Nope there is. 1st you have to fix yourself. Then once she see that you have accomplished something she will respect you. But it doesn't mean she respect you now you should get her. Avoid her more as she chase you. Or just pump and dump.
@@UltimahMake her regret and don't take her back. Let a woman, that truly likes you polish you into a diamond and the woman who threw you away, thinking you were a mere stone, don't share your worth with her, because she couldn't value you in the first place.
ye always check her best girlfriends. speaks volumes of what she is up to, where is she going out, what they are chatting about etc. etc. show me your friends and i will show you your future.
1) Practice detachment until you have vetted the person out enough. 2) Don't be desperate to have a girlfriend just to cure your insecurity. Your self respect and image is on line. 3) Huge amount of experience is a red flag for women in general. Her friends are also a reflection of her self image and identity. 4) Get a life, we live for a short period of time on this Earth. Don't waste time trying to fix broken people. Also you can never help someone to fix themselves up until they want it.
The last argument is pointless. Everyone is going to die anyway and all their life experiences will die with them. Not a best way to motivate anyone doing anything, I must say.
yeah last point is pointless, i am tired hearing people say, get a life go chase the rabbit cuz u gonna die soon. lmao its like counter argument on your own points. whats there to chase if its ''short period of time on this planet'' ? its like u telling others, go be a hamster gain run run cuz ugonna die.
as a female...it's all true. . Men should watch and learn from this. It makes me happy to know men are out there supporting one another to better themselves. Makes me feel hopeful for the state of society.
I call bs, no woman refers to themselves as a fucking “female”, that’s incel/Tate shit. What, so she can’t have any male friends, she can’t like boy bands, and she can’t have female friends with relationship/commitment issues. I think it’s awful what hookup culture can do to women as well but what, you want some stay at home trad wife who’s gonna make you sandwiches whenever you tell her, only listen to music you allow, only hang out with people you allow? This is a fucking psyop. There definitely are forces that turn a lot of young women into hoes that heavily disrespect men or just others generally, it’s a big problem with social media and the current culture. But this is weaponising the potential for insecurity in men, targets insecure men and tries to turn them into controlling assholes. Don’t get fooled into thinking there’s no agenda here. They’re turning men against women and women against men.
From Brazil the same things, i have for 7 seven years a girlfriend, she projection in me all frustrating and rejected of all trying of anothers guys. No one woman save of redflags. After read the book Nessahan Alita, the best book ever seen about relationship.
what if your girl only brings her exes up to talk about how much better you are than all of them? talking about exes isnt always a red flag, because when you’re comfortable around a person you dont feel the need to keep your past from them, it takes a lot of trust to be able to open up about things that most people would view as a “red flag”. of course, if she’s always talking about her exes in a seemingly reminiscent way, or in a way that seems like she’s still harboring feelings for them, steer clear. but as long as she doesn’t talk to them, see them or always praise them, i see no reason why talking about exes is such a negative thing. relationships are very subjective though, so maybe what me and my girl see as unproblematic could be seen as quite the opposite to someone else. but this is just another perspective really. ultimately, if the intent is good and both of you are faithful, respectful and comfortable with each other then you’ll both know deep down what’s right and what’s wrong and hopefully then yall will both realize what upsets your partner and do everything to make sure you dont.
Other Wojack channels do that, which is why I stopped watching them. To me, it gets in the way, trying to tell you how to think, not letting you come to your own thoughts. LordWojack is a channel that started leaning into it way way too heavily.
As a 27 yo dude back on the market... this is accurate af. Men and women cannot be platonic friends. Dudes are either side dudes or stepping stones for free food. Edit: To clarify. Don't wait in line. You absolutely can waste your time and give money/energy to girls who don't see you in a sexual light. You can also dedicate time to women who are promiscuous. It is a question of self worth / what do you really want? You can befriend an unattractive/nondesireable female for companionship but that likely won't satisfy your real desires. Don't waste your life with the wrong woman while the good ones are wifed up. Keep working on self improvement bros. One day you'll have a beautiful family if you're up for the challenge.
Being red pilled since I was 16 definitely helps me avoid doing all these things. Anyone with a remotely traditionalist mindset wouldn’t have any of these problems. I think all of these problems are the result of the modern world and its degeneracies
Yeah I’m sure being an incel means you don’t get encounter these problems, because women don’t like incels. Don’t let the propaganda brainwash you. It takes advantage of your insecurities to make you speak for their agenda. It’s just a business to them. Stop being an incel, learn from experience and real people, in the real world, not this politically motivated shit. It’s a psyop, the men who pro-port this ideology are idiots. The women who pro-port the opposite ideology are also idiots. The brainwashed women are assholes, as you know. But consider this, the men who’ve been brainwashed by 4chan and Tate are also... assholes. They’re all fucking stupid. Normally they grow out of it by testing all these “skills” the internet taught them in the real world and realising it’s just propaganda. Or by realising that the more time they’ve spent stewing in this toxic ideology in their rooms, the LESS they can actually function in the real world. Some never grow out of it. But the sooner you do, and the sooner you learn to recognise nuance and those biases that are attractive to you as well as those attractive to others, the better.
Other red flags: A child, partying all the time, talking about herself all the time, bad relationships with her parents, friends are more important than her family. Watch out guys!!!
