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This is so true. Giving space means giving spiritual energy space !! A women should not be over-thinking or over ruminating for her partner. That only creates more drama, negativity, anxiety and will end up with negative side effects. It is better to be somewhat independent so you can remain playful and attractive and chill.
Yes 🤍🤍
This explanation makes perfect sense but it’s good to remember that if they really value you, you won’t have to go online seeking answers. You will just know.
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I love validation that I’m on the right track tho so thank you Fareena for making me feel I’m on the right track. Chose pilates over a long walk with him and feel powerful
I think it’s important not to confuse giving space with being cold, it simply means leaving an open and inviting vaccuum between you for the man to fill to express his love for you.
It's more about attachment styles. If someone has an avoidant attachment style they will want space whether male or female. Anxious attachers find space very difficult.
Anxious attachers have to learn to detach and self-regulate on their own. Thats their work to do.
@@Mermaid03_03 Yes, exactly.
Anxious attachers know this about themselves. They don’t like to be anxious all the time. Who likes being anxious all the time?
After four years of marriage my husband told me he needed space. I gave him space. He found himself a girlfriend. He was just major avoidant. It’s worth bearing in mind that, if things are already not great, asking for space can be a big red flag.
I’m anxious attachment my bf is avoidant and idk how to navigate //::
This seems like a very short term dating strategy. People with clear intentions and healthy boundaries seem be a better fit.
Let me know when you find some folks with clear intentions and healthy boundaries. And good communication skills, and not-fragile egos. Just sayin' ; ]
@@tangobear3536 People that have gone through some sort healing process and or coaching seem to be worth pursuing. But finding those people can be a endeavor.
True
@@tangobear3536yikes 😳
@@tangobear3536I know right. 😂
Being a man this all resonates perfectly with me!
Makes me feel a lot calmer when these principles/roles are understood
I’m so happy to hear this :!
@@fareenashofficial I was just thinking about situations with attractive female coworkers...
This usually complicates things as it is
hard to keep a healthy distance after bonding.
Maybe you can do a video about that??
@HelloWhyAreAccountNamesChanged my precious partner and I worked at the same law firm and yes the attraction is hard to keep away. Can you be a bit more specific about the video topic/question you’d like me to do?
@@fareenashofficial Interesting🙂
Yes, I'm thinking about 'how can you keep the attraction with a women (or men) balanced while you also have to work together on less interesting daily tasks regularly?'
The same issue accounts for people at schools/universities..
I'm talking about the differences between the emotional roller coaster on the one hand and the intellectual (or practical) task on the other hand.
How to keep a healthy balance between them?
I mean, you can't just step away for a few days all the time in these kind of situations...🤫
I hope you catch my drift?
You are helping me heal through a really difficult time currently, realizing my codependency and unhealthy habits brought on by a breakup. Thank you for creating these videos ❤️
Thank you for saying this 🙏
I'd rather be single forever than play all these head games. Human beings aren't worth all this
So agree. Its ridiculous isn't it.
Can’t you hear that she literally said this is not to be played, this is to BE this way naturally. You need to get your inner work done, then you will understand. You clearly haven’t yet.
Exactly. I truly don't have time. U stay there in space too.
I understand what you’re saying. The mind makes the heart grow fonder.
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You mean absence?
From the “Never tell man how you feel” til the end, yes, I 100% agree with you. I do this without even aware about that. Now you say it out loud and I reflect the the past. It just happened exactly like what you said in the video.
Perfectly worded. I’ve heard sooooo many videos on this topic but you nailed it in 10 minutes.
Thank you!
Love it when RUclips notifies me that there is a new video! You’re the best!! ❤️
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I am in a very different phase after being married 10 years and now divorced. Expressiveness in a man is SO much more attractive to me than “aloofness”. I am good at giving space to this new man I am talking to, but what really attracts me to him like no other is his ability to be vulnerable and open with me. I love that he blurts out he wants to marry me one day and have babies, because it’s something I have been craving for a long time with the wrong people.
Aloof people are only attractive if you aren’t ready for true intimacy I personally realized about myself.
Be careful. That can also be love bombing. I also had a guy "blurt out" things like how pretty I would look in a wedding dress and how he could see himself proposing to me within a year. Then suddenly in a few months, he would need "at least a couple years" before he would be ready to even live together. Sometimes the biggest commitment phobes will act like they want to get married to hide their phobia of commitment. I hope I'm wrong. Just be careful.
Future faking... don't fall for it. Or he is overly emotional and goes off on the fantasy train. Men do this it's a common occurrence nowadays.
