"being comfortable enough to share personal things" isn't the problem, the problem is "trying really hard not to blurt out my life story to absolutely everyone". Also, just getting that first date at all would be cool. (see, oversharing again)
This hit me hard.... I once told almost my life story to this one guy I thought I would date but he turned out to be huge jerk. So now I live with the regret that he knows way to much about me.....
Hey man, dunno if you noticed, but there probably was a man named Stalin, dunno if you saw or heard of that guy during your date, but he tends to lurk in the shadows and points revolvers at your head, just wondering if that happened to you too or it was a one time thing
I was having a conversation with a girl who sat next to me in class earlier, when she suddenly told me that I was "too pure". I got kind of annoyed, because my friends are always telling me how "innocent" I am when it comes drinking, drugs, romantic relationships, etc. (almost like they're patronizing me). I tell her this, to which she said; "No, it's a good thing. You seem like the kind of guy who isn't into doing crazy stuff like that and respects other girls' boundaries." I never thought of it like that. She really changed my way of thinking today. It was a real confidence booster.
Before I got to the part where she spoke up, i was preparing to reply with the same insight. I'm older than most people on these videos and in these comment sections (i work from home and like having these on in the background) so I'm kind of a "mom"....being "pure" is good. You respect yourself, you use good judgment, and you don't allow any kind of "must fit in" silliness to get into your head. I found that once i left middle school, high school was a bit more open....but....after you graduate high school- college is like a whole new world. The more of these things you experience while being unapologetically yourself, the better off you are. HOWEVER, bear this in mind: being kind, and thoughtful, and "pure" are 100000000% wonderful traits. BUT: NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE "TOO NICE". that means don't allow anyone to take advantage of you or use you. Bad people tend to think that kindness is weakness, and it's up to you to assert that it isnt. Now that you've read this "mom novel", go be fkn awesome. 🖤💖
Fr the girls i meet are always so petty. When i ask them to split the bill they yell incoherent words in a foreign language and threaten to call the "pimp" Whoever that might be
I usually offer to pay for my own orders. But then a guy friend of mine said that a girl offering to pay for her own meals if a sign that she thinks the date is going poorly. Is that thinking true for other guys? I was put off by that. I thought it was a fair thing to do, plus I don't like feeling beholden to others since a date is a mutual thing.
Green Flags: - If you can eat Nachos in front of them, and they DON'T leave you, they're a keeper. - if your name is Bryce, and she doesn't leave you, she's a keeper. - people who respond to their pets noises with "I know"
Hmm, I guess it just comes down to personal perspective with things like that. I would think of it as more fun words combined with Bruce like nice, thrice, rice, or dice.
When you show her your entire Bionicles collection when she's at your house and she shows you her entire Beyblade collection and a battle arena at her house.
Went to the movies with a guy, and he knew I'd been through something really tough recently with my family. We had about ten minutes or so to wait before the movie, and we just kinda sat down and talked for awhile. He kept asking me how I was doing, to make sure I was okay. Even during the movie when I stopped holding his hand and looked distracted, he said "Hey, are you okay? Are you sure? Cause we can talk if you need to" and I assured him I was okay. He has no idea how much that meant to me TLDR: He actually cared about how I was feeling. Edit: Also he was just a gentleman, opened doors for me, wouldn't let me pay for anything at all, and always thanked my mom for giving us a ride.
A while back, this girl would always be shy and awkward around me and I finally noticed and asked her out after liking her for a while. Today I'm single, stressed, alone, suffer from severe anxiety and depression. Life can land on heads or tails kiddo's. Count your blessings.
Dunno what happened to you.Here's a little story that might help. Before he met my great grandmother ,my great grandfather used to have a wife and 4 daughters.They were all burned to death by the German army during WW2 along with his entire property.He managed to salvage a single bull.Everything else that he worked his entire life for was death and ashes,including his own family. And then he picked himself up,found a new wife and had twelve kids with her,of whom my father is the 12th. I guess the point is you can always pull yourself out of whatever shit you are in.
Went on a first date with a girl after I saw The Last Jedi. Spent the entire date telling her how bad it was. Second date, we went to see The Nun and had the entire theater to ourselves. Spent the duration yelling at the screen about how bad it was. Third date, 1 v 1 at laser tag. Kissed her before the game started to throw her off her game. Absolutely destroyed her in points. Six months in and we both couldn’t be happier :) Even gave her my old Xbox so now she’s a valued squad member on Battlefield. The girl is perfect
We can tell ourselves that, but in the end memes are meant to be shared with people we love and care about. If we do not have these people, the memes become far less important to the point it actually makes us sad at the fact we have no one to enjoy it with.
The first date and first green flag, I had with my husband was when he told me he liked me. Second date, 2 days later he met my mom and wasn't scared off by her as she can be a bit much (another green flag). The thing that got me was the biggest green flag for me and pretty much convinced me he was a good guy. Later that night on the second date, he took me home and met my dog. My dog didn't like men and she was starting to lose her sight by then. She walked up to him and I started to warn him to be careful but she let him pet her and she wagged her tail as she was happy to meet him.
I once walked literally all through the night with a girl. She grabbed my hands and we cuddled, talked about random funny things, listened and sung along to music, even felt comfortable and went into more deep and personal things. This was all a week after our first date and things seemed to be going real good, real fast. But unlike the other stories here, it turned out she didn’t actually have much feeling for me. She seemed to slowly slip out of my hands and I just had to accept the fact that she didn’t want me in the end. I still don’t know what changed her mind, but it seemed all so perfect for me. But I guess I was wrong. Idk why I’m even telling everyone this. Just felt like I needed to vent. So I might as well vent into the void that is the internet.
I don't think Buddhist monks practice celibacy infact I'm pretty sure some of them practice tantra so that guy has nothing to worry about as far as his girls religion is concerned.
