Ok 17:10 you still need to parent your child. Transgender or not. Throwing his sisters things on the ground is not OK. His behavior has to have consequences.
@@Apetitegirly of course it's not just the throwing things, George behaviour toward his sister is horrible. It's as if she's being punished for being OK with the gender she was born in. It must be so though for her. Her mother is giving George a lot of attention and, at the same time, George is bullying his twin sister for being a girl
George is still very young. I think young kids associate the word "twin" with 2 brothers or 2 sisters who look the same and of course are the same gender. As he grows up he will realise there are also fraternal with one child a boy and the other a girl. Also he is struggling with allot of emotional turmoil and confusion. Kids deal with this through anger and tantrums. He still needs to learn how to regulate these emotions like every child his age.
Parent. There is no dad. He walked out. George is angry on multiple levels and it hurts. Having a parent abandon you is hard enough, feeling uncomfortable in your own body is hard enough, and having a constant reminder that your sister is everything everyone wants you to be is hard enough. George has no outlet. Mom is doing the best she can. George also got teased at his old school. Kids his age have ended their lives being bullied. He desperately needs an outlet, probably therapy, but he's not intentionally being nasty. He's hurting.
Just to be clear: as a boy you don't have to be transgender to be able and allowed to wear skirts and dresses. This also applies to girls. Being transgender or not is independent of clothing style and / or toys.
Not in society. They see what tv shows as girls, or boys, and that is how they assimilate. It really should just be let the m dress how they want, play how they want, and figure it out themselves. But society isn't there yet. I mean I kniw tons of guys that wear kilts, skirts, mumus. Lol less binding they say. 😆
that's true, but things that are associated to a certain gender by society can be very dysphoria inducing, that's ofc not the case for every trans person, but it can often be the case and it really helps to find things that make u feel less dysphoric
Little kids don’t have those types of complex societal gender associations yet… but parents do, and we project them on our kids. Sometimes way too young, annd many times without realizing it unfortunately.
Right. I was thinking there is so much focus on clothing and colors. That shouldn't be that big of a deal but I think in society it is. It's really very dumb that way.
Mom needs to take George to see a theropist about his toxic relationship with his twin sister ..He's really nasty towards her , he told her he would kill her ..That's insane .Smh
When I was seven years old I would literally say things like that. I’m glad my parents disciplined me so that I’m now respectful to other individuals. Telling people you want to kill them doesn’t make you transgender and being transgender does not justify wanting to kill someone.
It's as if George is bullying his sister for being OK with the gender she was born with. I'm sure he doesn't realise how wrong his behaviour is but that's exactly where the mother has to step in to correct him.
George needs some serious counseling. Hearing him say he’ll kill his sister and distancing himself from her, is a serious issue. I hope these parents are doing this. His sister can be in serious danger and needs addressed ASAP!
Exactly. They’re being pretty accepting of him and his choices but he’s being more antagonizing - especially to his poor sister. He could just live his life as a boy moving forward but still have a good relationship with his sister. Brothers and sisters can get along.
I hope after meeting Nick that George calms down with his temper. What he is doing to his twin sister is extremely wrong and the mom has to crack down on it!!!!!
Exactly. Still trying to figure out why liking pink and dresses is supposed to validate femininity. I’ve never cared for either one and as a cis female adult I still don’t…lol
The parents of the twins especially since they are allowing George to live as a male need to explain to him that it’s not ok to treat his sister like that regardless what it reminds him of. They are two separate people period. I really hope he’s getting some kind of therapy because that isn’t ok and it isn’t ok for the parent to remain complacent when he acts that way towards his sister.
George's mother is so intent on doing what's right for him. She needs to put at least that amount of energy into understanding what's happening to her daughter.
Even if kids fight an issue t the core, they often need parents to really take over and lead the way agains the child. There is a scene in the movie An Education when the girl asks her parens where were they, as they were the ones who were supposed to have told her NO when she didn't have the strength , foresight, maturity, to do so. This is true more often than I think is realized. Parents take back the reigns.
@@pegs1659 George does have behavioral problems, yes. And doesn't seem happy. Just confused, somehow, and very angry. Compare that to Paddy, that kid seems quite cheerful, even though there hasn't been a public coming-out yet. Looks like George has got deeper problems.
No one seems to know ... many years ago, Pink was the color for men, and Blue was the color for women. Over the years, somehow it reversed. But it is also ridiculous ... there are blue dresses and there are pink neckties.
Yeah. It's so strange how people think colors make a gender. That's just bizzare. My favorite color is blue. I am 100 % a woman. Lol. Color has nothing to do with gender.
Yes in he seventies and eighties we loosened stereotypes, which may be a reason why us 'ok boomers' do not actually accept this stuff. Do people know we fought for gay rights? We are hardly backward, we know women are not pink slingbacks. We know lesbians are being transitioned. Delia Morris
I feel sad about george's twin sister .She and paady are adorable girls .I feel agree on George's behavior towards her sister who needs consideration too.
I'm really convinced for the first time that these parents have nothing to do with how their children feel. The teasing of the father at the beggining of his child being transgender and the poem the mom wrote and many other stuff I saw in these two families are evidence that they had nothing to do with how their children feel.
At 3 they don't know that they want to be a girl they are just being like this because for example the mom was so disappointed she had a boy she dresses him in girl clothes from the beginning and then the kids believe what they've always been told and done. There is new videos out now with teens & young adults telling there story about how the parent started all this and now they regret the way they are now so they think about ending their life. This is straight up child abuse.
On a different upload of this video we got an update in the comments on George. George has apparently begun to transition back to a female, and is comfortable doing so. Still very distant from their sister though. The two of them also have an older sister who provided an interesting perspective. Oh yeah, and George was at some point diagnosed with Aspergers.
@@clarissahansen6242 then why the fuck are you still using a boy’s name for her and “they” pronuns? She’s a freaking girl and you can’t even acknowledge that ffs.
"Today kids as young as 3 are saying they were born the wrong gender." Well.. Yes, but no. That's nothing new, it's just more accepted today and parents are actually more open to listening to their children.
True. I have 2 friends, and I know lots of others, who are in their '60s and '70s, and they told their parents who they were when they were 3 or 4 too. It's just that they were ignored, laughed at, or punished for it.
These parents are accepting of the child's gender identity. But they are also encouraging it. I think that, if it is really necessary for the child's well-being, then they should let the boy live as a girl ... but they shouldn't encourage it ... just look the other way and let it be ... dont make an issue out of it ... just behave as if it isn't anything to notice, like it is "normal." By something like doing the child's nails, they are showing the child that it is okay and they are encouraging it and praising it and enforcing it... and the child sees that he/she will get extra attention this way, and maybe will get less attention if he/she decides to go back to the birth gender.
I find it interesting to say the word "want" with transgender people. If they "want" to be the opposite sex, then they are not necessarily trans. Trans people "are" the gender they identify as not "want". I think that is a fundamental difference that people seem to miss.
Transgendered people are very self centered. Everything is "I" and "me" all the time. And if they dont get a lot of attention, they claim that they are being bullied or disrespected.
