Gay and HIV Positive in Korea | THE VOICELESS #28

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  • Опубликовано: 15 дек 2024

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  • @랑둥
    @랑둥 5 лет назад +3420

    12 : 27
    우리는 누구나 원하지 않는 질병에 걸려.
    질병은 도덕적인 문제가 아니고 자기를 보살피라는 신호니까
    너는 모든 병 가진 이가 그러하듯 슬픔 속에서도 삶을 지켜야 해.
    우와아아아!! 감사합니다!! 라고 댓글을 남겼다가 조금더 남깁니다
    어떤 말이 제일 좋을지 모르겠어서 제가 대학교수님께 들었던 말을 남깁니다.
    영상에도 담겨있지만 해주셨던 원문 그대로를 썼습니다.
    받아드려지기 어려운 주제의 영상인데 많은 응원의 댓글들을 보았습니다. 정말 감사합니다.
    많은 말들을 금손으로 편집해주시고 좋은 인터뷰 해주셔서 감사합니다.
    몸도 마음도 항상 건강하세요

    • @yjandbaby
      @yjandbaby 5 лет назад +24

      주용💎💎 영광이었습니다~~

    • @Isabel-lh8cx
      @Isabel-lh8cx 5 лет назад +477

      @Impreeza
      We have a disease that we don't want.
      Disease isn't a moral issue, it's a sign that you need to take care of yourself.
      You have to keep your life in sorrow, just as all the sick do.
      Wow! Thank you! I leave a comment, and then I leave a little more.
      I don't know what the best words would be, so I leave what I heard from the university professor.
      I wrote the original document Groro that you wrote in the video.
      It's a hard-to-receive video. I've seen a lot of comments from fans Thank you very much.
      Thank you for editing many words with your gold hands and for giving me a lot
      Be always healthy in body and mind.
      (A rough translation from Naver Papago translator)

    • @eddiearthit7562
      @eddiearthit7562 5 лет назад +10

      랑동씨. 항상힘내고행복하세요
      🇮🇩

    • @pilarf
      @pilarf 5 лет назад +32

      Ju Yong be strong and stay healthy, a lot of people are covering your back. I don't know korean but I'll subscribe to your channel. Fighting!

    • @pilarf
      @pilarf 5 лет назад +102

      @George Costarica That's not true, that's not what he's saying.

  • @tentimesthecharm4194
    @tentimesthecharm4194 5 лет назад +17818

    Lets just appreciate how brave he is for doing the interview

    • @kookietae8583
      @kookietae8583 5 лет назад +35

      safe space definitely

    • @randomvideos7028
      @randomvideos7028 5 лет назад +15

      Brave or paid?

    • @kookietae8583
      @kookietae8583 5 лет назад +18

      50,000 SUBSCRIBERS without Videos both

    • @bertvanachter6632
      @bertvanachter6632 5 лет назад

      Really

    • @14KroshTV
      @14KroshTV 5 лет назад +6

      gay community has such tribalism mentality. if only they have individual mentality this wouldn't happen more.

  • @CalvinCoolidge1776
    @CalvinCoolidge1776 5 лет назад +3915

    Yunjee is very respectable towards those she interviews. Good for her.

    • @judas7585
      @judas7585 5 лет назад +11

      Have you seen lisa Guerrero Form Inside Edition. Omg she is horrible

    • @aeriise
      @aeriise 5 лет назад +10

      Midzy, Blink, Cheshire, Monbebe, Everglow no one asked. How is she even related? They’re literally an “inside” channel

    • @judas7585
      @judas7585 5 лет назад +2

      @@aeriise Shut Up. And I never Said anyone asked

    • @padmanavbora7653
      @padmanavbora7653 4 года назад

      @@judas7585 yep. Lisa only got a pretty face nothing else

  • @sakura20ify
    @sakura20ify 5 лет назад +3762

    He's so well spoken, and seems like an intelligent boy, I wish you the best..

    • @lumozade2182
      @lumozade2182 5 лет назад +16

      No one
      girls: good looking guy,must be intelligent.

    • @renji2600
      @renji2600 5 лет назад +65

      Zawad Mohammed maybe your mad because you’re stupid and ugly

    • @CaffeineBrittany
      @CaffeineBrittany 5 лет назад +11

      Why is it surprising that he’s intelligent and well spoken? Just because he has HIV?

    • @NaomiIsSoAwesome98
      @NaomiIsSoAwesome98 5 лет назад +40

      @@lumozade2182 your insecurity is showing luv xx

    • @shaundmello658
      @shaundmello658 5 лет назад +1

      More like dumb

  • @BEZBZ1
    @BEZBZ1 5 лет назад +3359

    She’s a wonderful interviewer- she made the whole interaction so comfortable.

    • @Enlightened08
      @Enlightened08 5 лет назад +86

      Shes my fave out of all the hosts. Her interviews are always so warm. She is always genuinely interested in what the guests are saying.

    • @mpwall123
      @mpwall123 5 лет назад +27

      Enlightened Sista that’s one of the things that stood out for me too. She’s very good at what she does.

    • @EyeLean5280
      @EyeLean5280 5 лет назад +8

      Yes, she's brilliant.

    • @nagendraraman6410
      @nagendraraman6410 4 года назад +1

      @@Enlightened08 she is extremely straight forward .

    • @lombo5293
      @lombo5293 4 года назад +1

      May be She's gay too 😂😂

  • @Vera-tw8ck
    @Vera-tw8ck 5 лет назад +3349

    Don't forget, use protection during intercourse, regardless of your sexual orientation!!!

    • @natashat.9098
      @natashat.9098 5 лет назад +20

      Protection won't prevent anything, you're still taking a chance

    • @beanship5942
      @beanship5942 5 лет назад +108

      @@natashat.9098 I think mostly everyone knows that, nothing is going to be 100% foolproof.