The guy I'm dating now and I met a few years back. We were introduced online by a mutual friend and played overwatch constantly. At the time I identified strictly as a lesbian but eventually told him that I was interested in guys too but a lot less comfortable with them because of past experiences I had and I typically wasn't physically attracted to men right away like I was with women. We played games almost every night and stayed up late laughing. We started playing d&d on the weekends. This went on until a few months back when I admitted I thought he was attractive because he said something about how he was self concious about his appearance, and despite our mutual friend having told me that he admitted to having a massive crush on me, he never once made an inappropriate comment or made a move. Eventually I told him it was mutual and we started to date. He is patient and funny and endlessly kind and because our relationship started as a friendship that was entirely trust-based, neither of us are afraid to have adult conversations about potential issues with our relationship or ask questions when we need reassurances about something. Additionally, I remember one night before we started dating that I was having an emotional crisis and called him in tears but was too nervous to talk about what was bothering me so he just spent a few hours making me laugh and never pushing the subject. I expressed concern about the long distance relationship and he told me that whether we lasted as partners or not, he knew we'd always be best friends and that he was lucky to have me his life regardless, even if a breakup would make him sad. I felt the same way, and that's the moment I knew I was in love with him. Green flags all around. We live in different states but have met up a few times and plan to move to Colorado a few years from now to find a place together. We meet up once every few months to spend a week together.
Try to get out more. Make some friends, join a thing, stay social and have something you do. Dates are honestly just an opportunity for a great time with the potential to meet a life partner. There is nothing that should be difficult about that; meeting someone and going on a date is the easy part.
i know, i know. but like i said, i just find it really scary. i think staying indoors all the time has made me become even more afraid of people than i was before. also, the sun hurts my eyes haha
That feeling where you honestly think that you cannot continue living normally without them anymore. It really hits hard when you realize it, but it never goes away. Even if it doesn't work out.
When I was at a carnival I saw the girl I liked, I was too shy to talk to her so I laid on the ground on a blanket, she just walked over and laid on the blanket with me, we talked, we are now unofficially together to each other
My now SO was too awkward to ask me on a date, so he popped up at my house at 11am and took me to a walmart for 5 hours. Romance 100 Its been over a year lol
アキラ I’m not, she was hanging out with a friend and when she saw me she just say goodbye and walked over to me, we laid there for most of the day and I won her a prize at a fish pick up thingy
One time in high school, I went to my crush's house and we were hanging out at her house. I was only suppose to be there for an hour, but ended up staying all afternoon and evening until around 9pm. Her mom made us dinner and asked her to clean the table. I offered to help her and her mom set up the table. I even helped cook the final dishes. We talked and laughed until I realized it was 9. I was worried about how to get home (my house is 10 miles away), but her dad offered to take me home. But before I left, I picked up the dishes and offered to clean all of them. Before I left, we hugged, and before I closed the door, I overheard her mom saying "Don't you dare let him go. He is husband material." She smiles and I got a glimpse of her blushing as I left. Her dad dropped me off and offered to explain why I was late to my parents. But seeing as they would get mad, I told him they knew I might be late. What I did tell them was that I was shooting pictures in LA and lost track of time. They bought it. I miss those days. Things were so much simpler.
The walking closest to the road one, that was a thing in Britain back then because when they didnt have plumbing, people would literally throw their shit out the window. The man walked on the outside to protect the woman from the flying shit
Dunno about that one, but Jack London describes that it was a common courtesy everywhere for the man to walk on the outer part of the sidewalk, so that he can push the woman away if a car swerves in their direction or something.
We extended our 2nd date. The 1st was a blind date that I didn't know I was on (long story). We went to her place so she could let the dog out. She told me "The dog will jump all over you and act like an idiot. The cat... Nevermind the cat. You won't see her, because she hates everyone but me". The dog ran up to me, sat at my feet, put her head on my thigh, and held perfectly still... I hadn't said a thing to her or even moved when she came over. The dog wouldn't move, even when my date called for her. Only went outside when I said "Go on". Sitting on the couch and waiting for the dog to do her "business"... The cat came out, stared at me for about 45 seconds, then jumped up in my lap and let me rub it's belly. Didn't want to get down when we were ready to leave. Oddly enough, these green flags almost backfired... When we left, she asked me if I was Satan and was using my powers to control the beasts of the land. I told her "If I was, don't you think I'd drive a better vehicle than the one I have". She said "Good point, but I had to ask". Then she laughed... We've been married almost 14 years now. Note: I'm was kind of a farm kid growing up and actually read animals better than people. Somehow, I think most animals pick up on that.
I've always been stubborn about going to the movies as a dating spot, because when I go to the movies, I go to see a movie of my choosing and don't want to spend 20 minutes arguing over which movie we should see together. I'm going to see my movie and they can either come along or go see whatever they want to see. That's why I usually try to avoid movie theaters as a dating location and try to go for shared activities like bowling, paintball or just dinner and a conversation. But this one time, it was really pouring out and she insisted on going to the movies because she really wanted to see Troy (yes, this was quite a while ago). I had already seen it and didn't want to see it again, which I told her. I wanted to see Hellboy instead. She wouldn't budge on her movie and I wouldn't budge on mine, so we each went to see our movie separately and met up afterwards. I was expecting trouble and a lousy finish to our date, but we actually spent another 2 hours or so talking and had a great time. No happy ending, though. We didn't end up staying together or getting married or anything of the sort. We continued dating for a while but broke up amicably a few months later. We're still friends now.
Just gonna leave this here, me and my boyfriend have been long distance for about a year, when I finally met him and we had our first date neither of us had a car that was available to us so we ubered there and had some bratwurst, we could have left any time after that but spent a couple hours going around local shops, talking, and looking at books, up until the point where our phones were dying and it would have been impossible to uber back home, I’m still with him and he’s the sweetest and nicest guy I’ve ever met
2006 Mitsubishi Evolution Rally Sport Guys usually walk closer to the street so that the girl can be protected from the sun/rain by the overhead store 'umbrella' things. Not sure what you call them but I hope you get what I'm saying
The green flag for me was actually when my house burned down. He'd been invited over to my parent's house for dinner and my little sister set the house on fire with a candle on accident. Everyone got out safe but our house was ruined and we had no house insurance. He was offered a ride home several times but he said he wanted to stay with me until I left to stay at my grandma's house. We've been together for 13 years now.