It’s only because he doesn’t want to be referred to as a girl. It’s got to be hard for him to have basically a reflection of his past self. As he gets older it’ll become easier for him to understand and stray away from treating his sister like that. He needs more time to process how he’s feeling. It doesn’t make it right, but it doesn’t mean it’s not extremely hard for him. I hope you get what I’m saying here, and I hope you realize this isn’t coming from a place of hate. Thank you.
adding to my last comment: it is very very wrong for him to be treating his sister like that please don’t get me wrong!!! I hope the situation’s been resolved by now :/ (also please be careful with the way you word comments like this, because not every trans person is like this to their siblings! Their personality doesn’t revolve around their identity 🥰)
My first thought about George was that he was tired of always being seen as part of a double pack. If the parents had treated the twins individually from the beginning, none of this might have happened. It tears my heart apart to see the girl missing her twin sister with whom she could play princess. And it tears my heart up to see how George treats his/her sister.
I had the same thought George's behaviour to his sister was down right hateful. Paddy is girl to the core you hear it in her language, "I was always a girl" and other such statements it helps that she is in a healthy headspace. Whereas George is just being loud about wanting everything boy they don't actually use the word to relate to themselves, they were awkward when Niki (who was absolutely brilliant) said he was trans too, but then again this documentary is just a snapshot of their lives we don't know what goes on when the cameras aren't their. But from this snapshot George and his sister Jasmin need therapy together and apart. George needs help to figure out who they are ( trans or gender fluid). Jasmin needs to know that George's behaviour towards her is not okay.
This is my experience with transgender feelings: Up until about age 19 (started at around age 6) i always wanted to be a boy. I loved how free they seemed, and not so many female stereotypes and makeup, dressing up, cliques, etc. I felt i was a boy because i loved video games (my dad loves video games), and was very into music of all kinds and dressed as a boy and acted like one (i was very rough and playful and a goof ball as most kids were) but i felt different. I was called a tomboy, and i referred to myself as that. One day my dad took me to a video game store and i walked in with my hair tucked into a ball cap (trying to pass as a boy) and i was trying to act all cool and i ended up just embarrassing my dad LOL. I called myself Jimmy, and sometimes i would walk around the neighborhood with my friends with a boombox on my shoulder playing some boy like songs, tryna be cool like a boy. this was in the early 2000s. Now I'm 28, and have been struggling so much with my identity. Always felt like a man inside. Even now I just always feel like a man trapped in a female body. However, I learned that I have full female hormones and body and im completely female in all scientific ways. I have been doing my best to accept myself for who i truly am, and that is a boyish girl. I'm married to a man that i truly truly love, but i still have thoughts of women many times. I identify as a woman, with a very masculine brain (there are other reasons i feel like this: very dominant personality, go-getter, charming, adventurous, independent, aggressive), but i have noticed with time that i have very feminine aspects too, like the nurturing, loving, generous, care-giving, selfless sides. All I want to do is please people. Sometimes I can't tell if how I'm feeling is truly how I'm feeling or how society expects its citizens to be in order to function successfully in society. For the record i have my bachelor's in health and rehabilitation sciences with a minor in integrative medicine. Nothing special (sorry im self-deprecating all the time) but at least I have some knowledge under my belt.
Why do you present being loving and nurturing as feminine traits and the opposite of that as masculine? This is a recent, very pernicious cultural conception stemming from warmongering monarchies, that has no scientific validity nor previous historical precedent (prior to that the entire tribe raised kids, and warmongering dominating aggression behaviour was not seen as a good thing rather as antisocial). Same as being adventurous and independent you present these as a masculine traits (wtf) Honestly, it sounds like someone/something indoctrinated you into very pernicious ideas about masculinity and femininity. it sounds like you intrernalised a ton of sexism you were bombarded with throughout your life
I mean. I 'm all for supporting your children. But that little boy George, for lack of a better word, is an asshole, and needs a trip to the woodshed. Just because you're "Trans" and it makes you upset to see your twin, does *NOT* mean you can speak to her and treat her that way. The mum has decided George is "special" and needs coddling, so that poor little girl gets left out in the cold.
Can I just take a second to applaud that guy who is spending time with George . Seriously an amazing human being , not to many people go that extra mile to help anyone. ❤️
There was this trans girl who was an athlete at my school a couple of years ago. I respect people like that . Even though I’m not trans I’m glad my school lets trans people use bathrooms,and locker rooms with the gender they identify with.
George's parents really need to have him understand that twins can be boy and girl. I feel he's gonna grow up hating women. maybe explain that fraternal twins are male and female. I just feel his issues go beyond being born a boy in a girl's body.
17:48 “Jazmine being you know what” The fact that the mother is too afraid to say the word girl in front of her girls, it is a symptom that the trans-boy needs help. Too resentful of her sister.
The mother needs to tell George that just because he's a boy know doesn't mean he can be a little jerk to everyone. Also that not everything has to be assigned to a gender. I think she can sit down with him and say that he can't be mean to people.
I think the twin mum is doing her best. it was just overwhelming for her, its great that she decidet to spend quality time with the girls. and i dont think she ignores the problems the twins have. we dont see what she had tried before and how that played out. wish both famys all the best
I find it surprising that Jorge doesn’t have a twin bond with his sister just because it reminds him of being a female that’s weird to me. He is mean to her.
There’re identical twins. She literally looks the exact same as he did before transitioning and looks exactly like what he would look like as a girl now.
Thank you for everyone who participated in this documentary❣️ Each child needs support for what's going on with them❣️ Sorry for all the heartache and loss everyone has/will feel/be affected by 💔 this. Just remember : ONE DAY AT A TIME ❣️
My heart is breaking over the twins. George and Jazz both need counseling. In order to make George comfortable, Jazz is neglected. It broke my heart when she grabbed her chair and went to the corner and cried. I understand he doesn't want to remember being a girl, but it is not ok to treat his sister like that. She lost her sister, and her now brother hates her. If she doesn't get help she will begin to have problems and feel unimportant and not loved. I know the mom is in a hard spot, but George needs to learn it's OK to be a boy, but not ok to treat his sister that way. He threatened to kill her. The way he treats her im scared he may try something one day.
I wonder if George isn't misdiagnosed and he has some underlying issue with women in general and thats why he is so aggressive to his sister and rejects his biological sex. This seems more like a trauma reaction because it seems to be more about women than his gender. Regardless, that child needs a therapist that deals outside of the suspected gender dysphoria. That poor sister....
No, identical twins are always the same *SEX*, not gender. There are fraternal twins. Like, Dipper from Gravity Falls. I actually met a pair of fraternal twins. Actually, if they pulled a little gender bending, they could look like each other. I could just sense the fact they were twins.
All of these children just blow me away. They're incredible & braver than I was as even at 18 year old. I'm so glad parents are learning to support their children.
Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness; Who substitute bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! isaiah 5:20
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 1 Corinthians 6:19
for the twins its not ok one day she will be gone like leave the house or go to a state and the boy just realise when he get older why he was so mean so yall need to help the child just cause he is trans dosent mean he should be rude \ p e r i o d PERIOD!!!!!
I think their (George) main problem was they never liked being a twin, they are acting out against their sister because they can't cope with society seeing them (both twins) as the same person. This is the deep root problem that needs to be addressed. Because their behaviour towards their sister is down right out of order, it is teaching George that they can treat people however they want and teaching the sister that she can and should be used as a doormat that her feelings don't matter and she should always yield. I used they\their pronouns for George because I don't think they know who they are yet. Whereas Paddy is a she to her core.
I'm always conflicted with these types of things. I feel like the parents have a huge influence on children. Kids are like "I like pink so I must be a girl cause only girls like pink". Kids should be taught it's okay to like the things you do, it doesn't automatically make you a boy or a girl. However I'm against parents making permanent decision for their kids. I was a boyish kid. I cried and pouted when I was forced to put on a dress. My mother tried to encourage me to play with dolls but I refused to play with them. I never liked playing with girls at school, I'd only hang out with the guys. BUT! I am an adult now and I'm super glad my parents didn't turn me into a boy. I still act a bit like a guy but I am 100% a women. Getting a sex change or doing things that will result in permanent changes to your body should only be done once the child is an adult and they are sure that's what they want
They don't do permanent procedures on them as kids. When kids transition they wear the clothes and hair that fits their personality. They might use puberty blockers, but that's not irreversible and gives them even more time to think about the decision.