So, I have some experience. Red flags are real. Though, we can't forget every person is different. Limiting girls to filters is 100% bs. Party girls can be dated. Even the "shy stay at home girl" can cheat. What matters is paying attention to little signs. If she's not spending much time with you, and would rather do something else or go out with other people, that's the biggest of problems. If she avoids you, or you're suspicious that she's "online" in a message app but won't reply to you, that's a huge red flag, too. Maybe she wants time to be alone, she could be going through something, but if you're certain that's not it, then yea, it's some other guy. Having male friends is a potential red flag I think, but isn't necessarily a red flag... I mean, sure, might lead to "that" because the guy would probably have tried to ask her out. But I know plenty of girls that has guy friends and are just normal. Trustworthy, faithful to their husbands/bfs. I've been friends with a lot of girls. Most of the time my friends were girls actually, and no, we were just friends. Dated two or three friends, but I had I don't know, many other friends that were girls during my teenagehood. Just make sure she wants to spend time with you and she's happy, and not asking for money or for u to buy her stuff. Then if she's not, gz, u got yourself a healthy relationship. But u know what, just to be precautious, people can change with time. Sometimes a healthy relationship can turn into a mess. She could be giving attention to you and some other guy at the same time and still act happy and goofy around you. It is your duty to ask if things are fine between you and if she's not seeing someone else when you're suspicious. I've seen this happen before to someone else and it was heartbreaking. Then he started dating multiple girls at the same time to see how it was like, got depressed, couldn't figure out why it wasn't making him feel any better, and he's still there, dating like 3 girls at the same time, which one of them is cheating on him but he doesn't care.
"Party girls can be dated" lol, hope you do not mean a serious relationship, dated as in used and passed on to the other one that would make more sense.
Yeah man i was in work and there was this quite nerdy supersmart indian girl who didnt have many friends and she had a good few guys going at once, i was so shocked, she just told everyone in a big group she was cheating on her bf with loads of guys and wanted to get with this player as well , lol, i thought it was funny but i looked at her like gf material until that.
@@Kazak999 They can change too and they have their fair of green flags, they are energetic, usually looking forward to their goals and are great for dancing. Yeah, there's a bunch of times where you shouldn't date a specific party girl but dont overlook someone just because they tend to party a bit.
A truly good woman is able to look at herself critically and take constructive criticism when ppl say she has red flags If she's unwilling to change for the better of herself so she has a better future then run because thats a ship sinker
Can confirm from experience,my ex was like that,as soon as she receives constructive criticism she would get angry,and try to shift the blame on to me,leaving was the best decision I ever made...
@@infj-tguy6275 Thank you,I'm doing well now,I have moved on,it's unfortunate that it ended the way it did,but it was necessary.Her Birthday is coming up in a couple of days,so I'll just be a decent human being and send her a bday wish,since I'm not bound to the past anymore and i have moved forward,so yeah.How are u doing :)
@@infj-tguy6275 no problem,I'm glad you're doing well,stay strong and remember that everything in life happens for a reason.You're better half is waiting for you somewhere on this little blue dot that we live on.Take care King 👑
Maturity is to act when you see those red flags and dont ignore them... Its difficult to find someone you like in the first place and when you suddenly see that spark with someone then you get all those butterflies in your stomach and wish to go ahead full steam . Then you start noticing those red flags but still you wish to ignore them as it was so difficult to find that person in the first place itself and you don't want to go through that uncertainity of hoping to find someone who is the right person.
Every man has three heads, his brain, the one between your legs and your heart, dont let the other two lead you astray Remember that it was through logic and rationality that mankind grew to reach the stars
Only one i disagree is with the "guy friends", I've had several interactions with girls with just the intent of being friends and nothing more, i know people on a relationship where the girl has male friends and vice versa and have 0 issue in that part, as long as there's limits and no sus activities, there's no issue there, in fact, if you're the kind of guy who prohibites your girlfriend of having male friends.... you're just some insecure guy who really shouldn't be dating right now. You can have friends of the opposite sex, just set your limits of only being actual friends. I highly agree with most of the other points tho.
The moment he objectified and wanted to attach just about everything to her, he was a goner. It's a bit hard for some people but they need to see how detached the girl is. She can cover this up and give signs of wanting to attach. Being more conscious of people in general helps a lot. Inexperience can lead you to erroneous judgement but take your pick. Give it some time if you may.
Yes, I had someone recently who makes a bold move & gives me her phone piece for me to put in my phone number & information right & then later on she mentions to me by text message that she has a boyfriend & as her bullshit reason that she gave me her phone was strictly for work related purposes. WTF!! I said to myself AAHH NO!! Tell me that that initially & not there after in time. If she really has a boyfriend then she has already emotionally cheated. If she says that she has a boyfriend but really doesn't than that makes her a big time liar & as a result of course she cannot be trusted as the 2 things I said here are indeed 2 HUGE RED FLAGS. I immediately stopped texting her & 🚫 blocked her number.
What’s even worse is that I have experience and I do know better, but when I like someone it’s like I can’t keep it together. It’s better just to be cold
So I was seeing this muslim girl at my university and we also went on dates together. She approached me first but recently she stopped contact me anymore and she gives different vibe than she did few months ago. I really liked her and I wanted to have a good relationship with her. It was difficult because she was a Muslim and didn't want to do couple things like holding hands. Muslims do that kind of stuff after their marriage she said. I respect her being truthful to her faith but I also noticed some red flags that are mentioned in the video. - Her best friend is promiscuous - She likes and goes to concerts of boy bands or attractive male artist - She says she has never had a bf or sex but she sometimes lied so hmm.. Overall your video made me realize that my feeling towards her and her feeling towards me were just attraction and not love. Thanks for the video.
As a girl, I don't mind a guy telling me my red flags. Either it's something I should work on to improve myself, or we just don't work and we should move on.
I would argue that woman and men can be friends, ofc it depends on how close those friends are. I have a long time female friend who has a bf, i don’t talk to her too often but when we run into eachother we chat and catch up as we walk to class, or we discuss current drama, but I don’t call her cutie like doomer did in the video nor do I hang out with her, we just talk for a bit as we make our way to our separate locations or text about random stuff every now and then.
