Nah I’ve been natural for 14 years. I wear my hair OUT! I know damn well when my natural hair literally looks like it’s going every direction on my head. If she was in a rush, she could’ve easily pushed it into a low bun- no brush or comb required. I hate the dishonesty. Even during the black panther movement their FROS still looked beautifully coifed & put together. Let’s stop pretending natural hair doesn’t have the capacity to look a hot damn mess-just like any other hair type. We live in a “anything goes” type of culture therefore ppl think it’s ok to walk outside with pajamas, slippers, bonnets, and hair that hasn’t seen a drop of water in 90days and claim: “oh I’m just natural.” It’s disrespectful atp. Stop trying to equate busted & unkempt with natural hair all because you all don’t want to put any effort into your appearance.
EVERYTHING YOU SAID!!!!! She must have been trying to prove some kind of point because sometimes they get hate emails about their natural hair and I know that. But still, no excuse. None. She looks like she escaped from the hospital. All that's missing is a straight jacket. I don't wear hair extensions, not even braid extensions. I'm a natural girl. I wouldn't dare leave the house looking like this unless I was sick. Looking like her boyfriend just broke up with her this morning. And then she's a news reporter, and she goes on TV like that. I'm very upset with her.
There is nothing wrong with natural hair. Natural hair is beautiful but we have to also acknowledge and admit that natural hair CAN look unkempt and ungroomed. With this specific woman her hair did look wild and like she just rolled out of bed and went straight to work and I don't think anyone is wrong for pointing that out. Yes she is allowed to wear her hair anyway she chooses. It's her hair at the end of the day. However, people are also allowed to have their opinions about it. We will never live in a world where judgement and criticism, good or bad, does not exist. It's a part of human nature and human survival.
@@NamasteInYourLane completely agree. Any hair type would be called ungroomed looking like that, but I'm glad her employers didn't mind it. I don't know about now after all the hullabaloo they caused under the video though.
@@actuallyjuliee it's against the law for them to do or say anything to her about her hair. Lol But I wouldn't be surprised if they're whispering about her behind her back.
@@NamasteInYourLane can you point me to the law that states that? I find it hard to believe that that's against the law. I could see if you meant that firing someone for having natural hair is against the law, but is it against the law to fire someone for wearing their hair unprofessionally? Regardless, they hired her with her hair looking like that so I guess they found no issue with it lol. And good for them tbh.
@@LethalLemonLime loud and wrong. They cannot fire you for NATURAL HAIRSTYLES, they CAN fire you for coming to work ungroomed. And she can take this all the way to court if she wants to and she would lose. Hell, if she was a minor at school her mom can get in trouble for sending her to school with her hair looking like that, CPS would be called. And this is regardless of race, this isn't because she's Black. Her hair is not styled, it doesn't even look combed through. That they CAN fire you for. The only way she would be able to fight it is if she could prove that she follows some sort of religion that prevents her from combining her hair on certain days. Don't ask nobody to point to any law FOR YOU, you can look it up YOURSELF honey. It's ALL there. It's not illegal to wear your hair unprofessionally to work, but your job is well within their legal rights to fire you if you choose to come to work looking like a lunatic, you have to actually STYLE your hair for it to be a natural hairSTYLE.
I thought she just undid her twists and didn’t have time but if that’s the style she put it in that’s her prerogative, I would not do it but to each their own
I think all textures of hair can look unkept. Does not mean hate it just means the hair does not look cared for. A braid out, a wash and go a shaped fro a puff..anything would provide her more ethos while still embracing her natural texture. The hairstyle she chose to wear takes away her ethos
People cannot be this obtuse to not understand what was wrong with her hair 😅 it wasn’t combed at all. She literally looks like Angelica’s doll Cynthia from Rugrats. That is unkempt and idk when black women stopped giving af about anything, but we need to bring back femininity. Now all of a sudden black women don’t know how to look presentable anymore?? There should be no reason why black women are going months without washing their hair, just building up bacteria and blocking the hair follicles. This natural hair stuff is getting out of hand now. Having your hair in its curly state does NOT give anyone a pass to not do sh*t to their hair. Like what is going on. SMH our ancestors didn’t fight for our freedom just for us to turn around and have terrible hygiene and bed-head. And I will absolutely criticize a black woman with unkempt hair just like people of other races do to their community. It is not normal to just get up out of bed and go straight to work without any effort on your appearance. Why should black women be the only ones exempt from criticism, correction & order? What about HER staying on code and making sure she is representing black women in the best light possible, to show that while our hair may be curly/coily, we can achieve many different FLATTERING aesthetics. I could look at her hair and tell she did nothing. Because guarantee when you wet that hair and let it dry it won’t come out like that. She slept on her hair and then woke up and didn’t touch it.
I've kept out of this, but this is such BS😂.That reporter would absolutely be getting clowned if her hair was looser or even straight. It's not about her hair not being slicked down or loosely textured, it's about her hair being a goddamn mess. I knew this would be the nonsense we get to when some TikTok weirdos were acting like black women stretching and/or styling our hair was anti black and self hating.
Right whoever defended this and tried to spin it as texturism was gaslighting us all 😂. The camera man is dead wrong for not telling her either. There are appropriate and inappropriate hairstyles for ANY texture.
It seems like a bad style choice. Natural doesn't mean 'not done'. Especially in such a public professional setting. This sets the progress back a bit. This is not a statement of texture but of styling choices
I am going to be honest. If I saw a white reporter with her hair like this, I would be shocked. If a white lady had her hair poking out in sections like that. I would be flabbergasted.
A yt woman’s hair would never be poking out in sections like this because their hair does not naturally grow outwards, it grows down. Also they don’t divide their hair into sections like twists etc so that’s another reason. Sentiments like this are part of the problem - you are still comparing this blk woman’s hair to the hair of a yt woman and upholding theirs as the standard of what is neat, acceptable and presentable. How is this not our equivalent of a messy bun? Oh yeah, it actually takes more effort to take twists out that to put hair into a bun. Either way, we’re doing more to be accepted less
@@sitoe9858when I had white roommates in college they woke with stray hairs poking out. They absolutely needed to wash put product in and comb their hair before class. White women do not 'wake up' like that. When they haven't combed or brushed their hair you can definitely tell.
Hot take: type 4 hair is acceptable even when it’s unmanicured. Just because there are not many blk women wearing their natural hair doesn’t mean that those of us who do must be burdened with “properly representing” natural hair. We are not platforms, or actresses or articles, we are people, not political statements. She is not responsible for people’s reactions to her hair or beliefs about type 4 hair or whether or not people are getting distracted by it.
I agree. I think natural hair is acceptable is all it's forms. Her hair is clearly styled. I shared other styles in this video including with straight hair that isn't exactly ideal for workplace. I don't think exempting type 4 hair from this is the way to go. I get that it's the most discriminated against hair type but accepting one's self doesn't mean there's no room for improvement!
Then be prepared for pushback. stop using being natural as an excuse to being lazy and just rolling out of the bed looking a damn mess. I’m tired of this “anything goes” mindset. Wearing natural hair is NOTHING new…but not giving a damn about our appearance to the point where we come out in pajamas, bonnets & crazy hair is.
