Korean wife takes over her Brazilian husband [Hello Counselor / 2017.02.06]
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He's speaking Korean with a Brasil accent. It's so cute!
SakuyaLuigi I agree
SakuyaLuigi I always wanted to know how is our accent...how does it sound?? You can be honest hehe☺🖒
SakuyaLuigi ya I noticed
espiao dasua its beautiful! I love it!
espiao dasua
_I have a Brazilian friend and his accent sounds really nice!_
In Brazil there is a saying: " Haste is the enemy of perfection". kkkkkk
I really hate when someone tells me to get things done quickly.
But that doesn't mean that Brazilian people are lazy.
we are not lazy
Laura Louise Nós só fazemos as coisas no nosso tempo. O importante é fazer, não quanto tempo você leva.
+Camila Duarte exatamente ksksk
Esse cara fala essas coisas porque ele é rico, "é comum pessoas terem empregados", bom eu não tenho dinheiro para ter empregados...
Bia Barreto É comum sim comparado com a Coreia. Lá só pessoas ricas tem empregados em casa, mas aqui no Brasil muitas pessoas de classe média paga empregado para cuidar da casa ou das crianças enquanto trabalha.
Omg, Bernado is so cute for try fixing things he broke. But I can see how the cultural barrier can be a problem.
Brazilians are not lazy btw. Perfection takes time.
Paula N. Ele é lerdo porque nunca foi pobre.
tadinho dele, eu fiquei com dó... esposa dele é muito dura!
mabf1953 Mabf EXATAMENTE
mabf1953 Mabf GRITO pensei a mesma coisa, como se todo brasileiro tivesse empregada em casa
Paula N. Perfectionism can mean procrastination
The wife needs a chill a little hahahah her husband is adorable trying his best
😂😂😂I know right.
Oh man, the wife is so scary. Even the look on her face while her husband is telling those stories... She's a perfectionist, and she wants things done her way. She can't tolerate that her husband is slower than she is. I feel bad for that guy.
Yea she also seems so uptight and let this issue define their whole relationship. Like when he says that he tries to lighten their relationship by dancing with the plates in his hand, probably to cheer her up, she doesn't really she his good intentions and gets upset instead.
+Arin but then again maybe she has a lot on her plate :/ seems like she's the breadwinner of the pair
Arin While that may be the case, no one should treat their partner that way. It's demeaning. :(
Little Jimin please do not generalize a whole race just by one person. sure she might not be as attractive or patient, but don't bash a whole nation while putting one member down
Little Jimin okay that’s taking it too far and quite racist
If my father ever told me to hurry up doing the dishes I'd stop doing the dishes. I hate being ordered around. But this guy was adorable
WhuRu Same! I hate being ordered around. It used to freak me out as a child. Now I just say, "You don't like the way I do it? Here. You do it."
WhuRu what a bunch of disobedient brats you all sound!
Faysal Hashi On the contrary. I was one of the most obedient, malleable children ever. I never rebelled or gave my parents a headache. My father has always been very controlling, everything needed to be done his way. Everything I said and did was always subject to criticism. Typical Asian parent, nothing was ever good enough. It left me with compulsive perfectionism, general anxiety disorder, and clinical depression. So now I answer back. Not because I just want to be a brat, but because I'm trying very hard to actually stand up for myself.
Disobedient my ass! Respect goes two ways. If I'm already doing something it's plain disrespectful to tell me to hurry up. The house better be on fire before telling me to hurry up. I aint putting up with it
they are the one that bought u into this world u should listen to your dads orders
Brazilians are very relational people. if they say that they will come to your event.. they will do the best they can to finish ALL their errands before the event so that they can literally give all their time and energy to this important meeting without feeling rushed for something next. Koreans dont care about others' worldviews and experiences. this is why I broke up with my korean boyfriend... because he just didnt understand the relational importance of my friendships and networking.
shoomonkey2 I don't want to be nosy but could you give me an example?
K. sure!
uhh example of which? between me and my ex?
yes plz example...
Uhh where do I start? haha..
we are both quite korean in our thinking, him more than me. I spent a lot of time with many diverse groups of people while he grew up primarily in a korean community. he liked that I was able to bond with his friend group from the get go, but he had a problem with my enthusiastic approach to making acquaintances or friendships. After the hangout ends, I would always get an earful about how I make people feel uncomfortable and that i need to tone down the friendliness because, "흘리고 다니는거 없지않아 있어." basically he was calling me a natural flirt for being kind warm and welcoming to his friends (most of them female juniors). *shrug* building relationships takes more than, "oh the weather is nice today." and I am intentional at going deeper and hoping that the person walks away knowing that I care. But I know that many Koreans stay within their inner circle and dont feel exactly comfortable out of their safety zones. the same with my boyfriend.. the few times he ever met my friends, he would always find it quite difficult and exhausting... usually faked his way through it. came out of the convo judging my friends... and then I was left feeling like I added no value to his life... so I did everything I could to change and fit his preferences.... he said I was too loving and too affectionate.. but then he would say that I was never considerate or mindful of his values. it was a very confusing relationship. I really loved him and poured out my efforts, but I realized I never gave him the chance to love me back by letting him make some efforts toward me, my life, and our relationship. :/
wow. did I share too much? ahaha.