I've never been on a date, but one of the Green Flags that I'd be looking for is if they are genuinely paying attention to conversations, and if they put effort into responding with something other than, “yeah”.
Green flag with my current girlfriend: we had been together for about a week, she came to my place, we start to talk and joke about how great is Adventure Time but the topic is interrupted by some sweet chikichiki, while we are at it I’m still thinking of all the things that I still have to tell her about Adventure Time and she stops and asks: “Am I the only one still thinking about Adventure Time?” It was too funny I fell a little bit in love in that moment
So RUclips is flooding my recommended page with people copy and pasting things everyone already read last week on reddit. 10/10, what a creative and new RUclips channel.
Here I am watching a video about people finding a future together. And I feel lonely af, I'm 25 already and ever since school started I've never been kissed, in a relationship, or shown interest towards my persona. I guess there's always someone at the other end of the spectrum, to serve as the example from the other side of the coin. FML.
Green flag, my first time meeting my husband he came to my parents house where I was living at the time and he brought two bouquets of flowers... one for me and one for my mother. It's been 5 years and he's never stopped being a gentleman.
The biggest green flag I ever had was when my SO went on a date and were listening to music on my phone during the car ride. The song "when a vegan eats a vegan" by bygones (which is a very fast pummeling powerviolence/grindcore song) came on. I went to skip it and she said "wait no I like it". She's a keeper alright.
But you know its a cultural difference. In my country even friends dont split the bill but we take turns. (We argue like "i got this" "nope im paying") Only distant acquatances like co-workers split the bill. So if a girl wants to split the bill it usually means "i dont wanna see you again. Im gonna make sure you know you are not even in a friend zone but a stranger zone". So for me its a little bizarre to see a couple pay seperate(im not being judgemental, im just saying im not used to it) it makes me think 'do they split for condoms too? If its $9, does each person pay $4.5 or someone says "just give me 4, ill pay 5. Youre welcome"? Do they make sure each gets equal amout of orgasm? Do they meet halfway? If one cooks, the other should pay for ingredient?' Etc.. (Again, no judgement here, ive always been just curious)
I always pay for my stuff. One, because its polite to do so. Two, because I don't like people thinking I'm just for the money. Three, I had a bad experience with a guy. He literally slammed his wallet on the counter of the pizza place and said and I quote: "If I pay for everything then you have to give me a kiss, c'mon baby". This was a first date. What he said and the way he threw his wallet (it made a loud noise) was unacceptable. I said goodbye right there and said no to another date. That shit was scary. I feel like I dodged a bullet.
I love when a person listens to me and then tries to ask more about the thing I'm talking about (even if they're not that interested in the topic). I do this for others. I learned a while ago that asking about the other person is good for carrying on a conversation (thanks Google), so try to avoid only talking about yourself, and hope the other person will ask questions about you or your topic as well.
Notice how whenever men feel insecure, it's attributed to ego and "toxic masculinity" as opposed to men just being, you know, human. When women feel insecure, it's attributed to "oppression," the actions of men in general, etc.
My green flag was her revealing she had only dated women before. I pulled a lesbian. Turned out we were completely alike. And I'm still with her 6 years later. Love of my life.
Talking about your hobbies with your date being genuinely curious about it. I am an aquaristic and keeping carnivorous fish (Exodon Paradoxi - nasty little buggers but somehow I managed to lose my heart to them). My date also owns an Aquarium so she was interested in my talking and I ended up showing her videos about the daily feeding-frenzies when I tossed some Red meat into the tank. We managed to talk about nothing else throughout the entire date. Next day she visited me over at my place to see it for herself. Let her do the feeding under my guidance. Of course she went too cocky and the Exodons swarmed her hand and bit her before I could even react (luckily for her they are rather small. Bites hurt and the wounds bleed a little but aren't dangerous as long as your Tetanus vaccination is up to date. Unlike their cousin, the Piranha their bite won't cause any damage to nerves or sinews either). Went patching her fingers up on the Couch with me being worried about her storming off because of it. Somehow the exact opposite happened. She laughed it off and fell around my neck after I was done fixing her hand. Started making out over it... Yes, my fish turned out being better wingmen than any of my friends recently^^
3:35 What kind of stupid logic is that? "Oh, nothing sexual on the first date." "What about the second date?" "Oh, we can do _anything_ sexual then!" What?
Since he didn't make any advances on the first date, he gave the impression that he wasn't interested. And for some reason girls are attracted to guys that aren't attracted to them. It's weird but that's the only "logical" explanation I can come up with
@@shamartTM Nah, she's just trying to pretend to be modest. A non-THOT wouldn't go for physical intimacy with a guy after any date until she felt comfortable enough to be with him, and for a non-THOT, "comfortable" means "he probably won't immediately leave me and ghost me after having sex". Some girls pretend to not be THOTS and think that modesty means "I only sleep on the second or third date to let him know what a serious, fun-loving, celibate maiden I am". The easier it is to bed a girl, the more you should avoid that girl and her diseaseys and her future bastard children. Nothing good ever comes easy.
When we meet, we shook hands and neither of us let go. We just kept shaking and having a weird, dry, deadpan back-and-forth joke about Back to the Future that lasted like five minutes. So yeah, you can be total opposites, but if you have the same sense of humor, it's a total green flag.
My husband and I's first date, he looked at me and said... "you worked at the McDonald's on so and so ave, in 1997 didn't you?!" I was like... Yeah why. And he described me perfectly then said, I almost broke up with my ex fiance because she saw I had a crush on you when we went there! " I am 6 years younger than him and me and his sister went to school together it turned out, and she was a scary looking girl then who I stayed away from. I knew his former stepbrother, who was our meme of the school... Like every morning the principal would call his name to the office and we would all say it together
When you've had lunch/dinner and are supposed to go see a movie afterward (and have already bought tickets) but decide last minute not to go because you don't want to stop the conversation you're having and would rather just walk around aimlessly and keep talking with each other for a couple more hours.
