needed this,i have been wasting time on watching self improvement videos a lot,and never actually do anything.i am leaving my bed right now and exercising
Thanks for making this video. Most self-improvement gurus bolster themselves by shaming their audience for not copying whatever behavior they engage in. Everyone should just do what works for them and adjust accordingly.
I was also in the loop for a long time... Not anymore when I realized that a few weeks or months ago! Your video is a very eye opening for so many and a great reminder for me, good job chule💪🍀.
Your message is extremely powerful. Thank you for the video! I think that the majority of people struggle with “always improving” by staying in the comfort zone. This is the actual world we live in - with hundreds of thousands experts on social media, teaching us how to be more: Productive, Happier, Healthier etc. And I think we have separated so much from our own brains and hearts, that we All might need a big pause. In order to reconnect with ourselves. This starts to be more and more noticed - people do really wake up and start asking themselves such questions.
I love this take! I can definitely see where self-improvement videos could hinder somebody's progress. On my channel I try to give advice and tips from my past experience that I feel like could help someone else. Thanks to your video, I'll make sure that I emphasize execution so people don't get caught up in the loop from me. I appreciate your content, keep it up!
I think it really is crucial to know when to get up and take action - it's much easier to bask in your fantasy of self-improvement rather than actually making it. However, after about 9 months of massive improvement (after 1 month of watching these types of videos) I have been going downhill, slowly but surely, and it's terrifying. I think that is because, as you said, the culture we live in is what determines our behaviour. The videos gave me just that - I spent long periods of time looking at and listening to the people I want to be like, so that mindset was normalised. But since I stopped watching them for a really long time, I can sense my will bending to the influence of those who are simply not on the same journey as me, because these are the people I spend my time with (although I have been making some wonderful friends because of my improvement). This is why I think you, whoever is reading this, should really find a harmony between taking advice and taking action, even if you think you already have the knowledge. It can be books or podcasts too, but I feel like it's logical to target more senses at once. It's not like chulde didn't say all this - I'm just emphasising the point, as I feel that this may bring upon my downfall and I don't want anyone else in this position. Of course, we all have different problems, so you must decide for yourself what's the right thing to do. And thanks for reading all this.
Self improvement is putting your life and emotions on the line. Then you feel the burn...and endure...till you get numb to it. Now that, my friends, is Self Improv.
Crazy thing is I started procrastinating when I started watching self improvement videos. Before self improvement I just took action because I knew what I needed to do and now I am addicted to watching these self improvement videos. My life was 100 times more productive when Addison Rae was on my fyp and now I am just a lazy mf with all these self help gurus on my fyp.
U seeking for motivation in the first place is a big step because it means you want to be a better person,after the daily dose of motivation u then find yourself procrastinating it means 3 things... you lack discipline Your scared of failure so you don't want to start U don't have a goal...like something to chase, something to achieve.... your in ur comfort zone... when things start to heat up ... u'll find yourself taking first steps like it's nothing.
I have been waiting for YT to recommend this vid to me. Ever since, I have been stuck in this cycle and don't know wat to do or implement on my current life, but now when my vision is more clear thanks to you, I was able to escape from being hopeless and continue to watch the same topic over and over.
This is where i've been stuck; knowing but not applying it and taking action. Bit by bit ill put effort and stay consistent; and yes ill give myself breaks, reminders and etc. Thank you for making this video, you've gotten a new subscriber. Im here to support as we all navigate our ways through this long-lasting journey of better ourselves. Thank you, Chulde.
I realized all that a couple of days ago but I still sometimes have a hard time not watching a self-improvement video when it comes up on RUclips. Anyway I hope this video goes viral so that a lot of people see it. I think this message is really important so thank you
"I felt frustrated by this mistake. I watched some videos and told myself, 'I will start tomorrow.' However, when tomorrow came, I didn't take any action. I kept procrastinating, telling myself I would start the next day, but the cycle continued with the same result. Then, I came across your videos and told myself, 'Hey, stop that! It's time to take action.' I wouldn't have done it without your video, so thank you so much. You really helped me. ❤️"
I just have to say thank you for this. This made me realize just how long and how much work I put into myself, but don't actually let myself reap the rewards out of it. Thank you for the wake up call.
