as a man of 39 years, i'd like to share with you two pivotal insights on this subject: 1: attention to detail: listen to the way in which your crush acts, behaves, etc/ you may find out that you don't share the same ethical values and beliefs. if you want a meaningful relationship, the inner person is the one that you'll have to deal with, no matter how externally attractive they may be. 2: be respectful of the other side's feelings: as part of point 1, remember that your original intention is to make your crush happy. that can't be done unless you bear in mind that what makes you happy may not be the same for your intended. the same applies to the most dreaded possibility of all: that the other side is not interested in you. as painful as it is, the best way to get over it is o apply self-control to your feelings: say to yourself: "i want her or him to be happy. i give both of us the freedom to go on with our lives." you don'r want to end up suffering because of someone who dosent want you, right? so be decent about it.
This just made me depressed because my crush is one of my really good friends but he sees me like a sister, and has had a huge crush on one of my other friends for years.
Does being absent really work on a girl who friendzoned you? I mean, what if she thinks like "oh he doesnt care anymore" and all? Also, what if its on a long distance type of friendzone?
Are you ok with continuing in a platonic relationship with your friend or do you want something more? It's up to you to make a choice. And if you ARE destined to be friends, that's not so bad. At least she will still be a part of your life.
these two videos were quite nice. it's cool to see a topic that's been receiving so much ridicule lately be discussed in a respectful, understanding manner.
I generally strongly dislike friendzone videos like these, but I'm glad that you added the little part at the end about when your crush really isn't interested. I've been in the opposite of the friendzone, with someone being interested in being more than friends with me, and believe me, it's not nice. Always when the whole friendzone "issue" appears, it just makes it sound like your crush owes you their love and gratitude, and that being "just" friends is never enough.
Currently in the "told my crush I need some space for Someone who feels the same way" phase, my crush is so awesome she knew what I meant. We still talk just not as much. Thanks WellCast
I have no clue how this is supposed to help someone who's depressed, and more depressed because it seems everyone puts them (Me) in the friendzone. There isn't a single one I know of that hasn't. Which, like I said, winds up making my depression, and therefore lack of confidence. even greater.
I tried to ask out a crush, it didn't work out, trying to ask out another crush, so I watch videos like this to gain confidence, your first two videos are the ones I watched.
Hey Wellcast I do think you should do a follow-up episode on the fact that friendship is equally important because friendzones and stuff is all well and good but if I wasn't into someone and they suddenly stopped treating me like a friend and instead started brushing my arm more frequently I think I'd be a little sad that we're not so... friendsy.
For Males, just plant the seed and be persistent! If you get friend zoned, don't make it into a drama, only females do that! Still talk to her and bug her every now and then, but you will have to have more distance. Talk to other women and focus on your career. She will recognize the difference and seed you planted. At that point it will be much easier if you are still interested.
My problem is actually the reverse situation: how to stay just friends with "male" friends? I like to hang out with them (even if it's just two of us), to talk for a long period of time, to care about them, just like how I act with my girl friends. But how to make them understand that I just want to stay like this and that I don't want to extend our relationship?
My main issue is probably that I get too offended xD I really like someone and they don't like me I get so annoyed, I stop talking too them. its stupid but idk, there's just some people you'll always want more with and it makes me feel like I ain't the man I should be.
I'm bi,and I liked this girl so much.We been friends at first.We both love and share the same thing together.That's when I felt something good on my chest.Love.Yes,love.I had so much people respecting my love for her.We started dating and I sometimes invite her over at my apartment complex(,we both live next door.) to spend the night.So things started to go well by itself.We became friends,sisters,and lovers.
one time I was hanging out with my best guy friend, we have been on and off in the past so yeah but I still got friendzoned -_- and one day we were hanging out and we were just sitting there watching tv and I started saying stuff about when I got put in the hospital for a few weeks over the summer due to anorexia and all of a sudden he just starts making out with me and haha of course I didn't do anything but kiss back anyway when we got done making out he said "my girl" and I was like YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS so I guess we are dating again?? idk
thank you wellcast i wrote all of your tips on a paper and used them...i took me 4 weeks, but i finaly got the girl!! I even took her to a movie like u told me and it worked and we enev found out we actualy have a lot of things in common!!! Soooo.... thank you once again!