Your not wrong... actually on the money. Biggest BS merchants play that card. Its feels disingenuous and not real.
I couldn't agree more. Creating space really does give the man time to see what role or what's your purpose in his life.
Strong agree ! After working on myself give my boyfriend space is easy.
Yes!! 😍😍
Amazing advice. However theres more depth to it, A real man is always subconsciously consumed by his responsibilities, we tap into our masculinity and energy to deal with the tasks at hand. Sometimes you just cant utilize the soothing nature of female energy you have a task to do. However, you want that female energy to bring down your intensity when the time is right.
Thank you! And yes so much more to get into 🤍🤍
It's frustrating
I’m glad I found your channel. You have really good content.
I’m glad you found me too :)
This is such a great video!! So true! ❤ All the times I’ve given space they would come back instead of the other way around lol
Yes!!! Are you just seeing this now Felicia!!!
@@fareenashofficial lol yesss!! 🫣
@Soysaucinn put the Bell on missy!!!!
@@fareenashofficial I did! I did! Lol
Congratulations continue
With your series
Thank you for sharing your wisdom 💕💕
You are so welcome 🤗
This is suuuch precious advice!! 🙏🏻
I really appreciate your videos. I have hope that I can one day be as natural as you at being in my feminine. I have already noticed a difference but sometimes I keep going back into my masculine and begin to pursue him.
Thank you Fareen
this video helped me so much. thank you❤
I'm so glad!
Thanks for the strategy ❤
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Great advice! I couldn't agree more!!!
My question is- if you’ve been talking for a couple of weeks, and he disappears for a day or two here and there, do you ignore it and act normal
when he resurfaces?
Call him out on it and inquire why he disappeared?
Or, maybe make a joke on how you thought something must have happened to him for him to not reach out to you?
I'm sick of trying to date. I don't understand why a man would pursue you and maybe you say something he doesn't like or agree with and they disappear.
Why not be an adult and say something right then and there if you don't like what you're hearing 🤔
Giving adequate space is applicable to marriages, if folks want healthy marriages. (Not everybody seeks a healthy marriage. Many seek a solution to their needs.)
Yes exactly!
Great content thank you ❤
Your very welcome 🙏
❤❤❤ so much truth. And as you say the inner work is so important
Thank you Anita 🙏
Thank you.
Thank you! 🙏
Does.not always work. It's not a one size fits all.
Yes,.. can’t answer specifics on a 10 minute video 🤍
Works all the time! ❤
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Amazing video❤
Thank you!!
My girlfriend is super needy and hardly gives me space it’s growing to be quite annoying. The rare times I do get my space after seeing her for awhile I enjoy it but I just feel like I can’t get things done anymore.
I live my woman so I understand your sentiment …im working on setting and clearly voicing boundaries to help me establish that peace of mind I’m sure we both desire hope all goes well in your journey brotha🎉
Didn’t work for me. She created space and I took off. It depends on the situation
Definitely depends on the situation. I don’t mean to create space for games. It’s organic in healthy relationships 🤍
@@notallabouttarot5194right? After a while, she probably stopped missing him and wanting him. Time and space help a lot in getting over someone.
Did you drive off 🤣🤡
As a man I can warn you all that a man will hold on to all of this and you will pay in the end. He will resent you and as soon as he doesn’t care you will become obsessed. Men and women are different. Treat them mean keep them keen works with women not men.
Great advice!!! 💕
Thank you!!
@@fareenashofficial you’re welcome
He is doing less now because I have been chasing and telling him how I feel about him.I had stopped doing the work but now I have resumed. I have pulled away,waiting on him to come towards me.I always self reflect and try to correct my mistakes
Actually this is very general but attachment styles do need to include in ur videos .. as diff attachment styles reacts differently
Yes this is general ..
This is such a weird notion! So men want you to be zero attached and have zero feelings for them! That is the only way tou will NOT care being separated physically and also NOT be thinking of them either..It is humanly impossible to like/care/love someone AND fulfill the above criteria..That's laughable
Love it!! CHILL OUT GIRL ❤
Does this apply to relationship that’s 6 years old and he’s asked for space and is no longer sure about the relationship?
Sounds like games to me….
Just mirror him. Mirror his actions. Then you’ll be valuable.
Is it too late? I told him how I felt and he didn’t reciprocate, even if he’s been showing so many signs of him being interested in me.
Should I just pull back now? Let him chase me?
Wonderful video 💐
Thank you 🙏
💯 % Truth.
Men who don’t pursue or who are icky and creepy pursuers (aka stalkers) is/ are a total turn off. Nothing will change my feeling there.
