Hey, retired librarian here. My libraries don’t have smelly books. 😆 Great video except for that comment. I also have an iPhone 7. My kids kid me but it works great!
As an 'older' woman I grew up with parents who were in their teens during WW2, so having to be very frugal during that time, my parents learned never to be wasteful. The motto was: "Use it up, wear it out. Make it do, or do without". We learned to sew, mend, iron, bring our shoes to a shoemaker, take care of our clothes, and of course use up leftovers. Now in these ridiculously expensive economic times, me and my sisters - all with families - are not feeling terribly deprived of much since we have always learned to be thrifty wherever it's practical. Good lessons for all times and situations.
Yes to most of it! Agree with all points in principle, however I often buy new books from the local bookstore. I think bookstores are worth supporting because they often also do a lot to promote reading and for the community.
I rejected plastic storage containers in my kitchen for 20+ years. My wife eventually convinced me to get a big variety package of plastic bags. That was about 7 years ago. I'm glad I did. I don't use them much, and I often reuse them many times before I throw them out. I still have that same jumbo pack of plastic bags that I believe cost about $8. I never microwave anything in plastic.
If you want your house to smell nice it doesn't mean that your house needs cleaning. Sometimes it's nice to buy and live a little. No need for bad language. While some of this is truly sensible, I think digging that deep is a little much. Sometimes it's just nice to buy things you want because it makes you feel good. Living a little close to the bone.
I'm wondering if you have actually ever been in an out house, I have, and I can tell you that bath & body candles do not smell like that outhouse I used to have to go to. I remember when my grandparents got plumbing I also remember having to go to the outhouse a lot. I don't think you would be able to handle it if you think bath and body candles smell like an outhouse.
same here. In a typical week, I get like 10 books from the library and usually at least 3-4 of those are literally brand new releases that cost over 30 bucks new
Interesting. I agree with a lot of what you said. But some people are soothed and comforted by some essential oil smells. Some don’t use that to “cover up” other smells. I can’t explain why, but the smell of spearmint essential oil relaxes me and is better than any anti anxiety pill out there.
Enjoy your commentary except for 2 areas: You’re gutter language would make a sailor blush and just because you don’t like a product or service doesn’t mean somebody else can’t. I. E., If Starbucks is overpriced and tastes like “burnt shit”, maybe the next person really likes it
I agree 💯 same applies to those of us who like graphic printed clothing and enjoy the designs and colour. It doesn’t look childish at all, if she reworded and said she feels childish in it but if you can pull it off awesome…she’d come across a lot less judgemental
About the Holiday decor. Most of us that do it either have children or enjoy the aesthetic of it. I agree that it can get expensive easily but my family finds the challenge fun. Every year we make a new piece of decoration. So everything is DIY, cheap, and full of fun memories. just my two cents.
I agree with most of what you said, and don't buy a lot of things you don't buy or pay for, but I can't understand the judgment for others who do. For instance, to many people getting a card with a well-thought out message means a lot, and you can get cards fairly cheap at the dollar store. Also with Uber, I have a car and don't use Uber regularly, but I've done it a few times when my car was in the shop and no one was available to shuttle me back and forth to the mechanic's. There are a lot of good reasons for using them besides going out and getting plastered! ;) I think you are very wise beyond your years about money, but tolerance for people who are doing their best and not hurting anyone is an important lesson as well. Just MHO.
She does seem a tad to judge mental though a lot of her points are valid, but if I want to light a candle, I’m going to light a candle. A lot of this is common sense, but if you follow it to a tee, it seems to me your life could get a bit stark.
Libraries - lots of libraries have a certain amount of e-books, with an app to read them. It's great if you're on a reading kick, because you can literally borrow a book at 2am if you're in the mood. Also if you forget to return them, they just automatically go back at the end of the borrowing period. I like physical books too, but it can be a pain to keep going back/forth to the library if you're getting through a lot of books.
My husband and I have been going to libraries our whole life we've never encountered any smelly or tattered books. They go through the books pretty often and they give away the damaged ones for free. I've gotten tons of free books from the library.!!
I get books, magazines, DVDs from the library. NEVER are they even slightly damaged or smell bad. I will say my huge public library is 2 miles from my house and workplace so it's really very convenient. They also have fun free programs for adults like bingo with real prizes, 3D printer makerspace, author visits, art exhibits, free yoga twice a month, book swaps and so much more.
I sound so obsessed with libraries haha but they also have in addition to e-books a connection to something called Kanopy where you can stream 4 free movies every month just with a library card.
Great video, I agree with you on most things, but then I believe I have a similar personality to you. Just for example I live alone and have little need for other people--does that sound familiar? What I am saying is give a bit of slack for “normal “ people. They may need things that you or I find unnecessary or frivolous. I love your little dog-so cute. you should do a video all about him/her. How did you get him? The cost of keeping him,etc, Do you consider him a luxury? and all that?
Not trying to nitpick, but how does wool hurt animals? The sheep literally are getting a haircut and it’s made into material. I could understand the stance on down and leather, but can’t understand wool. I have seen what happens to sheep when they aren’t sheared, and I can promise you they aren’t happy being trapped under 6 plus inches of wool.
In the earliest days of humanity, people didn't buy anything, 'cause there was no money to buy anything... And they survived hundred of thousands of years without buying anything.
Lol you're funny you. Agree with most of the things here (except vegan, agree to disagree) everything else is hilarious. Second video seen from u. Subbed.
You have good content ❤ I also hate buying decorations, going to the nail salon, i also hate having to buy cards just for people to throw it away. Im using up all the candles and smells that i already have and dont plan on buying anymore candles My parents think im crazy for some of this. I want to go eco minimalism but its hard in the state im in.
I agree with the vast majority of these things you listed (not spending money on). Sometimes I do spend money on some of these items, but its never on a regular basis and I am always looking for ways to save money. When, I needed prescription eyeglasses (I bought Reading glasses at a pharmacy for $10, they were essentially the same frames you buy at optical place for $50 or more) and I just removed the lenses. I take the frames to an optical store and I get a quote on new frames plus lenses first. Then I tell them I am on a budget and ask how much just for the lenses if I provide my own frames (Its always cheaper, I don't care what they say on their advertisement material).
Also, how do you know that your clothes and food aren't farmed or processed by children and underpaid workers? Capitalism proves that low cost expenses are what brings the most profit. If these questions offend you, no need to answer and I won't ask any more questions. I actually do like your channel. It's fun.
