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I'm sad Caleb I was really looking forward to this. But in the video it says the offer expires yesterday. 02/29/2024 but the video was released on March 1st. Saddays
Something she is leaving unsaid but I think its first in her mind is she wants to find a guy so she can stay home and not work. Truth? If she lost some weight she is actually quite pretty, has nice hands and a pleasant voice. If she lost some weight, and I dont even mean skinny, I mean just lose 40lbs she would be more shapely. Lots of guys would be fine with her being at home as long as she isnt lazy and keeps the excess weight off.
We're finally seeing the problems caused by those financial bros and gurus online. She literally believes it's THAT easy to make it. Caleb even said it. She's been sold a dream.
Yeah but she is just saying thought bubbles, her statements are untethered to anything, just complete random words FIRE, travel, 30k, future, 1 million its all just complete nonsense.
@@MegaJohnnycageshe doesn’t really understand the concept of travel. Like being a long haul trucker and going to Cali and not being able to afford LA. She doesn’t realise she is traveling. It’s not the destination but the journey. She may not go to LA this time but she might in the future but she still traveling. Make the most of what you have. She would go to the Eiffel Tower and say ‘I wanna go to the Eiffel tower’ staring at her phone. And someone says ‘you’re at the Eiffel tower’ looks up uninterested and says ‘oh is that it?’ Stares at her phone.
I just cant beileve she considers herself a truck driver. I've grown up in a trucking family, what my dad and uncles did for a living. What this shows is how badly the requirements have gone down. An owner operator use to know his rig inside and out and yet modern drivers barely do pre trip inspection. Let alone work with flat beds that take tarps and straps. Just rember she could be in a 12 plus ton truck coming on roads near you lmao.
One of my favorite sayings that I learned recently is "The rich stay rich by pretending to be poor, and the poor stay poor by pretending to be rich." Right now I'm not pretending, I'm just poor.
🙏🏾🤎 People should have some empathy. Not surprised they don't... we don't know other's story. These comments sicken me. I hope she succeeds in her life.
I was startled when all that came out. Those long haul trucks have cabins built into them, mucheasiertolivein than an SUV. She could travel. She had to spend very little time with other employees. That was her dream job and she quit it because it was "unorganized".
Turnover in long haul trucking is 94%. To a near approximation, the type of person who quits that job is "literally everyone". The industry is absolutely a shitshow right now. It's no one's dream job. Back before deregulation (in 1980) when it paid ? Maybe. Even in the mid-90s Teamsters at least had better healthcare than anyone does nowadays. But now? It's a mess, and people are dying on the roads at increasing rates.
@@Needawholepailofwaterwhat’s crazy to me is that in my area of North Carolina cdls are needed like crazy that by itself earns you a job making 1500 a week literally driving a box truck around town for six hours a day I know people in this position it’s genuinely crazy to me.
This is worst case of financial guru brainwash I've ever seen. Dead broke and homeless while still trying to retire early, make passive income, have a side hustle, and start her own business :(
Literally almost word for word what I told my ex. "No one likes working. Even people who love their job dread work sometimes. If everyone had their "Druthers", no one would work and we'd all be millionaires. But that's not the real word. You don't GET anything. You EARN literally everything. No matter where you go, no matter what you do."
Says you guys. I love being a CNC machinist. That's why I want to trade school for 2 years because I love it. I actually wake up excited to go to work and stay late and go early on top of it most of my days. I make good money and I've just started out. I get as much overtime as I want. I get good benefits. It's not a job though it's a career and there's a big difference between a career and a job. I would never work something my whole life and not enjoy it that is the path to a miserable life. You don't like what you do why don't you go find something that you would enjoy do you know how many career paths there are out there? The trades alone have so many awesome jobs almost anybody can find something cool within the trade alone even women can find something in the trade. Go get a career.
But without wanting to learn how to govern or socialize like a princess, study & exercise like an astronaut, or work with a coach & practice live on stage & work with choreographers to be a famous singer. She's self defeating and doesn't WANT to do anything. She just wants things to magically happen because she's given up. She SERIOUSLY needs therapy - her obesity and diet is literally destroying her and ruining her energy.
Exactly my thought as well. It's honestly more sad than anything. This poor woman thinks being a millionaire self-employed trucking owner-operator is just around the corner so she can retire in her mid-40s and travel. I couldn't think of a more perfect case study on how badly the American education system is failing people in terms of personal finance education.
I mean I honestly think a part of the issue here is just her intelligence, to be totally honest. Like she doesn't understand things that are common sense to most people, she doesn't have coherent responses to things, and she can't understand how her actions impact even her immediate future. I mean honestly I think she has a low IQ, like bottom 5%, bottom 10%, somewhere in that range. Edit: I mean just watch 25:00 - 25:15 , that isn't how somebody with average intelligence acts.
Truck driver here! I feel for here. It does suck at first. You get barely any training, management doesn't care, and any complaint could get you fired! But, a few years later, I'm making incredibly good money, $140k a year as a company driver, and I enjoy my time off with my family. I'm able to save for retirement, invest in my side businesses, and have a real future ahead of me! It's not for everyone!
I haul chassis trucks like f750s before they become everything else like RVs, dump trucks, and sometimes bigger vans like the transit 250! It's a great field! Specialized hauling pays well.@@jaydubya9265
She’s the perfect example of how social media has convinced everyone they can be a landlord and it’ll just be super easy money with no work and no effort. It’s not easy. It’s a lot of work and it requires a lot of money up front.
It can be easy depending on the property and if you luck out on tenants And if you bought property anytime between 2009-2020, you've made out like a bandit
It was still a pain in the ass then, I think people just gotta understand if your a landlord there is a chance you get people that destroy your property. That said they made decent money around that time but it was a pain in the ass with some people. @@jakeleisure8326
@@jakeleisure8326 we bought a property in 2019 and 2020. The expenses up keeping the house eat up most of the profit. The mortgages are getting paid down but it's a ton of work and we don't make a profit. We have good tenants too! People underestimate the amount of work and $$ it takes. I know I did when I first started. My expectations are way lower now.
Is someone from america maybe able to explain to me how being a landlord is a lot of work? where i'm from you pay a real estate agency a couple grand to advertise your property and they handle everything, after a tenant is put in they take $10 a week and that's it.
I'm also so confused on how she's 27 years old with this mentality. She's going to be 65 with no retirement, no savings, working as a city bus driver. Jesus Christ. That's scary.
if i didnt have a pet, i'd be doing this lol i work from home and am super quiet but no one rents out a room with someone with a pet around here for some reason lol i am hoping to one day come across someone renting out their spare house. i had a friend who lived in someones suped up shed that had ac and electricity and all he did was have his bed and gaming computer there and was paying like $300/mo
@@sbonellithere’s been a few people on here who have been kinda… not quite all there, yeah. I really think there are people who can’t run their own lives. 🤷♀️
@@sbonelli I would like to know how she grew up. I have to imagine her parents basically abandoned her at home all day so she got absolutely zero life experience until being kicked out the door. Especially the whole nail cutting thing like who in their right might who wasn't just abandoned growing up wouldn't know how to cut nails.
I just realized that there are a lot of people who think that speaking to a financial advisor is going to fix their situation without them changing anything in their life.
The reality is very few advisors would actually work with someone like her. A coach maybe. But it takes a tremendous amount of time to put together a financial plan. Frankly, she isn't even at that level for one, nor would anyone look at her as a prospective client. But if someone with this kind of attitude was working with an advisor, there's a high likelihood of them getting dropped. An advisor is a fiduciary and it can put them in murky waters if the client is consistently not following advice. It's a sad situation
Yeah quite sad isn't it? They think by going to a Financial Advisor that someone is going to review everything, tell them things aren't that bad, hold their hand, take on all their adult financial responsibility, and fix or solve all their financial problems, and do everything for them. These people think they can act and behave immaturely for along period and then go to someone better and smarter then them, so someone else can miraculously fix everything for them and then everything will be fixed and reset like starting a video game all over from the beginning. They want to avoid growing up and solving their own problems because its scary, difficult, and hard. Welcome to adulthood people, now get to work!
To me, she’s severely depressed, not delusional. She sounds she’s completely given up on life mentally and physically. She’s exhausted. I truly feel for her 😢 I think she needs more than just financial help.
Buying a relatively new car while severely depressed in the way you're describing would be an interesting choice. Since we don't know her and can't diagnose her from a video, I can't be sure either way. I just know it's sad.
@@pretzelmaker3122 It's pretty common for people with depression to engage in impulsive spending. It gives them that dopamine hit that their brain can't create on its own. Same thing with the fast food. Easy dopamine combined with lack of energy/motivation to cook and it's just too easy to make those bad calls again and again and again.
The fact that she doesn’t understand anything that Caleb is saying to any extent at all, including buying clippers from Walmart to cut her toenails instead of getting them done makes me think that maybe she’s actually a little bit slow. I’ve worked with slow people for many years and I really think that she needs more than financial help.
I make $70,000 a year and there is not a chance in hell I'd be able to retire in 10 years. My eyes almost popped out of my head when she said she wanted to retire before she turned 40.
I'm really glad Caleb did some math for her and showed she'd need to save/invest like 6K/month just to retire young if she wanted to do FIRE. I think the movement is a great idea, BUT it takes a lot of discipline, work, and money in order to retire comfortably in your 40's. I thought she was kidding when she talked about it :(
What irks me really hard is how she's talks about saving $6K/month like it's easy when she can't even hols down a job and quits when it gets too hard as if no one else thinks work is hard or hates their job.
I honestly think she convinced herself of that to help her cope. Notice when caleb tried to give her a reality check her immediate response is "guess I'll die." Reality is too much for her so, she believes the delusion on the internet in order to cope / cling to hope.
@@leezak7540 Good point. I had a similar mentality when I was depressed. It's hard to get out of that mindset without getting some sort of treatment or outside support. I hope she's able to get help.
@@afran207851they don't have an only fans, the girlfriend discovered that her boyfriend was subscribed to like a shit ton of only fans during the show and said it was her fault cuz she's old
Marie, im about halfway in and i just wanted to say i hope you start valuing your time, life, and body. A better life is possible but it isn't easy. Work hard and respect your future self enough to make good choices.
This is one of the best examples of how social media can deceive a person. Some of the buzz words we heard during this audit were "passive income," "FIRE," "car life," and "house hacking." It's rough to see people get excited about starting something that's so far out of their reach. They are ignorant to their starting position but have a desire to get to the finish line - they don't know how much work it is to go from A to B. While this guest was all over the place with motivations, life goals, and her own standards for working it's a valuable audit to show how much influence a youtube short can have on a person.