Many thanks for having the courage to shoot this video and sharing your thoughts. When I'm feeling good, energetic I can make it happen any action which were stated repeatedly in these videos (or how to do it) But when I'm not okay, these videos do not help. I just become a passive consumer and let all of these videos impress me for change, which does not happen that way. Deep inside we all know what is right and what is required from us for us. Many thanks 👏
Of course!!! I know that. Like I’ve said to my own kids, & has become THE watchword in the family, I don’t care what you know, I care what you do, as in “action”.
Wow great video! You're so right I need to stop just studying instead need to start doing more. I think the main reason I keep watching because like you said it's easy and feels like progress. actually applying the knowledge is the hard but rewarding part. Thanks again.
I have developed a bad habit of fear of missing out. I have been watching how to be .... Every now and then and it made my self-esteen very low.. thank you for telling us what actually happens when we doomscroll, we are already self-sufficient, capable of doing purposeful thing in life
Brother 100% relatable 😬😬😬 I am watching this types of videos from a long time and when this type of videos recommend a thought came to my mind that by this trick or information i will change my life after watching this but nothing had happend yes many videos are very usefull and its just due to lack of action Thank you ❤
yes bro very true, and I did your 20 pushups and a few 1 arm PUs, and some squats and calf raises FTW. also trying to eat healthier so step by step I'm actually self improving.
Amazing video! That is exactly what I've been thinking of recently. Too much information on how to live and too little life in my life. Thank you for sharing this video. It's refreshing.
It took me years to understand this. I quit watching self improvement rise and grind videos and started my RUclips channel. I know it's nothing as compared to others but it took so much effort to Just break that cycle and actually do something. I take one step everyday and have a long way to go. Thank you for this video ❤❤
Good job man. I am grateful that usually these are on as the "mindless background noise" while I am tackling a productive task: Exercising, Editing, Reading, Running, Working. This video is a great wake-up call for people who are SOLEY watching these videos though. Gotta Do the Do. Produce, don't only Consume.
Fantastic and succinct via the simplicity and truth. Last month I created a great habit: the 4th item in my Morning Plan is to "Health Bounce" on my Rebounder (mini trampoline) while listening to an Inspirational Message. Typically about 10 minutes. If it's a longer video, I listen in chunks. When I feel like scrolling, I select videos I want to watch then add to a specific RUclips playlist. This approach has really helped with at least one area of my hyperfocus tendency 🎊
Thank you brother, I have been trapped in this loop since a long time and was wondering if I was wasting time on improvement vedios .They were not seriously getting me out. But the way u presented this vedio, it really made my time. Thank you so much. I really want to delete all the social media so badly but can't do it as I require some of them for my my studies. I am serious this time as my exams are up . Not a joke anymore. I came across this channel for the first time and I don't know what kind of concepts you presents but I am subscribing just because this vedio deserves ❤
Those self improvement videos helped me become a better version of my yesterday self, I don't know about others if they apply what they are learning from self improvement videos that they watch.
yea many people just get this wrong about motivation they think that this is a permanent fix it ain't go out there stop watching the internet get hurt and get the heck back up this is called self discipline
I think that these sorts of video are also addictions because the more you watch them the less valuable they are. Obviously it will be much better if you start to take really actions and stop watching this videos because like you have said you already we have the information and useful knowledge so now we can start. I believe it may be easier than we think.
I love this message and it's a good reminder. I've seen a few people discuss the topic of the over-saturation of self--help videos, and you're totally right : DOING the work is the only thing that will progress you forward - not just consuming self-improvement content. BUT - I wouldn't have pulled myself out of such a dark place if it wasn't through self-improvement content / educational content. It's also better than filling your brain with senseless noise / entertainment. To a certain extent - I think you're right. Doing the work is the answer. But at the same time - self improvement content is so incredibly helpful and valuable.
