6 Signs That He Genuinely Cares About You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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1. He follows through with his agreements.
2. He remembers the little things.
3. He tries to protect you from pain, discomfort.
4. He'll confide in you. Values your perspective.
5. He'll get defensive. (He's not apathetic.) A man getting defensive of his position cares, he's invested in the relationship.
6. He listens to you. Asks about your day...etc.
I remember how my late husband in the last year of his life when he was barely able to speak because of a stroke, was able to tell someone to buy me a flashlight for our car's glove box. When he was in the hospital the first time with pneumonia and after he just lost most of his speaking abilities, was still able to tell someone to buy a red silk rose for me. I think he wrote it down for clarity.
Omg. That’s so beautiful. ❤️
What a beautiful soul he was.
@@BlissfullyYou thank you so much! I WAS truly blessed to have Tim in my life!
@@sirene1164 Oh, yes! That he was! He went to Heaven to be with Jesus over twenty-five years ago and often think about how wonderful it will be to see Tim again and I know he'll have our home decorated to the hilt for all the Christmases, birthdays, Valentine's Days and anniversaries we spent apart! ❤
You were truly blessed. Thank you for sharing. I read it with tears in my eyes. Would like to hear more, if u feel like sharing. My email paragra.b.25@gmail.com
I care about a man when I
1 care about his health
2 I support his dream
3 I guard his freedom
4 I love his family
5 I want to see him succeed
These are great ways of showing love! Would you mind going into detail by what you meant about 3. Guard his freedom?
I care about my man very much, but his family is toxic, its impossible to love his mother and sister.
@@karolinawilk7178 maybe you are too brilliant that makes every women jealous:)
@@compassion2126 let him do things he wants:travel ,work, go to friends or live a lifestyle even very different than mine. in short: respect him as a person like I respect my own privacy and freedom.
Yuli Chinese class that’s so great! I know that can be hard for a lot of people. Especially the thinking a different way than him. Everything you just said is a very important element.
If u've not met one yet, may God show you that caring man!
Amen..
Ameen
God showed me already. Those men are somebody's husbands
Amen!!!
Amen
7. He will make it his number one mission to show you that making you happy is his highest priority. Great Video Mat!
I am happiest when I am not dealing with people that want me to be happy
He definitely does it all. I especially love how if I'm cold he finds his sweat shirt and he pulls it over my head like I'm helpless like men did back in the day. He is opening the car door then pulling my seatbelt across my body to make sure its secure. I have a wonderfully funny, sweet, thoughtful, loving man.
Nawww good for you 💕
@@soulsensations4168 thank you. 🥰
How marvelous. Happy for you💕
This just made my heart sing sis 🥰
Pisces men are super sweet lol from my experience.
One day I'll find someone like that. 😊
If you believe you are worthy of it, you won't settle for less!
Yup don't settle
A few things as women I think we can do to show we care is
1) to see things from a guy’s perspective,
2) Let them have fun even it doesn’t make sense to you,
3) Every now and then let him do difficult things for you (carry groceries, cook, etc.)
4) Let him know you appreciate him occasionally
5) Don’t forget your please, thank you, and other manners. When you respect your guy he’ll respect you and love you more!
What I do to let my guy know that I care:
1) Great listener
2) Great communicator
3) Compassionate/empathetic
4) Caring/nurtured
5) Love to give surprises to make you smile!
I have had to change because I found out I am a nice girl which some men can find boring. I am now becoming a nice girl with an edge!!😊 I also adjust if I see the other person is not the same because I can be too giving or too nice!!
Sometimes the hardest things about these videos are when you meet a guy who shows these signs and he does care, but he doesn't like like me...ugh my life.
I hear you. I am always the friend, never the wife or girlfriend. Men love to talk to me for hours and to confide in me. They say I make them laugh. But that's it. I am one of the guys.
the person who really cares for you will make it obvious that he wants to be a part of your life by doing an effort to be in it. I emphasize "Effort" because it's the most attractive for us women. Effort to start a conversation, effort to reach out to you, the bigger the "effort" is a true sign the he's really interested in you and wants to know you more.🍁
That Effort thing is what I keep mentioning to my boyfriend. The tough thing for me is to decide if it is enough. Especially when I compare it to the effort that he puts into doing things for his family and closer friends, I know he puts more effort for me. It still seems like I do more, but then that is also true in more of my friendships too. sigh.