Giggle Tanner
Korea is also quite performance based as a whole... very productive, but that comes up short relationally at times. my ex was very performance based in our relationship too.. he needed to please me or fulfill my needs in order to be satisfied with himself. it was as if I were a pet. he took care of me well... making sure I wasnt hungry or cold or in need of anything. but I just wanted to spend time with him. it felt frantic. he didnt know how to slow down and enjoy me (or even enjoy life)
i'm brazilian and everything he said is pretty true, but it only suits a middle class male. if he was a woman or lower class, things would be really different.
also, brazilians in general work REALLY hard. we just take way much longer to do suff than koreans or others asian cultures do. it's a western trait i guess (as you can see by the french guy who said koreans eat really fast).
thais can testify this! ( I am Dominican) most of my Brazilian friends are the most hardworking people I ever met.
wish I had a brazilian baby mama not some puppet from saw!when I fuck a beautiful chick who looks like biracial I it happened even if it only happens now and it's my first.the rest are butter-faces.maybe some day I can be kratos from that brazilian.daddy is a little pinoy guy but the mommy is an amazon.
They fr eat so fast most Asians do and it isn't even healthy to eat like that
certissima
Yeah but not all Asian..these habit always being used by Korea, China and jepan..not sure for other Asia ..as for me I'm Asian we don't usually act or have to do like she does everything have to be fast or what ever.. especially giving orders asking someone to do their work more faster...she should just respect him since he did help her to do house work as long he kept every thing clean and in order that should be enough..not ordering him to be fast..his not your slaves..should married a Korean man then if you want everything's to be fast
I think that even if he does not do things the right way, at least he always tries to make it right and he tries to do his best, it's really frustrating when you want to do something really well but even then people keep talking about faults and discouraging you
I agree... He's adapting too, it's different country, you're alone(besides your wife...but you have no one you grew up with) in a different background, everything is different, you're learning the language... I don't see the issue of being kind of slow doing things, specially when you're not used to it and trying to do it well... It's just lack of empathy towards him
Maria Claudia agree, lack of empathy
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Yes I agree.. Also, I feel for him cause the wife's culture can be misunderstood and seen as someone nagging like a mother...so it doesn't seem like a relationship cause he is to aware of trying to adapt into her culture while also not comprehending the need for the nag...the wife should be more considerate of him or at least try to understand where he is coming from... so that it gives him time to understand her culture the best he can and be a good husband to her...that will also make her a good wife in which they will develope a better relationship and appreciation for one another:)
@dcss i_like_you_jw lolol, thanks
I'm brazilian, we are not that lazy, not everybody have maids, but we do tries our best to be a good friend or boyfriend. His wife should recognize he's trying. But korean and brazilian culture are very differents. (sorry for the bad english, i'm still learning ;p)
True not everyone has a maid but its very thoughtfull of him to try
i live in a very slow environment however i was raised in a familly who ares a lot about productivity , i became rushy in everything .so I kinda understand the wife . when you meet someone who is slow you are suffering inside and outside you just can not take it .I donno about being slow but is life really going to way for your slowness?
I'm Brazilian and my mom gets nervous if i don't do things fast lol
Florzinha Rebi Se eu não fazer na hora que minha mãe mandar, tenho certeza que eu estou propensa a morrer a qualquer momento C':
palli palli kkkkkkkkk
Not only Brazillian moms, not only Brazillian moms...
Minha mãe também, kkkkkk
Deve ser o mal das mães brasileiras
HAHAHAHA not only brazilian moms
The husband is sooooo cute 🌸
gosh. this guy speak korean very cutely. like a girl. n yes, his speak very slowly and relax. lol
Krystal Chi his speech is probably like that because he learned the language from his wife
probably, because the way he arrange his word and speech is like a girl way of speak. very feminin. kkkk
its cute but because of him koreans think that brazilians are lazy people
grrr
luna zralag why do you care about what Korean people think about Brazilians? lol
Sara Oliveira i not care only about what koreans think about us, but i care about what everyone thinks about us
Não acredito que existe Casos de Familia versão coreana
IJASOPFIJAPSDOKIJPLAD sempre quando vou explicar como é o programa pra alguém eu digo: "é um casos de família, só que sem barraco".
deadly nightshade Ou seja, sem a parte legal, tipo pessoas chegando ao som de Sweet Dreams versão funk HAHQEHJAHSHHQ
Huahuahua o melhor são os barracos
É por isso que o Brasil é especial kkkk
Kkkkkkkkkkk
Uauahuaahiaajiaa comentários brasileiros são sempre os melhores
This sounds kinda like verbal abuse to me. Nobody should be scared of their significant other.
His wife is wrong she needs to calm down for real
I think both are at fault. She's too nagging and not considarate enugh. And come on, if you know that you have to go out then get read y with your wife and not after she's ready to go. I admire that he's trying when it comes to cooking (I'm also quite slow :P ), but you shouldn't play with a pot filled with soup. But I do agree with you that she should calm down a bit.