@@chulde Yes - I see your point. BUT... this is me playing devil's advocate / saying another point of view in response: when I was in the dark place, I was "over indulging" on this self-help content because I needed to lift my vibration. My thought process behind it was that if I filled my thoughts with more positivity, that it would eventually boost me to make a change. What are your thoughts on this?
Agreed! Developing personality and charisma takes work but makes such a difference. I used to be anxious in social settings, but with a little humor (thanks Habit10x!), I’ve learned to connect better. Don’t hold back-growth is on the other side of your comfort zone!
This is an amazing video. It’s not even a self improvement channel but this video is better than 75% of the “true” self improvement videos. If you read this comment before actually seeing this video make sure to listen to everything. Enjoy watching.
I think it is okay to watch these videos from time to time to boost your motivation but the sad truth is that we watch them instead of taking steps, you are right. Thanks for the video! Have a good day!
I love those kind of videos just because I love the sights and opinions of others. I don't really need motivation, but to have maybe another perspective on things can help.
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You reminded me of this quote:
"Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."
- Marcus Aurelius
Is this from meditations
@@LiamSQ09 yes, it is 😁 I am currently reading it and I highly recommend
(This is going to sound like a dumb question.)
But how can I be a good man if I'm not even sure about what it truly means to be a good man? I still feel like there's a lot of things I don't know.
@@lauriex8832Not OP, but my take on that is, if you're taking up time arguing what a good man should be then you already have a grasp of what it entails to be a good man. So instead of talking about it, BE it.
Similarly, after watching a few videos on self-improvement you'd already have the basic tools and a good idea of what to do, so instead of falling into the procrastination trap of watching the videos and accumulating the theorical knowledge, take action and do it! (saying that as someone who's fallen into that trap).
One could even argue that, depending on what you want to improve, you already kinda know what to do even without watching the videos. And watching the videos is a guilt free way of delaying action. Cause you've convinced yourself that you need to learn this or that before taking action.
@@lauriex8832 it's not a dumb question, I'm glad you asked it! The reply that @littlemisshowei gave is accurate and it's exactly what I would reply too 😁
"stop watching self improvement videos." -a self improvement video
Lol what I thought. His own is much better
xd
people like you are behind..
At least it was really short.
Lmao 😂😂🤣🤣
I really needed this, I've been just addicted to youtube videos because i think it'll give me knowledge about improving my life but i already do know what i should do i just dont do it... this kind of consistent self awareness is what i and many people need. thank you for creating :)
thanks for listening, I hope you got off your device and started your goals now 😎
This is me ngl
@@chulde I didnt think of this. You made me acknowledge it. Thanks
Me too
I love watching these and reading the comments section. They are always so supportive and positive unlike the comments on my channel😢
Welp, I’m now stuck in a loop of watching videos telling me to stop watching self improvement videos
That means you didn't do what the videos told you to
😂😂😂 same
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@@saurcool027 day break from all social media in general, they all the same
Like
Fact:
Almost everyone who clicked this video wants to stop seeing self improvement videos and start their grind.
THATS A FACT FELLA
Self improvement videos are a gold mine....if ur still not ready and moved after watching one or two then it's you not the video
So true
Correction😂 i wanna watch more but act on it too
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Started self improvement but went back to my old ways as soon as i saw results and now I'm stuck
Ill be helping with this soon. I am just gaining more information about what people are finding hard from comments like yours. So thank you!
Keep repeating the process till you see new results
It's common to experience setbacks, especially when we start seeing some progress and then return to old habits. The important thing is recognizing the pattern and understanding what led to it. What do you think is the key factor that caused you to fall back into those old ways? Could it be that the results you saw were not the kind that truly resonated with you or brought lasting change?