Hey Wellcast! Could you maybe do a video on how to be optimistic about your future and having confidence that the right person will come around? And some tips on what to do in the meantime to make yourself a stronger and more self-reliant, so that when that person does come around, that we are capable to maintain our sense of self. Thank you! Lots of love =)
I'm waited to long now he does not like me no more and WE ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER AND I LOVE HIM😤ok now that I got THAT off my chest i need to try to make him KNOW that we are ment to be TOGETHER
Getting friendzoned by the girl you crush on is the worst, but you know what's better? ACTUALLY getting out of the friend zone, and now we're going out with each other, she the BEST 🙏 It was wayyy worth the 1 year, of using these tips and continuing the mission; what can I say? It was all because of you WellCast 👌
Can you please consider making a video about wearing makeup or changing appearances? Like when you would start wearing makeup or when you should get a new hairstyle?
As long as my friend and I have been friends, I've complimented her, when she feels down I sit next to her and pat her on the back, we playfully punch each other time to time we make each other laugh, even if it's about each other. And I'm still in the friendzone, either we're destined to be friends, or she just doesn't know I like her, and I'm too much of a sissy to tell her "I like you" without feeling embarrassed and I've watched the video you suggested in this, should I give up?
Yeah it worked ever since year 3 I had this crush on a year 5 boy and when I started year 6 I bumped into him so I used these tips and guess what turns out he liked me too but was to afraid to say anything
My crush and I are good friends and we get along really well. he recently broke up with his girlfriend and is now depressed. My girlfriend's are telling me I should ask him out because it may make him feel better, but I don't know if it's too soon.
Hmm how can you have a crush on someone you don't even know? Well, you must think they're cute, obviously. But, make an effort to get to know each other so you can better gauge whether they're worth getting flustered over.
PLEASE if you get friendzoned don't drop 'em like they're hot. If they're used to being friends with you and suddenly BAM you're not friends just because they weren't physically attracted to you, it can hurt. I speak from experience.
Hyacinthia Phoenix I'm sure it hurts for females, especially that they can value friendships no matter the gender. This drop in friendship hurts for both people. For men, they feel more pathetic about themselves because it is a constant in-your-face reminder of how they can't attract females. It explains the anger when they finally get the courage to express their feelings and they do not get the response they were hoping for; or just drop all communications to finally move on.
I totally suck at this stuff. I like this guy but rejected me. Then few months later says he likes me. I'm the kind of person who shy so I totally freaked out. So I said friends just because I wouldn't be comfortable with dating help. I don't want this to slip away.
I'm so scared to ask my best friend out😁 I don't think he see's me as more than a friend, and that's what I'm worried about☹ I've watched every Wellcast video on "dating" and "escaping the friend zone". Also "How to ask your crush out". I'm so nervous and I don't know what to do. Everytime I try to talk to Alex about our "relationship", he just gets all clammy and leaves me to sit by myself at lunch. I have deep feelings for Alex but I'm afraid that when I express them, I'll get rejected. HELP ME!!!
U could do some things that the video said was just little flirting and if he's comfortable with it you'll see a change if you don't want to mess up the friendship make a list pros and cons
Mine idea is WAYYYYY better cause I used it in the field for the past 20+ years. FOCUS on becoming a superfriend to the point that you KNOW her faults, passions and sexual preferences, now create an argument and HAVE FUN with it but DON'T CROSS the borderline into PHYSICAL ABUSE!! Tease her, give her a compliment, make fun of her beliefs, apologize sincerely, etc.. This is called PUSH & PULL or the ROLLERCOASTER!! Women unconsciously fall for fluctuating-emotions naturally!! Assholes, Jerks and Punks are GREAT at this cause they ONLY care about themselves and they allow the women to go thru this emotional bounce without a care in the world!! HAVE FUN!!
Hey Wellcast, what if some overly atached friend has a crush on you and you want to tell them that they are being too needy and that you're simply unintrested.
Soooo what if you are both introverts or ambiverts? For example: You are way to shy to even try to flirt and you have a hunch that they also like you, but you know them well enough that you know they would never ask you out. So you are both stuck in a cycle of being to shy to do anything. ???