When she found it funny/ cute when i made a fool of myself when eating the burgers we cooked on first date, had a giant dinosaur plush (that became an awesome "wingman" on said first date) and you just keep talking and watching movies/ videos or whatever till you notice it's 4 am and she decides that you shouldn't be going home so you both lay in bed and just smile at each other and hold hands till like 8 am when you decide you can't sleep anyways so you just go back to watching movies. Also that time when we were really making out for like the 2nd or 3rd time (at the 4th date i believe) and she swallows a booger of yours but doesn't say anything till weeks later to not break the mood. We still laugh at that (and are pretty disgusted that that happened)
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My favourite part of these videos is the automation being completely unable to pronounce some words. Fiancee pronunciation made me giggle.
If it's genuine, then you've hit off with a robot.
Fiankay
but ya’all’d’ve does work
Fiankay
fee on kay
'Let's call her Amanda, because that's her name' 🤣
Can't argue with that!
Every 60 seconds in Africa, a minute passes.
when you think the date's going well but she decides to become a Buddhist nun instead
dara corr i feel really bad for him😂
Bruh.mp3
He didn’t even get friend-zoned he got Buddhist nun-zoned. Poor fella.
I don't even think Buddhists have nuns (I used to be Buddhist, but there are various branches)
@@mrknarf4438 they do now, cause she is trying to avoid his D
I only saw white and red flags because I was playing Shy Guy Says from Mario Party with her
Are you the off-brand Stickmaster500?
Keep her
A true classic. Don't @ me.
You win the comment section
Hey! I think I just saw you on a shady cicada video!
"being comfortable enough to share personal things" isn't the problem, the problem is "trying really hard not to blurt out my life story to absolutely everyone". Also, just getting that first date at all would be cool. (see, oversharing again)
Yulia Leafhill -I felt this one
This hit me hard....
I once told almost my life story to this one guy I thought I would date but he turned out to be huge jerk. So now I live with the regret that he knows way to much about me.....
That is rough Elizabeth o.o
Same... soooooo same. 😔
Ikr. I'm worried about that ever happening
Our first date involved a red flag, vodka, cold weather, hungry workers, and some guy named Lenin.
You n got me dead 😂😂😂😂
Hey man, dunno if you noticed, but there probably was a man named Stalin, dunno if you saw or heard of that guy during your date, but he tends to lurk in the shadows and points revolvers at your head, just wondering if that happened to you too or it was a one time thing
@@Ethan-mp7wr Oh yeah him! He kept taking the food from everyone's plates.
Just 2 more until 69
I have to ask was there a guy squatting in the corner drinking all the vodka?
A green piece of cloth in the shape of a rectangle attached to a stick
Intellectual
Why the hell did it take me so long to get that
420 likes so I have to wait for someone else to ruin it to like this.
@@kevinspee7013 I guess the joke couldn't make its way into your brain, because it got stuck in a 'sticky' situation
@@KarmaKeyenore its* 🤓
I was having a conversation with a girl who sat next to me in class earlier, when she suddenly told me that I was "too pure". I got kind of annoyed, because my friends are always telling me how "innocent" I am when it comes drinking, drugs, romantic relationships, etc. (almost like they're patronizing me). I tell her this, to which she said; "No, it's a good thing. You seem like the kind of guy who isn't into doing crazy stuff like that and respects other girls' boundaries."
I never thought of it like that. She really changed my way of thinking today. It was a real confidence booster.
go getem partner
Being pure is good, but don't be that overly nice guy. Make sure to tease her a little bit. It turns girls on.
Ah yeah my friends tell me that too all the time, so def get the annoyance, but do feel like nobody really sees it as a bad trait
Before I got to the part where she spoke up, i was preparing to reply with the same insight. I'm older than most people on these videos and in these comment sections (i work from home and like having these on in the background) so I'm kind of a "mom"....being "pure" is good. You respect yourself, you use good judgment, and you don't allow any kind of "must fit in" silliness to get into your head. I found that once i left middle school, high school was a bit more open....but....after you graduate high school- college is like a whole new world. The more of these things you experience while being unapologetically yourself, the better off you are.
HOWEVER, bear this in mind: being kind, and thoughtful, and "pure" are 100000000% wonderful traits. BUT: NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE "TOO NICE". that means don't allow anyone to take advantage of you or use you. Bad people tend to think that kindness is weakness, and it's up to you to assert that it isnt.
Now that you've read this "mom novel", go be fkn awesome. 🖤💖
@@filippians413 she has a boyfriend, so I don't think that would end well.
They OFFER to pay
enough said
Fr the girls i meet are always so petty. When i ask them to split the bill they yell incoherent words in a foreign language and threaten to call the "pimp"
Whoever that might be
1,000 subsribers with 1 video challenge oh yeah What the hell 😂
I thought that was normal. I'd feel weird not paying my part but i guess this is just cultural differences
-4 Subscribers with a hammer addiction the gal should offer to pay but then you should go “no you don’t have to do that” and pay it all
I usually offer to pay for my own orders. But then a guy friend of mine said that a girl offering to pay for her own meals if a sign that she thinks the date is going poorly. Is that thinking true for other guys? I was put off by that. I thought it was a fair thing to do, plus I don't like feeling beholden to others since a date is a mutual thing.
This is more of a white flag.
I dated a french guy
They must’ve surrendered immediately
Rofl
Green Flags:
- If you can eat Nachos in front of them, and they DON'T leave you, they're a keeper.
- if your name is Bryce, and she doesn't leave you, she's a keeper.
- people who respond to their pets noises with "I know"
Ahaha I hate the name Bryce
Bryce is a nice name honestly.
Latte Punch How, it’s like combining lice with Bruce.
Hmm, I guess it just comes down to personal perspective with things like that. I would think of it as more fun words combined with Bruce like nice, thrice, rice, or dice.
@@jackkollhoff9519 lol ikr
Then there is me...sitting at home...watching this video...god damn
you are not alone
Yup... We are not alone.
We are alone ... together
Help
help
When you show her your entire Bionicles collection when she's at your house
and she shows you her entire Beyblade collection and a battle arena at her house.
LET IT RIP
I'm the 68th like
I guide others to a treasure that I cannot posess
Ayano Games I’m the 667th lol
Here we see lawful good
And chaotic evil
63rd like on your comment. Let's do this friends!
