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sir, so should we give a false Address if we live in a Wealthy Area / Place etc , because even the Rent in such places is high then the monthly salary , in such case what do you suggest,? the Boss will get the above info anyhow if he wishes to
I have seen a lot of people in offices want to have a family-like culture at the workplace to feel good where they can laugh and share things, have lunch in groups, taking relationships beyond offices etc etc. not realising that it is super toxic for them in the long run and for the company as well. There is a big need to understand that we all have a family at home and our focus must be to enhance those personal relationships and treat the office team like a wor team only. Working together in harmony for projects and supporting each other to achieve targets is needed but anything beyond that is not required.
Right. Very well said. Working together means all have same goal in terms of project delivery or etc. not that ppl come to personal life and exploit things.
This guy is absolute 💎, corporate jealousy is 100%, my rule of thumb is we are collages and nothing more than that, we share work relationship, no gossip,no hanging out, no parties unless it's a corporate event. My small advice would be don't even carry your i phone, just have a 15-20k Android smartphone, and a simple watch (no expensive watch). Build your world privately, much ❤
@@Vizorfambe normal and kind to one who will be confirming your senior. Don't reveal much. Do work maybe sometime and tell them what you have done after it's done. It's always good to tell ki kya kaam kia hai. Because in corporate everything needs to be told what is to be shown.
This is what I keep telling my husband. Never call colleagues and boss home for a party. Never tell them you have staff at home or that your wife is a housewife because she hates corporate culture and has no plan of being part of it. He told everything to his previous two bosses and never got a decent raise or promotion inspite of being an excellent performer.
I strongly agree with this, I shared too much with my coworker about a few things that i have, sometimes I lent money that was way more than my salary with just a phone call, sometimes i was being kind and paid the dinner bill. & when the time came for the hikes & appraisals while discussing with my manager it was being said like why do you need a hike at all. you have everything. So just keep your private life extremely private.
Sir you are right absolutely. I never thought this deep but since the start of my school days and even in university, I never disclosed about my family and status because I come from a privileged and educated family with good income and assets. Throughout my education in school or university, I was surrounded with people coming from humble or less privileged households. I have had many experiences of people raising their eyebrows in shock when they got to know my background and some giving weird stares as nobody would be able to deduce it with my looks and simplicity. When in university, the people in my inner circle obviously came to know about it, they always tried to make some kind of joke or taunt related to it and I could very well sense from where it is coming as they come from very humble backgrounds, this was the main reason I never wanted anyone to know about it. Your "I didn't mean it" video really exposes the truth about people, they say whatever is in their heart and then say that they never meant it or it was just a joke.
So the conclusion is "Accha chal raha ho, to bura waqt chalra aisa batao, Agar Bura waqt ho to aur bura karke batao". Only money is our friend ,Relative , Collegue
Beautiful video , not only boss or office mates , also relatives are jealous and insecure about your richness , personal matters .Stay calm be smart 😊🙏💐
excellent content sir. I have felt this 'privileged' curse. I am from Delhi from birth (1981). In my office most were from Bihar and they often used to gang me up. That time I didn't realized that why those were things happened only with me, but now I have started realizing. Your this video was further helpful in making me realize the same.
Sir, the other way is also detrimental… if you tell them u r in need of money in life n you need that job… they give you more work … since they know u won’t quit …
I never used to tell any such things to my PhD supervisor but I dressed well, better than many other PhD students. At the time when my stipend tenure got over, he asked me to work without any stipend saying I do not look like from poor family and there would not be any financial issue in my life.
Agree Guruji... Facts generating biases... biases generating actions... very difficult to remain undisturbed and not considering biases while decision making.👍
100% agree to this point and I have gone through this in my early phase of career . This matters a lot if you have an Indian boss in abroad as well . Also don’t add your colleagues and bosses on your social media handles as well 🙏
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne !!!! Boss ke saath saath coluegue bhi jealousy rakhte hai if you got your education from very good college / live in posh area / father is well off! My colleague frnd was many times targeted asking '' tere papa ka toh business hai tumhe job karne ki kya zaroorat hai ''.
