He is so underrated. I’m using this song in relevance to me not drinking for the last 20 days. Tomorrow will be the 21st 😭 breaking that habit and moving forward. Much love Brian and thank you.
Seen him 2x. Once with TGA and once he went solo. Can't wait to see him again. We both hail from Monmouth county NJ. Just like Bruce, he has guided many souls, including mine. Skol
Don't know why I'm sharing this but I've been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman. I've felt I've screwed up our relationship so many times yet she's still here by my side, loving me, praying for me and caring for me. I can listen to Brian Fallon anytime because his music is amazing but it means so much more when you're going through something relationally. I know this too shall pass because emotionally, I'm a wreck but I am so thankful for my wife.
Thanks for your honesty. I'm young, but trust me when I say to appreciate and love your Wife. Do something completely random like flowers or something else? We only live once. :)
Here’s the lyrics It's so easy to fall in love It's not hard to get lost down this river I miss you most in the morning We used to talk to over coffee But now I'm gonna have to find another friend When it's over We do the leaving We do the crying We do the healing And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you 21 days til I don't miss you It's so nice, in the night, I would breathe you in And you would lie and say, my friend I'm just waiting on the rapture, trying to minimize the damage And hoping to keep my idle hands occupied When it's over We do the leaving We do the crying We do the healing And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you 21 days til I don't miss you Call it breaking a habit Call it falling out of love Call it breaking a habit One day at a time When it's over We do the leaving We do the crying We do the healing And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you 21 days til I don't miss you Call it breaking a habit (21 days til I don't miss you) One day at a time Call it breaking a habit (21 days til I don't miss you) One day at a time Call it being transformed (21 days til I don't miss you) By the renewing of your mind Call it breaking a habit (21 days til I don't miss you)
I was born into addiction. Me and my brother watched our mom die when I was 8 and he was 6. I have always battled drinking and drugs. I moved from Oregon to Pennsylvania to be close to my brother/best friend. Right before Covid hit. I got here January 16 my birthday was the 27th. He OD'D the 28th our other brother's birthday is the 29th. This song always reminds me of him. I will always love you you Brandon Mathews 💞🙏🤘
thought it was gonna take me hell of a lot more than 21 days to get over my ex, who I considered the love of my life...finding out about a month later that she cheated and lied about the reason for breaking up after over 7 years of relationship is helping speeding up the process tho. Another great song by Brian!
A young lover often ends up with two people who are not what they thought them to be: their partner and themself. We often find, that the people around us aren‘t who we thought they were. And when we are young we also often find out, that we ourselves aren’t who we thought we were. I guess thats why young love is so tragic…Relationships can lead to these painful moments when you find out who you really are.
I'm just hearing this song for the first time today. I've had it on repeat about 30 times now. When he sings "We do the healing" in the chorus, I get literal chills and goosebumps. Such a good song!!!
I've loved Brian since '59 Sound came out and a lot of his songs hold special meanings. But THIS! I'm on day 6 of recovery and listened to this song every morning. The whole album may be his best, but this is a small miracle for me. Thank you.
I kills me this guy isn't mopping up every award going , Been a big fan since 2010 that's 10 years man and most peeps do not know of him or previous bands
yes, that's right. you may never know! it took me a while to understan this and in the beginning (2009 london calling) i could let you in my life, because there was bruce. it took me 5 to 6 years before i understood, there is enough room and first place you both speek to different things in me👍🤗
Grief is a very complicated mystery of life . Why is it so difficult to move on from attachment. . Dependency that's why. We as humans become dependent on certain people and ideas to get by emotionally. Serenity is what we so desperately need. And that comes from recognizing how selfish and self centered we are . And we don't even realize that that is what we suffer from. " I need to always feel a certain way " " if not , how could I possibly go on", and our feelings and emotions are usually dictated by another person. When we no longer have that person to reinforce those feelings we grew so dependent on , we grow into a dark state of self pity. Our ambitions and personal relationships are effected the most . " If only I could have those feelings and emotions back, all would be well" again it's wanting what we want... selfishness . Driven by fear . We rely on self , and again our makeup is made up of how others make us feel. Our goal is to move on from that through acceptance. But in order to achieve serenity we must have a relationship with some form of spiritual power . Because people including ourselves will always fail us. It's a shame that we put so much reliance on people and things that will eventually go away . .. and I only share on this because I suffered from co dependency for the longest. And it caused a lot of grief. It was exhausting
I met a girl in November and I've had the best days of my life, we've had arguments and I have a lot to work through from my past as does she. I was locked out of her life for a few days and I realised that's when I really do love her and her kid. I've never felt that much for someone and Brian's gave me a bit of strength to acknowledge stepping back and try trusting that even if it's 5 months down the line, if we take it slow I can permanently be there but I need 21 days or more to start fixing myself to be better. Thanks Fallon.