Damn when I finished writing the comment it was already 65
69th like
@@saturatedartist1241 congratulations sir/ma'am
1:49 - 2:47 this sounds like a pitch for a sitcom. I love it.
Eduardo Quintero ikr!!
Ahhh, the magical properties of Lego Pirate Ships. Worked for me too.
It would absolutely work on me not gonna lie.
Wholesome 💯...
Please Karen, I just want the old us back.
Story?
@@Ekkaya its a joke
@@kingbobeverything9906 bruh
Karen I want to see the kids again
"WHYD YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE KIDS KAREN ? , WHYYY!!!!!!!
I love how the voice says fiancee as feekonkay
Level 1 grammar: *You all had*
Level 35 grammar: *Y'all'd've*
You all would have*
That‘s how grandma Works
TheHellogoo you all would have
aww these are so wholesome. I hope you meet your dream partner sometime this month :D
Movie Master more like if I find a partner ever
X to Doubt... thx for the optimism tho
unless, y’know, you’r underaged
Good luck! ❤️
I hope so too
Went to the movies with a guy, and he knew I'd been through something really tough recently with my family. We had about ten minutes or so to wait before the movie, and we just kinda sat down and talked for awhile. He kept asking me how I was doing, to make sure I was okay. Even during the movie when I stopped holding his hand and looked distracted, he said "Hey, are you okay? Are you sure? Cause we can talk if you need to" and I assured him I was okay. He has no idea how much that meant to me
TLDR: He actually cared about how I was feeling.
Edit: Also he was just a gentleman, opened doors for me, wouldn't let me pay for anything at all, and always thanked my mom for giving us a ride.
5:51 "According to my FIANKEE...."
😂😂
Really?
All I’m getting from this is if you both like legos it’s going to end happily
Who doesnt like lego ?!
I have three sisters. We have a big collection on Barbies and a bigger one of legos.
A while back, this girl would always be shy and awkward around me and I finally noticed and asked her out after liking her for a while.
Today I'm single, stressed, alone, suffer from severe anxiety and depression. Life can land on heads or tails kiddo's. Count your blessings.
Bro, I feel like I should ask, are you ok? Dont know where you live but my mum has some chamomille tea if you're interested.
Imported from hungary to. Hear it's good for the heart.
What happened?
Yes, what happened ??
Dunno what happened to you.Here's a little story that might help.
Before he met my great grandmother ,my great grandfather used to have a wife and 4 daughters.They were all burned to death by the German army during WW2 along with his entire property.He managed to salvage a single bull.Everything else that he worked his entire life for was death and ashes,including his own family.
And then he picked himself up,found a new wife and had twelve kids with her,of whom my father is the 12th.
I guess the point is you can always pull yourself out of whatever shit you are in.
*_YA'LL'D'VE_* AMERICAN 100
edit: thanks for all the likes :), have a great day
And its opposite, Y'ain't've.
@@Horseshoecrabwarrior y'all'dn't've
@@daaishifeeling y'all's'n't'dering'll've
Horseshoecrabwarrior its*
Ahem, *y’all’d’ve
Went on a first date with a girl after I saw The Last Jedi. Spent the entire date telling her how bad it was. Second date, we went to see The Nun and had the entire theater to ourselves. Spent the duration yelling at the screen about how bad it was. Third date, 1 v 1 at laser tag. Kissed her before the game started to throw her off her game. Absolutely destroyed her in points.
Six months in and we both couldn’t be happier :)
Even gave her my old Xbox so now she’s a valued squad member on Battlefield. The girl is perfect
Green flag:
When he/she DOESN'T show up with A murder weapon👍🏻
C’mon now. Let’s be realistic here.
Well, that all depends on who they intend to use it on. You? Red flag. Your worst enemy? Maybe there's something to consider? ;p
Lows standards my man
Im guessing you havent seen Ninja Sex Party's first date song. 10/10 recommend.
Arachné Sakura Yeah I listened to it and I like it!😍😍
Thanks for the tip😘👍🏻
If she owns a full size replication of the 1977-2011 banner of Libya that’s a big green flag
I can't help but feel like some of these stories aren't real and their from some obscure Hallmark movie from the 2000s.
-A Helpless Romantic
....Dunno, seem pretty real to me.
Some are definitely just stories but most of them are genuine it seems.
Lol relatable... I just attract dysfunction and selfish people
"You attract what you are"
Lights bring moths.
they made sense though, since the message of lot of them are about searching for someone you can have a good time with/ accepts you for who you are.
Is this intentionally done so the viewers feel lonely-
Kardosh reported for sexual content
Seriously though how do you have that pfp
Kardosh Did you just leak OUR nudes?
Kardosh i cannot believe i just laid my bare ass, innocent ass eyeballs on your profile pic, my man
@@fullcrackalchemist I think it's allowed. It's hilarious
Yunno some of us have friends and a life so not really
Why date somebody, when you can just watch memes? am i rigiht?? :((
i feel you :(
Biggy dickky it’s okay, you’ll find love one day ☺️
Uhhh... sure
We can tell ourselves that, but in the end memes are meant to be shared with people we love and care about. If we do not have these people, the memes become far less important to the point it actually makes us sad at the fact we have no one to enjoy it with.
@@AJ-ox8xy that was deep
What's a green flag? I'll tell you what's a green flag; A girl who says "y'all'd've".
This gives me faith in people after being in a bad relationship and being cheated on.
:))))
PSA you didn't deserve that and that I, as well as every passerby that sees your comment, loves u and wants you to succeed. Keep fighting my friend
@@raderT90 Thanks, you just made my night. ^^
The first date and first green flag, I had with my husband was when he told me he liked me. Second date, 2 days later he met my mom and wasn't scared off by her as she can be a bit much (another green flag).
The thing that got me was the biggest green flag for me and pretty much convinced me he was a good guy. Later that night on the second date, he took me home and met my dog.
My dog didn't like men and she was starting to lose her sight by then. She walked up to him and I started to warn him to be careful but she let him pet her and she wagged her tail as she was happy to meet him.
I haven't even met a female person in my life
hello dominoes one
Why Magicegg
what does female mean ?
Gay/enbies y'all
You came out of one.