@@hyperplaguerat I just think kids should be kids. Kids should not have to worry about telling their friends they're trans. They are kids and they're minds are still developing. They look to their parents for guidance. And if their parents are guiding them down this path, they will be more willing to go through with it even if that's not what they want. Parents can be influencing them without even know it. But if you think about all of this stuff too much, it can be super complicated. I don't have children so I don't know what the parents are going through. All I can use is my own experiences.
@@bluetiger2468 yeah bit it’s hard being just a kid with the feeling that you’re not yourself. I thought it was hard just having crushes on girls as a girl when I was 7 and up but I can’t imagine what’s it’s like not being able to present as the gender you feel that you are
@@bluetiger2468 to me they are being kids. You didn’t ask or feel like a boy. Most likely why your parents didn’t force you to be one. I was also tomboyish, wore boy clothes, shoes, played sports ect. But always enjoyed being a girl. That’s the difference. If society wasn’t so hung up one what’s in between someone’s legs and who they have sex with, these kids wouldn’t need to think about being bullied for wanting to be themselves. A kid who likes pink and butterflies or a kid who likes football.
Here we have a person who doesnt understand metaphorical language As a fellow autistic person i understand that some of us struggle with this aspect of language, but maybe dont allow this to be abuse to make you peddle bigoted mindsets that desire to restrict other peoples’ freedom of expression?
@@Jesusistheway8wait till you hear about intersex people. And wait till you hear how the god you believe originated; from a monolatristic previously polytheist pagan religion of warmongering primitive desert tribes.
George's behavior is not okay the way he treats his sister is wrong!! Allowing him to be free while allowing him to mistreat her is causing her turmoil and trauma does anybody not care?
Being trans is not an excuse to be hostile towards your twin just because she is happy with the gender she was born as. It's sad how the kid's mother is just enabling that behaviour.
They are trying. They dont want her to hurt herself and want her to feel loved and happy and safe with them enough so that they want the whole world to know to support children like Paddy. I'm sure they'll get the hang of it eventually since they actually seem supportive and caring.
@@bbdumplin9146 Yeah I know. I myself am a trans man who transitioned in my youth. I've just experienced my fair share of this and thought it was funny :)
@@KingKevin1 sorry lol I couldn't tell through the screen. I just get bummed out if I feel like good people are being pulled down for not being "good enough" when they are trying so hard clearly ya know. Have a good one!
The parents favor George over his twin sister Jasmine...George gets sympathetic attention, and Jasmine cries in the corner and is ignored. There is an old expression - - "The squeaky wheel gets the oil." - - that means that the one who makes the most "noise" gets all of the attention. Parents are supposed to treat children equally, no matter what. If Jasmine didnt like the fact that George identifies as a boy, and then she told George, "I want to kill you," the parents would not tolerate it, because it is bullying. But when George bullies Jasmine and tells her, "I want to kill you", they do nothing. Jasmine is hurting ... she has lost her twin ... her twin treats her horribly ... so, she is mourning the loss of her twin and is being bullied by her brother. The mother was so concerned that George should have a happy future... but she isn't concerned about Jasmine's happy future. The relationship between twins is supposedly the most close relationship that any two people can have ... identical twins share the same DNA and have a bond since the womb ... just because George rejects this, does not mean that Jasmine does. If George was not trans, and was either a boy or a girl, this behavior would not be tolerated. Just because George is trans does not mean that he doesn't need discipline, just like every other child. It seems that the parents are afraid to discipline George ... and the question is why ... and why the show didnt address this.
I raised a more feminine child, never commented on it, let him grow, can you not see that many of these parents won't accept who their kids are? Delia Morris
These type of documentaries always feature very young innocent children who are appealing and non-threatening. The picture usually changes drastically once these kids hit their teen years and they enter their suicidal phase.
These children were born to amazing families! :) I really would like to say that it wasn’t luck but it was. I think sadly many many transgender children and people (and not only them) are being rejected by their own families which makes me really sad
Its because it's a phase alot of times. Sometimes kids think they want to be the opposite gender but they don't have the mental capacity to make adult decisions about being a different gender. I am a mother of 2 daughters biological daughters. I'm raising them as the gender they were born with. If my daughters want to play with trucks and boy stuff that's cool but it doesn't make them trans
Uuuuummm nobody is born in the wrong body. Thats theology if you believe your soul is separate from your body. Liking pink and dresses does not make you a girl!!!!!! You can wear whatever the hell you want. Madness
38:42 The mom talks about "girlie days", that's so odd; they seem really fixated on gender roles. That was never a thing in my family, we were just people and nobody cared about our gender. I was a girl that climbed trees a lot, caught frogs and leeches, hated Barbie dolls, makeup, dresses and the color pink, but liked felling trees and my dad let me climb the high ladder to clean the rain pipe, or cut wild boars into pieces. It was a good childhood without any stupid roles. Just let them be humans! A boy in our school had Barbie dolls, My Little Pony and more pink toys and we never had a problem with it. It simply wasn't important what you were - most of my friends were boys, but who cares! During puberty I had problems with developing a feminine body (maybe due to my light autism), but came to terms with it over time. Fact is that all these trans kids seem to be extremely fixated on gender roles and I wonder where that came from.
I am a woman, my brother and I were best friends as kids, we spent countless of hours together. We played together with action figures and dolls, stuffed animal, cars, lego, checkers, Backgammon, puzzles, we played outside together, rolling on the grass together, playing hide and catch, climbing trees, swimming in the pool, we watched the same shows and cartoons and read the same books. It's so strange to me how people see everything as gendered now, we both did the same and I grew up to be a teenage girl and then a woman and he a teenage boy and then a man, no problems, no "gender dysphoria", no nothing. Let your kids be kids and stop gender everything, kids like what they like.
Transgender or not, little George needs discipline. Not a male role model. Mother needs to set rules and boundaries. He needs consequences for his disrespect.
Boys can be feminine, it doesn’t mean they are girls just as girls can be masculine. I lived near and eventually worked with a woman who was an engineer and had a lot of masculine traits. She married a man and was happy in her marriage and her skin.
Maybe George only wants to be a boy, because he has a problem with being an identical twin sibling. In another documentary someone became transgender after being sexually abused, so they wanted to have the other sex. I am an identical twin and we had much problems with each other. We did not feel individual, we were often not treated as individuals and fighted aginst each other in an insane way. You can get deep psychological problems, when you cannot deal with that. And apparently he hates his sister. I think they should see a therapist, the sooner the better.
Many people making excuses for that boy George his behavior. When a kid throws with stuff, you take him or her aside, explain on their level why it’s not okay to throw stuff. When a kid says I wanna kill my sibling , you explain to them why they can’t say that. And you repeat it, until they get it. Stop babying kids, and start raising them.
None of these children or families should be ashamed of themselves for having a transgender family member. The only thing that bothers me is having them exposed to the world before they can make any decisions about such an important matters like an adult could. These children need to protected just like any other child does. They are just not old enough to consent to putting their faces on tv and risk their lives and happiness.