I believe you explained my situation. A low vibrational male, who was stalking me, did many crimes to cause natural anger, so then he could “feel better than me” and show this to others to falsely characterize me.
It was disgusting and the guy whatever his status needs prison time to understand what he did was not acceptable.
He also committed heinous criminal offenses including perjury, obstruction of Justice, harassment stalking, vandalism, slander and sabotage of my career for decades, sabotage of my advanced educational pursuits for over a decade..
So it was a new relationship of mine so we had a fight bcz I asked for time but he was busy bcz of the season work so, yesterday last time I asked him that I want him but he said I can't talk now sorry what should I do now?
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Thanks for this, i am getting matured mentally. Im having a man seems really interested in me, he tetxs me daily though i enjoy it but there are times im finding myself getting invested in him. So i told him ifwe can chat during weekend, sat or sun. Not because im not interested, but im just choosing myself not too invsted and fall hard. I want to be relaxed and enjoy the moment. I think its a boundaries. He respect it. But lately i found him very active in dating sites in where we fist met. Whats on his mind? Does he think i am not interested? Or he wants to move on? Di i send him wrong signals?
Book a session or email question with me and I can advise you there
How come can I stop thinking about him even if hes is my twin flame? Like im doing a lot of things during in my day but i alwasy catch myself thinking about him and feeling sad instantly, how come can I ove come this? I cant stand feel like this anymore, i hate being like this, i need a break from my head too, i am at the gym rught now, pushing hard but anyway watching. Videos to learn how to stop thinking about him, HELP PLEASE
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Thank you ! ❤ so simply to understand explained ! 🌏
You're very welcome!
As a man I can say I agree.
We’ve been going out for 3 months-ish already. Usually go on dates 2 tines per week but lately it’s only 1 time and the last 2 weeks I am the one asking if he’s free. He’s building his business so I know he’s very busy lately but I still feel like he’s not actively trying to see me like our first month tgt. Should I give him space now or ask him where this is going??? We still text everyday though but I still feel like he somehow likes me less :(
Focus on yourself, just like he is focusing on himself and his business more than you. Whatever hobbies, etc. that you like to do, do those. If he doesn't prioritize your "dating relationship" you must match or go even less on the energy he is putting out. To reiterate focus on yourself.
It’s hard for me to get into specifics here but “what men want” will be helpful or you can purchase an email question from the website and get into it in an email and I will give you my response there 🤍
I only date Entrepreneurs.
I just did a video on what it's like dating a person who owns their own business on my channel.
An update guys. I ditched him and now currently dating my boyfriend who is the exact opposite of him. Knows what he wants with me. He asked me out in the first month and been treating me like a princess. I can feel that I’m his priority. We’ve been together for 5 months now and he’s really eager to meet my parents. I’ve talked to his parents too. I’ve never been happier. Lesson learned: if he wanted to, he would!!
Thanks so much for the update! Congratulations!! Sending love❤
I asked guy ive recently been dating for two months for space and I got dumped 😂😂😂
Oh man what if I gave him my emotions already. Is there a chance I can try this and maybe he might come back??
Have you read my e-books? You can purchase them on the website and if you want a specific question answered, you can do that on the website and email me your question and I will answer in depth that way 🤍
These videos have been eye opening as a sapphic woman. So I wonder if this applies to a female presenting intersex person whose brain and biology operate as a male. I see it operating on some level so I guess I'll report back if I remember 💜
What a beautiful lady, with a beautiful name. Fareen
Thank you 😊
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Everything this gorgeous young woman is saying is absolutely correct become elusive ladies being your purpose have some thing that generally makes you so happy you jump out of bed, barely eating you look up where did the time go? You become more valuable and more attractive when you are difficult to acquire, that’s why for a lot of job candidates they can actually get a job faster if they currently have one because their employer thinks wow somebody else wanted them well take care of yourself
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What stages of relationships ? Every stage is different.
This applies to every stage although depends and varies based on situation and circumstance
So apparently all men are psychics
Masculine men are 🤍
Intuitive
I find it so attractive when a man that I find attractive shows me that he wants me, I don't know what you're talking about t b h haha
Hi question please. In this day and age. Where can you find masculine men, that still exist in this era.