I don’t buy art work. I paint & frame my own landscapes. I display only the pieces I’m proud of. The rest of the canvases are recycled/repainted until I get a good result. The knicknacks in my house either mean something or are made by a local artisan. No junk in my house.
Wow, this video just came on my feed and I was curious. After watching I just have to say you are just one ray of sunshine, aren't you /s. I get if something isn't for you, but dumping on someone else because they want their house to look like a home rather than a prison cell or like the smell of lavender or like a house to be festive at the holidays is just a little too holier than thou.
Good list! I do enjoy essential oils, but I don't buy a bunch. Essential oils have health benefits, so it's not about covering up a smell in my home. What clothing brands do you shop? I saw you wearing Nudie Jeans in one video. Also, you don't buy cosmetics, what about skin care products? SPF, moisturizers, etc?
I just found you over another video in 2023. I'm binge watching all of your videos now i do appriciate the Infos you are giving. However, no wonder it took a bit for you to blow up. This Condescending type of puring people down. For the smallest stuff is cringe.. I got such a good insight of how you would lash out omg. Also this stemms from your mom, you talk a lot about her. And you don't have to hate life... Do you, keep having fun producing videos but don't go too harsh it juat does not make you look good
And since you don't care about other people's option, it does not make you a nice person yourself for yourself.. You can't be loving if you let stuff out like that
I’m not a minimalist or a frugally liver but I found these videos interesting at first seeing an alternative lifestyle but it’s hard to warm to this girl, she comes across patronising with a superiority complex and looks down on anyone dares live differently instead of letting us into her world whilst accepting many don’t want this lifestyle. Repesct and acceptance to difference are what goes a long way.
I switched from using a lot of plastic storage bags for storing food to reusable plastic containers. I'm going to move to those glass containers when the current ones wear out. Thanks. Oh, and there's some relatively recent science on this - microwaving food in plastic is horrifically bad for you!
I stop my consumerism yesterday. I didn't go to the supermarket today, i didn't buy a latte, i ate whatever was going off soon in the fridge. I feel great. Let's hope this lasts. Only buying milk and petrol from now on.
Don’t do all the things you mentioned. I absolutely despise holiday decorations and wasteful cards. It’s weird how you’re either a sucker of the social constructs or you’re not. And mentally strong people are usually not and thus have savings as opposed to debt.
That Live Laugh Love comment made made me spit my tea across the room and the gum membership experience too. You could write comedy. I do laugh a lot about the ridiculous cons women buy into. I would feel like a fool walking past a homeless person carrying a designer purse in my Ralph Lauren boots. Life can be a freak show!
Laughed when you spoke about not buying a new car- I never have, and still drive a 26-year old Honda. Unfortunately, we can no longer buy the spare parts to fix it as little things go. The engine is sound as ever, of course!
I have a 2015 civic, about 140k miles rn. I stress about having get another car I never want to buy another one and a new car off the lot is just.... it's a scam and I'm not stupid.
Regina Fisher, I used to agree that Goodwill was a good place to shop. However when I learned that their CEO makes millions and he pays his employees below minimum wage, I stopped donating to them. I donate to my little local thrift stores now.
@@spir5102 how does he legally get away with paying people below the minimum wage wage? My cousin works at a Goodwill, I have friends that work at Goodwill, I know they don't make a whole lot but I don't think it's below the minimum wage. It's still keeps a lot of garbage that would be in a landfill out of one, I get what you mean by donating to a local thrift shop instead, the thing is they just don't get as much foot traffic most of them, I had a lady I was donating to, she just had to close her doors, she got plenty of stuff dropped off , it became a hoarded up situation, and she couldn't get rid of all the free stuff,lol, everyone has too much of everything. Goodwill does employ a lot of people, and help people with records get jobs.
Hi, just came onto your videos. I’m enjoying them, but was a little disappointed in this video and because you seem like a very aware and sensitive person that you use the Karen as a negative implication. there are people with the name of Karen that you may be insulting when you use their name even if you say that’s not what you’re trying to do doesn’t matter right. Fill in your name instead of Karen and let everybody get onto that. Ouch . Keep talking, but please leave out the Karen.
I liked that you shared your ways of frugality, planet friendliness, non exploitive living. It could inspire others who may wish to become more of those ideas in their lives. I enjoy fragrances sometimes and, when you spoke of those things as "making your house smell like a fucking outhouse, ok? That shit is disgusting", for a flash I felt ashamed, very disapproved of, and scorned. You lay out some put downs for those who do it wrong "according to Nicole". And that is your perogative to speak freely. Just speaking freely myself, I didn't like this video, might skip others
I like most of what she says, but disagree on the fragrances. A bestie of mine loves those candles and such, and it's always a positive experience for me when I go to her house. Nothing remotely like an outhouse. On the contrary! Smells so good, and makes me smile. Perhaps some fragrances are better than others....
Not buying bottled water is a privilege. We have a filtration system for our well water. We've tried Brita filter products. Our water is still horrible. It's been tested and it's safe to drink. But it has such high mineral content that it tastes awful. We can't stomach it. And we're blessed to even have safe tap water. There's a lot of people who don't even have that.
I do most of these things. I had my iPhone 7 until yesterday. And ran all my businesses through it, too. But it finally conked out. I need my camera function for two of my businesses. So, the upgrade is actually a tax deduction. And it saves me money, because I would have had to pay for a professional photographer to take pictures of the units I rent out.
Great video but I am afraid that your life might be a little dull. A dash of make up on your face from time to time would make you look great. I agree with you on clothes, my style is classic, I can wear something for five years and it needs to be really nice and comfortable. No junk, new car not necessary either.