I don't know if this ties into the fear video or not, but could you guys possibly do something about getting over the fear or anxiety of being in a relationship? There have been many times I shied away from a relationships that could have gone very well because of fear.
I'm NOT in a relationship AT ALL, but this is a request for people that have been proposed to: how do you know if the person is right for you, and if they're not, how do you say no without hurting them?
Hey wellcast I was wondering if you could do a video on how to save money??? i'm really into shopping and stuff so it'd be great to know how to put money aside for more important things.
or, you know, you could just accept that they're not into you rather than feeling entitled to something or just not getting the hint. I've been both sides of this one before, when I was the one being told to just be friends I acted entitled (I was a lot younger then) looking back I am completely ashamed of how I acted, luckily we actually are friends a decade later.
Can you help me ? This guy and me have been friends for several years but I don't think he knows that I like him in a different way . Plus I don't think he likes me but I can't contain it as as more people ask me If I like him , I answer No because I know they will tell Everyone and I will be a laughing stock . I know that were going to the same secondary and my friend all ready has a boyfriend , I just want to let it out so I won't feel pressured anymore . I really do have feelings for him but I'm too shy to say so and he might never be my friend because he will proberly think I'm crazy . What do I do . It would be appreciated .
Why do you care so much about what other people think of your relationship? You shouldn't let other people get to you because you are in charge about how you feel and how you deal with obstacles. You obviously tell him how you feel because this is destroying you. Once you get that off of your chest you can finally learn to move on, no matter what happens.
I've known this guy for like 5 years and I've always had a crush on him and this past school year (7th grade) his friends noticed me and when I go to talk to him or some thing like that his friends are like there's your 'girlfriend' And I don't know if there mocking him or me :(
I like my cousin, but he's 4 years older. we do have a lot in common! I don't know how to tell him that I like without making things awkward if he says no?
My crush regulary friendzoned me by saying i dont,like you in that way i just like you as a friend and now i just slink to a corner to be sad and think about what is wrong with my life and i sneak away to the end of the caffe to eat something.
Man ive been friendzoned only once,(which was this year) and it sucks we were great friends then I had tryed to take it one step further but nope life came in and sucker punched me right in the jaw. Little help
so i have a friend that i liked for quite sometime now and i have been sending signals just like the two videos about escaping friendzone did.. like flirting. joking around. complimenting. we found more common in each other than we tought we did. the touch barrier.. all that stuff. and lately.. that person has been doing the same thing that i did! is it possible that the object of my affection wants me too or was i just reading into it too much?
Hey Wellcast, do you think you can do a video on how to help a parent through diabetes? or just how to manage diabetes type 1 & 2 in general? Thatll help sooo much please. Thank you
could you make as video about how to KEEP your friend in the friend zone please? I have this friend who acts really strange around me;touching me, hugging me, telling jokes, basically flirting etc. How do I let him know that he's like a brother to me? And that I just want to stay friends? Thank you x 😊
well, this will be all hard for me because, im a boy thats about to graduate, and my school is an all boys school. and all day, we study. and study. and study. lunch and breaks are only 20 mins. then, no way to escape school. (the guards are on total lock down). how in the world will i get "attached" to girls? or even just make friends?
I have like my friend a lot since I met him. We have been friends for 10ish months now and he doesn't know I like him. I know that he doesn't like me, but should I still tell him?
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They left out one thing that never fails to get your crush's attention: Hurl a brick through their window.
Lol
Allen Babylon worst way..well to get attention I am an girl bc a boy asked me that she liked a girl that friend zoned her so I'm well...yeah I guess
I mean friend zoned him
@R. Babylon this comment is perfectly delivered
as a man of 39 years, i'd like to share with you two pivotal insights on this subject: 1: attention to detail: listen to the way in which your crush acts, behaves, etc/ you may find out that you don't share the same ethical values and beliefs. if you want a meaningful relationship, the inner person is the one that you'll have to deal with, no matter how externally attractive they may be. 2: be respectful of the other side's feelings: as part of point 1, remember that your original intention is to make your crush happy. that can't be done unless you bear in mind that what makes you happy may not be the same for your intended. the same applies to the most dreaded possibility of all: that the other side is not interested in you. as painful as it is, the best way to get over it is o apply self-control to your feelings: say to yourself: "i want her or him to be happy. i give both of us the freedom to go on with our lives." you don'r want to end up suffering because of someone who dosent want you, right? so be decent about it.