Sir, I would like to add one point. For ladies, they should not disclose in office if they are staying with in-laws. Then boss expects her to stay after hours and work overtime without OT perks. She will have headaches/Kalesh at both places.
Agree 100% on not disclosing your wealth to any one else other than your closest family like wife and children. Beyond that it becomes a pain in some form or the other! Coming to the office -- except some real friends which is very rare.. in an office environment which is by design created to be competitive - it is best to keep your personal life FAR AWAY!!
I totally agree with you on this never ever tell about your family wealth but what I feel is if we show them as if we are from very humble background then they may start taking advantage of it thinking we can do anything with this person as he has no other options even if we Harass him he will not leave the job.
Problem is that we are still in developing stage and most of them are still in to be successful or below that phase.. so they are jealous of each other and want the other person to go down.. humbleness comes with success.. thats why its gud to be around successful ppl once you are successful
Disclose it to ones who are already at similar level. Everyone is selfish and smart now a days. People judge and make friends based on financial status. If you show you are poor you will have poor friends circle. Also its natural human tendency to make contacts with people who are doing good in life. A wealthy man and a begger can be friends in movies only. Billu barber. Having said that, there is certain level of satisfaction and peace when you make people jealous. For the same reason, people buy expensive car and build bigger homes. Personally I enjoy it when people get jealous. It indicates I am on the right track.
Yes . jealousy is universal. I earn for myself, teacher ,writter ,multi talented, strong from mother side.All my close friends want to attain my type of personality ,but showing indifferent and jealousy is so strong among ladies ,that I keep my acchivments secret.
I really appreciate your work and experience,You are really a life changer . I don't know what to call you, My Sir, my uncle, My guide, My uncle. You are all in single Package. Keep your work going on.
YES, everyone wants to be rich or successful, but until you are not the mindset is that other rich and successful people are bad and arrogant and exploit others. This needs to change. There is a good and bad side to everybody and every situation. Everyone has their own struggle.
@@ClarityForYouth yes saw complete video and if my package is known to my Boss then he start jealous. Like now i have new Boss and he is jealous because of my work expertise and package. As per your other video i stop telling people my income but can’t hide from my Boss.
I left my job long time ago bcoz of toxic work culture thereafter forever I said no to Toxic jobs and no to gruelling business. I became financially independent and today I live a delightful life. I work from home and earn 2000-3000 rs daily through options trading. I am the boss of my own work.
Sir iss topic pe tho mein ab dhayan rakhuga... But iss video ka solution bi bano part-2.... Agr sb pta hai boss ko aur colleagues ko tho uska kya kre... Thanks
Agreed, topic is very relatable and most people in metro cities suffering from it. Pls make these type of videos how to respond people in certain situations
Ekdam Sahi baat bole aapne,Mera Boss puche,Father kya karte he; toh maine sach bataya ki wo heart patient hone ke karan kuch nahi karte aur hamare ghar jo rent me laga he usi ke karan near about 35k House rent mil jata he usi se aur mere salary se ghar chalta he.Itne me unko Kya jealousy ho gaya wo mera Travelling allowance Pass karna band kar diye.Jab maine pucha toh Woh suddenly gussa ho kar bole jab tumhara rental income 35k mil jata he toh tumhe Allowance ki kya jarurat he. Sirf itna bhi nahi kuch kuch boss toh itna chote nature ke hote he ki mera height jyada he aur unka kam he,mey achhe brand ka pehenta hun toh unhe issme bhi dikkat hota he.Yeh sab chije unke Peon se baat karne se mujhe pata chala
Sir please make a video on how people above 35 years of age who have a work experience of 13 - 14 years in corporate can start their business from scratch
Really needed this i have faced in all my jobs as i have a wealthy husband so all the colluges,bosses have never valued my work or thought of paying me well compared to low performance by other ppl as they always thought isko kya jarurat hae ye toha timepass ke leye job kar rahe hoge So never ever let people know about your financial background
Sir AAP wo chije batate hai Jo ki ek pita apne bete ko duniyadari sikhata hai ! Yehi hai duniyadari Jo aur koi nahi sikhata, sirf pita sikhata hai ! Kuch log bahut jyada show off karate hai lekin Chiti banake shakkar khana hi sahi hai. Thank you so much for taking this up !