    • @luckylilyy
      @luckylilyy 5 лет назад +50

      lovekawaii p0p it’s still better to wear one

    • @KingofAloha808
      @KingofAloha808 4 года назад +16

      @@natashat.9098 Did you mean "everything" instead of "anything"?

    • @gibinas8466
      @gibinas8466 4 года назад +31

      It still helps to lower the chances. What is wrong with the people here?

  • @gothroachie
    @gothroachie 5 лет назад +4828

    I love how your topics are getting more and more open minded

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 5 лет назад +38

      If they weren't so open they wouldn't have AIDS

    • @Harry-tt6be
      @Harry-tt6be 5 лет назад +154

      @@cooliipie Can you please shut the f*ck up you uneducated tw@t?

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +60

      Totally agree I love that they have open more topics which are taboo in Asian countries it needs to be addressed and so people are aware and sensitive to those issues .

    • @TakoyakiAdventures
      @TakoyakiAdventures 5 лет назад +12

      Agreed. Diversity among Asians. Love the representation!!! Thank you

    • @greenbillugaming2781
      @greenbillugaming2781 5 лет назад +2

      more like promoting paranoia and delusions.

  • @हानासुगिसाकी
    @हानासुगिसाकी 5 лет назад +6195

    He's pretty brave for speaking out publicly about bring gay and HIV Positive. South Korea is still a pretty conservative country.

    • @ihwanchn
      @ihwanchn 5 лет назад +87

      Asian Countries* Im chinese and if i said this to my mom it would be difficult to comprehend for her

    • @KabobHope
      @KabobHope 5 лет назад +137

      He is a brave man. Being more open about HIV and being gay actually reduces transmission rates. It also increases survival time for people living with HIV. My doctor believes there will be a cure in 5 years. I don't know if she's right about the timeline but I think she may be close. It's not unusual for people to live for decades with HIV is they find the right medicine and are adherent.

    • @superninjacreed
      @superninjacreed 5 лет назад +67

      South Korea is a pretty western liberal democracy but they havent given up grounds on their conservative traditions. Which they dont necessarily have to, it's up to their people whether they want to change their ways with this.

    • @TakoyakiAdventures
      @TakoyakiAdventures 5 лет назад +7

      This story will always be brave- no matter where he is from. Supporting!!!

    • @ihwanchn
      @ihwanchn 5 лет назад +17

      @no name are u serious? Aaking me that, there's gay people around the globe

  • @kristoffersoliman5130
    @kristoffersoliman5130 5 лет назад +6534

    "A disease is not something that symbolizes your sin, it's rather a message to take care of your own body."

    • @ThuyLe-ve2kz
      @ThuyLe-ve2kz 5 лет назад +95

      Kristoffer Soliman I really liked his last 2 sentences. I think anyone who gets this message when they’re first diagnosed will bring them more peace, especially in countries such as Korea

    • @bojongkia123
      @bojongkia123 5 лет назад +14

      Kristoffer Soliman I love this comment too!

    • @thesismoon8125
      @thesismoon8125 5 лет назад +36

      Pfft!- he just saying that to comfort himself😶

    • @Peechiness
      @Peechiness 5 лет назад +13

      LOL that's like me condemning someone who keeps getting the flu or cold because of whatever I want to say like " oh you're dirty, God is punishing you, natural selection in the making, your parents were shitty, etc" I mean I can say anything.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 5 лет назад +3

      Kristoffer Soliman Good quote and hope it inspires someone with an illness.

  • @emabebela
    @emabebela 5 лет назад +6587

    Everything very nice, but both him and the interviewer missed one thing: regardless of your sexuality, use protection!

    • @iwanttobeapopstar008
      @iwanttobeapopstar008 5 лет назад +549

      Finally somebody said it. I don't like how nowadays everyone is SO Focus on accepting a person but not in prevention. And this is not the only time i see this. Why nobody talks about the mistakes that leads you to that situation. I do feel sorry for him and i'm glad he is doing well, but prevention is such an important part that they didn't even mentioned. So sad.

    • @emabebela
      @emabebela 5 лет назад +62

      @@iwanttobeapopstar008 Thank you and believe me, I wish it wasn't necessary for me to leave that comment, but it is what it is..

    • @shellyshelly71
      @shellyshelly71 5 лет назад +246

      I was surprised no one mentioned using protection and practicing safe sex. It doesn't matter how you meet or where you do it, that shouldn't stop you from using protection.

    • @emabebela
      @emabebela 5 лет назад +19

      @@shellyshelly71 Exactly!!!

    • @TheHekateris
      @TheHekateris 5 лет назад +9

      This!!

  • @villainx5384
    @villainx5384 5 лет назад +2105

    He's actually adorable, any man who would have him will be the luckiest I hope he heals fast

    • @vybl08
      @vybl08 5 лет назад +132

      THERES no cure for hiv tho

    • @yolandasanchez5680
      @yolandasanchez5680 5 лет назад +293

      I think what they mean is that he himself heals,mentally,spiritually,and so on.We all know there is no cure but I know there’s hope for him to live a long healthy life and I too hope he heals 💜

    • @zeff8820
      @zeff8820 5 лет назад +124

      There is no cure for NOW! But he can live longer and healthy just like non-hiv, It seems like everyone forgets about the possibility in the future for the cure of HIV

    • @biamcam8825
      @biamcam8825 5 лет назад +11

      @@zeff8820 you know they will never be cures. They'll just kill the creator or make it unaffordable so only celebs can have it

    • @oanhnguyen-hp9pt
      @oanhnguyen-hp9pt 5 лет назад +53

      So what? There hasn’t an exact method to cure HIV, but compared to 10 years ago, it has been a drastic change? Why do you guys keep making people frustrated? What if one day you guys accidently infected, how will you type those comments?