I wish these parents would stop being fixated on their so called "trans" kids! Spend more time with your other children! Get the trans some therapy and pay attention to the big picture!
they do spend time with their other kids, this is a documentary about their trans children, not their other kids, of course they are taking care of their other kids and spending time with them.
What a good guy helping George an become a phenomenal role model for him. Thank you so much 💓 for showing us how their is still great people ❤ in the world 🌎.
This contradicts what the woke movement believes, that girls should not wear pink and boys blue. In this series you can see how the trans children really emphasize this.
He is a kid his life hasn’t even started yet…nor his troubles….he’s going to be in for a rude awakening when he is older. Parents should’ve stopped it but they are to weak.
Nobody. I worked at a kindergarten back in 2005 and there was a 4 y.o. boy who thought he was a girl, unlike his identical twin brother. He was girlier than any of the girls in his class. When he turned 5 he finally did realize he was a boy (physically) but told me he wanted to be a girl and felt like a girl. His parents just let him play with whatever he wanted, but always dressed him as a boy and didn’t encourage him to be a girl.
@@lumenpierce8583 And then he grew up and realized he is not a girl after all. Many boys who likes to play with "girls toys" think that means they are girls. This is how kids think, very black and white, magical thinking, their brain is not developed, their thinking is simplistic. Our society forgot how kids are and that's really frightening. There have always been boys who likes "girls things" and to "act like a girl" and there have always girls who likes "boys things" and to "act like a boy". Many of them grow up to be gay. Some aren't. It doesn't make them trans. Leave these kids alone. Let them go through their natural puberty in peace.
I think that George isn’t associating being a twin as being a girl but the other way around. I think the reason George didn’t want to wear that dress was because he wanted his own identity and to not be a twin. I think as a young child that manifested as being transgender. I feel like if I was his mom I would have taken him to therapy before just saying okay you’re a boy. That’s not to say he’s certainly not truly a boy in his heart but it feels like there is much more going on and at the very least he is having a hard time accepting himself and his relationship with his sister is suffering. At her expense nonetheless.
@@tiffanybadass1929 Making adult decisions. If she is old enough to make life altering decisions, she's old enough to evaluate her thought process. Obviously, everyone cannot be a girl and it is an odd comment. It might suggest some issues with the notion of boy.
I was stopped being forced to wear dresses back in 2014. This was after high school graduation. I realized I was different this way back in 2004 and again in 2007, I didn't know what it meant until high school. my parents still have a hard time understanding after coming out to them in 2017. I have learning disabilities and still think I'm unable to transition fully. At least my boyfriend who I met in 2013 ( we were friends then started dating in 2018, 2 years so far) supports me any way he can.
I wanted to be a boy when I was a kid I dressed and played like boy and even my hair cuts . But I'm now 52 and mother to 5 I'm with a man so we don't know what we want at that age .
I feel so bad for that man. I just wished that there could be an easy way for him. I can't imagine feeling like I am the wrong sex. It is awful. I wish you the best of luck
I wish all of these people will finally find peace and happiness in their life. It's not that I support gender changes or anything, but that because people deserve to be accepted as they wish.
Your brother and Paddy are not the same person. God is much more vast than we are. We're the ones that want to label things and think things have to be black or white. God made her exactly as she is. The world would be a lot more bland if we were in charge of who was born who, cause in many minds you're either this or that. Life is bigger and more beautiful than the labels we put on things.
Ok 17:10 you still need to parent your child. Transgender or not. Throwing his sisters things on the ground is not OK. His behavior has to have consequences.
Totally agree! So wrong catering to one while the other suffers.
@American Ajumma wtf
ok lol don't be so dramatic my brother does the same
@@Apetitegirly of course it's not just the throwing things, George behaviour toward his sister is horrible. It's as if she's being punished for being OK with the gender she was born in.
It must be so though for her.
Her mother is giving George a lot of attention and, at the same time, George is bullying his twin sister for being a girl
@@Apetitegirly of course he does.
Regarding the twins, the sister is treated terrible by the sibling, and the parents should not tolerate that.
Boy ego over his sis and all females.
I feel so sorry for the twin sister. It hurts to see how sad she is.
PAM'S WORLD right, they did not address how she her sister
George is still very young. I think young kids associate the word "twin" with 2 brothers or 2 sisters who look the same and of course are the same gender. As he grows up he will realise there are also fraternal with one child a boy and the other a girl. Also he is struggling with allot of emotional turmoil and confusion. Kids deal with this through anger and tantrums. He still needs to learn how to regulate these emotions like every child his age.
Parent. There is no dad. He walked out. George is angry on multiple levels and it hurts. Having a parent abandon you is hard enough, feeling uncomfortable in your own body is hard enough, and having a constant reminder that your sister is everything everyone wants you to be is hard enough. George has no outlet. Mom is doing the best she can. George also got teased at his old school. Kids his age have ended their lives being bullied. He desperately needs an outlet, probably therapy, but he's not intentionally being nasty. He's hurting.
Just to be clear: as a boy you don't have to be transgender to be able and allowed to wear skirts and dresses. This also applies to girls. Being transgender or not is independent of clothing style and / or toys.
Not in society. They see what tv shows as girls, or boys, and that is how they assimilate. It really should just be let the m dress how they want, play how they want, and figure it out themselves. But society isn't there yet.
I mean I kniw tons of guys that wear kilts, skirts, mumus. Lol less binding they say. 😆
that's true, but things that are associated to a certain gender by society can be very dysphoria inducing, that's ofc not the case for every trans person, but it can often be the case and it really helps to find things that make u feel less dysphoric
Little kids don’t have those types of complex societal gender associations yet… but parents do, and we project them on our kids.
Sometimes way too young, annd many times without realizing it unfortunately.
this is stupid. as a child i played football and GTA
Right. I was thinking there is so much focus on clothing and colors. That shouldn't be that big of a deal but I think in society it is. It's really very dumb that way.
Paddy's dad is such a good guy. Hes really supportive and understanding
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@@t-rex4622 okay boomer
@@Andrea-uj9zw like I said, Okay Groomer.
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I want him to be my Dad.
Mom needs to take George to see a theropist about his toxic relationship with his twin sister ..He's really nasty towards her , he told her he would kill her ..That's insane .Smh
When I was seven years old I would literally say things like that. I’m glad my parents disciplined me so that I’m now respectful to other individuals. Telling people you want to kill them doesn’t make you transgender and being transgender does not justify wanting to kill someone.
@@oddbobproductions781 No, but with all the aggression towards her, is a very serious issue. He needs therapy!
It's as if George is bullying his sister for being OK with the gender she was born with.
I'm sure he doesn't realise how wrong his behaviour is but that's exactly where the mother has to step in to correct him.
Mom is definitely not the sharpest tool in the shed.
@@janablang beatings
George needs some serious counseling. Hearing him say he’ll kill his sister and distancing himself from her, is a serious issue. I hope these parents are doing this. His sister can be in serious danger and needs addressed ASAP!
He actually grew up and identifies as a girl now. I was really surprised to hear that!
@@lemonzest_ how do you know that ?
@@lucieleairth I saw their profiles on Facebook
When a kid says he or she would kill someone, like a sibling, they don't mean it literally. It's a way of distancing themselves from the sibling.
@@lemonzest_ a link?
Huge respect to all the sweet parents
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It's bad enough to have George wants to Kill his sister who doesn't deserve that at all. She deserves to love not hate
Exactly. They’re being pretty accepting of him and his choices but he’s being more antagonizing - especially to his poor sister. He could just live his life as a boy moving forward but still have a good relationship with his sister. Brothers and sisters can get along.
