There's a last time for everything
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- Опубликовано: 6 янв 2023
- Live like you're dying and remember that the thing you're doing right now that brings you happiness may be the last time you do that thing.
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Thank you and love you Shawn. My 94 year old dad has come to live with me. He was a farmer in one of the toughest of places in South Africa. Built three homes for us over the years.
Today, we eat our dinner while watch your videos. He loves it. He says to tell you how much he respects your work but mostly, your ethics.
I know most people are like this, but I've always dreaded the day my mother would pass away, even as a young child. I knew it would break my heart because she raised us alone, and she was really the only family we had. Six years ago, she had a stroke and lost most of her motor function and some of her speech and memory. Her stroke made me realize how fickle life is, and from then on it was like I pushed the record button in my mind whenever I was with her. I treated every goodbye hug like it was our last, because I didn't know if it would be. I would commit to memory every detail in those final years, especially how it felt to hug her. I'd hug for longer and always tell her I loved her, because I knew that soon there would be a day when I couldn't. October 29th, 2021 was that day, but I'm so glad I had the opportunity to say goodbye in my own mind. It's cliche at this point, but cherish your loved ones while you can.
My brother do not worry too much, you will be able to see her when you pass away, we’re spiritual being living a human experience.
I love that you mentioned the "last time for everything" mindset ... It truly does keep one grounded and appreciative of the moments that make up our lives. When my children were small I never complained when they wanted me to pick them up or carry them because I knew the quiet moment of the last time that would happen would pass without me realizing it. All of life is like that until the last breath.
I so enjoy watching your channel, so many nuggets of wisdom, hard work and joy.
I agree with all on here and about the last time. It is amazing how long I have watched you. I have been on hospice for a while now , but am getting a long great. Blessings to you and your family. Ted In Iowa
Thanks Shawn for - I can do this memory. I quit a very stressful job and hubby sent me roses everyday at work (10,9,8,7, countdown roses, boss was not impressed ) etc until my last day. It was his busiest day at work but he took the time to come pick me up with a suit on and a single red rose. He got a standing ovation and I got thro a very stressful 2 weeks. Love that man.
Lucky girl!!! You have a keeper!!
He's a rare treasure- you're a blessed lady, & I bet he is equally blessed.
That is a very sweet gesture of Love for his wife...he enjoys making you happy and relaxed...Lucky Lady!!
He sounds like an absolute treasure ♡
Well said Shawn, nobody will notice the color transition from walls to ceiling, they will be too busy looking at those beautiful monster logs you put in place, and each and every board you cut to perfection by hand. I can`t stop starring at those logs, remembering you carved out, and hoisted each one by hand, by yourself, no matter the weather condition, quite an accomplishment to say the least. All the best to you and your family sir. watching from Michigan.
Struck by the same thing. I have to keep reminding myself that he hoisted those immense logs by himself. He also didn't need much caulking because he so meticulously measured every log. You can't fit a piece of paper between most. I've seen cabins with four-inch gaps. Honestly, there were a few days where I wondered if it was really necessary to do so much scribing and measuring, but now we see the visceral evidence for why it paid off. Incredible craftsmanship.
Hi Shawn...I have a suggestion for content that I would think a lot of us would love. It doesn't have to be a long video. I would love to hear you talk about the differences between your new cabin and your last. The decisions. The things you've learned about building, the changes you made and why (size, height, style). Talking about what you learned and getting a second chance at it (cellar, loft, bathroom). Also to hear what input your wife had. What do you think?
I had to learn early on how to live with loss, my mom died when I was 23, my dad 10 years later, now my siblings are dying, heart disease, you always tell the ones you love how you feel. Love your videos
Ah the "Hope Chest" my greandfather made one for my aunt. I was a kid at the time and would tease her calling it a "Hopelss Chest". When she got married she had a Hope Chest full of things she would need to set up a household. Including a few quilts my grandparents made for her.
Thanks for the memory.
I understand about the 'last time for everything' a bit. My cousin moved to BC a number of years ago, she was 'Home' for a visit last summer...I got a call from my brother today...that will have been the last time I'll get to visit with her. Cherish the time we have with friends and family for sure.
Cheers from NB.