Agreed. It all sounded like she went down the tiktok rabbithole of all those people promising "5 ways to retire young" "3 simple ways to make a passive income" "This is how I made 100k in 6 months" and the like and just took their "results" without trying to learn what the starting points or circumstances are for any of those situations, if they were even real, and what actionable steps she needs to do to even start planning for the future. She wants to "house hack" she wants someone to do her budget for her, she wants to travel without having to work. All I got from this is she wants to be handed money without doing anything for it. Heck, even to be an influencer although a lot of is luck with the algorithms, you still have to put effort and work to keep an audience and grow it. It doesn't fall outta thin air.
the evaluation of her comment "sometimes I just don't want to work" is a tough one. cause face value it sounds lazy and entitled, but in the context of her other comments and tone, it sounds more like "I want to want to work, but everything feels too hard sometimes". Like nothing is bringing her joy except for food and stagnation, and if you have no joy in life it's a lot harder to subject yourself to a job that's not joyful.
I think you said this perfectly. I want to be on her side, she doesn't seem like a bad person, but she does come across as defeated by the world which is why she's not making good choices. She hoped buying a nice car and a phone and a laptop etc would give her happiness but she highlights these things won't help you there.
Agreed it's insanely demoralizing to be working as much as she does yet not have any ownership of anything... Which is WHY she needs to manage things better so that her work can actually go to building something meaningful.
This guest does not annoy me, she’s actually pretty calm and way more polite than most of the recent guests. I hope she’ll care about her life a bit more and get better.
I took one of the tech courses he promotes in this video and it was great! I’m doing more courses to on top of that to land a full time tech job and if it wasn’t for Caleb, I wouldn’t know about online courses/certificafions. It may not be her passion but I think she should have taken him up on the offer to try to start a career and make stable money
I hate being a nurse getting verbally/abused, bodily fluids, standing 12+ hrs and no lunch or pee break sometimes but it pays the bills. I love traveling and laying on the couch but you have to do what you have to do.
@RunsWithNeedles89 It's the base nurse salary in Norway, which is decent. All nurses need to finish a five year master's degree in order to become a nurse. This is with a standard 7.5 hour work day, five days a week. Then further education and specialization along with experience will further increase salary. Obviously even higher if one works a lot of evenings, nights, holidays, overtime etc. Teachers also have to get a masters degree and earn slightly more, at $85K. Cops also need a masters, but make slightly less than nurses and teachers.
Her parents have failed her miserably. She literally has zero idea of anything going on in her life or in the real world. I feel bad for her, she answers every question with a question and has no grasp on what it takes to make a "high income".
Exactly, they failed her and didn't parent or she ignores their advice. For example, I'm one of three kiddos, parents weren't the best and did the bare minimum. Their general advice was work and save and figure it out on you're own. 2/3 of us are doing a lot better than our parents were at our age. The other 1/3 is struggling, she refuses to be accountable and blames our parents. I understand what she means but at one point you have to work and learn as much as you can along the way to do better for yourself.
Her parents didn't fail her. She failed herself. It's called BEING. AN. ADULT. Past 18 years of age, we don't have do anything our parents say. We're grown adults with complete autonomy over our lives. As a result, it's OUR responsibility to give a damn about our own lives and well being. WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OURSELVES. Our parents can talk till they're blue in the face, and they still can't do ANYTHING about our negligence. At the end of the day, my opinion is you should own your shit.
I came from a family that taught me ZERO about finances. My family was toxic and physically abusive. I got a job at 16, moved out at 17, been living completely independently and solo for 23 years. I'm going to be a net worth millionaire in the next decade. I've had zero college education, and earned about $50k-60k a year my entire career. I've watched RUclips EVERY SINGLE NIGHT after work and in my time off. I've read countless financial books. I've studied and poured over all the money master's and gurus. I taught myself literally everything I know about money. I have an 800 credit score.
The whole retirement conversation was baffling. Throughout the audit she has continuously said that she hates working, working sucks and that she doesn't want to work... but she wants to retire in her 40s? Where does she think money even comes from...
@@glitterstarbeau Good for you. Most kids I've dealt with don't understand the reality and say shit like, "I'm going to be a millionaire by the time I'm 21." Also, knowing people have to work doesn't equal not being delusional/imaginative enough to think one can easily become a millionaire.
she seems depressed :( even though most of her ideas and life plans are delusional my heart actually goes out to her because you can tell how low she feels
Yes this. She should visit a doctor. She even speaks and moves slowly. And brain-fog kind of thinking, like she can’t figure things out very quickly. Definitely could be depression or a thyroid issue or … ?
she totally is depressed. I feel for her - she is not delusional I exactly know how she feels, its like you actually gave up on life and life passively
This is what victim mentality gets you. She has zero useful skills, this woman cannot even clip her own toenails. Ik depressed 24/7 but I’m nowhere as inept as this woman what a joke she is just lazy beyond belief
Borderline Personality Disorder, adverse childhood experiences, and depression can make you not want to participate in society. I'm glad you can see the pain she's in too.
Even if you do own a property, you're lucky if it pays your mortgage and MAYBEEEEE an hundred or two of extra cash.. that certainly would go back into the property for repairs and maintenance. She's thinking it will just provide a lifestyle for her.
This guest is so frustrating, but I honestly feel like she’s not all there mentally. The way she answers is like she’s trying to make everything click, but she just doesn’t understand
So how did she pass getting her CDL and medical assistant for one year so she can pass tests and study but when it comes to working and planning she has total disconnect
@@AuntNessie-u2e Because she's lazy. She's flat out lazy and she clearly says she doesn't want to work. But she is also slow, all her bells aint ringing upstairs. Both can be true at the same time.
I was prepared to be mean but i feel for her because I am her. She is giving up because she is doing everything on her own and she feels lonely. She sees the end goal but not the journey to get there. It's a long process and not an easy one.
No one in the comments are talking about her HEALTH. She looks and feels exhausted, low, foggy, her feet hurt, etc. I think she should get her blood work done. The anger issues could just be mood swings or hormonal issues. PLEASE get your health in check, eat good, exercise, and walk when you can. It will also put you in a good spot mentally and physically, so that you can hustle.
but she can't pay pills barely, medical bills are the most common reason people don't go for checkups. But I understand that she could drink more water and make small little changes to help alleviate some of the depression/weight issues. She could get salads and eat whole food meals still shopping at walmart. To-go salads are a thing zaxbys (salad) is better than chick fil a or mcdonalds
Yes, it took me years to figure out I had an enlarged thyroid, hypothyroidism, and Hashimotos. After I finally found a doctor who would listen to me and help me, I changed my entire health around. At the time, I was over weight (40 pounds) and did what the doctors asked me to do to improve my health. Not making excuses for her but all that being out of whack can cause brain fog, depression, anxiety, exhaustion, mood swings, etc.
She has been the most pleasant of the past at least 5 guests. A little delusional maybe but she didn’t get on Caleb’s case over the difference between Spanish and Portuguese 😅
It’s terrifying hearing people use words like passive income and fire with not even knowing how to operate a calculator. People are becoming walking internet memes because they are easily sold on a fantasy lifestyle but have zero ambition to follow through.
Yeah. She not only has no idea of what she’d actually need to retire, she doesn’t even know how to calculate it. She probably needs at least $2m to retire. And since she needs a home, too, probably $2.5m. Adjusting for inflation, she’d probably have to invest at least $110k a year for 15 years. Something she simply isn’t going to do
That is likely her only source of happiness. She seems to be depressed. She mentioned just ending it. Shes clearly using food addictively because there doesn't seem to be much for her to live for.
When you’re homeless it’s easy to overspend on food since you don’t have stable refrigeration, cooking supplies, and even a way to cook. (It all depends on season and where you live. Luckily this is TX so parks in the winter that have a grill can be usable, but mental health is a major factor for this.)
The level of immaturity in this person is astounding. At 27 years old it shows how growing up was for her. The goals and scattered brain is rough to listen to. Wishing her the best
Right? And at the end being like, 3 years is so looong. Like, bitch you did this to yourself over the course of like 9 years so far. It didn't happen overnight
Exactly. People keep saying she's depressed (and she probably is) but she's intellectually slow, aka cognitively challenged. In other words, she can't think in any complex manner.
I think she needs more than just financial counseling, she needs mental health counseling. I recognize a lot of the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and being overwhelmed. I think she’s a hard worker, but lacks the mental strength to “stay the course”. I do want to give her a hug and say “I’ve been there. You’re gonna make it. You just need real support (not RUclips or TikTok-and I’m not including Caleb in this category because he’s is the real deal). A good counselor can give you the tools you need to dig deep and not just survive. But thrive.” My best wishes to you 🙏🏻
@@John-lz9im well, I’m just going off the 40 hr main job and the 30 hour weekly side hustle. I realize it is entirely possible that those are embellished figures, but going off face value, she can definitely hustle. But I stand by what I said about her being overwhelmed, mentally and physically, and needing healthcare desperately. Maybe some of the criticisms you pointed out would be addressed with proper health care. I sure hope so.
Owner operator here. Unfortunately, this poor girl has no idea what she’s talking about. We saved up $100,000 before we even became owner operators. And it took us about 15 years to save that money. You have to have thousands of dollars to back you up when you become an owner operator. You have to always be ready for maintenance, breakdowns, tires etc. The insurance alone on just one truck is over $1000 a month. And depending on how much diesel is each day, it can range from $370 all the way up to $500 per day. I have a dedicated load where I drive 523 miles per day. We make really good money but it’s a huge risk to have a truck on the road and it’s taken us a lot of hard work and dedication to get here. I’m not saying that this young lady can’t do that, but she needs to come to terms with reality. She needs to learn to work hard and I believe if she took a little weight off. She would get her self-confidence not to mention the energy that she needs to be able to work and I’m not saying this to put her down. It’s the reality of the situation. That is what is holding her back on pretty much everything right now. I am a woman truck driver as well and it is not easy to get your license. I had to work hard, and I had to earn my license. I was very fortunate to have my husband who also trained me for a few months more after I got out of the Trucking School. Because like the other truck driver above stated a lot of drivers just get their license and then they’re thrown out on the road and they have no idea what they’re doing. It’s so incredibly dangerous. And I know most of them are driving automatic trucks, but there’s still a lot to learn that you don’t learn in Trucking School. I wish her the best, but she needs to come to terms with reality.
Thank you for sharing this. Former dispatcher here and I respect truck drivers so much. People don't realize how dangerous and how stressful that job can be for drivers. The situations that can come up are continuous. And yes trucks breaking down, insurance, diesel, parking those costs add up.
This girl couldn't even handle the logistics of navigating a Walmart to get a fingernail clipper and trim her own nails. Pretty sure it is safe to say she cannot handle becoming an owner/operator or managing rental properties for passive income.
@@FableCountry we get pay not just for the miles,but also cubic feet in the trailer+ alot other extra things like shuttles,pianos,stairs,long walks.you also get tips which is thousands a month on top of pay.