What an incredibly moving music video, the intimacy and the pain just bled through the screen. Bravo to everyone involved! Of course Brian's fantastic songwriting just keeps getting better and better!
From before 'Sink or swim' to This - Brian Fallon is the best. Every word ill write here will be underrated... The music from this person is pure gold. Keep on rocking Brian see you in Europe in April
Whoever disliked is questionable, suspect. This dude is so cool. I love his songs from TGA and his solo. Hits the feels with chills of emotions kills. 🤘🏼😎🤘🏼
This song still hits hard today 😭❤️ I miss Stilwell S. I don't know what I could've done to prevent you from taken your life. I cried almost every other day. This song came out a few days after your passing.
This song has helped me so much as I’ve been struggling to come off my antidepressant. I did a slow taper and everything and the side effects still kicked my ass. This is my 21st day and I do genuinely think I’ve made huge strides from 3 weeks ago. But the feeling of this song, of just waiting out unavoidable pain, hits me like a sledgehammer these days.
I loved her.... fell for her the moment i met her had the best 3 months then got a dear john ghost text..... so much i shared to have it end like that. Ye 3 months isnt long i know.. but i waited to be with her for 6 months before it happened. I hated God i hated myself my situation i still love her i still miss her i still think of her every second....
I hear this song as love lost... And it hadn't dawned on me until reading some comments how this meant different things to different people... That's the power of this man's writing and music. Cheers to you all
yes it is very clever how you can apply the song to your own situation - incidentally Brian wrote it about giving up smoking which he had done all his life & wanted to kick the habit but coundn't so went to a see a specalist . Hence some of the lines like " in the night I would breathe you in" & if you look at the lyrics from a smokers point of view it all makes sense but yes you can apply the words to love etc - a great songwriter!
21 days til the physical pangs and urges of what we hate about ourselves might wane. But learning not to listen to that last sliver of our brain that we cannot expunge, is longer than three weeks away. Awesome song, Brian.
Other than being his natural heartland rock successor, there are no other comparisons to draw from Bruce Springsteen to Brian Fallon. Let's just hvae that be an unspoken truth and know that we have a real rock troubadour in our midst here! :D
He is so underrated. I’m using this song in relevance to me not drinking for the last 20 days. Tomorrow will be the 21st 😭 breaking that habit and moving forward. Much love Brian and thank you.
Keep going••••awesome! I need to follow your footsteps!
ghostofpaterno 27 days strong now. Feel amazing. You can do it!
Keep it up man. You can do it.
Well done. I can’t get past three or four days but I’m trying.... 🙏🏽
@@Thelegendhaha So you don't feel alone, I just broke my 5th day of sobriety... Cheers to my 1000th try, right? :( Fml
It's been 41 years, and I still miss her.
Bless you buddy.
@@streetspirit956 Thanks.
It'll be every one of 41 for me....and then some.
How do you mean?
Isn’t getting over someone bound to happen over time?
Unless it was a death?
I’m very interested in Your reply.
@@budgetingstrategies6240 same, because I'm scared of it takes too long OR 41YRS; I'll fall completely APART...:(
Ladies and Gentlemen, Brian Fallon.
The Best Songwriter in the World.
I'm convinced that Brian cannot write a bad song
strugglebus apart from Mojo Hand. That ones a shocker.
@@jamesgreen6528 I actually enjoyed it, not my favorite by any means but not a bad song.
wasn't a fan of most of the horrible crows but painkillers and sleepwakers are still in heavy rotation for me, Watson was the hardest to get into
James Garness Horrible Crowes is some of his very best work, but each to their own 🙂
I completely agree with you!