Is almost out of friend zone abis
"wait......FLIRT"
Falls back in
I lowkey flirt with all my friends srsly
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That Sweet Release of Death hehehe me to.
forever alone
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I_am_trash mmm me toooo
If you want your crush to stop seeing you as just a friend, then be like the honey badger and take what you want!
Daniella Olaechea u
So the booty grab is where I've been going wrong...
I do that too. I like grabbing it :) I guess it was wrong
You gotta slap it, not grab it. #ProTip
NightHawk lol
@Cat Music Producer 17 you WHAT?!
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What a sweet drawing style. I am so in love with this little mans
I would always prefer to be friendzoned over being an enemy or not a friend....
I take it as a positive at times...
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YOu sound like Joy from Inside Out.
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This just made me depressed because my crush is one of my really good friends but he sees me like a sister, and has had a huge crush on one of my other friends for years.
Almost the same for me. It makes me feel so sad
0:58 xD "Don't go grabbing someone's booty mindlessly, it's-it's creepy" cx
"Say something" (I'm giving up on you)
Why was I thinking the same?
rIGHT WHEN I WAS THINKING OF THAT I SEE ThIS COMMENT
Does being absent really work on a girl who friendzoned you? I mean, what if she thinks like "oh he doesnt care anymore" and all?
Also, what if its on a long distance type of friendzone?
We will be coming out with an episode on gaining closure very, very soon, for exactly this kind of situation
Are you ok with continuing in a platonic relationship with your friend or do you want something more? It's up to you to make a choice. And if you ARE destined to be friends, that's not so bad. At least she will still be a part of your life.
these two videos were quite nice. it's cool to see a topic that's been receiving so much ridicule lately be discussed in a respectful, understanding manner.
I generally strongly dislike friendzone videos like these, but I'm glad that you added the little part at the end about when your crush really isn't interested. I've been in the opposite of the friendzone, with someone being interested in being more than friends with me, and believe me, it's not nice. Always when the whole friendzone "issue" appears, it just makes it sound like your crush owes you their love and gratitude, and that being "just" friends is never enough.
We feel you! And we have a playlist just for you! Check out the rest of our channel.
We will be coming out with an episode about getting closure very soon!
Currently in the "told my crush I need some space for Someone who feels the same way" phase, my crush is so awesome she knew what I meant. We still talk just not as much. Thanks WellCast
Love your guy's cartoons!
The narrator's voice makes this all the worth while
Is it bad this video got my heart to flutter?
We have a videos on getting out of a creative rut and procrastination that might help you!
I have no clue how this is supposed to help someone who's depressed, and more depressed because it seems everyone puts them (Me) in the friendzone. There isn't a single one I know of that hasn't. Which, like I said, winds up making my depression, and therefore lack of confidence. even greater.
I tried to ask out a crush, it didn't work out, trying to ask out another crush, so I watch videos like this to gain confidence, your first two videos are the ones I watched.
Agreed, so much agreement here. This is why I hate the whole friendzone thing, it undermines friendship and how important it is.
i got rejected so many times...i can`t belive i searched this
you're not alone ;_;
Hey Wellcast I do think you should do a follow-up episode on the fact that friendship is equally important because friendzones and stuff is all well and good but if I wasn't into someone and they suddenly stopped treating me like a friend and instead started brushing my arm more frequently I think I'd be a little sad that we're not so... friendsy.
For Males, just plant the seed and be persistent! If you get friend zoned, don't make it into a drama, only females do that! Still talk to her and bug her every now and then, but you will have to have more distance. Talk to other women and focus on your career. She will recognize the difference and seed you planted. At that point it will be much easier if you are still interested.
Well, today I finally escaped the friend zone!
Haruka Nanase how?????????
i am so in love with this girl's voice.
Would you do me a kindness, sounds a lot like "Would you kindly" from Bioshock
Ask your crush out 101: don't be fat and ugly at the same time, don't act like a jerk, be confident.