@@babyg7796 literally no one said that. also her hair is clearly styled lol. you think natural hair looks like this naturally lol? she clearly manipulated it to look like this. I honestly think she has hair style blindness. Just like some people have eyebrow blindness and draw on their eyebrows too dark and thick but can't tell that it looks nothing like the video they were following. Anyway, you being mad at this one human in a sea of billions for how they wear their hair is giving you need meds and maybe a facility.
Her hair texture is not the problem at all! I don't think anything is wrong with her regimen or products. Hairstyle is something that can be easily fixed/changed. I just think that particular hairstyle for work is not exactly ideal.
Her hair just needed a little fluffing or moving around and with her hair being dyed, its going to be drier and more prone to being stiff. From the thumbnail i thought maybe its windy. When your hair won't cooperate get a hairband. I'm all for natural hair not needing to be slicked down but this is something else
What is considered neat is subjective. People with straight hair do the messy look all the time and nobody bats an eye. What you guys are considering polish and professional is still being measured by the standards of different hair textures. What's considered professional is subjective. We should be able to wear our hair however we want. We used to before we were colonized.
You mean if I walked into a neat Vs tidy room I wouldn't know the difference? I mean the pictures I shared of straight hair looking rough, everyone can agree it looks a mess. I'm not saying you're wrong in your assertion, honestly on this topic I'm willing to agree to disagree. I don't think she should be picked on for how her hair looks, but I'm saying in my opinion this isn't about the texture of her hair as that would make it texturism. It's just about the particular style she has chosen to wear to work. I mean it's causing all these hullabaloo and taking away from her talents. The other picture of huge afros and 'unique' hairstyles I shared in this video would still cause raised eyebrows when worn in a formal environment, but to each their own.
@actuallyjuliee I understand. I'm just saying we really need to challenge what is considered professional to make it into something that suits our hair also. I wouldn't compare a room to hair in terms of deciding whether it's tidy or not because like I said it's subjective. I doubt that her hair was dirty. We need to.... * Reimagine the narrative surrounding workplace hairstyles. * Advocate for inclusivity and self-expression in professional settings. * Break down outdated norms that restrict individuality in professional hair choices. * Promote the idea that professionalism and personal style can coexist. I want for us to able to do totally different things than usual without filling ugly about it. Because our hair is a work of art and we can mold it into so many different types of styles and we should be free to do so without being called unprofessional or unkempt. The whole standard needs to change.
@@purpleglitter9596 personally, I think we should be allowed to wear hats and other non-religious head coverings that aren't wigs in the workplace. It's really silly that it's considered inappropriate.
Stop equating unkempt hair to blackness. I'm African and we Damm well know the difference. There are standards for what is neat and what is not. Sorry to bust your bubble. Picks were invented by us for a reason. There really is no difference between your thinking and Yt supremacy. Wear your hair however you want and people are going to treat you however they want. Don't complain.
I have a news background and a white or other race reporter would definitely get clowned with hair that is going random directions. I have heard it. When we go out in storms, we usually wear caps to keep our hair from blowing all around. I don’t own, don’t use edge control and no one has ever criticized me for me it.
'The loudest and harshest criticisms of natural hair comes from other black women.' Say it louder! For many bw the shaming and belittling of another woman makes them feel better about themselves. 'Sisterhood' and 'queen'ly behaviour is in word only for the average bw. I said what I said. We cant even stay on code or see the bigger picture.
You can have a sisterhood and still be critical of one another. I agree some of us take it too far. However, a part of a sisterhood is letting each other know when we're not showing us as our best self and not allow each other to walk out the door in any kind of way. Maybe a black hairdresser can get in contact with this woman and help her style her hair.
Nah this ain’t sisterhood. You never see non blk women criticise each other when their hair is greasy bc they skipped a wash or their hair is u combed and messily arranged into a bun. At most they see it and quietly relate. Why do only blk women have to look perfect everywhere we go? I’m sorry, part of removing the stigma around natural hair for me will always include natural hair when it’s styled and when it’s unstyled or untouched or “I woke up like this”. 4c freedom does not stop when some of us decide for whatever reason to appear less manicured
@@sitoe9858for me, I agree. I work with many different people and women with straight hair come in with all types of messy hair.. but if a Blk women comes in they wanna accuse her of being homeless or something. In my opinion, she def needed to braid her hair, or put it up. Even a nice claw clip. Like it ain’t that deep. 🫣
Speaking from a person thats waking up and just walking out. I have seen so many people just wake up and go with bed hair and nobody bats an eye. And they can still carry on, that I should also have that privilege to just wake up and go and carry on. My hair has a black woman shouldn't have to be done 24/7 a day for me to exist and just chill especially when anybody who isn't black around me can do the same thing including men. I'm happy you brought up the fact that we as black women will always be judged including our hair even from each other. But I don't care, move on, if you don't like it look the other way. Not everybody has the time knows the tools, or even cares if what everybody else thinks. On having their hair done perfectly to others standards around them including your own cultural, racial standards. I Got One Life to Live and that is for me and myself if it rubs everybody else the wrong way that's their problem not my problem, if they think I'm on crack, unkept, mad.. so be it. As much as we try to put this weight that you represent us on every individual black person I am not holding that and I don't think anybody should have to hold that.
Would I personally wear my natural hair this way on tv as a reporter? No, I’d moisturize it, twist it, refresh my wash n go etc. but I still think she looks beautiful and IF she wants to wear it like that then so be it.❤❤ blessings and love to everyone
@@Nnedi- It seems like she didn't put any effort into styling her hair. Or atleast put effort in detangling & making a better appearance. Nothing wrong with her hair. Just present it better.
It's refreshing and comforting to know that black women like you exist (natural,elegant and who make sense on this subject). It's a shame that you are not the norm 🤷♂️
I have a couple of texturist acquaintances. One randomly said oh your daughters hair looks like locs! This woman never wears her natural hair in its curly state. My childs hair is way longer than her daughters is. Another keeps trying to encourage me with a Brazilian Blow Out. Her besties either have no edges (from constant wigs and little care) or have the ugly thick gray lace across their head. Help them out not me
I think this has more to do with styling than natural hair. If a white woman got out of bed and got dressed without doing her hair, people would say the same exact thing.
11:32 the thing about this is I've seen and hung out with women who's lace wigs were floating 10 centimeters above their scalps. Lace very much so visible. never once have I said anything and clearly never once has anyone else because they continued to do that. Same with women wearing hard wigs that clearly look like hair hats (yknow, the ones that clearly gets you a high value man lol). so if the hair is fcked up but looks less close to blackness (aka type 4 hair) yall will let it slide, but if it's natural hair you won't. interesting...
Someone mentioned how white women still need to wash and comb their hair took presentable so there’s no excuse for this woman to look like this. This woman most likely had to wash her hair to twist it out like this and some of you are still in the comments saying it looks dirty…you need to sit with why you consider kinky hair dirty when it’s not done to fit the European standard if beauty or professionalism. The challenge with the take about white women still needing to do xyz to look presentable is that we are STILL using them as the standard AND the process of washing and combing takes them a fraction of the time it takes us. And having done these two easy steps makes them quickly seen as “professional”. A Black woman with kinky hair has to take more time to MANIPULATE our hair to achieve the same acknowledgment of “professionalism” they do in just those two easy steps. Their hair is already the standard so the effort to manipulate it to be “professional” is very minimal. The kinkiest of us find it takes hours to achieve what they do in minutes. THAT is the problem. Our hair must be manipulated with excessive products and styling to be seen as kept. Let’s not fool ourselves about what effort looks like on both sides and how our hair perceived as professional or beautiful if not styled to the high heavens.