Damn Reddit. "What are green flags"
Redditor: 'DoN't yOu WaNt tO hEAr mY dAtE stORy??"
Yeah redditors do that
I SMELL PENNIES it’s as common as everyone clapping
When she said her favorite color was "British Racing Green." I'm a massive car nerd. Very happy to still be dating her :D
Like, the Bentley Jaguar and Aston Martin race cars?
A 3 year old I know has a “girlfriend” and I’m sitting here like: 😑 I’m still single af
Hey, think about it... how many people do you know who have a SO at three?
@@devincetee5335 Actually a lot
This moment when a 3 year old you know has a “girlfriend” but when you remember that his mom is antivaxx so he struggling midlife crisis
@@Starpommm
I hate myself for laughing at that
@@Starpommm They grow up so fast!
- When the mother is worried you will try something but it turns out you are asexual - Mother: "Careful he's a hero".
I raised my eyebrows at a girl and she raised hers back at me
marry her
I once walked literally all through the night with a girl. She grabbed my hands and we cuddled, talked about random funny things, listened and sung along to music, even felt comfortable and went into more deep and personal things. This was all a week after our first date and things seemed to be going real good, real fast. But unlike the other stories here, it turned out she didn’t actually have much feeling for me. She seemed to slowly slip out of my hands and I just had to accept the fact that she didn’t want me in the end. I still don’t know what changed her mind, but it seemed all so perfect for me. But I guess I was wrong. Idk why I’m even telling everyone this. Just felt like I needed to vent. So I might as well vent into the void that is the internet.
I Honestly straight up just want to be a meme page when I grow up! Is this a job??
i did my part subbed
5:50 "Fian-kay"
I don't think Buddhist monks practice celibacy infact I'm pretty sure some of them practice tantra so that guy has nothing to worry about as far as his girls religion is concerned.
What about abstinence
Didn't she say 'buddist nun'
I love to play dungeons and dragons, but don't know anybody...
Me, a DM: critical hit
Never played dungeons and dragons... But im kinda interested. How do you think a newb should start out? Seems like a complex game...
The guy I'm dating now and I met a few years back. We were introduced online by a mutual friend and played overwatch constantly. At the time I identified strictly as a lesbian but eventually told him that I was interested in guys too but a lot less comfortable with them because of past experiences I had and I typically wasn't physically attracted to men right away like I was with women. We played games almost every night and stayed up late laughing. We started playing d&d on the weekends. This went on until a few months back when I admitted I thought he was attractive because he said something about how he was self concious about his appearance, and despite our mutual friend having told me that he admitted to having a massive crush on me, he never once made an inappropriate comment or made a move. Eventually I told him it was mutual and we started to date. He is patient and funny and endlessly kind and because our relationship started as a friendship that was entirely trust-based, neither of us are afraid to have adult conversations about potential issues with our relationship or ask questions when we need reassurances about something. Additionally, I remember one night before we started dating that I was having an emotional crisis and called him in tears but was too nervous to talk about what was bothering me so he just spent a few hours making me laugh and never pushing the subject. I expressed concern about the long distance relationship and he told me that whether we lasted as partners or not, he knew we'd always be best friends and that he was lucky to have me his life regardless, even if a breakup would make him sad. I felt the same way, and that's the moment I knew I was in love with him. Green flags all around.
We live in different states but have met up a few times and plan to move to Colorado a few years from now to find a place together. We meet up once every few months to spend a week together.
When I said
*"Hello there"*
and she replied
*"General Kenobi"*
holy shit. nice
"i love cats" is my biggest green flag by far
Lol, tell that to the MGTOW guys. They can't stop mentioning women and cats
Gg every woman in the world
lol finally someone. all my friends think im weird bc i like cats more than dogs ?????
i've never seen any green flags because i've never been on a date before haha
Try to get out more. Make some friends, join a thing, stay social and have something you do. Dates are honestly just an opportunity for a great time with the potential to meet a life partner. There is nothing that should be difficult about that; meeting someone and going on a date is the easy part.
hard to do all that stuff when simply getting out of the house scares you. i haven't been outside in like 8 months
@@lynxcore Same, I've left my house about 3 times in a year☹️
Dang I thought I didn't get out enough
i know, i know. but like i said, i just find it really scary. i think staying indoors all the time has made me become even more afraid of people than i was before. also, the sun hurts my eyes haha
That feeling where you honestly think that you cannot continue living normally without them anymore. It really hits hard when you realize it, but it never goes away.
Even if it doesn't work out.
I think a green flag is when the other person doesnt use reddit
Primus Invictus True that
The only flag I know is a white flag
Yespacito are you french
WHY ARE YOU EVERYWHERE
Found the Frenchie
Let's play... Spot the French soldier!
Are you French?
When I was at a carnival I saw the girl I liked, I was too shy to talk to her so I laid on the ground on a blanket, she just walked over and laid on the blanket with me, we talked, we are now unofficially together to each other
My now SO was too awkward to ask me on a date, so he popped up at my house at 11am and took me to a walmart for 5 hours.
Romance 100
Its been over a year lol
Y'all joking right
アキラ I’m not, she was hanging out with a friend and when she saw me she just say goodbye and walked over to me, we laid there for most of the day and I won her a prize at a fish pick up thingy
One time in high school, I went to my crush's house and we were hanging out at her house. I was only suppose to be there for an hour, but ended up staying all afternoon and evening until around 9pm. Her mom made us dinner and asked her to clean the table. I offered to help her and her mom set up the table. I even helped cook the final dishes. We talked and laughed until I realized it was 9. I was worried about how to get home (my house is 10 miles away), but her dad offered to take me home. But before I left, I picked up the dishes and offered to clean all of them.
Before I left, we hugged, and before I closed the door, I overheard her mom saying "Don't you dare let him go. He is husband material." She smiles and I got a glimpse of her blushing as I left. Her dad dropped me off and offered to explain why I was late to my parents. But seeing as they would get mad, I told him they knew I might be late. What I did tell them was that I was shooting pictures in LA and lost track of time. They bought it.
I miss those days. Things were so much simpler.