I hope after meeting Nick that George calms down with his temper. What he is doing to his twin sister is extremely wrong and the mom has to crack down on it!!!!!
Actually, a few month ago i found them on facebook and i saw that George didn't grow as a trans teenager
@@giuliarondinelli2779 Woah really?? I wouldn't have expected that. You sure it's him/her?
@@green--apple yes, afterall kids should be free to explore their own gender so they can know themselves. she identify as a girl now
@@giuliarondinelli2779 Wow, interesting. Surprised since she was extra boyish and stuff. Is she a girly girl, a tomboy, or an average girl now?
what’s the facebook?!
Not all little girls like to wear dresses. They don’t all like pink.
but paddy does and that's okay
Most of them do lol
Exactly. Still trying to figure out why liking pink and dresses is supposed to validate femininity. I’ve never cared for either one and as a cis female adult I still don’t…lol
And? I was a tomboy and that didnt make me trans, but some kids are trans regardless pf what colour they like
Have you ever met a little girl? That’s all they care about, pink and dresses. My niece lives in a princess dress, it’s almost too much 😭
The parents of the twins especially since they are allowing George to live as a male need to explain to him that it’s not ok to treat his sister like that regardless what it reminds him of. They are two separate people period. I really hope he’s getting some kind of therapy because that isn’t ok and it isn’t ok for the parent to remain complacent when he acts that way towards his sister.
George's mother is so intent on doing what's right for him. She needs to put at least that amount of energy into understanding what's happening to her daughter.
Even if kids fight an issue t the core, they often need parents to really take over and lead the way agains the child. There is a scene in the movie An Education when the girl asks her parens where were they, as they were the ones who were supposed to have told her NO when she didn't have the strength , foresight, maturity, to do so. This is true more often than I think is realized. Parents take back the reigns.
George is a little brat.
@@pegs1659 George does have behavioral problems, yes. And doesn't seem happy. Just confused, somehow, and very angry. Compare that to Paddy, that kid seems quite cheerful, even though there hasn't been a public coming-out yet. Looks like George has got deeper problems.
It's sad and pathetic to see how completely blinded by sex-role stereotypes these parents are. "Look, it's a girl's room. Everything's pink." 🙄🙄🙄
No one seems to know ... many years ago, Pink was the color for men, and Blue was the color for women.
Over the years, somehow it reversed.
But it is also ridiculous ... there are blue dresses and there are pink neckties.
Yeah. It's so strange how people think colors make a gender. That's just bizzare. My favorite color is blue. I am 100 % a woman. Lol. Color has nothing to do with gender.
Yes in he seventies and eighties we loosened stereotypes, which may be a reason why us 'ok boomers' do not actually accept this stuff. Do people know we fought for gay rights? We are hardly backward, we know women are not pink slingbacks. We know lesbians are being transitioned. Delia Morris
George needs help. That hostility towards his twin sister can grow.
I feel sad about george's twin sister .She and paady are adorable girls .I feel agree on George's behavior towards her sister who needs consideration too.
I'm really convinced for the first time that these parents have nothing to do with how their children feel. The teasing of the father at the beggining of his child being transgender and the poem the mom wrote and many other stuff I saw in these two families are evidence that they had nothing to do with how their children feel.
At 3 they don't know that they want to be a girl they are just being like this because for example the mom was so disappointed she had a boy she dresses him in girl clothes from the beginning and then the kids believe what they've always been told and done. There is new videos out now with teens & young adults telling there story about how the parent started all this and now they regret the way they are now so they think about ending their life. This is straight up child abuse.
@@kimkuhns2454 We dont know if what you said is the case with these families so how can we say its child abuse unless you know them.
I wanna see these kids grown up now 😭😭
On a different upload of this video we got an update in the comments on George. George has apparently begun to transition back to a female, and is comfortable doing so. Still very distant from their sister though. The two of them also have an older sister who provided an interesting perspective. Oh yeah, and George was at some point diagnosed with Aspergers.
@@clarissahansen6242 where i can watch?? Share the link, please
@@clarissahansen6242 then why the fuck are you still using a boy’s name for her and “they” pronuns? She’s a freaking girl and you can’t even acknowledge that ffs.
@@clarissahansen6242 where did you watch this?
@@clarissahansen6242 link?
the moms poem is quite beautiful!!
striped creature it made me cry. It was a beautiful poem.
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Seriously it made me cry 🥲
Usually poetry makes me cringe but omg that was cute af
"Today kids as young as 3 are saying they were born the wrong gender." Well.. Yes, but no. That's nothing new, it's just more accepted today and parents are actually more open to listening to their children.
True. I have 2 friends, and I know lots of others, who are in their '60s and '70s, and they told their parents who they were when they were 3 or 4 too. It's just that they were ignored, laughed at, or punished for it.
@@Zenthropa7 I'm sorry to hear that, that is messed up! But it seems to be very common unfortunately.. I wish people had more compassion for others.
Seeing Paddy's father doing her nails made me cry 😿, what a wonderful dad!!
What a groomer a real dad would have never done that!
These parents are accepting of the child's gender identity. But they are also encouraging it.
I think that, if it is really necessary for the child's well-being, then they should let the boy live as a girl ... but they shouldn't encourage it ... just look the other way and let it be ... dont make an issue out of it ... just behave as if it isn't anything to notice, like it is "normal."
By something like doing the child's nails, they are showing the child that it is okay and they are encouraging it and praising it and enforcing it... and the child sees that he/she will get extra attention this way, and maybe will get less attention if he/she decides to go back to the birth gender.
I find it interesting to say the word "want" with transgender people. If they "want" to be the opposite sex, then they are not necessarily trans. Trans people "are" the gender they identify as not "want". I think that is a fundamental difference that people seem to miss.
Sure but they're children, it could be a phase, so you let them experiment and see what they want to find out who they are in the end
Transgendered people are very self centered.
Everything is "I" and "me" all the time.
And if they dont get a lot of attention, they claim that they are being bullied or disrespected.
I want to see an update since now they’re teenagers
Me too
Now they’re teenagers? This documentary is from 2020 lol
@@ReginaTrans_ I’m pretty sure it was filmed in 2016
@@ReginaTrans_ it was released in 2020 or uploaded to RUclips in 2020
Paddy is so sweet and adorable I love her.
I didn’t realize being transgender was an excuse to treat your twin sibling of the opposite gender like total shit.
It’s only because he doesn’t want to be referred to as a girl. It’s got to be hard for him to have basically a reflection of his past self. As he gets older it’ll become easier for him to understand and stray away from treating his sister like that. He needs more time to process how he’s feeling. It doesn’t make it right, but it doesn’t mean it’s not extremely hard for him. I hope you get what I’m saying here, and I hope you realize this isn’t coming from a place of hate. Thank you.
adding to my last comment: it is very very wrong for him to be treating his sister like that please don’t get me wrong!!! I hope the situation’s been resolved by now :/ (also please be careful with the way you word comments like this, because not every trans person is like this to their siblings! Their personality doesn’t revolve around their identity 🥰)
@@piper157 .tough she has rights to. I suspect that many trans are spoilt at home and at school. to the detriment of other children. Delia Morris
My first thought about George was that he was tired of always being seen as part of a double pack. If the parents had treated the twins individually from the beginning, none of this might have happened. It tears my heart apart to see the girl missing her twin sister with whom she could play princess. And it tears my heart up to see how George treats his/her sister.
his sister
I had the same thought George's behaviour to his sister was down right hateful. Paddy is girl to the core you hear it in her language, "I was always a girl" and other such statements it helps that she is in a healthy headspace. Whereas George is just being loud about wanting everything boy they don't actually use the word to relate to themselves, they were awkward when Niki (who was absolutely brilliant) said he was trans too, but then again this documentary is just a snapshot of their lives we don't know what goes on when the cameras aren't their. But from this snapshot George and his sister Jasmin need therapy together and apart. George needs help to figure out who they are ( trans or gender fluid). Jasmin needs to know that George's behaviour towards her is not okay.