She is too tough on her. I would get embarrassed if my wife say that I'm a slow learner in front of many audience.
I don't think you should use the word "wrong". It's just the cultural difference. In Asia esp women tend to rush their kids around to get them do things faster because they don't have much time. Some of the family doesn't share housework. The women have to work and do house chores at the same time everyday and they have to get it did fast. You can't really blame her for being "wrong" because it's just the cultural difference.
nice0girl Notice how when the husband has unfair expectations of his wife, everyone is quick to denounce him and judge him. Here when it's the wife who's unreasonable, people focus on praising the husband for putting up with it instead of calling her out. Seriously people, defending her just because she's a woman. Her husband's so nice she's lucky to have him and yet she treats him with such DISRESPECT even in public. From the person who's supposed to be in love with him. This is not okay. He deserves better. Ugh!
ARMY with WINGS on FIRE Even ig it is cultural difference she should try understanding him. For my family (we’re asian) we don’t really rush to do anything but it varies with different families and people.
It's cute that he speaks Korean with an Brazilian accent😂
And one more thing westerners they just take long time for the things they do cause they want it to be perfect😂
Do we have an accent? HAHAHA
Korean people's 'do quickly' means "do it quickly (and perfect) haha..
@@yenniestan yes we do
@@yenniestan Yes
I hate how he tries to understand her culture, but she can't do the same for him. That's not how things should work in a marriage. Plus he's utterly adorable!
I'm with the guy on this. It's not that easy to change after you've lived a certain way for so long. I grew up with maids too, and we still have two maids today. I can do household chores, but it takes me a long time because I never learned that kind of efficiency as a child.
damn
Its really not that hard.
1.) Pick up garbage
2.) Pick up laundry and throw it in the wash
3.) Do the dishes while laundry goes on and grab Lysol wipes to wipe down furniture
4.) Throw laundry in dryer
5.) Organise papers etc vacuum
6.) Fold laundry and turn the humidifier or dehumidifier on depending on weather
7.) You're done
It takes less than 2 hours
8.) I forgot you have to clean the bathroom too....but I have my roommate do that because I do everything else. I refuse to clean the bathroom.
live with me you'll learn real quick
@@adrians.5097 yes that's true but still people grow up differently and in different environments. It's like teaching a bird how to fly as an adult when it never grew up learning how to. Lolol
@@adrians.5097 kids with maids are trained to be lazy.. not unless they're doing something more productive than just clean. some rich people have full packed schedule from tutoring, horse riding, music lessons etc.
That wife sounds annoying hes doing his best man
ifkr. She should'nt have married him if she doesn't like how he is.
I would be fucking annoyed to if my husband would need 90 min to cook a chicken breast? What the heck. I would go insane.
@@Mukkki haste is the enemy of perfection
@@Mukkki she should help so that the chicken would cook quickly
She just nagged
Mitsi Ham she has a lot of things to do than the husband 😂
Brazilian people work so hard, thats not like that
They work hard, but they are very relaxed when it comes to details.
I don't know if it's like this in Brazil. But in many Latin American countries it is actually rude to be right on time to things like parties, family gatherings and personal events, the polite thing to do is to be 10 to 15 minutes late to a dinner, and you NEVER rush your host, that is considered rude. While in Korea you have to be really punctual for EVERYTHING
TuAmigoElMorrocoy that is actually cool! 👌👍👍
isn't because brazilians are europeans and they are good to be mixed.girl better accept that pain.you need plastic sugary to look curtain.while indian.earopean and hispanic don't have to look certain just to look good god made them that way!
"they are relaxed when it comes to detail" naaahh we just love the adrenalin of being late 😂😂 jokes apart, we get late to parties because if you come early it will have less people, so you wait till more people come so it gets funnier, crowded and you can enjoy more with *more* friends. but don't underestimate us, Brazilians are so hard workers, most of us work and study at the same time. we get up at 5AM, take 2 damn hours to commute with bus, train, subway whatever. and yet we still manage to have time to go to the gym, keep up with our favourite tv series and party at night. that's why our rule is, if the party or event starts at 7PM, set the time for 6PM (not in business ofc). like, when I go shopping with my besties I tell them to be at the mall at 5:30PM if I want us to meet at 6PM. It sucks but that's how it works here sometimes.
Paolo Anacleto Wong brazilians are Europeans wtf?😂 Brazil is in South America 😂😂😂
I think the husband is cute. He's not perfect and he makes mistakes, but he tries his best so his wife won't get upset. Other husbands wouldn't even bother. His wife should at least show some appreciation for his efforts.
The Asian in me wants to be quick and efficent, can't stand people who walks so slow or takes forever to make a right turn. The western me throws laundry on the bed and forgets LOL.
Nate 李偉 finally someone like me lol. That is exactly what it feels like. xD
well im asian,but lives like a westerner
Nate 李偉 ikr🐒🐒
Nate 李偉 I'm asian and have been slow moving creatures since birth 😂😂😂
Well I believe I got most of my laziness from my asian site😂
Hum.
