the nice girl syndrome keeps men from committing
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- In the nice girl syndrome keeps men from committing, Fareen suggests when women are really interested in a man, they often unintentionally push him away due to their energetic and behavioural habits. If a woman is in her healthy empowered feminine energy, she creates tension and desire in the man by not being overly interested and waiting to see his intentions. Many women push men away because they take on a man's role, making him feel less compelled to move the relationship forward.
The "nice girl" syndrome, where women are too accommodating and always available, leads to a lack of passion and tension in relationships. Inner work is essential to break free from manipulative behaviours and allow genuine emotions to guide interactions with men.
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(this video is about the nice girl syndrome keeps men from committing, feminine energy, empowered feminine energy, wounded feminine energy, masculine-feminine energy, what men want).
I don’t even know what to do at this point, everything is contradictory 😂
Amen they tell women don't chase men. They tell men don't chase women. Stay single so the advice books and shows can live on
I don't think the "nice girl syndrom" stem from being in your masculine energy, but more like unhealed insecurities.
That's not the same.
one guy doesn't like this woman but another would, this is a challenge that she wants this one to like her which is hard. only she is persuaded that she is wrong, she isn't, but not for this guy
@@firefly198 so now you are in feminine which means you don't drink beer anymore?
I believe it can come from either wounded feminine, wounded/healthy masculine, or both!
I think the key point is to be authentic not hide your emotions to not bother him
Have a life , have your own thoughts on things not just be too agreeable because you want him to choose you
Be authentic and fine with him leaving or not wanting you , in simple words detach from the outcome
I hope to tell me if I am getting your message right ?
This definitely is part of it yes 🙏
@@fareenashofficialand what's the other part 😃
@@aura7153is to be inauthentic
Yuck
I can't be the pursuer
If a man can't get it together and initiate, pursue then I have no desire or respect for him
I’m a man and I can tell that’s game if you like a man don’t pretend you not interested, cause if is a real man he will not keep up with it he will lose interest, knowing that you not into him because no real man is interested in pursuing a woman who seems not to be interested in him
I agree. Keep it natural. If it doesn't work then it's only because that person isn't the one for you. You can't do wrong with the right person. Heck, I know people who are serial cheaters and their person still stayed. Watching these coaching videos makes me want to stay single.
I agree with this comment, while it is true an interested man should and will pursue you "initially". If he's high value he will not and should not continue to pursue, if a you are not showing any interest. Let me put it like this. If a creepy guy came up to you and you weren't interested. Would you want him to continue to pursue you or leave you alone? A mature man knows when to stop pursuing. We know this based on if a woman is showing interest or not. Remember men cannot read your mind. So we have to rely on signs of interest to know if we should continue to pursue you or not. Becareful with mind games, it only works on those who lack self respect. Forcing unnecessary tension will cause you to lose a man that's too mature for it. A high value man knows what he wants. And that's a woman who's just as interested as he is, especially if he's in it for long term. It's the insecure men who go after women who shows no interest, He will chase a woman's interest hoping to get validation to prove to himself he has value. A true high value man "knows" his value and is looking for the right woman to share it with.
@@chocolateman6858well said !
She said OVER interested before he's shown any real investment, interest, effort. Cause y'all will wonder what's wrong with her for just liking a dude.... cause you want it won honest. Not just because. Men think you are broken when you just like a man. Sooooo well let you earn it like you like.
She said she advocated inner work not game
Damn. I may be perpetually screwed as someone who’s struggled with “nice guy” syndrome. I don’t know how to break out of it. Asserting myself towards a woman is daunting because I don’t think a woman will like me physically. Personality traits be damned. Despite all the videos I’ve watched with people saying this, I always end up thinking, “You want ME to approach women? Women want ME to initiate? Are you sure you want that?!”
Yes we feel most loved when a man’s desire is coming towards us. Yes we do want you to approach and initiate.
Do what you can to improve your physical appearance because this will make YOU feel more confident.
Yes! Confidence is sexy for most women. But learn not to be too cocky
Go to therapy
I think this goes both ways though, in general if ppl know they are not giving a lot, but you still show up for the relationship, they will respect you less because you are teaching them that you are okay being treated as less.
If im dating a guy and he sets no boundaries and is a ppl pleaser, thats a turn off too. I think we are all just attracted to ppl being authentically themselves.
So can this just be rooted back to healing your insecurities to be the best version of yourself, where you feel free to be you? If women and men are both naturally supposed to be on their corrosponding energies, then healing the wounds that create the coping mechanisms will naturally bring out those energies.
I feel like when we try to be masculine or feminine superficially, it can almost work against us because subconsciously, we are teaching ourselves who we are right now is not acceptable, so we need to cover it up pretend to be something else.
Don't give reaction but be emotional. Manipulative but healthy masculine. Disinterest creates tension. But I take ur point about the disconnect when I sent a kiss emoji when I shud have been livid well actually I misunderstood the situation to be my fault but even so.
Dating is so backwards I’m a nice girl to men I like and want to move forward with cause facts I don’t wanna lose him I wanna make things feel easy but instead it’s boring I’m just going to stop dating cause idk what to do at this point cause it feels like u gotta play games 4sure lol
If you have to resort to mind games to get a man, you are dealing with a low value immature man. Showing some interest is okay, as long as you're not overdoing it. Look for a man that's putting up the same level of interest as you. Becareful with getting toxic advice from the internet. I hope you find a good one my sista. Don't let anyone cause you to lose a blessing by resorting to games. There's good mature men out here and they're looking for a good woman. If that's you, he will find you eventually baby. But understand this the moment you lower yourself to play games you lower your value as well. A true good man is looking for a true good woman, so you must also be what it is you're wanting. Take care love.