  • @TheRealHonestT
    @TheRealHonestT 5 лет назад +2722

    I can't imagine what it's like to be gay and HIV positive in South Korea. My thoughts and prayers are with him

    • @wait2682
      @wait2682 5 лет назад +31

      In south korea, people like straight people if you know what I mean....lesbian/bisexual/gay, people would think being that would be weird.

    • @Rhetzelle
      @Rhetzelle 5 лет назад +82

      Country full of merciless netizens

    • @rose191991
      @rose191991 5 лет назад +1

      Rhetz Yoshioka wow u hit the nail on the head!

    • @seonyeonhoes2294
      @seonyeonhoes2294 5 лет назад

      What does HIV mean?

    • @PlasticDoll.
      @PlasticDoll. 5 лет назад +36

      @Pusalieth so straights don't have sex with randoms? Besides it's not like it's allowed in Korea, it's totally shamed upon. How do you think it'll be? It's all in secrecy or not in public which leads to only strangers. Besides with all the frustrations, anger and sadness of course.. maybe you haven't been through any of that? although you don't have to to understand that. We're not sluts on the streets, just people like you with different sexual orientation.

  • @twoteen1716
    @twoteen1716 5 лет назад +1077

    I like the reporter. She's comfortable and open-minded.
    He is so brave. Stay strong and healthy. 🤗

    • @tazboy1934
      @tazboy1934 5 лет назад +4

      Brave???he should resist temptation if he is brave

    • @jamesheng1878
      @jamesheng1878 5 лет назад +51

      Tazboy you completely missed the point of this video didn’t you?

    • @alwaysbefifi
      @alwaysbefifi 5 лет назад +14

      @@tazboy1934 You can't be that stupid right? bravery is subjective get over yourself.

    • @manavamp9950
      @manavamp9950 5 лет назад +5

      Tazboy you are pretty dumb to not understand the whole entire meaning of this 14 minute interview is that he is being BRAVE to come out and talk about HIV in a conservative country like S. Korea.

    • @DeepaSingh-c9p
      @DeepaSingh-c9p Месяц назад

      Hlo ​@@jamesheng1878

  • @kennyliu9589
    @kennyliu9589 5 лет назад +2965

    You'll definitely be able to date someone when you meet the right one. My boyfriend is HIV positive, and he's still the person I love.

    • @kathloveeee
      @kathloveeee 5 лет назад +73

      Run

    • @ForevaLaTrelle
      @ForevaLaTrelle 5 лет назад +306

      I don’t think I could do it. I respect you. I would always that little voice in the back of my head telling me that I could get HIV. I know there’s a medicine to prevent HIV for ppl like u who regularly come into contact with ppl with HIV, but it’s not 100% effective.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 5 лет назад +145

      Kenny Liu Great you love him regardless of his illness. Not everyone can do that.

    • @clss9312
      @clss9312 5 лет назад +14

      Can I just ask why?

    • @kennyliu9589
      @kennyliu9589 5 лет назад +234

      @@ForevaLaTrelle It's ok to think for yourself, it's our duty to take good care of our own health. But you should know the fact that those who are HIV positive, if they take medicine regularly, after months when the virus can be no longer detected, it's quite safe. You can search for u=u to get more knowledge about this.

  • @billies_dog
    @billies_dog 4 года назад +398

    “you must have a hard time keeping it to yourself, why didn’t you tell me sooner” the friend we all need...

  • @misst.e.a.187
    @misst.e.a.187 4 года назад +468

    This young man is so humble, intelligent and very brave. His openness, fears and honestly melt my heart. The interviewer did an excellent job in coming across in a warm and non-judgemental way. Two lovely people.

  • @loveweaker
    @loveweaker 5 лет назад +2048

    Girl like her make feel calm when on conversation.

    • @kotare86
      @kotare86 5 лет назад +61

      Malik Lutfi She's has great interviewing skills!

    • @bobydean1839
      @bobydean1839 5 лет назад +1

      What?

    • @whoami2247
      @whoami2247 5 лет назад +7

      Grammar rippppppppp

    • @bobydean1839
      @bobydean1839 5 лет назад +7

      YeMaya B I presume English isn’t their first language.

    • @onengkusumah2905
      @onengkusumah2905 5 лет назад

      which one?

  • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
    @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +2354

    Such a brave young man it takes a lot to come out and share his story especially with all the odds against him but it also always takes one person to make that change I applaud him for what he is doing especially in such a conservative country as Korea . Bless his heart I wish him all the love and happiness this world has to offer 💓

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +31

      Necro Fell i don’t respond to trolls can you take your comment else where he’s just making awareness known and sharing his story what’s the harm in that , I don’t want to argue with a stranger just keep your opinions to yourself . If your close minded I already know the issues faced etc etc .

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +20

      Necro Fell educate yourself first

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +14

      Necro Fell whats the point of responding to me I don’t know you you don’t know me and it is brave common sense where he comes from Korea’s conversative and he just outed himself in the media that’s what I meant by brave so I’m not the one to educate myself it’s you for even commenting to me directly when I really don’t see the point like yes everyone passes one way or another but him sharing awareness is really brave of him and big even though I’m sure sharing his story would come with backlash and what not the fact he even said something he is brave . I don’t even know why I’m explaining myself to you . But that’s my thoughts not yours so you should mind your own business when I wasn’t even talking to you in the first place but clearly you felt the need to comment me I don’t even know why 🤦‍♀️

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +4

      Necro Fell clearly your being a troll Right now

    • @Princesssjasmin-s3p
      @Princesssjasmin-s3p 5 лет назад +4

      Necro Fell and FYI bravery can come in all forms not just one way of thinking

  • @sammyliu503
    @sammyliu503 5 лет назад +949

    I'm going to honest. There were a lot of misconception I had of HIV before watching this... Thanks a lot for this. Bless this guy.

