Wrong Mindsets Men Have | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- There are mindsets men have entertained over time that have not given them the best results in relationships and even marriage.
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God-fearing men who actually study the Word of God and obey it, who also fast and pray are extremely attractive and this is why many of them are already married/engaged or in relationships 🙂 It isnt their looks and money that makes them irresistible but what is inside of them 🔥
hmm... iyen tun deep
👀 So God-fearing men are more attractive to women than rich men? Let's be honest, please. How it should be is different from how it is. Should women prefer God-fearing men more? Ideally, yes. But is that the case generally? Not even close. Sorry.
@@Tomiwa101 You are right, it is not the case WHEN the woman in question is not God-fearing herself. It's not even logical to expect a person who is not God-fearing to have the correct mind-set when it comes to choosing a life partner.
Women who are serious about the things of God also receive wisdom from God and only men who are God-fearing come into question for THOSE women. "God-fearing" is not just a term to describe Christians, but it means your choices and lifestyle are in alignment with biblical principles.
This is why the Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked. That doesn't only mean that if you are a Christian then you should marry a Christian, but it means you should have the same mind-set and values cos some Christians are believers by name only and not by actions. What you see, (in behavioral patterns and not physical appearance) is what you get.
@@Tomiwa101 God fearing ladies are attracted to God fearing men, before got married, I met men who seemed attractive but the moment we got close I discovered they were not the right persons for me. Notwithstanding apart from being God fearing, there may be other features you desire because a Godfearing man may have a wrong mindset. Also ladies may be too blinded or imature to identify who they out to be attracted to... so that doesn't may God fearing men unattractive.
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Perfect response to godless women!
That Zamunda thing, I said it with Pastor at the same time😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Hello my name is Natasha Campbell. I live on the island of St.Maarten. I really love youvand your wife's ministry, so much I learned by listening. Thank you and may God continue to give you both the wisdom as you continue to teach in this area of life.
I know men who are exactly all of the above 🙄😬. M glad a man is addressing this.👏👏
This man is full of wisdom. God continue to bless & increase you sir
Thank you sir
Yes oo,Amen,i just love his divine wisdom
Pastor K, when will you come to Ghana❤
Pastor Kingsley always bringing it home in grand style. Thank you sir
I had given up listening to anything relationship/marriage. I felt I had heard too much enough and all I need is actual experience of it. In the past few days God has been dealing with me in the place of my prayers like never before. Leading me to my teachers. I’m grateful i found the Okonkwo’s messages totally relatable. God bless you two for giving.
Having the Holy Spirit as a man comes with all the qualities you should have. It’s like a complete package. Thank God for the Holy Spirit 😋
You and Rev Mildred are a blessing to us all. God bless your union especially then your ministry.❤
GOD evening Pastor Sir from Australia.
We love you and your precious family and Ministry.
GOD bless you extensively and eternally
Thank you
@@KingsleyOkonkwo Sir do u need to be married to be a counselor
@@catherineefeti1111 One time, he mentioned not necessarily, the major part is allowing God to touch lives through you.
The word should not be “under you” but “with you” because this type of communication/Narrative is what brings about “superiority complex “
God bless you and give you more wisdom to keep impacting the world with knowledge.knowledge is power
God bless you Pastor K. You're really pushing some buttons.
I wish men would seek knowledge, listen and walk in it.
It's takes a man with Godly wisdom to have these qualities I mean Godly wisdom is different from Worldly wisdom, my husband is a God fearing man, a pastor by His calling,and has it all, we are be married for gud ten years now, but it's seems that we just got married today, if you are single pray for a God fearing spouse, when Jesus in the family Happy, Happy Home, a man who doesn't have fear of God cannot Love His wife has christ love the church. thank you man of God I'm always blessed through you and your wife message .
If they will hear,ehh na,the efforts women put into their relationship and marriage after counseling,if men will just do the same, marriage will be a better phase in an individual life.God bless you PK.
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I'm liking before watching! This is gonna be lit!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
PASTOR you have preached oooh lol....Wow wow wow!!! Thank you for delivering men.
