Loyal Polygamist??

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @aleigha9141
    @aleigha9141 23 дня назад +18

    Robyn is definitely a manipulator and seed planter. Christine called it right from the jump with her. I really like your insight and explanation. Jenny from Senior Perspective recommended your channel and I’m glad she did! You have a new subscriber. I’m looking forward to watching new videos and I’ll go back and give the older ones a watch too 😊Hope you have a very happy and healthy New Year 🎉

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +4

      Awe thank you! I appreciate that.

    • @CharlenePatterson-jr8mb
      @CharlenePatterson-jr8mb 23 дня назад +3

      The podcaster Senior Perspective is amazing! Her name is Jenny! She recommended your channel a few times! So I too am a new subscriber!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +4

      @ I’ve followed a few of her Lives. I appreciate her perspective

  • @eringodfrey1196
    @eringodfrey1196 23 дня назад +10

    So if by “loyalty” he means “obedient,” then what frustrates me the most is that it’s not even true that Robyn is obedient to him!
    The alleged “conflict” they had about buying the house vs. renting was NOT an example of obedience. If they want us to believe that was real, then he can’t keep calling her loyal.
    Also there’s an episode where Kody and Christine are in a couples therapy session and she shares how surprised she was to see that “Robyn immediately had a voice in the relationship” to disagree with him. It shocked her to see that Robyn could disagree and he would love her anyway. It’s so sad to think she had never been loved that way, nor had she seen Janelle or Meri loved that way either.
    He obviously had different standards for them - They have to fall perfectly in lock-step with him in order to be treated well, while Robyn can be considered loyal without being truly obedient because she is favored.
    It’s gross that he behaved that way at all, disgusting that he won’t admit it and apologize, and SO FRUSTRATING that he expects the audience to be so dumb that we won’t see the differences.

  • @TulipsandCats
    @TulipsandCats 23 дня назад +20

    I’ll admit it. I never want to hear Kody use the word loyalty or any form of it ever again. Or obedience. Why is he so hung up on that if he’s no longer in the AUB?

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +11

      @@TulipsandCats good question. I personally wonder if it’s because he lacks loyalty so much.

  • @cherylmoorman5012
    @cherylmoorman5012 23 дня назад +11

    Kody needed to realize Janelle never needed him. She choose the children and the dogs. 😂 Christine got tired of him.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +6

      😂😂 it’s a dangerous place for a polygamist man when his woman no longer needs him

  • @laurieerickson7205
    @laurieerickson7205 23 дня назад +10

    It needed to be said. The end.

  • @kimapel1528
    @kimapel1528 23 дня назад +9

    Kody talks about loyalty all the time but is he loyal to anyone??? He's not even loyal to Robyn. He doesn't even know what that words even means!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +6

      I agree. He didn’t stay loyal to his church leaders. That’s the 1st clue. He gets upset at others for something he doesn’t even do

  • @amyprince600
    @amyprince600 23 дня назад +13

    Mama Alice taught her daughter well.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +5

      Seems so 😳😳

    • @NicoleAggie
      @NicoleAggie 23 дня назад +1

      ​@@NotestoSelf444Cory needs to explain more how it was living in that trailor park next to Alice. Am I correct Alice was alone while husband robert was in a different state with other wife . Or was that paul Sr. BTW there are 2 Paul's a Jr and Sr? Jr passed similar to garrison but what did pail Sr die from ?

  • @amyraspatello3721
    @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +12

    Does Kody and Robyn watch their own show? Good grief, they are so incredibly unlikeable for a plethora of reasons. If i watched myself behaving like this i would be mortified.
    Love your channel. Thank you for always educating us!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +6

      Thank you 🙏🏻 I’ve wondered that question myself

    • @NicoleAggie
      @NicoleAggie 23 дня назад +2

      The newest clip shows robyn asking kody if he is rewriting history . While sitting on atv .

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +1

      @ 😂😂

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад

      @@NicoleAggie oh, the irony, lol

  • @Schu0086
    @Schu0086 22 дня назад +4

    I’ve been rewatching some older stuff recently from the pandemic era and Kody does actually call Robyn “the obedient wife” once to his son Gabriel when they’re out working on lumber on the property. But it’s such a heated conversation where Kody is unnecessarily agitated and aggressive that you almost miss it.

  • @lisasumms2114
    @lisasumms2114 23 дня назад +12

    I want a Red Ryder BB …Oh my goodness , the minute, #1 wife lied about the move to Flagstaff.. duh Kody & fam… do you think you get accepted for university over night?
    That woman put the seeds in the knucklehead the minute she found out where Dayton wanted to go and her controlling nature needed to hover over him. Second phase of plan reappropriate family fund by taking all others equity and consideration into mansion #1 using reverse psychology on the noodle head. “ No, no, I hate mansions, no way I want it Kody! I’ll only do it if you insist and force me to buy it …it’s a family investment but it’s only in my name with you. 😒

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 23 дня назад +2

      She had a headstart practicing appropriating the funds when in the beginning she asked who she should give her bills to, or where she should put them.

  • @tamicox990
    @tamicox990 22 дня назад +3

    Meri was very “obedient.”

  • @kimberlyc114
    @kimberlyc114 23 дня назад +5

    He did say she was the only one that was obedient but quickly changed it to loyalty

  • @SJP666
    @SJP666 23 дня назад +5

    He did say she was the obedient wife, I think he said it to Gab when they were out on the land talking.