So let me get this straight - do you want a career? No! Do you want to work hard? No….Do you have any ambition? No….except I want to FIRE and buy real estate. Oh lord
To be fair: I make over $145k/yr & I don’t want to work hard either! I wanna sit on my ass & get money from real estate investing too…but these bills ain’t paying themselves in the meantime! 😅
When she said “I’m surprised I’m still alive” my heart broke, this lady seems so sweet, it just seems like she was never taught these things growing up.
This is at least the first episode in a while were I didn’t hate the person on the show, but I’m genuinely concerned if she has some kind of additional needs. I hope it works out for her.
I'm a mental health counselor. She would not be a difficult client at all. I would help her explore what kind of job might suit her best. She works 40hrs a week at the shuttle job? That's not lazy. So she doesn't manage money well. How do you teach someone how to manage money, do you call them stupid to their face? Cause that's practically what Caleb's doing. You have to meet people where they're at, not judge them and expect them to be different. She's tired, she's overweight, she's living in a car, she has a job she hates, so let's discourage her more, call her lazy, tell her she should do IT work. Insist on that. Caleb is truly unskilled with people.
@@Arete37I love you, thank you for helping people! It was patience and kindness like yours that allowed to me to feel safe and heal, grow my self worth, etc
@@Arete37Caleb explicitly states he has the conversations with others that he wished someone gave him when he was in debt. He uses shame as a technique to get people to change, and has said on many episodes if that doesn’t work for you then you shouldn’t go on the show. His statistics on success after the show clearly shows he’s skilled with people in helping them with their finances, people forget this is not a mental health counselling show
@@Arete37she definitely could use evaluation for depression. Caleb is usually very loud about the need for therapy. He does not try to use counseling skills he's not trained in but instead is that blunt friend who calls you on your BS.
As an overweight person dealing with foot issues at 34, eating better and losing weight will help so much. I can't imagine how hard weight loss would be living in a car, it's already hard enough for me living in an apartment. You can do it, just stick with it!
@@homewreckerburritothe planet fitness is becoming the mecca for people living in their cars. All the showers you want for $10/mo 😂😂 That's how I did it!
This woman gives me the same vibes as the one girl who got fired because she would clock in to work an then go park her car, used company equipment for personal messaging, etc. Just totally detached from reality.
As a former truckdriver who was homeless during my time as an otr driver, the best thing I did was put all of my stuff in a storage unit and I practically lived in the truck because it's a home on wheels. I'm sure she could still get back into a truck for long hauls as long as her cdl is till active, pay off her debts, save a butt load of money and then get out of the truck with something lined up for her to do for a living. Or start a career in. Then again, she's making stupid decisions based off what she feels like doing. Remove the emotions and follow the logic
I had a panic moment when I heard that… my career is something I’m so proud of and work hard at and not having that motivation or passion for something I can’t imagine
I can sympathize with that statement a bit. In my Ind, a career implies a management position,which is slightly more money per hour for a ton more responsibility and BS. In retail, which is 90%of my work experience, that includes shielding lower ranked team mates from shouting Karens.
Every time I see one of these videos I automatically open my bank account on the side and start calculating the shit expenses I have had this month and imagine Caleb shouting at me. 😅
open all my Credit card apps and pay down the balances, even though I do that every Friday anyway. LOL I get anxious and start double checking all my accounts.
Haha same for me, I made a financial spreadsheet document in google drive that I use, these episodes encourage me to update it consistently and to look at the bad numbers.
I'll be honest I do think this women has been sold a dream but she's been sold a dream while also being despressed. The way she talks about life, work and almost everything she doesn't seem to care or have much emotion.
This show is so formulaic. If you watch one episode you know exactly what questions caleb is gunna ask you. If you sign up for the show and cant give an estimate of your basic monthly income then you either did not prepare or dont care at all
I became homeless and had a wild year-long journey back to housing. I had $3,600 in savings and minimal credit card debt, plus a job paying $30/hr and it took everything and then some to get back to stability. Frist last and deposit alone was $7,000. Car troubles also thousand and thousands. This woman is so niave to what it's going to take to get back to stability.
Someone needs to sit this girl down and talk to her about life. She is directionless just existing with no idea what she wants to do for work, what she needs to retire, if she wants a spouse/kids, and no goals for the future.... not to mention a poor attitude and zero drive to do anything with her life. She would rather make excuses and remain in her current situation than do what it takes to dig herself out. She needs way more help than just one hour of financial advice.
I really feel more sympathy to her than your other recent guests. I feel she just needs strong guidance and a reality check. She needs someone in her life that will constantly push her to do and be better. I really hope she is able.
Caleb goes in on these people because they need it - but to see how he actually cares about them and wants the best for them is really welcoming and heartwarming. You’re a good dude Caleb
As a female trucker, it hurts to say this, but I dont think her going back OTR is the right answer. Especially mentally, I think she'll be worse off. Trucking, especially OTR, isn't all fun and games. It's stressful, draining, demanding, and hard work. And she has a bad attitude. All of that is Trouble with a capital T, which could result in her potentially hurting herself and/ or others, or doing alot of damage. Attitude alone can get her banned from so many places and get her into a lot of trouble. I've seen it happen a lot, especially with women. I hope she gets the help she needs and that her situation gets better.
Truckers are the blood that runs our country. Wish we could make it better for yall. Better seating, better sleep overs, better money etc. thank you Truckers ❤ much respect! The truckers I know especially those who truck fuel have had smarts, attitude and responsibility. Unfortunately this lady lacks these qualities. I don’t think she would even be happy if she was a house wife. I think she would be the wife who watches daytime television and let the house go to rack and ruin and use every single excuse why she can’t do things. I hope she gets some depression treatment - being homeless isn’t helping her. But I hope she atleast finds a place to live and starts focusing on practical goals. Little goals. Cooking and working etc
Exactly. I’ve been trucking for a year now and it is a hard career. I feel like a lot of people (including me) come into it with these romantic ideas of what it will be like. I get to travel and see the country! What you’re actually going to see is dirty truck stops and traffic for miles and the side of the road waiting for road side to come fix a popped tandem tire. Majority of people aren’t made for it but it almost doubled my income and I don’t regret it at all!
OTR truck driver here. The job is more mentally straining than most people would guess. I've always been an introvert, but after 2 months even I was starting to feel stressed. BUT it does get easier. Also if you're an over the road truck driver, you could live out of the back of your truck. So you don't have to pay rent, and all the money that would have gone to rent can go to paying down your debts and eventually saving up for a house.
I worked as a dispatcher for several years. I respect over the road truck drivers tremendously. People don't understand the shit they have to deal with when delivering a load etc. I do know drivers that live on their truck or would have weekends off and just rent a motel for a couple of days.
The idea that cash is useless blew my mind. I have a coworker like this who always wants to pay/split things with cash app to the point of not wanting to receive cash money anymore. Paying fees or interest to use apps and credit cards instead of cash is beyond me.
there are soo many scams being run on the internet that got people CONVINCED they can „just start a business“ or „just earn passive income“ and get rich quick, it’s so disheartening:( these things take advantage of the most financially vulnerable people😔
You cannot possibly blame other people for her lack of intelligence. She has no idea what she's taking in. It's all just talking points with no substance behind it. If she was putting money towards some program I would understand but she's not. She's just slow. God bless her but she needs somebody, whether that's family or a significant other, badly in her life to lean on.
Having had personal experience with a family member with this, she almost appears to me to be developmentally disabled. Until this is addressed, nothing else is going to help her,
Yeah, I had the same suspicion as the video progressed, and she seemed to keep making statements that are not actually connected to reality. Broke, jobless, living in a car and suggests she gets passive income by owning a rental property. All the other stuff she said along the way as she revealed how she used to make more money as a truck driver, and seemed to acknowledge her current situation has been affected now that she's not working that job. Then in the next breath said how she didn't want to be a truck driver because it was boring. Then revealed that she quit that job as a truck driver. This poor woman needs someone to help her and make sure she's not making poor/irresponsible decisions that's going to entrench her into prolonged homelessness.
I also have a family member who makes a lot of bad decisions and refuses to help themselves who has a developmental disability (which she denies, says she's grown out of it 😑) but I don't get that impression from this girl. She just seems delusional. I've met many like her. They don't want to work, and they think an easy life will fall out of the sky for them
Just found this today. I believe she's on the spectrum. That being said, she can learn. She expects Caleb to do all the work and she'll try to follow it. She's depressed, lonely and very overwhelmed. I hope she can get someone who will really help and guide her.
My heart goes out to this girl … we can all sit in our homes, laugh and criticize but this is a young woman who’s hurting. She’s angry, confused and isolated. Depression looks different for everyone.
I couldn’t agree with you more. My heart goes out to her. This could be any one of us. Mental illness definitely looks different for everyone and for those that have no compassion or empathy be VERY careful Making fun of her because you could be in her situation next month. I pray that she gets the help that she needs in every way because she deserves it. Sending healing to her and positive vibes.
Dang though, she is really out of touch with reality and really does not understand a lot of living costs. Like frighteningly so. As a mental health professional, I seriously have doubts about her mental acuity.
I love you Caleb but I would love it if there were some guests that had nicer situations. I'd love seeing you deep dive into more details of how to make an OK situation good, or a good situation great. Also, the idea of seeing you actually happy on camera is something i NEED
While I like this idea, I don’t find it too realistic. Caleb prides himself on the “tough love” and that’s just not the same for a good or even an OK financial situation.
I absolutely cant get over her hair. Shes so pretty , her hair is beautiful. If she cared a tiny bit more... BOOM 💥 beautiful.lol her voice is soothing though.. I wish her the best.
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@@Tr3v1sinterestingly, I just changed insurance from Wawanesa to Geico because it was literally $1000/yr cheaper than any other company. 33, clean record, 2018 Lexus IS in southern Cali. I got hit with a 40% increase from every other company. Shocked that Geico was so much cheaper with the same coverage. Sorry for the story you didn't ask for. 😅
If y'all aren't Jamaican or Caribbean, just know Oxtails are the most expensive thing at Caribbean restaurants. Oxtails are like that end of the week treat you get, but they only give you a little or mostly bone and you're okay with it because it's oxtail. She has no money, but bought oxtail.
Find the right Jamaican restaurant - make friends with them, they not going to give you all their profit but they'll hook up your plate! Now I have to get to my spot next week!!! 🤤🥱
This poor girl has been let down by several people and entities. If she wasn't in special education in school she was let down, period. This video is the largest argument for financial education for people with learning disabilities I have ever seen. It is obvious that this woman has some sort of special need that hasn't been addressed, and it breaks my heart.
I have worked with several people that had developmental handicaps & never got past 3rd-6th grade in school. Yet they were much sharper financially than most of Caleb's guests!!They lived within their means & watched their savings accounts like hawks!!
@@kaythegardenerabsolutely! I was just saying to my husband (talking about this guest) that we have personally known people with profound learning disabilities who had their ish together MUCH more than this woman does, and I lay at least part of the blame for her situation on the people around her who obviously did not do a great job of guiding her. She just grasps onto stuff she's heard on social media (the car living, FIRE method, etc) and just assumes it will work - critical thinking skills may not come to her naturally, but she could definitely be taught them and be able to use them.