I agree!! Im nice to men I'm interested in!! When I don't like a man I play hard to get. 😅
@@chocolateman6858 well said thank you 😊
@@malhunt7 it’s good you’re interested in him but make sure he is interested in you and not just using you if he is just as equally interested in you then it’s OK to show interest but in this case it’s better for a man to be more interested in you, because Amanda is more interested in you would invest more and in that case it’s OK for you to show interest
the quality of the sound needs to be improved.. All in all, love the video!
Thank you! 🤍🤍
I think you could refine this more. I would say its more to do with emotional maturity. If a woman seems emotionally immature, it bucks committment from a man. Further, a woman that is pleasant with nice girl energy is amazing, as long as that can be nurtured and that the time committment to the woman wont be wasted.
Nice additions Farooq!
Love it!! And the editing is so good! You're getting great at it!!!
Thank you my love! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Great video!!! My last relationship was the uncommitted man. Also, your audio is a little fuzzy. Maybe try to tune it on the next video.
Thank you! And yes I noticed that on this one also 🤍
This video is SO good Fareen!!! Thank you! ❤
Oh yay!!! Love hearing this!!!! Thank you Neetu 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍
@@fareenashofficial relate to it so much!!
This was so good! Loved how you broke this down to the subconscious level 💗💗
Ohhh I’m so glad you loved it ❤❤❤
What is wrong with that woman you talked about. The client... She sounds really odd with no fire within her
This video describes me to a T! Love this video!❤
Im sooo happy it resonated!!! ❤️❤️❤️
you are not "feminine" to one, but you are to another, problem is when you want this first one, and why do you want him? like you didn't develop yourself. But it's not true that she wouldn't be interesting to anybody without these corrections and coaching
I think this was your best video! Or maybe most relevant to me haha - thanks! xx
Haha in vibe and esthetics or content? And yes! 😜 😉
@@fareenashofficial I mostly meant content! I also like the videos when Mylo makes an appearance🙂
He was there sleeping!
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This is so valuable, thank you 😭 as a perpetual nice girl..
Ooffff 😂
I love it. Straight into the point!!!
Omg I think this information is so helpful thank you for explaining all of this!!!!!
Omg u explain so on point . This is amazing content new subscriber
Just stumbled upon your vids - LOVE them! Thank u!!
Isn’t the girl you’re coaching in her feminine energy because she didn’t contact him but waited for him to contact her even if it took him months? And then when she replied, isn’t she being in her feminine by responding to his initiative?
A lot more complicated …
@@fareenashofficialexamples would be helpful!
This video confirmed I’m a flat healthy masculine lol. So I end up with more emotional men
Am I the only one that hears feedback? I love what she’s sayin but distracted by the feedback..
Can we get examples of the best way to respond in certain situations?
These vídeos are helping me so much
Another great video 🙏
Hey, love this video. I think the microphone gain might be up too loud. The sound sounds loud but muffled. Most likely a gain issue. 🙌🏼
Good video but the audio quality, unfortunately, it's horrible
The sound is really poor, it´s difficult for me to understand. Please use a better microphone. 😵💫🙏
Love this!
I’m so glad!
Love your content!
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People don't actually listen properly to videos. They want to put their opinions forward and confirmation biases. No one reads between the lines. This isn't game playing.
The title could be LEARN HOW TO REGULATE YOUR EMOTIONS WHEN INTERACTING WITH A MAN, WOMAN!
Any advice on how to be less interested haha? :D
This easier make him come to you do not drive to him, make him drive to you, even though he lives farther, and even if he gives excuses. If he doesn’t come, then you move onto the next guy always have more than one guy.
He doesn't want to get fired or go to jail.
Hi Eric I’d love for you to expand this!
@@fareenashofficial The woman should make the first move. Men don't want to get into trouble.
I definitely think it’s important for a woman to give signals of interest, but I am of the opinion that men should always initiate 💕
@@fareenashofficial In the new world that we live in I think this should change. A woman can flirt without getting into trouble. You must get alot of guys flirting with you.
I'm a female and I agree with you.@@EricMoore-ze2rf
What about girls with guy friends when in a relationship? When a man like me doesn't see any value in having girl as friends. But she does have guy friends that are just there to get their chance. What do you think of this? That reallt repels alot of men from truly commiting too.
If you commit to her, she will not spend as much time with her friends because she will spend more time with you because she is more in your life because you’re more invested in her until you invest more in her meaning you give her a ring or commitment then she’s not gonna see you as more than a friend
Sometime these kind of videos feel so "heteronormative". I am woman that has "masculine energy". My face is feminine, but my style and my tastes are very masculine. But that's the way I want to be. I don't want to change. but I always knew that I am not interested in so masculine men, but a little more feminine men. The terms "feminine and masculine energy" just makes me confused more than anything else. I'm sure other words could be used.
You sound sexually confused. You're either heterosexual or you're not. If you want a man that acts like a woman it's probably because you'd rather be with a woman. The world doesn't need to conform to other peoples ideals. There's LGBT dating coaches out there find one.
What is heternormative about this? We are talking energy here. I suggest you take time to learn about these terms first.
Watch this next: what is dark feminine energy? (not what you think)
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You're spot on
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Such a good video!! we generally focus on toxic behaviors but even being too nice can reduce attraction 🧲 Thank you ❤️
Yess exactly! We don’t even realize it but think about when a man is too nice … turn off right
@@fareenashofficial didn't even recognize this! Yes you're right!!
Helps to put it into perspective 💕💕