Also, in Bluey season two episode nine bingo goes to Mom who is the son and feels loved and warm and happy and then realizes that it’s time for her parentheses bingo parentheses to go back now and that back is a little broken up pieces of her that she goes inside and then begins to pull back together around herself
Hi everyone! I have a 20-month-old son, and we’re considering enrolling him in daycare for two days a week. However, after watching Dr. Erica Komisar's interview, I'm feeling concerned. My son has always been very sensitive and extremely clingy, and I'm worried about how he’ll handle this transition. I really want to ensure that he’ll be okay. Can anyone provide advice on how to support him through this change? Additionally, how can I find a specialist in my area for an initial assessment before sending him off? Thank you!
What is the age of daycare? Or we should not give childreb to daycare at all? And for babysitter, after being with mother for 2 years, will babysitter be a healthy choice?
my mum got arrested whenn i was 3 and i never seen her again until she had my little brother with some random man, she was addicted to meth andheroin and cocaine, she was a terrible influence for small kids for some reason, like trying to teach us how to smoke and were like 10. Im grown and went to see her, her body jolts around me like shes high and been abused, obvgiously. She was a prostitute and abused whe she was little, and shes so loopy she calls herself a "concubine" 'its in the Bible its in the Bible!'
I ask myself, do my eyes want to smile or is there a fake smile on my face - or no smile at all. If I don’t have joy in my soul, then I feel angry, anxious, and bitter or depressed. I have to stop and check my sleep, stress, vitamins, body pain, loneliness, and read the Bible. Listening to music, juggling, and watching a comedy show like Chanda Pierce can help. My mom was home for several years but she wasn’t close to us emotionally. She was stressed, traumatized by her family situation growing up, and didn’t enjoy our companionship when we were kids. She didn’t get her personal self-worth from being a Mom, she started working outside of the home when we were old enough for me to babysit. She still thinks she had to go to work so she could help pay for things - but everything she paid for was just a replacement for how much we needed a mom who wasn’t afraid to emotionally engage with us. The result wasn’t the worst, but definitely not the best. Even as adults, her kids are still grieving the absent mother feelings and struggling with adulthood.
It means mirroring what they feel and go through. Letting them know they are worthwhile. Noticing how they are special , giving comfort when they need it , encouragement to do scary things… when they are sad you look sad too and say I see you’re feeling really upset but it’s all going to be ok , we’ll find your toy , not saying oh forget it it’s a stupid toy . Recognize what’s important to them
Erica keep up the great work!
Have you watched Bluey Season 2 episode 9? The mum is depicted as the great glowing Sun in Bingo’s dream of the universe.
Also, in Bluey season two episode nine bingo goes to Mom who is the son and feels loved and warm and happy and then realizes that it’s time for her parentheses bingo parentheses to go back now and that back is a little broken up pieces of her that she goes inside and then begins to pull back together around herself
Hi everyone! I have a 20-month-old son, and we’re considering enrolling him in daycare for two days a week. However, after watching Dr. Erica Komisar's interview, I'm feeling concerned. My son has always been very sensitive and extremely clingy, and I'm worried about how he’ll handle this transition.
I really want to ensure that he’ll be okay. Can anyone provide advice on how to support him through this change? Additionally, how can I find a specialist in my area for an initial assessment before sending him off? Thank you!
What is the age of daycare? Or we should not give childreb to daycare at all?
And for babysitter, after being with mother for 2 years, will babysitter be a healthy choice?
my mum got arrested whenn i was 3 and i never seen her again until she had my little brother with some random man, she was addicted to meth andheroin and cocaine, she was a terrible influence for small kids for some reason, like trying to teach us how to smoke and were like 10. Im grown and went to see her, her body jolts around me like shes high and been abused, obvgiously. She was a prostitute and abused whe she was little, and shes so loopy she calls herself a "concubine" 'its in the Bible its in the Bible!'
What does it mean to be there emotionally?
I ask myself, do my eyes want to smile or is there a fake smile on my face - or no smile at all. If I don’t have joy in my soul, then I feel angry, anxious, and bitter or depressed. I have to stop and check my sleep, stress, vitamins, body pain, loneliness, and read the Bible. Listening to music, juggling, and watching a comedy show like Chanda Pierce can help.
My mom was home for several years but she wasn’t close to us emotionally. She was stressed, traumatized by her family situation growing up, and didn’t enjoy our companionship when we were kids. She didn’t get her personal self-worth from being a Mom, she started working outside of the home when we were old enough for me to babysit. She still thinks she had to go to work so she could help pay for things - but everything she paid for was just a replacement for how much we needed a mom who wasn’t afraid to emotionally engage with us. The result wasn’t the worst, but definitely not the best. Even as adults, her kids are still grieving the absent mother feelings and struggling with adulthood.
Thank you for this beautiful answer 🙏🏻♥️ I deeply resonate.
It means mirroring what they feel and go through. Letting them know they are worthwhile. Noticing how they are special , giving comfort when they need it , encouragement to do scary things… when they are sad you look sad too and say I see you’re feeling really upset but it’s all going to be ok , we’ll find your toy , not saying oh forget it it’s a stupid toy . Recognize what’s important to them