As a guy that has slept with a fair ammount of women and had 4 relationships, I can tell you the he is just a friend or still contact with her ex is a huge red flag. Don't accept it, if she does not stop dump.
"platonic" guy friends DO NOT exist i repeat THEY DONT EXIST. Under any circumstances. if she says he is gay he isnt gay, its a side piece if she says she is from childhood, its the same. Trust only your gut.
You recently met a new girl and like her, make a move. Don’t be scared, anxious or afraid. Worst that happens is you recieve a no, which she will forget about within a week and your life goes on.
Great video, the same situation I’m in and I had to let a girl go after she ghosted me for a few days to avoid meeting me in person. I’ve learned to set standards and boundaries. Thanks Chad!
This is actually pretty bloody toxic. These videos are painting a completely wrong picture of how society actually works. A guy can have a female friend and so the other way around. Chad in the video is saying that Wojak shouldn't be brainwashed be society while it is actually Chad that is brainwashing Wojak into thinking all these toxic things. With this mentality, Wojak is never going to be in a healthy long-term relationship. But maybe he just want to bang some chicks and make some money and then be miserable for the rest of his life because he never found peace in himself and pleasure in the small things in life. I think it would be genius if you switched up the script (because all these videos are just the same), and made one about Wojak taking a break from social media and starting fitness and mindfulness so he can find true happiness and joy in life. Then, when he's happy about himself, he can start looking in the right places for a potential girlfriend. That would actually be genius! I would enjoy one of those instead of one of these videos with the same script about Wojak minding his own business and Chad disturbing and triggering him into doing something completely different that what he wanted to do in the first place and then Bognadoff ruining it all. What happened to happy endings?
You have some valid points. I just think that these types of videos are too oversimplified and can be misunderstood very easily. So I just wanted to give my opinion and an eventual video idea. Have a great day, my friend
The girl was always talking bad about her ex and claimed that he manipulated her in many ways. I belived her and tried to help her to get over these "trauma issues". Few months later and we had an argument over a minor thing. She is over dramatic and blocked contact to me and tells her other friends that I tried to manipulate her too. She made up things and changed things that never happend. I never manipulated her and still felt like I did something wrong, until I finally realize that she is the problem. She always repeates the same pattern. I wonder how many storys about her ex were true, maybe none. It sucks but it's also kinda sad, because she really belives in her false reallity and real thinks that she is the victim.
This happened to me, when I found out the one of the close friends of the girl I liked's was promiscuous I just lied to myself that she wouldn't turn out like that but she found some other guy despite giving me signs she liked me
Bullshit from the get go. Men and women can be friends. Not everyone, but some. I have a female friend who is in a long term relationship and I could never imagine myself with her. She can fill the requirements for a friend but not for a spouse, because there is a good stretch between those two things.
I liked this video. But I don't agree that man and woman can't be friends. They can be friends if they both are not attractive or not attracted to each other.
The first scene already showed me that another investment is not worth it. 1. if she doesn't show any obvious signs that she finds you attractive and wants more, then this is a very bad starting point. Just break it off. 2. if she lets you have it: fun material! 3. if she shows obvious signs but in the best case it only comes to a kiss: wife material! Enjoy the conquest game in story mode. What are obvious signs: sparkling eyes, a bright smile, laughing at your jokes, playing with her hair, touching your arms or shoulders, discussing on a very friendly level, genuinely interested in what you're saying, a little bit of embarrassment, etc.
I had received all those signs you described but she still ended up rejecting me. You can never know, some girl's friendly behaviour is some girl's flirting. You can never ever know for certain
I thought it was a joke as Wojacked ended alone 🤣, but now I am quite shocked with the comments I have read, and with the blunt way the story ended. Chad counseling is quite sexist and misogynistic, man and women are not so different. Chad expects Wojack to have a lot of experience while signalling this very caracteristic is a red flag for women. Come on! so 1950s! Doomer feelings relating to the incapacity of finding a good match is mainly due to a lack of self critique in regards the toxic way we (man) are raised, the same way since at least 300 years. The way women are raised changed a lot in the last 50 years and for the better. What would you say to your 15 years old daughter: "Find mariage with a rich man to provide for you" or "Study, find success and be yourself". We need to teach the same to boys. Less reliance to the idea that a well-behaved wife is a source of self steem and success, because its not. If you (as an heterosexual man) cannot befriend the opposite sex, without sexual intensions, man you have got a problem: You are being too sexist and leting this ideology to fill the gaps of self-knowledge; kind of not mastering yourself and addressing and understanding the sexual tensions inside you. It's a recipe for frustration and never being able to connect genuinely with a person if this person is a woman.
In a time in my life where i'm simultaneously: Wondering what I say that kills it Not breaking up with someone because I dont wanna be that bad guy Working crazy hours as an assistant getting fried by people being dicks Attempting to slow down on using weed as a constant bandaid Having so many friends i gotta schedule visits around my work schedule to sometimes get called in as soon as I get settled in and doing this rambling for far too long thing and annoying the fuck out of people, these videos are important to pull us out of the creepy phase, the 'nice guy' phase, the phase where we think we have to be overly nice to feel loved or appreciated in the slightest because we can't see our overnice-ness RUINS our looks from the outside. I also realize i'm overly critical on the things I struggle with myself. Big L's can only turn to Big W's now, kings.
as a 28 yo (as of this comment) and more than a year back on the market, I can tell you that there is no shortcut, it takes a while to find a girl that fits your standards. I know how hard it is at the start, you just need to give it some time - improve yourself, do everything you can to become the best version of yourself.