Every time you put a comb in your hair, you 'manipulate' it. You can choose to leave it unmanipulated outside of work, but at work it's not too much to ask that you show up with your hair looking professional. Your hair doesn't have to be slicked down or straightened to be professional. That's the difference. A combed afro works well. The people saying her hair is dirty have no way of knowing that so that just stems from texturism which I don't agree with, but yes, I still believe black women should not be exempt from styling their hair appropriately for work.
Maybe the reason why I cannot fathom that her hairstyle looks like she woke up from her sleep and went to work like that is because my natural hair does not look like that when I wake up. I have type 4 hair and my hair has never looked like this EVER so obviously she's styling it to look like this.
I put my hair in large plaits or twists before I sleep, every night. Sometimes when I wake up some of them are pulled open if I forget to put a bonnet on. But all of hers are like that. So you may have a point, it may be intentional and styled. However when I was very sick once and bedridden, I slept like that for days. My hair did look like that just black and shorter. Every twist was pulled out after being sick and in bed for a few days. Do I think people are overeacting to her hair: Yes. Do I think her hair looks messy: Yes. Would I say something to her in real life: No. It is not my business and I feel we are too critical of other women.
@@MikaAcorn thank you! I made it private, but I think I'll add rearrange things on there and make it public probably. I'll put the link in the description if I end up doing so!
Would I ever leave my house like this? No, I'm a bit of a fashonista- so I tend to put quite a bit of effort, which I genuinely enjoy, into how I look. However, it's rubbing me the wrong way that so many people are up in arms over the way this woman chooses to wear her hair. I work in corporate America, and I see WW-on a daily basis-coming into work with wet, stringy hair, either worn down or in a messy bun, yet no one bats an eye. No one takes them less seriously, no one tells them that they don't look "professional," no one takes offense, literally no one cares. Now, I understand that-going live as a newscaster-there's a different level of grooming that the public expects to see; in particular, female newscasters have always been known for their perfectly done hair and make-up. But, in her day to day life, how is her hair not being combed any different than a ww walking around looking like she just rolled out of bed with a greasy, unkempt, ponytail?
I loved this video. You get it. My only thing is I think a huge Afro is good for work if it’s shaped like the woman in 7:19.she looks professional to me. Other that… we pretty much agree❤
I think we also think that textured hair being messy to the same extent that straight hair is often equalss more discrimination because we are always expected to have edges laid or our hair covered or pulled back.
Hi Jay here, Could It be a mental health issue. Its been very prevalent during these challenging times. People are experiencing nervous breakdowns now more than ever b4. Even on the job people are loosing it for a number of reasons. We are not all built the same. Some can handle stress better than others. Just a thought n if thats the issue i feel for her. Thanks for sharing. Enjoyed reading everyone's comments🙂
If the girls with straight hair can go to a fancy event with a "messy bun" I say, do whatever you want. Black haircare is an expensive and laborous part time job that I personally hate doing. My fresh twist out would be looking just like that after 5 minutes in the Houston humidity. I don't have her confidence, but she has a job and seems to be thriving so people just need to get over it.
@@jasminscarbrough2596 My hair is 3C in the front, 4C in the back, and high porosity. No matter what products I was recommended, it was always a frizzy mess as soon is it came in contact with the outdoors when I lived down there. Some of us don't have fun styling at all either. If I had her confidence. I'd be out looking like Angelica's doll too. Eff it. lol
@@Nopington well then do a different style. But if your dream is to look like that woman then I’m not going to stop you from doing so either. I choose to take pride in my natural hair
@@jasminscarbrough2596 I moved from that inferno and hurricane trap and I keep my hair braided. Though I'm contemplating just shaving my head. Some straight and curly girls can just wake up, fluff, and go. Some can't and would rather spend their time on more important things than beauty. It sucks that society won't just let us all live as we were created. That's my dream. This girl getting more heat than the ones with hard wigs. It's ridiculous. 🤣
@@Nopington idk.. I do a braid out ( my pfp) that takes about an hour and it last for days so I can wake up and go. Another go to was the puff. Hair is done in less than 10 minutes. You have to find what works for you.. this right here just wasn’t it.
Excellent video. Period. Couldn't agree more about the 'before and after' pics with no makeup and ... did you also notice? .... one discontented and even vex look on their faces; replaced with delight the minute they have their 'dream' unit on! (that they've patiently and lovingly prepared)
There are plenty of crazy people dressed to kill with glorious hair styles, some are in my family, so y'all better stop thinking y'all know who is crazy by looks.
For me the grooming of her hair is not as important as the fact that the story went viral. People of other races who have “messy” or “unprofessional” hairstyles don’t go viral. The test of afro texture hair acceptance is when people are able to wear their afro hair regardless of how well it’s styled at whatever level without it becoming a national news story. I think that’s the real win when it becomes unimportant regardless of appearance positive or negative.
People are so linear with what is acceptable. Like some people like diffrent styling and just cause it's something you've never seen before does not make it ugly. To these people diffrent is ugly but then they'll be the same people screaming from the rooftops how terrible beauty standards are and how shallow everyone is these days when the same systems they uphold come to bite them where the sun don't shine. My sis' hair was done and just because she's not trying to make it lay aka be as white passing as possible self hating ninjas are bullying her this is why we never get anywhere it's always 1 step forward and 3 steps back.
That hair is not "done". She did something to it, that's for sure. It's just not "done". No other race could get away looking like they've been electroshocked and that's why she didn't get away with it either.
Please 🙏 juliee Make a video about telling black women to stop consuming media, films that promote eurocentric straight hair curly biracial hair and other beauty standards that is not for us I think that one of the problem of some black women hating themselves I love your videos though ❤❤❤
I agree and to take it a step further, black women should stop giving mixed women our identity. We need to have a stricter standard on what blackness is or is not. We are helping society replace us with mixed people by calling mixed people black. No other countries or group of people classify mixed people as their race. Other people put mixed people in their own category because they are mixed and to keep mixed people in their country from replacing them.
I will continue to watch the movies I like no matter what race is in them lol. Before I came across content like this on social media there are things I didn't even pay attention to. You need to take a break from social media lol. Make your movies and get your kids to watch them, but don't stop watching movies with other races or go to war against it lol. Of course white people are going to promote their srandard in their movies. Do the same in yours and stop giving yourself a headache
11:10 & the journalist actions are the reasons I worry that my daughter might get bullied or attacked by strangers. She goes out in public with her hair as untidy as possible. She has 3b hair just like me but ive always styled my hair some form or other. She barely covers half of it FROM ALL SIDES w/ a hat. She takes showers just to look like she doesn't. I tried telling her that this world can be cruel & appearance CAN be everything, but she just thinks i'm making it up & I'M the bully. 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Most little girls learn grooming and self care from their mom. I used to watch my mom dressing up and doing her makeup in front of the vanity mirror and I'd practice doing the same after she was done with imaginary makeup. 😅You have to set the example if you don't already. Dress up and take care with your appearance how you'd want her to do if you don't already and she would follow suit if it's something she wants. But her a perfume, deodorant and lip gloss for starters. Most mothers are responsible for inspiring the feminine energy in their daughters. So if she watches you basking in and enjoying being groomed, she will want that too.