''You only need 20% information to get 80% results''
Please enlightened me more
@@smilecreation8707 enlighten*
@@smilecreation8707 - easy, actually
@@smilecreation8707 the 80/20 principle. Search about it
Can you tell me how? (Genuinely curious)
thats why i recommend to everyone who sees this comment to go and read the book called Escape The Comfort Cage, it has completely changed my life
really hope you are right, i will check it out
Do you know if it exist in French ?« self improvement » books in English are a little difficult for me…
@@Sky-lol849 i really dont know bro
How did it change your life?
@@Zoydotheman made me less anxious and can talk with anyone without feeling scared, i have a couple business ideas aswell
You just red my mind. That's what I'm talking about. This is also an addiction. Speaking a lot about improving and letting things go, but actually staying as a consumer of self improvement. People need to LIVE REAL LIFE AND QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA. 💯
💯 let’s make 2024 the year
@@chulde Amén 🙏🥰
social media is stupid and boring
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Social media brainwashes our brains and consumes our energy and time while we can replace the time with something we can be thankful for in thr future
Awesome video man, I totally agree with you. Most of those videos are just a dopamine hit and nothing else. I stopped watching those videos and I was recently shocked when I found a "banned" ebook on Forbidden Pages. I was rly depressed and procrastinated so much, but picking up this book and actually applying the knowledge helped me out a lot.
What's the book
i was also trapped in information overloading, i was reading so many self improvement books , watching self development videos that came on my feed, then i realize that i have been just increasing my knowledge but i am not executing it, if you are getting knowledge but u are not taking actions then that knowledge goes in vain, i hope this video reaches out to everyone who is facing the problem of information overloading, thanks for this video people need it.
Read books on how to control your mind
knowledge is power but powerless if you've got it and you do not acknowledge it - Royce da 5'9
Perfect👏🏻👏🏻
So true
Your so right @@surtivmak4715
Few days ago I've realized that there's no right answer how to live a life .I was stuck in the loop,searching the for the seemingly"perfect "answer, not realizing that it is already there.We all know what's best for us,we are just lenient to take action.
Conclusion: JUST DO IT
exactly what i need to hear at this very moment. i took months repeatedly watching 'how to start a youtube channel' but i never started. because by watching it, it gives me a sense of... yea i can watch more of these and feel 'accomplished' when in fact, i have done nothing. just before i clicked on your video i told myself it's time to stop and not watch any of 'how to start a youtube channel' kind of video because i NEED TO START RIGHT NOW!
💯True! I've been procrastinating. Just decided to start posting consistently.
This video really does have an excellent point: taking action is the most important part
Same sh*t, different day. Don’t want the same sh*t? Do something different.
if you do nothing, nothing will change.
If you start something, something may change 💯
"Just do something different "
Bro I have school, homework, study, sleep, eat, extracurriculars every week and these things can get extremely repetitive. Especially because I'm not in college so I can't just "go to a cafe" or any public place without my parent's permission. 😭😔🤚
@@snowy_days333 this is me as well, I don't really know what to do to improve. honestly i'm just waiting for summer break to come so i can focus on myself
i can't take action
@@The_Primitivethen you really dont want to change
1 STEP FORWARD AND 3 STEPS BACK in the background just made this video 100x better
Good point. I find myself watching self improvement videos, making to-do lists and plans, but then feeling like thats enough. and i dont really spend the actual time on it. its just mental masturbation, it becomes a form of procrastination or a form of entertainment.
im trying so hard to really live that life with consistency but damn...
Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction...
There’s difference between motivation and discipline
Damn, that's what I was looking for! It feels so good to make plans and being like: yeah I am going to research and looks for this and do this bam bam etc " and feeling the excitement and motivation but yeah...that's it. Not doing it and just feeling the feeling day by day. It's so exhausting! Like wtf I want actually DO IT and feeling the change and stuff. Everytime it's the same!