This is an excellent video idea. I am sending it to some friends that need to hear it. Some constructive advice: Have you considered going Fiver for some cheap voice acting, or getting your pals involved for the male voices? That is the only cringy part of the videos.
What’s wrong with liking a BAND!?! That one was weird af lol. Ig Models don’t have a product they sell their image/themselves. Bands make music, it doesn’t mean you have a crush on the band members lol
Yes there is no such thing as being friends with women. Even if you both agree to it being in friendzone to someday finally get her to love you is also a pain in the ass. Being friend with a woman you get all the responsibilities of a boyfriend and no benefits of a boyfriend, there is plenty of fish out there, just ignore her. Sometimes you even attract her this way
I see arranged marriage as being in shipwreck and ending on uninhabited island with some girl. Than no matter the differences, you two have to work together and accept each other to survive.
These are not the only red flags, my ex was very depressed and threatened suicide and she doesnt speak to a lot of her family, even her eldest son, but she had zero of these red flags, but if she had not have ended it she would have dragged me down, even though she was really nice to me, and annoyingly i still love her a lot and at my age always will.
Oh man, where was this video 3 months ago? I found out she has a "male friend", I confronted her, told her that this is disrespectful to me since I told her before what I think of "friendship" between men and women, I made my boundaries clear, we had an argument and she broke up with me, but I felt really broken hearted cause I thought she is "the one", I had many mistakes during the process hhh and she gaslighted me for it, but at least I didn't allow her to go beyond my boundaries, and that I think it is better for me that we ended it, and thankfully I didn't try to change her mind or ran crying to her, but I wish I did few things in a different way... We learn from our mistakes though
Once she loses respect, there is no going back.
not in a million years
Many of us learn that the hard way. Feels bad man…
Once she loses respect for ya, that’s because you’re a loser already
Nope there is. 1st you have to fix yourself. Then once she see that you have accomplished something she will respect you.
But it doesn't mean she respect you now you should get her. Avoid her more as she chase you. Or just pump and dump.
@@UltimahMake her regret and don't take her back. Let a woman, that truly likes you polish you into a diamond and the woman who threw you away, thinking you were a mere stone, don't share your worth with her, because she couldn't value you in the first place.
The friend part is the most overlooked. So many good women turned bad because of her friends.
ye always check her best girlfriends.
speaks volumes of what she is up to, where is she going out, what they are chatting about etc. etc.
show me your friends and i will show you your future.
@@helioshyperion8077 I guess I have no future then. Oh well.
@@lostinthoughts5645 better to be alone than to be with bad company
I knew they would follow lol.
Nothing worse than your gf's friend giving bad advice and undermining you just for the sake of drama when they know nothing of the relationship.
1) Practice detachment until you have vetted the person out enough.
2) Don't be desperate to have a girlfriend just to cure your insecurity. Your self respect and image is on line.
3) Huge amount of experience is a red flag for women in general. Her friends are also a reflection of her self image and identity.
4) Get a life, we live for a short period of time on this Earth. Don't waste time trying to fix broken people. Also you can never help someone to fix themselves up until they want it.
The last argument is pointless. Everyone is going to die anyway and all their life experiences will die with them. Not a best way to motivate anyone doing anything, I must say.
yeah last point is pointless, i am tired hearing people say, get a life go chase the rabbit cuz u gonna die soon. lmao
its like counter argument on your own points. whats there to chase if its ''short period of time on this planet'' ?
its like u telling others, go be a hamster gain run run cuz ugonna die.
@@natanhale7680 Who hurt you?
@@Cesko_Plny_Fialovejch_Zmrdu What do you mean?
@@natanhale7680wtf dude, do you need help? What hurt you so bad my guy
as a female...it's all true. . Men should watch and learn from this. It makes me happy to know men are out there supporting one another to better themselves. Makes me feel hopeful for the state of society.
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You're absolutely right...
I call bs, no woman refers to themselves as a fucking “female”, that’s incel/Tate shit.
What, so she can’t have any male friends, she can’t like boy bands, and she can’t have female friends with relationship/commitment issues.
I think it’s awful what hookup culture can do to women as well but what, you want some stay at home trad wife who’s gonna make you sandwiches whenever you tell her, only listen to music you allow, only hang out with people you allow?
This is a fucking psyop.
There definitely are forces that turn a lot of young women into hoes that heavily disrespect men or just others generally, it’s a big problem with social media and the current culture.
But this is weaponising the potential for insecurity in men, targets insecure men and tries to turn them into controlling assholes.
Don’t get fooled into thinking there’s no agenda here.
They’re turning men against women and women against men.
Yeah many ex bfs is red flag; her talking about them or comparing you to them is huge huge red flag.
Thanks for the vid Chad
no problem brotha
From Brazil the same things, i have for 7 seven years a girlfriend, she projection in me all frustrating and rejected of all trying of anothers guys.
No one woman save of redflags. After read the book Nessahan Alita, the best book ever seen about relationship.
@@computadorhumano949 thankyou you're right everyone is a red 🚩
@@computadorhumano949 Brasil aqui tbm, fi di rapariga. Você tem o livro que mencionou?
what if your girl only brings her exes up to talk about how much better you are than all of them? talking about exes isnt always a red flag, because when you’re comfortable around a person you dont feel the need to keep your past from them, it takes a lot of trust to be able to open up about things that most people would view as a “red flag”. of course, if she’s always talking about her exes in a seemingly reminiscent way, or in a way that seems like she’s still harboring feelings for them, steer clear. but as long as she doesn’t talk to them, see them or always praise them, i see no reason why talking about exes is such a negative thing. relationships are very subjective though, so maybe what me and my girl see as unproblematic could be seen as quite the opposite to someone else. but this is just another perspective really. ultimately, if the intent is good and both of you are faithful, respectful and comfortable with each other then you’ll both know deep down what’s right and what’s wrong and hopefully then yall will both realize what upsets your partner and do everything to make sure you dont.