Yes, I've know people like her who have got lost in the educational system and were never able to recover when they should have had special education classes so very sad.
You all have GOT to stop making excuses for people. Her mental decline comes from wanting the end result but not the work. See how fast she said she didn't want a tech job or a career? Want to know why? Because studying and work is involved. No teacher can make you do the work that's a CHOICE you make for yourself.
@@WinterM-hr3xvyeah, she's confused why would Caleb consider CASH as INCOME. I don't even... Not knowing how much you make might be part of depression, not understanding why must be a marker of some kind of mental development issues
I genuinely like this girl and wish her the best. She seems like a very nice, kind person just way in over her head financially. The budget should help her immensely if she follows it. I hope she gets into a better situation and prospers. Pretty cool she has a CDL even if she's tired of that line of work. Best wishes!
She has such beautiful skin, a pretty face (those cheekbones!) and a lovely voice. I hope she gets better. This is so so sad to see. Thanks for trying Caleb.
She’s soooo pretty! Wish Caleb would have dug a little bit when she said something about her insecurities and not making it to LA. I didn’t follow her train of thought there, because she then tied it to finances.
Honestly she needs therapy. From those “just kill me” and I’m surprised I’m still alive comments it tells me she’s given up on life and just going thru the motions
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I'm sad Caleb I was really looking forward to this. But in the video it says the offer expires yesterday. 02/29/2024 but the video was released on March 1st. Saddays
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Another great quote is "A man sits in the shade today because of the seeds planted 20 years ago"- Warren Buffet
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Something she is leaving unsaid but I think its first in her mind is she wants to find a guy so she can stay home and not work. Truth? If she lost some weight she is actually quite pretty, has nice hands and a pleasant voice. If she lost some weight, and I dont even mean skinny, I mean just lose 40lbs she would be more shapely. Lots of guys would be fine with her being at home as long as she isnt lazy and keeps the excess weight off.
She was unemployed and either homeless or on the verge of being homeless and bought a car for $27k. That's something I can't even comprehend.
It's very clear she doesn't think AT ALL about the future or the consequences of her choices.
Yeah it’s a bummer that it’s legal, it’s an American freedom to flock ur life up.
Only thing that makes it better is that she was planning on living in her car, bad part is that she decided after a week car life wasn’t for her 😂
@@buckwalkerThat’s the whole point of freedom🎉🎉
She was sold on van life. People on social media tell you who they quit there apartment and travel around in a van. They sell you the "dream".
We're finally seeing the problems caused by those financial bros and gurus online. She literally believes it's THAT easy to make it. Caleb even said it. She's been sold a dream.
Yeah but she is just saying thought bubbles, her statements are untethered to anything, just complete random words FIRE, travel, 30k, future, 1 million its all just complete nonsense.
@@MegaJohnnycageshe doesn’t really understand the concept of travel. Like being a long haul trucker and going to Cali and not being able to afford LA. She doesn’t realise she is traveling. It’s not the destination but the journey. She may not go to LA this time but she might in the future but she still traveling. Make the most of what you have. She would go to the Eiffel Tower and say ‘I wanna go to the Eiffel tower’ staring at her phone. And someone says ‘you’re at the Eiffel tower’ looks up uninterested and says ‘oh is that it?’ Stares at her phone.
@@MegaJohnnycageyou forgot cash envelope system
@@SingingMagickwhile not using cash
I just cant beileve she considers herself a truck driver. I've grown up in a trucking family, what my dad and uncles did for a living. What this shows is how badly the requirements have gone down. An owner operator use to know his rig inside and out and yet modern drivers barely do pre trip inspection. Let alone work with flat beds that take tarps and straps. Just rember she could be in a 12 plus ton truck coming on roads near you lmao.
One of my favorite sayings that I learned recently is "The rich stay rich by pretending to be poor, and the poor stay poor by pretending to be rich." Right now I'm not pretending, I'm just poor.
😂😂😂
Yap
Being boring and figuring out how to cheaply enjoy time at home is the quickest way to save money.
At the age of 64, with a current net worth of 3 million, my sagest advice is..... "always, always, no matter what, live below your means".
This channel proves that quote.
She sounds like my sister… who is developmentally delayed just with a dash of severe depression.
This is exactly what I thought she needs proper resources and mental help
Not severe.... aww
🙏🏾🤎
People should have some empathy. Not surprised they don't... we don't know other's story.
These comments sicken me. I hope she succeeds in her life.
developmentally delayed
😂😂😂😂
A work from home job?? GIRL YOU ARE HOMELESSS😭
Hi 👋
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Wow, I forgot she said that lol. I thought caleb was going to go insane haha
Work from car job using walmarts wifi in the parking lot
she meant work from the car haha. got her little laptop and shes good
She could’ve literally stayed a truck driver and lived in her truck 🤦🏽♂️
I was startled when all that came out. Those long haul trucks have cabins built into them, mucheasiertolivein than an SUV. She could travel. She had to spend very little time with other employees. That was her dream job and she quit it because it was "unorganized".
Turnover in long haul trucking is 94%. To a near approximation, the type of person who quits that job is "literally everyone".
The industry is absolutely a shitshow right now. It's no one's dream job. Back before deregulation (in 1980) when it paid ? Maybe. Even in the mid-90s Teamsters at least had better healthcare than anyone does nowadays. But now? It's a mess, and people are dying on the roads at increasing rates.
@@chet6969Honestly, it's horrifying to imagine someone with her intelligence level riding a monster truck on the highway.
@@Needawholepailofwaterwhat’s crazy to me is that in my area of North Carolina cdls are needed like crazy that by itself earns you a job making 1500 a week literally driving a box truck around town for six hours a day I know people in this position it’s genuinely crazy to me.
@@Omnicron800damn 1500 a week driving 6 hours? Thats crazy good
This is worst case of financial guru brainwash I've ever seen. Dead broke and homeless while still trying to retire early, make passive income, have a side hustle, and start her own business :(
She could host *optimism*-courses 🤷🏻♀️😅
Just buzz words really
And do all that without actually working. Great plan!
And she’s actually making money!
Robert Kiyosaki has a lot to answer for.
“I hate working.” Most people do. We do it to survive.
Literally almost word for word what I told my ex.
"No one likes working. Even people who love their job dread work sometimes. If everyone had their "Druthers", no one would work and we'd all be millionaires. But that's not the real word. You don't GET anything. You EARN literally everything. No matter where you go, no matter what you do."
Right, lol. Who likes work?
Says you guys.
I love being a CNC machinist.
That's why I want to trade school for 2 years because I love it.
I actually wake up excited to go to work and stay late and go early on top of it most of my days.
I make good money and I've just started out.
I get as much overtime as I want.
I get good benefits.
It's not a job though it's a career and there's a big difference between a career and a job.
I would never work something my whole life and not enjoy it that is the path to a miserable life.
You don't like what you do why don't you go find something that you would enjoy do you know how many career paths there are out there?
The trades alone have so many awesome jobs almost anybody can find something cool within the trade alone even women can find something in the trade.
Go get a career.
Marry rich, I always say. Unfortunately, there's usually a weight limit at the time of introduction to a richer spouse.
@user-ql8ir1mb2b imagine being that much of a window licker lmao, stfu you're 12 talking about loving your job 😂
This is like talking to a child about what they want to be when they grow up and they say a princess, an astronaut, and a famous singer.
100%
But without wanting to learn how to govern or socialize like a princess, study & exercise like an astronaut, or work with a coach & practice live on stage & work with choreographers to be a famous singer. She's self defeating and doesn't WANT to do anything. She just wants things to magically happen because she's given up. She SERIOUSLY needs therapy - her obesity and diet is literally destroying her and ruining her energy.
Exactly my thought as well. It's honestly more sad than anything.
This poor woman thinks being a millionaire self-employed trucking owner-operator is just around the corner so she can retire in her mid-40s and travel.
I couldn't think of a more perfect case study on how badly the American education system is failing people in terms of personal finance education.
She's has a learning and mental disability you can see this in her thinking, and she seems to be suffering from depression.
I mean I honestly think a part of the issue here is just her intelligence, to be totally honest. Like she doesn't understand things that are common sense to most people, she doesn't have coherent responses to things, and she can't understand how her actions impact even her immediate future. I mean honestly I think she has a low IQ, like bottom 5%, bottom 10%, somewhere in that range.
Edit: I mean just watch 25:00 - 25:15 , that isn't how somebody with average intelligence acts.
Absolutely love when his shirt rides up and Finance perfectly disappears and it's just a big drawing of his face and the word DADDY.
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😂😂😂😂😂
Papa Dave puts on a hat... Daddy Hammer takes off his shirt. 😂
Thanks for messing it up for me. I thought it just said “daddy” and I figured he was trolling.
Lmaoooooo big daddy 😳 ♥️
Truck driver here! I feel for here. It does suck at first. You get barely any training, management doesn't care, and any complaint could get you fired! But, a few years later, I'm making incredibly good money, $140k a year as a company driver, and I enjoy my time off with my family. I'm able to save for retirement, invest in my side businesses, and have a real future ahead of me! It's not for everyone!
What do you do in trucking?
Certainly isn’t. I’m a truck driver as well and it takes a toll mentally
Love that
I haul chassis trucks like f750s before they become everything else like RVs, dump trucks, and sometimes bigger vans like the transit 250! It's a great field! Specialized hauling pays well.@@jaydubya9265
What company do you work for if you don’t mind me asking?
“So I can’t get a business?” You don’t just GET a business, you BUILD and EARN and MAINTAIN a business…
One day Caleb will speak to a normal person, but it is not this day...
I'd love to see him talk with people who have it mostly together and their approach to finances.
He is in Austin. Normal people? 😮
I would actually like that. He should throw in some people who have relatively normal finances and then optimize their finances.
@@bradk8590 He had a few videos where the guests' finances aren't all that bad
I don't think normal people get into stupid debt. People act this way because they don't know better.
She’s the perfect example of how social media has convinced everyone they can be a landlord and it’ll just be super easy money with no work and no effort. It’s not easy. It’s a lot of work and it requires a lot of money up front.
It can be easy depending on the property and if you luck out on tenants
And if you bought property anytime between 2009-2020, you've made out like a bandit
Exactly
It was still a pain in the ass then, I think people just gotta understand if your a landlord there is a chance you get people that destroy your property. That said they made decent money around that time but it was a pain in the ass with some people. @@jakeleisure8326
@@jakeleisure8326 we bought a property in 2019 and 2020. The expenses up keeping the house eat up most of the profit. The mortgages are getting paid down but it's a ton of work and we don't make a profit. We have good tenants too! People underestimate the amount of work and $$ it takes. I know I did when I first started. My expectations are way lower now.
Is someone from america maybe able to explain to me how being a landlord is a lot of work? where i'm from you pay a real estate agency a couple grand to advertise your property and they handle everything, after a tenant is put in they take $10 a week and that's it.