Something I stopped buying is services to get my nails done. It might look like shit and not last as long, but I can do it myself. 60 dollars my ASS CHEEKS to get it done at a nail salon. I agree with the candle thing, although I’m still guilty of using them 😫 and yeah you’re right Starbucks isn’t all that, it really isn’t. But I still drink it if I have gift cards. Ive gotten to the point where I don’t get fast food anymore unless I have a free item or a gift card to use. It’s just too expensive and my budget doesn’t allow it
Status symbols incredibly differ and I have found that age groups have VERY different status symbols as well. Older friends I have in the 60+ crowd find my status symbol of a 15 to 20 yr old car that I paid cash for to be a phenomenal status symbol and ask how many miles I have on it. In the 20 to 25 age range I am considered "less than" based on my phone still working and doing everything I neeed it to and then some when it's a 6, going on 7 yr old model, but I don't have apps I don't need and I don't have take out apps, Uber Eats, Ride Shares, etc. because I have a fridge and my own paid off car. I have the same case on it all of the time for protection and it doesn't change daily like a set of earrings. My clothes are quality and not fast fashion or big labels across them. To the younger generation I am considered "lower" and I know how much those things cost and what a Need vs a Want is so I am fine with not being in that "cool crowd". It can also vary from person to person regardless of age or means, but these are generalizations I have found. They have the reusable silicone ziplocks now so they can be washed and you no longer need to buy ziplocks. However, if you plants your own garden and process it all some food do better frozen than canned and for those I will use freezer ziplocks over buying frozen vegetables from the store. I also have my own set of lunch/storage containers so whatever I make for a snack, sandwich, salad, soup, etc. I probably have a container for that I will bring it in and bring home and wash. Same with drinks and water bottles. I disagree on some animal products as I have sheep and believe me - they LOVE to be sheared!!!! or they are laying around overheating in the summer as their wool continues to grow so yearly shearing is healthy for them to maintain their body heat in the summer and how we ensure their skin is clear and doesn't get flaky. Lanolin is naturally produced by sheep in their wool, just like if you ran your hand through a humans hair it would have natural oils on it, a sheep's wool has lanolin in it and it makes it resistant to water, makes it soft, moisturizes, and I can run my hands through my sheep's wool and it will come out with lanolin on it just like if I used a hand cream that contained the product and my hands are now moisturized by combing my sheep's wool with my fingers. Same with my friends who have alpacas as they need to be sheared to not overheat. It doesn't mean hurting the animal in any way and we would do more harm to the animal by not shearing them. It's why I buy from QUALITY PRODUCERS who treat their animals extremely well, good feed, very well socialized, well groomed, well maintained space for the animals, etc. Not all animal products are torture. There are marketplaces and web stores for used books. I don't normally purchase a book for my home collection unless I have already read it and know it will be worth keeping to read again otherwise the library works just fine for me.
Great video, lots of good advice. With few exceptions, I also do not spend money on the thi gs you mention. Doing so affords me the opportunity to work less and spend more time enjoying life.
I think you have touch of knowing the price of everything but not the value of anything. People have Knick knacks in their homes for emotional reason in that they represent something - a person, a past event, a meaningful event. They maybe trash to some but gold to them; it is what being human is. Also some people (men and women) need make-up for their egos and self confidence; it gets them through life and a crutch it maybe but it is important for them. Otherwise you make an awful lot of good sense - fast fashion, books, anniversary cards etc. Thank you.
We do not buy a lot of these things. Great video! Some other items I don't buy or buy VERY rarely are paper towels, paper napkins, disposable plates and cups. It is so easy to use dish towels, rags, and proper cloth napkins and I prefer it by far. We go through about 2 rolls of paper towels per year in my household and most people I know go through that in a week.
Thanks Nicole, you crack me up, starbucks tastes like birdshit and that essential oils etc. make your house smell like a urinal cake 🤣🤣 The best! I agree with most points, except love libraries and re. clothes I buy mostly second hand and find some of those clothes who come from cheap shops originally last for several years and only cost me $3.
First off I love your videos I must say this 😀you remind me of peppermint Patty!!! You are a true live peppermint Patty in the flesh look forward to seeing more of your videos tell Chuck what's up LOL 😄
Nicole, I like your common sense, but I must point something out. Just because YOU see the only reason for an Apple watch being to show off doesn’t make that true in everyone’s mind. I like the easy phone functionality there on my wrist, as I have great disdain for getting phones out of my pockets all the time. Keep it up. I hope for your continued success.
ME2, I see I am not crazy by myself. Lol 1 no fast food, 2 nobody can make my coffee, sorry, 3 I shop for clothes I need, 4 I drive a mb because I work hard, it's a want. 5 no subscription, 6 no tech, 7 No Nicole this is major savings. When I cook a meal I use them for lunch bowls, mixed nuts or healthy snacks to go in zip locks. The cost of food vs cost of a box of zip lock? I will see about the glassware, ok 8 I boil water put in a glass bottle & refrigerate, 9 I don't eat chicken or beef 10 NO credit card, NO mortgage 11 I have been playing with makeup getting older I have been experimenting, lol 12 I have a bed & dresser, a table, a computer desk where I work 13 NO fashion 14 NO fragrance, NO COVER UP! 15 I do not celebrate holidays in any sense of the word. 16 I don't spend money on gifts 17 2nd hand reigns 18 No books, 19 Never ride share I drive 20 NO gym Nicole, I THINK I LOVE YOU, IT IS A PLEASURE TO MEET MY TWIN, THANK YOU.
Love the Honda vs Mercedes example. I used to drive a hammy down Mercedes and I hated it. It was expensive to maintain and I didn't like the kind attention it gave me (even the supposed positive because it was shallow). As soon as it kicked the bucket, I got a much cheaper Honda and I'm so much happier with it.
Decorating for a holiday is a must for me. Without any kind of outward signs, what would make any holiday special? Yes, so much of it is a commercial scam. There's a sugar rush for every holiday, along with paper and plastic crap we hang on walls and our doors, but some of it is very nice when done tastefully. I suppose you could attempt to psychoanalyze the reasons why people need all of this stuff, but there's no doubt it does improve people's mood.
I can relate to most of the things you have mentioned. I enjoy watching your videos and always look forward to something new. Its very rare that I buy something that has newly arrived or without some discount. I bought a new car although I knew its a depreciating asset because I want to have it for good number of years. Water, coffee and fast food I strongly agree with what you have said. Saves a lot of money,
You don't like TUPPERWARE 😢 I have Tupperware and they last forever if you look after them . I rather pack my lunch to work in a Tupperware than disposable plastic bags
The last car I purchased was in 2020 and it was a 2018 Ford Escape with only 5,000 miles. It still had the brand-new smell to it, turns out it was leased and the people rarely drove it. I saved 50% on the new price. A year later I paid off the 20K so I don't have a car payment and this is a vehicle I will drive until it doesn't move. I think the only thing of these 20 I do purchase is bottled water. I'm on the road a lot and it's very convenient for me.