I love when you add the "omg oh hell no"
ty itchyballs
@@StandingChad 😂😂
Other Wojack channels do that, which is why I stopped watching them.
To me, it gets in the way, trying to tell you how to think, not letting you come to your own thoughts.
LordWojack is a channel that started leaning into it way way too heavily.
As a 27 yo dude back on the market... this is accurate af. Men and women cannot be platonic friends. Dudes are either side dudes or stepping stones for free food.
Edit: To clarify. Don't wait in line. You absolutely can waste your time and give money/energy to girls who don't see you in a sexual light. You can also dedicate time to women who are promiscuous. It is a question of self worth / what do you really want?
You can befriend an unattractive/nondesireable female for companionship but that likely won't satisfy your real desires.
Don't waste your life with the wrong woman while the good ones are wifed up.
Keep working on self improvement bros. One day you'll have a beautiful family if you're up for the challenge.
Thats bs.
@@Cortesevasive I mean its not that it's impossible to be a girls friend. But more so a question of what are you really getting out of it?
Thats nonsense. Youre just a fool for being fooled easily.
@@Cortesevasive elab?
Yup
A man and a woman can only be friends IF there is absolutely no physical attraction between the two
Only if one of them or both of them are truly totally gay is the ONLY way men and women can be just friends and nothing more.
Red flag here. Abusive guys feel like they own women.
Absolutely spot on. Would have saved a lot of pain if I had known this stuff earlier. But sometimes you gotta learn stuff the hard way I guess.
true words brotha
Single and divorced moms are also Red Flags ..You nailed it Chad.
Man I really needed to hear this today, thank you for making this
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@@StandingChad We like you! Greetings from Germany!
@@StandingChadyou, sir, are a great person keep the great work greetings from UK
Total amazeballs. Love this channel
Bro these videos are unironically the best video’s I’ve seen in awhile. So much genuine wisdom in these it’s nuts, good job bro.
Especially the pain of burning a couple years when you refused to see the red flags initially. Too real.
Being red pilled since I was 16 definitely helps me avoid doing all these things. Anyone with a remotely traditionalist mindset wouldn’t have any of these problems. I think all of these problems are the result of the modern world and its degeneracies
100% brother, all the modern shiett just destroyed people and especially women, but its all planned depopulation…
Yeah I’m sure being an incel means you don’t get encounter these problems, because women don’t like incels.
Don’t let the propaganda brainwash you. It takes advantage of your insecurities to make you speak for their agenda. It’s just a business to them.
Stop being an incel, learn from experience and real people, in the real world, not this politically motivated shit.
It’s a psyop, the men who pro-port this ideology are idiots.
The women who pro-port the opposite ideology are also idiots.
The brainwashed women are assholes, as you know.
But consider this, the men who’ve been brainwashed by 4chan and Tate are also... assholes.
They’re all fucking stupid.
Normally they grow out of it by testing all these “skills” the internet taught them in the real world and realising it’s just propaganda.
Or by realising that the more time they’ve spent stewing in this toxic ideology in their rooms, the LESS they can actually function in the real world.
Some never grow out of it.
But the sooner you do, and the sooner you learn to recognise nuance and those biases that are attractive to you as well as those attractive to others, the better.
Being red-pilled means you view women as property.
“ all my exes were toxic “ is a red flag”
Poor girl she was always unlucky…men are assholes
Other red flags: A child, partying all the time, talking about herself all the time, bad relationships with her parents, friends are more important than her family. Watch out guys!!!
Not every person has a family worth relationship with it, unfortunately. Seen enough of really nice people with not so nice family
I like how Wojak is dressed like Itachi
Like a loser like us
Red flags. Red flags everywhere. But, are you willing to acknowledge them? That is the hardest part. Make a move.
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This ways a great life changing🙌video thank you, more people need to your beautiful work.🥀
ONTO THE POINT
PLS KEEP POSTING THIS I LOVE IT
BC IT'S NOT FAKE BLUEPILLED BULLSHIT LIKE OTHER CHANNELS
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@@StandingChad Ahhhh!!!! Hell No!!!
So, I have some experience. Red flags are real. Though, we can't forget every person is different. Limiting girls to filters is 100% bs. Party girls can be dated. Even the "shy stay at home girl" can cheat. What matters is paying attention to little signs.
If she's not spending much time with you, and would rather do something else or go out with other people, that's the biggest of problems. If she avoids you, or you're suspicious that she's "online" in a message app but won't reply to you, that's a huge red flag, too. Maybe she wants time to be alone, she could be going through something, but if you're certain that's not it, then yea, it's some other guy.
Having male friends is a potential red flag I think, but isn't necessarily a red flag... I mean, sure, might lead to "that" because the guy would probably have tried to ask her out. But I know plenty of girls that has guy friends and are just normal. Trustworthy, faithful to their husbands/bfs. I've been friends with a lot of girls. Most of the time my friends were girls actually, and no, we were just friends. Dated two or three friends, but I had I don't know, many other friends that were girls during my teenagehood.
Just make sure she wants to spend time with you and she's happy, and not asking for money or for u to buy her stuff. Then if she's not, gz, u got yourself a healthy relationship. But u know what, just to be precautious, people can change with time. Sometimes a healthy relationship can turn into a mess. She could be giving attention to you and some other guy at the same time and still act happy and goofy around you. It is your duty to ask if things are fine between you and if she's not seeing someone else when you're suspicious.