God increase you greatly sir🙏...Your oil no go run dry
Pastor K this your sermon came at the right time. Thank you🙏
Wow I'm soo blessed, God bless you richly Pastor K 🙏❤❤❤
He stressed the 'for now!' Pastor K!!!! 😭😭😭😭
Yes oh 😅
I laughed ,Pst K is such a funny guy.
Pastor you are an amazing gift to us.
Play with your wife, don't be the kind of Zamunda! 😂🤣. Thank you Pastor for the knowledge shared.
These are some of the problems my ex had until I got tired. I advised that we go for counseling because I knew something was not right but, he is the proud and stubborn type, he couldn't agree to listen to anyone. I use to see myself as the problem until I went for personal counseling. Thank you for this message sir, God bless you sir🙏
Many thanks Past Kingsley Okonkwo.
I wish all men will watch this ....no 7 got me
You are wonderful sir! You deserve the Award of Best Pastor in all d Years you have been preaching. This video is one of the best message I have listened to sir. More Wisdom Sir!
Bless you sir🇰🇪
His emphasis on "a good woman".....
Pastor K, that your money point no be lie o
Point number 2🔥🔥 most of the men I know, think in this way that if they don't have a lot of money they can't keep a woman! Thank you pastor Kingsley for this, I'll surely share this with all my friends and family.🤗🙏🙏
Pst K says he's based in Nigeria for now 😂🙆
i heard that too lmaooo
I chuckled when I caught that "for now"😂
Jesu! He's leaving? To where biko?
outside UAR
@@estheree9171 😅😅
I love that 3rd point Pastor K (and of course, all the points) 💥💫💥💯🔥🔥🔥 You are a true blessing to this generation 🥳🥳🥳 I'm sharing with ALL male contacts on my phone 📱. Could binge on your teachings all day long 🌟💫💥💯
Thank you PK. You moved my table oooh
You delivered sir! God bless you mightily!!!
1. Headship is rulership (Superiority Complex)
2. I need a lot of money
3. I don't need any man to tell me how to think
4. Marriage is not Important
5. My extended family comes before my wife
6. Letting your ego control you
7. Men shouldn't be in touch with your emotions
Many thanks for the summary Henry. This is necessary.
Thank you! I've been scrolling through comments to see if someone will list the points.
God bless you Sir for the massage
I am blessed thank you pastor kingsly
Have been immensely blessed
Thank you pst K...
Very true sir, am loving your message everyday. God bless you sir
Chaiii i wish all men have this knowlege
GOD Bless Sir, you are a Blessing to this generation🙌🇩🇪
I'm learning
The Lord bless you Pst Kingsley
Headship Vrs Rulership, so on point.
This clarity is what men need to have, even as young boys and single men.
Someone told me that Headship makes no sense because women these days challenge men in every aspect of life, at the work place, in academics etc.
You said it, Headship is not superiority, it's not intelligence/or who's smarter.
Pastor, This message is off the hook. You couldn't have said it better. Thanks for sharing this divine insights from the reservoir of knowledge that God has deposited in you. Keep up the good work. God's grace in increasing measures. Love you sir!!
Great advice.
God bless you Sir, this is beautiful beyond understanding 🔥🔥🔥
It feels like the ones hearing this Good word of God are only the women....
Emphasis on feels...Don't worry, some of us are listening.
This is a great one Sir. Responsible Leadership is something that is attractive about a man.
So good, amen!
Well said Pastor.
slay queen.
materialistic
How did i not know about this channel??? I'm busy binge watching.
God bless you Sir.
Oh thank you 🙏🏽
More wisdom sir
This is awesome
Thank you Pastor. You are so amazing with the deep truth you share all thr time. Thank you for working with God to uphold God's intention for marriage. God bless your home.
God bless you more sir. Much love
Thank you sir for this. KING OF ZAMUNDA😂😂
Thank you Pastor.. your words were expressly communicated
❤❤......💯
This's the grammatical truth about it all and thanks alot sir. I ll put in to work about this in my family too.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Please sir, can you talk about what to do when someone is flirting with a married woman
More wisdom in Jesus Christ name Sir.
Thank you very much sir
May God continue to bless and prosper you and your household Amen
Awesome!!!! Thank you Pastor Kingsley!!!
Quite insightful. More grace, Sir.