Jovem Han olha quem está por aqui hehehe
Ola Jovem Han gosto mt dos seus vídeos
Ora ora quem apareceu por aqui rs
Lmao
Olha só olha lá
bem-vindos ao casos de família coreano
alerta de spoiler: a mulher eh uma egoísta louca e o brasileiro um amorzinho
Agora entendi. Esse vídeo foi recomendado pra mim, aí vi SBS, não vou ver não... ai ví Brazilian men... pensei: Opa brazil na Coréia... Quero ver!!!
Erika Guilherme KKKKK FOI CMG ASSIM TBM
eu não sei pq ele tá com ela ainda
@@chentaeyeon709 pq ele gosta dela
@@chentaeyeon709 Eu não sei sequer como eles namoraram e casaram! Por menos tempo que tenham tido de namoro certas características muito proeminentes como a dela e a dele se sobressaem logo. Se ele busca ser engraçado fazendo dancinha ou se brinca pq sujou a camisa com comida, p ex, é pq ele sempre foi assim. E se ela se irrita com essas coisas que ele faz, também é pq ela já era assim antes, já se irritava. O outro ponto é: em tendo casado, e como ela morou no Brasil um bom tempo, se antes ela não havia percebido, nesse período ela viu que esse jeito mais relaxado é o nosso jeito de ser no geral. e que é diferente. E nem assim ela conseguiu tentar um meio-termo!? Putz! Porque normalmente quando vc mora noutro país vc assimila umas coisas, ou pelo menos melhora seu entendimento sobre isso. Assim como eu creio que ele tenta assimilar e melhorar o entendimento dele quanto à cultura dela. Não fosse assim ele sequer falaria direito a língua e nem mostraria, como está mostrando, que tenta fazer mudanças (apenas pede por mais tempo para implementá-las). Não acho que por mais que se goste de alguém, se os dois não fazem um esforço conjunto pelos ajustes, que isso sobreviva. Pelo menos não deveria.
Well, since most brazilian boys don't help arround the house while growing up (most br girls do), a lot of brazilian men tend to be pretty bad at doing chores. Plus, his family was probrably middle class or higher, and such families rarely teach any of their children how to do housework in Brazil.
I guess the point here is not that he is lazy, but since he is stil learnig how to do things he never done before it takes him a long time to do it.
There isn't much they can do about it rather than wait for him to get used to their cultural differences.
After some time, thigs will come around.
Regardless of gender,it would be great for both male and female to do chores from early age on. I think it is beneficial for them to learn for future😊
@@ninepuchar1 agree. My father is 63 years old but he helps my mother with household chores. And my father is like that because my paternal grandmother made sure both her children learned to help around the house from a young age. My mother is happy that my friend knows how to do chores and fas as well.
This is so funny, I can't wait to see the full ep. Plus I like that Koreans are exposed to multicultural marriages
plus, why his wife is married with him if she knows that he is this way ? way to slow to her? i mean the live together for 2 or 3 years and she didnt know that THIS is the way his is? i know it's hard to live if someone that dosent have the same rythm as yours but could she try to be a little more understable ? like, she wants him to change everything that he have been just because she is a impatient?
BARBARA ALVES because she's a gold digger biatch. I think this guy is rich.
BARBARA ALVES É praticamente um relacionamento abusivo, ninguém deveria ter medo do parceiro só porque cometeu um erro que não foi proposital, achei ela muito fria e exagerada, ele é carinhoso demais pra estar com ela. :C
I was thinking the same thing! Like, did you not date? was this some arranged marriage?
Gold digger... hahaha.. guys wake up! S korea is way wealthier than Brazil😂😂 You cannot buy a tiny house in S korea with a luxurious beach house in Brazil.
there is still a lot of rich people in brazil... and are u kidding me? u know how expensive a beach house in brazil is? i wanted to go to a beach there over the summer and the rent was 13,000 DOLLARS a night for the cheapest house around the location i liked...
Agora os coreanos vão achar que todos os brasileiros são largados haushsushsu The "Brazilian Culture" is not exactly what he said. like, I don't agree that Brazilian moms don't nag their kids to brush our teeth. like, moms almost hit us to do hahahaha and it's very common to a Brazilian person don't like samba and stuff
pra mim isso era uma desculpa qu ele dava
yes haha
Caroline Tiemi os estereótipos matam a gente, sério...
Say something like ''In Brazil is common'' is very wrong, it depends a lot of people, not to mention that it is a huge country(the name of certain things change according to the region for exemple). My mother always demanded and told me to do things quickly(until today), is not only because he was created in a way that is common in the country... Rich people are the ones who have domestic servants, normal people do their own household chores.
Yeah I was thinking the same! It's not like everyone can afford a maid or everyone's mum was the same as him and didn't nag.
Eliot.yeah right ugly face
If he was not Rich, she could marry him??... Asians are really in to "how many income or money have your partner"
I think medium class can afford maids too. And there is a lot of medium class people in Brazil.
not everyone can afford a maid but the maid job is very common in brazil, so hes not wrong, if there are so many maids, of course its common for people to employ them!
