Why You Should Strive for a Meaningful Life, Not a Happy One

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  • @academyofideas
    @academyofideas  5 лет назад +103

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    • @alexIVMKD
      @alexIVMKD 5 лет назад +2

      Very interesting and thought provoking stuff... on another note, Freud didn't say people strive for happiness, he said pleasure (pleasure principle).
      Anyway, great job man.

    • @hiqhduke
      @hiqhduke 5 лет назад

      I'm surprised you didn't mention Aristotle. Many *people are unhappy bc they don't have enough going for them.* I agree with Aristotle that a life cultivating sport, many cerebral interests, relationships with friends/family, money, influence and status is what life is all about and *dissatisfaction with the quantity/quality of achievement in one or more of these areas* will affect a man's self-image to one degree or another.
      Face it: EVERY MAN wants to be very intelligent, very rich, very influential and have many friends and family who love, respect and need him. But who's got all that at once and to a sufficient degree to be considered abundant?!
      Only some wealthy and powerful people are truly capable of happiness. Not all. Not most. Not many. But some. And yes: having wealth and power is a prerequisite. I don't wanna seem crass. But don't kid yourself.

    • @whocares6912
      @whocares6912 5 лет назад +3

      Quit begging for money.

    • @hiqhduke
      @hiqhduke 5 лет назад +2

      Who Cares, I hate it when they do that too. WTF happened to selflessly creating content for fame or influence??? I will NEVER give money to any RUclipsr.

    • @whocares6912
      @whocares6912 5 лет назад +1

      @@hiqhduke I don't charge a single penny for my truths.
      Not a plug for views of my channel, but take a gander at my last video.
      You may find it interesting.
      You may not.
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  • @axelmont
    @axelmont 5 лет назад +377

    *WE MUST PROTECT THE ACADEMY OF IDEAS AT ALL COST*

    • @pawerymut9033
      @pawerymut9033 2 года назад +4

      Who is the attacker? How is academy endangered? How high is the risk of its extinction?

    • @axelmont
      @axelmont 2 года назад +4

      @@pawerymut9033 Lmao I guess the meme of claiming to protect things at all cost to show appreciation was more trendy back in 2019

    • @fsrsaa
      @fsrsaa 2 года назад +2

      Yes! We must!

    • @Ronnied74
      @Ronnied74 2 года назад +1

      Amen brother!!!

    • @salm6331
      @salm6331 2 года назад +1

      we still must.
      if the far left had the chance they would ban this channel immediately for bringing awareness to the sheeple of the world

  • @dachsiemomma1725
    @dachsiemomma1725 5 лет назад +211

    I'm an older lady who certainly hasn;t had what anyone would describe as a "happy" life, but I would describe it as a "meaningful" life. And I do not regret it.

    • @visionsofthelord2662
      @visionsofthelord2662 4 года назад +3

      Isn't that great act of someone.its nothing to criticise. Happiness is not sexual pleasure.

    • @shubhangagarwal925
      @shubhangagarwal925 3 года назад +2

      Truly madam ❤️

  • @phiswe
    @phiswe 5 лет назад +548

    Eternity by William Blake
    He who binds to himself a joy
    Does the winged life destroy
    But he who kisses the joy as it flies
    Lives in eternity’s sunrise

    • @haellysstrengthpurpose8086
      @haellysstrengthpurpose8086 5 лет назад +11

      That is a poem that always stuck with me as well, words to live by.

    • @A22by7
      @A22by7 5 лет назад +10

      Gold. Thank you for this

    • @mr.c2485
      @mr.c2485 5 лет назад +1

      Philip S.
      Replace joy with soundness of mind....and destroy to compliment.

    • @butchdeloria3797
      @butchdeloria3797 5 лет назад

      Live in the moment!

    • @AleadaA
      @AleadaA 5 лет назад +3

      I love Blake - such a beautiful poem - how true it is!

  • @shaquillemalik3514
    @shaquillemalik3514 5 лет назад +909

    A meaningful life provides happiness.

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 5 лет назад +122

      not really,... it provides fulfillment. Different thing

    • @PS-os6sr
      @PS-os6sr 5 лет назад +26

      Sexy Beast,
      Same thing.

    • @TheKbthakur
      @TheKbthakur 5 лет назад +20

      P S no it's different.

    • @PS-os6sr
      @PS-os6sr 5 лет назад +5

      kb senger,
      What's the difference?

    • @lukeeckstein3498
      @lukeeckstein3498 5 лет назад +49

      Meaning in many cases is a source of happiness. So, happiness is still the end goal. It is just not as simple as many people think. For example, you may at times have to work hard and do what you don't want to do now to increase your happiness in the future. There are also many things that make us happy, and no it is not just comfort. For example, increasing your abilities and achieving goals may make you happy. Having a sense of meaning may also make you happy. All humans evolved based on survival and reproduction. It should be of no surprise that the things that make us happy tend to line up with those variables. For example, good food, quenching your thirst, good relationships with other people, and having a place (meaning) in society are characteristics that also help you survive and reproduce. Therefore, it should be of no surprise that they also make us happy. That is how evolution works. The main problem is people tend to get locked up into thinking only material objects provide them with happiness when this is not the case. Good relationships with people and and having a sense of a place in society are just as much, if not more important for your happiness. Another problem is that when humans first evolved, the meaningfulness of their actions was more concrete. If you helped a fellow sick or injured human, you directly saw the consequences of your actions. If you caught prey and helped feed your tribe, you directly saw the consequences of your actions. If you invented something new like the wheel or metallurgy, you directly saw the consequences of your actions. This helped give you happiness. Now this is not so much the case. If you are stuck working in a factory or in a drive through where results are expected or you don't even see the benefits of those results, you are much less likely to feel like your actions are meaningful, therefore you may not experience happiness based on those actions as well.