This is my experience with transgender feelings:
Up until about age 19 (started at around age 6) i always wanted to be a boy. I loved how free they seemed, and not so many female stereotypes and makeup, dressing up, cliques, etc. I felt i was a boy because i loved video games (my dad loves video games), and was very into music of all kinds and dressed as a boy and acted like one (i was very rough and playful and a goof ball as most kids were) but i felt different. I was called a tomboy, and i referred to myself as that. One day my dad took me to a video game store and i walked in with my hair tucked into a ball cap (trying to pass as a boy) and i was trying to act all cool and i ended up just embarrassing my dad LOL. I called myself Jimmy, and sometimes i would walk around the neighborhood with my friends with a boombox on my shoulder playing some boy like songs, tryna be cool like a boy. this was in the early 2000s.
Now I'm 28, and have been struggling so much with my identity. Always felt like a man inside. Even now I just always feel like a man trapped in a female body. However, I learned that I have full female hormones and body and im completely female in all scientific ways. I have been doing my best to accept myself for who i truly am, and that is a boyish girl. I'm married to a man that i truly truly love, but i still have thoughts of women many times.
I identify as a woman, with a very masculine brain (there are other reasons i feel like this: very dominant personality, go-getter, charming, adventurous, independent, aggressive), but i have noticed with time that i have very feminine aspects too, like the nurturing, loving, generous, care-giving, selfless sides. All I want to do is please people.
Sometimes I can't tell if how I'm feeling is truly how I'm feeling or how society expects its citizens to be in order to function successfully in society.
For the record i have my bachelor's in health and rehabilitation sciences with a minor in integrative medicine. Nothing special (sorry im self-deprecating all the time) but at least I have some knowledge under my belt.
Those feelings you have there are that of evil, you need Jesus Christ in your life!
@@adebayoawodeyi6201 He is, thank you very much.
You are who you are and who you are is perfectly fine! You sound like an amazing human being! If you are happy that is all that matters 😊❤❤❤.
Why do you present being loving and nurturing as feminine traits and the opposite of that as masculine? This is a recent, very pernicious cultural conception stemming from warmongering monarchies, that has no scientific validity nor previous historical precedent (prior to that the entire tribe raised kids, and warmongering dominating aggression behaviour was not seen as a good thing rather as antisocial).
Same as being adventurous and independent you present these as a masculine traits (wtf)
Honestly, it sounds like someone/something indoctrinated you into very pernicious ideas about masculinity and femininity. it sounds like you intrernalised a ton of sexism you were bombarded with throughout your life
Maybe you are simply bisexual. Had you thought of that? You like men and women. Delia Morris
I mean. I 'm all for supporting your children. But that little boy George, for lack of a better word, is an asshole, and needs a trip to the woodshed. Just because you're "Trans" and it makes you upset to see your twin, does *NOT* mean you can speak to her and treat her that way. The mum has decided George is "special" and needs coddling, so that poor little girl gets left out in the cold.
Can I just take a second to applaud that guy who is spending time with George . Seriously an amazing human being , not to many people go that extra mile to help anyone. ❤️
There was this trans girl who was an athlete at my school a couple of years ago. I respect people like that . Even though I’m not trans I’m glad my school lets trans people use bathrooms,and locker rooms with the gender they identify with.
Makayla Magyar that is so great. A lot of schools won’t do that, the child must use the restroom of the gender (biological) they were born as.
Totally against that. I would be uncomfortable with a man in the girls bathroom
@@GypsyRoseBlanchardisaliar where in her comment did men go inside her schools girl washroom?
@@GypsyRoseBlanchardisaliar trans women are women. They aren't men. do you want trans men in the changing room? Because you can't just pick one
That's not fair dude. At all and I don't understand how that's actually a thing
George's parents really need to have him understand that twins can be boy and girl. I feel he's gonna grow up hating women. maybe explain that fraternal twins are male and female. I just feel his issues go beyond being born a boy in a girl's body.
17:48 “Jazmine being you know what” The fact that the mother is too afraid to say the word girl in front of her girls, it is a symptom that the trans-boy needs help. Too resentful of her sister.
girl*, his*
I agree. I work with kids like these kids as a mental health professional. Just because you are trans does not give you the right to be abusive.
The mother needs to tell George that just because he's a boy know doesn't mean he can be a little jerk to everyone. Also that not everything has to be assigned to a gender. I think she can sit down with him and say that he can't be mean to people.
What George needs is not gender change, George needs a father and a therapist
I think the twin mum is doing her best. it was just overwhelming for her, its great that she decidet to spend quality time with the girls.
and i dont think she ignores the problems the twins have. we dont see what she had tried before and how that played out.
wish both famys all the best
I find it surprising that Jorge doesn’t have a twin bond with his sister just because it reminds him of being a female that’s weird to me. He is mean to her.
There’re identical twins. She literally looks the exact same as he did before transitioning and looks exactly like what he would look like as a girl now.
Thank you for everyone who participated in this documentary❣️ Each child needs support for what's going on with them❣️ Sorry for all the heartache and loss everyone has/will feel/be affected by 💔 this. Just remember : ONE DAY AT A TIME ❣️
My heart is breaking over the twins. George and Jazz both need counseling. In order to make George comfortable, Jazz is neglected. It broke my heart when she grabbed her chair and went to the corner and cried. I understand he doesn't want to remember being a girl, but it is not ok to treat his sister like that. She lost her sister, and her now brother hates her. If she doesn't get help she will begin to have problems and feel unimportant and not loved. I know the mom is in a hard spot, but George needs to learn it's OK to be a boy, but not ok to treat his sister that way. He threatened to kill her. The way he treats her im scared he may try something one day.
He was later diagnosed autistic. Delia Morris
The more I become exposed to transgenderism, the more I become convinced that the human being is the only creature smart enough to deceive itself.
I wonder if George isn't misdiagnosed and he has some underlying issue with women in general and thats why he is so aggressive to his sister and rejects his biological sex. This seems more like a trauma reaction because it seems to be more about women than his gender. Regardless, that child needs a therapist that deals outside of the suspected gender dysphoria.
That poor sister....
Supportive parents always makes me cry 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Some of the comments left here in regards to this video are rude and nasty. There are trans children and adults all over the world in every country.
unfortunately so
There should not be, these decisions were made aged 18 and that worked well enough in the past. Delia Morris
I love Nic. He’s a great role model.
Ok so one of them is a set of twins. I hope they have explained to the boy twin doesn't mean two girls or two boys. It can be a girl and a boy.
That’s not true for identical twins. They are always the same gender.
Identical twins are always the same gender
No, identical twins are always the same *SEX*, not gender. There are fraternal twins. Like, Dipper from Gravity Falls. I actually met a pair of fraternal twins. Actually, if they pulled a little gender bending, they could look like each other. I could just sense the fact they were twins.
All of these children just blow me away. They're incredible & braver than I was as even at 18 year old. I'm so glad parents are learning to support their children.