Her husband is so cute, she should be more patient with him. He really does his best. My big brother used to be like this, but since 2 years he is really capable, like, he does all the chores with his wife, to the point he offers her to let all the chores and their four children to him. So that she can going out with her friends to relax. 😄 (I know, my eng is so bad XD sorry)
Allecta BJ Your brother is husband material 👍
Apresentadores: País do samba
* Eu pensando que sou uma brasileira que não faz ideia de como sambar *
Eu também não sei sambar, nem rebolar.
@@mariagogmariagorette3404 somos brasileiras falsas kkkkkkkkk sempre soube que não era BR
@@marialuizacampos1878 também kkkkk.
É incrível como os gringos ficam chocados quando eu falo que não gosto de samba nem de futebol.
O estereótipo é fortíssimo
a pressa é a inimiga da perfeição 'u.u'
"Arriba"... It's Spanish, from Mexico...
essa mulher precisa relaxar mais, espero que o Bernardo esteja melhor com ou sem ela pq ele é um amorzinho
The wife needs to chill. He’s from a different culture and different background so it’s required she be understanding instead she’s yelling at him. The man’s adorable and I feel bad for him to put up with the household environment!
Seria o "casos de família" versão coreana. 😂Ela é assustadora. Mds q loucura
Rosart no episódio de hoje "meu marido demora uma hora e meia para preparar meu frango"
Beatriz kkkkkk
Acho q ela q nem sabe cozinhar, pq quase tudo demora isso pra ficar pronto. Não é só jogar no fogo e pronto...tem todo um preparo. Se ela quer comida rápida devia comprar prato congelados pra microondas kkkk
Beatriz Melhor comentário ever! ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬
the wife needs to be more patient. If he's doing his best to do what needs to be done around the house i don't think you should rush that person because at least they are helping out and doing their best. And for her to get mad of him spilling the soup or whatever that was dumb too... he's just trying to be cute and silly and so what if he spilled it... and him cooking the chicken breast he only took that long because he wanted the chicken to be well made and taste good.. who would complain about that?
we are not lazy, we just like to do things perfectly
O problema dele é a forma que ele foi criado e não a diferença de cultura. Certo que as pessoas na Coreia são muito apressadas, mas os brasileiros também dão duro no que fazem. Ele foi criado como um filhinho de papai. Só isso!
Exatamente o que eu pensei. O cara nunca fez nada na vida! E ainda passa pros outros que é coisa da nossa cultura.
Compartilho do mesmo pensamento. Pelo vídeo deu pra perceber isso.
Cherry Cereza muito interessante ler a opinião de alguém de fora. Como vc mesma disse, isso é algo cultural. De onde vc é? Se não se importa
Débora Thamirys da Silva Oliveira Sim. Coxinha filhinho de papai. kkkk
Débora Thamirys da Silva Oliveira siiiim, acostumado com a empregada fazendo tudo pra ele kkkk quase um banana
A nossa fama na Coréia do Sul agora é que somos preguiçosos. 😂😂😂
Karine A.A realmente, depende muito dá família dele, pq na minha família gostamos de ser rápido.
Eu sou preguiçoso mesmo.. acontece.
Karine A.A Na realidade não, devemos levar em consideração a individualidade da pessoa, mas em geral, creio que os sul-coreanos são mais "apressados" que os brasileiros. Tem pessoas aqui no Brasil que são super rápidas e apressadas, meu pai por exemplo.
aqui tem até o ditado "pressa é inimiga da perfeição". nós não somos preguiçosos, mas não somos tão apressados quanto os sul-coreanos, em relação à cultura e criação de uma forma geral.
Eu sei gente, eu tenho a noção que cada pessoa tem um jeito de ser diferente. Eu por exemplo gosto de fazer as coisas mais rapidamente diferente do meu irmão.
Isso de o homem começar a se arrumar depois da mulher é tão comum aqui no Brasil...
A esposa no caso também poderia dar o braço a torcer em algumas coisas como no caso de andar rápido. Porque ela não pode acompanhar ele devagar? Porque só ele tem que acompanhar ela na pressa? Andar rápido ou devagar vai muito da pessoa, eu mesmo sou o tipo de pessoa que vai andando devagar, apreciando a paisagem, já a minha irmã praticamente sai correndo na frente de tanta pressa.
Como ele mesmo disse somos humanos e cometemos erros. Acidentes acontecem com qualquer um e cada um tem seu tempo e seu modo de fazer as coisas. O caso do casal, para mim, é que falta um pouco de respeito e compreensão sobre o tempo um do outro.
Ja foi a Coreia do Sul, China, Japao? Esses paises sao caoticos. Todo mundo anda rapido, os sinais de transito abrem mto rapido para os carros, vc tem que correr pra conseguir passar numa faixa de pedestre, os transportes sao em horarios especificos, entao se vc perder o tempo, tem que esperar quase 5-10 minutos para um novo. Tudo eh mto pontual, e se vc chegar atrasado, vc eh visto como irresponsavel e rude.