God bless you sir
Thanks for teaching the truth as a man...💯
I would love to be a certified counsellor of this ministry. Please how do I go about it?
You talked about "wrong men mindset" from the aspect of marriage but when you talked about "wrong women mindset" you mostly referenced singlehood.
That was so wonderful
Have you already done one for women it would be interesting to see where we may be going wrong? I'm Improvement will always strengthen & lengthen marriages Yes Please 🙏
Plus You made me so that's a bonus 😅
Well said sir
This is exactly so many men carry themselves around. I love your messages. Their really good. Thank u for coming through for us
I love you, sir.
God bless you Sir 🙏🏽
Pst said He is in Nigeria for now, i 😅
Thanks pastor Sir
May i never be King 👑 of Zamunda so help me oh God. Amen
There's one thing I keep saying when countering the "men don't cry" fallacy nonsense : "Pain doesn't care/give a frock what your gender is." That's the brutal, in-your-face-whether-you-like-it-or-not truth.
I am a single brother. I love to start a relationship with a God fearing sister
On the 3rd point. Most comments are from women. Even to like the video is hard for men. Come on men, hit the like button, drop your comments. You know you want to.
i wish my boyfriend could listen to this.
Send it to him. Pastor said we should share it
My sister.... make him listen to it ooo
Share it to him
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Are you a soldier? 😂😂🤩
Not only status employment even a woman who sell by the road side are still making mone but the problem is everything is based on status and University qualification
Am so blessed 🙌 🙏 thanks pst k I hope dey will 👂
I HV LIKED, I HV SUSCRIBED ....NICE 1 BROS
WHY SOME MEN CHOOSE THEIR BROTHERS :
O nwanne g'eji aga mba. Onye aghala nwanne na.
This mindset came up after the Nigerian civil war.
🤣🤣🤣correct.
I have never commented nor share marriage talks but this got me. I pray he listens, understand and make the right decision.
Thank you Sir and God bless you 🙏
Men "it's ok to go for counseling" that got me laughing hard, it'll be a difficult step to take for any Man 🤣🤣
See wisdom
Thank you so much pastor Kingsley for this unique message..
Please your website. Thank you
MEN DONT CRY just means it should NOT be viewed as normal if you see a man cry. It means when you see a man cry, you should know something dead serious is up. So yes, MEN DONT CRY.
I have not cried in 15 years, and yeah terrible things have happened in that period. It is not just my first instinct to cry, but rather to figure what to do at that moment. And I strongly believe women do not benefit from men who would emotionally react to things as easily as they themselves tend to do.
Matthew 3:10
And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.
Galatians 5:22-23
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
I would focus the teaching on these passages and trust that God will bring the man and his wife to the lessons they need for their home.
sir great one there...but I disagree with ur point no.3 @10:23 ...Men easily and always want to learn and hear from a fellow man....there is no shame or loss of ego in that...especially in the 21st century..what i think is Men dont want want to learn/corrected from their wives or women...there is 'shame' in that.
there are women as men in this regard...not humble enough to learn from their husbands
Am really surprised to some of his point too and in all he said he sounds to make a man to play a feminine role in a relationship.He said a woman needs respect but I think in a relationship a woman needs love more than respect because if a man love his wife there’s no way to disrespect her and actually man are the one who need respect in a relationship because we all know about females nature they do have a problem with submission
@@torokopita2763 I disagree with you because how can you love somebody without giving them respect. You even said yourself that if a man loves his wife then he wouldn’t disrespect her therefore the opposite of disrespect is respect. Which means that a man must respect his wife the same way a woman should respect her husband. And you make it seem like men don’t want to be loved either. Which is weird.So do women not want respect in a relationship or do they want disrespect? This is part of the problem is that we see in many marriages, especially in Africa. Because this is where you see a lot of men think because they are providing material possessions that they are showing love but then they do other things like be disrespectful, commit adultery and they think it’s okay.
9:11- 9:45
Head shape is not ruler shape
I wish my igbo boyfriend can listen to this
He wount bcs u urself dont no anything
@@joliebike5900 tsuipppp
You yourself ...do u listen???
@@franklinizuchukwu8372 me i listen all the time ooo.
Once you see red flags take them seriously. Because what you see now is your dating if you get married it will become worse.