I am in my seventies, come from a house of substance abuse and violence. My relatives would do nothing, and schools and Gov't offices would just phone my house. So I've been on my own since 10. I learned very fast how to survive by relying on myself. You are wiser than 99% of people!!!!! Have as little as possible to do with them. I had a vasectomy as a young man, always lived alone, and been honest with all my girlfriends. Yes, it was not easy when some I loved broke it off to go have children, or just wanted to live with/marry someone. I have had a great life, and very happy to be me😁
I am thriving for more conscious buying, especially with clothes. What I would be curious about is what type of shoes do you wear on winter when it’s raining or snowing? I couldn’t find any good alternative for leather boots (artificial leather does not breathe, I tried those). Do you have any suggestions?
Amen to Starbucks tasting like burnt 💩! 😆 So acidic and nasty. I have no clue why people like it. Now if you cover up the coffee in sugar, syrup, whipped cream etc I guess but the coffee 🤢.
Like you accept the language is a bit much, I am old and do not like it. You may lose subscriptions over it. I am a great grandmother so excuse me but had to tell ya. We are vegan too. I call it plant base. I buy almost everything used. I do like to decorate but not for every fad. Have been downsizing lately. You do not need makeup your very pretty young lady. I do like your channel, and you did a good job. I do not like signs to much either. I do not need a sign that tells me my kitchen is a kitchen. I do home decor but they are long lasting. I wear t shirts and shorts in summer, jeans in winter, and then have cloths for going to store, or church. I agree with scents, I have allergies. Your right about it. I do buy Holiday decor, Use to put up a tree but no more. I do change out just add fall colored flowers to silk arrangements one pumpkin, change pillow cover, and the leaves in the vases in hall. Christmas is a few trees on a gold tray and a wood sign saying merry christmas, a lite bell large bulb where pumpkin is and I change two pillow covers, leaves to pine in vases, put white poinsettias on dining table. Done. After ax mas fall goes back out accept the pumpkin. Spring change to light pillow cover two pillows and one is embroidered bird pillow, throws become lighter. Easy peasy. I stopped buying decor, and got rid of a lot. My Grandmother hated scents too. I am like you, if your house is clean it smells good. Peace!
Actually, I don't think most treadmills have the speed setting as mph or kph... That 10 was just a setting. I wish treads mills had setting that directly corresponded with a rate of speed, though. It would make training that much more efficient.
People aren’t idiots for buying cute decorative items, if it serves a psychological need. My mom likes that stuff, but has reasons from childhood that make these items important. It’s not my thing, but I wouldn’t make fun of others
I love, love, love your videos! You speak to my soul. I feel so happy to know that there is at least one other person out there who can say no and reject all of this bullshit in our society. Thank you Nicole. Just…thank you.
I was a big early adopter of new tech. I am still an enthusiast, but I no longer upgrade quite so regularly, knowing now of the e-waste problems. Instead, I replace items when they break, or if the upgrade offers compelling new functionality that would be of genuine benefit. If the newest thing is just the same thing but slightly faster, then I am better off saving my money and not adding more stuff to junk piles overseas.
Isn’t it amazing how some FFs have crept into the grocery stores frozen section? Especially sliders, the term itself is tainted and jaded in the unknown.
I’ve cut out Xmas cards unless it’s someone living too far away that I don’t see. I phone them instead. I do send family birthday cards (4 only). as it’s the thought that counts especially when you put a personal greeting in.
You are funny I enjoy your good Common sense. I agree with you on most of it, but I must say I love candles because they make me feel cozy and I enjoy rose scented candles. They make me feel happy other than that I also like small gyms that focus on one type of method I love classes I love group exercise because it keeps me motivated because I don’t like to exercise alone except for hiking I’ll do that alone but things like pure barre. It’s a great place because it’s a group exercise that makes you feel good in mind and body and you can actually feel your body getting stronger and looking nicer. I agree about the Starbucks thing to that is so overrated and I just don’t understand it at all why people would pay seven dollars for a Frappuccino ridiculous. Anyway, I really enjoy your videos and I’ve learned a lot from you so thank you for putting it out there.
I also don't buy/ have 99% of the things you mentioned in the video, never needed them, don't want them 😂 I thought it was normal to live like this though 😂
Hey, retired librarian here. My libraries don’t have smelly books. 😆 Great video except for that comment. I also have an iPhone 7. My kids kid me but it works great!
As an 'older' woman I grew up with parents who were in their teens during WW2, so having to be very frugal during that time, my parents learned never to be wasteful. The motto was:
"Use it up, wear it out.
Make it do, or do without".
We learned to sew, mend, iron, bring our shoes to a shoemaker, take care of our clothes, and of course use up leftovers.
Now in these ridiculously expensive economic times, me and my sisters - all with families - are not feeling terribly deprived of much since we have always learned to be thrifty wherever it's practical. Good lessons for all times and situations.
I love your honesty & vulnerability! Esp your sense of humour! Never stop being UNIQUELY YOU. Loving all your content. Keep em coming xx
Fellow vegan minimalist here. I love your channel!! 💯
You’re such a capitalism fighter! I loved this video and I really wish I listened to this when I was a teenager! Thanks you Nicole ❤
Yes to most of it! Agree with all points in principle, however I often buy new books from the local bookstore. I think bookstores are worth supporting because they often also do a lot to promote reading and for the community.
Very fair point. Unfortunately the only real bookstore near me is a giant multimillion dollar chain. Nothing worthy of supporting.
I too buy my own books, I like having them around. They serve me once for reading and then a second time as decor
I rejected plastic storage containers in my kitchen for 20+ years. My wife eventually convinced me to get a big variety package of plastic bags. That was about 7 years ago. I'm glad I did. I don't use them much, and I often reuse them many times before I throw them out. I still have that same jumbo pack of plastic bags that I believe cost about $8. I never microwave anything in plastic.
If you want your house to smell nice it doesn't mean that your house needs cleaning. Sometimes it's nice to buy and live a little. No need for bad language. While some of this is truly sensible, I think digging that deep is a little much. Sometimes it's just nice to buy things you want because it makes you feel good. Living a little close to the bone.
I'm wondering if you have actually ever been in an out house, I have, and I can tell you that bath & body candles do not smell like that outhouse I used to have to go to. I remember when my grandparents got plumbing I also remember having to go to the outhouse a lot. I don't think you would be able to handle it if you think bath and body candles smell like an outhouse.
Totally on board with the branded clothing. We should get paid for wearing them.😃
I bought a French Press on Amazon for $26.00 and the coffee tastes better than Starbucks. The best $26.00 bucks I ever spent!