  • @jesmat2006
    @jesmat2006 3 года назад +64

    0:16 Happiness, the ultimate aim?
    1:20 History of Happiness
    2:18 Happiness : Virtue vs Pleasure
    2:47 Hedonic Treadmill
    3:40 The Alternative to Happiness
    4:55 How to cultivate meaning
    5:04 Ineffective approach : External Goods
    5:46 Practical approach : Character
    6:28 Role of Goals
    7:10 The right attitude to Goal-setting
    7:46 Not all goals are valuable
    8:48 Happiness, a side-effect of meaning?

    • @jasonmesser84
      @jasonmesser84 Год назад

      I hope both sides of your pillow are cool

    • @forgottensage-o5o
      @forgottensage-o5o 10 месяцев назад

      I LOVE when people like you do stuff like this; often it is the first thing that I search for.

  • @EndOfAssembly
    @EndOfAssembly 5 лет назад +40

    I think this is why many artists are able to endure great suffering, because they can find meaning in the things that make them miserable.

    • @DGP406
      @DGP406 2 года назад +4

      and this is also why success is the greatest tragedy to happen to an artist

    • @Wolffanghurricane
      @Wolffanghurricane Год назад

      @@DGP406braindead idea

    • @attackoramic8361
      @attackoramic8361 Год назад

      ​@@Wolffanghurricaneatleast followup your meaningless opinion with a reasoning?

  • @YashSharmaFitness
    @YashSharmaFitness 5 лет назад +91

    This channel needs to hit a Million soon. ♥️

    • @robertimmanuel577
      @robertimmanuel577 4 года назад +1

      They're reaching there. 870k+ now.

    • @JosephBacons
      @JosephBacons 3 года назад +1

      984k right now. Almost there

    • @MCGaar
      @MCGaar 3 года назад +11

      Two years later. It now has

    • @sharoncombs58
      @sharoncombs58 3 года назад

      Needs to, yes, but highly doubtful.

    • @Thunder_Marshall
      @Thunder_Marshall 12 дней назад

      ​@@sharoncombs58 And here we are at almost TWO million now...

  • @josipeka89
    @josipeka89 5 лет назад +81

    "There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists"
    Find peace within yourself and you won every struggle. When you do it, it becomes a job, a duty. Nothing gets you down and you keep it that way.

  • @TumbleSensei
    @TumbleSensei 5 лет назад +186

    "Do what is meaningful, not what is expedient"

    • @therealtigertalk
      @therealtigertalk 5 лет назад +1

      Tumble Sensei Did he say that in the video? Or was that a quote from Schopenhauer

    • @Hyparchos
      @Hyparchos 5 лет назад +7

      @@therealtigertalk Jordan Peterson

    • @williamchristiansenwenners8140
      @williamchristiansenwenners8140 5 лет назад +3

      Diana Mitford keep telling yourself that and you will eventually believe it:-//

    • @zetapi826
      @zetapi826 5 лет назад +1

      @Diana Mitford There's no reason why you shouldn't mean something to yourself. Notwithstanding the pain.

    • @AleadaA
      @AleadaA 5 лет назад +1

      @Diana Mitford Do good work- find what you love - find an interest - try many things - choose to be happy or at least grateful for your life - do not waste it - find your own meaning & stop the negative crying

  • @TheForeword
    @TheForeword 3 года назад +1

    Spot on!
    What most people call happiness nowadays is actually nothing more than gratification. Gratification increases dopamine, but serotonin is the hormone of true happiness (i.e. built on self-discipline, personal virtue), not dopamine. When your dopamine increases, your serotonin actually decreases. In other words, gratification decreases your happiness.

  • @mosulemanji
    @mosulemanji 5 лет назад +72

    Do not let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason that today arm you against the present.
    -Marcus Aurelius

  • @team3am149
    @team3am149 5 лет назад +34

    Yearn to feel every emotion, rather than just one

    • @psibarpsi
      @psibarpsi 4 года назад +1

      Wow!

    • @chrismckell5353
      @chrismckell5353 4 года назад +1

      You know, we would be much more balanced or if you prefer in-tune if we did yesrn to feel all emotions instead of one.

  • @junlucas4322
    @junlucas4322 4 года назад +8

    Fulfillment is where I find joy, when I am constantly productive, mastering and sharpening myself, learning new things, conquering my goals, expending hard work and energy. It makes me feel satisfied.
    I’ve reached a point where pleasure soon becomes guilt and depression for me. If I over-indulge, I get anxious and I want out, it doesn’t ‘satisfy’ me in the end, because I know I could be doing something way more productive and meaningful during that time.

  • @ldshasnobrain
    @ldshasnobrain Год назад +1

    We cant control how outside forces effect us. Meaning brings a gift of spiritual understanding and euphoria that comes after overcoming hard times.
    This is a beautiful experience.

  • @satnamo
    @satnamo 5 лет назад +323

    Happiness is overrated; exercise and peace of mind are the key to a good life.

    • @Drunk.Casperr
      @Drunk.Casperr 5 лет назад +1

      @Diana Mitford You're not alone. I feel the same.. keep pushing forward, maybe our day to shine hasn't come ☆

    • @karasu-chan
      @karasu-chan 5 лет назад +8

      Yes be a stoic.

    • @Volcanic47
      @Volcanic47 5 лет назад +2

      @Diana Mitford Check out the writings of Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius (stoics) and even if you aren't religious, the book of Proverbs.

    • @satnamo
      @satnamo 5 лет назад +6

      @Diana Mitford The way to calm the mind is to stop thinking.
      The easiest way to stop thinking is by listening: let the ears hear whatever they want to hear and just listen, or dance!

    • @AleadaA
      @AleadaA 5 лет назад +1

      Comedy - a good sense of humor - laugh & play & then get back to work - we all need breaks - I do thing exercise & eating healthy are part of the mix - challenges are great also - a push to more forward even difficulty can be great!

  • @thechangingtimes
    @thechangingtimes 5 лет назад +1

    Wisdom is what leads to a much likelier outcome of happiness. There is an immense chasm between the endless shores of knowledge and wisdom.

  • @edu.monstrik
    @edu.monstrik 3 года назад +3

    When you mix pleasure, with meaningful happiness and purpose of life that's when the troubles begin.
    Be aware you guys because the system is always selling you one thing as substitute for another one. Choose wisely.
    Great video by the way!