Eles tem varias regras de comportamento que quem ta de fora nao conhece. Ela eh apressada porque Seul eh apressada, nao deixando espaco para atraso. No Brasil, tudo eh feito com atraso. Nada comeca na hora, pessoas tendem a chegar quase com meia hora-1 hora de atraso em festas convidadas. Vc chegar 10 minutos atrasado para um jantar na Coreia, eh visto como um insulto para quem te convidou. Sao culturas diferentes.
Eu não preciso ir para a Coréia do Sul, China e nem Japão para saber que lá é assim. Só acho que não precisa ter tanta pressa assim. E ainda assim lá só tem que esperar de 5 a 10 minutos para chegar outro transporte, onde eu moro só tem ônibus e é de 20 em 20 minutos e olhe lá. Eu sei que pra eles é falta de respeito chegar atrasado para algo, mas o importante é chegar (desde que não seja algo do trablho), os asiáticos são muito sistemáticos e, claro, pontuais, e nós somos mais compreenciveis e flexiviveis. Pra que fazer tudo tão rapido? Pra que limpar a casa rapido se você não vai fazer nada depois? Pra que escovar os dentes tão rápido? Pra que andar tão rápido para, sei lá, ir fazer compras e depois ir pra casa jantar? O problema do casal é a famosa barreira cultural.
Essa mulher tem que agradecer muito porque não é qualquer pessoa que sai do país só pra ver a outra feliz. Conheço homens que se precisar não trocam nem a resistência do chuveiro, quem tem que trocar é a mulher. Então essa aí tem sorte.
2:46 Brazil is not Mexico! I'm not going around making Chinese sounds when I hear the word Korea...
Como o cara confunde o Brasil com o México os dois países n tem nada a ver
How is rolling an r considered Mexican? Portuguese rolls the r too
@@SaraH-jn5db mas o jeito q ele fez ta claramente no esteriótipo mexicano "arrriba"
That robin guy is so handsome😍
His accent is nice lol is pleasent to hear
Brazil is a very mixed country, we have different cultures and different kinds of raising, so with what he said there, I realize that his creation was much more spoiled than mine for example. Not every Brazilian has money to hire a maid and he says that we are relaxed is a great lack of respect. If he is relaxed and lazy, it is his fault, do not come to say that in your country it is like that too.
Brasil é um país muito miscigenado, nós temos várias culturas e formas de criação diferentes, pelo que ele disse ali, eu percebo que a criação dele foi muito mais mimada do que a minha por exemplo. Nem todo brasileiro tem dinheiro pra contratar uma empregada e ele afirmar que nós somos relaxados é uma grande falta de respeito. Se ele é relaxado e preguiçoso, a culpa é dele, não venha dizer que no seu país é assim também.
THIS COMMENT! I AGREE
i don't think either of them are in the wrong here they just seem incompatible
he needs someone who is more accommodating and laid back who will appreciate his gestures and she needs someone who is more fast-paced and capable
I was waiting for this moment to come. A Brazilian on Korean national TV hahahah, it's good to know that nowadays interracial couples are normally accepted there. And one more thing y'all, just because the guy is Brazilian it doesn't mean we're like that! There're lots of cultural differences but people in Brazil are also hard workers. We still love to chill though...
YES BENJI OMG B.I.G IS SO UNDERRATED LIKE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY I AM SO SEE HIM ON THE SHOW ㅠㅠ
""no brasil é comum contrata pessoas para limpar sua casa "
ja sabemos que ele nasceu na zona rica do país , pq o que é mais comum é as mãe mandarem os filhos fazerem isso, e se não fizer, ela nos da uma surra.
Sim! Hahahahah sempre que eu ficava revoltada de ter de fazer "tudo" em casa eu sempre saia pisando forte e resmungando se meus pais tiveram filho só pra limpar a casa pra eles hahahahahha 😅
Eu na vida kkkkkk
Mas ele não mentiu. Pq é muito comum mesmo entre a classe média baixa. Mais comum que em muitos países. Ainda existem muitos países em que a mulher não trabalha e fica cuidando da casa, no Brasil não existe mais isso, pelo menos eu não conheço nenhum caso.
É porque lá fora você basicamente só tem uma secretaria do lar se for muito rico aqui não necessariamente, há pessoas de classe média que contratam uma pessoa pra limpar uma vez por semana ou uma vez por mês, lá isso não é muito comum, por exemplo eu conheço uma moça que ela e o marido trabalham fora por isso não tem muito tempo de arrumar a casa claro que o basico eles fazem né, mas aquela limpeza mais puxada é complicado por isso uma moça vai uma vez por semana ou mês não sei ao certo, lá é como se só ricos contratassem sabe
Sempre contratei diarista e não sou rico ... reveja seus conceitos
I'm a brazilian and i can say that brazilian people works really hard to have a honest life, and doesn't even get money to cover all the expenses like water, energy, food, clothes.
His Brazilian/Portuguese accent blends in with Korean to make a sexy accent! Hands down the best accent because it makes Korean sound even more delicate!