I love the library so much. I get video games there too, which is one of my favorite hobbys. The library has saved me SO much money
same here. In a typical week, I get like 10 books from the library and usually at least 3-4 of those are literally brand new releases that cost over 30 bucks new
Interesting. I agree with a lot of what you said. But some people are soothed and comforted by some essential oil smells. Some don’t use that to “cover up” other smells. I can’t explain why, but the smell of spearmint essential oil relaxes me and is better than any anti anxiety pill out there.
Enjoy your commentary except for 2 areas: You’re gutter language would make a sailor blush and just because you don’t like a product or service doesn’t mean somebody else can’t. I. E., If Starbucks is overpriced and tastes like “burnt shit”, maybe the next person really likes it
I agree 💯 same applies to those of us who like graphic printed clothing and enjoy the designs and colour. It doesn’t look childish at all, if she reworded and said she feels childish in it but if you can pull it off awesome…she’d come across a lot less judgemental
i don't necessarily agree with everything you say, but i LOVE your passion and tips and adherence to ur values. glad i found ur channel!!!
About the Holiday decor. Most of us that do it either have children or enjoy the aesthetic of it. I agree that it can get expensive easily but my family finds the challenge fun. Every year we make a new piece of decoration. So everything is DIY, cheap, and full of fun memories. just my two cents.
I agree with most of what you said, and don't buy a lot of things you don't buy or pay for, but I can't understand the judgment for others who do. For instance, to many people getting a card with a well-thought out message means a lot, and you can get cards fairly cheap at the dollar store. Also with Uber, I have a car and don't use Uber regularly, but I've done it a few times when my car was in the shop and no one was available to shuttle me back and forth to the mechanic's. There are a lot of good reasons for using them besides going out and getting plastered! ;) I think you are very wise beyond your years about money, but tolerance for people who are doing their best and not hurting anyone is an important lesson as well. Just MHO.
I think it is all about what adds value to your life we all have different things we are willing and not willing to spend our money on
@@Smfb123 - ppl are entitled to provide feedback, good one at that.
She does seem a tad to judge mental though a lot of her points are valid, but if I want to light a candle, I’m going to light a candle. A lot of this is common sense, but if you follow it to a tee, it seems to me your life could get a bit stark.
Yes. The mechanic, the body shop, and the auto parts store are the only places I've used Lyft for.
No one gets a card, & thinks anything more than 'that was nice'...
Hmmmmm... can’t agree with some points. But that’s great if it works for you
Libraries - lots of libraries have a certain amount of e-books, with an app to read them. It's great if you're on a reading kick, because you can literally borrow a book at 2am if you're in the mood. Also if you forget to return them, they just automatically go back at the end of the borrowing period. I like physical books too, but it can be a pain to keep going back/forth to the library if you're getting through a lot of books.
My husband and I have been going to libraries our whole life we've never encountered any smelly or tattered books. They go through the books pretty often and they give away the damaged ones for free. I've gotten tons of free books from the library.!!
I get books, magazines, DVDs from the library. NEVER are they even slightly damaged or smell bad. I will say my huge public library is 2 miles from my house and workplace so it's really very convenient. They also have fun free programs for adults like bingo with real prizes, 3D printer makerspace, author visits, art exhibits, free yoga twice a month, book swaps and so much more.
I sound so obsessed with libraries haha but they also have in addition to e-books a connection to something called Kanopy where you can stream 4 free movies every month just with a library card.
Wow not long ago I found this channel. Love it.
Watching your videos have compelled me to make some changes in my expenses. After only watching a few vids and subscribing. I’ve saved $100 a month.
A new, economy car, fairly priced....is the way to go for me. I keep my cars to the bloody end...well over a decade. Works for me.
Great video, I agree with you on most things, but then I believe I have a similar personality to you. Just for example I live alone and have little need for other people--does that sound familiar?
What I am saying is give a bit of slack for “normal “ people. They may need things that you or I find unnecessary or frivolous.
I love your little dog-so cute. you should do a video all about him/her. How did you get him? The cost of keeping him,etc, Do you consider him a luxury? and all that?
I lost my shit at the part about scented oils and air fresheners. Hilarious.
Not trying to nitpick, but how does wool hurt animals? The sheep literally are getting a haircut and it’s made into material. I could understand the stance on down and leather, but can’t understand wool. I have seen what happens to sheep when they aren’t sheared, and I can promise you they aren’t happy being trapped under 6 plus inches of wool.
In the earliest days of humanity, people didn't buy anything, 'cause there was no money to buy anything... And they survived hundred of thousands of years without buying anything.
Lol you're funny you. Agree with most of the things here (except vegan, agree to disagree) everything else is hilarious. Second video seen from u. Subbed.
You have good content ❤
I also hate buying decorations, going to the nail salon, i also hate having to buy cards just for people to throw it away.
Im using up all the candles and smells that i already have and dont plan on buying anymore candles
My parents think im crazy for some of this.
I want to go eco minimalism but its hard in the state im in.
You don't have to buy expensive candles but I think it's important to have candles when power goes out
Have flashlights. Safer.
I agree with the vast majority of these things you listed (not spending money on). Sometimes I do spend money on some of these items, but its never on a regular basis and I am always looking for ways to save money. When, I needed prescription eyeglasses (I bought Reading glasses at a pharmacy for $10, they were essentially the same frames you buy at optical place for $50 or more) and I just removed the lenses. I take the frames to an optical store and I get a quote on new frames plus lenses first. Then I tell them I am on a budget and ask how much just for the lenses if I provide my own frames (Its always cheaper, I don't care what they say on their advertisement material).
Love this!
I don’t buy books either, but I have to say I love my library. True, some of the books are dirty but overall they are in good condition. 😊
Also, how do you know that your clothes and food aren't farmed or processed by children and underpaid workers? Capitalism proves that low cost expenses are what brings the most profit. If these questions offend you, no need to answer and I won't ask any more questions. I actually do like your channel. It's fun.
I don’t buy art work. I paint & frame my own landscapes. I display only the pieces I’m proud of. The rest of the canvases are recycled/repainted until I get a good result. The knicknacks in my house either mean something or are made by a local artisan. No junk in my house.
Wow, this video just came on my feed and I was curious. After watching I just have to say you are just one ray of sunshine, aren't you /s. I get if something isn't for you, but dumping on someone else because they want their house to look like a home rather than a prison cell or like the smell of lavender or like a house to be festive at the holidays is just a little too holier than thou.
