Trauma Healing Institute 2018 Community of Practice - Diane Langberg - Opening Presentation
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Diane Langberg: Living with the Inheritance of Trauma
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Thank you for helping me understand my deep emotional traumas!
Dear Diane. Thank you so much. I was born into trauma and now have physical and mental health issues. However, despite everything, I have made it my life's mission to break the cycle and I am so happy that my son is thriving despite divorce and paternal family manipulation. I have only done what comes naturally as a Mother. I offer unconditional love to my son and myself. I try to live as an example of self-care. I have learned boundaries. I never speak ill to my son about his family as I intuitively know this would be deeply traumatic for him. It is like a miracle that he is growing up as mature and kind and spending more and more time with me and my partner and also our family in Ireland (we live in Italy ).. I tell him that I love him unconditionally, that I am here and that he can choose to pursue what makes him happy and not do what others may pressure him to do..I suffer from complex trauma and often feel like an alien in this world where I never felt safe or loved or seen growing up. I have forgiven, for my own sake, and because I know my caregivers and their caregivers had complex trauma too. Thank you for your work. Much love Xxx Pauline
Thank you so much for making this material accessible for the public.
The worst is one continually abuses oneself. The thoughts never cease. It's comfortable in the swamp. The garden is what's terrifying.
Yikes, no kidding.
Thank you kindly.I understand very much of you have talked about.I very have very much related to what you have explained and she'd light on.A simple thank you
Thank you for making this accessible
Diane Langberg, you guide me in a perfect way how to deal with my traumas, I told them all to Jezus, I gave them all to Jezus and now I am loved and blesed and protected by God. The paine is gone and I thank The Lord for you. May God bless you, love, Beatriz
You are a gifted speaker & I am so grateful to have found your channel!
You touch my soul like almost no other. I am shaking inside, to think of how evil man can be to others, especially the innocent. How to escape cynicism and even despair, and to keep the faith is the challenge of a lifetime. We, I, must keep oil in our lamps, by reading the Word, praying continually, finding true fellowship AND helping others....and not become weary in well-doing. Sigh.... Thank-you, Diane, and May God continue to Bless you and your work, and keep you strong in body, mind, and spirit.
You are so right. My parents were victims of Khmer Rouge regime. Their negative thinking and traumatised behaviour have affected all of us. We had to learn to fight, to live in a civilised way of life. Even though it was tough at time. But in the end, we all made it through, to becoming one of the most successful people on earth, knowing how to live in peace and in such prosperous way of life. Our parents were so aggressive toward us after war ended, they would use physical and emotional punishment because of their mental health issues. At the same time, we had to try to not be angry at them, because we believed it was communists (Chinese and Vietnamese) aimed to destroy us all, from our existence, they took away our innocents, our country and nation. Cambodians’ history is in parallel with the Jews (Israel) genocide. But, all been covered up by putting the blame onto Pol Pot rather than communists Chinese and Vietnamese whom behind of such atrocity. . Hopefully, one day those elites will expose of such true facts, so that it can be healed or to put a closer on to it. Otherwise, the world will not come to an end, but rather continuing to face with their karma. Because God said, no one can get away from any crime that they have committed. You are so right, today most Cambodians are still being affected by PTSD, and still wanting justice be done for them. To bring the perpetrators communists Chinese and Vietnamese to justice. But, it looks like, impossible. Because otherwise it would involve in those behind it all from World War II as well. In this sense, they all owed khmers trillion of dollars for damaging her and her people, in which no one would want to make a payout. Instead, they rather continue put the blame onto Pol Pot. To get away from such debts. Conclusion: both Israel (Jews) and Cambodia (Khmers) were God’s Chosen people of the East and of the West facing ‘Genocide’ e.g Jerusalem (Jesus) and Angkor Wat (Hinduism and later Buddhism) both have parcelled principles of practice, love, unity and respect. Where evil hated most. Anyway, thank you Dr Diane. .
Anything you say is an ointment to the wounds that I carry..... thx.
Maria M: And I also feel her understanding, knowledge and compassion, as well as presenting what we can do ourselves to heal, and that healing is POSSIBLE, is encouraging and hopeful. Great also to hear that relatively whole-childhood people often will be traumatized by adult events of concentration camps, traffickíng etc.
Claudia Bothner yes. There is a way out of suffering , n pain. Thank you for your compassion. 🙏💖🤗
@@mariamkinen8036 Thank you, Maria, and A Good 12-days of Christmas to you.I went to old Mother who spoiled it for me by her negative stuckness, criticism, emotional- moral absence,destructiveness and contempt, rejection. Want to use the remaining time, but need someone to co-work with a little. Have to get to sleep early, regularly and eat 3 regular meals a day.