I've seen this happen before to someone else and it was heartbreaking. Then he started dating multiple girls at the same time to see how it was like, got depressed, couldn't figure out why it wasn't making him feel any better, and he's still there, dating like 3 girls at the same time, which one of them is cheating on him but he doesn't care.
"Party girls can be dated" lol, hope you do not mean a serious relationship, dated as in used and passed on to the other one that would make more sense.
you know nothing son, keep learning
Yeah man i was in work and there was this quite nerdy supersmart indian girl who didnt have many friends and she had a good few guys going at once, i was so shocked, she just told everyone in a big group she was cheating on her bf with loads of guys and wanted to get with this player as well , lol, i thought it was funny but i looked at her like gf material until that.
@@Kazak999 They can change too and they have their fair of green flags, they are energetic, usually looking forward to their goals and are great for dancing. Yeah, there's a bunch of times where you shouldn't date a specific party girl but dont overlook someone just because they tend to party a bit.
@@mcpartridgeboyyeah met some shy girls that were avsilut h03s
A truly good woman is able to look at herself critically and take constructive criticism when ppl say she has red flags
If she's unwilling to change for the better of herself so she has a better future then run because thats a ship sinker
Can confirm from experience,my ex was like that,as soon as she receives constructive criticism she would get angry,and try to shift the blame on to me,leaving was the best decision I ever made...
@@aleksa1098 *gives you a fresh blueberry pie* Thats great to hear man!😃
How you doin now?
@@infj-tguy6275 Thank you,I'm doing well now,I have moved on,it's unfortunate that it ended the way it did,but it was necessary.Her Birthday is coming up in a couple of days,so I'll just be a decent human being and send her a bday wish,since I'm not bound to the past anymore and i have moved forward,so yeah.How are u doing :)
@@aleksa1098 thats good to hear ya doin good 🙂
Im doin good too, thanks for askin
@@infj-tguy6275 no problem,I'm glad you're doing well,stay strong and remember that everything in life happens for a reason.You're better half is waiting for you somewhere on this little blue dot that we live on.Take care King 👑
This Chad’s voice is the same as my Bible app lol 🐐🗿
it's universal voice for preaching
It's not a coincidence
Maturity is to act when you see those red flags and dont ignore them...
Its difficult to find someone you like in the first place and when you suddenly see that spark with someone then you get all those butterflies in your stomach and wish to go ahead full steam . Then you start noticing those red flags but still you wish to ignore them as it was so difficult to find that person in the first place itself and you don't want to go through that uncertainity of hoping to find someone who is the right person.
Every man has three heads, his brain, the one between your legs and your heart, dont let the other two lead you astray
Remember that it was through logic and rationality that mankind grew to reach the stars
Best comment ever, love u bro
@@miguerinowtf7479 why thank you mig, how extremely kind of you to say 😊😊😊
Don’t forget the gut..go with it frens
Only one i disagree is with the "guy friends", I've had several interactions with girls with just the intent of being friends and nothing more, i know people on a relationship where the girl has male friends and vice versa and have 0 issue in that part, as long as there's limits and no sus activities, there's no issue there, in fact, if you're the kind of guy who prohibites your girlfriend of having male friends.... you're just some insecure guy who really shouldn't be dating right now. You can have friends of the opposite sex, just set your limits of only being actual friends.
I highly agree with most of the other points tho.
The moment he objectified and wanted to attach just about everything to her, he was a goner. It's a bit hard for some people but they need to see how detached the girl is. She can cover this up and give signs of wanting to attach. Being more conscious of people in general helps a lot. Inexperience can lead you to erroneous judgement but take your pick. Give it some time if you may.
you need game fosho
@@StandingChad Word
Bro you're built like bogdanoff just dump eet
She may want to attach, the question is how quickly will that flip
@@ZainAhmed-ns2di Quite variably depends
You are either Mr.Right, or Mr. Right now.Don’t forget what the oldest profession is lol, and think with the right head.
Yes, I had someone recently who makes a bold move & gives me her phone piece for me to put in my phone number & information right & then later on she mentions to me by text message that she has a boyfriend & as her bullshit reason that she gave me her phone was strictly for work related purposes. WTF!! I said to myself AAHH NO!! Tell me that that initially & not there after in time. If she really has a boyfriend then she has already emotionally cheated. If she says that she has a boyfriend but really doesn't than that makes her a big time liar & as a result of course she cannot be trusted as the 2 things I said here are indeed 2 HUGE RED FLAGS. I immediately stopped texting her & 🚫 blocked her number.
What’s even worse is that I have experience and I do know better, but when I like someone it’s like I can’t keep it together. It’s better just to be cold
If u knew better, you’d do better!
@@Hustleforprosperity ok boomer
@@bluetheminx lol
So I was seeing this muslim girl at my university and we also went on dates together. She approached me first but recently she stopped contact me anymore and she gives different vibe than she did few months ago. I really liked her and I wanted to have a good relationship with her. It was difficult because she was a Muslim and didn't want to do couple things like holding hands. Muslims do that kind of stuff after their marriage she said. I respect her being truthful to her faith but I also noticed some red flags that are mentioned in the video.
- Her best friend is promiscuous
- She likes and goes to concerts of boy bands or attractive male artist
- She says she has never had a bf or sex but she sometimes lied so hmm..
Overall your video made me realize that my feeling towards her and her feeling towards me were just attraction and not love. Thanks for the video.
Dam you know what’s crazy chad always seems like a real jerk but he really be coming in clutch for our boy wojak when he needs the help
This is actually something to learn about women for us men.