Aww so sweet :)
@@sandhyavijapurkar3567 It's made up.
Stuff like this would never happen to me. That’s why I’m so depressed.
The walking closest to the road one, that was a thing in Britain back then because when they didnt have plumbing, people would literally throw their shit out the window. The man walked on the outside to protect the woman from the flying shit
Dunno about that one, but Jack London describes that it was a common courtesy everywhere for the man to walk on the outer part of the sidewalk, so that he can push the woman away if a car swerves in their direction or something.
We extended our 2nd date. The 1st was a blind date that I didn't know I was on (long story). We went to her place so she could let the dog out. She told me "The dog will jump all over you and act like an idiot. The cat... Nevermind the cat. You won't see her, because she hates everyone but me".
The dog ran up to me, sat at my feet, put her head on my thigh, and held perfectly still... I hadn't said a thing to her or even moved when she came over. The dog wouldn't move, even when my date called for her. Only went outside when I said "Go on".
Sitting on the couch and waiting for the dog to do her "business"... The cat came out, stared at me for about 45 seconds, then jumped up in my lap and let me rub it's belly. Didn't want to get down when we were ready to leave.
Oddly enough, these green flags almost backfired... When we left, she asked me if I was Satan and was using my powers to control the beasts of the land. I told her "If I was, don't you think I'd drive a better vehicle than the one I have".
She said "Good point, but I had to ask". Then she laughed...
We've been married almost 14 years now.
Note: I'm was kind of a farm kid growing up and actually read animals better than people. Somehow, I think most animals pick up on that.
This vid made me regain faith in humanity and dating.
I always find it weird when people make fake names in stories. There is millions of that name the person isn’t gonna know it’s them
Well this made me feel depressed and alone
Go outside and share it with your neighbor or better yet a friend or family member.
Same
Same
Hey man you aren't alone. Lots of us are in the same boat.
Same lmao
I've always been stubborn about going to the movies as a dating spot, because when I go to the movies, I go to see a movie of my choosing and don't want to spend 20 minutes arguing over which movie we should see together. I'm going to see my movie and they can either come along or go see whatever they want to see. That's why I usually try to avoid movie theaters as a dating location and try to go for shared activities like bowling, paintball or just dinner and a conversation.
But this one time, it was really pouring out and she insisted on going to the movies because she really wanted to see Troy (yes, this was quite a while ago). I had already seen it and didn't want to see it again, which I told her. I wanted to see Hellboy instead. She wouldn't budge on her movie and I wouldn't budge on mine, so we each went to see our movie separately and met up afterwards. I was expecting trouble and a lousy finish to our date, but we actually spent another 2 hours or so talking and had a great time. No happy ending, though. We didn't end up staying together or getting married or anything of the sort. We continued dating for a while but broke up amicably a few months later. We're still friends now.
There are green flags? Who knew. I only had red and black flags
Just gonna leave this here, me and my boyfriend have been long distance for about a year, when I finally met him and we had our first date neither of us had a car that was available to us so we ubered there and had some bratwurst, we could have left any time after that but spent a couple hours going around local shops, talking, and looking at books, up until the point where our phones were dying and it would have been impossible to uber back home, I’m still with him and he’s the sweetest and nicest guy I’ve ever met
Good lawd, that is an EXCESSIVE first date my guy
*’’Let’s call her Amanda, because that’s her name.”* I’ve never seen someone use their intellect in such exquisite ways.
*Watches video*
Man, I hope I find my green light someday
*Dies alone with no romantic or platonic relationship experience whatsoever*
“According to my *fianKAY* ”
Wait, so guys walking closer to the street then girls is old fashion now?
It looks like it.
2006 Mitsubishi Evolution Rally Sport Guys usually walk closer to the street so that the girl can be protected from the sun/rain by the overhead store 'umbrella' things. Not sure what you call them but I hope you get what I'm saying
The green flag for me was actually when my house burned down.
He'd been invited over to my parent's house for dinner and my little sister set the house on fire with a candle on accident. Everyone got out safe but our house was ruined and we had no house insurance. He was offered a ride home several times but he said he wanted to stay with me until I left to stay at my grandma's house.
We've been together for 13 years now.
I'm sad and lonely but this was nice.
I've never been on a date, but one of the Green Flags that I'd be looking for is if they are genuinely paying attention to conversations, and if they put effort into responding with something other than, “yeah”.
*"Ya'll'd've."*
Green flag with my current girlfriend:
we had been together for about a week, she came to my place, we start to talk and joke about how great is Adventure Time but the topic is interrupted by some sweet chikichiki, while we are at it I’m still thinking of all the things that I still have to tell her about Adventure Time and she stops and asks: “Am I the only one still thinking about Adventure Time?”
It was too funny I fell a little bit in love in that moment
that bionicle one.
So RUclips is flooding my recommended page with people copy and pasting things everyone already read last week on reddit. 10/10, what a creative and new RUclips channel.
Here I am watching a video about people finding a future together. And I feel lonely af, I'm 25 already and ever since school started I've never been kissed, in a relationship, or shown interest towards my persona. I guess there's always someone at the other end of the spectrum, to serve as the example from the other side of the coin. FML.
I must be a mirror of you then.
@2:11 - he ain't fooling anybody; that "punk teenager" was his wingman 🤣
The one about the snowstorm was so cute
Nice pic.
Green flag, my first time meeting my husband he came to my parents house where I was living at the time and he brought two bouquets of flowers... one for me and one for my mother. It's been 5 years and he's never stopped being a gentleman.
6:34, "Y'all'dve" *Y'all'dve **_Y'all'dve_** ... This pisses me off to no end.*
It's not serious, live a little lmao
Y've
Whomst'd've
The biggest green flag I ever had was when my SO went on a date and were listening to music on my phone during the car ride. The song "when a vegan eats a vegan" by bygones (which is a very fast pummeling powerviolence/grindcore song) came on. I went to skip it and she said "wait no I like it". She's a keeper alright.
Most non-westernized Asian and Eastern European girls will never even offer to pay on the first date 😂
Too bad, if women are allowed to work I'm not obligated to pay for their meals.