You guys have amazing advice, a great narrator and animations, love it!!
God I love your voice, it sounds so sweet and idk...straight to the point and transparent. Very charming voice
My problem is actually the reverse situation: how to stay just friends with "male" friends? I like to hang out with them (even if it's just two of us), to talk for a long period of time, to care about them, just like how I act with my girl friends. But how to make them understand that I just want to stay like this and that I don't want to extend our relationship?
My main issue is probably that I get too offended xD I really like someone and they don't like me I get so annoyed, I stop talking too them. its stupid but idk, there's just some people you'll always want more with and it makes me feel like I ain't the man I should be.
I'll break the touch barrier next year at camp...Tristin lives 5 hours away, but he's a very good friend and I talk to him every day that I can.
I lol'd when the friend threw the heart at the crushes face in a fit of rage.
if she knows so much about love why doesn't she have a boyfriend
It's always the ones who aren't in a relationship.
yep 😑
coach don't play....
I'm bi,and I liked this girl so much.We been friends at first.We both love and share the same thing together.That's when I felt something good on my chest.Love.Yes,love.I had so much people respecting my love for her.We started dating and I sometimes invite her over at my apartment complex(,we both live next door.) to spend the night.So things started to go well by itself.We became friends,sisters,and lovers.
one time I was hanging out with my best guy friend, we have been on and off in the past so yeah but I still got friendzoned -_- and one day we were hanging out and we were just sitting there watching tv and I started saying stuff about when I got put in the hospital for a few weeks over the summer due to anorexia and all of a sudden he just starts making out with me and haha of course I didn't do anything but kiss back anyway when we got done making out he said "my girl" and I was like YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS so I guess we are dating again?? idk
thank you wellcast i wrote all of your tips on a paper and used them...i took me 4 weeks, but i finaly got the girl!!
I even took her to a movie like u told me and it worked and we enev found out we actualy have a lot of things in common!!!
Soooo.... thank you once again!
I wish I would have had this 2 years ago, it would have really helped. My crush liked me...he doesn't like me anymore. I love him and he knows it,
Hey Wellcast! Could you maybe do a video on how to be optimistic about your future and having confidence that the right person will come around? And some tips on what to do in the meantime to make yourself a stronger and more self-reliant, so that when that person does come around, that we are capable to maintain our sense of self. Thank you! Lots of love =)
I'm waited to long now he does not like me no more and WE ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER AND I LOVE HIM😤ok now that I got THAT off my chest i need to try to make him KNOW that we are ment to be TOGETHER
can you make a video about making friends and approching people?
your videos are so great i cant stop watching them thank you :)!
Getting friendzoned by the girl you crush on is the worst, but you know what's better? ACTUALLY getting out of the friend zone, and now we're going out with each other, she the BEST 🙏 It was wayyy worth the 1 year, of using these tips and continuing the mission; what can I say? It was all because of you WellCast 👌
Can you please consider making a video about wearing makeup or changing appearances? Like when you would start wearing makeup or when you should get a new hairstyle?
kate. you're such a great idea collector / advisor,. wish you could upload more helpful and amazing videos. thanks from one of your fan. -vince 😊😊😊
As long as my friend and I have been friends, I've complimented her, when she feels down I sit next to her and pat her on the back, we playfully punch each other time to time we make each other laugh, even if it's about each other. And I'm still in the friendzone, either we're destined to be friends, or she just doesn't know I like her, and I'm too much of a sissy to tell her "I like you" without feeling embarrassed and I've watched the video you suggested in this, should I give up?
Yeah it worked ever since year 3 I had this crush on a year 5 boy and when I started year 6 I bumped into him so I used these tips and guess what turns out he liked me too but was to afraid to say anything
Please do one on how to avoid the 'I hate you zone'! I'm trying not to be overbearing with a certain girl, but I need to know exactly WHAT not to do.
My crush and I are good friends and we get along really well. he recently broke up with his girlfriend and is now depressed. My girlfriend's are telling me I should ask him out because it may make him feel better, but I don't know if it's too soon.
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Can you do one to help someone on the other side of "the friendzone" ie: how to talk someone you think of as a friend to do the same.