She should consider just renting a room. She doesn't strike me as being able to live solo and manage household bills.
Agreed
Great idea! I had rented a room for years and stacked my bread and kept my expenses low.
I'm also so confused on how she's 27 years old with this mentality. She's going to be 65 with no retirement, no savings, working as a city bus driver. Jesus Christ. That's scary.
Or the maintenance and upkeep. It's a lot of work every season depending on where you live
if i didnt have a pet, i'd be doing this lol i work from home and am super quiet but no one rents out a room with someone with a pet around here for some reason lol i am hoping to one day come across someone renting out their spare house. i had a friend who lived in someones suped up shed that had ac and electricity and all he did was have his bed and gaming computer there and was paying like $300/mo
This woman’s listening comprehension is almost zero. The number of simple continuance questions that she just TOTALLY lost the thread of… I’m in awe.
There's something off with her.
@@sbonellithere’s been a few people on here who have been kinda… not quite all there, yeah. I really think there are people who can’t run their own lives. 🤷♀️
@@sbonelli I would like to know how she grew up. I have to imagine her parents basically abandoned her at home all day so she got absolutely zero life experience until being kicked out the door. Especially the whole nail cutting thing like who in their right might who wasn't just abandoned growing up wouldn't know how to cut nails.
I think she is depressed
This is just what 75 IQ looks like
I just realized that there are a lot of people who think that speaking to a financial advisor is going to fix their situation without them changing anything in their life.
This!! This is the whole
show, basically.
The reality is very few advisors would actually work with someone like her. A coach maybe. But it takes a tremendous amount of time to put together a financial plan. Frankly, she isn't even at that level for one, nor would anyone look at her as a prospective client. But if someone with this kind of attitude was working with an advisor, there's a high likelihood of them getting dropped. An advisor is a fiduciary and it can put them in murky waters if the client is consistently not following advice. It's a sad situation
Yes, a case of "Here is my mess, make it work for me!"
Yeah quite sad isn't it? They think by going to a Financial Advisor that someone is going to review everything, tell them things aren't that bad, hold their hand, take on all their adult financial responsibility, and fix or solve all their financial problems, and do everything for them. These people think they can act and behave immaturely for along period and then go to someone better and smarter then them, so someone else can miraculously fix everything for them and then everything will be fixed and reset like starting a video game all over from the beginning. They want to avoid growing up and solving their own problems because its scary, difficult, and hard. Welcome to adulthood people, now get to work!
They all want a plan! So many are upside down and you can’t create a plan. Most will probably not follow it. 😢
She has been sold all the dreams hahah. Rental property, house hacking, FIRE, living in a van, cash envelope system, and retiring at 45.
Cash envelopes will probably save her at this point
@@HospitalLocksmithidk she doesn’t count cash as income … so she might not pay bills if everything is in cash.
@@TaratheEnchantress Oh dear.
She can’t even clip her own toe nails. This is the most useless person I’ve seen on this show yet.
What is FIRE?
The argument over having to pay $40 to get her nails cut because they were long when you can get nail clippers for a couple of bucks is SENDING ME
I wonder if she is having trouble bending enough to reach her toes, that is the only explanation I can think of
That was insane.
@@AlejandraMeraz Yes that's why some people get pedicures instead of just doing it themselves
Ma'am, where are you being sent?
@@AlejandraMerazexactly the reason.
To me, she’s severely depressed, not delusional. She sounds she’s completely given up on life mentally and physically. She’s exhausted. I truly feel for her 😢 I think she needs more than just financial help.
This!!
Buying a relatively new car while severely depressed in the way you're describing would be an interesting choice. Since we don't know her and can't diagnose her from a video, I can't be sure either way. I just know it's sad.
@@pretzelmaker3122 It's pretty common for people with depression to engage in impulsive spending. It gives them that dopamine hit that their brain can't create on its own. Same thing with the fast food. Easy dopamine combined with lack of energy/motivation to cook and it's just too easy to make those bad calls again and again and again.
She's lazy first...second maybe depressed
The fact that she doesn’t understand anything that Caleb is saying to any extent at all, including buying clippers from Walmart to cut her toenails instead of getting them done makes me think that maybe she’s actually a little bit slow. I’ve worked with slow people for many years and I really think that she needs more than financial help.
I make $70,000 a year and there is not a chance in hell I'd be able to retire in 10 years. My eyes almost popped out of my head when she said she wanted to retire before she turned 40.
I'm really glad Caleb did some math for her and showed she'd need to save/invest like 6K/month just to retire young if she wanted to do FIRE. I think the movement is a great idea, BUT it takes a lot of discipline, work, and money in order to retire comfortably in your 40's. I thought she was kidding when she talked about it :(
Lazy. Delusional, dumb and lazy.
What irks me really hard is how she's talks about saving $6K/month like it's easy when she can't even hols down a job and quits when it gets too hard as if no one else thinks work is hard or hates their job.
I honestly think she convinced herself of that to help her cope. Notice when caleb tried to give her a reality check her immediate response is "guess I'll die." Reality is too much for her so, she believes the delusion on the internet in order to cope / cling to hope.
@@leezak7540 Good point. I had a similar mentality when I was depressed. It's hard to get out of that mindset without getting some sort of treatment or outside support. I hope she's able to get help.
This is just sad and depressing. It’s clear she needs more than just financial help.
This seems to be the cast for 99% of his guests.
@@Torpidity Yeh, its the carnival show for financial youtubers. Train wrecks, all of em. Hard to watch, but wont want to miss it.
@@jecht86 its the gen z, miilenial dave ramsey channel..
Taxpayers. Me and you. Democrat America.
@@ck8579what
she is actually pretty sweet consider the guest Caleb had in last few weeks, singer single mom, OF couple, car living lady, crypto dr...etc
which episode is the OF couple?
@@afran207851episode is “moron blames girlfriend for their failures” dude was paying for OF while in a relationship
@@afran207851they don't have an only fans, the girlfriend discovered that her boyfriend was subscribed to like a shit ton of only fans during the show and said it was her fault cuz she's old
@@afran207851
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@@afran207851Third latest episode but they aren't an OF couple, the guy was just spending on OF without her knowing
Marie, im about halfway in and i just wanted to say i hope you start valuing your time, life, and body. A better life is possible but it isn't easy. Work hard and respect your future self enough to make good choices.
This is one of the best examples of how social media can deceive a person. Some of the buzz words we heard during this audit were "passive income," "FIRE," "car life," and "house hacking." It's rough to see people get excited about starting something that's so far out of their reach. They are ignorant to their starting position but have a desire to get to the finish line - they don't know how much work it is to go from A to B. While this guest was all over the place with motivations, life goals, and her own standards for working it's a valuable audit to show how much influence a youtube short can have on a person.
Very true
All that stuff is achievable but definitely not as quick as these gurus make out. People want everything immediately.
Agreed. It all sounded like she went down the tiktok rabbithole of all those people promising "5 ways to retire young" "3 simple ways to make a passive income" "This is how I made 100k in 6 months" and the like and just took their "results" without trying to learn what the starting points or circumstances are for any of those situations, if they were even real, and what actionable steps she needs to do to even start planning for the future.
She wants to "house hack" she wants someone to do her budget for her, she wants to travel without having to work.
All I got from this is she wants to be handed money without doing anything for it. Heck, even to be an influencer although a lot of is luck with the algorithms, you still have to put effort and work to keep an audience and grow it. It doesn't fall outta thin air.
I think if you have the right buzz words, it can work - get a job, pay your bills, don't live beyond your means.
Ignorant should be her new buzzword
the evaluation of her comment "sometimes I just don't want to work" is a tough one. cause face value it sounds lazy and entitled, but in the context of her other comments and tone, it sounds more like "I want to want to work, but everything feels too hard sometimes". Like nothing is bringing her joy except for food and stagnation, and if you have no joy in life it's a lot harder to subject yourself to a job that's not joyful.
You worded that perfectly. This video was very sad to watch. She sounds so defeated. 😔
So very true. I love hard work, but working for someone who is unorganized and provides poor training is absolute hell.
I honestly felt that, I hate where I work now, I can see why she feels that way
I think you said this perfectly. I want to be on her side, she doesn't seem like a bad person, but she does come across as defeated by the world which is why she's not making good choices. She hoped buying a nice car and a phone and a laptop etc would give her happiness but she highlights these things won't help you there.
Agreed it's insanely demoralizing to be working as much as she does yet not have any ownership of anything... Which is WHY she needs to manage things better so that her work can actually go to building something meaningful.
This guest does not annoy me, she’s actually pretty calm and way more polite than most of the recent guests. I hope she’ll care about her life a bit more and get better.
I felt same i just saw someone trying to figure it all out
Nahhhhhh she’s lazyyyyyyyyy ah
@@twentysix1230yep. Barely has the energy to pronounce words correctly.
That’s almost worse, though. Calmly delusional.
These clickbait titles are getting old
@34:18 I’m dying! 😅
Caleb: nothing I think you may have been sold a dream on TikTok, and you may not fully understand…
Marie: No, RUclips!
😂😆🤣
At least she's honest with him and herself
Nice content btw! ❤
I’m a big fan! I’m learning Spanish and Your videos have been helping my comprehension.
First time I’ve heard someone flat out decline the tech course…girl…he is trying 😭
I took one of the tech courses he promotes in this video and it was great! I’m doing more courses to on top of that to land a full time tech job and if it wasn’t for Caleb, I wouldn’t know about online courses/certificafions. It may not be her passion but I think she should have taken him up on the offer to try to start a career and make stable money
After she mentioned a work from home job….
A job she probably doesn't have to be on her feet!
She wouldnt be able to make use of it anyways. Im halfway though and she doesnt seem to have the drive to have a career in anything
@@nczioox1116 she doesnt want to do anything. She is gonna be 40, still talking about in the future. 😭
I hate being a nurse getting verbally/abused, bodily fluids, standing 12+ hrs and no lunch or pee break sometimes but it pays the bills. I love traveling and laying on the couch but you have to do what you have to do.
Yep. This is my life. You have to take care of yourself and push through.
Getting no break is illegal.
@@deirdrekiely6187 Hospitals take advantage of the fact that most nurses are too kind to let people die on their watch. Thus no breaks.
Nurses in my country make $75K a year, but then again it's also a masters degree here.
@RunsWithNeedles89 It's the base nurse salary in Norway, which is decent. All nurses need to finish a five year master's degree in order to become a nurse. This is with a standard 7.5 hour work day, five days a week. Then further education and specialization along with experience will further increase salary. Obviously even higher if one works a lot of evenings, nights, holidays, overtime etc. Teachers also have to get a masters degree and earn slightly more, at $85K. Cops also need a masters, but make slightly less than nurses and teachers.
Her parents have failed her miserably. She literally has zero idea of anything going on in her life or in the real world. I feel bad for her, she answers every question with a question and has no grasp on what it takes to make a "high income".