    • @OneStepToDeath420
      @OneStepToDeath420 5 лет назад +40

      It's never too late to learn something new :)

    • @brucewayne1636
      @brucewayne1636 5 лет назад +6

      At first I thought you'd HIV and my reaction was like😥

    • @alleemaria97
      @alleemaria97 5 лет назад +3

      Bless you for being open minded :)

    • @robopecha
      @robopecha 5 лет назад +3

      how? are you time traveling from the past?

    • @robertlee-nq6mg
      @robertlee-nq6mg 5 лет назад +1

      @Prime Lopez go for rapid hiv test together with your partner, and if both are negative, it's no cause for worry.
      But remember there are other stds out there.

  • @oliviaperalta9720
    @oliviaperalta9720 4 года назад +312

    I have so much respect for Asian Boss and the way they interview everyone as politely and respectfully as possible. Every person they interview is treated with dignity even when many others would be cruel based off the subject matter. I love this channel.

    • @hackjaelee
      @hackjaelee 4 года назад

      It’s their job ...

    • @lilly3923
      @lilly3923 4 года назад +4

      Jae most people in this field don’t do it right, however Asian boss does

    • @mi-y
      @mi-y 4 года назад

      True they don't shove mic in people's faces and force them

  • @AAAAAAAAAAAAAa644
    @AAAAAAAAAAAAAa644 4 года назад +276

    The interviewer is so nice. She made this interview so comfortable for him

  • @akuabaryeh5181
    @akuabaryeh5181 5 лет назад +1174

    He is so well spoken

    • @sperxin6793
      @sperxin6793 5 лет назад +65

      @no name it means that he is able to express and convey personal thoughts with the right words and clearly.

    • @kennyrakwong1707
      @kennyrakwong1707 5 лет назад +66

      @no name i think you're reaching

    • @ohemdoublegee
      @ohemdoublegee 5 лет назад +33

      @no name it means hes thoughtful, intelligent, and sincere.

    • @sperxin6793
      @sperxin6793 5 лет назад +21

      @no name Perhaps akua find him very interesting and like the way of speaking of the guy. I think It is more a personal feeling rather than a fact.

    • @kennyrakwong1707
      @kennyrakwong1707 5 лет назад +46

      @no name its really not that deep, no point at being offended at a compliment

  • @kralwendelin
    @kralwendelin 5 лет назад +216

    Respect! I have been HIV-positive for 30 years now, and I had the same struggles when I found out. It's great that you are so open about it - and I hope you will have as fulfilling and joyous a life as I have had and still have. Lots of love!

    • @hijack69
      @hijack69 5 лет назад

      Purely out of curiosity and I don't mean to be disrespectful at all. Do you know how you got infected with the virus? Was it through unprotected sex or some other way?

    • @marie080385
      @marie080385 4 года назад

      @@hijack69 in my knowledge, when you have sex with an HIV+, thats when you get it.. please correct me if im wrong.. 😊

    • @jiminsthighsrapmonsdimples6240
      @jiminsthighsrapmonsdimples6240 4 года назад

      Nowdays it seems that HIV positive people live longer. Has this always been the same? I guess not. It's due to medication just like he mentioned in the video too?

    • @kralwendelin
      @kralwendelin 4 года назад

      @@hijack69 - the condom broke ...

  • @nikk1921
    @nikk1921 5 лет назад +758

    He is so cute, handsome wellspoken intelligent... Perfect

  • @thatmeii1320
    @thatmeii1320 5 лет назад +886

    I actually started to cry. He deserves the whole world. I want to hug him, he is so brave!
    There is a lot of huge problems in South Korea. They need sex ED, yet they don't have it. They need to spread awarness about STDs, yet they don't do anything. And don't even let me start with their relationship with LGBTQ+ community.
    A lot of work ahead, lemme tell you. But let's hope for the best.

    • @yoselingomez7071
      @yoselingomez7071 5 лет назад +14

      Maria Taiga but you can’t expect them to be as open to it as you do. You think it’s wrong that they’re like that because you’ve grown up with an environment open to LGBTQ and Sex Ed in school. In SK they’re still soo conservative on topics such as these. You can’t expect them to change just because you think it’s wrong. They’re society is different to yours.

    • @thatmeii1320
      @thatmeii1320 5 лет назад +31

      @@yoselingomez7071 I don't expect them to change overnight. The things I wrote are things, that are needed. I know how conservative SK is, how hard it would be for them to change. And it is not necessarily wrong, it's just a old stereotype. I don't expect then to be as open as I am, but they could try - and not only them.
      And about the place I live in - I grew up in middle Europe, and trust me, people are not really accepting, they are pretty much the opposite. So I know how ugly can things get.
      This is just my opinion. 100 people will always have 100 opinions, we should respect each other's.

    • @bofuthereturn
      @bofuthereturn 5 лет назад +6

      koreans still have lower std rate than the west and one of the lowest in the world. they are fine how they are.

    • @grandhisgrandhis8946
      @grandhisgrandhis8946 5 лет назад +8

      Still a long way to go. Most of us, asian, still so conservative about this kind of topics eventhough we know how important it is to know about sex ed as early as possible.

    • @안녕-l1e
      @안녕-l1e 4 года назад +8

      I really agree with thos comment! I'm a middle schooler at South korea, and we had never learned nor heard about HIV or things about condom.

  • @federica8836
    @federica8836 5 лет назад +174

    his voice is so relaxing .

  • @mauvehawaii
    @mauvehawaii 5 лет назад +595

    it was a death sentence a long time ago. science has improved a lot so there is hope.