Hi Shawn. Can I recommend that you get a co2 monitor to evaluate how your cabin does with extended stays. You might be surprised how high it gets considering how well you are insulating and sealing the cabin. The primary symptoms are shortness of breath, drowsiness, feeling tired, and mild headaches.
Amazing how you can start talking about caulking material and end up with a great nostalgic reminder of what we should all value in life! Anything you do, might be the last time, including greeting and spending time with family and close friends.
Been with you through two cabin builds and have never been disappointed in one single video. Can’t wait for the outdoor kitchen build. Be safe!
The cabin is looking fantastic, Shawn! Thanks for letting us all go on the ride with you. I look forward to what 2023 has in store on the homestead.
Go away scammer!! You have been reported
Oh my god. The first scammer message I reported, and the message was removed. The message from @pavard2076 (which will hopefully get deleted soon also) is the SECOND scammer reply. This is getting out of control. Scammers, you suck, and I most definitely won't be "sending a direct message right away". I'm just going to report you.
Your cabin is magnificent!
It's like when I finally finished painting my ceiling. Took forever and I swore to never do that again. Looking at it now, and remembering the pain it was, feels so satisfying.
You are so astute. You never know when that last time is. My son would be 51 today. I didn't know that last day. I value people more now
Should get a cat or 2 to help out with the mice.
All the best for 2023 Shawn.
I thought the same thing😂
The cabin is just going to keep improving all the time. I remember the last one at all the personal touch you added to it was awesome.
The pic on the video you look like you are praying or praising the Lord for a job well done. He gives us strength to endure then look back on how He helped us with good health.
At work in a hospital, and your words are true. I see family after family, patient after patient, come to a hard realization sometimes that they just had their last _____ (fill in the blank). Hard to see but makes me more appreciative of what I have as I see those moments
What do you do at the hospital? I can't stand working in healthcare anymore. Give me hope. Being on call for 20 years sucks.
Memories are priceless Shawn.😊
Love your channel content Shawn. Always have! Not only did I get to watch Cali go from a pup to a big dog, but you also got me through the pandemic my friend. 🥰
The Bittersweet Memories and the taste of loss,The Sweetness of Children and Family it takes all to become a man and a familiar thing, The Joy Of Old Friends and the fleeting Nature of our very existence. A Faithful Dog, The respect to the animal to take a Deer for food. The Beauty of Nature and The Cycle of life moves on even For those that don't see or respect what a gift life is.
Your cabin looks amazing! I am in awe of what you have done to create it!
Well done Shawn! I like that saying,”last time for everything.”💯❤️👍🏾💜🙋🏽♀️✝️🙏🏾🇺🇸
forever in awe you've built MORE cabins by yourself - I think we all forget the feat it is to accomplish, to be standing in a roomy strong cabin you built yourself!
Memories and memorabilia bring both joy and tears, don't they?
It's nice to see the other side of Shawn where there is a level of frustration.
I’m sure the transition of color will be fine when all is said and done. You have proven to have great taste when it comes to these things.
I know that nostalgic feeling, every time I use a different mixing bowl, I remember the person that I got it from by saying hello to them. My mother, both grandmothets, and my mother in law. Their like old friend's. Sometimes I just think about different relatives that have passed and talk to them, or even old friends just to keep their memories alive. You never know...when it's your turn.
Thank you Shawn,Cali🐾 appreciate you my friends 🙏always look forward to your videos 👍Stay safe and take care 👋🙂
Congratulations on finishing that tedious job. As a viewer of yours from almost the very beginning, some weeks looking forward to your videos is the highlight of my week. I think often of doing “last things” at my age of 72. Hopefully we all have much more time to make memories, but we certainly need to treasure each day we are here. You take care my friend and continue to live your life to the fullest.
I love your videos Shawn. There is just nothing better anywhere.
So happy for you Shawn ! Cabin looks amazing!!!!⭐
Admiration and respect of your dedication to living off the grid and making your life successful.
Thanks Shawn for sharing we truly appreciate you! 👍👍👍🤩🤩🤩💯💯💯
Looking forward to seeing you do more inside the Cabin, Bathroom, Kitchen ,Loft. I need some ideas when I do my little Shed conversion. Great video thank you for sharing your journey with us. Cheers from Simcoe County!