This lets play is so useful! I was stuck on the friend zone level for so long! All of my annoying friends! I can finally save the princess!!!!!
my life suddenly changed when my I got friendzoned.
Man where was this 2 years ago
Hmm how can you have a crush on someone you don't even know? Well, you must think they're cute, obviously. But, make an effort to get to know each other so you can better gauge whether they're worth getting flustered over.
I really appreciate that neither of the people in the animations ever have genders attached to them!
why so?
the one on the right looked like a girl a few times....
Fernando J Castro People might get offenden if the one touching the other's butt is male
LOL.
of course the people get offended about everything it's pathetic.
PLEASE if you get friendzoned don't drop 'em like they're hot. If they're used to being friends with you and suddenly BAM you're not friends just because they weren't physically attracted to you, it can hurt. I speak from experience.
Hyacinthia Phoenix I'm sure it hurts for females, especially that they can value friendships no matter the gender. This drop in friendship hurts for both people. For men, they feel more pathetic about themselves because it is a constant in-your-face reminder of how they can't attract females. It explains the anger when they finally get the courage to express their feelings and they do not get the response they were hoping for; or just drop all communications to finally move on.
+Danny Jimenez Strange! I've been rejected and all I felt was self-disappointment. There was no anger the moment I got rejected.
Danny Jimenez Hm I hadn't thought of that...thanks for the insight!
whats a friendzone my sis told me ones but i forgot could someone tell me again
Adeline Garcia for instance, you ask someone out, but they say no because they want to just be your friend. It got dubbed the "friend zone"
So like
What do you do when you're in the long-distance friendzone and don't get to see your crush a lot
Make sure to message them and FaceTime/Skype when you can
I recently asked a boy out that i have fancied for years but he said no and broke my hreat but watching this video helped xx keep up the videos
I totally suck at this stuff. I like this guy but rejected me. Then few months later says he likes me. I'm the kind of person who shy so I totally freaked out. So I said friends just because I wouldn't be comfortable with dating help. I don't want this to slip away.
video ideas:How to get over a crush_-how to tell crush you're over them/just want to be normal friends if u know they dont like u
please come back.
what if nobody wants you to even touch them/hug them, even in a innocent way? :/
hug yourself...
I'm so scared to ask my best friend out😁 I don't think he see's me as more than a friend, and that's what I'm worried about☹ I've watched every Wellcast video on "dating" and "escaping the friend zone". Also "How to ask your crush out". I'm so nervous and I don't know what to do. Everytime I try to talk to Alex about our "relationship", he just gets all clammy and leaves me to sit by myself at lunch. I have deep feelings for Alex but I'm afraid that when I express them, I'll get rejected. HELP ME!!!
Well for starters if you want to admit that you like him do it when know one is around and if he rejects you say if you could still be friends
U could do some things that the video said was just little flirting and if he's comfortable with it you'll see a change if you don't want to mess up the friendship make a list pros and cons
Same zared is like that too we sat together in kendergarden-1st and now I sit alone at the end of the table lonely thinking about him😢😢😢😢😢
Pretend you don't have any feelings.
Then don't.
he gets clammy cuz he likes you too drrr
Mine idea is WAYYYYY better cause I used it in the field for the past 20+ years.
FOCUS on becoming a superfriend to the point that you KNOW her faults, passions and sexual preferences, now create an argument and HAVE FUN with it but DON'T CROSS the borderline into PHYSICAL ABUSE!!
Tease her, give her a compliment, make fun of her beliefs, apologize sincerely, etc..
This is called PUSH & PULL or the ROLLERCOASTER!!
Women unconsciously fall for fluctuating-emotions naturally!!
Assholes, Jerks and Punks are GREAT at this cause they ONLY care about themselves and they allow the women to go thru this emotional bounce without a care in the world!!
HAVE FUN!!
Nati Plays but they get shit done...
This kind of videos actually helped me! Thanks! :'D
i waited 7 years and still waiting
How do you refuse a friend's love declaration without hurting him and still stay friends after?
Hey Wellcast, what if some overly atached friend has a crush on you and you want to tell them that they are being too needy and that you're simply unintrested.
Soooo what if you are both introverts or ambiverts? For example:
You are way to shy to even try to flirt and you have a hunch that they also like you, but you know them well enough that you know they would never ask you out. So you are both stuck in a cycle of being to shy to do anything.