    • @restinaaprilianti4798
      @restinaaprilianti4798 5 лет назад +8

      Yas, thats also what i think about

    • @DJ_TRON
      @DJ_TRON 5 лет назад +11

      @Lana Joy
      They will but something else will take its place. That's reality.

    • @natatatt
      @natatatt 5 лет назад +13

      Yes, nowadays you can have a close to typical lifespan if you're consistent with the medication.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 5 лет назад +22

      mauvehawaii I am glad that science has advanced as I remember back in the early 90s this was a death sentence.

    • @butterfly9720
      @butterfly9720 5 лет назад +10

      Lana Joy even they find a cure , they either gon kill the person who created the cure or they will hide it in the public

  • @pambarab5506
    @pambarab5506 5 лет назад +198

    Utmost respect for this young man. He is making the best of a bad situation, and trying to help others, while fighting HIV and prejudice.

  • @alanparker9608
    @alanparker9608 4 года назад +42

    As gay myself, I have to say that he’s actually so adorable, any man who would have him will be the luckiest. My best wishes to him

  • @Jmald006
    @Jmald006 5 лет назад +118

    He’s so eloquent, so well spoken. I can’t imagine being brave enough to speak about this in such a conservative, old school society. It is people like this young man who slowly change the views of a society. You are brave and loved thank you for your courage to speak out on this and educate others.

  • @crazychill6263
    @crazychill6263 5 лет назад +416

    I really admire him!
    He seems extremely calm and collected, like he's resting deeply wihtin himself and all the aspects he mentioned and the information he gave were very well thoguht-over and researched.
    Were I in korea, I'd love to have him as one of my friends and support him in whichever way I could.
    Should you ever read this and happen to speak english:
    Please stay strong. Life can be bitter and cruel, but curses and blessings are the same in essence, depending on how you take them.
    You're not alone and please stay the way you are.❤

  • @brad_choe13
    @brad_choe13 5 лет назад +846

    ❤️ I am so proud of this young man. Being Korean, gay, and HIV+ in Korea must be so tough. It’s great he is surrounded by good people. Keep fighting the fight. I’m a gay Korean-American living in Los Angeles and my husband and I send you LOVE and support.

  • @1412Bunny
    @1412Bunny 5 лет назад +279

    wow i really respect him for coming forward to publicly speak about being gay and hiv positive in korea

    • @Hannah-tp3fl
      @Hannah-tp3fl 5 лет назад +12

      safe space how bothered do you have to be that you have to comment on every comment supporting him??

    • @Hoz-vk3sg
      @Hoz-vk3sg 5 лет назад

      I DO NOT

    • @NaokoMarie
      @NaokoMarie 5 лет назад +2

      safe space you truly live up to your username, congratulations boomer

  • @rawrxd215
    @rawrxd215 5 лет назад +82

    Man his voice sounds so calm and gentle

  • @macross7k
    @macross7k 5 лет назад +319

    I wish him hope and recovery soon. Medical technologies has improved tremendously over the years.. He will be cured. I believe!

    • @raytan9369
      @raytan9369 4 года назад +5

      Use protection la

    • @braudadoug6526
      @braudadoug6526 4 года назад +8

      Cured, yes. But at what cost? Too much even for a life's savings. Why admire a person who actively acquired HIV and yet you just sleep on people with terminal illnesses or people that didn't had a choice? This person knew the risks and this is the outcome of his decisions. Would you still admire him for his decisions? There is nothing brave about this.

    • @李晓旭-i1t
      @李晓旭-i1t 4 года назад +15

      @@braudadoug6526 He has explained the reason why he was infected. If you watch the video carefully you won't say that.

    • @aabe1189
      @aabe1189 4 года назад +1

      @@李晓旭-i1t He didn't say anything of using protection, though.

    • @nahnahnah30
      @nahnahnah30 4 года назад +2

      @@_blank-_ Come on man. You are not perfect. Work on yourself and what you do wrong. You probably lie or think innapropriate things who knows. You have to work on you heart and it's a hard thing to do.

  • @flyday.chinatown
    @flyday.chinatown 5 лет назад +323

    Thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you Asian Boss.
    I've been volunteering at a shelter for HIV-positive people and people with AIDS in Italy for many years now. I want to say it was a changing experience for me: it makes you realize how lucky we all are to live a healthy life and all of the small futile problems seem to suddenly disappear. But I also discovered that there are a lot of misconceptions about this disease and that makes me very sad.
    I often wondered "How could it be in Korea, the country where I want to live?". The number of HIV-positive people in South Korea is quite small compared to other countries, so I couldn't find many infos.
    Turns out, thanks to this amazing channel, that there is a lot of disinformation but that there's also a brave, beautiful person like this young man, trying to educate people, battling everyday. I feel grateful for what he's doing and I hope he always stays strong. He should be an example to all of us. Thank you.

  • @sineadiloveyou
    @sineadiloveyou 5 лет назад +299

    This guy is so educated and seems like a genuine and sweet person. 💜 Much love to him. I hope he is healthy for many many years, and happy too. Many hugs from Peru.

    • @shawnaedwards2421
      @shawnaedwards2421 5 лет назад +1

      Andrea.Isabel if he was so educated he would have used protection

    • @ninnie2155
      @ninnie2155 5 лет назад +5

      @@shawnaedwards2421 the problem is that because korea is such a conservative country gay people do not get the right education for safe sex, so often the person just didn't get the education they needed which is sad.

    • @shawnaedwards2421
      @shawnaedwards2421 5 лет назад

      sanguk k gotcha!

