Many things have been normalized. I strongly agree with the second girl (past secretary...). Many have ditched the teachings and God's principles. Sex before marriage is clearly not in line with God's principles, even most of our traditions don’t condon that. However, our generation will always find reasons for immorality and sinful behaviors. God bless you, keep on educating these ones 🙏
From a very objective perspective with the assumption that we are truly made to make decisions without the influence of following societal structures and religion, there's nothing wrong with someone having sex during the talking stage. You would find the relevance of this when you ask yourself the question of, "who determines whether something is good or bad? Is it a very autonomous individual who is in charge of his or her body and knows whether she loses or gains from a particular action, or the society that the individual finds his or herself in, or a religious deity?". The second question you ask yourself is that how were you made to conform to those believes that you base all your decisions and thoughts on? Were you disciplined during the period where you were very young to conform to those structures and religion even though you were not given the decision to be born or even to be born in a conservatist setting like Africa? The third question you ask yourself is that what does the individual in question seek in life? Is it there something more than sex, which is short term or a long term scenario like an ideal or close to ideal life partner? Is there a tendency that you offering sex to a potential partner in a talking stage is going to affect the end goal? If yes, then it's bad for you, otherwise, there's nothing wrong with it. Take notice of the fact that we all prioritize things differently because of how we all like and dislike things differently. If some people prioritize sex and damp whoever they get it from, that's the person's choice and the mindset to stay that way without advancement in that relationship he is trying to pursue. However, if another person also prioritize the long term, even if you offer sex he is still going to stay because he is getting something more and other than the sex. Intuition pump here is; why do people still date "prostitutes" or even "bad guys/ladies"and they are happy with them even though they know their lifestyle? The answer is that good and bad differs from one person to the other because of what we want in life and how it differs from one person to another. It only becomes objectively bad when that action hurts another person. Lastly, ladies please..... The end goal of any good and rational man is not to see your nakedness. Whether you say yes or no to a relationship or even marriage, breakup is not something difficult. If you think marriage will protect you, ask yourself why there has been a rise in divorce rates in this modern times. Stay rational and calculated, take decisions on your own.....shalom
This is a dicey topic and it’s based on one’s morals and principles. The first question is, how long is the talking stage? Days, weeks? Depending on the vibe and spontaneity, it can happen! Do what aligns with your beliefs and morals😊
9:57 😂the guy was now thinking if he has a girlfriend, so hilarious. Thank you Anita for this. It was really fun watching this❤️
Thank you 😊
Many things have been normalized. I strongly agree with the second girl (past secretary...). Many have ditched the teachings and God's principles. Sex before marriage is clearly not in line with God's principles, even most of our traditions don’t condon that. However, our generation will always find reasons for immorality and sinful behaviors.
God bless you, keep on educating these ones 🙏
True!🙏
From a very objective perspective with the assumption that we are truly made to make decisions without the influence of following societal structures and religion, there's nothing wrong with someone having sex during the talking stage. You would find the relevance of this when you ask yourself the question of, "who determines whether something is good or bad? Is it a very autonomous individual who is in charge of his or her body and knows whether she loses or gains from a particular action, or the society that the individual finds his or herself in, or a religious deity?". The second question you ask yourself is that how were you made to conform to those believes that you base all your decisions and thoughts on? Were you disciplined during the period where you were very young to conform to those structures and religion even though you were not given the decision to be born or even to be born in a conservatist setting like Africa?
The third question you ask yourself is that what does the individual in question seek in life? Is it there something more than sex, which is short term or a long term scenario like an ideal or close to ideal life partner?
Is there a tendency that you offering sex to a potential partner in a talking stage is going to affect the end goal?
If yes, then it's bad for you, otherwise, there's nothing wrong with it.
Take notice of the fact that we all prioritize things differently because of how we all like and dislike things differently. If some people prioritize sex and damp whoever they get it from, that's the person's choice and the mindset to stay that way without advancement in that relationship he is trying to pursue. However, if another person also prioritize the long term, even if you offer sex he is still going to stay because he is getting something more and other than the sex.
Intuition pump here is; why do people still date "prostitutes" or even "bad guys/ladies"and they are happy with them even though they know their lifestyle?
The answer is that good and bad differs from one person to the other because of what we want in life and how it differs from one person to another. It only becomes objectively bad when that action hurts another person.
Lastly, ladies please..... The end goal of any good and rational man is not to see your nakedness. Whether you say yes or no to a relationship or even marriage, breakup is not something difficult. If you think marriage will protect you, ask yourself why there has been a rise in divorce rates in this modern times.
Stay rational and calculated, take decisions on your own.....shalom
This is a dicey topic and it’s based on one’s morals and principles. The first question is, how long is the talking stage? Days, weeks? Depending on the vibe and spontaneity, it can happen! Do what aligns with your beliefs and morals😊
Apt!🎉
Sex is a feeling and it depends on what you talk about during the talking stage or else it’s not good to have sex during the talking stage
See how you are smiling
The replies were too funny 😂
It can happen anytime. Call it an accident
Talking stage????? Sex???? No no no