  • @TheCrackupboom
    @TheCrackupboom 5 лет назад +27

    Really great ideas that have extreme meaning to me, a 60 year old man who played the pleasure game early in my adult life but then decided to struggle and attain goals. I tell my students that if you want to be happy you must embrace difficulty and struggle in your life.

  • @conorpitchers3497
    @conorpitchers3497 5 лет назад +8

    ‘To merely float with the tide of life promotes a weak body and a soft mind, hence we need to learn to swim with the stream of life and fight for worthy goals.’ Really impressed by your words!

  • @moons_mind
    @moons_mind 5 лет назад +661

    Interesting to see the rest of the comments say this was influenced by Jordan Peterson.
    It seems more likely that both Jordan and Academy of Ideas have tapped into the ancient wisdom of our ancestors and came to the same conclusion.

    • @TheNBSPerry
      @TheNBSPerry 5 лет назад +44

      Academy of ideas is really a great channel. Gets into deep psychological and philosophical questions and does it more or less unbiased. People like Nietzsche and Jung are often misrepresented due to such bias and it's nice to see that non-existent here

    • @FearNoGrave
      @FearNoGrave 5 лет назад +45

      It's Jungian Psychology/Philosophy that tie them together. I think most people don't realize that, or aren't familiar enough with Jung to notice. He's unfortunately often "swept under the rug" when it comes to both areas, but his teachings have been hugely influential. Similar to Kierkegaard and Existentialism/Theology.

    • @bez1196
      @bez1196 5 лет назад +31

      Uhm, this is common knowledge for any religious person tbh. It's the core of all Abrahamic faiths for instance. Budhism and Hinduism have similar concepts. The pursuit of meaning over happiness is as ancient as humanity itself. The concept only seems "new" because modern society is based upon the pursuit of happiness/hedonism, so these ancient concepts break with what has been the norm for the past few centuries.
      So no, JP or even Jung did not originate this idea.

    • @kidcannabis7878
      @kidcannabis7878 5 лет назад +34

      AOI>JP

    • @RegenerativeMojave
      @RegenerativeMojave 5 лет назад +6

      Alot of people don't understand philosophy is the art of concept thinking.

  • @maxamadamiin
    @maxamadamiin 5 лет назад +15

    I would say strive for happiness by virtues and values. Strive for meaningful life by creating an art, valuable work, something you deeply care about,, passion about, or matters to you. The thing you care about should at least be (by the best of your ability) consistent with your values and virtues.
    Thanks

  • @BW-CC
    @BW-CC 5 лет назад

    A nice reminder when the world is swirling, you sometimes cannot escape. It's easy to fall. Then at the right time you hear the right thing to put you back in the middle. Thank you.

  • @AshrafEzzat
    @AshrafEzzat 5 лет назад +39

    This channel is true to its title , Academy of Ideas. A big shout from Alexandria, Egypt.

  • @slushyslimshady
    @slushyslimshady 3 года назад +1

    My generation needs this!

  • @Shiro642
    @Shiro642 5 лет назад +7

    yep, totally agree. Should be taught on the first day of every school year. Meaning, not chasing happiness

  • @alexanderschirmer4593
    @alexanderschirmer4593 4 года назад +2

    "You are your experience."
    - Alan Watts
    Reducing your Being down to a single dimension (happiness vs unhappiness), you sacrifice the depth of human experience, which is where true meaning is to be found.

  • @lisabell2134
    @lisabell2134 5 лет назад +6

    Realizing that life is not about being happy has actually removed a lot of pressure and thoughts about “what am I doing wrong, why can’t I just be happy”. It has improved my life and having meaningful goals to strive for instead has actually brought me more happiness.

  • @delucerrr
    @delucerrr 3 года назад

    This channel is gold.Please don't delete your videos.Ever.

  • @johnbagel2560
    @johnbagel2560 5 лет назад +298

    Jordan Peterson said when happiness comes your way you should be thrilled.
    I say when an Academy of Ideas video comes your way you should be thrilled.

    • @inco9943
      @inco9943 5 лет назад +26

      stop trying to link peterson to this channel ...

    • @johnbagel2560
      @johnbagel2560 5 лет назад +14

      Jed Car I was just pointing out an intriguing similarity. It is most likely because both parties involved have deeply engrained the teachings of Jung and Nietzsche in their works. Either way one should be happy that both parties arrived at this conclusion; whether or not you agree with one or the other.

    • @Chris-ci8vs
      @Chris-ci8vs 5 лет назад +18

      @@johnbagel2560 Peterson is a pseudointellectual hack.

    • @joe-un1ky
      @joe-un1ky 5 лет назад +9

      @@Chris-ci8vs Thank you for your constructive input

    • @masterful9954
      @masterful9954 5 лет назад

      @Pete's Guitar Lessons TV what does that word mean

  • @naomisan772
    @naomisan772 4 года назад

    Meaningfulness breeds happiness coz your existence starts making sense...thanks for sharing this uncontested wisdom.

  • @Jovahkiin
    @Jovahkiin 5 лет назад +64

    So in short, striving a meaningful life is the source of being happy because without meaning, there is nothingness.

    • @intangible9838
      @intangible9838 Год назад

      I don't think it means you will always be happy while striving for it. But it gives meaning. Happiness is just an emotion, while having meaning is an entire state of being.

  • @dukesmith984
    @dukesmith984 4 года назад +1

    I can't even imagine how fulfilling it may be for you in getting these vids posted for all of us. A purposeful feat; you help replant these brilliant seeds for all us living, affecting all of us who fully watch, listen, ponder, rewind, ponder, and utilize. Mad thanks from me sir

  • @Mikaroo69
    @Mikaroo69 5 лет назад +12

    This had personal meaning to me, I'm 27 and have had depression and anxiety from the age of 10. The struggle to maintain happiness, and to rely on it for motivation, and discipline, is a chaotic inner battle. Great video, you have the most thought-provoking channel on youtube.