  • @lykspamintuan6758
    @lykspamintuan6758 5 лет назад +34

    The discussion from this guy's about HIV is more clearly than the discussion from my prof at my school.
    Get well soon bro. You deserve to have a better life

  • @geb.9436
    @geb.9436 5 лет назад +60

    love his voice, the lowness is so rich.
    my heart goes out to him, i hope he stays strong.

  • @annak.5477
    @annak.5477 5 лет назад +350

    He is so cute. Does he have a partner? If not, I hope he gets one that love him dearly.

    • @tetsuyatakeo3516
      @tetsuyatakeo3516 4 года назад +36

      "He is cute. Does he have a partner?"
      After reading your 1st and 2nd sentence, my impression was you wanted to date him. How cute~. 😊
      "If not, I hope he gets one that love him dearly."
      Then after reading your 3rd sentence, I went oh~. 😐
      But yeah. Also wishing him all the best. 🙏🙏🙏😉

    • @irisgaldino181
      @irisgaldino181 4 года назад +14

      @@tetsuyatakeo3516 by the profile pic i'd she is a girl lol

    • @aquablue1252
      @aquablue1252 4 года назад +3

      Id date him for sure

    • @urinelover6667
      @urinelover6667 4 года назад +3

      fleetlordavtar gtfo 😭

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide 3 года назад

      @@irisgaldino181 you can't say that anymore.

  • @bendangamong3019
    @bendangamong3019 5 лет назад +81

    I cried when he said his friend cried after knowing he has HIV+😭😭😭

  • @vitamindeath02
    @vitamindeath02 5 лет назад +71

    he seems like such a sweetheart and my heart goes out to him. he seems so articulate and well mannered, i aspire to be brave like him in my everyday life. juyong, fighting !! ❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @chigasaki06
    @chigasaki06 5 лет назад +45

    That was honestly a beautiful interview. I pray for his continued growth and future success in whatever he chooses to do.

  • @marimaru8502
    @marimaru8502 4 года назад +36

    Wow he is such a brave person, and you can tell he has a good heart. He is making such a big difference by educating people. So many of the things he explained made so much sense. I hope life gives him nothing but good things.

  • @nicolekeane4895
    @nicolekeane4895 4 года назад +7

    As a Mum, I am proud that you have learnt that you are important and loved. Thank you for your courage and educating people. You will be ok, you are true to yourself and i wish you many blessing and luck. I hope in the not to near distant future, you find your dream job and live a happy and productive life. I believe we all have our paths to walk. You keep your head up and do not feel less than other people.

  • @roelidani
    @roelidani 5 лет назад +205

    He is a baby!😭 Sending him hugs and lots love.❤

    • @sam.n7762
      @sam.n7762 5 лет назад

      Nani?

    • @kdizlizzle
      @kdizlizzle 5 лет назад +5

      Baby? He’s a grown man 😕

    • @lumozade2182
      @lumozade2182 5 лет назад +9

      Do you know how stupid you sound

    • @codyannrose3241
      @codyannrose3241 5 лет назад

      Zawad Mohammed exactly

    • @roelidani
      @roelidani 5 лет назад +1

      He is younger than I and clearly had not been educated properly leading to his HIV positive status.

  • @wthmimi
    @wthmimi 5 лет назад +26

    *I just want to give this man a huge hug for being so brave!*

  • @happymealsareyumm
    @happymealsareyumm 5 лет назад +219

    This doesn't even have to do with gay or HIV but the lack of sexually education PERIOD in Korea is the problem. A good portion are IGNORANT when it comes to STDS and an even bigger portion don't know what a condom is for. They think only about pregnancy when it comes to condoms NOT because of spreading STDS and that's why this is happening. I met someone once who didn't even know what STDS were. It's quite scary. Prayers for them.this young man is a beautiful well spoken soul.

    • @simone6169
      @simone6169 5 лет назад +2

      happymealsareyumm do they not have sex Ed in Korean schools?

    • @ayumiixo
      @ayumiixo 5 лет назад +1

      @@simone6169 I'm pretty sure in the video the man said no there are barely any but I'm not sure :)

    • @TheSlaveOfAllah1992
      @TheSlaveOfAllah1992 5 лет назад

      Korea is a backward country but gay men are over-represented when it comes to HIV

    • @sunshine2788
      @sunshine2788 5 лет назад +8

      Simone koreans are really conservative so they don’t talk about sex you can see even in their shows holding hands is still considered a big deal

    • @blank.9301
      @blank.9301 5 лет назад +6

      @@sunshine2788 Because it's a highly Christian populated country too, 👍.

  • @jjasb3ar
    @jjasb3ar 4 года назад +88

    I feel sorry for this guy, since people in Korea they judge other people because of what they feel and look, being gay is like a sin for other people, it's sad

  • @causewhynotdf
    @causewhynotdf 5 лет назад +35

    I truly admire him for doing this interview. He sounds so educated and seems like a really sweet person!. Your a brave young man!

  • @kimchim2785
    @kimchim2785 5 лет назад +50

    His voice is so soothing 😭 and he speaks beautifully!
    The quote that somebody had told him at 12:20 was also so beautiful ❤️

  • @claylover9845
    @claylover9845 5 лет назад +42

    It'll be a generation or two before there's any big changes with this topic in SK. For now, I can only applaud this young man for his courage and his determination to educate others. I wish nothing but the best for him.

  • @dj_bae
    @dj_bae 5 лет назад +80

    He’s so brave. I’m glad he has the medication that needs to stay healthy. Being HIV positive is not the death sentence it used to be.

    • @Hoz-vk3sg
      @Hoz-vk3sg 5 лет назад +5

      If people started to think that HIV is not the death sentence any more. then you know what will happen

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 5 лет назад +2

      Jan Bae I agree and I remember back in the early 90s when it was a death sentence. Glad that the medical field has advanced so much to help people with HIV prolong their lives.