Vim só pq tá escrito brasil
TaeGirl Official somos duas
TaeGirl Official Ele falou muita bosta só pra deixar claro
Realmente eu já vi, esse FDP estragou nossa imagem na Coréia
Vey, ele nem morou direito no Brasil e veio falar mal daqui
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I think he was a mama's boy, like he said he never had to do house working before marriage and i admit that this is a common thing here in Brazil indeed, but nevertheless doing house work is a must even for men, not only women must do it. I guess if his mom taught him before there wasn't going to be any problems with the wife! this is something boys needs to learn in young age. Its not just in Korea that men needs to do house work but here in Brazil too and every place. I guess this is one of the reasons i'm still single cause i don't want to marry someone to be his housekeeper or his maid. But even tho it may look like we're lazy people here in Brazil thats not the case, like he said its just that we do our things not in such a hurry, we're more of slow pace people , but we get it done even if takes a little while longer, i guess its just a culture shock !!! Hope Bernardo and his wife solve their problems and can be happy !!
Awww he’s soo sweet, omd marriage is about adapting to eachother. He’s admitted he doesn’t have much experience in housework so if she should understand he’s going to make mistakes. Why can’t she just teach him the things he should know instead getting mad at him
When you are an interracial marriage , first hands you should well aware of the differences of two cultures, it is important to compromise each other and should acted reasonable , in this context the woman or the wife is very wrong cos you married to him you should marry his weakness too , only if he is abusive then no compromise at all stay away from abusive partners that for sure, but if he does one chores slow or wrongly you accepted it very well , cos good loving couple loves are unconditionally , you must love your partners without any terms and conditions cos I am a mixed marriage too I understand his terms and my terms , that is why my marriage is 38 years now and we are in our 60 years younger , the keys words are happy and patience all the times
Yes exactly that.
lol this is extremely wrong, I think this guy came from a rich family and thinks that all Brazilians live an easy life like he did
Georgie Porgie But in Brazil having a maid is not cheap lol
Idk about Brazil, but in Ecuador, it's really common for people to have maids.
At least he helps. He's stressed and scared of his wife
I think rich is too much, maybe middle class
Not rich but middle class. It's common for people at middle class to have a maid and not just the upper class. But if he was in a low class or middle low, he would know how to do things at home.
He's trying so hard, she needs to chill. Just by the fact that he can speak Korean so well is already a very good sign. Some people wouldn't even bother learning the language. She's just impatient. Plus, making mistakes is completely natural. He had never done household chores in his life, so it's completely normal to make mistakes like throwing a pair of new jeans in the washer with white clothes. Only people who know what they're doing would know that's a mistake. I think that was actually his first time doing laundry, so give him a break
Seriously? He's a great guy!! He makes effort and even wants you to laugh.. He's adorable and doesn't want his wife to worry a lot.. Ah chincha he's a gem! Chill!
Gente brasileiros nos coments, fiquem calmos. Ele não "estragou nossa imagem" na Coreia, isso quem faz somos todos nós! Parem de ser tão críticos e tentem compreender o que ele tá contando. Vocês estão sendo hipócritas ao dizer que brasileiros são como os asiáticos quando é um dos países que mais tem férias e folgas no mundo! Por favor, vamos aceitar nossa cultura e parar de tentar posar para os outros países, acordem! Se você não está feliz com essa imagem, crie uma imagem diferente para si. Meus amigos coreanos nunca pensam que sou preguiçosa pois estudo, trabalho e faço muitas coisas. Mas lembrem-se, uma imagem construída por décadas não vai ser derrubada por uma ou duas pessoas. Vamos crescer!
4:15 when she said that in France we take 2 hours to eat a small portion of food I was like “that’s the most fundamental truth of our country”
Nobody :
Me : The french is so cute😭😂♥️
7:20 seems like that man is crying remembering the scolding from his Korean wife
My wife is Korean and She rocks!! Best part of my life is my wife! Koreans are super chill and easygoing in my experience. I love her culture more than mine. Poor guy, sounds like he married a monster. Not a problem of culture just a problem of 2 different people.
Korean people are really like that, but brazilians aren't lazy in general. We just like to take our time to do the things we need to. I'm Brazilian and I can relate myself a bit with his wife, even tho I can be like Bernardo when he takes an hour to get ready hahahaha.
This is not all about culture. This is about their personalities too.
“Most Brazilians like samba” This is a myth. Most people don't like samba, because Brazil is sooooo diverse, even in music!
“A maioria dos brasileiros gosta de samba” Isso é mito. A maioria não gosta de samba, pq o Brasil é muuuito diversificado, inclusive na música!
I love Benji no matter what. He is like my favorite person. Please more shows
i feel like that lady was raised to be perfect and she instills that concept into her husband which isnt good her husband tries as hard to bend to her wishes yet she isnt bending to find a level ground that is bad in a relationship especially one with culture differences u have to give half and half expect that not everything can be done the way u were raised because some view points in certain situations will crash not to mention as well with ur opinions.
i see gong yoo i click but then comes that robin guy 😂 who is he?
my life is like the bag that jimin left
He from Abnormal summit, cool guy :D
oh i gotta check him out then 😆 btw thanks ya ✌
milksomecows
Yeah, but he started to gain popularity from here.
my life is like the bag that jimin left A really hot French guy. He was in Abnormal Summit.
yeah he's hot and i really like his eyes,, it's so deep~ 😆😅
The lady got a nice husband tho. Cuz he tries and just look at his cute smile! He's so innocent like a child! I feel like if she takes it slow and tries to teach him step by step, they'd be a super lovey dovey married couple. Like hell, where can I get someone like him? Lol
É claro que nem todo mundo é preguiçoso no Brasil!!!!