But you know its a cultural difference. In my country even friends dont split the bill but we take turns. (We argue like "i got this" "nope im paying") Only distant acquatances like co-workers split the bill. So if a girl wants to split the bill it usually means "i dont wanna see you again. Im gonna make sure you know you are not even in a friend zone but a stranger zone". So for me its a little bizarre to see a couple pay seperate(im not being judgemental, im just saying im not used to it) it makes me think
'do they split for condoms too? If its $9, does each person pay $4.5 or someone says "just give me 4, ill pay 5. Youre welcome"? Do they make sure each gets equal amout of orgasm? Do they meet halfway? If one cooks, the other should pay for ingredient?' Etc..
(Again, no judgement here, ive always been just curious)
@@yc2557 sometimes it's like that, yeah :P not so much the orgasm thing but the financial stuff
I always pay for my stuff. One, because its polite to do so. Two, because I don't like people thinking I'm just for the money. Three, I had a bad experience with a guy. He literally slammed his wallet on the counter of the pizza place and said and I quote: "If I pay for everything then you have to give me a kiss, c'mon baby".
This was a first date. What he said and the way he threw his wallet (it made a loud noise) was unacceptable. I said goodbye right there and said no to another date.
That shit was scary. I feel like I dodged a bullet.
I love when a person listens to me and then tries to ask more about the thing I'm talking about (even if they're not that interested in the topic). I do this for others. I learned a while ago that asking about the other person is good for carrying on a conversation (thanks Google), so try to avoid only talking about yourself, and hope the other person will ask questions about you or your topic as well.
If they're your right hand, they'll be loyal for as long as you live.
Unless you are a lefty
When they just like listening to you talk about your interests, regardless of whether or not they're mutual. Always a good sign.
8:50 *"Ego related to masculine stereotypes"* This is why chivalry is dead, because of people like her.
Notice how whenever men feel insecure, it's attributed to ego and "toxic masculinity" as opposed to men just being, you know, human. When women feel insecure, it's attributed to "oppression," the actions of men in general, etc.
My green flag was her revealing she had only dated women before. I pulled a lesbian. Turned out we were completely alike. And I'm still with her 6 years later. Love of my life.
My heart hurts. . . :,)
Talking about your hobbies with your date being genuinely curious about it. I am an aquaristic and keeping carnivorous fish (Exodon Paradoxi - nasty little buggers but somehow I managed to lose my heart to them). My date also owns an Aquarium so she was interested in my talking and I ended up showing her videos about the daily feeding-frenzies when I tossed some Red meat into the tank. We managed to talk about nothing else throughout the entire date. Next day she visited me over at my place to see it for herself. Let her do the feeding under my guidance. Of course she went too cocky and the Exodons swarmed her hand and bit her before I could even react (luckily for her they are rather small. Bites hurt and the wounds bleed a little but aren't dangerous as long as your Tetanus vaccination is up to date. Unlike their cousin, the Piranha their bite won't cause any damage to nerves or sinews either). Went patching her fingers up on the Couch with me being worried about her storming off because of it. Somehow the exact opposite happened. She laughed it off and fell around my neck after I was done fixing her hand. Started making out over it... Yes, my fish turned out being better wingmen than any of my friends recently^^
Lol relationships are effort
When you happen to ask if they were a Savage Garden fan back in the day and they respond “truly, madly, deeply”...
Amazing
When I quote a meme and he gets it right away UwU
This video was much more wholesome than I thought it would be! Adorable!
3:35 What kind of stupid logic is that? "Oh, nothing sexual on the first date." "What about the second date?" "Oh, we can do _anything_ sexual then!" What?
Since he didn't make any advances on the first date, he gave the impression that he wasn't interested. And for some reason girls are attracted to guys that aren't attracted to them. It's weird but that's the only "logical" explanation I can come up with
Women
@@shamartTM Nah, she's just trying to pretend to be modest. A non-THOT wouldn't go for physical intimacy with a guy after any date until she felt comfortable enough to be with him, and for a non-THOT, "comfortable" means "he probably won't immediately leave me and ghost me after having sex".
Some girls pretend to not be THOTS and think that modesty means "I only sleep on the second or third date to let him know what a serious, fun-loving, celibate maiden I am".
The easier it is to bed a girl, the more you should avoid that girl and her diseaseys and her future bastard children. Nothing good ever comes easy.
@@KPater-mf4je makes sense, too bad people aren't willing to stick it out nowadays
When we meet, we shook hands and neither of us let go. We just kept shaking and having a weird, dry, deadpan back-and-forth joke about Back to the Future that lasted like five minutes.
So yeah, you can be total opposites, but if you have the same sense of humor, it's a total green flag.
I laughed out loud at your scenario ! That's nice
8:57 Now thats a huge red flag for me lol
They were talking about mind games. aka waiting very long to text for example.
My husband and I's first date, he looked at me and said... "you worked at the McDonald's on so and so ave, in 1997 didn't you?!" I was like... Yeah why. And he described me perfectly then said, I almost broke up with my ex fiance because she saw I had a crush on you when we went there! " I am 6 years younger than him and me and his sister went to school together it turned out, and she was a scary looking girl then who I stayed away from. I knew his former stepbrother, who was our meme of the school... Like every morning the principal would call his name to the office and we would all say it together
When you don’t relate to these in any way...
*insert forever alone meme
When you've had lunch/dinner and are supposed to go see a movie afterward (and have already bought tickets) but decide last minute not to go because you don't want to stop the conversation you're having and would rather just walk around aimlessly and keep talking with each other for a couple more hours.
She went under the dinner table.
When she found it funny/ cute when i made a fool of myself when eating the burgers we cooked on first date, had a giant dinosaur plush (that became an awesome "wingman" on said first date) and you just keep talking and watching movies/ videos or whatever till you notice it's 4 am and she decides that you shouldn't be going home so you both lay in bed and just smile at each other and hold hands till like 8 am when you decide you can't sleep anyways so you just go back to watching movies.
Also that time when we were really making out for like the 2nd or 3rd time (at the 4th date i believe) and she swallows a booger of yours but doesn't say anything till weeks later to not break the mood. We still laugh at that (and are pretty disgusted that that happened)