@@actuallyjuliee I think u MISSED my point of this story bcz i did mention that I have ALWAYS styled my hair well, & she doesn't have a hygiene problem for me to have to give her deodorant. She does TAKE showers but she just doesn't LOOK like she did. I mentioned that i wish she tried to look better bcz I raised her that way, she's just NOT like ME in that sense. I already did what I needed to do to set the example. My point to the comment is that sometimes parents do what they can & try to raise their children a certain way, but kids today don't listen and unfortunately have to LEARN on their own & it stresses a parent out bcz the kids end up POSSIBLY getting fired from jobs OR getting into fights w/ strangers OR getting cyberbullied bcz they DIDN'T listen to advice. She's already a young adult but kids EVERYWHERE today don't grown up w/ customary ways. I wish they did follow suit but really they just do whatever they want to do. That's just the harsh reality in life. NOW i just show her these videos so that she can at least see that what I was trying to warn her abt really does happen w/ ppl out in the world & that image DOES affect the way we get treated in life.
I agree with most of this video, but I am conflicted when it comes to big afros in the workplace. At the end of the day, a big afro is just long natural hair that was left down. If it was generally expected for long hair to be pulled back or styled that's one thing, but that isn't the case. It can come off as a more casual look, depending on the rest of the outfit, styling, and accessories, but if people of other races are not expected to pull back their long locks, we should also be exempt from that same expectation. Long hair in general is very eye catching regardless of race but that's because most people find or assume long hair to be hard to manage. I personally think everyone should be able to wear their hair however they want for any job that isn't in front of a camera, upper-level leadership, or requiring rigorous movement, maybe front desk as well. I personally would love to see some of the less formal styles shown in this video to be worn in office settings. For me, how you choose to style and accessorize the rest of your look matters more than the hairstyle. Also, the amount of yt people who definitely looked like they rolled out of bed at my last corporate job, from entry level to upper management, was appalling in comparison to any person of color in the same or similar position. That never sat right with me. Yt people, especially women, do have standards for work appearance, but I find they are rarely held to it as harshly once they actually get the job. They only have to play that role long enough to be accepted, while women of color are not allowed to stop the performance of it all. All that being said I did assume that reporter was having a bad hair day but over time I have trained myself to care more about people's words and actions than their appearance both in and outside of work. I can acknowledge that most people don't do that, and it is something to keep in mind, at least for work appearances. That's another reason why I'm looking for a wfh job, so I can dress exactly as I want to most days without worrying about any of that superficial stuff.
It all comes down to texturism. Only desirable textures can have lazy days and “baby hairs” or “messy buns”. People with 4c hair cannot have an off day because of the association with natural hair being, for lack of better words, lazy. I absolutely agree that there is a time and a place for everything and there are appropriate and inappropriate hairstyles for ANY hair texture. Ours is just a tiny bit more harsh, and there’s a very turbulent history behind it as well.
When the twist out doesn't twist out like it's supposed to. We've all been there. Truth be told, this reporter doesn't look TV ready. Her hair isn't finished and she isn't wearing a stitch of makeup. They must've called her at the last possible second to come in to work.
@@ladybird491 I've cut my hair off now, but when it was longer, it was definitely better for me to keep it twisted or stretched. Wearing my hair completely unmanipulated was just asking for knots, tangles and breakage.
The reporter had it coming, she could have packed her natural hair neatly , she didn’t look professional at all, she looked like she just got out of bed.
@@In_TheHouse I don't think that she woke up and decided to seek attention by wearing her hair like that. I still think this was blown out of proportion.
It is a texture thing. I have 3c hair and I literally only do unstyled wash&go's, like just applying leave-in and going, and I get compliments on my hair every time I leave the house especially from non-black people. I get fewer compliments from black people but I'm pretty sure that's cuz they can tell I'm being lazy with my hair 💀 Also wanna say that it looks like the reporter is starting freeforms, which is an ancestral style, so I don't think there should be an issue with it but it's 2024 in the US 🤷🏽
Yeah. They did way too much. Bed hair or something equivalent shouldn't cause all that ruckus. I know I've seen enough terrible wigs to want a therapist but they have so much to say now.
The reporter did not put effort into her hair. There is nothing wrong with her hair but it looks like she put no effort in styling it. I want more Black women on camera but her lack of effort is not helping.
I kinda agree with your comment. All this neat snatched hairstyle is snatching out edges and thinning hair. We need to learn to wash, moisturize, comb and go and just don't have the hair looking raggedy.
So because white people do something you have to do the opposite? You stop drinking water because white people drink water? Sorry to break it to you but this was also an important criterion for our ancestors. You are the ones who are so obsessed with what they do or don't do.
Nah I’ve been natural for 14 years. I wear my hair OUT! I know damn well when my natural hair literally looks like it’s going every direction on my head. If she was in a rush, she could’ve easily pushed it into a low bun- no brush or comb required. I hate the dishonesty. Even during the black panther movement their FROS still looked beautifully coifed & put together. Let’s stop pretending natural hair doesn’t have the capacity to look a hot damn mess-just like any other hair type. We live in a “anything goes” type of culture therefore ppl think it’s ok to walk outside with pajamas, slippers, bonnets, and hair that hasn’t seen a drop of water in 90days and claim: “oh I’m just natural.” It’s disrespectful atp. Stop trying to equate busted & unkempt with natural hair all because you all don’t want to put any effort into your appearance.
😅 Right
I absolutely agree. Looking put together is not anti black. It's getting weird at this point.
Exactly. If she had wig on I'm sure she'd take her time installing it.
EVERYTHING YOU SAID!!!!! She must have been trying to prove some kind of point because sometimes they get hate emails about their natural hair and I know that. But still, no excuse. None. She looks like she escaped from the hospital. All that's missing is a straight jacket. I don't wear hair extensions, not even braid extensions. I'm a natural girl. I wouldn't dare leave the house looking like this unless I was sick. Looking like her boyfriend just broke up with her this morning. And then she's a news reporter, and she goes on TV like that. I'm very upset with her.
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There is nothing wrong with natural hair. Natural hair is beautiful but we have to also acknowledge and admit that natural hair CAN look unkempt and ungroomed.
With this specific woman her hair did look wild and like she just rolled out of bed and went straight to work and I don't think anyone is wrong for pointing that out.
Yes she is allowed to wear her hair anyway she chooses. It's her hair at the end of the day. However, people are also allowed to have their opinions about it.
We will never live in a world where judgement and criticism, good or bad, does not exist. It's a part of human nature and human survival.
@@NamasteInYourLane completely agree. Any hair type would be called ungroomed looking like that, but I'm glad her employers didn't mind it. I don't know about now after all the hullabaloo they caused under the video though.
@@actuallyjuliee it's against the law for them to do or say anything to her about her hair. Lol
But I wouldn't be surprised if they're whispering about her behind her back.
@@NamasteInYourLane can you point me to the law that states that? I find it hard to believe that that's against the law. I could see if you meant that firing someone for having natural hair is against the law, but is it against the law to fire someone for wearing their hair unprofessionally? Regardless, they hired her with her hair looking like that so I guess they found no issue with it lol. And good for them tbh.