  • @ecofamily8990
    @ecofamily8990 4 года назад +43

    It's great that he is taking medication. Hope the guy who passed the virus to him in the first place would get medication too.

  • @yashara8146
    @yashara8146 5 лет назад +10

    he's so brave and courageous for doing this interview. He's such an inspiration to tons of people out there.

  • @sms5879
    @sms5879 5 лет назад +16

    Thank you Asian Boss for making these interviews to bring awareness! He is really strong for speaking on this.

  • @Sh4ndr3
    @Sh4ndr3 5 лет назад +22

    This was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing his story with us Asianboss!.

  • @monageorge3431
    @monageorge3431 5 лет назад +52

    I will support him all the way, and I am very pleased that he spoke up about HIV-positive and being gay.
    He must keep on fighting for your life to live.

  • @chibimoon_3620
    @chibimoon_3620 5 лет назад +92

    who dares to downvote this? this guy is so brave. everyone, lets be more openminded..

  • @ester1004
    @ester1004 Год назад +4

    3 years since this post and I hope he is doing well. I sincerely wish him all the best. He is such a lovely person. 🙏🏼

  • @akyazzie73
    @akyazzie73 5 лет назад +38

    Amazing keep up the curiosity factor. I lost my brother to AIDS related illness in 1993, education is important.

  • @hobiaegyo9714
    @hobiaegyo9714 5 лет назад +265

    We should support Ju Yong and his channel. Lets give him some love :)

    • @makayla9073
      @makayla9073 5 лет назад +24

      safe space Then don’t, no need to comment.

    • @Unknown-ph8ii
      @Unknown-ph8ii 5 лет назад +8

      no name it's okay u can still sent him messages like " i'll support u " or " stay strong "

    • @Hoz-vk3sg
      @Hoz-vk3sg 5 лет назад +1

      NO

    • @fancii
      @fancii 5 лет назад +4

      @@Hoz-vk3sg then you didn't need to comment. Idiot

    • @Punk_Hazard_
      @Punk_Hazard_ 5 лет назад +1

      Nope, only gay support other gay. Iam just simple man

  • @quacker390
    @quacker390 5 лет назад +60

    Awww bless him he seems like a good person.

  • @wating1568
    @wating1568 4 года назад +8

    I am also diagnosed with HIV for 3-4years now. It's quite hard at first, but eventually It's pretty normal for me in my everyday living. I am just greatful that my family and friends accepts my situation. You just need to stay healthy and take ur medicines regularly. Fighting! 😊

  • @jiminisdivine8526
    @jiminisdivine8526 4 года назад +6

    He is so well spoken. I hope the best for this guy. Stay strong! 💓

  • @RosesChloEe
    @RosesChloEe 5 лет назад +29

    Wah, just the thing i searched on youtube few weeks ago.Asianboss really is doing great job.

  • @yuritori2068
    @yuritori2068 5 лет назад +43

    He is very strong come out and saying all this, wish him the best !

  • @ivy-py4sh
    @ivy-py4sh 5 лет назад +93

    he has the sweetest smile

  • @JMoonGem
    @JMoonGem 5 лет назад +8

    12:22 what a great message and a beautiful way to look at life. I will be sharing that with my clients, hoping it helps them to accept their circumstances better.

  • @LearningToLinka
    @LearningToLinka 4 года назад +1

    This was such a respectful and gentle interview on such an important topic. Thank you for showing the love and respect that this sweet and gentle man deserves.

  • @joycebodman2851
    @joycebodman2851 5 лет назад +72

    This makes me really sad. He should have friends and family there for him as support. He is very brave and strong. My thoughts and prayers are with him 🙏❤️

  • @なるほど-d7o
    @なるほど-d7o 5 лет назад +23

    man, being a gay and hiv+ must've gone through a super rough shitstorm...
    much respect to this man to stand out and talk about it

  • @tharaallie1889
    @tharaallie1889 5 лет назад +16

    Bless this man it takes a lot of courage to talk about things like this especially in Korea
    I wish for him nothing but a life time of happiness and health 😭❤️

  • @Crazy_Humorous
    @Crazy_Humorous 5 лет назад +4

    Wow, I applaud this young man for sharing his story. He might have encouraged others in the same position to seek help. I hope they start an organization to guide and protect people going through the same thing. Bravo!

  • @walkerramsey9700
    @walkerramsey9700 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for being brace enough to share this, it really does help us younger generation and educates other. I'm proud🙏🏻

  • @shayaflague3450
    @shayaflague3450 5 лет назад +50

    He’s very courageous for coming out, especially in such a conservative country. I just want to hug him❤️

    • @kookietae8583
      @kookietae8583 5 лет назад +2

      safe space do u have something better to do than reply to every comment supporting him ? lol bye

    • @olay2212
      @olay2212 5 лет назад +1

      @Alfredo Gomez and thats on what? Period

  • @astraeusgodofthestars676
    @astraeusgodofthestars676 5 лет назад +48

    Bless his soul and brave heart 😢

  • @월앙-v4s
    @월앙-v4s 5 лет назад +6

    This channel always corrects misconceptions I had about such topics.. Thanks for the interview and I wish you all the best.

  • @werdiningrum2336
    @werdiningrum2336 5 лет назад +5

    I have falling in love with the interviewer. She know how to ask with polite way. Make someone feels comfortable for answer even in the sensitive question.

  • @j-dope6536
    @j-dope6536 4 года назад +13

    I wish most people would realize that there's nothing wrong with being gay. And that as long as you show respect you deserve respect

    • @mannsengshoo1657
      @mannsengshoo1657 2 года назад

      Being gay not a problem. Easily sleeping around with partners can be a risk why many contracted HIV. Its like a bomb drop at you anytime. Just make sure you have one long term partner, use condom. Many preventive measures.