Don't simp my bois. Put yourself first. As a male, it is better this way.
He is under genjutsu ...
🔥🔥🔥🤯 bro, this video is 3 years too late🤦🏻♂️ glad I dumped my toxic ex and left no kids! 🙌🏽
always bro
That’s a fuckin W if I ever seen one
As a girl, I don't mind a guy telling me my red flags. Either it's something I should work on to improve myself, or we just don't work and we should move on.
I would argue that woman and men can be friends, ofc it depends on how close those friends are. I have a long time female friend who has a bf, i don’t talk to her too often but when we run into eachother we chat and catch up as we walk to class, or we discuss current drama, but I don’t call her cutie like doomer did in the video nor do I hang out with her, we just talk for a bit as we make our way to our separate locations or text about random stuff every now and then.
Also women lack of practical skills:
Cooking, Cleaning, Sewing, Gardening, Child-caring
The only thing they are able to offer is sex if not they are pointless
Cheating on Wojak with doomer. Hilarious
Big red flag xD
"But how could she? She was the one..." This lesson hurts.
OMG I just noticed Emily is just Wojak with hair.
As a guy that has slept with a fair ammount of women and had 4 relationships, I can tell you the he is just a friend or still contact with her ex is a huge red flag. Don't accept it, if she does not stop dump.
Lol all my relationships had red flags I thought I could change them oh man this is so true. I'm so happy single.
"platonic" guy friends DO NOT exist i repeat THEY DONT EXIST. Under any circumstances. if she says he is gay he isnt gay, its a side piece if she says she is from childhood, its the same. Trust only your gut.
You recently met a new girl and like her, make a move. Don’t be scared, anxious or afraid. Worst that happens is you recieve a no, which she will forget about within a week and your life goes on.
A woman with many past boyfriends is unlikely to be satisfied with you. She values immediate pleasure over long turn benefits.
"Don't sweat it Wojak" - man where was this video 8 months ago? Needed that shit bruh, too many redflags, too many.
so many brothers sweating for nothing
Great video, the same situation I’m in and I had to let a girl go after she ghosted me for a few days to avoid meeting me in person. I’ve learned to set standards and boundaries. Thanks Chad!
0:06 "wojak" brzmi jak słodziak ♥️
"whoa Jack, that's your problem"
cool subtitles
Plenty of fish and they all swim the same.
2:02 wtf? black metal rackmaninov? who did that music is genius xD
This is actually pretty bloody toxic.
These videos are painting a completely wrong picture of how society actually works.
A guy can have a female friend and so the other way around.
Chad in the video is saying that Wojak shouldn't be brainwashed be society while it is actually Chad that is brainwashing Wojak into thinking all these toxic things.
With this mentality, Wojak is never going to be in a healthy long-term relationship. But maybe he just want to bang some chicks and make some money and then be miserable for the rest of his life because he never found peace in himself and pleasure in the small things in life.
I think it would be genius if you switched up the script (because all these videos are just the same), and made one about Wojak taking a break from social media and starting fitness and mindfulness so he can find true happiness and joy in life. Then, when he's happy about himself, he can start looking in the right places for a potential girlfriend.
That would actually be genius! I would enjoy one of those instead of one of these videos with the same script about Wojak minding his own business and Chad disturbing and triggering him into doing something completely different that what he wanted to do in the first place and then Bognadoff ruining it all.
What happened to happy endings?
You have some valid points. I just think that these types of videos are too oversimplified and can be misunderstood very easily. So I just wanted to give my opinion and an eventual video idea. Have a great day, my friend
The girl was always talking bad about her ex and claimed that he manipulated her in many ways. I belived her and tried to help her to get over these "trauma issues". Few months later and we had an argument over a minor thing. She is over dramatic and blocked contact to me and tells her other friends that I tried to manipulate her too. She made up things and changed things that never happend. I never manipulated her and still felt like I did something wrong, until I finally realize that she is the problem. She always repeates the same pattern. I wonder how many storys about her ex were true, maybe none. It sucks but it's also kinda sad, because she really belives in her false reallity and real thinks that she is the victim.
Loved this video from you!!
This happened to me, when I found out the one of the close friends of the girl I liked's was promiscuous I just lied to myself that she wouldn't turn out like that but she found some other guy despite giving me signs she liked me
"there's plenty of fish in the ocean" damn that's hard 😭
Come on G love these vids❤❤❤
much luv ❤❤
Thanks. This is a very valueable one... Thanks
I feel so bad for wojak but so funny how she left at the end when he was talking the disrespect I love chad good father figure 😂
Bullshit from the get go. Men and women can be friends. Not everyone, but some. I have a female friend who is in a long term relationship and I could never imagine myself with her. She can fill the requirements for a friend but not for a spouse, because there is a good stretch between those two things.
I liked this video.
But I don't agree that man and woman can't be friends.
They can be friends if they both are not attractive or not attracted to each other.
The first scene already showed me that another investment is not worth it.
1. if she doesn't show any obvious signs that she finds you attractive and wants more, then this is a very bad starting point. Just break it off.
2. if she lets you have it: fun material!
3. if she shows obvious signs but in the best case it only comes to a kiss: wife material! Enjoy the conquest game in story mode.
What are obvious signs: sparkling eyes, a bright smile, laughing at your jokes, playing with her hair, touching your arms or shoulders, discussing on a very friendly level, genuinely interested in what you're saying, a little bit of embarrassment, etc.
I had received all those signs you described but she still ended up rejecting me. You can never know, some girl's friendly behaviour is some girl's flirting. You can never ever know for certain
Wow. She didn’t even hear him out. Just dipped. **Major** red flag.