For married Working women, colleagues, bosses by default take for granted that husband is earning, she dont need promotions,hike in salary becoz she is additional source of income to the household.
My colleague told my managers I'm buying a home (small one though) in a good locality. My north Indian managers face fell down & he mentioned how come I can afford it at relatively younger age (34) while he was on the verge of retirement living nearby. I had barely mentioned that I've to go for documentation purpose of my home. My colleague chose to earn a brownie point.
This video pertains to Indian bosses, correct? Yes , I agree with you! To tell you, I had repeated similar mistake I past, not bragging myself as a wealthy or from extremely affluent family, but from well to do, I could get this contrast as I have studied in the US and can easily spot differences ... haha in US, sometimes employee car and bosses car is same😅, any ways, you mentioned ' Rohit' and my name is same too, coincidence!
Sir, I'm waiting for my next job placement n uske bad apke happiness courses... I'm publicly thanking you via this msg tht u changed my life! I had toxic in-laws maine unko apna banane k liye kafi efforts kiye or apni shadi k starting k kuch years barbad kr daale.. thanks to implementing ur logic wo toxic to hai abhi bhi but ab me cope kr chuki hu. I'm really grateful to u 😊
Guru ji, mera chota govt job h but family ristedar samajhte h ki Ambani ke bad Mai hi Paisa wala hu , jabki 25 tarikh aate h meri halat kharab ho jati h😂
Sir.....I have no words to say. I completely agree to you. I have faced this personally at my workplace. Being low key at work, is the only way to have a successful and peaceful life. 💯💯✅
Sir Agree with what you said.Hamare yahaan log abh bhi socialist vichardhara ke hain, Bollywood filmo mein bhi paise walon chor gunde badmash dikhaya gaya,garibon ka khoon chusne wala.
Each and every statement of urs is true in this video rather I should say eternal truth of life mere to relatives or friends b jalte hai kahi vacation ki pick ya beti k school dance ki video FB pe upload karti hu to koi like and comment hini karta jalan ki wajah se office mein to kitna ye sab hota or b zyada jalan hoti sabko
Sahi hai bilkul. Log jalte hain. Mere dady ka paas zyada paisa tha isliye mere sasur ne apni jaidaad se sabko zyada diya mere pati ko apne sab baccho se kam diya hamesha aur seva barabar karwai 😢
Sir maine apne job me ye sb disclose nhi Kia tha... ha par dhyan b nhi Dia tha... kbhi koi puchta tha to bol deti t.. like sbki mothers housewife hoti t... ye chiz Maine fir apne bosses ko disclose nhi ki... wrna log paise kharch krwa dete the bin baat k zada...par ye colleagues prajaati itni cheap mentality ki hoti hai k ye log apne me discuss krte hai k this particular person ne life me kbhi kuch dkha hi nhi hai... achi jagah ka food, places etc. In fact maine to apne colleagues ko kbhi ghar b invite nhi kia... k dkh lege to jalankhor chid jaege 😂
yes! tell your boss, you create problems for your professional growth. tell your relatives, create problems for your personal/social life. that believe coming form western school of thought that "never ask a man how much you earn" is very important to teach to new graduates!
Never disclose anything about family , salary. If insist talk lowly ....no one is your friend in your office...when u enter the office as a fresher or even as manager keep to yourself...do your job and go home..don't make the extra effort of working beyond duty hrs ...it's all a waste...take good care of your health and enjoy your life...
Absolutely right , not even one's privillage but his/ her own problems / constraints are used as leverage to take advantage or favour some one in bosses good books.
