Vlog Life Update | Mental Health, Trauma and Recovery 🙏🕊️

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2023
  • Join me as I wait for butter to melt and talk about my current journey of recovery...
    main channel: ‪@DustAndGrace‬
    The book I'm reading through:
    www.amazon.com.au/dp/16151938...

Комментарии • 12

  • @jaymiejohnson2641
    @jaymiejohnson2641 7 месяцев назад +2

    I know it’s easier said than done but don’t listen to these negative people. They are projecting their own lack of self-worth onto you. And you care what they say because you are an empath. I am the same way and have had to learn the same things you are now. Being a mother is tough and it causes us to reflect on ourselves because eventually your kids get older and they will see you for who you really are, not the hero they view you as when they were small children. It is a constant struggle to change and become a Godly mother, wife and woman. You are deserving, and you are amazing! A lot of good mother go through the same reflections you are. It is completely normal. If you had a traumatic childhood (which I did too) when we became mothers we are choosing not to repeat the cycle that is why it’s so tough. But just remember that you have many many people who do love and care for you. You are my sister in Christ. I’ll be praying for you ❤

  • @Tanya-ei7ow
    @Tanya-ei7ow 7 месяцев назад +1

    how can you not understand yourself? you are yourself 😆😆😆 made me laugh, but also very relatable. It is such a joy to see a person willing to address their traumas/issues, to heal, to get better, to work on it. It's hard and sometimes very painful, but it is so worth it. I see it as a journey to freedom and authenticity, letting go of all false negative beliefs and unlearning unhealthy coping mechanisms. 👍 P.S. You are very lovable and such an inspiration 🧡

  • @KJV_1611xD
    @KJV_1611xD 7 месяцев назад

    As SAVED Christians, we are lovable to the Lord!!!

  • @KJV_1611xD
    @KJV_1611xD 7 месяцев назад

    Man, I had to rewatch this video since my coworkers don’t like me no matter how hard I try. I just needed to hear your similar experience with people and how they can be haters. It’s not nice being excluded from coworkers’ friend groups. It’s like they’re all on one side and I’m the only one on the other side, alone. But I mean, it is what it is. I know they’re the problem but I do end up feeling like I’m not good enough or that I must be the one who is wrong since I’m all alone. But anyway, it sucks being in this situation and saddens me to hear that you too are dealing with unfriendly people who need Jesus in their lives. I’m just glad that God remains the same, He never changes. He’s always there for us. And I pray we find our confidence in Him, in Jesus’ name, Amen.

  • @BranPurcell
    @BranPurcell 8 месяцев назад

    The simple fact that you are willfully exercising self-reflection means that you are lovable. It's an indication that you possess the capacity to be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2. Please remember that you're doing good work by making these videos. They're not only healing and therepudic for us listeners, but for your soul as well. After my divorce I was a broken man, however, your videos have helped me tremendously, particularly in reconnecting with Christ. So thank you 🙏. I'm sure you're a wonderful mother. God will strengthen you and help you.

    • @dustybootslife
      @dustybootslife  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for the encouragement 🙏🧡

  • @KJV_1611xD
    @KJV_1611xD 8 месяцев назад

    Whoaaaa. I get too proud when I've thought of changing to be a more lovable person like why can't you love me the way I am or why am I like this? Why am I a monster who can't control myself and other ladies are more graceful and less of a liability than me?... Why are they naturally nice and well mannered?, etc. And I just wallow in self pity and just cry 😭 and that even if I did change I still wouldn't be loved either way. But then, I realize who the heck am I to want the world's love, praise, etc. like not even Jesus received the world's love. I should be satisfied with His love for me. I'm too proud to change in the hope someone will love and accept me like I'd rather be alone. But at the same time I get sad. 😂😂😂 It's definitely hard to come down to lowly position and to be humble and surrendering and realizing that I'm nothing. But it's the truth. And when I think about it I'm like oh yeah, I am a piece of dirt whom Jesus loved so much that He died for. I'm a child of God. I'm saved. I have eternal life. I'll be receiving an incorruptible body like Christ's, a crown, a mansion, like what else? I guess we just need to stand on His promises, looking above and try not to lose focus. I pray this for all of us in Jesus' name, Amen. ❤

  • @mrs.robin.ludwig
    @mrs.robin.ludwig 8 месяцев назад +1

    This world rejected Jesus. Many of those hurtful comments are arrows from the enemy, coming after you because you carry Christ within you. Praying the Holy Spirit will fill you with guidance, peace, and freedom as you walk this road. God allows us to walk difficult journeys so we can lead others into freedom. As you sit with Him, allowing His healing to flood your heart, He is equipping you to take other people through the journey. Your openness and honesty brings light into darkness. The darkness cannot remain in the presence of light. Keep carrying the light Christ has given you. When you remember those painful situations, ask: “Jesus, show me where you were in this room. Where were you in this situation?” Allow Him to use your redemptive imagination to actually see where He was and what He was doing at that moment of pain and trauma. I’ve always found this to be incredibly impactful. Ask: “Jesus, what is the lie in this situation? Show me your truth as you uproot the enemy’s lie.” You are an incredible woman of God, and you are worthy of ALL love! The problem often lies with the people who are projecting these things on to you. How are they unhealed? What wounds are operating in their hearts? How are their infected wounds affecting others? Give yourself the same grace your Father gives you! ❤ May you see yourself through the eyes of Jesus, who is absolutely crazy in love with you!

    • @dustybootslife
      @dustybootslife  7 месяцев назад

      This is so good thank you so much 🙏🙌🕊️

  • @user-sk6oo6km1l
    @user-sk6oo6km1l 8 месяцев назад

    What book are you reading? I'm thankful you are sharing. I am 58 and think this might be some of my issues

    • @dustybootslife
      @dustybootslife  8 месяцев назад

      The book is called The Emotionally Absent Mother, I'll put a link to it in the description!

    • @user-sk6oo6km1l
      @user-sk6oo6km1l 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much ❤️