I always say the same, why would I give them money to be their billboard!
About eating grass, I'm not with you. I love meat and eat it gladly.
Good list! I do enjoy essential oils, but I don't buy a bunch. Essential oils have health benefits, so it's not about covering up a smell in my home.
What clothing brands do you shop? I saw you wearing Nudie Jeans in one video.
Also, you don't buy cosmetics, what about skin care products? SPF, moisturizers, etc?
I just found you over another video in 2023. I'm binge watching all of your videos now i do appriciate the Infos you are giving. However, no wonder it took a bit for you to blow up. This Condescending type of puring people down. For the smallest stuff is cringe.. I got such a good insight of how you would lash out omg. Also this stemms from your mom, you talk a lot about her. And you don't have to hate life... Do you, keep having fun producing videos but don't go too harsh it juat does not make you look good
And since you don't care about other people's option, it does not make you a nice person yourself for yourself.. You can't be loving if you let stuff out like that
I’m not a minimalist or a frugally liver but I found these videos interesting at first seeing an alternative lifestyle but it’s hard to warm to this girl, she comes across patronising with a superiority complex and looks down on anyone dares live differently instead of letting us into her world whilst accepting many don’t want this lifestyle. Repesct and acceptance to difference are what goes a long way.
I switched from using a lot of plastic storage bags for storing food to reusable plastic containers. I'm going to move to those glass containers when the current ones wear out. Thanks.
Oh, and there's some relatively recent science on this - microwaving food in plastic is horrifically bad for you!
I’m glad I found your channel! We have a lot in common. 😊 I really like your content.
I stop my consumerism yesterday. I didn't go to the supermarket today, i didn't buy a latte, i ate whatever was going off soon in the fridge. I feel great. Let's hope this lasts. Only buying milk and petrol from now on.
If you do mobile banking, then it might pay off to have a better phone for security reasons.
If you aren’t in an area that someone can give you a ride, an Uber to the airport can save you a bunch over parking at the airport.
I already thought you were great, then you tell me you are vegan too!
Oh man, made me LOL "starbucks tastes like Sh** like burnt shi*!" TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!
I think she said "starbucks tastes like birdshit" made me laugh 😂
Don’t do all the things you mentioned. I absolutely despise holiday decorations and wasteful cards. It’s weird how you’re either a sucker of the social constructs or you’re not. And mentally strong people are usually not and thus have savings as opposed to debt.
That Live Laugh Love comment made made me spit my tea across the room and the gum membership experience too. You could write comedy. I do laugh a lot about the ridiculous cons women buy into. I would feel like a fool walking past a homeless person carrying a designer purse in my Ralph Lauren boots. Life can be a freak show!
Yankee doodle 🤣🤣🤣
Day two of binge watching your content, and I LOVE your bluntness. I’m on board with just about everything you listed. 🎉
You were feisty in this one 😂. It cracked me up
Laughed when you spoke about not buying a new car- I never have, and still drive a 26-year old Honda. Unfortunately, we can no longer buy the spare parts to fix it as little things go. The engine is sound as ever, of course!
I have a 2015 civic, about 140k miles rn. I stress about having get another car I never want to buy another one and a new car off the lot is just.... it's a scam and I'm not stupid.
Shop at Goodwill recycle reuse don't let things go into the landfill, you can create a great capsule wardrobe from Goodwill.
Regina Fisher, I used to agree that Goodwill was a good place to shop. However when I learned that their CEO makes millions and he pays his employees below minimum wage, I stopped donating to them. I donate to my little local thrift stores now.
@@spir5102 how does he legally get away with paying people below the minimum wage wage? My cousin works at a Goodwill, I have friends that work at Goodwill, I know they don't make a whole lot but I don't think it's below the minimum wage. It's still keeps a lot of garbage that would be in a landfill out of one, I get what you mean by donating to a local thrift shop instead, the thing is they just don't get as much foot traffic most of them, I had a lady I was donating to, she just had to close her doors, she got plenty of stuff dropped off , it became a hoarded up situation, and she couldn't get rid of all the free stuff,lol, everyone has too much of everything. Goodwill does employ a lot of people, and help people with records get jobs.
Bravo for calling out greeting cards and holiday decor - these events have become over the top wasteful
I'd like to know where you buy clothing though.
Hi, just came onto your videos. I’m enjoying them, but was a little disappointed in this video and because you seem like a very aware and sensitive person that you use the Karen as a negative implication. there are people with the name of Karen that you may be insulting when you use their name even if you say that’s not what you’re trying to do doesn’t matter right.
Fill in your name instead of Karen and let everybody get onto that. Ouch .
Keep talking, but please leave out the Karen.
lol of course your name is Ken 😂😂😂
I liked that you shared your ways of frugality, planet friendliness, non exploitive living. It could inspire others who may wish to become more of those ideas in their lives. I enjoy fragrances sometimes and, when you spoke of those things as "making your house smell like a fucking outhouse, ok? That shit is disgusting", for a flash I felt ashamed, very disapproved of, and scorned. You lay out some put downs for those who do it wrong "according to Nicole". And that is your perogative to speak freely. Just speaking freely myself, I didn't like this video, might skip others
I like most of what she says, but disagree on the fragrances. A bestie of mine loves those candles and such, and it's always a positive experience for me when I go to her house. Nothing remotely like an outhouse. On the contrary! Smells so good, and makes me smile. Perhaps some fragrances are better than others....
Not buying bottled water is a privilege. We have a filtration system for our well water. We've tried Brita filter products. Our water is still horrible. It's been tested and it's safe to drink. But it has such high mineral content that it tastes awful. We can't stomach it. And we're blessed to even have safe tap water. There's a lot of people who don't even have that.
I do most of these things. I had my iPhone 7 until yesterday. And ran all my businesses through it, too. But it finally conked out. I need my camera function for two of my businesses. So, the upgrade is actually a tax deduction. And it saves me money, because I would have had to pay for a professional photographer to take pictures of the units I rent out.
Sorry Nicole you lost me in the VEGAN 😮
Great video but I am afraid that your life might be a little dull. A dash of make up on your face from time to time would make you look great. I agree with you on clothes, my style is classic, I can wear something for five years and it needs to be really nice and comfortable. No junk, new car not necessary either.
Telling the truth gets you in much more trouble than telling lies ever does, so it pleases me to see so many comments praising you.