    • @TheDrCheech
      @TheDrCheech 5 лет назад

      Mike Curtis Same here

    • @drmosaddegh
      @drmosaddegh 5 лет назад

      damn, i got depression when i was 12 years old and i thought it was really stupid to have at such a young age. but i guess there’re even younger people with depression, makes me feel less dumb

    • @pauldirc..
      @pauldirc.. Год назад

      @@drmosaddegh what you are doing now in life ?
      I am also having existential since age of 15 , currently i am 18

    • @drmosaddegh
      @drmosaddegh Год назад

      @@pauldirc.. studying to be a software eng 😁 depression is cucked

    • @pauldirc..
      @pauldirc.. Год назад

      @@drmosaddegh oh nice from which country you are
      Because in my country even thinking of getting computer science in good college gives depression due to very high competition

  • @freddyblack8394
    @freddyblack8394 3 года назад

    When you have brought happiness to, others.... you have brought happiness and meaning to yourself....

  • @TheReligiousLeft
    @TheReligiousLeft 5 лет назад +47

    Luke 17:33 “Whoever tries to keep their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life will preserve it.”

    • @OkeyVision
      @OkeyVision 5 лет назад +6

      Luke Reid What many rail to realize is that many parts of the Bible are not literal and therefore those that reject the Bible fall into the same category as those who follow it to the word. Both find it in literal translation. Christianity has been twisted out of Jesus’s words, it’s CHRISTianity for a reason it does not imply a following of a bible or church a trap many fall into. Many words of the Bible hold great knowledge that will be lost if people do not set aside their rejection of the unknown.

    • @nominalegg5865
      @nominalegg5865 5 лет назад

      I seriously doubt that Luke had no idea how to use pronouns.

    • @johnrodgers2018
      @johnrodgers2018 5 лет назад +1

      There is so much in the bible that would align with this video. How did we end up with this feel good happy clappy shit that is called Christianity?

    • @escursionisuburbane6107
      @escursionisuburbane6107 5 лет назад +1

      @@johnrodgers2018 maybe because most people deflected themselves from the original Christian teachings that, as you said, are pretty much aligned with the material contained in this video

    • @jeziscricket4448
      @jeziscricket4448 5 лет назад +2

      @@OkeyVision John 1:14 The word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only son, who came from the father; full of grace.
      ...It's a rejection of your own rebellion and has nothing to do with rejection of the unknown

  • @blueskies1237
    @blueskies1237 Год назад

    Whoever has created this material and whoever funded it, and thought of it, I wish to thank.

  • @ssasdddddt
    @ssasdddddt 5 лет назад +15

    You don't know how much I enjoy your videos. They are of great help dealing with everyday struggles and are very inspiring and thought provoking. I also really love the art you choose. Thank you, as soon as I get a job I'm going to support you on patreon.

  • @jeffxanders3990
    @jeffxanders3990 4 года назад +1

    Life is only really meaningful when we can be ourselves. Happiness is not necessarily the goal, but the natural result. Grace follows this.
    To answer the question of how will answer all. In the mean time, we are all both student and teacher to all.
    All is synchronicity, and the incidence of this in seeing these videos is testament to their relavence. A great awakening is taking place.
    Interesting times.

  • @gabriellopez-mw8qc
    @gabriellopez-mw8qc 3 года назад

    This channel and thoughts from Peterson are breaking mental strongholds in my life.
    I have known for a while that I have always caused my own pain, but this channel really breaks it down.

  • @JustusWilcox
    @JustusWilcox 5 лет назад +90

    No wonder I love reading Berserk.

    • @rooseveltpina7124
      @rooseveltpina7124 5 лет назад +36

      A character built through pain; made strong, resistant, through great pain

    • @gattsuberserk4534
      @gattsuberserk4534 5 лет назад +6

      Never heard of it.

    • @Artaxerxes.
      @Artaxerxes. 5 лет назад +1

      The god hand is truly the best thing about berserk. When griffith transcends to femto he realises that he has to trample upon the corpses of everyone else to get to the peak

    • @berserker8884
      @berserker8884 5 лет назад +3

      Love Berserk!
      Is it just me or is Alexander the same guy as Academy of Ideas? Both are extremely knowledgable and have a very similar voice lmao.

    • @flynn659
      @flynn659 5 лет назад +4

      Never thought I'd see a Berserk comment on such a video.

  • @AleadaA
    @AleadaA 5 лет назад +1

    Successfully raising children & developing ones self in a challenging career can give meaning to life. It is the depth of ones character which gives meaning to the pursuit & overcoming obstacles, personal growth & contributing to another's welfare can be so satisfying - this give us meaning. Without challenges we do not grow & we become dissatisfied - this is the human condition. This is what many face in our society today - a lack of satisfying challenges even the challenge of survival give us true meaning.

  • @romainedixon4560
    @romainedixon4560 5 лет назад +3

    "Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient." - Jordan B. Peterson

    • @Volcanic47
      @Volcanic47 5 лет назад

      Peterson's focus on "life is suffering" which he wants you to put at the pinnacle of presuppositions as his idea of meaningful, is a poisonous insidious idea that will lead you to Nihilism. He also says "take your damn pills" too. If you follow his rules to the letter, he will drag you down, not lift you up.

    • @badmudafucka4448
      @badmudafucka4448 5 лет назад

      hes a punk

  • @vernon121
    @vernon121 5 лет назад +1

    Your philosophy videos are the only ones that I value on RUclips. They give me clarity. School of Life and all the others only dilute my view of life even more.

  • @drakefaden1464
    @drakefaden1464 5 лет назад +7

    YOUR BEST VIDEO YET!!! JUST WHAT I NEEDED RIGHT NOW!

  • @cusetowm4life
    @cusetowm4life 3 года назад +1

    @ academy of ideas... this channel has changed my life i was homeless before you... for the bottom of my heart thank you 😊 ♥

  • @insertname7032
    @insertname7032 5 лет назад +9

    I love learning philosophy with you

  • @mounirbaroudi5890
    @mounirbaroudi5890 5 лет назад

    love the Hunter Thompson quote: "We strive to be ourselves. The goal is absolutely secondary." This speaks to the deep drive we have towards self-actualization, and finding a niche in our society that enables us to self-actualize.