@@LethalLemonLime loud and wrong. They cannot fire you for NATURAL HAIRSTYLES, they CAN fire you for coming to work ungroomed. And she can take this all the way to court if she wants to and she would lose. Hell, if she was a minor at school her mom can get in trouble for sending her to school with her hair looking like that, CPS would be called. And this is regardless of race, this isn't because she's Black. Her hair is not styled, it doesn't even look combed through. That they CAN fire you for. The only way she would be able to fight it is if she could prove that she follows some sort of religion that prevents her from combining her hair on certain days. Don't ask nobody to point to any law FOR YOU, you can look it up YOURSELF honey. It's ALL there. It's not illegal to wear your hair unprofessionally to work, but your job is well within their legal rights to fire you if you choose to come to work looking like a lunatic, you have to actually STYLE your hair for it to be a natural hairSTYLE.
The reporter could've just been a slicked back bun or even a basic afro. There was no reason for her hair to look like that.
I thought she just undid her twists and didn’t have time but if that’s the style she put it in that’s her prerogative, I would not do it but to each their own
I think all textures of hair can look unkept. Does not mean hate it just means the hair does not look cared for. A braid out, a wash and go a shaped fro a puff..anything would provide her more ethos while still embracing her natural texture. The hairstyle she chose to wear takes away her ethos
People cannot be this obtuse to not understand what was wrong with her hair 😅 it wasn’t combed at all. She literally looks like Angelica’s doll Cynthia from Rugrats. That is unkempt and idk when black women stopped giving af about anything, but we need to bring back femininity. Now all of a sudden black women don’t know how to look presentable anymore?? There should be no reason why black women are going months without washing their hair, just building up bacteria and blocking the hair follicles. This natural hair stuff is getting out of hand now. Having your hair in its curly state does NOT give anyone a pass to not do sh*t to their hair. Like what is going on. SMH our ancestors didn’t fight for our freedom just for us to turn around and have terrible hygiene and bed-head. And I will absolutely criticize a black woman with unkempt hair just like people of other races do to their community. It is not normal to just get up out of bed and go straight to work without any effort on your appearance. Why should black women be the only ones exempt from criticism, correction & order? What about HER staying on code and making sure she is representing black women in the best light possible, to show that while our hair may be curly/coily, we can achieve many different FLATTERING aesthetics. I could look at her hair and tell she did nothing. Because guarantee when you wet that hair and let it dry it won’t come out like that. She slept on her hair and then woke up and didn’t touch it.
And before going live on tv 😒
I agree with EVERYTHING YOU SAID. Why are black people fighting so hard to look bad.
They said combing or styling your hair is a European standard for beauty. I'm tired.
@@actuallyjulieeomg. There are thousand year old picks(combs) found in Africa ffs
@@actuallyjuliee I knew it would come to this when they started calling the clean girl aesthetic anti black😭😭
I've kept out of this, but this is such BS😂.That reporter would absolutely be getting clowned if her hair was looser or even straight. It's not about her hair not being slicked down or loosely textured, it's about her hair being a goddamn mess. I knew this would be the nonsense we get to when some TikTok weirdos were acting like black women stretching and/or styling our hair was anti black and self hating.
Right whoever defended this and tried to spin it as texturism was gaslighting us all 😂. The camera man is dead wrong for not telling her either. There are appropriate and inappropriate hairstyles for ANY texture.
It seems like a bad style choice. Natural doesn't mean 'not done'. Especially in such a public professional setting. This sets the progress back a bit. This is not a statement of texture but of styling choices
The more I watch it, the more I'm shocked 🤦🏽♀️
On live tv??
I am going to be honest. If I saw a white reporter with her hair like this, I would be shocked. If a white lady had her hair poking out in sections like that. I would be flabbergasted.
We aren't thinking about whyte people hair right now.
i agree.
A yt woman’s hair would never be poking out in sections like this because their hair does not naturally grow outwards, it grows down. Also they don’t divide their hair into sections like twists etc so that’s another reason. Sentiments like this are part of the problem - you are still comparing this blk woman’s hair to the hair of a yt woman and upholding theirs as the standard of what is neat, acceptable and presentable. How is this not our equivalent of a messy bun? Oh yeah, it actually takes more effort to take twists out that to put hair into a bun. Either way, we’re doing more to be accepted less
@@sitoe9858when I had white roommates in college they woke with stray hairs poking out. They absolutely needed to wash put product in and comb their hair before class. White women do not 'wake up' like that. When they haven't combed or brushed their hair you can definitely tell.
@@marolatv618White people don't get up with a brushing 😂
They look like a mess if they don't brush their hair, unless it's bone straight
Hot take: type 4 hair is acceptable even when it’s unmanicured. Just because there are not many blk women wearing their natural hair doesn’t mean that those of us who do must be burdened with “properly representing” natural hair. We are not platforms, or actresses or articles, we are people, not political statements. She is not responsible for people’s reactions to her hair or beliefs about type 4 hair or whether or not people are getting distracted by it.
ooof this one’s good. 🙌🏾
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I agree. I think natural hair is acceptable is all it's forms. Her hair is clearly styled. I shared other styles in this video including with straight hair that isn't exactly ideal for workplace. I don't think exempting type 4 hair from this is the way to go. I get that it's the most discriminated against hair type but accepting one's self doesn't mean there's no room for improvement!
Then be prepared for pushback. stop using being natural as an excuse to being lazy and just rolling out of the bed looking a damn mess. I’m tired of this “anything goes” mindset. Wearing natural hair is NOTHING new…but not giving a damn about our appearance to the point where we come out in pajamas, bonnets & crazy hair is.
@@babyg7796 literally no one said that. also her hair is clearly styled lol. you think natural hair looks like this naturally lol? she clearly manipulated it to look like this. I honestly think she has hair style blindness. Just like some people have eyebrow blindness and draw on their eyebrows too dark and thick but can't tell that it looks nothing like the video they were following. Anyway, you being mad at this one human in a sea of billions for how they wear their hair is giving you need meds and maybe a facility.
I don't think her hair texture is the problem. It may be the styling products she uses or her hair regimen.
Her hair texture is not the problem at all! I don't think anything is wrong with her regimen or products. Hairstyle is something that can be easily fixed/changed. I just think that particular hairstyle for work is not exactly ideal.
Yep. If she put her hair in a puff, it would be fine. But the half twisted/half untwisted look is terrible.
Her hair just needed a little fluffing or moving around and with her hair being dyed, its going to be drier and more prone to being stiff. From the thumbnail i thought maybe its windy. When your hair won't cooperate get a hairband. I'm all for natural hair not needing to be slicked down but this is something else
What is considered neat is subjective. People with straight hair do the messy look all the time and nobody bats an eye. What you guys are considering polish and professional is still being measured by the standards of different hair textures. What's considered professional is subjective. We should be able to wear our hair however we want. We used to before we were colonized.
You mean if I walked into a neat Vs tidy room I wouldn't know the difference?
I mean the pictures I shared of straight hair looking rough, everyone can agree it looks a mess. I'm not saying you're wrong in your assertion, honestly on this topic I'm willing to agree to disagree. I don't think she should be picked on for how her hair looks, but I'm saying in my opinion this isn't about the texture of her hair as that would make it texturism. It's just about the particular style she has chosen to wear to work. I mean it's causing all these hullabaloo and taking away from her talents. The other picture of huge afros and 'unique' hairstyles I shared in this video would still cause raised eyebrows when worn in a formal environment, but to each their own.