Some companies spent good money on background verification and know about yourself. Then they pass this info to the manager. I have never said anything to anyone in my office. Still it feels he knows enough about me.
yes absolutely correct and thanks for the video/topic! Also, this information about the privileged background has got an inverse/negative effect on the appraisal interview by the end of the year. This means the hard work will NEVER EVER get noticed as stated by yourself!!
I am working and let let me tell you no one willing to listen your personal life. If someone starts to tell about family or friends boss ask one thing is this information useful for our business. This is old advice when people do not have work and too much involved into personal life. But now work is more important. and people hate/ discourage/ condemn these things. But Sir I appreciate your confidence for generalizing things
Very good video. I told some personal thing to my Boss and he told to everyone in the company in a company addressing so that everyone makes fun of me. After that my career got screwed up since last 10 years... Kindly make some videos on Corporate Politics too. Very serious and that series will be very interesting.
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Yes, the thing is people cannot digest if we are happy and privileged, if they are suffering and we are happy then they expect us to suffer if a suffering person see another person happy they can't digest so expect for our skills and basic info don't let others know anything about you
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*A VERY VERY VERY BIG FAN OF YOU FROM PAKISTAN SANGO UNCLE. WHAT A PERSONALITY YOU HAVE.* 💗💗💗
*Sir I will like to meet with you. Is that possible sir?*
*A VERY VERY VERY BIG FAN OF YOU FROM PAKISTAN SANGO UNCLE. WHAT A PERSONALITY YOU HAVE.* 💗💗💗
*Sir I will like to meet with you. Is that possible sir?*
sir, so should we give a false Address if we live in a Wealthy Area / Place etc , because even the Rent in such places is high then the monthly salary , in such case what do you suggest,?
the Boss will get the above info anyhow if he wishes to
If u are happy, be silent, smile inside 😊
No .. keep smiling. Show your Smiling face. A smiling face gives positive vibes . Spread positivity 😊
I have seen a lot of people in offices want to have a family-like culture at the workplace to feel good where they can laugh and share things, have lunch in groups, taking relationships beyond offices etc etc. not realising that it is super toxic for them in the long run and for the company as well. There is a big need to understand that we all have a family at home and our focus must be to enhance those personal relationships and treat the office team like a wor team only. Working together in harmony for projects and supporting each other to achieve targets is needed but anything beyond that is not required.
Are you HR profesional??
@@dugly1258 Exactly! N in name of party they beg money n make faces if don't feel like to chip in . More u earn more this drama happens in office.
Exactly
I wonder how the work culture is in developed countries.
Right. Very well said. Working together means all have same goal in terms of project delivery or etc. not that ppl come to personal life and exploit things.
This guy is absolute 💎, corporate jealousy is 100%, my rule of thumb is we are collages and nothing more than that, we share work relationship, no gossip,no hanging out, no parties unless it's a corporate event. My small advice would be don't even carry your i phone, just have a 15-20k Android smartphone, and a simple watch (no expensive watch). Build your world privately, much ❤
Can you tell me anything about probation period? Kind of starting it!
@@Vizorfambe normal and kind to one who will be confirming your senior. Don't reveal much. Do work maybe sometime and tell them what you have done after it's done. It's always good to tell ki kya kaam kia hai. Because in corporate everything needs to be told what is to be shown.
@@diwakarbatra6676 thanks a lot for explaining, will take care of these things
So true 💯💯
Do we text or remind them twice about promotion or pay raise ?
This is what I keep telling my husband. Never call colleagues and boss home for a party. Never tell them you have staff at home or that your wife is a housewife because she hates corporate culture and has no plan of being part of it.
He told everything to his previous two bosses and never got a decent raise or promotion inspite of being an excellent performer.
Main apne ex ko ye samjhata tha aur wo bolti thi ki main negative minded hun, koi kyu jalega.
Thank you sir for speaking it loud
Ye sirf boss tak simit nhi hai.
Bachpan se hi dekh rha hu khud ko chota dikhane se aas paas shanti bani rehti hai.
Logon me jalan kam hota hai.