  • @gingsSon
    @gingsSon 5 лет назад +11

    I have to disagree with the idea of happiness being fleeting.
    If you accomplish a goal that brings happiness then, you can always reflect on your achievements, and derive further joy.
    However it is true that happiness is fleeting in the cases of instant gratification, i.e. happiness without meaning.

    • @Volcanic47
      @Volcanic47 5 лет назад +1

      Happiness is not defined as instant gratification. Check out Artistotles ethics re Virtue and Vice.

  • @DonLumpkin
    @DonLumpkin 5 лет назад

    I really like this channel!HOLOCAUST survivor Viktor Frankl once said, " Ever more people today have the means to live, but no meaning to live for."
    In the last few years, ( I am now aged 66) I finally feel I have a PURPOSE; If I can( in some small way) disseminate an awareness of the dire nature of climate change and species extinction. I have been writing songs about these matters and uploading them to my UTUBE channel. It doesn't matter if only a FEW people actually view them---my doing so adds PURPOSE to my life.

  • @fmjwest8296
    @fmjwest8296 5 лет назад +3

    Having suffered from depression since childhood and been very involved in equality, fighting corruption I now know that it is more important to try to change society, change inequality and accept that my time on earth is not to be happy but to find meaning.

  • @erickguz
    @erickguz 4 года назад +1

    "...who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on the shore and existed?"
    - Hunter Thomspon (quote at the end of the video)
    I have been living on the shore, and I am here today, to find a storm to brave.

  • @jargonwins5710
    @jargonwins5710 5 лет назад +4

    This is amazing! I really resonated with this video!! I love the layout of your videos and the quotes you use are very enlightening.

  • @Monkwhispers
    @Monkwhispers 5 лет назад

    Happines in the intelligence mind is the rarest thing i know... As Hemingway said... All my life i don't want happiness. I want silence and suffering to get my work done. I love this channel

  • @the1gresh
    @the1gresh 5 лет назад +30

    I like how I watch these videos thinking I'm intelligent and ahead of society. While I'm really just an idiot fooling himself. I'd like to believe I could achieve something great but most likely won't.

    • @juniperstardust5549
      @juniperstardust5549 4 года назад +2

      Maybe you won't, but that's not important, the fact that you strived and fought for it it's what's going to be meaningful and fulfilling in the end

    • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943
      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943 3 года назад +1

      I just want to find my "purpose".

    • @ಠ_ಠ-ಹ6ಷ
      @ಠ_ಠ-ಹ6ಷ 3 года назад

      You can. Set a goal. It doesn't have to be grand, you can start small. As you overcome obstacles and challenges to achieve your smaller goals, you'll start believing in yourself. What matters is youre striving towards it.

    • @AndreaVirago
      @AndreaVirago 3 года назад

      Idk how you are now 2 years have gone. But aim for something higher, read the books of- or listen to Jordan Peterson. His teachings helped me a lot.

  • @martinbajsic4836
    @martinbajsic4836 5 лет назад

    this channel is making people healthy.

  • @RodrigoOshiro
    @RodrigoOshiro 5 лет назад +3

    statistics. how many people around your circle are happy? how many pursue meaning? how many achieve their goals? how many do not even care? we should be grounded, happiness is overrated, since we are here, at least lets be useful, eventually we may find a place and happiness will come naturally, but more importantly, fulfillment.

  • @je4778
    @je4778 5 лет назад +1

    I've been feeling this for years now. This video describes my personal philosophy perfectly, and its so refreshing to see many philosophers who share similar ideas. Thank you for the video, keep making great content.

  • @ZaxorVonSkyler
    @ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад +9

    Last picture of the boat was my favorite!

  • @dalmara17
    @dalmara17 4 года назад +2

    We were created to worship our creater. Since I been doing that I am so happy. I thank the lord for giving me Islam

  • @paulk314
    @paulk314 5 лет назад +17

    Sometimes I think people use the word happiness to refer to something different than what I use it to refer to. For me, happiness is not fleeting or unattainable, and it's not something that I associate with pleasure. Happiness and meaning are deeply intertwined for me. I don't know what people mean by "happiness" if not that. Do they just mean pleasure?

    • @franciscorivera1638
      @franciscorivera1638 5 лет назад +1

      Happiness is the fulfillment of an infantile wish. That's why money gives no one happiness. Money has never been an infantile wish.
      --Freud.

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 5 лет назад

      why have two words for one meaning? Whats the word that associate with pleasure then?

    • @theodormejer9250
      @theodormejer9250 5 лет назад +1

      @@franciscorivera1638 But cocaine sure gave Freud happiness didn't it.

    • @franciscorivera1638
      @franciscorivera1638 5 лет назад

      @@theodormejer9250 Freud used the drug as a remedy without realizing its strong addictive properties, to which he became addicted too. In fact, and I'm sure you're aware of it, cocaine was openly sold to the public at any pharmacy in the U.S.

    • @Volcanic47
      @Volcanic47 5 лет назад +1

      I think they do, and totally ignorant of the likes of Aristotle, hence the Freud quotations as their idea of what it means.

  • @johnerikson828
    @johnerikson828 5 лет назад +1

    Love can make you happy.

  • @liampenny9077
    @liampenny9077 5 лет назад +19

    How do you quantify meaning? What is meaning?
    It seems so simple, yet when you think about it it’s so hard to conceptualise.
    I would love to hear your thoughts on meaning and how one can increase their own.

    • @ohcrikey9560
      @ohcrikey9560 5 лет назад +4

      I'm of the opinion that ultimately nothing has meaning. We are here by chance and we just exist. Thats it. Nothing more. My answer is, stop looking for happiness. Stop looking for meaning. Just stop looking period. Just be.

    • @dragos6625
      @dragos6625 5 лет назад +1

      But is meaning to be quantified or experienced? What is meaning? You know it when you are living it, when you've got the things around just right so your life reveals itself to you as endanging and worthwhile, mostly, worth the suffering.