Esse moço então com certeza era de classe média a classe alta. kkkkk Se fosse um BR de classe baixa já saia do útero da mãe varrendo, lavando, passando e se duvidar até batendo lage!! xD
that moment when that guy who was playing as the wife is in the drama missing nine and you cant take him seriously... in my mind i was like "HE KILLED ABOUT 2 PEOPLE ALREADY WHY ARE YOU NEXT TO HIM?!" but then i realized... im in the real world
Jangmi Mena I havent even watched that drama but your comment made me laugh so hard hahahaha. I know that feeling so well😂😂😂 thank you for making my day!
lol, i'm from brazil and my mom does boss me around to do chores and stuff. He's probably from a rich family and has people to do those things for him
CAN I JUST SAY HIS ACTIONS IS SO PURE LIKE A CHILD ITS SO ADORABLE AWWW
awe he's so sweet
Confesso que somos parecidos haha, meus pais vivem brigando comigo por eu não fazer as coisas rápidas. Eu fui mt mimada por eles também então nunca tive o costume de fazer coisas de casa...mas não acho que isso seja cultural depende de como você foi criado.
Coreanos podem ser bem chatinhos também, né...ele pelo menos tenta ajudar ela, já vi vários casos nesse programa de maridos que não fazem NADAAAAAA então ela não precisa agir dessa forma NINGUÉM gosta de ficar recebendo bronca.
N sei inglês nem coreano, n entendi nada que esse cara falou mas tamo ai
Amiga hahahahah como cê veio parar aqui 😂😂😂 na dúvida o marido tava certo!
ah, ele é tão fofo, tadinho
Why did they put Gong Yoo in the thumbnail? I didn't see him, so I am disappointed now -.-
Elisa Risconti same here -.-
They know how to make people click their videos :/
It's because the wife was hoping her husband looked fit like him, she talked about it in the other video.
Benji is so adorable omg *-*
Falou Brasil nois vem correnu!
I love the Brazilian accent so much. When he uses it in korean, it's the cutest thing.
I love these shows so much! I lived in China for a while and want to go see Korea. Love the culture, very funny shows too. Thank you so much for uploading these with subtitles!
lol i thought that robin guy was adam lambert.. i was like " what is adam lambert doing here? 😂😅😅
Bem que poderia ter legenda em português T-T
bixcoito .-. né, ainda to aprendendo inglês ;--;
poor guy, he must love her sooo much..
I love how many foreigners there are in the crowd💕
I watch Abnormal Summit but never watch with Robin in it. 😳 Robin is sooo 😍
Sorry cant help from commenting this
Natsu Kim
Who is Robin? Is he from another TV Show? He isn't an Idol right?
he was in abnormal submit before, but in the early episode. like 1--50 or less. i forgot it. (sorry for my english)
Robin is hot
men are bigot women are open minded towards enter racial as you can see that
wife she don't she brazilian as a lower race while men they think there the most fairest of them all an they never look like one.men are complete racist with a bad-air me I'm alone with that taste before there was leslie grace duets super-junior there is me craving for mestiz women.even if she from what ever it kept me felt flying thought not strong I still like it so bad.
why does robin remind me of vernon??
cause of his role in missing 9 I can't look at taejoon the same way I did before. maybe because of how good he portrayed his role. but really 😥😓😱
Yep he is too good in that role. Makes me wonder about him.
Happy to see a brazilian in a korean show👍
Por mim ele pode voltar pro Brasil, aqui a gente vai fazer fila por ele ^^
lol i'm brazilian and i'm feeling bad now, bc i do the things REALLY slowly, like i need one hour or more to eat my lunch, i take a long to get ready for every place, but i just CAN'T do things fast
I'm brazilian and my mom was always PALI PALI to me hahahaha!
he's so cute!!! 💖
A handsome guy that left his country and is trying to give his best for the relationship...he is so cute. Hope the wife behaves better with him, we don't find that kind of men often out there.
He is adorable I am yelling
well, i think his wife is right. He probaly was a rich kid that never needed to do housework and if his wife dont scold him, he'll probaly get used doing nothing at home.
but i think he is cute bc alt least he is trying
Min Hayashi while the wife is right on some point but some people doesn't like to be rushed when doing choirs
in Brazil, most people would rather do this throughly and at their own pace instead of quickly, to get a better result at the end, y'know? so his behaviour is not that uncommon. also, a lot of middle class families have maid services, so he might have been or not a rich kid. anyways, i do agree that he should be more dedicated towards his chores
Min Hayashi I think it's fine if he gets it done without disrupting their way of life
Min Hayashi at least he is trying...
I miss this show so much, bring it back! I need my Shin Dongyeob and Kim Yeongja fix!
Awh he is so soft spoken