Completely agree with your points. Better to stay silent and remain grateful for everything that almighty has provided to us 🙏 🙌 ✨️
I strongly agree with this, I shared too much with my coworker about a few things that i have, sometimes I lent money that was way more than my salary with just a phone call, sometimes i was being kind and paid the dinner bill. & when the time came for the hikes & appraisals while discussing with my manager it was being said like why do you need a hike at all. you have everything.
So just keep your private life extremely private.
Sir you are right absolutely. I never thought this deep but since the start of my school days and even in university, I never disclosed about my family and status because I come from a privileged and educated family with good income and assets. Throughout my education in school or university, I was surrounded with people coming from humble or less privileged households. I have had many experiences of people raising their eyebrows in shock when they got to know my background and some giving weird stares as nobody would be able to deduce it with my looks and simplicity. When in university, the people in my inner circle obviously came to know about it, they always tried to make some kind of joke or taunt related to it and I could very well sense from where it is coming as they come from very humble backgrounds, this was the main reason I never wanted anyone to know about it. Your "I didn't mean it" video really exposes the truth about people, they say whatever is in their heart and then say that they never meant it or it was just a joke.
So the conclusion is "Accha chal raha ho, to bura waqt chalra aisa batao, Agar Bura waqt ho to aur bura karke batao". Only money is our friend ,Relative , Collegue
Beautiful video , not only boss or office mates , also relatives are jealous and insecure about your richness , personal matters .Stay calm be smart 😊🙏💐
excellent content sir. I have felt this 'privileged' curse. I am from Delhi from birth (1981). In my office most were from Bihar and they often used to gang me up. That time I didn't realized that why those were things happened only with me, but now I have started realizing. Your this video was further helpful in making me realize the same.
Sir, the other way is also detrimental… if you tell them u r in need of money in life n you need that job… they give you more work … since they know u won’t quit …
Exactly what I thought
I never used to tell any such things to my PhD supervisor but I dressed well, better than many other PhD students. At the time when my stipend tenure got over, he asked me to work without any stipend saying I do not look like from poor family and there would not be any financial issue in my life.
Agree Guruji... Facts generating biases... biases generating actions... very difficult to remain undisturbed and not considering biases while decision making.👍
100% agree to this point and I have gone through this in my early phase of career . This matters a lot if you have an Indian boss in abroad as well . Also don’t add your colleagues and bosses on your social media handles as well 🙏
Does this apply to LinkedIn too?
@@DBAS52 to some extent yes because whenever you look for a job via linked in you will be easily noticed by your fellow colleagues/managers.
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne !!!! Boss ke saath saath coluegue bhi jealousy rakhte hai if you got your education from very good college / live in posh area / father is well off!
My colleague frnd was many times targeted asking '' tere papa ka toh business hai tumhe job karne ki kya zaroorat hai ''.
Sir, I would like to add one point. For ladies, they should not disclose in office if they are staying with in-laws. Then boss expects her to stay after hours and work overtime without OT perks. She will have headaches/Kalesh at both places.
I have faced this in my office.. i bought a house in 2019 and I told my boss that I bought a house then after that I never got good appraisal.
Agree 100% on not disclosing your wealth to any one else other than your closest family like wife and children. Beyond that it becomes a pain in some form or the other! Coming to the office -- except some real friends which is very rare.. in an office environment which is by design created to be competitive - it is best to keep your personal life FAR AWAY!!
I totally agree with you !! I can relate a lot of things here !! thank you for your honest content !!
I totally agree with you on this never ever tell about your family wealth but what I feel is if we show them as if we are from very humble background then they may start taking advantage of it thinking we can do anything with this person as he has no other options even if we Harass him he will not leave the job.
Problem is that we are still in developing stage and most of them are still in to be successful or below that phase.. so they are jealous of each other and want the other person to go down.. humbleness comes with success.. thats why its gud to be around successful ppl once you are successful
Absolutely true! Have seen this in my own life and another employee told me in very painful words... Thanks for posting
Disclose it to ones who are already at similar level.
Everyone is selfish and smart now a days. People judge and make friends based on financial status.