It means u lack discipline my friend.....ur not ready to put in the work ......to take the first step....or it might even be fear of failure...most of us Neva get to start something because of the fear of failure....@@cj_jc00x
I make a beautiful notion pages for my plans and that's it😂
I don't usually comment on videos but to me your video was a confirmation of what I've been doing recently after years of therapy and watching these self-improvement videos. I've finally started taking action after gaining the knowledge I needed to start. And it's the best I've been in a long while. It may sound silly and simple but actually doing things makes me feel much better afterwards. I've learned a lot and now it's time to take action! Prepare yourself and go! This is your sign to act! Life keeps going and you deserve to enjoy it. Good luck everyone, you can do this! 🎉❤
thanks for your comment! Good on you for taking action 💪
I never knew people had this problem. It took me one motivational video to just start working out, eating well and pursuing my dreams. I just watch those videos daily to see if theres anything new to learn. But its nice that you are posting this for people that do struggle with these issues!
God bless you man. I was addicted to watching "how to study" videos instead of actually working on school assignments. I was also overthinking learning a lot. I just had a great wake-up call thanks to you. You are right, the knowledge is within me all along, I will get cracking starting today. Thx for sharing!
I just started studying(more like getting my work done) every day from 4 to 6pm no excuses, but idk how to actually study like learn things thats the reason im so addicted to these types of videos
@@eugeemz I think as long as you're getting stuff done and putting those techniques into practice, you're on the right track!! Just don't watch them without doing any work (like I did) lol
Learning is motion, doing is action 💪
And remember that what you do makes your identity.
I like watching them because it's company, and it's nice to be around people who want to improve. but for a looong time I did just watch these as a replacement for taking action. this is an important thing to be aware of
The way you articulated those thoughts so easily , respect man !
In honor of the people who did the push ups
for every like: I will do 1 push-up.
🙃
Brb gonna make alt accounts
I just did twenty, and it was the most productive thing I got out of today's productivity video binge. It's easy as a content creator to wonder if you can cause a positive change in people's lives, so there you have it, you did. I was tired and enjoying a drink after work, so it wouldn't have happened otherwise.
I'd also like to add that, just like you said, I'd already seen all the ideas that get floated around. I started the grind years ago, and it worked out for me. Life's gotten tougher again and I've gotten rusty; I lost some of the drive that I had once I saw things getting better across the board, so I'm revisiting this as a content type to remind myself that applying the principles is worth it.
I did the twenty.
It took me nearly a month but I did it.
I did my 20 so I feel validated to like this
We All humans are the same, everyone knows what is wrong and what is right. But the main thing we need is the right Actionnn...
action people, ACTION!
The first self improvement video thats actually lowkey helpful
Slow progress is better than no progress. Keep going and keep being persistent and never give up
Swear to god no one have ever been so right, i get what you said and its exactly right. Thank you! You changed my life, best self improvement video ever.
God bless to all the people who are still fighting to get onto the correct path 💗💗
Think but never do. We have to do something to help ourselves… especially when you’re depress, burnt out, tired and stress. Thank you for this video
Man this was amazing thank you and much needed reminder. Often we get stuck in analysis paralysis thinking we’re making progress by watching more and consuming more when in actuality we’re not. Less watching, more action.
Good and unique way of giving the right direction. Taking action is the key...❤
This will only make me feel miserable, only taking actions help things to become better.
Nice. This is exactly what i’ve been thinking lately. Just by watching videos or planning life is not gonna get better. Only the product of your consumption changes, but you don’t change. That’s why success is built with actions not words or videos
bro 💯💯,i was also addicted to seeking motivation from videos but slowly i started to understand that i was just wasting my time by watching such videos, now I am self motivated
Thank you, i watched defferent self development videos, but nothing change in my life, time is very valuable!!🎉
This is amazing , i just opened youtube to watch one of those videos and this video pop up into my screen “stop watching” now i will change my plan and do some real work , Thank u ✨
Taking action is not taught well enough in social media. I applaud you for it and for motivating me!