Thank you for everything you do, Brian. You will never understand how much your music means to me and so many other people.
The only thing i would ever say to him
Words out my own mouth
Seen him 2x. Once with TGA and once he went solo. Can't wait to see him again. We both hail from Monmouth county NJ. Just like Bruce, he has guided many souls, including mine. Skol
Ooooo couldn't be said better.
AMEN!! His music has been there for so many tough days
This song is written by an Alien.
Incredible Masterpiece.
Your best song ever Brian. Your music is very important for me, thank you
If this one hits you at the right time it can be utterly devastating
Hell yeah, friend, stay in there all that find it at that time.
Yeah it's horrific
FACT: Brian Fallon has never written a bad, or even mediocre, song.
Fact, bears beets battlestar galactica
DANIEL MCBRIDE not true. There are two schools of thought.
@@williamdriver5214 false, black bears eat beets
DANIEL MCBRIDE I am fast. To give you a reference point I am somewhere between a snake and a mongoose... and a panther.
@@williamdriver5214 😆😅😂😂😂
I'm on day 14. One more week until I don't miss her I guess. Feelings are tough.
When Brian understands what your going through, He makes a song to know your not alone.
Don't know why I'm sharing this but I've been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman. I've felt I've screwed up our relationship so many times yet she's still here by my side, loving me, praying for me and caring for me. I can listen to Brian Fallon anytime because his music is amazing but it means so much more when you're going through something relationally. I know this too shall pass because emotionally, I'm a wreck but I am so thankful for my wife.
Thanks for your honesty. I'm young, but trust me when I say to appreciate and love your Wife. Do something completely random like flowers or something else? We only live once. :)
Seven months since my last cigarette; one day at a time. Also, every song you write is magic. Thank you.
fivefooteskimo He’s touring with Justin Townes Earl right now, his new album is this one peer for sure
@@orangesoda8635 I am thinking of seeing him in NY!!! :)
Congrats. im struggling with cigarettes and have for what feels like forever
It’s been 273 days, and I still miss her... 💔
2 1/2 years and not a day has gone by where I haven't thought about her
Mental hug guys
15 months for me, this hurts
Day 1,004 without her. 😔
Much love to anyone going through an addiction or heartbreak that relates to this song. ❤
I firmly believe Brian is the most talented songwriter of this generation, and nothing anyone can say will convince me otherwise.
Here’s the lyrics
It's so easy to fall in love
It's not hard to get lost down this river
I miss you most in the morning
We used to talk to over coffee
But now I'm gonna have to find another friend
When it's over
We do the leaving
We do the crying
We do the healing
And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you
21 days til I don't miss you
It's so nice, in the night, I would breathe you in
And you would lie and say, my friend
I'm just waiting on the rapture, trying to minimize the damage
And hoping to keep my idle hands occupied
When it's over
We do the leaving
We do the crying
We do the healing
And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you
21 days til I don't miss you
Call it breaking a habit
Call it falling out of love
Call it breaking a habit
One day at a time
When it's over
We do the leaving
We do the crying
We do the healing
And they say - 21 days til I don't miss you
21 days til I don't miss you
Call it breaking a habit
(21 days til I don't miss you)
One day at a time
Call it breaking a habit
(21 days til I don't miss you)
One day at a time
Call it being transformed
(21 days til I don't miss you)
By the renewing of your mind
Call it breaking a habit
(21 days til I don't miss you)
Thank you
I was born into addiction. Me and my brother watched our mom die when I was 8 and he was 6. I have always battled drinking and drugs. I moved from Oregon to Pennsylvania to be close to my brother/best friend. Right before Covid hit. I got here January 16 my birthday was the 27th. He OD'D the 28th our other brother's birthday is the 29th. This song always reminds me of him. I will always love you you Brandon Mathews 💞🙏🤘
You are the Best songwriter in the World Brian.
This song is a super Masterpiece ❤❤
Songs like these are why I'm driving 8 hours each way/taking 2 days off of work to see Brian in March.
Michael Lauritzen I’m doing that too! To Raleigh
Covid 19 spoiled your plans
It's a real thing when everyone you know says something.... when they don't know what you really need.