Wool doesn’t harm the animal they need it cut and nothing keeps you warmer on a cold winter day.
Something I stopped buying is services to get my nails done. It might look like shit and not last as long, but I can do it myself. 60 dollars my ASS CHEEKS to get it done at a nail salon. I agree with the candle thing, although I’m still guilty of using them 😫 and yeah you’re right Starbucks isn’t all that, it really isn’t. But I still drink it if I have gift cards. Ive gotten to the point where I don’t get fast food anymore unless I have a free item or a gift card to use. It’s just too expensive and my budget doesn’t allow it
Status symbols incredibly differ and I have found that age groups have VERY different status symbols as well. Older friends I have in the 60+ crowd find my status symbol of a 15 to 20 yr old car that I paid cash for to be a phenomenal status symbol and ask how many miles I have on it.
In the 20 to 25 age range I am considered "less than" based on my phone still working and doing everything I neeed it to and then some when it's a 6, going on 7 yr old model, but I don't have apps I don't need and I don't have take out apps, Uber Eats, Ride Shares, etc. because I have a fridge and my own paid off car. I have the same case on it all of the time for protection and it doesn't change daily like a set of earrings. My clothes are quality and not fast fashion or big labels across them. To the younger generation I am considered "lower" and I know how much those things cost and what a Need vs a Want is so I am fine with not being in that "cool crowd".
It can also vary from person to person regardless of age or means, but these are generalizations I have found.
They have the reusable silicone ziplocks now so they can be washed and you no longer need to buy ziplocks. However, if you plants your own garden and process it all some food do better frozen than canned and for those I will use freezer ziplocks over buying frozen vegetables from the store.
I also have my own set of lunch/storage containers so whatever I make for a snack, sandwich, salad, soup, etc. I probably have a container for that I will bring it in and bring home and wash. Same with drinks and water bottles.
I disagree on some animal products as I have sheep and believe me - they LOVE to be sheared!!!! or they are laying around overheating in the summer as their wool continues to grow so yearly shearing is healthy for them to maintain their body heat in the summer and how we ensure their skin is clear and doesn't get flaky. Lanolin is naturally produced by sheep in their wool, just like if you ran your hand through a humans hair it would have natural oils on it, a sheep's wool has lanolin in it and it makes it resistant to water, makes it soft, moisturizes, and I can run my hands through my sheep's wool and it will come out with lanolin on it just like if I used a hand cream that contained the product and my hands are now moisturized by combing my sheep's wool with my fingers. Same with my friends who have alpacas as they need to be sheared to not overheat. It doesn't mean hurting the animal in any way and we would do more harm to the animal by not shearing them. It's why I buy from QUALITY PRODUCERS who treat their animals extremely well, good feed, very well socialized, well groomed, well maintained space for the animals, etc. Not all animal products are torture.
There are marketplaces and web stores for used books. I don't normally purchase a book for my home collection unless I have already read it and know it will be worth keeping to read again otherwise the library works just fine for me.
I love your videos. You are an inspiration for me to get my sh*t together with my finances. And I’m 46.
Great video, lots of good advice. With few exceptions, I also do not spend money on the thi gs you mention. Doing so affords me the opportunity to work less and spend more time enjoying life.
I think you have touch of knowing the price of everything but not the value of anything. People have Knick knacks in their homes for emotional reason in that they represent something - a person, a past event, a meaningful event. They maybe trash to some but gold to them; it is what being human is. Also some people (men and women) need make-up for their egos and self confidence; it gets them through life and a crutch it maybe but it is important for them. Otherwise you make an awful lot of good sense - fast fashion, books, anniversary cards etc. Thank you.
Can’t help but watch Levi in the back 😅
You crack me up 🤣👆 & think a lot like like a man 👨
We do not buy a lot of these things. Great video! Some other items I don't buy or buy VERY rarely are paper towels, paper napkins, disposable plates and cups. It is so easy to use dish towels, rags, and proper cloth napkins and I prefer it by far. We go through about 2 rolls of paper towels per year in my household and most people I know go through that in a week.
Thanks Nicole, you crack me up, starbucks tastes like birdshit and that essential oils etc. make your house smell like a urinal cake 🤣🤣 The best! I agree with most points, except love libraries and re. clothes I buy mostly second hand and find some of those clothes who come from cheap shops originally last for several years and only cost me $3.
First off I love your videos I must say this 😀you remind me of peppermint Patty!!! You are a true live peppermint Patty in the flesh look forward to seeing more of your videos tell Chuck what's up LOL 😄
I only use Uber to drive to the airport and back because no one wants to do it and I don’t want to pay for parking while on vacation.
That makes perfect sense!
Nicole, I like your common sense, but I must point something out. Just because YOU see the only reason for an Apple watch being to show off doesn’t make that true in everyone’s mind. I like the easy phone functionality there on my wrist, as I have great disdain for getting phones out of my pockets all the time. Keep it up. I hope for your continued success.
Candles are good to have when the power goes out. I wouldn't buy the expensive ones for that though
ME2, I see I am not crazy by myself. Lol 1 no fast food, 2 nobody can make my coffee, sorry, 3 I shop for clothes I need, 4 I drive a mb because I work hard, it's a want. 5 no subscription, 6 no tech, 7 No Nicole this is major savings. When I cook a meal I use them for lunch bowls, mixed nuts or healthy snacks to go in zip locks. The cost of food vs cost of a box of zip lock? I will see about the glassware, ok 8 I boil water put in a glass bottle & refrigerate, 9 I don't eat chicken or beef 10 NO credit card, NO mortgage 11 I have been playing with makeup getting older I have been experimenting, lol 12 I have a bed & dresser, a table, a computer desk where I work 13 NO fashion 14 NO fragrance, NO COVER UP! 15 I do not celebrate holidays in any sense of the word. 16 I don't spend money on gifts 17 2nd hand reigns 18 No books, 19 Never ride share I drive 20 NO gym Nicole, I THINK I LOVE YOU, IT IS A PLEASURE TO MEET MY TWIN, THANK YOU.
Love the Honda vs Mercedes example. I used to drive a hammy down Mercedes and I hated it. It was expensive to maintain and I didn't like the kind attention it gave me (even the supposed positive because it was shallow). As soon as it kicked the bucket, I got a much cheaper Honda and I'm so much happier with it.
Get your hair fixed woman!