Exactly, they failed her and didn't parent or she ignores their advice. For example, I'm one of three kiddos, parents weren't the best and did the bare minimum. Their general advice was work and save and figure it out on you're own. 2/3 of us are doing a lot better than our parents were at our age. The other 1/3 is struggling, she refuses to be accountable and blames our parents. I understand what she means but at one point you have to work and learn as much as you can along the way to do better for yourself.
Her parents didn't fail her.
She failed herself.
It's called BEING. AN. ADULT.
Past 18 years of age, we don't have do anything our parents say. We're grown adults with complete autonomy over our lives. As a result, it's OUR responsibility to give a damn about our own lives and well being. WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OURSELVES. Our parents can talk till they're blue in the face, and they still can't do ANYTHING about our negligence.
At the end of the day, my opinion is you should own your shit.
I came from a family that taught me ZERO about finances. My family was toxic and physically abusive. I got a job at 16, moved out at 17, been living completely independently and solo for 23 years. I'm going to be a net worth millionaire in the next decade. I've had zero college education, and earned about $50k-60k a year my entire career. I've watched RUclips EVERY SINGLE NIGHT after work and in my time off. I've read countless financial books. I've studied and poured over all the money master's and gurus. I taught myself literally everything I know about money. I have an 800 credit score.
This is what happens when you just kick out your kids at 18 with no life skills. They don't fly, they freefall😢
Actually, she already MADE a high income. A very high income for somebody with minimal education.
Then she just quit.
I think social media has ruined people
The whole retirement conversation was baffling. Throughout the audit she has continuously said that she hates working, working sucks and that she doesn't want to work... but she wants to retire in her 40s? Where does she think money even comes from...
thoughts and prayers. Manifesting!
All that passive income! Duh! 😂
Omg seriously, it sounded like talking to a 9-yr-old when you ask them what they have planned when they're an adult.
@@Karlalovescandy18my five-year old knows she has to work
@@glitterstarbeau Good for you. Most kids I've dealt with don't understand the reality and say shit like, "I'm going to be a millionaire by the time I'm 21." Also, knowing people have to work doesn't equal not being delusional/imaginative enough to think one can easily become a millionaire.
she seems depressed :( even though most of her ideas and life plans
are delusional my heart actually goes out to her because you can tell how low she feels
Yes this. She should visit a doctor. She even speaks and moves slowly. And brain-fog kind of thinking, like she can’t figure things out very quickly. Definitely could be depression or a thyroid issue or … ?
I got this too while halfway watching and catching up on work.
Would help if she got medical insurance first
she totally is depressed. I feel for her - she is not delusional I exactly know how she feels, its like you actually gave up on life and life passively
This is what victim mentality gets you. She has zero useful skills, this woman cannot even clip her own toenails. Ik depressed 24/7 but I’m nowhere as inept as this woman what a joke she is just lazy beyond belief
Her "my stomach hurts."
Caleb "well don't fart."
💀💀💀💀
That made me lol
She couldn’t hold it back. She let her rip.
Me hysterically laughing to myself at work 😂😂😂😂
I hope he offered her a snack or something between that cut. 😂 my stomach hurts when I’m hungry too
"we don't need that in here" 😂
“i’m surprised i’m still alive” only prayers for this girl, i hope she finds her peace
Far too lazy and unmotivated to do ANYTHING Caleb suggested.
Borderline Personality Disorder, adverse childhood experiences, and depression can make you not want to participate in society.
I'm glad you can see the pain she's in too.
lol wasted prayers on a lazy fuck
Yo!!! “thinking about getting a rental property “ while living in a car is crazy.
Even if you do own a property, you're lucky if it pays your mortgage and MAYBEEEEE an hundred or two of extra cash.. that certainly would go back into the property for repairs and maintenance. She's thinking it will just provide a lifestyle for her.
Maybe she's talking about getting another car and renting that out 😂
@@dirtyrottencromag🤣
"In the future, duhh"
Tik Tok has melted her brain
This guest is so frustrating, but I honestly feel like she’s not all there mentally. The way she answers is like she’s trying to make everything click, but she just doesn’t understand
This is exactly what I think. I don't think she's all there upstairs. She seems a bit slow to me.
Look up race an iq and it all makes sense
@@nooyouuu6337bruh wtf
So how did she pass getting her CDL and medical assistant for one year so she can pass tests and study but when it comes to working and planning she has total disconnect
@@AuntNessie-u2e Because she's lazy. She's flat out lazy and she clearly says she doesn't want to work. But she is also slow, all her bells aint ringing upstairs. Both can be true at the same time.
Proof that TikTok, RUclips and other social media's are killing peoples financial understandings.
Social media is a helluva drug!
This is just painful to watch!! 😮😮
Wdym, youtube can be great for financial literacy
This whole channel has made lots more people more self aware
its simple math tho….. additions and substractions
Hey but just get passive income and you'll be good, am I right?
I was prepared to be mean but i feel for her because I am her. She is giving up because she is doing everything on her own and she feels lonely. She sees the end goal but not the journey to get there. It's a long process and not an easy one.
No one in the comments are talking about her HEALTH. She looks and feels exhausted, low, foggy, her feet hurt, etc. I think she should get her blood work done. The anger issues could just be mood swings or hormonal issues. PLEASE get your health in check, eat good, exercise, and walk when you can. It will also put you in a good spot mentally and physically, so that you can hustle.
I was just thinking this. It makes me so sad for her
Also, anxiety can show up as anger and irritability.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
but she can't pay pills barely, medical bills are the most common reason people don't go for checkups. But I understand that she could drink more water and make small little changes to help alleviate some of the depression/weight issues. She could get salads and eat whole food meals still shopping at walmart. To-go salads are a thing zaxbys (salad) is better than chick fil a or mcdonalds
Yes, it took me years to figure out I had an enlarged thyroid, hypothyroidism, and Hashimotos. After I finally found a doctor who would listen to me and help me, I changed my entire health around. At the time, I was over weight (40 pounds) and did what the doctors asked me to do to improve my health. Not making excuses for her but all that being out of whack can cause brain fog, depression, anxiety, exhaustion, mood swings, etc.
I really do feel bad for her. She is incredibly out of touch with reality.
She has been the most pleasant of the past at least 5 guests. A little delusional maybe but she didn’t get on Caleb’s case over the difference between Spanish and Portuguese 😅
Wait, which one was this? I think I missed it 💀
@@PepsiInc341oh man you are MISSING OUTTT its the one right before this about the “wannabe popstar”
@@kshot1999 on my way now, thank you 🫡😂
@@kshot1999Probably the funniest one so far lol
By far the most funny
She sounds depressed. Irritable and not wanting to do anything. I can’t believe she chose to live in her car. I didn’t know that was a thing.
Alot of ppl making money off it on social media they really glamorous homelessness.
@@Kia-mi6im alot of ppl lying about it and making money on it** and others assuming everything they see iin a video is all there is.
It’s terrifying hearing people use words like passive income and fire with not even knowing how to operate a calculator. People are becoming walking internet memes because they are easily sold on a fantasy lifestyle but have zero ambition to follow through.
It was just buzzwords. 'A little bit of knowledge, is a dangerous thing'.
Yeah. She not only has no idea of what she’d actually need to retire, she doesn’t even know how to calculate it.
She probably needs at least $2m to retire. And since she needs a home, too, probably $2.5m. Adjusting for inflation, she’d probably have to invest at least $110k a year for 15 years. Something she simply isn’t going to do
Taling about FIRE and passive income but quits every job and doesn't want to work and hates working ash she put it.
@@Canadishsadly doesn’t even have a little bit of knowledge
Don’t forget “cash envelope system”
This is really sad. Delusion is an island, and she's living there rent-free.
She can’t even afford rent on that island
The island is shrinking. She's gonna have to live on a boat soon.
I counted up two days of her charges for food. She dropped about $40 a day on fast food, that’s 1200 a month!
That is likely her only source of happiness. She seems to be depressed. She mentioned just ending it. Shes clearly using food addictively because there doesn't seem to be much for her to live for.
When you’re homeless it’s easy to overspend on food since you don’t have stable refrigeration, cooking supplies, and even a way to cook. (It all depends on season and where you live. Luckily this is TX so parks in the winter that have a grill can be usable, but mental health is a major factor for this.)
The level of immaturity in this person is astounding. At 27 years old it shows how growing up was for her. The goals and scattered brain is rough to listen to. Wishing her the best
Right? And at the end being like, 3 years is so looong. Like, bitch you did this to yourself over the course of like 9 years so far. It didn't happen overnight
Hate to say it, but this reminded me of conversations I've had with a cognitively disabled family member.
I don’t hate to say it. 😒. If we don’t people can’t get it together
Exactly. People keep saying she's depressed (and she probably is) but she's intellectually slow, aka cognitively challenged.
In other words, she can't think in any complex manner.
Same!!! Lives in a delusional world where things will just somehow appear, without putting any work to it.
Her face has the hallmarks of FAS
@@allthatsheizcalling her cognitively disabled is going to get her out of debt?
“I don’t want to work. I just don’t like to work.” -- everytime! No one likes to work!!!! Being an adult sucks!!! Be one anyway!!!
I don't like working.
But I don't like be a broke homeless bum more.
@@amp2193i swear 😂
Work is about finding a job that you can both tolerate and live off of. Some people are allergic to that.
I enjoy working, i do wish i had more leisure time but i enjoy my secular work life
I love working. I get frustrated if I am not working and have been productive.
I think she needs more than just financial counseling, she needs mental health counseling. I recognize a lot of the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and being overwhelmed. I think she’s a hard worker, but lacks the mental strength to “stay the course”. I do want to give her a hug and say “I’ve been there. You’re gonna make it. You just need real support (not RUclips or TikTok-and I’m not including Caleb in this category because he’s is the real deal). A good counselor can give you the tools you need to dig deep and not just survive. But thrive.”
My best wishes to you 🙏🏻
and physical health counseling for her own overall health
I agree with this wholeheartedly.
@@John-lz9im well, I’m just going off the 40 hr main job and the 30 hour weekly side hustle. I realize it is entirely possible that those are embellished figures, but going off face value, she can definitely hustle. But I stand by what I said about her being overwhelmed, mentally and physically, and needing healthcare desperately. Maybe some of the criticisms you pointed out would be addressed with proper health care. I sure hope so.
@@John-lz9imshe has two jobs and does Uber Eats on the side ? Just because she quit truck driving doesn’t mean she isn’t working
@@John-lz9imShe was a CNA for seven years. That's back breaking.
Thanks for being empathetic with this guest, she’s got some deep deep issues that go further than just financial issues 😢
Everytime i open a shopping app, I imagine Caleb shouting "YOU DONT NEED IT" and close the app
I gave up online shopping for lent.