I'm glad you realized this earlier in life. It usually takes a loss for most to see this.
Thank you Shawn God bless
In my 20’s, I worked for a traveling caulking company using the same method you did for the chinking. Interesting and hard work. I know what you went through here. One of the last time for everything for me is doing caulking at that level on a commercial basis.
True wisdom!!!
Very impressed how you complete those massive, tedious tasks! Very inspiring, all the best in 2023!
A real hit home video for me. Hope this isn't the last time I watch your video's... ;)
Thanks, Shawn.
Congrats, Shawn. Your work is always exceptional. Thank you for sharing all your construction projects. This cabin you built beautiful.
Cheers from Calgary!
love what you do
Saying goodbye . Said goodbye to my sister last week. She was in my life for 89 years, and an inspirational mentor. I will miss her so. Thanks for sharing your emotions with us.
The only thing I don't hold dearly is the last time I lifted, mixed and poured bags of concrete, those days are happily over.... Although I did move 10 tons of gravel with a wheelbarrow 3 years ago and have a fond recall of that!
Thank you very much Shawn, it was through one of your videos mentioning you drink chaga mushroom and I have purchased chaga mushroom powder and have been taking it for over a week. Apparently it takes three weeks of taking the chaga mushroom before it really takes effect. I live in Perth,Australia and the brand I am taking sources their chaga mushroom from Russia. Even after one week, ( I am 76 years old) I am feeling more energetic and uplifted in spirit. So, once again thank you. Big hugs and kisses for Cali - just love her.
I have enjoyed the journey of the log house build sir. I wish I could have a place like that. Have a blessed day.
Get a cat! They make great companions, Cali would love a kitten. You will never see another rodent. My barn cats even dig up moles for me. On a serious note, this was a great video, very important thoughts. I appreciate and try to take in all the wisdom you share, thank you.
Thanks. Have a great day
Inspiring words Shawn and fun to follow along with your work. Peace and health buddy and hopefully this new year brings better things for everyone.
It’s been a while since I’ve had a chance to watch one of your videos, and I have to tell you that you look at least 10 years younger at this point. The change is quite amazing. I’m sure it has everything to do with your state of mind and the peaceful life that you are living although work very hard you look very happy and very healthy.
Shawn the Chinking looks great. The colour is just right you can hardly notice it. You certainly picked up the skill because the chinking is very neat and tidy. I cant wait for the next stage of the cabin. Sort the Mice out away. You need some of that food too. Don't let the Mice take hold of your cabin because it encourages the bigger guys to come too. the Rats. God bless you. Shawn you are doing an amazing job with this cabin.
Congrats on your 26th Anniversary. 💐💐We just had our 24th.
Shawn please continue your journey and shows as I admire your honest with your trail and error…. You honestly makes me proud of you and your acknowledge and skills…
I always looking forward your shows….
Please ignore those people as they not worth to take personal…
Good Saturday Shawn & Cali🐕!
👍🌅🏞️🏡🛠️
Thank you , Shawn .
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Reminder to call your parents and check on them, tomorrow isn't guaranteed, and we have fewer tomorrow's every day.
Energy Seal! Great product, patience required.
Good speech ...you're exactly rite ...
Hard work yet it’s clearly your passion
Your always so great
Ahhhh, yes. The joys of rodent populations. When my site built, stick home was constructed in '75, the framing crew cut an angled notch out of the rim joist on the north side while cutting something else. Instead of installing it showing or turning the joist end for end (siding would cover anyway) they turned it in to make it look good. Never thinking that the notch, now on the bottom, on the top block of the foundation, made an entrance for critters. When we bought the home in 2000, the entire basement, attic and walls had been infested. Drop ceiling basement concealed the error from inside. Home was sold unoccupied (owners moved to Vegas) at a discounted price, as it was on the market for at least a year, empty, and most people just walked away, wanting a move in ready home. Always looking for my next "project", I couldn't pass it up. It's on a great piece of land. 23 years later, little did I know that this was ALL my next projects. Still working on fixing everything that was wrong (mechanicals first), additional building projects as needed and now, replacing some worn out original repairs finished while raising the family and working. Memories made. Memories to come.
I bet it is getting warmer in that cabin it is getting tighter and tighter.