Yes, I totally agree. Met a guy who I thought wanted the same thing as me, but then every action seemed like he was not interested and just wasting time. He claimed he likes me, but the fact he only contacted me when he wanted something and never took me out on a date said a lot about what he thought of me. In the 2 mths we met, we only had dinner twice which was initiated by me. Other times he only made an effort when he wanted to come over for sex. Then he had the nerve to say I always treat him badly to which I said "you treat me like I don't exist." 🙄😒
I love when guys remember the little things it's soooo sweet. Seems like they basically know you already...!!
Whenever I really care about a man, I will want to talk to him and listen to him.
After listening to you I kind of understand ,I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend is in the United States and I'm in the UAE.sometimes it gets really hard but he really tries to keep transparent communication .
You need to invite him over to visit you in UAE!
I compliment him, I try to see where he’s coming from, I look after his needs, I spend time even when it’s inconvenient.
I listen and offer empathy and validation when he makes himself vulnerable. I express appreciation and admiration regularly. Pay attention to little things, make it okay for him to not have it all together (it’s been a challenging time lately), and offer plenty of comforting, non-sexual touch
One of the most important exchanges I share with my man is our concern for each other when something outside the relationship upsets one or the other of us. I am by nature calm and soft spoken. He is not and has a bit of a short fuse, but when I show him by my questions and encouragement to understand why he is upset, not asking him to calm down, but instead to give me all the details of why or how he came to being angry, he can feel my empathy and listen when he is finished to my calmer and sometimes analytical side. This gives him the feeling I care about all parts of his day- the good and the bad- and that together we can understand the bad and find solutions or a sense of satisfaction that whatever the bad was, by unloading it and sharing that burden it lightens the load. Often those exchanges are followed by very important hugs, back massages, or just sitting outside to enjoy the quiet calm of my mountain home.
He loves me the way I am. I don't need to compromise myself if there is something we must resolve. I explain my point by giving him a kiss first and he gets my point when I explain. No argument but we resolve disagreements in this way.
Matt, I just wanted to let you know How Much I Appreciate You!!! Thank You For All That You Do For Women!!!
Whenever I care about a man I talk and listen to him and whenever he's down or not feeling well Im giving him hug or touches him in a way that I can comfort him.
its been 6 weeks, and I am amazed my new man meets every one of these criteria. late in life miracle
Happy for you! (Praying the miracle happens for me too)
Mathew, you are my favorite dating coach and you always make me feel relaxed and happy after watching your video! Blessings and FULL WATCH! 💖💖
To show that I care for my guy, I buy him stuff sometimes, bake and cook for him, and basically talk to him all the time. If we're apart like we are now, I hit him up very often on Facetime, FB, email, and Google Hangouts. Communication is key to everything.
I do appreciate him whenever he cares for me
Yeah, that’s so nice
What I do for my man is let him know I appreciate him. I will thank him and compliment him. I will praise him when he does well whether he aced am exam or figured out a work problem I'll say "Good job babe!" or "I'm proud of you!" I know it makes him feel special and important and yes he does all the things in the video! We are cheerleaders for each other!
When you said number five I coo'd a very long, heartfelt
awwwwwwwww!
This has been what he gas done the most and what has bothered me the most.
I never ever thought of it being a positive thing; maybe because I'm scared for the same reason, but it makes
SOOOO
MUCH
SENSE!
WOW Matt!
I have always resonated with you, but this takes my perspective of you to a whole new level!
I cannot tell you how much it means to me to know this!
It helps me understand him so much better!
I am on the verge of years I am so touched
(And yes the other points you made apply to him as well.)
Thank you,thank you
THANK YOU!
It used to scare me to watch this type of info but not anymore because I get encouraged instead of discouraged!
Wowwwwww
These are really great signs!! Thanks so much Mat!! I love every single advice you give us!
Thank you. I received the affirmation pdf and will follow through
Sounds absolutely wonderful! Yes, already on the way - so exciting to think about!