Life hack!!! 😂😂😂
I deleted them off my phone. Lol If I need it, or want it badly enough, I have to wait until I get home and have to boot up my computer.
Owner operator here. Unfortunately, this poor girl has no idea what she’s talking about. We saved up $100,000 before we even became owner operators. And it took us about 15 years to save that money. You have to have thousands of dollars to back you up when you become an owner operator. You have to always be ready for maintenance, breakdowns, tires etc. The insurance alone on just one truck is over $1000 a month. And depending on how much diesel is each day, it can range from $370 all the way up to $500 per day. I have a dedicated load where I drive 523 miles per day. We make really good money but it’s a huge risk to have a truck on the road and it’s taken us a lot of hard work and dedication to get here. I’m not saying that this young lady can’t do that, but she needs to come to terms with reality. She needs to learn to work hard and I believe if she took a little weight off. She would get her self-confidence not to mention the energy that she needs to be able to work and I’m not saying this to put her down. It’s the reality of the situation. That is what is holding her back on pretty much everything right now. I am a woman truck driver as well and it is not easy to get your license. I had to work hard, and I had to earn my license. I was very fortunate to have my husband who also trained me for a few months more after I got out of the Trucking School. Because like the other truck driver above stated a lot of drivers just get their license and then they’re thrown out on the road and they have no idea what they’re doing. It’s so incredibly dangerous. And I know most of them are driving automatic trucks, but there’s still a lot to learn that you don’t learn in Trucking School. I wish her the best, but she needs to come to terms with reality.
Thank you for sharing this. Former dispatcher here and I respect truck drivers so much. People don't realize how dangerous and how stressful that job can be for drivers. The situations that can come up are continuous. And yes trucks breaking down, insurance, diesel, parking those costs add up.
15 years for 100k?I got lucky then.made 200k my first year after taxes as a none owner operator. But it was moving.so tough labor.
@@angeluceta5688200k after taxes in one year? As a non-owner operator? This sounds...incredulous.
...Embezzlement? Lol
This girl couldn't even handle the logistics of navigating a Walmart to get a fingernail clipper and trim her own nails. Pretty sure it is safe to say she cannot handle becoming an owner/operator or managing rental properties for passive income.
@@FableCountry we get pay not just for the miles,but also cubic feet in the trailer+ alot other extra things like shuttles,pianos,stairs,long walks.you also get tips which is thousands a month on top of pay.
So let me get this straight - do you want a career? No! Do you want to work hard? No….Do you have any ambition? No….except I want to FIRE and buy real estate. Oh lord
She’s burnt out.
To be fair: I make over $145k/yr & I don’t want to work hard either! I wanna sit on my ass & get money from real estate investing too…but these bills ain’t paying themselves in the meantime! 😅
She wants the rewards but not the work that gets you there.
@@tvdavis I mean fair I keep telling my husband to make more money so I can stay at home haha
When she said “I’m surprised I’m still alive” my heart broke, this lady seems so sweet, it just seems like she was never taught these things growing up.
Not willing to learn, so I have no sympathy
I totally agree
I ama also suprised she's still alive.
This is at least the first episode in a while were I didn’t hate the person on the show, but I’m genuinely concerned if she has some kind of additional needs. I hope it works out for her.
I'm a mental health counselor. She would not be a difficult client at all. I would help her explore what kind of job might suit her best. She works 40hrs a week at the shuttle job? That's not lazy. So she doesn't manage money well. How do you teach someone how to manage money, do you call them stupid to their face? Cause that's practically what Caleb's doing. You have to meet people where they're at, not judge them and expect them to be different. She's tired, she's overweight, she's living in a car, she has a job she hates, so let's discourage her more, call her lazy, tell her she should do IT work. Insist on that. Caleb is truly unskilled with people.
@@Arete37I love you, thank you for helping people! It was patience and kindness like yours that allowed to me to feel safe and heal, grow my self worth, etc
@@Arete37Caleb explicitly states he has the conversations with others that he wished someone gave him when he was in debt. He uses shame as a technique to get people to change, and has said on many episodes if that doesn’t work for you then you shouldn’t go on the show. His statistics on success after the show clearly shows he’s skilled with people in helping them with their finances, people forget this is not a mental health counselling show
@@Arete37she definitely could use evaluation for depression. Caleb is usually very loud about the need for therapy. He does not try to use counseling skills he's not trained in but instead is that blunt friend who calls you on your BS.
As an overweight person dealing with foot issues at 34, eating better and losing weight will help so much. I can't imagine how hard weight loss would be living in a car, it's already hard enough for me living in an apartment.
You can do it, just stick with it!
Tuna packets, salads at the salad bar or prepared in house. Apples, pears, avocados , and bags of popcorn is what I buy for my weekday diet.
Whenever I get bored and have the urge to shop, I go to the gym. If she hits the gym daily, she's also got a place to shower and get ready.
@@homewreckerburritothe planet fitness is becoming the mecca for people living in their cars. All the showers you want for $10/mo 😂😂 That's how I did it!
This woman gives me the same vibes as the one girl who got fired because she would clock in to work an then go park her car, used company equipment for personal messaging, etc. Just totally detached from reality.
Yesssss omg they would be besties lol
What episode is that?
@@Lilsodapop__its about 6 months back episode is called im done
She Blatt, an she feemail
Was thinking the same thing lol. It blows my mind people can be this delusional
As a former truckdriver who was homeless during my time as an otr driver, the best thing I did was put all of my stuff in a storage unit and I practically lived in the truck because it's a home on wheels. I'm sure she could still get back into a truck for long hauls as long as her cdl is till active, pay off her debts, save a butt load of money and then get out of the truck with something lined up for her to do for a living. Or start a career in. Then again, she's making stupid decisions based off what she feels like doing. Remove the emotions and follow the logic
What is the address on your driver's license when you do that? The storage unit :D ?
@@TryHardNewsletter 420 Elm Street
“I don’t want a career. I hate careers.” Some people just don’t/ won’t ever get it.
That one hurt me
I had a panic moment when I heard that… my career is something I’m so proud of and work hard at and not having that motivation or passion for something I can’t imagine
"I hate kids. I may have kids." Uhh.. say what now?
@@shanyshan603 Same. It would be a meaningless life imo.
I can sympathize with that statement a bit. In my Ind, a career implies a management position,which is slightly more money per hour for a ton more responsibility and BS. In retail, which is 90%of my work experience, that includes shielding lower ranked team mates from shouting Karens.
Every time I see one of these videos I automatically open my bank account on the side and start calculating the shit expenses I have had this month and imagine Caleb shouting at me. 😅
open all my Credit card apps and pay down the balances, even though I do that every Friday anyway. LOL I get anxious and start double checking all my accounts.
Haha same for me, I made a financial spreadsheet document in google drive that I use, these episodes encourage me to update it consistently and to look at the bad numbers.
The plan is working 😅
YOU ARE NOT A CREDIT CARD PERSON!
Same here. I’m keeping a spreadsheet of my expenses. Fast food and useless stuff is under “Taquitos”
I'll be honest I do think this women has been sold a dream but she's been sold a dream while also being despressed. The way she talks about life, work and almost everything she doesn't seem to care or have much emotion.
Agree, she seems cognitively slowed and low volume voice which can be signs of depression
Excellent closing line with the percentages, her sign of relief was a bit of hope she needed. You're really doing a great job Caleb!
Today I got married ❤ and because of your videos I payed off all my credit card debt! I want to start this new chapter in my life debt free
Congratulations!
Congrats!!!!
Crazy to think you got married “today” and are on here commenting lol
@@windycitywarrior71 yeah it was courthouse wedding 😂 had a lot more free time that I thought
What a way to spend your wedding day, watching an hour long RUclips video... 😳
This show is so formulaic. If you watch one episode you know exactly what questions caleb is gunna ask you. If you sign up for the show and cant give an estimate of your basic monthly income then you either did not prepare or dont care at all
I became homeless and had a wild year-long journey back to housing. I had $3,600 in savings and minimal credit card debt, plus a job paying $30/hr and it took everything and then some to get back to stability. Frist last and deposit alone was $7,000. Car troubles also thousand and thousands. This woman is so niave to what it's going to take to get back to stability.
Rip
Respect to you. Homelessness is scary and so, so hard
Glad to hear you’re doing better! Keep up all the hard work!
Girl. You can do it. No kids , not married. You can buy a house within 3 years- if you budget correctly
Someone needs to sit this girl down and talk to her about life. She is directionless just existing with no idea what she wants to do for work, what she needs to retire, if she wants a spouse/kids, and no goals for the future.... not to mention a poor attitude and zero drive to do anything with her life. She would rather make excuses and remain in her current situation than do what it takes to dig herself out. She needs way more help than just one hour of financial advice.
Exactly...she needs the services of a clinician.
Directionless is an accurate description
I really feel more sympathy to her than your other recent guests. I feel she just needs strong guidance and a reality check. She needs someone in her life that will constantly push her to do and be better. I really hope she is able.
Lol yes easy to garner sympathy for her especially after the previous episode with the defensive wannabe pop star lol she was horrible
But you have to push yourself at some point. Nobody can hold your hand forever. You won’t grow.
so like a damn child....at her grown age of 27 is pathetic with a piss poor attitude
Caleb goes in on these people because they need it - but to see how he actually cares about them and wants the best for them is really welcoming and heartwarming. You’re a good dude Caleb
This is the perfect example of what social media does to people. She’s so confused and living off the “reality” of tik tok and RUclips influencers.
As a female trucker, it hurts to say this, but I dont think her going back OTR is the right answer. Especially mentally, I think she'll be worse off. Trucking, especially OTR, isn't all fun and games. It's stressful, draining, demanding, and hard work. And she has a bad attitude. All of that is Trouble with a capital T, which could result in her potentially hurting herself and/ or others, or doing alot of damage. Attitude alone can get her banned from so many places and get her into a lot of trouble. I've seen it happen a lot, especially with women. I hope she gets the help she needs and that her situation gets better.
It's nice to hear from a trucker! Thanks for sharing
Yes! That OTR Trucker life is no joke! It has torn my dad’s body down, I keep begging him to retire. He’s 62.
Truckers are the blood that runs our country. Wish we could make it better for yall. Better seating, better sleep overs, better money etc. thank you Truckers ❤ much respect! The truckers I know especially those who truck fuel have had smarts, attitude and responsibility. Unfortunately this lady lacks these qualities. I don’t think she would even be happy if she was a house wife. I think she would be the wife who watches daytime television and let the house go to rack and ruin and use every single excuse why she can’t do things. I hope she gets some depression treatment - being homeless isn’t helping her. But I hope she atleast finds a place to live and starts focusing on practical goals. Little goals. Cooking and working etc
I'd much rather be a truck driver than broke and homeless while I work as a dominos driver ...-truck driver
Exactly. I’ve been trucking for a year now and it is a hard career. I feel like a lot of people (including me) come into it with these romantic ideas of what it will be like. I get to travel and see the country! What you’re actually going to see is dirty truck stops and traffic for miles and the side of the road waiting for road side to come fix a popped tandem tire.