???
I don't know if this ties into the fear video or not, but could you guys possibly do something about getting over the fear or anxiety of being in a relationship? There have been many times I shied away from a relationships that could have gone very well because of fear.
A wild FEDORA appeared.
I'm NOT in a relationship AT ALL, but this is a request for people that have been proposed to: how do you know if the person is right for you, and if they're not, how do you say no without hurting them?
Hey wellcast I was wondering if you could do a video on how to save money??? i'm really into shopping and stuff so it'd be great to know how to put money aside for more important things.
I completely agree. The attitude of the whole friendzone concept is messed up, as if the friendship is just torture if you can't get in their pants.
or, you know, you could just accept that they're not into you rather than feeling entitled to something or just not getting the hint. I've been both sides of this one before, when I was the one being told to just be friends I acted entitled (I was a lot younger then) looking back I am completely ashamed of how I acted, luckily we actually are friends a decade later.
Can you help me ? This guy and me have been friends for several years but I don't think he knows that I like him in a different way . Plus I don't think he likes me but I can't contain it as as more people ask me If I like him , I answer No because I know they will tell
Everyone and I will be a laughing stock . I know that were going to the same secondary and my friend all ready has a boyfriend , I just want to let it out so I won't feel pressured anymore . I really do have feelings for him but I'm too shy to say so and he might never be my friend because he will proberly think I'm crazy . What do I do . It would be appreciated .
I feel ya XD Same situation here :/
:-\ I know
Why do you care so much about what other people think of your relationship? You shouldn't let other people get to you because you are in charge about how you feel and how you deal with obstacles. You obviously tell him how you feel because this is destroying you. Once you get that off of your chest you can finally learn to move on, no matter what happens.
xDarkSoulFlamex OK ...
I've known this guy for like 5 years and I've always had a crush on him and this past school year (7th grade) his friends noticed me and when I go to talk to him or some thing like that his friends are like there's your 'girlfriend' And I don't know if there mocking him or me :(
You can't force someone to like you. As WellCast says, your best bet is to just give space and try to distance yourself with other interests.
Wellcast you sound similar to amanda bynes :) You have that cute voice.
I like my cousin, but he's 4 years older. we do have a lot in common! I don't know how to tell him that I like without making things awkward if he says no?
My crush regulary friendzoned me by saying i dont,like you in that way i just like you as a friend and now i just slink to a corner to be sad and think about what is wrong with my life and i sneak away to the end of the caffe to eat something.
Man ive been friendzoned only once,(which was this year) and it sucks we were great friends then I had tryed to take it one step further but nope life came in and sucker punched me right in the jaw. Little help
Wait... you're saying you shouldn't mindlessly grab booties?
so i have a friend that i liked for quite sometime now and i have been sending signals just like the two videos about escaping friendzone did.. like flirting. joking around. complimenting. we found more common in each other than we tought we did. the touch barrier.. all that stuff. and lately.. that person has been doing the same thing that i did! is it possible that the object of my affection wants me too or was i just reading into it too much?
Hey Wellcast, do you think you can do a video on how to help a parent through diabetes? or just how to manage diabetes type 1 & 2 in general? Thatll help sooo much please. Thank you
Your videos are soo helpful! If I only watched them during the time I actually had a crush....ohh things might have been so different! DX
Wellcast, how do you apologize to a friend that doesn't want to talk to you?
could you make as video about how to KEEP your friend in the friend zone please? I have this friend who acts really strange around me;touching me, hugging me, telling jokes, basically flirting etc. How do I let him know that he's like a brother to me? And that I just want to stay friends? Thank you x 😊
3 years now ........still not out of the friendzone :/ darn
Hey could you guys make a video on how to motivate yourself?
well, this will be all hard for me because, im a boy thats about to graduate, and my school is an all boys school. and all day, we study. and study. and study. lunch and breaks are only 20 mins. then, no way to escape school. (the guards are on total lock down). how in the world will i get "attached" to girls? or even just make friends?
I have like my friend a lot since I met him. We have been friends for 10ish months now and he doesn't know I like him. I know that he doesn't like me, but should I still tell him?