You will get it! As long as you don't settle for less!
I always listen when he wants to share something that happened in his day! Also I tell him what a good man he is, everyday! Of course, it helps to have a good man🥰
One way I show love for my hubby is starting his work truck in winter before he gets out of bed (@4am), he never asked for it of course & was frustrated til he asked why 😁 I'm fortunate to have a loving, caring husband who does all those little things that mean sooo much, thanks Matt!
There a a few small gestures that I do because I like to and it does show my appreciation of him. Treat his family members very well and his good close friends. . It could be give a ride to doctors, drop off a meal or be a good listener. Also, make him a favorite meal for no reason, pick up a movie or music CD he wants and always be loving to his pets.
I listened to my guy when he was facing a serious challenge. I affirmed what he was feeling and pointed out the good things.
Thanks for the great info! You’re looking radiant btw Matt
Thanks Matt. I am finally in a happy LTR with an old acquaintance who eventually turned into a slow-burn romantic relationship. Your videos definitely helped me when I was in a loooong single phase. But they also help now as well!
My man exhibits all of the 6 points mentioned above I am happy to say!
I express my love to him by being my authentic self and being open and honest in my communications, especially when we're feeling irritable or stressed. I'm also very physically affectionate and tell him how much I appreciate him and his efforts. I always use humour to help things along and get us laughing often... l do my best to really listen but am not perfect ❤😍
I listen to what he's saying without interrupting him.
Thanks Mat! I love your videos so much, they are very insightful and incredibly helpful. To show my sweetheart my love I do whatever I can to make him smile. Affection, his favorite foods, listening to him vent without judgement when he's having a bad day, listen to him talk about his kids, video games, WW2 (he's an enthusiast) send him jokes or funny memes and just generally act goofy. Which really isn't hard for me, I'm a natural goofball. Haha. He has this distinctive special smile he only gives to me. When I see him smile that way I know I've reached his heart and made him happy.
I'm a big ppl- pleaser, I'm taking care, making sure you have everything you need, listening to how you feel. Just by me doing all small things for you. Shows you that I really care for you.
You were born to do this Matt! Thanks for all you do.
This came up when I asked if anyone cares about me and now I feel even worse
Wow! This was an eye opening for me. I didn’t know him being defensive is a sign that he cares.
Hi Thank you Matthew for sharing your inspiring thoughts and advice. I also downloaded your free book.😊
I'm a newbie in your channel.More success in the future!
This video made me realize and appreciate the man I have found!! Thank you Matt!! This was a great perspective! I can move forward in my relationship without second guessing how he feels without using words!
I bring him to meet my kids and mother , I was the one say I love you to him .He’s a semi-truck driver and I always in touch with him to see how he’s doing .. I think that it’s very important to show affection and care for the person with want in our life. 🥰
I listen to him and his version. Also pray for his concerns.
Thank you Matt!As usual you are brilliant!
This is awesome! Love your advice!
Thanks, man. Now these things are much clearer for me than before.
it's good to hear you talk about your wife and your in-laws. So many of the people who are giving advice on the internet about dating and relationships seem to have a long history of failed relationships. Some come across as real players.
To show him that I care I will always try to research the things that he’s into even though I’m not into it at all (i.e. cars, shoes, etc). And I’ll always ask him about his day, if he had any problems, or if anything funny happened so it gives him a chance to express his feelings whether it was a big deal to him or not
Tim, my late husband, was actually very expressive about his feelings for me. Cool, huh? But he also deeply confided to me the most intimate details of his life before we met!
Im happy to hear these😍
I show I care by also listening to him, his likes and dislikes, and when he is having a bad day I let him know I am there when he needs me.
A lot of truth in this video! Plenty of men can say the right thing, but not follow through with action (I.e. lying to you or lying to themselves)! Consistent, reliable & kind behaviour is what counts..
To show I care:
I listen to him even if the topic is boring or I disagree
I give him space to enjoy what he likes and catch up with his friends and activities
I encourage him when he wants to try new things
I let him choose activities/ travel plans.. I compromise sometimes
I complement him every now and then with love and kind words coz I know that “words of affection” is his love language
I appreciate him so much that I’m all ears to listen.