Majority of people aren’t made for it but it almost doubled my income and I don’t regret it at all!
“Every American is like that” GIRL not this American don’t put that evil on me Ricky Bobby😂
Oh my god I say that all the time in real life😂
there is a very big difference between the average American and every American
We feared zombies but if financial irresponsibility were contagious I'd be living in an underground shelter
Something about your name being "texas girl" and defending Ricky Bobby made me laugh harder than i should have😂
I heard Michael Clarke Duncan 's voice.
OTR truck driver here.
The job is more mentally straining than most people would guess. I've always been an introvert, but after 2 months even I was starting to feel stressed.
BUT it does get easier.
Also if you're an over the road truck driver, you could live out of the back of your truck. So you don't have to pay rent, and all the money that would have gone to rent can go to paying down your debts and eventually saving up for a house.
I worked as a dispatcher for several years. I respect over the road truck drivers tremendously. People don't understand the shit they have to deal with when delivering a load etc. I do know drivers that live on their truck or would have weekends off and just rent a motel for a couple of days.
“Saving up for a house” 😂
@@SmallAndSoft
I bought a house with this job
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@@Sadreath
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the fact that Caleb was like, "are you pranking me? ARE you pranking me?" LOL
2 minutes in.
“I use it for fun money”
*is homeless*
Shit… here we go.
Right?? I almost spit coffee on my computer when he revealed that.
You sound like me 😂😂😂
You forgot the again part.
The idea that cash is useless blew my mind. I have a coworker like this who always wants to pay/split things with cash app to the point of not wanting to receive cash money anymore. Paying fees or interest to use apps and credit cards instead of cash is beyond me.
there are soo many scams being run on the internet that got people CONVINCED they can „just start a business“ or „just earn passive income“ and get rich quick, it’s so disheartening:( these things take advantage of the most financially vulnerable people😔
You cannot possibly blame other people for her lack of intelligence. She has no idea what she's taking in. It's all just talking points with no substance behind it. If she was putting money towards some program I would understand but she's not. She's just slow. God bless her but she needs somebody, whether that's family or a significant other, badly in her life to lean on.
Having had personal experience with a family member with this, she almost appears to me to be developmentally disabled. Until this is addressed, nothing else is going to help her,
Exactly
Yeah, I had the same suspicion as the video progressed, and she seemed to keep making statements that are not actually connected to reality. Broke, jobless, living in a car and suggests she gets passive income by owning a rental property. All the other stuff she said along the way as she revealed how she used to make more money as a truck driver, and seemed to acknowledge her current situation has been affected now that she's not working that job. Then in the next breath said how she didn't want to be a truck driver because it was boring. Then revealed that she quit that job as a truck driver.
This poor woman needs someone to help her and make sure she's not making poor/irresponsible decisions that's going to entrench her into prolonged homelessness.
I also have a family member who makes a lot of bad decisions and refuses to help themselves who has a developmental disability (which she denies, says she's grown out of it 😑) but I don't get that impression from this girl. She just seems delusional. I've met many like her. They don't want to work, and they think an easy life will fall out of the sky for them
So tired of people blaming mental. That’s not what this is. It’s just lazy and wanting without have to work for it
You know what it is (hint: 300 years of certain genetics passed down)
Just found this today. I believe she's on the spectrum. That being said, she can learn. She expects Caleb to do all the work and she'll try to follow it. She's depressed, lonely and very overwhelmed. I hope she can get someone who will really help and guide her.
She’s not on the spectrum she’s just lazy
My heart goes out to this girl … we can all sit in our homes, laugh and criticize but this is a young woman who’s hurting. She’s angry, confused and isolated. Depression looks different for everyone.
She's also severely overweight.
Exactly!!
She just needs a lot of help and guidance, there's a bigger story here. How has she ended up living in a bloody car😢
I couldn’t agree with you more. My heart goes out to her. This could be any one of us. Mental illness definitely looks different for everyone and for those that have no compassion or empathy be VERY careful Making fun of her because you could be in her situation next month. I pray that she gets the help that she needs in every way because she deserves it. Sending healing to her and positive vibes.
Yes. It also sounds like she may have developmental delays or challenges, and it’s unfortunate when they are used for entertainment
Dang though, she is really out of touch with reality and really does not understand a lot of living costs. Like frighteningly so. As a mental health professional, I seriously have doubts about her mental acuity.
SAME.
I love you Caleb but I would love it if there were some guests that had nicer situations. I'd love seeing you deep dive into more details of how to make an OK situation good, or a good situation great. Also, the idea of seeing you actually happy on camera is something i NEED
Same
could not agree more. He used to have these episodes in the past.
Commenting to boost this, yes please.
Yes this
While I like this idea, I don’t find it too realistic. Caleb prides himself on the “tough love” and that’s just not the same for a good or even an OK financial situation.
I absolutely cant get over her hair. Shes so pretty , her hair is beautiful. If she cared a tiny bit more... BOOM 💥 beautiful.lol her voice is soothing though..
I wish her the best.
It’s a clip on or drawstring synthetic ponytail she’s wearing. Not her real hair. They come in many curly textures
@@aissaissbbyhow do you know? Plenty of people have hair like she does.
She probably lost her CDL because she could no longer pass the DOT physical. Happens to a lot of truck drivers.
Yes🎉
Had no idea there was a physical check (not that I ever looked into it... Just surprised).
@@thinkingblack4035 Same! Very interesting.
Uncontrolled high blood pressure, cholesterol or diabetes will invalidate the CDL. You can still keep CDL if you can get disease under control (i.e. do what Dr. says, take any prescribed meds & follow lifestyle advice, & have more frequent follow ups). Standard CDL requires physical every 2 years, may be more frequent with health conditons.
@@thinkingblack4035yep every truck drivers has to have a medical examination on file with the DPS. Every 24 months it must be renewed
$646 car insurance?! She’s literally being scammed holy
Gotta be geico
Or she’s got a bunch of accidents. And she’s allegedly a truck driver. That scares me.
She probably paid ahead for half a year. The total monthly transportation expense is $615 including $546 car payment.
@@Tr3v1sinterestingly, I just changed insurance from Wawanesa to Geico because it was literally $1000/yr cheaper than any other company. 33, clean record, 2018 Lexus IS in southern Cali. I got hit with a 40% increase from every other company. Shocked that Geico was so much cheaper with the same coverage. Sorry for the story you didn't ask for. 😅
if its a 6 or 12 month insurance (although i doubt its 12 months), it isnt that far fetched. EDIT: holy fuck it is per month
Every guest is always just starting a new job it feels like
I commented this in the last video that how many of these people "just started a new job" is truly mind blowing
Or just started budgeting
I just started this new comment
Only trainwrecks are invited to the show. Drama gets the views.
Or have no job or have a job with a bunch of other “jobs” on the side
If y'all aren't Jamaican or Caribbean, just know Oxtails are the most expensive thing at Caribbean restaurants. Oxtails are like that end of the week treat you get, but they only give you a little or mostly bone and you're okay with it because it's oxtail. She has no money, but bought oxtail.
Find the right Jamaican restaurant - make friends with them, they not going to give you all their profit but they'll hook up your plate! Now I have to get to my spot next week!!! 🤤🥱
This poor girl has been let down by several people and entities. If she wasn't in special education in school she was let down, period. This video is the largest argument for financial education for people with learning disabilities I have ever seen. It is obvious that this woman has some sort of special need that hasn't been addressed, and it breaks my heart.
I have worked with several people that had developmental handicaps & never got past 3rd-6th grade in school. Yet they were much sharper financially than most of Caleb's guests!!They lived within their means & watched their savings accounts like hawks!!
@@kaythegardenerabsolutely! I was just saying to my husband (talking about this guest) that we have personally known people with profound learning disabilities who had their ish together MUCH more than this woman does, and I lay at least part of the blame for her situation on the people around her who obviously did not do a great job of guiding her. She just grasps onto stuff she's heard on social media (the car living, FIRE method, etc) and just assumes it will work - critical thinking skills may not come to her naturally, but she could definitely be taught them and be able to use them.
I totally agree with you. The school system failed her and her parents or guardian just could not help her.
Yes, I've know people like her who have got lost in the educational system and were never able to recover when they should have had special education classes so very sad.
You all have GOT to stop making excuses for people. Her mental decline comes from wanting the end result but not the work. See how fast she said she didn't want a tech job or a career? Want to know why? Because studying and work is involved. No teacher can make you do the work that's a CHOICE you make for yourself.
Not gonna lie gettin tired of seeing people who don’t/wont change and would much rather see someone that looks like there gonna make progress
They have to apply to be on the show, so it definitely depends on who wants to be on
@@alexsingleton0 And who will make an interesting show.
Most people who possess the capacity to turn their lives around do not wind up in this position in the first place.
I’ve been in her shoes and I’m still working on it.. sounds like depression. I’m proud of her for coming on the show and seeking help.
Same.
I don’t think it’s depression she really struggles to understand basic things
@@WinterM-hr3xvyeah, she's confused why would Caleb consider CASH as INCOME. I don't even... Not knowing how much you make might be part of depression, not understanding why must be a marker of some kind of mental development issues
It’s like she’s depressed but doesn’t have the capacity to recognize it.
I genuinely like this girl and wish her the best. She seems like a very nice, kind person just way in over her head financially. The budget should help her immensely if she follows it. I hope she gets into a better situation and prospers. Pretty cool she has a CDL even if she's tired of that line of work. Best wishes!
im glad you drop new videos as fast as i can watch them
Same! I watch while I’m working and sometimes and have to rewatch a portion to fully grasp the wtf. By the time I’m done, it’s the next video drop!
Hahah, here for you!
You entertainment is top notch 👌
Poor Caleb! Sometimes, you just can’t fix other people’s issues. But we all applaud you for your dedication and attempts
She can legally drive a semi truck? That’s legitimately terrifying.
She has such beautiful skin, a pretty face (those cheekbones!) and a lovely voice. I hope she gets better. This is so so sad to see. Thanks for trying Caleb.
I agree! I truly think she is beautiful
She has a very beautiful face
She’s soooo pretty! Wish Caleb would have dug a little bit when she said something about her insecurities and not making it to LA. I didn’t follow her train of thought there, because she then tied it to finances.
@@2passportsandpostcards yes! She had a lot going on but her insecurities play a big role. I hope she can follow some of Caleb's advice.
wtf does that have to do with anything lol
Honestly she needs therapy. From those “just kill me” and I’m surprised I’m still alive comments it tells me she’s given up on life and just going thru the motions
This is 100% true! This literally use to be me!
I was surprised Caleb didn't offer that to her. He's usually very generous with that
@@nikkibadzik3948 same, i pray she gets the help she needs
This poor girl is lost. I hope she gets help, she needs mental stability first and foremost.
I really really need the updates videos from every guest