Hi! Have you read my ebooks or gone through my self study course yet? Masculine men are everywhere we just have to become a match to them 🤍
@fareenashofficial no i just came across some of your videos and i enjoyed them! Thank you, i will look into your course! Thanks for responding. 🙂❤️
In the caves 😂
Omg I always ruminate about the guy I don’t want, there’s something wrong with me.. like what is it Fareen, what is it!!! Lol
I feel like I know, but my self assuredness is not my default. I need a new default ! 😊
The awareness is so big!! Read secrets of the feminine woman and take the inner work course as a start
omg I wanted you to coach me ages ago but I forgive you for not getting back to me straight away haha xx
I probs need therapy let's be real 😅
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When a man told you I m attracted by you but at the same.time he is not rich, and make no propositions.omlynhe speaks with you in WhatsApp the he was wondering why we don t speak about sex ????? I think I have to next him ? No?
Yes… I would ask myself what is it in me that is making me want to speak to this man… “secrets of the feminine woman” would be good for you ❤️
@@fareenashofficial I was testing this man to see if I was capable of making him fall in love with me and if he would be capable of making me a proposal, but NOTHING at all, and these conversations are so superficial, they're a complete vacuum!
I don't want to talk to him any more, he makes me want to puke!
On the other hand, I still have the same type of slightly feminine guy who wants to receive everything without doing anything, I want a real guy and to feel like a woman? I can't? is it physical? what a cad this person is anyway and a profiteer!
What if already we deed all needy and pushing him away behaviour? Still space works ?
Also if he is dismissive avoidant does space works?
Coz psychologist doctors say for dismissive ppl space doesn’t work
Space always works to reset the relationship
Read “what men want”
Or schedule a call:email me if you need help with a specific situation
@@fareenashofficial but doctors say if u give space to avoidant or go no contact they will move on
@kani4422 you should think about what’s best for you v what a man will do or not do. And that’s not true. I don’t believe in avoidance. All men have fears. You can bring a man closer or push him away.
Choose someone else :) problem solved or stay single. Sometimes men are simply not worthy of us
@@fareenashofficialageee , I believe they just avoid clingy nut cases lol that have no life outside of the relationship.
what if there is already bad tension and fighting between us? he's been cold and distant. i try to give him space but it feels like we already have nothing but space between us. no seggs, no talking, no affection for a month. just roommates
Read the books, they will help ❤️
If you need more support after that, schedule a session with me and I will advise you properly based on the situation 💔
He cheating
Sometimes the reason for space is to actually reveal if someone is worth being in your life or not. Look at that toxicity, if he is truly the problem and not you, then trust me, you don't belong there at all
@@fareenashofficialWhich books do you suggest?
@shivaniughade7710 mine 🤍
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perfect timing thank you god bless ✨🙏🌹🩷
Perfect timing is the best!! 💕💕💕
Your channel is soo much better than for example super overrated mathew hussey..
Wow well that means a lot! Thank you 🙏
Coz if a guy gets is avoident and women anxious space never works
Why would you try to start anything with an avoidant. It doesn’t make any sense. Work on yourself and find a suitable man.
@@cangrejitamiry we don’t know initially dear , may be after a year or so we come to know patterns
It’s not written on them tht they are avoidant lol
@@Meera44222 but now you know you will never have a normal/high value relationship with him. You can grieve and move on.
Men usually pull away if a woman starts presenting certain behaviors. Look inward rather then outward since we will attract a reflection 🤍
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The space we want is inside you then we can discuss the so called relationship issues that's how Men roll any dude that doesn't do it that way isn't being truthful with you or he is a mommy's boy this is a fact ladies deal with it.
a man should pursue a woman should chase, there can;t be a way around this, because if we as men chase the woman will get bored or disrespectful asking for more and more. we do not have to earn nothing from you. a high value men does not have time or energy to think about you in your absence, he might think about you during breaks or at night but thats it. a girl who is not needy for a man means she is not emotionaly attached to him and because of this she will try to find another man to attach to, a woman emotions are stronger than her conscious thoughs
Men should pursue and not chase, correct 🤍. A woman can need a man and yet not be co-dependent and needy 🤍. Healthy women love love, but will not be emotionally invested in just any man. That is not healthy 🙏
If I don't see her eyes sparkling when she is with me I don't want to deal with her! She might be fun she might be hot, I don't care! Otherwise she might play shit games or use you. this should also go for girls. GO FOR THE ONE WHO INVESTS IN YOU AT ALL LEVELS AND BE GREATFUL AND APRECIATE YOU HAVE SOMEONE LIKE HIM ! NOT THE BAD BOY or the PRETTY BOY that CREATES ATTRACTION. @@fareenashofficial
Ever heard the saying "she chases him until he catches her"?
No..
Women really struggle with reality. Everything has to be reduced down to symbols and shadows for them
Polarity betw DM & DF = 🧲
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