Great completion, Shawn. It all looks so robust, solid, and strong in your cabin. I hope your contentment will last as long as the cabin will stand for a good many years! I respect your attitude to pay proper attention to tasks that are tough too.
My first thought when the video started was, "This is a guy who's doing what he was meant to do".
U are wonderful. being that sure is the way we want...............
There is NOTHING more appropriate than that the hope chest be in the cabin!
Thanks for filming Shawn. 👍😁
This last week I went to visit 91 year old friend of mine… never know when will be the last time I will see her in this realm.
Thanks Shawn!
Love watching your videos . The light keeps fading in and out when you are working inside the cabin .
Wise words. Happy Happy New Year to you and yours!!
Amazing work!
Love your new lights, thanks for this video now, I was so bored and then I saw you had a new one! Happy New Year to you and your family.
Awesome as always.🙏🏼😁
You, and your family, remind me almost every day, of things I learned as a child, that I now "re-remember," thanks to your "prodding!" When you talked about "the last time," I immediately thought of the last time I saw my mother before she died; . . . that memory brought a tear to my eye.
Watching your videos is like reading Cooper or Longfellow. I recently acquired a copy of a book called The Story of Hiawatha . . . adapted from The Song of Hiawatha (Longfellow) for children. I had a copy when I was a child. The story reminded me of how far humans have gone in their efforts to destroy the Earth. You and your family are that ray of hope that we may still learn to cherish our home.
Happy for you to have that done . Every that gets done is a great progress and a thankful feeling for the strsnght and wisdom God gives us.
I love your video, I enjoy with your Videos, thank you so much!!!
Thanks for the cool thoughts, Shawn!
Your work ethic and use of leverage is amazing....love the ruggedness of your design, built to last.
Your video thumbnail pics are getting better and better. Lol.
Have a great day.
Good job Shawn, take care.
Je ne me suis jamais assez dit..c'est la dernière fois..cela fait un écho nostalgique et douloureux, surtout au moment des fêtes..bon, je ne vais pas m'attendrir, ce n'est pas le lieu..Au travers de vos paroles, je sens quelqu'un de très sensible..vous êtes une belle personne😁. Bonne continuation, vous ne risquez pas d'avoir froid, vous êtes toujours en mouvement !!..
Great job!! Looking beautiful!! It won't be long!!! 🤩
I love your info and watching your talents.
Happy New year to you and your family. Wishing you the best~
I agree Shawn. That chest is beautiful that you built. 1994, the year I lost my Mother. 😢. I hope you find a great way to get rid of mice. I know that chinking is tedious and Im happy for how far you have come. Thank you for all you do to share your life.
I like these videos…touching base AND giving a sage piece of advice or words to live by. Good philosophy, I’m going to try to adopt that one👍
Looks fantastic 👍🏻✝️ great job.
it's easy to take our modern lives, as well as our loved ones for granted. but i think that the more often we reflect, the more often we are thankful for all that we have, and have had, the happier we can be as all that changes in front of us, and the more confidence we have when living in the here and now; depending on our own self reliance.
We filled a pastry bag & squeezed it into the joints.
That's a wonderful wisdom for natural life to live as it's the "last time for everything". Spiritually speaking it's even more beneficial.
Hello Shawn and Cali from Australia! Happy New Year, this cabin is sooo much more than the other one, although I enjoyed the first cabin procession you have done so much more already with this one! Maybe you saw where improvements were needed so this property is now going to be the end product of all your dreams, and maybe nightmares too! I am sure it is going to be comfortable and a wonderful home for you for a very long time! Have enjoyed watching and will continue, so as usual, give Cali a hug for me, take care and bye for now! 😃 👋 🇦🇺
thanks for sharing
Shawn my husband and I watch your channel tonight and we agree with what you said. We feel that way to.
Cabin with caulking color looks good and match the log colors.
Look forward to inside of cabin on everything plan to make and build. So rewarding when take pride in your work and look back on what make.
Love your wife Hope Chest you made for her. Tell made with love.
Shawn you and family and Callie stay warm and safe from cold weather and snow.
Try one of those heat meters and scan the walls for cold air areas.
Maravilloso como siempre
Thank you I enjoy you pod caste
wanted to let you know i love the cabin and love your videos you do