I usually show that I care by making time to listen to him if he has something to say, and then if he has done something meaningful to me, I'll tell him how thankful and happy I am because he showed up. I care in a more quiet manner, but I'd also wanna boost his confidence and encourage him when he is dealing with a challenging situation. I'd even wanna do the little things for them that I remembered them saying he needs help with. Being there for them and present with them fully, such a good way to demonstrate love for both men and women.
It is made a point that those 6 things are reciprocated. In addition, I use my talents (like baking and the ability to learn languages fast) to make him feel special and to be able to easily connect with his family and friends. Thirdly, I teach myself how to dance (despite it not being my strong point). Fourthly, constructive criticism is listened to and action is taken. Most importantly, I put my ego aside and put myself in his shoes and try to see things from his point of view.
I've learned to listen to his issues and be more appreciative .
Hi Matt once again, you have explained it perfectly.
I love the way you express what men think and do. I agree with what you say about number 5.
I hate a man who agrees with everything I say.
Thanks Matt xxx 💝
Thank you mathew🙏🏻❤️
Great video. Full of what Love should be.
No one is perfect in this world but I hope I'll find a man that will have some of these attitudes..... Thank you Mat❤💪
I tell him how much he is appreciated!
I care about his happiness so I always tell how great he is and encourage him do more of what makes him feel good about himself..
This is an excellent list. At first Defensive threw me, but now I see. In my relationship, my man shows his care by doing all he can for using his natural talents. It has to do with his profession, but he does the same work for me just to help me out out of care.
Great video sir. New subscriber here,watching from PH.
Thank you and especially #5 when he gets defensive. I didnt realize the meaning behind that, I just thought it meant his ego was out of whack, power struggle. I show how I care for my man by: 1:being present even when he is having a hard day, just being physically close but still allowing space for him to be in that mood. 2: offering my time 3: being genuinely interested in his work. 4: sending humorous gifts to remind him how much he means to me. 5: be his sanctuary 6: being vulnerable and allowing him to help me with everyday chores without judgement in how he got it done. 7: welcoming him back with a hug everytime we are apart. 8: thanking him for being open and letting me know how he is feeling.
What do I do to show a man I care? actually do everything you mentioned. I also want to make him feel comfortable in every way possible. Comfortable in my presence as well. Everything the same as you, Mathew Boggs mentioned.
Thanks for the advice I now know!
Love the pool story 💙
When I love and care about a man I will: make time to help him with a huge favor (i.e moving), I will cook for him, I will support him in all that he does, I will listen to him when he’s vulnerable, etc. 💖
I listen and try to take his advice when I can.
Apathy is truly the best indicator that the love is gone.
Nice video Mathew😊😊
Hi Coach Mat
Your So in Alignment with your Actions...A Huge Example for These Mens Out There Being poorly Behaviors Ridiculously Inmature. I'm so proud of You Coachy. Your Matureness went to The Next Level...A Very High Value Man. Your wife must Be So Happy Blessed Proud of Her Man. Blessings to Both of You and your. " Team Elite...💎"
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Great video Matthew!
Great video, Matt
Love it! A few things I do to let a guy know I genuinely care for him... 1. Send a "Good morning handsome" text 2. Set time for him before I go to work (I work a lot and get off late) and call or message on my breaks 3. I talk... lol; I am not much of a conversationalist, so if I hold a conversation with him for some time... Yeah, I am pretty much into him... lol 4. I listen to him when he needs someone to talk to. This may seem weird, but I do tend to zone out when I am not interested. There are more things I do, but we will just keep this one short today. lol
Ur Way of speaking is awesome
I always pick him up things for him that he says in general conversation that would make work for him much easier . I love surprising him with huge dishes that he loves when he comes home. I don't have time to do huge dishes often as we both work ALOT but when I have a little extra time free up I do it. I think we do alot of the same things for eachother. We strive to just keep eachother happy and content weather it be little or big gestures . Me doing his laundry and him cleaning my trk . We listen to eachother, yes even during disagreements. We don't argue. We basically have debates. We set down certain rules out of the gate when we started dating of how we would handle disagreements and we both stick to those rules. Its too easy to say things during a disagreement that you can't take back. We confide in eachother about everything. Yes I do truly listen if its about sports, cars , tools etc... and he'll listen about my girly stuff. We are truly eachother's best friend ❤ and tell eachother EVERYTHING . We work amazing as a team. We have a wierd thing we do but it works for us.. If we are annoyed to a point that one of us is about to explode and say things we don't mean. We walk out to another room mumble to ourself to get it off our chest and calm ourselves down then return and discuss it but we never ever ask eachother what we were mummbling about. Hey it works for us :)
This guy before we started dating found out my birthday, then I saw his calendar and he wrote down my birthday on it. Then on my birthday he got me a little cake and a gift. He's sweet... he also notices when I'm clearly overwhelmed and he will stand infront of me with his hands on my shoulders and reassures me everywhere is ok and will then proceed to take some, if not all the burden onto himself. It's truly one of the most wonderful things ever.