Are you sure they're not stunning and brave. LOL
Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness; Who substitute bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! isaiah 5:20
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 1 Corinthians 6:19
He created them male and female, and He blessed them and named them Man in the day when they were created. Genesis 5:2
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap. Galatians 6:7
Nick is such a great person. George is lucky to have a roll model who shares his history.
for the twins its not ok one day she will be gone like leave the house or go to a state and the boy just realise when he get older why he was so mean so yall need to help the child just cause he is trans dosent mean he should be rude
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I think their (George) main problem was they never liked being a twin, they are acting out against their sister because they can't cope with society seeing them (both twins) as the same person. This is the deep root problem that needs to be addressed. Because their behaviour towards their sister is down right out of order, it is teaching George that they can treat people however they want and teaching the sister that she can and should be used as a doormat that her feelings don't matter and she should always yield.
I used they\their pronouns for George because I don't think they know who they are yet. Whereas Paddy is a she to her core.
@@5Pip George even said themself they don’t like their sister because it reminds them of when they were a girl.
I'm always conflicted with these types of things. I feel like the parents have a huge influence on children. Kids are like "I like pink so I must be a girl cause only girls like pink". Kids should be taught it's okay to like the things you do, it doesn't automatically make you a boy or a girl. However I'm against parents making permanent decision for their kids. I was a boyish kid. I cried and pouted when I was forced to put on a dress. My mother tried to encourage me to play with dolls but I refused to play with them. I never liked playing with girls at school, I'd only hang out with the guys. BUT! I am an adult now and I'm super glad my parents didn't turn me into a boy. I still act a bit like a guy but I am 100% a women. Getting a sex change or doing things that will result in permanent changes to your body should only be done once the child is an adult and they are sure that's what they want
They don't do permanent procedures on them as kids. When kids transition they wear the clothes and hair that fits their personality. They might use puberty blockers, but that's not irreversible and gives them even more time to think about the decision.
@@hyperplaguerat I just think kids should be kids. Kids should not have to worry about telling their friends they're trans. They are kids and they're minds are still developing. They look to their parents for guidance. And if their parents are guiding them down this path, they will be more willing to go through with it even if that's not what they want. Parents can be influencing them without even know it.
But if you think about all of this stuff too much, it can be super complicated. I don't have children so I don't know what the parents are going through. All I can use is my own experiences.
@@bluetiger2468 yeah bit it’s hard being just a kid with the feeling that you’re not yourself. I thought it was hard just having crushes on girls as a girl when I was 7 and up but I can’t imagine what’s it’s like not being able to present as the gender you feel that you are
@@bluetiger2468 to me they are being kids. You didn’t ask or feel like a boy. Most likely why your parents didn’t force you to be one. I was also tomboyish, wore boy clothes, shoes, played sports ect. But always enjoyed being a girl. That’s the difference. If society wasn’t so hung up one what’s in between someone’s legs and who they have sex with, these kids wouldn’t need to think about being bullied for wanting to be themselves. A kid who likes pink and butterflies or a kid who likes football.
@@hyperplaguerat puberty blockers are not reversible.
It's literally impossible to be born in the "wrong" body. You're just born.
Yup. God made us male and female. Amen
@@Jesusistheway8troll..
Here we have a person who doesnt understand metaphorical language
As a fellow autistic person i understand that some of us struggle with this aspect of language, but maybe dont allow this to be abuse to make you peddle bigoted mindsets that desire to restrict other peoples’ freedom of expression?
@@Jesusistheway8wait till you hear about intersex people.
And wait till you hear how the god you believe originated; from a monolatristic previously polytheist pagan religion of warmongering primitive desert tribes.
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George's behavior is not okay the way he treats his sister is wrong!! Allowing him to be free while allowing him to mistreat her is causing her turmoil and trauma does anybody not care?
Being trans is not an excuse to be hostile towards your twin just because she is happy with the gender she was born as. It's sad how the kid's mother is just enabling that behaviour.
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Nice catch, I missed that.
They are trying. They dont want her to hurt herself and want her to feel loved and happy and safe with them enough so that they want the whole world to know to support children like Paddy. I'm sure they'll get the hang of it eventually since they actually seem supportive and caring.
@@bbdumplin9146 He is not going to harm himself!
@@bbdumplin9146 Yeah I know. I myself am a trans man who transitioned in my youth. I've just experienced my fair share of this and thought it was funny :)
@@KingKevin1 sorry lol I couldn't tell through the screen. I just get bummed out if I feel like good people are being pulled down for not being "good enough" when they are trying so hard clearly ya know. Have a good one!
The parents favor George over his twin sister Jasmine...George gets sympathetic attention, and Jasmine cries in the corner and is ignored.
There is an old expression - - "The squeaky wheel gets the oil." - - that means that the one who makes the most "noise" gets all of the attention.
Parents are supposed to treat children equally, no matter what.
If Jasmine didnt like the fact that George identifies as a boy, and then she told George, "I want to kill you," the parents would not tolerate it, because it is bullying.
But when George bullies Jasmine and tells her, "I want to kill you", they do nothing.
Jasmine is hurting ... she has lost her twin ... her twin treats her horribly ... so, she is mourning the loss of her twin and is being bullied by her brother.
The mother was so concerned that George should have a happy future... but she isn't concerned about Jasmine's happy future.
The relationship between twins is supposedly the most close relationship that any two people can have ... identical twins share the same DNA and have a bond since the womb ... just because George rejects this, does not mean that Jasmine does.
If George was not trans, and was either a boy or a girl, this behavior would not be tolerated.
Just because George is trans does not mean that he doesn't need discipline, just like every other child.
It seems that the parents are afraid to discipline George ... and the question is why ... and why the show didnt address this.
21:05 asexual is not a gender 🖤 it just means you aren't sexually attracted to anyone. the word she's looking for is agender I think
I raised a more feminine child, never commented on it, let him grow, can you not see that many of these parents won't accept who their kids are? Delia Morris
Seeing the dad doing his little girls nails is the sweetest thing ever ❤️❤️ and the poem her mother wrote! What wonderful parents!!
Geroge’s mom needs to put her foot down. She lets him act up like that and treat his sister badly. Therapy and discipline is what that child needs.
that poem gave me chills, because it helps her feel accepted
George needs to be disciplined for his horrible behavior towards his sister. I feel like the mom gives him special treatment over his sister.
These type of documentaries always feature very young innocent children who are appealing and non-threatening. The picture usually changes drastically once these kids hit their teen years and they enter their suicidal phase.
That poem Paddy’s mom wrote made me cry. That is so beautiful.
These children were born to amazing families! :) I really would like to say that it wasn’t luck but it was. I think sadly many many transgender children and people (and not only them) are being rejected by their own families which makes me really sad
Its because it's a phase alot of times. Sometimes kids think they want to be the opposite gender but they don't have the mental capacity to make adult decisions about being a different gender.
I am a mother of 2 daughters biological daughters. I'm raising them as the gender they were born with.
If my daughters want to play with trucks and boy stuff that's cool but it doesn't make them trans
I've never been jealous of a child's parents until now...