    • @ohcrikey9560
      @ohcrikey9560 5 лет назад +4

      @Daniel Paulson as brian cox put it, 'we lead meaningful lives in a meaningless universe'.

    • @katieener8171
      @katieener8171 5 лет назад +1

      That's why he said the importance of character. If you know yourself and your character, you're gonna know the meaning of life for yourself. You'll know what you want, your morals, the things you want to do etc. (just my two cents)

    • @danieledemedici3217
      @danieledemedici3217 4 года назад +1

      Just ask yourself what is important to you.

  • @alexthekid1759
    @alexthekid1759 5 лет назад

    The content this channel provides has answered so many questions I have and it has even allowed me to debunk many false notions and fallacies told to me.

  • @colelang02
    @colelang02 5 лет назад +5

    My favorite video by far!

  • @QuestforaMeaningfulLife
    @QuestforaMeaningfulLife 5 лет назад +1

    Great lesson. Better to suffer now for something meaningful and reap happiness as an accident.

  • @crosstolerance
    @crosstolerance 5 лет назад +34

    Feeling pain or happiness is no different, it only depends on how you react to the situation that matters.

    • @bansurigupta7244
      @bansurigupta7244 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/X9Elg-Gav5s/видео.html

  • @grahamegreen789
    @grahamegreen789 5 лет назад

    This makes plenty of sense, particularly as we live in a world where it appears, that the grass is always greener. "If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, and that is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are." Charles de Montesquieu

  • @heiskanbuscadordelaverdad8709
    @heiskanbuscadordelaverdad8709 4 года назад +9

    I remember that time when I almost died in that moment I only thought "I want to live" even if moments before I was thinking to suicide and even then when death tried to take me I said no.

    • @pipers3102
      @pipers3102 4 года назад +1

      God bless you♡

    • @ruudschulten
      @ruudschulten 4 года назад +2

      Wel, thank you for posting, I had the same experience, it helped me gradually to overcome my depression..❤

  • @cminor3016
    @cminor3016 3 года назад

    meaningful, not superficial- to work and do things courageously, regardless of the empty, opinionated hypotheses of the "well placed" who look down at us from a hieght but have no real comprehension of our tiumphant transformations from these struggles, which they will never fully understand. my bother this is indeed more than an academy of ideas.

  • @ebroo21
    @ebroo21 5 лет назад +17

    What if a meaningful life is what makes me happy ? Even if it was hard and full of hardships

    • @balboa-capital
      @balboa-capital 5 лет назад +8

      Perhaps you mean fulfilled. Happiness is a transient polarized emotion. Fulfillment/inspiration/meaning is a transcendent synthesized emotion

    • @blackpearl1t
      @blackpearl1t 5 лет назад

      @@balboa-capital brilliant

  • @SStealth14
    @SStealth14 5 лет назад +1

    I want to thank the gods and the creator of this channel for the existence of such great material.
    Thanks a lot for all of this.

  • @ZaxorVonSkyler
    @ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад +57

    Happiness is only a state of mind.

    • @heekyungkim8147
      @heekyungkim8147 5 лет назад +1

      Happiness? What’s that? I can’t feel it.

    • @pedrosolorio8243
      @pedrosolorio8243 5 лет назад +6

      It's based off perception. Seeing the cup half full instead of half empty.
      .. I was reading this book called "the art of happiness"
      And what I learned is that you have to train your mind in being happy. While it's impossible to be happy forever. You can at least be content and grateful for what you have. And to love one another and show compassion, because like a virus, happiness is contagious. You handle stress better, you uplift the people around you, have a better chance of catching a mate, your more creative, and its been known people who are happy live longer. Why choose to live A sad life when you can have a happy life. And I feel you can find things you like to do meaningful and live a happy meaningful life. after all isn't meaning just biased opinion.
      A friend can say his life has meaning because he is a racecar driver.
      I for one don't like cars, and in fact I think it's meaningless. But it's an opinion..🤔

    • @heekyungkim8147
      @heekyungkim8147 5 лет назад

      Pete's Guitar Lessons TV ... u don’t have to remind me...

    • @pedrosolorio8243
      @pedrosolorio8243 5 лет назад

      heekyung Kim im sure youre great 😇

    • @heekyungkim8147
      @heekyungkim8147 5 лет назад +2

      Pedro Solorio I think. Nobody choose to live sad life... it’s not a choice sometimes. The circumstances in life sometimes is unbearable and some have big depression that mind just gotten broken...

  • @sayaleet3527
    @sayaleet3527 5 лет назад +1

    I am thankful for the internet at such times! Thank you Academy of Ideas🙌

  • @genesischaparro8954
    @genesischaparro8954 5 лет назад +64

    Someone show this video to Bojack Horseman!

    • @cyaneyedlion8648
      @cyaneyedlion8648 5 лет назад +2

      Is BoJack Horseman worth watching? Thanks in advance

    • @genesischaparro8954
      @genesischaparro8954 5 лет назад +12

      @@cyaneyedlion8648 ABSOLUTELY

    • @karenv4368
      @karenv4368 5 лет назад +1

      @@cyaneyedlion8648 definitely, just don't watch it looking for comedy; the characters and their stories are it.

    • @imadeyoureadthis1
      @imadeyoureadthis1 5 лет назад +2

      Don't worry, I am already here.

    • @Yet.Another.Rapper.KiG.V2
      @Yet.Another.Rapper.KiG.V2 5 лет назад +6

      @@cyaneyedlion8648 The first season I was kind of hesitant about it, I couldn't tell if I wanted to continue. By the time I had watched the third season, it was (tied for) my favorite show. I jumped up and down with excitement when the most recent season came around--it scratches itches that *very little* entertainment does.
      I do have to respectfully disagree with Karen V, too. While the characters and their stories are what propels its from "awesome" to "insanely excellent," I think the humor is just as unique, witty, diverse, and always either current or even slightly ahead of the curve.
      I don't want to spoil but--AHHHH fuck it, I can't spoil even a tiny detail. Please, watch it.