If you show you are poor you will have poor friends circle.
Also its natural human tendency to make contacts with people who are doing good in life. A wealthy man and a begger can be friends in movies only. Billu barber.
Having said that, there is certain level of satisfaction and peace when you make people jealous. For the same reason, people buy expensive car and build bigger homes.
Personally I enjoy it when people get jealous. It indicates I am on the right track.
💯 agreed. I followed this tip since start of my career and secured a lot of things.
Yes . jealousy is universal.
I earn for myself, teacher ,writter ,multi talented, strong from mother side.All my close friends want to attain my type of personality ,but showing indifferent and jealousy is so strong among ladies ,that I keep my acchivments secret.
Sir, I am 1000 % agree with you, your advices are very valuable to live in current situation of India.
Experienced this is my life. True.. my immediate boss used to say.. tuje paise ki kya zarurat hai... his background was opposite of mine
I really appreciate your work and experience,You are really a life changer . I don't know what to call you, My Sir, my uncle, My guide, My uncle. You are all in single Package.
Keep your work going on.
Amit ji is Guruji...
Guruji from Gurugram...
YES, everyone wants to be rich or successful, but until you are not the mindset is that other rich and successful people are bad and arrogant and exploit others. This needs to change. There is a good and bad side to everybody and every situation. Everyone has their own struggle.
You can’t hide your package from your Boss and appraisal also remain in his hand.
Pls see video. Package is not the thing. It's something else.
@@ClarityForYouth yes saw complete video and if my package is known to my Boss then he start jealous. Like now i have new Boss and he is jealous because of my work expertise and package.
As per your other video i stop telling people my income but can’t hide from my Boss.
He is telling about family status that you get from parents.
I left my job long time ago bcoz of toxic work culture thereafter forever I said no to Toxic jobs and no to gruelling business.
I became financially independent and today I live a delightful life.
I work from home and earn 2000-3000 rs daily through options trading.
I am the boss of my own work.
Sir iss topic pe tho mein ab dhayan rakhuga... But iss video ka solution bi bano part-2.... Agr sb pta hai boss ko aur colleagues ko tho uska kya kre... Thanks
Bang on sir..i regreted telling the same to my colleagues..was too straightforward early on in my career
One of this best video. Thank you for selecting this topic. I totally agree with this topic.
Agreed, topic is very relatable and most people in metro cities suffering from it.
Pls make these type of videos how to respond people in certain situations
Very true and much needed information.. point to understand.. it exists in home too!!
Ekdam Sahi baat bole aapne,Mera Boss puche,Father kya karte he; toh maine sach bataya ki wo heart patient hone ke karan kuch nahi karte aur hamare ghar jo rent me laga he usi ke karan near about 35k House rent mil jata he usi se aur mere salary se ghar chalta he.Itne me unko Kya jealousy ho gaya wo mera Travelling allowance Pass karna band kar diye.Jab maine pucha toh Woh suddenly gussa ho kar bole jab tumhara rental income 35k mil jata he toh tumhe Allowance ki kya jarurat he.
Sirf itna bhi nahi kuch kuch boss toh itna chote nature ke hote he ki mera height jyada he aur unka kam he,mey achhe brand ka pehenta hun toh unhe issme bhi dikkat hota he.Yeh sab chije unke Peon se baat karne se mujhe pata chala
Sir please make a video on how people above 35 years of age who have a work experience of 13 - 14 years in corporate can start their business from scratch
in what sector you worked??
first law of power don't outshine the master
Really needed this i have faced in all my jobs as i have a wealthy husband so all the colluges,bosses have never valued my work or thought of paying me well compared to low performance by other ppl as they always thought isko kya jarurat hae ye toha timepass ke leye job kar rahe hoge
So never ever let people know about your financial background
Sir AAP wo chije batate hai Jo ki ek pita apne bete ko duniyadari sikhata hai ! Yehi hai duniyadari Jo aur koi nahi sikhata, sirf pita sikhata hai ! Kuch log bahut jyada show off karate hai lekin Chiti banake shakkar khana hi sahi hai. Thank you so much for taking this up !