@actuallyjuliee I understand. I'm just saying we really need to challenge what is considered professional to make it into something that suits our hair also. I wouldn't compare a room to hair in terms of deciding whether it's tidy or not because like I said it's subjective. I doubt that her hair was dirty. We need to....
* Reimagine the narrative surrounding workplace hairstyles.
* Advocate for inclusivity and self-expression in professional settings.
* Break down outdated norms that restrict individuality in professional hair choices.
* Promote the idea that professionalism and personal style can coexist.
I want for us to able to do totally different things than usual without filling ugly about it. Because our hair is a work of art and we can mold it into so many different types of styles and we should be free to do so without being called unprofessional or unkempt. The whole standard needs to change.
@@purpleglitter9596 personally, I think we should be allowed to wear hats and other non-religious head coverings that aren't wigs in the workplace. It's really silly that it's considered inappropriate.
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Stop equating unkempt hair to blackness. I'm African and we Damm well know the difference. There are standards for what is neat and what is not. Sorry to bust your bubble. Picks were invented by us for a reason.
There really is no difference between your thinking and Yt supremacy.
Wear your hair however you want and people are going to treat you however they want. Don't complain.
I have a news background and a white or other race reporter would definitely get clowned with hair that is going random directions. I have heard it. When we go out in storms, we usually wear caps to keep our hair from blowing all around. I don’t own, don’t use edge control and no one has ever criticized me for me it.
'The loudest and harshest criticisms of natural hair comes from other black women.' Say it louder!
For many bw the shaming and belittling of another woman makes them feel better about themselves.
'Sisterhood' and 'queen'ly behaviour is in word only for the average bw. I said what I said. We cant even stay on code or see the bigger picture.
You can have a sisterhood and still be critical of one another. I agree some of us take it too far. However, a part of a sisterhood is letting each other know when we're not showing us as our best self and not allow each other to walk out the door in any kind of way.
Maybe a black hairdresser can get in contact with this woman and help her style her hair.
Nah this ain’t sisterhood. You never see non blk women criticise each other when their hair is greasy bc they skipped a wash or their hair is u combed and messily arranged into a bun. At most they see it and quietly relate. Why do only blk women have to look perfect everywhere we go? I’m sorry, part of removing the stigma around natural hair for me will always include natural hair when it’s styled and when it’s unstyled or untouched or “I woke up like this”. 4c freedom does not stop when some of us decide for whatever reason to appear less manicured
@@sitoe9858for me, I agree. I work with many different people and women with straight hair come in with all types of messy hair.. but if a Blk women comes in they wanna accuse her of being homeless or something. In my opinion, she def needed to braid her hair, or put it up. Even a nice claw clip. Like it ain’t that deep. 🫣
Because it's a reflection of us. She isn't just representing herself.
Speaking from a person thats waking up and just walking out.
I have seen so many people just wake up and go with bed hair and nobody bats an eye. And they can still carry on, that I should also have that privilege to just wake up and go and carry on. My hair has a black woman shouldn't have to be done 24/7 a day for me to exist and just chill especially when anybody who isn't black around me can do the same thing including men.
I'm happy you brought up the fact that we as black women will always be judged including our hair even from each other.
But I don't care, move on, if you don't like it look the other way. Not everybody has the time knows the tools, or even cares if what everybody else thinks. On having their hair done perfectly to others standards around them including your own cultural, racial standards.
I Got One Life to Live and that is for me and myself if it rubs everybody else the wrong way that's their problem not my problem, if they think I'm on crack, unkept, mad.. so be it.
As much as we try to put this weight that you represent us on every individual black person I am not holding that and I don't think anybody should have to hold that.
Would I personally wear my natural hair this way on tv as a reporter? No, I’d moisturize it, twist it, refresh my wash n go etc. but I still think she looks beautiful and IF she wants to wear it like that then so be it.❤❤ blessings and love to everyone
No bedhead is not acceptable 😂😂😂 it's foolish
I'm glad someone finally said what you said in this video instead of pretending like her hair is styled just because it's natural
her hair is healthy and has length. She looks lazy.
Looking lazy is crazy
She looks lazy because she didn’t manipulate her hair to fit European standards of beauty and professionalism? Interesting…
@@Nnedi- No, I didnt say she needed a perm or wig lol
@@Nnedi- It seems like she didn't put any effort into styling her hair. Or atleast put effort in detangling & making a better appearance.
Nothing wrong with her hair. Just present it better.
@@Nnedi-since when are afros European standards of beauty?
It's refreshing and comforting to know that black women like you exist (natural,elegant and who make sense on this subject).
It's a shame that you are not the norm 🤷♂️
I have a couple of texturist acquaintances. One randomly said oh your daughters hair looks like locs! This woman never wears her natural hair in its curly state. My childs hair is way longer than her daughters is. Another keeps trying to encourage me with a Brazilian Blow Out. Her besties either have no edges (from constant wigs and little care) or have the ugly thick gray lace across their head. Help them out not me
It’s not her hair per se. She is representing a company and her hair looks undone. It just looks bad and unprofessional
I think this has more to do with styling than natural hair.
If a white woman got out of bed and got dressed without doing her hair, people would say the same exact thing.
11:32 the thing about this is I've seen and hung out with women who's lace wigs were floating 10 centimeters above their scalps. Lace very much so visible. never once have I said anything and clearly never once has anyone else because they continued to do that. Same with women wearing hard wigs that clearly look like hair hats (yknow, the ones that clearly gets you a high value man lol). so if the hair is fcked up but looks less close to blackness (aka type 4 hair) yall will let it slide, but if it's natural hair you won't. interesting...
Yeah I said this in the video. Messy hair is messy hair but why does type 4 girls almost get jumped or sacked because of it?
Great observation.
Someone mentioned how white women still need to wash and comb their hair took presentable so there’s no excuse for this woman to look like this. This woman most likely had to wash her hair to twist it out like this and some of you are still in the comments saying it looks dirty…you need to sit with why you consider kinky hair dirty when it’s not done to fit the European standard if beauty or professionalism.
The challenge with the take about white women still needing to do xyz to look presentable is that we are STILL using them as the standard AND the process of washing and combing takes them a fraction of the time it takes us. And having done these two easy steps makes them quickly seen as “professional”. A Black woman with kinky hair has to take more time to MANIPULATE our hair to achieve the same acknowledgment of “professionalism” they do in just those two easy steps. Their hair is already the standard so the effort to manipulate it to be “professional” is very minimal. The kinkiest of us find it takes hours to achieve what they do in minutes. THAT is the problem. Our hair must be manipulated with excessive products and styling to be seen as kept. Let’s not fool ourselves about what effort looks like on both sides and how our hair perceived as professional or beautiful if not styled to the high heavens.
Every time you put a comb in your hair, you 'manipulate' it. You can choose to leave it unmanipulated outside of work, but at work it's not too much to ask that you show up with your hair looking professional. Your hair doesn't have to be slicked down or straightened to be professional. That's the difference. A combed afro works well. The people saying her hair is dirty have no way of knowing that so that just stems from texturism which I don't agree with, but yes, I still believe black women should not be exempt from styling their hair appropriately for work.