Banger video. Binging too much "self improvement" content actually makes me feel ill and gives me analysis paralysis.
Thank you for this video. I love the fact that is actually short, so it doesn't actually take much more of our time into that cycle of just watching good content but not taking action. The message feels more genuine due to that.
Damn. This was so so so good. I have had this same thought a bunch of times. It kinda reminds me of the whole "when I have XYZ, then I'll be happy" paradigm, when I've already got everything I need get there. Thanks for the reminder!
This is my favorite channel. I especially like it when you explain everything so nicely. I wish you a lot of success with the channel and happy life.
Planning to do a 6 month social media break. Who’s with me ?? 💪🏼
Doing a year now!
Mee
Mee
NEXT MONTH WILL BE 6TH
did you do it?
Thanks chulde!
I really needed this,i have been wasting time on watching self improvement videos a lot,and never actually do anything.i am leaving my bed right now and exercising
Thanks for making this video. Most self-improvement gurus bolster themselves by shaming their audience for not copying whatever behavior they engage in. Everyone should just do what works for them and adjust accordingly.
I was also in the loop for a long time... Not anymore when I realized that a few weeks or months ago! Your video is a very eye opening for so many and a great reminder for me, good job chule💪🍀.
Your message is extremely powerful. Thank you for the video! I think that the majority of people struggle with “always improving” by staying in the comfort zone. This is the actual world we live in - with hundreds of thousands experts on social media, teaching us how to be more: Productive, Happier, Healthier etc. And I think we have separated so much from our own brains and hearts, that we All might need a big pause. In order to reconnect with ourselves. This starts to be more and more noticed - people do really wake up and start asking themselves such questions.
I love this take! I can definitely see where self-improvement videos could hinder somebody's progress. On my channel I try to give advice and tips from my past experience that I feel like could help someone else. Thanks to your video, I'll make sure that I emphasize execution so people don't get caught up in the loop from me. I appreciate your content, keep it up!
This man be spitting the facts I needed to hear.
I think it really is crucial to know when to get up and take action - it's much easier to bask in your fantasy of self-improvement rather than actually making it. However, after about 9 months of massive improvement (after 1 month of watching these types of videos) I have been going downhill, slowly but surely, and it's terrifying.
I think that is because, as you said, the culture we live in is what determines our behaviour. The videos gave me just that - I spent long periods of time looking at and listening to the people I want to be like, so that mindset was normalised. But since I stopped watching them for a really long time, I can sense my will bending to the influence of those who are simply not on the same journey as me, because these are the people I spend my time with (although I have been making some wonderful friends because of my improvement).
This is why I think you, whoever is reading this, should really find a harmony between taking advice and taking action, even if you think you already have the knowledge. It can be books or podcasts too, but I feel like it's logical to target more senses at once.
It's not like chulde didn't say all this - I'm just emphasising the point, as I feel that this may bring upon my downfall and I don't want anyone else in this position. Of course, we all have different problems, so you must decide for yourself what's the right thing to do. And thanks for reading all this.
yes exactly! It’s the point of finding a balance
Self improvement is putting your life and emotions on the line. Then you feel the burn...and endure...till you get numb to it. Now that, my friends, is Self Improv.
Crazy thing is I started procrastinating when I started watching self improvement videos. Before self improvement I just took action because I knew what I needed to do and now I am addicted to watching these self improvement videos. My life was 100 times more productive when Addison Rae was on my fyp and now I am just a lazy mf with all these self help gurus on my fyp.
So real😭
U seeking for motivation in the first place is a big step because it means you want to be a better person,after the daily dose of motivation u then find yourself procrastinating it means 3 things...
you lack discipline
Your scared of failure so you don't want to start
U don't have a goal...like something to chase, something to achieve.... your in ur comfort zone... when things start to heat up ... u'll find yourself taking first steps like it's nothing.
I have been waiting for YT to recommend this vid to me. Ever since, I have been stuck in this cycle and don't know wat to do or implement on my current life, but now when my vision is more clear thanks to you, I was able to escape from being hopeless and continue to watch the same topic over and over.