  • @dannyglover4561
    @dannyglover4561 5 лет назад

    This is one of the most insightful videos in the entire series. It sounds counterintuitive, but it’s actually the means that is the end.

  • @marthairene7732
    @marthairene7732 5 лет назад +7

    Live a meaningful life. Live a happy life. Live a meaningless life. Live an unhappy life. You still live it.

  • @shubhangagarwal925
    @shubhangagarwal925 3 года назад

    That Maya reference is so powerful , which basically implies that to find a meaning man seeks to have children , which they eventually use to find fulfilment, theri is nothing wrong in it , yet he fails to understand that it's just another illusion. True meaning is living life on your terms , based on ur decision, and following the process for augmented goal, instead of dreaming of the fruit

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 лет назад +30

    A satisfying life is much more important than having a happy life.

    • @jaden1496
      @jaden1496 5 лет назад +10

      Agreed - But they aren't necessarily mutually exclusive

    • @rezza6
      @rezza6 5 лет назад +1

      One would imagine with a satisfying life you'd be pretty....happy?

    • @rezza6
      @rezza6 5 лет назад

      @Pete's Guitar Lessons TV Judging by the number of disgruntled comments of yours I have seen on this video. Easier than you!

    • @rezza6
      @rezza6 5 лет назад

      @Pete's Guitar Lessons TV 😂😂 Nice "I know you are but what am I?" playground crap.
      I'm not a severely unhappy or disatisfied person. Things are good enough. I don't need any ego trips from internet argueing. As clearly you do by the sheer volume of your output.
      Hey. Little lesson. Defining words clearly is not splitting hairs. Its very important. This video's claim that meaning is somehow disembodied from happiness is damaging. Happiness is the only reason one would seek meaning. Think on that

    • @krztix
      @krztix 5 лет назад +1

      i see you under dan lok videos, now here too haha

  • @satnamo
    @satnamo 4 года назад +1

    De way to bring meaning into my life is by devoting my self to loving others and to be of service to my community and the people I love.

  • @Shaewaros
    @Shaewaros 5 лет назад +3

    A nice video, although I don't see why one cannot strife to obtain both strong character and material resources that allow him to influence the world that surrounds him more efficiently. I personally see the process of building strong character as a process of gathering resources that can be used to influence one's internal and external reality. However these resources can be complemented by material resources, social relations, personal expertise and intelligence and all other resources that allow us to make desired changes to our internal and external reality.
    The keyword to me is control. Over everything else we desire to be in control of our own fate. Developing strong character and beneficial habits allow us to gain control over our internal reality and prevents us from becoming slaves to our desires and other weaknesses of the mind. Building a strong social network, expertise in respected profession and amassing material resources are some of the things that let us influence and take control of our external reality.
    To me strong character alone is not enough. More important is to be able to have desired influence to the world that surrounds you and to be able to choose your own fate.

    • @Kumaryoku
      @Kumaryoku 5 лет назад +1

      Control is a limited commodity. If someone has ultimate control, the others have none. Is that a state of affairs you consider desireable, if the one in control is you?

    • @Shaewaros
      @Shaewaros 5 лет назад

      @@Kumaryoku You're talking about something very abstract and theoretical here. No one can control everything, except in a computer simulation with mindless robots. What I'm suggesting is a pragmatic and practical approach to life. In our daily lives we constantly encounter moments where we would like to influence the outcome of events that we're involved in. The only question is whether you have the resources to make the desired outcome occur or not.
      Let's take an example. An earthquake occurs. Two families are affected by the earthquake. The first family's father is a respected and loved working man, who is known locally for his convictions and high moral character. He has built a nice house for his large family, but he is not wealthy and his contacts are mostly locals like himself.
      The second family's father is a highly respected business man, who has contacts all over the world and a lot of wealth and other material resources both locally and abroad. He has a large family as well and is also liked in his local community. He also has an extensive insurance policy that will most likely cover most of the loses caused by the earthquake.
      The earthquake completely destroys the houses of both men and leave their families without food or shelter. In your opinion, which father is more likely to continue living a meaningful and fulfilling life?

    • @АндрејБугариновић
      @АндрејБугариновић 5 лет назад

      @@Shaewaros
      Control by using material resources gives one security (be it against earthquakes, or any other external danger / problem).
      Security assures stability.
      A stable life is a fruitful field for meaningful and fulfilling life.
      It's all connected. So, in a way, I agree with your opinion.
      In essence, striving to get better and more powerful, both internally and externally, is a desireable thing.

  • @FaroZac
    @FaroZac 5 лет назад +1

    RUclips suggested I watch this. I'm so glad I clicked. Just wanted to appreciate the level of subtlety in editing and good taste in fine art.

  • @kokopelli314
    @kokopelli314 5 лет назад +5

    The "Persuit of Happiness" is a fools errand.

  • @jeffelobo8431
    @jeffelobo8431 5 лет назад

    happiness and meaningfulness are to be found anywhere and everywhere at any and all times

  • @omnipotentp0tato
    @omnipotentp0tato 5 лет назад +12

    How can one find and learn more about paintings as good as these?

  • @ijazhussain6352
    @ijazhussain6352 5 лет назад

    We either live in the past being perpetually haunted by our failures or in future being apprehensive of what may happen. Life is here and now, enjoy every moment and don't be depressed by worldly losses. Remember we are not here forever and once gone will never come back.