Maybe the reason why I cannot fathom that her hairstyle looks like she woke up from her sleep and went to work like that is because my natural hair does not look like that when I wake up. I have type 4 hair and my hair has never looked like this EVER so obviously she's styling it to look like this.
I put my hair in large plaits or twists before I sleep, every night. Sometimes when I wake up some of them are pulled open if I forget to put a bonnet on. But all of hers are like that. So you may have a point, it may be intentional and styled. However when I was very sick once and bedridden, I slept like that for days. My hair did look like that just black and shorter. Every twist was pulled out after being sick and in bed for a few days.
Do I think people are overeacting to her hair: Yes.
Do I think her hair looks messy: Yes.
Would I say something to her in real life: No. It is not my business and I feel we are too critical of other women.
You addressed this very well. Would love to see the Pinterest board you mentioned
@@MikaAcorn thank you! I made it private, but I think I'll add rearrange things on there and make it public probably. I'll put the link in the description if I end up doing so!
Would I ever leave my house like this? No, I'm a bit of a fashonista- so I tend to put quite a bit of effort, which I genuinely enjoy, into how I look.
However, it's rubbing me the wrong way that so many people are up in arms over the way this woman chooses to wear her hair. I work in corporate America, and I see WW-on a daily basis-coming into work with wet, stringy hair, either worn down or in a messy bun, yet no one bats an eye. No one takes them less seriously, no one tells them that they don't look "professional," no one takes offense, literally no one cares.
Now, I understand that-going live as a newscaster-there's a different level of grooming that the public expects to see; in particular, female newscasters have always been known for their perfectly done hair and make-up.
But, in her day to day life, how is her hair not being combed any different than a ww walking around looking like she just rolled out of bed with a greasy, unkempt, ponytail?
I loved this video. You get it. My only thing is I think a huge Afro is good for work if it’s shaped like the woman in 7:19.she looks professional to me. Other that… we pretty much agree❤
I think we also think that textured hair being messy to the same extent that straight hair is often equalss more discrimination because we are always expected to have edges laid or our hair covered or pulled back.
15:02 I. Caught that. She put effort into the appearance of the straight wig, but many women are neglecting their real hair. 😕
You are a straight comedian I’m waiting for your Netflix special 😂
Hi Jay here, Could It be a mental health issue. Its been very prevalent during these challenging times. People are experiencing nervous breakdowns now more than ever b4. Even on the job people are loosing it for a number of reasons. We are not all built the same. Some can handle stress better than others. Just a thought n if thats the issue i feel for her. Thanks for sharing. Enjoyed reading everyone's comments🙂
If the girls with straight hair can go to a fancy event with a "messy bun" I say, do whatever you want. Black haircare is an expensive and laborous part time job that I personally hate doing. My fresh twist out would be looking just like that after 5 minutes in the Houston humidity. I don't have her confidence, but she has a job and seems to be thriving so people just need to get over it.
I’m in Houston and my twist outs last me from 3-5 days. And I have 4d hair.
@@jasminscarbrough2596 My hair is 3C in the front, 4C in the back, and high porosity. No matter what products I was recommended, it was always a frizzy mess as soon is it came in contact with the outdoors when I lived down there. Some of us don't have fun styling at all either. If I had her confidence. I'd be out looking like Angelica's doll too. Eff it. lol
@@Nopington well then do a different style. But if your dream is to look like that woman then I’m not going to stop you from doing so either. I choose to take pride in my natural hair
@@jasminscarbrough2596 I moved from that inferno and hurricane trap and I keep my hair braided. Though I'm contemplating just shaving my head. Some straight and curly girls can just wake up, fluff, and go. Some can't and would rather spend their time on more important things than beauty. It sucks that society won't just let us all live as we were created. That's my dream. This girl getting more heat than the ones with hard wigs. It's ridiculous. 🤣
@@Nopington idk.. I do a braid out ( my pfp) that takes about an hour and it last for days so I can wake up and go. Another go to was the puff. Hair is done in less than 10 minutes. You have to find what works for you.. this right here just wasn’t it.
Excellent video. Period. Couldn't agree more about the 'before and after' pics with no makeup and ... did you also notice? .... one discontented and even vex look on their faces; replaced with delight the minute they have their 'dream' unit on! (that they've patiently and lovingly prepared)
Exactly!!
Imo i also think afros are very professional and.. its silly that we think they arent
One of the most balanced and nuanced videos I’ve seen about natural hair. And I’ve seen a lot. I agree with everything you said! 🙏🏾
I like my natural hair, at the same time won't go out looking like an electrocuted cat. 😂🎉
“ FOK up de bhag” 😂😂😂
Maybe she's trying to form free locks 🤷🏾♀️
Its people looking like her bullying her the most
There are plenty of crazy people dressed to kill with glorious hair styles, some are in my family, so y'all better stop thinking y'all know who is crazy by looks.
For me the grooming of her hair is not as important as the fact that the story went viral. People of other races who have “messy” or “unprofessional” hairstyles don’t go viral. The test of afro texture hair acceptance is when people are able to wear their afro hair regardless of how well it’s styled at whatever level without it becoming a national news story. I think that’s the real win when it becomes unimportant regardless of appearance positive or negative.
Also the second girl - its untidy because shes at the dorm at 12 am. People are fucking ridiculous who cares, its 12 am
First time on your page and glad I came across it. This is the most balanced and honest take on this topic that I have seen.
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Nah, the reporter looks sloppy. You can be natural, but still look put together. She messed this one up. This ain't it.
People are so linear with what is acceptable. Like some people like diffrent styling and just cause it's something you've never seen before does not make it ugly. To these people diffrent is ugly but then they'll be the same people screaming from the rooftops how terrible beauty standards are and how shallow everyone is these days when the same systems they uphold come to bite them where the sun don't shine. My sis' hair was done and just because she's not trying to make it lay aka be as white passing as possible self hating ninjas are bullying her this is why we never get anywhere it's always 1 step forward and 3 steps back.
I know that kind of hair
Not mosturized
No nothing
Her hair not being 'laid' is not the issue here. Regardless I still think it was blown out of proportion.
That hair is not "done". She did something to it, that's for sure. It's just not "done". No other race could get away looking like they've been electroshocked and that's why she didn't get away with it either.
Please 🙏 juliee
Make a video about telling black women to stop consuming media, films that promote eurocentric straight hair curly biracial hair and other beauty standards that is not for us
I think that one of the problem of some black women hating themselves
I love your videos though ❤❤❤
I agree and to take it a step further, black women should stop giving mixed women our identity. We need to have a stricter standard on what blackness is or is not. We are helping society replace us with mixed people by calling mixed people black. No other countries or group of people classify mixed people as their race. Other people put mixed people in their own category because they are mixed and to keep mixed people in their country from replacing them.
@@NamasteInYourLane exactly you are right
Mixed to be mixed
Black people should be very strict with their media
But some black people won't listen 🥺
...I'm not sure what type of media you mean. I can't exactly tell people what to not watch lol but do you have examples of what you're talking about?