Enjoyed your list . I am 50 years old and have never had coffee . I prefer water .
Decorating for a holiday is a must for me. Without any kind of outward signs, what would make any holiday special? Yes, so much of it is a commercial scam. There's a sugar rush for every holiday, along with paper and plastic crap we hang on walls and our doors, but some of it is very nice when done tastefully. I suppose you could attempt to psychoanalyze the reasons why people need all of this stuff, but there's no doubt it does improve people's mood.
I can relate to most of the things you have mentioned. I enjoy watching your videos and always look forward to something new. Its very rare that I buy something that has newly arrived or without some discount. I bought a new car although I knew its a depreciating asset because I want to have it for good number of years. Water, coffee and fast food I strongly agree with what you have said. Saves a lot of money,
Looking like a weirdow is just in the head of others. "is that your pyjama?" "If you want it to be a pyjama, it might be..." Don't give a F*.
You don't like TUPPERWARE 😢 I have Tupperware and they last forever if you look after them . I rather pack my lunch to work in a Tupperware than disposable plastic bags
The last car I purchased was in 2020 and it was a 2018 Ford Escape with only 5,000 miles. It still had the brand-new smell to it, turns out it was leased and the people rarely drove it. I saved 50% on the new price. A year later I paid off the 20K so I don't have a car payment and this is a vehicle I will drive until it doesn't move. I think the only thing of these 20 I do purchase is bottled water. I'm on the road a lot and it's very convenient for me.
I am in my seventies, come from a house of substance abuse and violence. My relatives would do nothing, and schools and Gov't offices would just phone my house. So I've been on my own since 10. I learned very fast how to survive by relying on myself. You are wiser than 99% of people!!!!! Have as little as possible to do with them.
I had a vasectomy as a young man, always lived alone, and been honest with all my girlfriends. Yes, it was not easy when some I loved broke it off to go have children, or just wanted to live with/marry someone. I have had a great life, and very happy to be me😁
Why apple ? An Android is a Lot Cheaper and works just as well. Or am I missing something ? I really do not care. I am just curious.
RE: Makeup... When the ship needs painting... paint it....
I am thriving for more conscious buying, especially with clothes. What I would be curious about is what type of shoes do you wear on winter when it’s raining or snowing? I couldn’t find any good alternative for leather boots (artificial leather does not breathe, I tried those). Do you have any suggestions?
Amen to Starbucks tasting like burnt 💩! 😆 So acidic and nasty. I have no clue why people like it. Now if you cover up the coffee in sugar, syrup, whipped cream etc I guess but the coffee 🤢.
Like you accept the language is a bit much, I am old and do not like it. You may lose subscriptions over it. I am a great grandmother so excuse me but had to tell ya. We are vegan too. I call it plant base. I buy almost everything used. I do like to decorate but not for every fad. Have been downsizing lately. You do not need makeup your very pretty young lady. I do like your channel, and you did a good job. I do not like signs to much either. I do not need a sign that tells me my kitchen is a kitchen. I do home decor but they are long lasting. I wear t shirts and shorts in summer, jeans in winter, and then have cloths for going to store, or church. I agree with scents, I have allergies. Your right about it. I do buy Holiday decor, Use to put up a tree but no more. I do change out just add fall colored flowers to silk arrangements one pumpkin, change pillow cover, and the leaves in the vases in hall. Christmas is a few trees on a gold tray and a wood sign saying merry christmas, a lite bell large bulb where pumpkin is and I change two pillow covers, leaves to pine in vases, put white poinsettias on dining table. Done. After ax mas fall goes back out accept the pumpkin. Spring change to light pillow cover two pillows and one is embroidered bird pillow, throws become lighter. Easy peasy. I stopped buying decor, and got rid of a lot. My Grandmother hated scents too. I am like you, if your house is clean it smells good. Peace!
Actually, I don't think most treadmills have the speed setting as mph or kph... That 10 was just a setting. I wish treads mills had setting that directly corresponded with a rate of speed, though. It would make training that much more efficient.
People aren’t idiots for buying cute decorative items, if it serves a psychological need. My mom likes that stuff, but has reasons from childhood that make these items important. It’s not my thing, but I wouldn’t make fun of others
Yeah, she's really rude and judgmental.
I love, love, love your videos! You speak to my soul. I feel so happy to know that there is at least one other person out there who can say no and reject all of this bullshit in our society. Thank you Nicole. Just…thank you.
I was a big early adopter of new tech. I am still an enthusiast, but I no longer upgrade quite so regularly, knowing now of the e-waste problems. Instead, I replace items when they break, or if the upgrade offers compelling new functionality that would be of genuine benefit. If the newest thing is just the same thing but slightly faster, then I am better off saving my money and not adding more stuff to junk piles overseas.
I especially hate “ROOTS” slapped on your behinds.
Lots of local thrift stores have good books… I make a list of ones I’m interested in and see if they have them.
I love makeup! Accenting your natural beauty can be a great confidence builder.
Start working on the inner beauty of heart mind and soul. Conspirators SW cosmetics will never enhance the beauty of the face of an empty soul.
status symbols are sometimes useful as well, an omega or patek(watches) are beautiful made things.....
Isn’t it amazing how some FFs have crept into the grocery stores frozen section? Especially sliders, the term itself is tainted and jaded in the unknown.
I’ve cut out Xmas cards unless it’s someone living too far away that I don’t see. I phone them instead. I do send family birthday cards (4 only). as it’s the thought that counts especially when you put a personal greeting in.
Your home is lovely! What an achievement clever girl! Wise beyond your year's. Don't sweat the small stuff, because IT'S ALL SMALL STUFF.😮
You are funny I enjoy your good Common sense. I agree with you on most of it, but I must say I love candles because they make me feel cozy and I enjoy rose scented candles. They make me feel happy other than that I also like small gyms that focus on one type of method I love classes I love group exercise because it keeps me motivated because I don’t like to exercise alone except for hiking I’ll do that alone but things like pure barre. It’s a great place because it’s a group exercise that makes you feel good in mind and body and you can actually feel your body getting stronger and looking nicer. I agree about the Starbucks thing to that is so overrated and I just don’t understand it at all why people would pay seven dollars for a Frappuccino ridiculous. Anyway, I really enjoy your videos and I’ve learned a lot from you so thank you for putting it out there.
I also don't buy/ have 99% of the things you mentioned in the video, never needed them, don't want them 😂 I thought it was normal to live like this though 😂