How is this song not more popular. It's incredible
21 days, for lovers it could be a lifetime
Damn this album gonna bring some feels
They always do my friend
thought it was gonna take me hell of a lot more than 21 days to get over my ex, who I considered the love of my life...finding out about a month later that she cheated and lied about the reason for breaking up after over 7 years of relationship is helping speeding up the process tho. Another great song by Brian!
So the song didn't make me cry enough now we have an amazing video that makes me cry even more. Pure art.
A young lover often ends up with two people who are not what they thought them to be: their partner and themself.
We often find, that the people around us aren‘t who we thought they were. And when we are young we also often find out, that we ourselves aren’t who we thought we were.
I guess thats why young love is so tragic…Relationships can lead to these painful moments when you find out who you really are.
As an old Gaslight Anthem fan...
My heart been melted...
Best song ever.. thank you Brian
The end is the best! "Calling it breaking habit, call it being transformed"
I'm just hearing this song for the first time today. I've had it on repeat about 30 times now. When he sings "We do the healing" in the chorus, I get literal chills and goosebumps. Such a good song!!!
Yep...that's the bit that breaks ya
I've loved Brian since '59 Sound came out and a lot of his songs hold special meanings. But THIS! I'm on day 6 of recovery and listened to this song every morning. The whole album may be his best, but this is a small miracle for me. Thank you.
You are illegal Brian. Too much beautiful your Songs
This album might just be the best yet
The only musician that still gives me the chills
Why are all the best musicians the most underrated? I love this song.
You make me cry Brian with your Beautiful Songs
730 days and i still miss him, but i had to leave
I miss you most in the morning 🎶❤🎶
we used to talk over Coffee ☕
@@maulwurf874 but now I'm gonna have to find another friend
I kills me this guy isn't mopping up every award going ,
Been a big fan since 2010 that's 10 years man and most peeps do not know of him or previous bands
I love you Brian.
From Italy
Any Brian fans from the UK? Hoping to see him in Birmingham in April 😍😍😍
yes, that's right. you may never know!
it took me a while to understan this and in the beginning (2009 london calling) i could let you in my life, because there was bruce.
it took me 5 to 6 years before i understood, there is enough room and first place you both speek to different things in me👍🤗
I will always miss you Joanne! twenty one days won’t work!
Grief is a very complicated mystery of life . Why is it so difficult to move on from attachment. . Dependency that's why. We as humans become dependent on certain people and ideas to get by emotionally. Serenity is what we so desperately need. And that comes from recognizing how selfish and self centered we are . And we don't even realize that that is what we suffer from. " I need to always feel a certain way " " if not , how could I possibly go on", and our feelings and emotions are usually dictated by another person. When we no longer have that person to reinforce those feelings we grew so dependent on , we grow into a dark state of self pity. Our ambitions and personal relationships are effected the most . " If only I could have those feelings and emotions back, all would be well" again it's wanting what we want... selfishness . Driven by fear . We rely on self , and again our makeup is made up of how others make us feel. Our goal is to move on from that through acceptance. But in order to achieve serenity we must have a relationship with some form of spiritual power . Because people including ourselves will always fail us. It's a shame that we put so much reliance on people and things that will eventually go away . .. and I only share on this because I suffered from co dependency for the longest. And it caused a lot of grief. It was exhausting
@@jmsjolly05Thanks for writing this
Such a simple video, just like You Have Stolen My heart, but still enough to say everything.
This man's music feeds my soul.
I can finally listen to this song without crying, even tho i miss her everyday. call it progress
Hell yeah. That’s awesome
hope you're doing well brother
I met a girl in November and I've had the best days of my life, we've had arguments and I have a lot to work through from my past as does she. I was locked out of her life for a few days and I realised that's when I really do love her and her kid. I've never felt that much for someone and Brian's gave me a bit of strength to acknowledge stepping back and try trusting that even if it's 5 months down the line, if we take it slow I can permanently be there but I need 21 days or more to start fixing myself to be better. Thanks Fallon.
I don't know how I never ran across your music before, but it's amazing. Keep it up!
Hi from Russia! Cool song!