He was Mode One at the end. Always the truth. Go and make shit happen. Moooooode One!
Who tf is Wojack to have such high standards of his girl?
I thought it was a joke as Wojacked ended alone 🤣, but now I am quite shocked with the comments I have read, and with the blunt way the story ended.
Chad counseling is quite sexist and misogynistic, man and women are not so different. Chad expects Wojack to have a lot of experience while signalling this very caracteristic is a red flag for women. Come on! so 1950s! Doomer feelings relating to the incapacity of finding a good match is mainly due to a lack of self critique in regards the toxic way we (man) are raised, the same way since at least 300 years. The way women are raised changed a lot in the last 50 years and for the better. What would you say to your 15 years old daughter: "Find mariage with a rich man to provide for you" or "Study, find success and be yourself". We need to teach the same to boys. Less reliance to the idea that a well-behaved wife is a source of self steem and success, because its not. If you (as an heterosexual man) cannot befriend the opposite sex, without sexual intensions, man you have got a problem: You are being too sexist and leting this ideology to fill the gaps of self-knowledge; kind of not mastering yourself and addressing and understanding the sexual tensions inside you. It's a recipe for frustration and never being able to connect genuinely with a person if this person is a woman.
I’m glad that the boy saved a lot of time from being wasted with this jerk.
In a time in my life where i'm simultaneously:
Wondering what I say that kills it
Not breaking up with someone because I dont wanna be that bad guy
Working crazy hours as an assistant getting fried by people being dicks
Attempting to slow down on using weed as a constant bandaid
Having so many friends i gotta schedule visits around my work schedule to sometimes get called in as soon as I get settled in
and doing this rambling for far too long thing and annoying the fuck out of people, these videos are important to pull us out of the creepy phase, the 'nice guy' phase, the phase where we think we have to be overly nice to feel loved or appreciated in the slightest because we can't see our overnice-ness RUINS our looks from the outside.
I also realize i'm overly critical on the things I struggle with myself. Big L's can only turn to Big W's now, kings.
We all need a standing chad in our lives
as a 28 yo (as of this comment) and more than a year back on the market, I can tell you that there is no shortcut, it takes a while to find a girl that fits your standards. I know how hard it is at the start, you just need to give it some time - improve yourself, do everything you can to become the best version of yourself.
Are there any channel in women's prospective? I'd like to know
HOW BOYS SUDFERING MORE THESE DAYS AFTER A BREAK UP THAN GIRLS ?! HOWWWW?!
This is an excellent video idea. I am sending it to some friends that need to hear it.
Some constructive advice:
Have you considered going Fiver for some cheap voice acting, or getting your pals involved for the male voices?
That is the only cringy part of the videos.
ty but the cringy part is a big part of these videos
What’s wrong with liking a BAND!?! That one was weird af lol. Ig Models don’t have a product they sell their image/themselves. Bands make music, it doesn’t mean you have a crush on the band members lol
There's no faster way to chase a girl out of your arms than to try and change someone.
Yes there is no such thing as being friends with women. Even if you both agree to it being in friendzone to someday finally get her to love you is also a pain in the ass. Being friend with a woman you get all the responsibilities of a boyfriend and no benefits of a boyfriend, there is plenty of fish out there, just ignore her. Sometimes you even attract her this way
Damn chad ur so right if only i knew u before😔 but at least i can send my experience to my friend so they dont do those mistakes too
That is deep. Thanks
I decided to forgive cheating two years ago, to end up being totally broken today. Listen to Chad.
Yes, there is a plenty of fish in the ocean... but not a plenty of potatoes.
Everywhere Chad appears to be a red flag at forming polygenous relationships, but here he is just an absolute green flag fs❤
Seeing all this makes me grateful that I have the arranged marriage option. 2 people getting together with zero expectations makes life much easier 😅
I see arranged marriage as being in shipwreck and ending on uninhabited island with some girl. Than no matter the differences, you two have to work together and accept each other to survive.
These are not the only red flags, my ex was very depressed and threatened suicide and she doesnt speak to a lot of her family, even her eldest son, but she had zero of these red flags, but if she had not have ended it she would have dragged me down, even though she was really nice to me, and annoyingly i still love her a lot and at my age always will.
Wojack should be its own Seasoned episode
i have a girlfriend and 2 very good female friends and my girl has no problem with that. one of em is actually my best friend since years.
100% true, unless the man is gay, men and women cannot be just friends, the man will always have some form of attraction for the woman.
Red Roses are only for those girls that's just as Pure and Sweet. For every Red Flag a girl has there's some man's bleeding knuckles.
I wish I had a friend like a Standing Chad, I wasnt defeated and destroyed like now after being married to Red Flag woman.
nooooooo
Oh man, where was this video 3 months ago?
I found out she has a "male friend", I confronted her, told her that this is disrespectful to me since I told her before what I think of "friendship" between men and women, I made my boundaries clear, we had an argument and she broke up with me, but I felt really broken hearted cause I thought she is "the one", I had many mistakes during the process hhh and she gaslighted me for it, but at least I didn't allow her to go beyond my boundaries, and that I think it is better for me that we ended it, and thankfully I didn't try to change her mind or ran crying to her, but I wish I did few things in a different way...
We learn from our mistakes though
Why they pass from night to morning
Love that akatsuki suit
Hahaha hah red pillll❤❤❤❤
Wojak goes on a date in Akatsuki robe
2:06 Absolutely
I love what Wojak wear, Akatsuki-uchiha-itachi 😂
The end music. Lol.
"There's plenty fish in the ocean" 👍🏽
This was great!
I never had a person like chad
Wojak is not the only wojak