  • @Steffennation
    @Steffennation 23 дня назад +5

    THANK YOU!! That was my question you answered. I feel so relieved to hear someone validate what I was picking up from the show. Due to my past membership in a fundamental church I’ve often recognized a “language/cultural gap” between what the Browns sometimes say and what people hear. I knew that the word “loyalty” meant more than what folks think. It makes my stomach hurt a little to admit that I was part of a church that had me believe I was lesser than because I’m female. Being in that church kept me in an abusive marriage for nearly six years! Thankfully I got divorced and I left the church too. I find it embarrassing to admit that.

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +1

      @@Steffennation ❤️please don't feel embarrassed. I'm a recovering Catholic. I think many of us have evolved/changed the way we think and feel from what we were taught/raised

    • @Steffennation
      @Steffennation 23 дня назад +1

      @ that’s kind of you. I do enjoy watching SW and feel genuinely interested in what’s going on with them. It’s a bit triggering on one hand but on the other it also makes me feel a bit less embarrassed than I used to be. Knowing it happens to a LOT of women is both sad and comforting.

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +2

      ​@Steffennation it has happened to a ton of us, and that sucks. But, we can work on ourselves to take back our power. I'm 64 and just learning that. I believe better late than never! xoxo

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +1

      I do understand the triggering

    • @Steffennation
      @Steffennation 23 дня назад +1

      @@amyraspatello3721 lol… I’m 55 and just figuring that out too!

  • @LisaHouserman
    @LisaHouserman 23 дня назад +4

    Thank you for explaining this as I've been wondering what on earth he means by this "loyalty" jazz. XO

  • @tamicox990
    @tamicox990 22 дня назад

    Well he’s Robyn’s best customer 😂

  • @emilythomas2269
    @emilythomas2269 23 дня назад +3

    Hello Mel, happy Saturday!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +2

      @@emilythomas2269 Hi! Happy Saturday to you too

  • @caroliner3010
    @caroliner3010 23 дня назад +10

    People joke about Robin's gardening abilities with regards to the weed wacker and plants she was fiddling with...when in fact she's the #1 gardener in seed planting!

  • @janetjenkins2674
    @janetjenkins2674 23 дня назад +4

    what does Kody mean when he says its not safe ?

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +2

      @janetjenkins2674 I'm curious about this, too. Nothing/anybody seem "safe" to them!

    • @janetjenkins2674
      @janetjenkins2674 23 дня назад +1

      @@amyraspatello3721 i thought maybe it a was Mormon/AUB code word or something

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +1

      That's what I'm wondering. Is it an AUB thing or a Brown thing ?!

    • @kenja6569
      @kenja6569 23 дня назад +2

      I think it’s a psychology or counseling term.

    • @amyraspatello3721
      @amyraspatello3721 23 дня назад +1

      ​@@kenja6569me too. And I think they totally overuse it

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 23 дня назад +5

    💯

  • @fletcherspears
    @fletcherspears 23 дня назад +5

    Do you think Kody's list to Meri included "filing for their divorce?" It seems to me he framed it as a "test" for continue their relationship. Once he got the divorce, he no longer needed Meri.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  23 дня назад +9

      I have no idea. I could see it being framed more along the line of a question like “what are you willing to do for your sister wife to show you are loyal to her & the family?” “ what ultimate sacrifice are you willing to give?” Those types of questions to set up expectations of Meri’s behavior Questions along that that line?

  • @sha8342
    @sha8342 22 дня назад +2

    All 3 original wives are gone and have moved on with their lives.
    I find it ridiculous at best hearing Robyn even suggesting the possibility that he might be able too get Janelle back into the polygamy marriage situation.
    Obviously Christine and Meri aren’t options now.
    But Robyn even discussing Kody trying to get Janelle back at this point is absurd.
    Point is, it’s just absurd to me that Robyn isn’t moving on. Or is doing this strictly for tv drama.
    Seriously at this point in time. Kody and Robyn having any discussions about any of the OG3’s past or present is complete nonsense!
    It isn’t as tho they’re discussing current and real major issues going on. Like the property and they’re ripping off Meri and Janelle.
    Or the 2 million dollar house they just bought.
    And what’s with Robyn getting her name on each piece of property belonging to the OG’s?
    Honestly there are many things that lack reason or logic. Certainly necessity wise.
    Imo, Robyn’s goal on the show is to improve her public image. Kody isn’t even worth the words.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 день назад

      I totally agree. It’s beyond absurd at this point to even slightly discuss any of the wives returning. Made for drama tv is all

  • @caroliner3010
    @caroliner3010 23 дня назад +3

    🥰

  • @cathywicklund4993
    @cathywicklund4993 20 дней назад

    Where's the live????

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  20 дней назад

      They are uploading now. TikTok was extra slow in allowing me to download the live. Thanks for being my engaged 🥰🥰

    • @cathywicklund4993
      @cathywicklund4993 20 дней назад

      @NotestoSelf444 thank you for answering❤️

  • @Howedy-k9l
    @Howedy-k9l 22 дня назад

    Does the AUB assign marriages?

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 19 дней назад

    @ Melanie Since your mom has left your dad I am curious if she watches the show does she have an opinion?❤

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  19 дней назад

      Oh yea! We talk about every episode. I can’t repeat some of her sharing 😂😂 I would be banned from social media 😂😂