What an incredibly moving music video, the intimacy and the pain just bled through the screen. Bravo to everyone involved! Of course Brian's fantastic songwriting just keeps getting better and better!
BF is a talented soul we must never let anything happen to
From before 'Sink or swim' to This - Brian Fallon is the best. Every word ill write here will be underrated... The music from this person is pure gold. Keep on rocking Brian see you in Europe in April
Whoever disliked is questionable, suspect. This dude is so cool. I love his songs from TGA and his solo. Hits the feels with chills of emotions kills. 🤘🏼😎🤘🏼
Damn , this dude! Privileged to be aware of his music and happy to get the chance to enjoy it.
this album is going to rip my heart in two
Yayyyy! A new Brian Fallon song! ❤️
This song still hits hard today 😭❤️ I miss Stilwell S. I don't know what I could've done to prevent you from taken your life. I cried almost every other day. This song came out a few days after your passing.
This song has helped me so much as I’ve been struggling to come off my antidepressant. I did a slow taper and everything and the side effects still kicked my ass. This is my 21st day and I do genuinely think I’ve made huge strides from 3 weeks ago. But the feeling of this song, of just waiting out unavoidable pain, hits me like a sledgehammer these days.
I loved her.... fell for her the moment i met her had the best 3 months then got a dear john ghost text..... so much i shared to have it end like that. Ye 3 months isnt long i know.. but i waited to be with her for 6 months before it happened. I hated God i hated myself my situation i still love her i still miss her i still think of her every second....
I hear this song as love lost... And it hadn't dawned on me until reading some comments how this meant different things to different people... That's the power of this man's writing and music. Cheers to you all
yes it is very clever how you can apply the song to your own situation - incidentally Brian wrote it about giving up smoking which he had done all his life & wanted to kick the habit but coundn't so went to a see a specalist . Hence some of the lines like " in the night I would breathe you in" & if you look at the lyrics from a smokers point of view it all makes sense but yes you can apply the words to love etc - a great songwriter!
Can’t get this song out of my head. Another masterpiece by Brian Fallon the most underrated songwriter of all time.
This is so good. It's incredible how music can transmit so much emotions, and describe how we feel inside. Brian's voice is perfect for this!
Legend has it that brian is only writting songs to prove that he doesnt have a bad one
G.O.A.T
It's been 21 days since we first met ♡
Beautiful song.
He's got the shine
You can read my heart .. spooky...but love it XX❤️
Dang what a song.
21 days til the physical pangs and urges of what we hate about ourselves might wane. But learning not to listen to that last sliver of our brain that we cannot expunge, is longer than three weeks away.
Awesome song, Brian.
So talented. Loving his music. Only found his music recently and it hits home.
Every single time. Thank you for the best music ever. Every song is always the best song.
He's a master.
Beautiful visual accompaniment to a beautiful song.
So very needed currently
Other than being his natural heartland rock successor, there are no other comparisons to draw from Bruce Springsteen to Brian Fallon. Let's just hvae that be an unspoken truth and know that we have a real rock troubadour in our midst here! :D
Don't know why but this video is heartbreaking. It has so many emotions in it..
How can he write the things we go through that accurately and beautifully!!!
This is everything ❤️
Best song writer of my generation
Great song, as always. Can't wait to see you again in München!
so good. the production and the melody melt into something magical
I love this guy .the horrible crows the gaslight anthem .hes just a great lyricist .
this song❤️❤️😭
It's beautiful.
The feels right here!
does it even get better?
So powerful.
Does it get even better?
Two Music Videos! Go Brian! This man reminds me so much of Wilco. Can’t wait til you come to Nashville.
I cannot wait for Local Honey!!!! ❤️
Beautiful Simone!
Not 1 day to love your music
it's been 11 years since my mate was killed...3 months ago my young dog died...I wish it was only 21 days
Love you brian fallon!
Mind blowing🔥
Great song , who is the actress ?
hey! simone policano here :)
Simone Policano hi :) I love your work in this video
Raúl MV thank you!
The song and music video are beautiful. Can’t wait to see you in NY in April!
And Madrid in May!
Awesome
Ich sage es gerne nochmal, ich freue mich tierisch auf das neue Album!!! Wird wie die letzten in Dauerschleife gehört 😎