Absolutely correct.. I have experience the same in my 12 years of corporate working culture
For married Working women, colleagues, bosses by default take for granted that husband is earning, she dont need promotions,hike in salary becoz she is additional source of income to the household.
My colleague told my managers I'm buying a home (small one though) in a good locality. My north Indian managers face fell down & he mentioned how come I can afford it at relatively younger age (34) while he was on the verge of retirement living nearby. I had barely mentioned that I've to go for documentation purpose of my home. My colleague chose to earn a brownie point.
Nothing to do with being North Indian.
South is also the same.
Very true. I had to change my job because of such reason and now I am getting good raise because I kept that enigma.
This is so true. Most of the things you tell on your channel I wish I had known when I was young.
This video pertains to Indian bosses, correct? Yes , I agree with you! To tell you, I had repeated similar mistake I past, not bragging myself as a wealthy or from extremely affluent family, but from well to do, I could get this contrast as I have studied in the US and can easily spot differences ... haha in US, sometimes employee car and bosses car is same😅, any ways, you mentioned ' Rohit' and my name is same too, coincidence!
Sir, I'm waiting for my next job placement n uske bad apke happiness courses... I'm publicly thanking you via this msg tht u changed my life! I had toxic in-laws maine unko apna banane k liye kafi efforts kiye or apni shadi k starting k kuch years barbad kr daale.. thanks to implementing ur logic wo toxic to hai abhi bhi but ab me cope kr chuki hu. I'm really grateful to u 😊
Which videos ?
sir maza aagaya aisa topic sun ke. 10000% i can relate
Agree Sir! Very well said. Seriously itna nazar lag chuka hai😢
This is the one video that anybody needs to watch to be smart in the corporate world of India these days
Guru ji, mera chota govt job h but family ristedar samajhte h ki Ambani ke bad Mai hi Paisa wala hu , jabki 25 tarikh aate h meri halat kharab ho jati h😂
Sir.....I have no words to say. I completely agree to you. I have faced this personally at my workplace. Being low key at work, is the only way to have a successful and peaceful life. 💯💯✅
I am still surprised, why this channel has only 143K subscribers
This channel deserves 1Million atleast
Let this channel be secret. Sabko nhi pata chalna chahiye ye baate. After all we all are selfish. 😂 sabko pata chal gya toh kaisa chalega.. 😂
It deserve but 1 million will not able to digest these type of videos that's why this channel is underrated.
YOU ARE PERFECT SIRJI 100% TRUTH 👃👃👃👃👃
😮 you are giving a great knowledge.
Not that easy to keep things secret without lying..
@@bullseye6969 My teacher is his boss.
Sir Agree with what you said.Hamare yahaan log abh bhi socialist vichardhara ke hain, Bollywood filmo mein bhi paise walon chor gunde badmash dikhaya gaya,garibon ka khoon chusne wala.
Bilkul sahi Bola aapne. From personal experience, this is correct.
Yes agree.. Apke khushi me koi khush na hai.. Shant rahe sumdi me rahe
Bahut sahi bola....tabke ka classification.... policy..... system ki help... bilkul sahi.
Ham bhi system ke maarey hue hai saab
Each and every statement of urs is true in this video rather I should say eternal truth of life mere to relatives or friends b jalte hai kahi vacation ki pick ya beti k school dance ki video FB pe upload karti hu to koi like and comment hini karta jalan ki wajah se office mein to kitna ye sab hota or b zyada jalan hoti sabko
true mam. After one point, its foolish to seek validation from such ppl. I dont have fb account.
Very useful perspective Amit ji.
Sahi hai bilkul. Log jalte hain. Mere dady ka paas zyada paisa tha isliye mere sasur ne apni jaidaad se sabko zyada diya mere pati ko apne sab baccho se kam diya hamesha aur seva barabar karwai 😢
as per my experience keep both personal and professional life separate. Your colleague sooner or later will take advantage of it if you mess both.