I will continue to watch the movies I like no matter what race is in them lol. Before I came across content like this on social media there are things I didn't even pay attention to. You need to take a break from social media lol. Make your movies and get your kids to watch them, but don't stop watching movies with other races or go to war against it lol. Of course white people are going to promote their srandard in their movies. Do the same in yours and stop giving yourself a headache
This is all subjective. Thats how she likes to wear her hair
11:10 & the journalist actions are the reasons I worry that my daughter might get bullied or attacked by strangers. She goes out in public with her hair as untidy as possible. She has 3b hair just like me but ive always styled my hair some form or other. She barely covers half of it FROM ALL SIDES w/ a hat. She takes showers just to look like she doesn't. I tried telling her that this world can be cruel & appearance CAN be everything, but she just thinks i'm making it up & I'M the bully. 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Most little girls learn grooming and self care from their mom. I used to watch my mom dressing up and doing her makeup in front of the vanity mirror and I'd practice doing the same after she was done with imaginary makeup. 😅You have to set the example if you don't already. Dress up and take care with your appearance how you'd want her to do if you don't already and she would follow suit if it's something she wants. But her a perfume, deodorant and lip gloss for starters. Most mothers are responsible for inspiring the feminine energy in their daughters. So if she watches you basking in and enjoying being groomed, she will want that too.
@@actuallyjuliee I think u MISSED my point of this story bcz i did mention that I have ALWAYS styled my hair well, & she doesn't have a hygiene problem for me to have to give her deodorant. She does TAKE showers but she just doesn't LOOK like she did. I mentioned that i wish she tried to look better bcz I raised her that way, she's just NOT like ME in that sense. I already did what I needed to do to set the example. My point to the comment is that sometimes parents do what they can & try to raise their children a certain way, but kids today don't listen and unfortunately have to LEARN on their own & it stresses a parent out bcz the kids end up POSSIBLY getting fired from jobs OR getting into fights w/ strangers OR getting cyberbullied bcz they DIDN'T listen to advice. She's already a young adult but kids EVERYWHERE today don't grown up w/ customary ways. I wish they did follow suit but really they just do whatever they want to do. That's just the harsh reality in life.
NOW i just show her these videos so that she can at least see that what I was trying to warn her abt really does happen w/ ppl out in the world & that image DOES affect the way we get treated in life.
Nah let's not pretend like her hair isn't crazy right now...
Love your talking points!
I agree with most of this video, but I am conflicted when it comes to big afros in the workplace. At the end of the day, a big afro is just long natural hair that was left down. If it was generally expected for long hair to be pulled back or styled that's one thing, but that isn't the case. It can come off as a more casual look, depending on the rest of the outfit, styling, and accessories, but if people of other races are not expected to pull back their long locks, we should also be exempt from that same expectation.
Long hair in general is very eye catching regardless of race but that's because most people find or assume long hair to be hard to manage. I personally think everyone should be able to wear their hair however they want for any job that isn't in front of a camera, upper-level leadership, or requiring rigorous movement, maybe front desk as well. I personally would love to see some of the less formal styles shown in this video to be worn in office settings. For me, how you choose to style and accessorize the rest of your look matters more than the hairstyle. Also, the amount of yt people who definitely looked like they rolled out of bed at my last corporate job, from entry level to upper management, was appalling in comparison to any person of color in the same or similar position. That never sat right with me. Yt people, especially women, do have standards for work appearance, but I find they are rarely held to it as harshly once they actually get the job. They only have to play that role long enough to be accepted, while women of color are not allowed to stop the performance of it all.
All that being said I did assume that reporter was having a bad hair day but over time I have trained myself to care more about people's words and actions than their appearance both in and outside of work. I can acknowledge that most people don't do that, and it is something to keep in mind, at least for work appearances. That's another reason why I'm looking for a wfh job, so I can dress exactly as I want to most days without worrying about any of that superficial stuff.
It all comes down to texturism. Only desirable textures can have lazy days and “baby hairs” or “messy buns”. People with 4c hair cannot have an off day because of the association with natural hair being, for lack of better words, lazy. I absolutely agree that there is a time and a place for everything and there are appropriate and inappropriate hairstyles for ANY hair texture. Ours is just a tiny bit more harsh, and there’s a very turbulent history behind it as well.
Im taking receipts 💅🏽♥️🍒 and sipping tea ☕😁
I'd love to see the Pinterest board you mentioned. Is your name there the same as your YT?
@@LisePlansandJournals yes but it's private for now. I'll put a link in the description if I end up making it public. 💕
When the twist out doesn't twist out like it's supposed to. We've all been there. Truth be told, this reporter doesn't look TV ready. Her hair isn't finished and she isn't wearing a stitch of makeup. They must've called her at the last possible second to come in to work.
Why do we need twist outs? It is still low key trying to change the texture of define it.
@@ladybird491 I've cut my hair off now, but when it was longer, it was definitely better for me to keep it twisted or stretched. Wearing my hair completely unmanipulated was just asking for knots, tangles and breakage.
The reporter had it coming, she could have packed her natural hair neatly , she didn’t look professional at all, she looked like she just got out of bed.
The reporters hair texture is not the problem…her looking like an emo cartoon character is😭
I wouldn’t be able to concentrate on what she is saying.
C'mon now sister girl... i'm gonna let the clownery slide on this one 😂 Now they know dam well they could make their hair neater
Objectively the front of her hair looks fine the side and back make no sense.
She was definitely trolling.
She wants attention
@@In_TheHouse I don't think that she woke up and decided to seek attention by wearing her hair like that. I still think this was blown out of proportion.
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Mabe she dont know how to style or mabe she just likes it this way.
No no no, that hair is messy and looks dirty.
Dirty ? How can you tell
Messy, I agree
dirty is a bit too far.
@@preciliabuya5456 nothing about her hair looks dirty
Unkempt need combing;
She knows what she was doing?
She wanted to cause uproar.
It is a texture thing. I have 3c hair and I literally only do unstyled wash&go's, like just applying leave-in and going, and I get compliments on my hair every time I leave the house especially from non-black people. I get fewer compliments from black people but I'm pretty sure that's cuz they can tell I'm being lazy with my hair 💀 Also wanna say that it looks like the reporter is starting freeforms, which is an ancestral style, so I don't think there should be an issue with it but it's 2024 in the US 🤷🏽
Don't mind me as a screenshot these hairstyles for future inspo 👀
Pls lets see your hair😊
You can check my Shorts to see my hair
Indeed they should have kept their mouth shut.
Just like we tolerate their wigs, that look hella ridiculous.
There I said it 😅
Yeah. They did way too much. Bed hair or something equivalent shouldn't cause all that ruckus. I know I've seen enough terrible wigs to want a therapist but they have so much to say now.
It looks like a twist out that got messy, if she likes it i love it.
The reporter did not put effort into her hair. There is nothing wrong with her hair but it looks like she put no effort in styling it. I want more Black women on camera but her lack of effort is not helping.
That reporter did on purpose for attention
She loves it, i love it.
So disappointed in your take. Looking polished and neat is catering to the European standard of Beaty.
I literally shared photos of precolonial hairstyles and this is all you got from the video. Well cheers. 🥂
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I kinda agree.
I kinda agree with your comment. All this neat snatched hairstyle is snatching out edges and thinning hair. We need to learn to wash, moisturize, comb and go and just don't have the hair looking raggedy.
So because white people do something you have to do the opposite? You stop drinking water because white people drink water? Sorry to break it to you but this was also an important criterion for our ancestors. You are the ones who are so obsessed with what they do or don't do.
Unacceptable look for TV...
Definitely
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