Exactly I got teary eyed when the dad cried bc hes doing his absolute best to learn
I think George is gonna become a woman hater if his behaviour doesn't get nipped in the bud
George would freak out when he reaches puberty. Menstruation, boobs, and having curves
Uuuuummm nobody is born in the wrong body. Thats theology if you believe your soul is separate from your body. Liking pink and dresses does not make you a girl!!!!!! You can wear whatever the hell you want. Madness
38:42 The mom talks about "girlie days", that's so odd; they seem really fixated on gender roles. That was never a thing in my family, we were just people and nobody cared about our gender. I was a girl that climbed trees a lot, caught frogs and leeches, hated Barbie dolls, makeup, dresses and the color pink, but liked felling trees and my dad let me climb the high ladder to clean the rain pipe, or cut wild boars into pieces. It was a good childhood without any stupid roles. Just let them be humans! A boy in our school had Barbie dolls, My Little Pony and more pink toys and we never had a problem with it. It simply wasn't important what you were - most of my friends were boys, but who cares! During puberty I had problems with developing a feminine body (maybe due to my light autism), but came to terms with it over time. Fact is that all these trans kids seem to be extremely fixated on gender roles and I wonder where that came from.
that comes from dysphoria.
Gender identity is all about sex roles.
I am a woman, my brother and I were best friends as kids, we spent countless of hours together. We played together with action figures and dolls, stuffed animal, cars, lego, checkers, Backgammon, puzzles, we played outside together, rolling on the grass together, playing hide and catch, climbing trees, swimming in the pool, we watched the same shows and cartoons and read the same books. It's so strange to me how people see everything as gendered now, we both did the same and I grew up to be a teenage girl and then a woman and he a teenage boy and then a man, no problems, no "gender dysphoria", no nothing. Let your kids be kids and stop gender everything, kids like what they like.
@@saoirse2963 ..my bro and I were like that and he made a tough. female out of me, because I was a bit precious as a girl. Delia Morris
paddy is sooo cute!!! also george is kinda mean the parents can just say they are fraternal twins :(
Mariana S true.
Transgender or not, little George needs discipline. Not a male role model. Mother needs to set rules and boundaries. He needs consequences for his disrespect.
Jasemine is so sweet and I wish I could give her a hug.
Boys can be feminine, it doesn’t mean they are girls just as girls can be masculine. I lived near and eventually worked with a woman who was an engineer and had a lot of masculine traits. She married a man and was happy in her marriage and her skin.
I would like to see an update about George. He seems to have an aggression beyond normal.
George's mum is clearly a lovely person doing her best and it must be really hard.
Maybe George only wants to be a boy, because he has a problem with being an identical twin sibling. In another documentary someone became transgender after being sexually abused, so they wanted to have the other sex. I am an identical twin and we had much problems with each other. We did not feel individual, we were often not treated as individuals and fighted aginst each other in an insane way. You can get deep psychological problems, when you cannot deal with that. And apparently he hates his sister. I think they should see a therapist, the sooner the better.
This is what I think. But I do believe paddy is actually a girl. But the twin can be because of being dressed the same always
Acceptance is such a beautiful thing!!
The people in the video show the opposite of acceptance.
Many people making excuses for that boy George his behavior. When a kid throws with stuff, you take him or her aside, explain on their level why it’s not okay to throw stuff. When a kid says I wanna kill my sibling , you explain to them why they can’t say that. And you repeat it, until they get it. Stop babying kids, and start raising them.
None of these children or families should be ashamed of themselves for having a transgender family member. The only thing that bothers me is having them exposed to the world before they can make any decisions about such an important matters like an adult could. These children need to protected just like any other child does. They are just not old enough to consent to putting their faces on tv and risk their lives and happiness.
I wish these parents would stop being fixated on their so called "trans" kids! Spend more time with your other children! Get the trans some therapy and pay attention to the big picture!
they do spend time with their other kids, this is a documentary about their trans children, not their other kids, of course they are taking care of their other kids and spending time with them.
I don’t know what I feel I just cry with how beautiful life can go as who we are...love this story ❤️
What a good guy helping George an become a phenomenal role model for him. Thank you so much 💓 for showing us how their is still great people ❤ in the world 🌎.
Paddy is a sweetheart. She has amazing parents.
This contradicts what the woke movement believes, that girls should not wear pink and boys blue. In this series you can see how the trans children really emphasize this.
The son who said having a girls mind in a boys body don’t make sense and everything else he’s about the only one who has any common sense here
With the twins, maybe mom should make George aware that there is plenty of boy - girl sets of twins
Thank you for supporting your children ❤
Excellent show, so beautifully explained
He is a kid his life hasn’t even started yet…nor his troubles….he’s going to be in for a rude awakening when he is older. Parents should’ve stopped it but they are to weak.
The 1D shirt- I stan
bruh
Years back kids never talked about being transgender. Who is putting this in their heads?
Nobody. I worked at a kindergarten back in 2005 and there was a 4 y.o. boy who thought he was a girl, unlike his identical twin brother. He was girlier than any of the girls in his class. When he turned 5 he finally did realize he was a boy (physically) but told me he wanted to be a girl and felt like a girl. His parents just let him play with whatever he wanted, but always dressed him as a boy and didn’t encourage him to be a girl.
@@lumenpierce8583 And then he grew up and realized he is not a girl after all. Many boys who likes to play with "girls toys" think that means they are girls. This is how kids think, very black and white, magical thinking, their brain is not developed, their thinking is simplistic. Our society forgot how kids are and that's really frightening. There have always been boys who likes "girls things" and to "act like a girl" and there have always girls who likes "boys things" and to "act like a boy". Many of them grow up to be gay. Some aren't. It doesn't make them trans. Leave these kids alone. Let them go through their natural puberty in peace.
@@lumenpierce8583 .it is all over the schools now. Delia Morris
I think that George isn’t associating being a twin as being a girl but the other way around. I think the reason George didn’t want to wear that dress was because he wanted his own identity and to not be a twin. I think as a young child that manifested as being transgender. I feel like if I was his mom I would have taken him to therapy before just saying okay you’re a boy. That’s not to say he’s certainly not truly a boy in his heart but it feels like there is much more going on and at the very least he is having a hard time accepting himself and his relationship with his sister is suffering. At her expense nonetheless.
I agree with this but do believe paddy is actually a girl
“I wish everyone was a girl” - that’s a red flag statement.
Not really she's just a kid 🤦🏽♀
@@tiffanybadass1929 Making adult decisions. If she is old enough to make life altering decisions, she's old enough to evaluate her thought process. Obviously, everyone cannot be a girl and it is an odd comment. It might suggest some issues with the notion of boy.
I was stopped being forced to wear dresses back in 2014. This was after high school graduation. I realized I was different this way back in 2004 and again in 2007, I didn't know what it meant until high school. my parents still have a hard time understanding after coming out to them in 2017. I have learning disabilities and still think I'm unable to transition fully. At least my boyfriend who I met in 2013 ( we were friends then started dating in 2018, 2 years so far) supports me any way he can.
Paddy is a beautiful little girl
i feel bad for jasmine!
I wanted to be a boy when I was a kid I dressed and played like boy and even my hair cuts . But I'm now 52 and mother to 5 I'm with a man so we don't know what we want at that age .
There is no such thing as being born in the wrong body. God does not make mistakes.
I feel so bad for that man. I just wished that there could be an easy way for him. I can't imagine feeling like I am the wrong sex. It is awful. I wish you the best of luck
I wish all of these people will finally find peace and happiness in their life. It's not that I support gender changes or anything, but that because people deserve to be accepted as they wish.
God made Patty a boy, my brother asked my mom to paint her nails just because he has 3 sisters not because he is a girl.
Your brother and Paddy are not the same person. God is much more vast than we are. We're the ones that want to label things and think things have to be black or white. God made her exactly as she is. The world would be a lot more bland if we were in charge of who was born who, cause in many minds you're either this or that. Life is bigger and more beautiful than the labels we put on things.
Paddy's parents are great, and her mother's poem is great advice for other parents to use
All the attention being given to George allowing him to behave badly is wrong!