When to Introduce Reading and Math to Your Child | Erica Komisar, LCSW
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
- In this world of rampant competition, we seem to be focusing more and more on making sure our kids know their alphabet, basic math, and three languages by age three instead of whether or not they are emotionally secure enough to cope when they eventually find a skill they can't easily acquire or a puzzle they can't solve.
In this video, veteran psychoanalyst and author, Erica Komisar, LCSW tells us how to introduce cognitive development to our children when appropriate and strike the balance between Einstein and empathy.
*Links*
Why the "Cry it Out" Method Harms our kids: bit.ly/2pEmuKz
Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters: amzn.to/2xAq5P6
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your book change my life , I am now staying at home and working from home no phone in front of my baby and I withdrew her application from kindergarten to keep her with me and form the bond
Here because of the Lila Rose episode and I have a 5 year old boy
Same with a 22 year old man, 7 year old boy and 5 year old girl.
Me too
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This is an old video so you may not be monitoring comment anymore but I wanted to thank you. Being There was an earth shattering revelation for me, I had returned to work when my eldest was five months old and felt terrible. When he was seven months I read your book and stopped working, I’m now a full time mother to my children.
I wanted to add my observation to this video, my just turned three year old is quite good with basic numeracy , he can count to 15 and can correctly identify how many objects like trucks he sees but this was totally organic.
When we cook together we count out loud how many measurements we use or if constantly narrate on our walk “oh look, there are two pink birds” this very basic but natural daily interaction is allowing him to develop this skills in a non threatening way.
Were sending our children to a Waldorf school and preschool as we strongly believe that at least until seven, okay and social interaction are the focus but it’s beautiful to see their literacy and numeracy skills develop in their own way with no stress.
Thank you for your work
Sorry for the typos, I have a baby sleeping on me so am trying to write with one hand!
Waldorf does not look at childrens needs, but at following Steiners rules.
If we keep prioritizing productivity instead of human wellbeing, then being a mother becomes almost unattainable for some people. Thank you for this video
Absolutely amazing. Exactly what the world needs.
i love and have watched all of your videos! please make one on when babies should move into their own room.?
My husband and I were just talking about this last night. I love your work!
We need more videos ❤❤
I know this is an older video but as a retired teacher i can tell you how much damage i saw as we added all day preK to public schools during covid with mask. We have feral kids who cannot function in a classroom so we can't teach.
Sorry what did you mean you added what to the curriculum?
Me too. Education needs to be saved from the train wreck that is.
I love all u talk about....we need more advocacy... please come to Africa and teach us these things..
This was helpful, thank you!
Famous murder mystery author, Agatha Christie, never attended school because her mother didn't believe in it. So what happened to her? She spent all of her adult life famous for being the most read author in the world in every language.
Yes, this is really confusing because what are they supposed to do? I have an 8 month old and we read to him and help him to work things because what else are we supposed to do? If we leave them alone, isn't that not supporting their attachment to us? There's only so much cuddles my son wants...
You can and should leave your child to play by themselves from time to time during the day. You don't have to entertain them every awake moment. Let them play while you supervise their safety, so they can see you and know you're there for them. You can also do stuff while they're with you and narrate what you do, for example I'm showing mine that I'm cooking and I'm telling her that this is a cucumber and it's green and I'm cutting it so we can have a salad for lunch, etc. And lastly you can play with them, interact with them, in addition to reading for them from time to time.
You can read to your child ! She is talking about expecting the child to start learning how to read themselves etc.
So it’s not true we should introduce reading to them even at infancy? My health visitor would always tell me to read to my baby and when she reach one year old to read the book and point to her what I am reading
I understand what she means is kids actually read by themselves, not somebody reads for them to listen.
She means from birth to 3 years old? Who would teach their kids reading and maths before age of 3 😢😢😢😢
I taught my kid reading and math at 2. But through play not worksheets. And using schema play. It was all based off send and receive play interactions and following his interests while scaffolding in a bit of learning. The idea you shouldn't teach your kid this stuff I think is more about making them sit down and do cognitive "work" as opposed to play. My kid is 4.5 can read chapter books and does multiplication and division. Above average social skills and self regulations skills for his age.
@@toddlabbe3973 all good, but I dont see why a 4 years old should know multiplication or division at this age like what would it benefit him?
Please share more. My son is able so I’d like to use this opportunity for him to learn though play. Any tips, reading or resources you can link that would be appreciated!