I always say thank you... but thank you doesn't seem to be enough sometimes... like thank you isn't strong enough words... idk
I know he's a really busy guy and wants to be a good dad. We already had a break because he felt overwhelmed. I make it a priority to ask him how his kids are and let him know I admire him when he does important stuff with his kids. Sometimes I'll send him social media clips of dads and kids with a note "this reminds me of you. This dad rocks like you" I don't want him to ever feel like I resent less time with him if he's being a father. Good Dads are so important to children.
It sounds like excuse..How do you know he is good dad when youre not there?
@@viennala2528 i have ex husband who did nothing with kids after divorce except tell everyone how much he loves them. My bf, I've seen video and photos of things he does with the kids.
Awesome video!
I've known this guy since were teenagers. We've been on and off again. Over the years. He's demonstrated some of these. At 41yo. We are talking more. Live in diff. States. It feels good to know all this time. He's shown he cared. Especially after a very toxic relationship with my ex fiance. And his baby mamas keep leaving him. With a son to raise. By himself. We've been reminicing for days now. Feels like we're teenagers again. Only better. Thank you for this video.💌🙏🏼
I can show my care to a man when he needed me most i am always beside him especially if he gets sick.When I can share what i have with him from the smallest thing to the biggest one.
I can't wait to Meet my Man soon 🙏
Oh, Tim listened to me almost all the time!
Ahh!! That just hurt me all the more. This makes me realise I'm not much loved.I'm getting stronger.
I tend to do actions I think will improve his life (i.e. optimize and organize with permission, encourage his personal growth).
I agree with the “defensive” sign of care. Upon hearing it I thought of a time very recently where I was frustrated with not being able to see him due to “shelter in place” orders (we’re about a three hour drive apart). He did become defensive when I was sharing my feelings of insecurity and fear that we were drifting apart. It ended with us agreeing to do more to feel connected and confident in our relationship until we can resume a more regular visitation schedule (phone calls, FaceTime, small gifts, etc). I think as long as the defensiveness is respectfully done, it is a good sign!
I love this!!
Thank you Matthew 😘
What I do for the man I love. I'm his Rock and support. Been there for him from the get go and still am. Even though we been thru hell/back we talk it out,communicate to the point we're on the same page. We learn from each others faults and go about r lives. We hve that romeo and juliet partnership. The Ride or Die mentality. It's a unique bond we hve
Thank you Matt
Mine does most of these. I'm still learning to trust it's all real.
I love your channel.
You learned how yo be a good man from your father. That helps a Lot. I agree with You about why men get defensive. Very good tips. Thank you
I actually went through something similar...started dating someone after I set my boundaries and things seem to be great then he started gaslighting me and then out of advice of a guy friend I checked to see if he was still online and sure enough. Ended it and 3 weeks later we are seeing each other again. This time it's completely different...he is investing being consistent and reliable. He said he realized he needed to work on himself ro make some changes and was holding me accountable for all the negative in his past relationships. Before he was pretty non empathetic and is not used to a strong confident woman and was always the alpha. Now he is learning balance and the art of compromise and last night we had a serious talk and for the first time I saw alot of what this video Matt is about. I saw the defensive side and the body language items. So thank you for educating me to make better decisions and boundaries.
And you are genuinely awesome