Good point and logical one, after your narrow minded view on Jawan movie this is a surprise
Subscribed again
Guru ji is the real Boss!!!
Sir maine apne job me ye sb disclose nhi Kia tha... ha par dhyan b nhi Dia tha... kbhi koi puchta tha to bol deti t.. like sbki mothers housewife hoti t... ye chiz Maine fir apne bosses ko disclose nhi ki... wrna log paise kharch krwa dete the bin baat k zada...par ye colleagues prajaati itni cheap mentality ki hoti hai k ye log apne me discuss krte hai k this particular person ne life me kbhi kuch dkha hi nhi hai... achi jagah ka food, places etc. In fact maine to apne colleagues ko kbhi ghar b invite nhi kia... k dkh lege to jalankhor chid jaege 😂
yes!
tell your boss, you create problems for your professional growth.
tell your relatives, create problems for your personal/social life.
that believe coming form western school of thought that "never ask a man how much you earn" is very important to teach to new graduates!
Never disclose anything about family , salary. If insist talk lowly ....no one is your friend in your office...when u enter the office as a fresher or even as manager keep to yourself...do your job and go home..don't make the extra effort of working beyond duty hrs ...it's all a waste...take good care of your health and enjoy your life...
Very much true.....I am telling you from my own experience............
Absolutely right , not even one's privillage but his/ her own problems / constraints are used as leverage to take advantage or favour some one in bosses good books.
Some companies spent good money on background verification and know about yourself.
Then they pass this info to the manager.
I have never said anything to anyone in my office. Still it feels he knows enough about me.
Good video. Agree 100%. Lot of people make this mistake.
I totally agreed 👍 with your words sir thank you.
yes absolutely correct and thanks for the video/topic! Also, this information about the privileged background has got an inverse/negative effect on the appraisal interview by the end of the year. This means the hard work will NEVER EVER get noticed as stated by yourself!!
I am seriously facing the consequences for doing the same with my manager ,superb advice
If possible, need a deeper in depth video on the thought process regarding this phenomenon
ekdum sahi kaha sir, totally agree with you.
This is not just in India. Even in USA the American Bosses also feel jealous if junior has a car without loan or own house...
Very Good Advice Sir …. Thank you very much 😊
I am working and let let me tell you no one willing to listen your personal life. If someone starts to tell about family or friends boss ask one thing is this information useful for our business. This is old advice when people do not have work and too much involved into personal life. But now work is more important. and people hate/ discourage/ condemn these things. But Sir I appreciate your confidence for generalizing things
Amazing pointers.
I agree guruji with you & I am grateful for you that next time I will aware of this advice
Guruji.. 100 % agreed🎉
SIr 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 prabhu kya baat hai kitna deep topic ..... practical baat
Yes Sir. I definitely agree with this
Very good video. I told some personal thing to my Boss and he told to everyone in the company in a company addressing so that everyone makes fun of me. After that my career got screwed up since last 10 years...
Kindly make some videos on Corporate Politics too. Very serious and that series will be very interesting.
Mujhe to Roz ki zindagi mein hi aas paas k logo ki jalan dekhni padti hai
You are right I have faced the problem in my life
Absolutely correct sir, mera yahi experience Hain, jalte the mere se, next time I will not tell anything personal details to seniors or colleagues.
Guruji
Ek dum sahi baat hai, bahut jalte hai agar app acha kaam bhi karte ho toh, kyuki uknko acha kaam nahi karna hai ya toh kaam ata nahi hai.
Great advice.You are really well wisher of your subscribers
Paaylagu sirji. Ganesh Nayak from Udupi, Karnataka
Good video. Please make videos which can help people abroad as well (primarily from North America).
You are the best clarity giver in the country..i followed your thought process.. I am a huge fan of yours.. Whichever you said is gold truth.
Thanks for inspiring..country needs you
Yes, the thing is people cannot digest if we are happy and privileged, if they are suffering and we are happy then they expect us to suffer if a suffering person see another person happy they can't digest so expect for our skills and basic info don't let others know anything about you