  • @bret6484
    @bret6484 4 года назад +3

    I quite strongly disagree with the main claim of this video. Hear me out: I do not believe that one can find any perfect meaning or purpose for their life beyond happiness. Whether we, for example, pursue money or fame, friends and family, serving humanity, creating things, art, or anything else, if we ask ourselves why, and ask why a few more times, we will eventually find that it is to make us happy. We make decisions that make ourselves (and the people around us) suffer a little bit less, and overall be a little more content with life. There is no inherent value in building character either; its only value is how it may prepare us to be happier in the future.
    I certainly agree that blindly seeking vain pleasures will never quench our desires and only make us more empty, but unfortunately seeking meaning by "building character" can lead to the same feeling. Luckily, seeking happiness does not mean endlessly seeking more pleasure. Instead, I believe happiness comes from learning to be content with our lives and our world. In many cases, the only way we can ensure that we are happy is to learn to be content with little. We dont need lavish feasts to subsist, only a modest diet. We dont need the whole world to love us, just a one or two will do. If we learn to appreciate and truly love the things in our life that are not terrible, and if we lower our expectations enough to be happily surprised by the good, then we can start to find peace in our lives.
    If you wish to seek meaning in your life, I think that that can be wonderful. But if you wish to find meaning in the world, dont be surprised to find that it's turtles all the way down. Just remember that, and don't waste too much time thinking you'll find meaning when all of humanity hasn't after thousands of years of searching.
    For more perspectives on how to live a good life, I would recommend studying Epicureanism, Stoicism, and maybe some Buddhist philosophy. Thanks for listening to my ted talk

  • @TheBritomart
    @TheBritomart 5 лет назад

    Substance AND style-
    The compilation of stunning 19th century art to accompany material this rich is sublime. Anyone who can use Hunter S.Thompson quotes in this context has my undivided attention & respect.

  • @magnacarta711
    @magnacarta711 5 лет назад +4

    Happiness Is Subjective... The Man On Shore Just May Be Just As Happy As The Man Who’s Weathered The Storm...

    • @donjour69
      @donjour69 5 лет назад

      That sailor could've lived with scurvy for all we know

  • @earleearle3759
    @earleearle3759 4 года назад

    Happines is a journey. Its all of your decision positive or Negative that got you hear today. Learn to Love yourself ❤ and Love will flow from you ❤. When you help others your helping yourself. Peace and love❤from Ireland. If you are reading this I love you ❤ Namaste ❤🙏

  • @salehlilou5914
    @salehlilou5914 5 лет назад +7

    meaning is somhow tied with the service of others . when you say a meaningful goal my first thought is a goal boynd my selfish desires.
    a meaning ful goal is a one that dosn't serves us alone but all of society and mybe humanity
    is this irrational thinking or is pefectly reasnoable ? should one give all of his energy of making his evermoint better or only himself ?

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 5 лет назад +1

      exactly, in service of something transcendent, usually a concept or an ideal

    • @MrSampandey
      @MrSampandey 5 лет назад +1

      I feel if you develop your character, the world would benefit by itself. You might not see that happening.

  • @timothysdog6130
    @timothysdog6130 4 года назад

    Happiness is fleeting and special. Contentment is achievable

  • @sniks9901
    @sniks9901 5 лет назад +6

    Then I'll roleplay as a samurai.

  • @Elazar40
    @Elazar40 3 года назад

    Perceptually good or bad - pleasure and pain - an experiential process is the treasure of the game.

  • @stevenli3034
    @stevenli3034 5 лет назад +5

    Meaning is the cake, happiness is the
    icing on the cake.

  • @Tomas9308
    @Tomas9308 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks for the video! I would also like to add that I've spent countless days thinking about my goals and proyects, but thinking about yourself all day can be tiring. I found relief by helping people in a community setting. What I'm saying is: I think we're all a bit obsessed with the development of the SELF, and I sense that thinking about others' wellbeing may be the perfect relief. Just my opinion, and thanks for the great concept in the video.

  • @metacritiqebyrajan11
    @metacritiqebyrajan11 5 лет назад +34

    people consider the ultimate goal of life is happiness but forget that it ends in death which no one can escape.

    • @Shiro642
      @Shiro642 5 лет назад +20

      Great! In Solzhenitsyn's Harvard Speech, he points out this contradiction:
      "If humanism were right in declaring that man is born only to be happy, he would not be born to die."

    • @themagnus2919
      @themagnus2919 5 лет назад

      Diogenes is my favorite philosopher.

    • @2flowers116
      @2flowers116 5 лет назад

      @@ubbdaubermensch1528 i responded to your opening statement, yes. i feel ive experienced true happiness, i simply said that, i dont have much i want to say to the rest. i didnt say anything first... im not sure if youre talking to me or not. I deleted my comment for some reason, but i was just saying that i dont agree with that
      edit: as in your first sentence specifically i dont agree with, the rest of what your saying, idk i might have some response to it but im tired at the moment

    • @rezza6
      @rezza6 5 лет назад

      So would it be worth spending one's life time before death in misery? Or would happiness be preferable?

    • @metacritiqebyrajan11
      @metacritiqebyrajan11 5 лет назад

      @@rezza6 your approach is quite hedonistic, Benthem -Nature has placed mankind under the governance of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure. You may be right, just go fort Kant categorical imperative, Bhagavadgita niskama karma, logotherapy of victor frankil(men search for meaning) ....., they will claim that duty for the sake of duty is the best path to live a good life. but to satisfy the common sense your absolutely right, but when you will wonder philosophically, i think you may change or concern about your statement.

  • @fiveDust
    @fiveDust 5 лет назад

    As others have talked about the synchronicity they feel about the timing of the video post, having dug through all the AoI member videos, scraping together pieces of the puzzle and after having finished the chapter about meaning in Jordan Peterson's last book, I'm stumbling upon this video here and something larger and clearer seems to suddenly form on a fundamental level of comprehension, putting the act of asking the same question over and over and over again into quite some perspective.

  • @Shiro642
    @Shiro642 5 лет назад +2

    happiness really is just based on other people's want for you: you looking good by having what others say is good (car, house etc). Meaning is what your soul is telling you is good for you. SO happiness is just to please others in reality whereas meaning is something good for you and others.

    • @Volcanic47
      @Volcanic47 5 лет назад

      No that isn't what happiness really is. Check out Aristotle's "ethics" re Virtue/Vice.

  • @MaximillianGiamarco
    @MaximillianGiamarco 5 лет назад

    This is so powerful. It has taken me a long time to get to a point where I can understand this. I have tried many times to aim squarely for pleasure only to find myself in misery shortly after. I don’t exactly understand how this works but one thing is for damn sure and that is it does work.