This is where i've been stuck; knowing but not applying it and taking action. Bit by bit ill put effort and stay consistent; and yes ill give myself breaks, reminders and etc. Thank you for making this video, you've gotten a new subscriber. Im here to support as we all navigate our ways through this long-lasting journey of better ourselves. Thank you, Chulde.
I realized all that a couple of days ago but I still sometimes have a hard time not watching a self-improvement video when it comes up on RUclips. Anyway I hope this video goes viral so that a lot of people see it. I think this message is really important so thank you
"I felt frustrated by this mistake. I watched some videos and told myself, 'I will start tomorrow.' However, when tomorrow came, I didn't take any action. I kept procrastinating, telling myself I would start the next day, but the cycle continued with the same result. Then, I came across your videos and told myself, 'Hey, stop that! It's time to take action.' I wouldn't have done it without your video, so thank you so much. You really helped me. ❤️"
I just have to say thank you for this. This made me realize just how long and how much work I put into myself, but don't actually let myself reap the rewards out of it. Thank you for the wake up call.
Many thanks for having the courage to shoot this video and sharing your thoughts. When I'm feeling good, energetic I can make it happen any action which were stated repeatedly in these videos (or how to do it) But when I'm not okay, these videos do not help. I just become a passive consumer and let all of these videos impress me for change, which does not happen that way. Deep inside we all know what is right and what is required from us for us. Many thanks 👏
its so true - plus it keeps pushing the lie that we need to be "fixed"
"If you click on this video I taught you nothing" lmaooo 💀
Made me laugh out lout 😆
You’re definitely right. I always knew what i should do but it was always hard to just do it. But that’s really all it is, to just do it.
This is by far the most real thing out here that beat the awareness outta me. 😂 Thanks for sharing this reminder! Needed it! ❤
Of course!!! I know that. Like I’ve said to my own kids, & has become THE watchword in the family, I don’t care what you know, I care what you do, as in “action”.
Wow great video! You're so right I need to stop just studying instead need to start doing more.
I think the main reason I keep watching because like you said it's easy and feels like progress. actually applying the knowledge is the hard but rewarding part.
Thanks again.
I feel you! It's easy to get carried away. Just set a budget and stick to it, right
Well said. Action folks. But also to know when you’re on the field and when it’s time to rest ❤
I have developed a bad habit of fear of missing out. I have been watching how to be .... Every now and then and it made my self-esteen very low.. thank you for telling us what actually happens when we doomscroll, we are already self-sufficient, capable of doing purposeful thing in life
Brother 100% relatable 😬😬😬 I am watching this types of videos from a long time and when this type of videos recommend a thought came to my mind that by this trick or information i will change my life after watching this but nothing had happend yes many videos are very usefull and its just due to lack of action
Thank you ❤
yes bro very true, and I did your 20 pushups and a few 1 arm PUs, and some squats and calf raises FTW. also trying to eat healthier so step by step I'm actually self improving.
Amazing video! That is exactly what I've been thinking of recently. Too much information on how to live and too little life in my life. Thank you for sharing this video. It's refreshing.
It took me years to understand this. I quit watching self improvement rise and grind videos and started my RUclips channel. I know it's nothing as compared to others but it took so much effort to Just break that cycle and actually do something. I take one step everyday and have a long way to go. Thank you for this video ❤❤
He said,” and give me 20 push ups,” I love him!!!
Good job man. I am grateful that usually these are on as the "mindless background noise" while I am tackling a productive task: Exercising, Editing, Reading, Running, Working.
This video is a great wake-up call for people who are SOLEY watching these videos though. Gotta Do the Do. Produce, don't only Consume.
this video is gonna go viral, I swear
I'm sure that as well
This is by far the most real thing out here that beat the awareness outta me. Thanks for sharing this reminder! Needed it!
Great Video man! Been going through this! Gonna take action now
You got this!