  • @suga235
    @suga235 5 лет назад +5

    I want to hug him tight. I could already imagine how scared he felt. It is not easy coming out to the public, much less announcing you’re HIV positive. He is such a brave individual who deserves just as much happiness as the others.

  • @bokuwatoki5983
    @bokuwatoki5983 5 лет назад +23

    This was was beautiful. He is confident to speak up about this, especially in Korea.

  • @jan_mykel
    @jan_mykel 5 лет назад +37

    I admired you hyung for your strong courage to come out. God bless you. 💖

  • @cc-nb8om
    @cc-nb8om 4 года назад +4

    He is an inspiration for all who suffer from HIV/AIDs, great interview and I hope he finds a companion because everyone deserves to be loved ( I am not gay but I have love ones who are and I love them dearly)

  • @jenniboo9441
    @jenniboo9441 2 года назад +3

    Wow he's amazing. He didn't have to put himself in the spotlight like this and his life would probably be easier but he felt like this was important enough to speak up about. He is so brave and he seems so nice. I hope he finds happiness

  • @jakehoon69
    @jakehoon69 5 лет назад +30

    i don't know this man but i support him with every bone in my body.

  • @lilgoku461
    @lilgoku461 5 лет назад +6

    He's such a sweet guy! Keep up the good work Asian Boss

  • @bklyngirl913
    @bklyngirl913 5 лет назад +5

    Ju Yong thank you for being brave enough to share and speak out. Hopefully your courage will inspire others to speak. I do think your new purpose is to educate. Clearly South Korea needs more HIV/AIDS education. May the ancestors continue to guide your steps through this new journey.
    **Asian Boss: if at all possible, I think it would be a good thing to interview someone who is heterosexual and HIV-positive. It may be very hard to find someone in South Korea who is willing. However there are so many that still only see this as a “gay disease”!

  • @vivianvegh590
    @vivianvegh590 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for being so strong to come and talk about something so sensitive. I really wish the world could change that we don’t find our illnesses as something that defines our identities, and labels is for scrutiny from others. Everyone deserves love no matter what.

  • @marikeno
    @marikeno 5 лет назад +5

    As a young man living in a country that is fast paced yet old fashioned in some ways, he is the bravest Korean that I know. I have read so many articles and seen many videos on Koreans and their opinion on homosexuality and AIDS and it is saddening that many Koreans are not fully educated on these kinds of things and also not very accepting. I have been to Korea so many times and it is a beautiful country. I just hope that many of its citizens will open up and be more embracing to strong people like him.

  • @lauricedjepeno3087
    @lauricedjepeno3087 5 лет назад +134

    I’ve been seeing a lot more things about HIV popping up on my RUclips and other social media sites I wonder if this is a sign telling me to be careful or is this just a topic that’s getting more popular

    • @minyoongicheonjaejjangjjan1081
      @minyoongicheonjaejjangjjan1081 5 лет назад +27

      Laurice djepeno both

    • @breezybabe0019
      @breezybabe0019 5 лет назад +19

      Go and get checked

    • @josuebaxxie1
      @josuebaxxie1 5 лет назад +9

      People don't think HIV can happen to them and aren't careful making new cases increase when they should decrease. Use protection and if sexually active get tested every 6 months if not using protection every 3 months

    • @user-fi9wx2vb9e
      @user-fi9wx2vb9e 5 лет назад +2

      Both! :D

    • @shiro182
      @shiro182 5 лет назад +5

      It is a sign to be careful. I've noticed it too. I'm not trying to be ugly or rude but the new cases/coming out vids shocked me to think who catches HIV in 2019? I think the uptick for younger people 18-25 is because schools no longer scare the hell out of children like they did in the late 80s and 90s regarding safety.

  • @tenzin214
    @tenzin214 5 лет назад +5

    He’s so brave to come out and share his story
    I respect u❣️

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 5 лет назад +59

    I remember in the 80s and AIDS was called “gay cancer”. I lived in Korea for two years and this disappoints me. I had hoped for progress with this important issue.

    • @robertlee-nq6mg
      @robertlee-nq6mg 5 лет назад +1

      Hiv can spread by heterosexual sex.
      But chances are much higher with gay sex i.e anal sex.
      Route of transmission is Vaginal or Anal sex.

    • @Enlightened08
      @Enlightened08 5 лет назад

      @@robertlee-nq6mg But in the early 80s, it was ONLY talked about as a "gay" illness. It was called GRID aka gay-related immune deficiency. There are also other ways HIV can be spread. HIV can be spread from mother to child in utero, delivery or breast milk. It can also be spread through shared needles with someone who has the virus.

  • @mikethapanat9285
    @mikethapanat9285 2 года назад +3

    Even it’s long time ago, I still wanna hug him tightly.

  • @Alcoholpad
    @Alcoholpad 5 лет назад +2

    I love this guy, his energy is so positive and the interviewer was respectful asked him some really great questions

  • @The_Noblesse
    @The_Noblesse 5 лет назад +8

    I love how open and honest he is about his situation

  • @youcansoften
    @youcansoften 5 лет назад +9

    This is a great interview and important topic, thank you.

  • @jamesanear3141
    @jamesanear3141 5 лет назад +4

    I wish him the best, he’s clearly a very kind and sensitive soul. People should never judge others because they have HIV, only support them. It is sad to think such a serious disease makes people blame themselves.

  • @mickeyescribano1582
    @mickeyescribano1582 5 лет назад +2

    I really admire this guy as well as this whole interview. He is honest and humble enough to educate everyone through his channel. People with HIV should be loved and cared.

  • @BFswithGFs
    @BFswithGFs 5 лет назад +3

    He’s so brave and good hearted for educating people through this video. Thanks to Asian boss too 🙏🏾