Claudia Bothner self-care is the basis of getting things right. I trust the mean, n fail with my recovery , too. We make a difference as the personas we are . Happy New Year to you! 🙏🤗
Amen 🙏
Thank you.....I am going through so much in a horribly abusive relationship that I am desperate to get out of. Thank you. God bless you.
NEVER AGAIN The song Runaway Train helped me as I was in an abusive relationship that I knew I needed to get out of but felt lost as to how to get out. Hoping you find resources in your area that can help you through this horrible time. Sending strength and love.
Beware! Ppl who get away from an abusive relationship usually go right back into the same relationship. Just pointing out.
I hope you are safe now.
One more piece of the puzzle. A long struggle to understand who I am and more so why. Thank you for your presentation.
Dear Dr. Langberg, your presentation is like you have watched my childhood and describe what happened. I had all the signs of a boy who had been sexually molested when I was a baby. I had the stretching on my private parts of an adult male involved with pornography when I was six years old. I was held back in the 3rd grade. My mother said I should have been treated for depression when I was in grade school. The Child Protection Act of 1974 required teachers to report the sex abuse of children. I was in school in 1974. Doctors, Gym Teachers, Swim Teachers, and many others would have seen these stretch marks. They had to have known I was traumatized by sex molestation. Why was nothing done? I suspect I was molested intentionally and there was never any plan to treat me. The decision to neglect me when I was a child has had tremendously negative effects on my entire life.
I'm crying
I hope you're doing ok these days :)
Grace to you!
I hope you are doing better today.
Love....Thank you. Life is not the same for all...
You are so good. Lovely. True.Heaps of thanks. Super duper....💕
It also changes genetic expression! God help us heal, and bless those who help!!!!!
Amen 🙏
I CAN NEVER GET Over This ORDEAL unless I am given all the CREDIT to be HEALED. MY Mind is clear n sound !!!
I'm fine.TY. Love this group of ppl pulling their weight together! ❤️
When I was a child there was no place to run to home and school were the same a gauntlet of abuse and neglect a constant diet of psychological fear. When I was 38, I ran off a 1400 foot cliff. After taking a four day crash course on hang gliding my reason to understand the difference between psychological fear and real fear. The experiment was successful I lived and I couldn't tell the difference between real fear and psychological fear one can kill instantly the other over time. I'm 65 years old now and just now learning about CPTSD I wish I had never been born.
Grace to you!
It's high time n very much possible to break the sequence of a generational curse. Or a curse praised upon reasons of greed n hatred. May it fail as a benediction upon me n mine. My child. Light comes out after darkness ...🤗
Im so glad i saw this because i had teachers bosses and adults lie about me and really scared me to trust any authority
Hard to grow up in toxic environment. My father was narcisitic to the core, made my life difficult and confusing for years…i m still working to have a better life, taking carr of my body my mind and soul…had difficulties with alcohol, low self esteem for years…took me years and a deep crisis to search and change….regarding my father i dont blame him as he was a victim as well, however he seemed to be comfortable is his roll….he was totally desconnected of his body and his soul living in his head with an inflated autodestructive ego…he passed away and i am slowly and gently connecting to the body…making connection with my other selfes that were created in order to deal with the abusive envirnonmet from an early age…..i remember having terror of my dad, hate weekends and i was only 6….have you ever see into a childs eyes….everytime i see a kid of that age i usually made them laugh and then when i see this i understand that my father was dead inside, disconected….otherwise is not possible to attack a kid no matter what…
I have not sinned. I can be made accountable only for my own flaws, but not those of an entire clan of global narcissists!
The worst part is, not only are you traumatized in childhood, the trauma continuous into adulthood- and now they have "abuse by proxy- so you get harassed on the internet, by phone, by text, email- covert abusers :-) I tell you, if I did not have God in my life I would not know where I would be. He has finally made me see how much He loves me and that I don't need people's approval at all!!! Thank you Father in Heaven! God is sooo good!
Amen 🙏
Thank You
Abuse the gift that just keeps on giving.
Dear dr diane, do u know or recomend a christian therapist who works in lebanon?
I wish i could get good counseling
I never really know why I feel as if I didn't exist, at times.. it annoys me .... I do not need to feel shame for what other ppl do,whoever they might be. I am my own self.