Fantastic and succinct via the simplicity and truth.
Last month I created a great habit: the 4th item in my Morning Plan is to "Health Bounce" on my Rebounder (mini trampoline) while listening to an Inspirational Message. Typically about 10 minutes. If it's a longer video, I listen in chunks.
When I feel like scrolling, I select videos I want to watch then add to a specific RUclips playlist.
This approach has really helped with at least one area of my hyperfocus tendency 🎊
this video is gonna blow up mark my words!
all these improvement videos are actually making me becoming perfectionist and actually I start procrastinate because of it.
Thank you brother, I have been trapped in this loop since a long time and was wondering if I was wasting time on improvement vedios .They were not seriously getting me out. But the way u presented this vedio, it really made my time. Thank you so much. I really want to delete all the social media so badly but can't do it as I require some of them for my my studies. I am serious this time as my exams are up . Not a joke anymore. I came across this channel for the first time and I don't know what kind of concepts you presents but I am subscribing just because this vedio deserves ❤
thank you
Those self improvement videos helped me become a better version of my yesterday self, I don't know about others if they apply what they are learning from self improvement videos that they watch.
Thanks man 20 pushups time lessgo 💪🔥
nr 52 oD
yea many people just get this wrong about motivation they think that this is a permanent fix it ain't go out there stop watching the internet get hurt and get the heck back up this is called self discipline
one like one pull up
I have been going through this issue ..THANKS MAN I REALLY FELT IT ..
I think that these sorts of video are also addictions because the more you watch them the less valuable they are. Obviously it will be much better if you start to take really actions and stop watching this videos because like you have said you already we have the information and useful knowledge so now we can start. I believe it may be easier than we think.
This video now holds a special place in my heart
Did 60 pushups on one go after watching this, tho I normally do 200 each day but not on a go. W video bro!
I love this message and it's a good reminder. I've seen a few people discuss the topic of the over-saturation of self--help videos, and you're totally right : DOING the work is the only thing that will progress you forward - not just consuming self-improvement content. BUT - I wouldn't have pulled myself out of such a dark place if it wasn't through self-improvement content / educational content. It's also better than filling your brain with senseless noise / entertainment.
To a certain extent - I think you're right. Doing the work is the answer.
But at the same time - self improvement content is so incredibly helpful and valuable.
yes! Self improvement videos itself aren’t rlly the issue, only when it’s overindulged
@@chulde Yes - I see your point. BUT... this is me playing devil's advocate / saying another point of view in response: when I was in the dark place, I was "over indulging" on this self-help content because I needed to lift my vibration. My thought process behind it was that if I filled my thoughts with more positivity, that it would eventually boost me to make a change. What are your thoughts on this?
Im only getting in self improvement to be fully focus for my RUclips channel and keeping my relationship heathy I really love her
Well said. Action folks. But also to know when you’re on the field and when it’s time to rest
this video called me out so bad lmao
I will do it, thanks man.
Don't think and watch, Just take Action and do it now. 🎉
Agreed! Developing personality and charisma takes work but makes such a difference. I used to be anxious in social settings, but with a little humor (thanks Habit10x!), I’ve learned to connect better. Don’t hold back-growth is on the other side of your comfort zone!
This is an amazing video. It’s not even a self improvement channel but this video is better than 75% of the “true” self improvement videos. If you read this comment before actually seeing this video make sure to listen to everything. Enjoy watching.
I think it is okay to watch these videos from time to time to boost your motivation but the sad truth is that we watch them instead of taking steps, you are right. Thanks for the video! Have a good day!
1 like = 1 pushup
Woah I'm in trouble
that’s 159 pushes mate
@@yokoyoghurt I think you meant 0
@@Rexlaris explain
@@yokoyoghurt They're likebegging, they won't actually do said push-ups
@@Rexlaris I know 🙁
I love those kind of videos just because I love the sights and opinions of others. I don't really need motivation, but to have maybe another perspective on things can help.