Mum was a true mum. Comforting. But troubled in her marriage. I had narratives from mum.n her parents. Life is not all bad nor all good. It can be both and. N rather it is.
It's not worth the while to remain stuck in this subject matter. Life has so much better things to offer.....I choose life n happiness.With my daughter joining in. 💰has a funny impact on so many.....
10:46 that is so beautiful.
This sounds like what we are going through during covid
What does that girl do????
Thank u
In conclusion. To be able to give we first have to get. Be loved.It DOES NOT TAKE A LIFETIME TO GET HEALED, Even IF IT TOOK A LIFE TO BE HURT. Because of Your Work DIANE. Let us be cured. Thanks.
Let's have Mercy give me the Providence of the Reversal of this state. Amen .i am innocent n repent.
Diane. The odds are that I have already healed. GAS lighting is A-B-U-S-E! No offence when it comes to your persona. I am grateful for this information.
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I need my own say. N the surgery to walk. I am an individual n can look after myself. I have a home . Amen . I could temporarily become American due to the help I need. The surgery. Eva is my biological off-spring. My mind is clear sound n sharp. In English by choice
One can practice a religion , or not practice any. I already have faith .
It takes a lot less trauma to get the very similar life outcome as the girl in the example she gives.
Yeah. I've always felt traumatized, even though I don't remember anything. But I felt bad like I didn't deserve to feel as bad as I do because so many others went through way, way worse things. I wish I could get over it and be resilient.
28:06 - wow.
A time at highest 1-3 months ,is the time a child can be separated from his or her parents. I had to, once stay for 6 months due to illness. Flu.The first 2 years are detrimental
in the development of an infant's life. N connection. I must have been approx. 3-4, but...That's one way I got hurt.
I think that too many women are forced back to work or otherwise separated from their babies too early. Borderline personality disorder is steeped in terror of abandonment and is said to be developed then. It's a lifelong struggle that could have been nipped in the bud early on. Some kids are okay if they get good care or are really loved and appreciated, but many feel neglected.
@ 6:42-6:53 Amen.
So: stuck in this to keep up the public image? Or not. Decoy. Ransom. Cost of living ❤️ I will fight on....
Shame about the religious aspect of her talks. Apart from that , she explains Cptsd all beautifully , with compassion understanding and a great amount of insight. Only wish I had met her 40 + years ago .
My stepfather was a minister, and trafficked me, etc. I HATE religion, all of us do. So if she pushes religion, it negates her worth to me. I hope others will be helped.
@@jasminaalm I am sorry your religious experience was so horrific. No child should experience such terrible things. If it is any consolation for you, God has warned people not to harm little children because it would be better for the perpetrator to have a millstone wrapped around his neck and dropped into the ocean. He also warned never to use religion for personal gain. This beast who did these things to you will pay a tremendous price.
Beverly Jensen - my stepmother was my Sunday school teacher and would start my day of beatings at 3 am with a cold shower and water boarding. I was locked in a basement naked, had to sleep on a bare concrete floor and ate my food on my hands and knees out of a dog dish.
I understand your frustration but that is evil, not good and not God. I knew evil before I knew good and before I came to know God.
@@boxelder9167 It never fails to bring tears to my eyes to hear such horrific stories about little children. If people could just understand what a tremendous gift little children are to us. I am thankful you survived and have found God. I hope Beverly and all the others out there will find the true God and not the one people hide behind to do their evil deeds.
@@jasminaalm Please dont judge God, thru the people who hurt you. Not all who claim to be Christians, are following Jesus. Gods love for you is perfect. He is faithful. His beauty is beyond measure. Taste and see , that the Lord is good. I did 😊 I'm praying for you, Beverly. BIG HUGS 🤗
I saw one of Diane's other videos and i was hooked. That is until the last portion where she brought 'god' into it.
My CPTSD is a result of religion (the jehovah's witness cult). So, what a major turn off for me when i realized that she is into all that BS!
Too bad...
Down with the Tower- ex JW I agree about the religious aspect, but it is a small part of her videos and I haven’t come across anyone else yet that explains CPTSD better and with so much compassion.
It sounds like you could benefit from knowing the true God and healing therapy!
Jehovah Witness is a false religion. Please don't judge God, by people who have told you lies, and hurt you. I'm praying for you. BIG HUGS 🤗
Is it routinely a common practise to batter n ossify the have- not's in the Anglo-American world? It did not use to be. Most likely this is a hate-crime by the ppl surrounding me. 💞
An intentional battering of one's private anatomy is NOT in itself Trauma.... it needs surgery.