why not being afraid to lose him will trigger his need for you
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- why not being afraid to lose him will trigger his need for you
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In this video, we'll discuss why not being afraid to lose him can actually trigger his attraction and commitment towards you. Learn how to use this powerful tip to build a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
00:00 Introduction
00:30 Who I am
00:47 Your feminine energy
01:11 Why fear of loss is important for men to experience
02:25 What he wants to feel
03:15 How you show up when you won't leave
05:12 In a relationship, this looks like
07:19 Marriage is not the end all be all
10:03 it's his role to convince you he's worthy of your heart
10:59 when you let go of "bad" behaviour, marriage looks like this
11:44 the mindset you want to adopt as a woman
12:38 red flags
13:12 healthy relationships
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If you're dating for marriage and know what you need, you're not going to let a man try you out as a girlfriend or wait on him for a proposal. Youre going to keep him as an option and not take yourself off of the market until a proposal and real commitment (marriage). Being a girlfriend has exploited and wasted so many womens time and energy. Don't give wife benefits at girlfriend price.
Agreed
Strongly agree
Thank you for the reminder. We need to be reminded of these things again and again cos we are such nice girlies that we forget.
Ecactly
Learned this the hard way
How do you not take yourself off the market if you are official? I didn’t say yes to being his gf because I didn’t feel treasured and didn’t want to be locked in.
You have to be willing to lose him to keep him.
Bingo!
So frustrating eh? I lost him once and he pissed me off a few weeks ago and I just walked away
@@JM-bv2moCommunicate what you feel and then take distance. I’ve learned that men respond to actions more than words. Don’t be manipulative though. Just take the space for you.
@@userxoxo181 what do you think of this? We were dating last year for a few months, he broke it off and I disappeared on him. He reaches out 4 months later. We start off as friends again bc we’ve always been friends then last few weeks ago, I told him that I want to be more than friends. He’s like oh I’m surprised you feel this way (mind you I’ve told him already), and he said how he’s not ready to date nor wants long distance even when I said I’m moving for work. Pissed me off so much. I just said, “I respect your decision and would want you to focus on you.” Left it as that. I’m so annoyed with this mofo. He’s like oh you can get better options in other cities bc he needs to work on himself. Like I’m telling him we can go slow. But, that’s my mistake. I was willing to try. I still have him on my IG but I will NEVER reach out again.
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The worse type of woman to be is the woman that’s not going no where. The disrespect will get worse, and the man won’t value you. You have to respect and love yourself enough to leave when a man is playing with you.
Amen! It’s not easy at all. Going on 5 months. I know I did the right thing tho.
Exactly
@karlov, I accept this. I have been so scared of losing him, I did everything to keep him and the disrespect and devalue only increased over time. Im now tryin to keep my peace and distracting myself with trying to study again and uplevel myself. I don't ever want to deal with a man again.
@@IngridLennon-np4dsI hope and pray you find a good man who treats you right. But we need to be more discerning and keep our boundaries. Meanwhile pls keep growing and healing ♥️♥️
I’ve learnt this the hard way 😢
So true once I stopped allowing the bad behavior and walked away he has changed so much ! Complete 180 ! He’s treating me so much better now .
Yep!!!
Love hearing that! Good for you!
A man who really loves you, won't treat you bad
Its that simply
Asking for myself what does it mean you stop allowing bad behavior
are you two still going good?
This is absolutely when my man began to want to commit. We were recently talking about this and he said that knowing that I would (and did) leave him was what made him know he had to stop playing and step up. And as much as I love him today, I will absolutely still walk away
So much yes!!
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We’re you worried if you walk away and go back to him he wouldn’t respect you?
Not at all!!!! Because he had to come back ready. Recently we were having a discussion and he said that knowing I would leave is what made him know he had to be the man that I desired. He was afraid to lose me. And he definitely keeps a smile on my face now. I think the key is knowing that he can't come back unless he comes back respecting you at the highest level.@@xoxjelloxox
makes sense why my dad proposed to my mum straight away in same year as he met her.
miss my dad so much 😢
I'm sorry about your dad.
My father did the same thing with my mom. He was very clear and moved quick and she always jokes about others who had their eyes on her and good thing he stepped up.
Walked away from engagement 3 weeks ago. Focused on healing, self improvement and leveling up.
Wow, I know how hard that can be. If it’s meant to be, and he knows you’re his wife, he will figure out a way to get you back 🤍
I walked away from the man and cut him off in silence because he played games with me and showed off with another woman. He is now showing signs of deep regret. I still care but he needs to change.
Ur videos are spot on. I walked away and I feel great. I took my power and most importantly my dignity. ❤❤❤
That’s how you know you made the right move, you feel great! I’m so happy you’ve taken your power back and more importantly that you feel GOOD because feeling good should always come within and if anything is taking away from that, it’s a big clue as to something is not right! Thank you for sharing! 🤍
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This only works on anxious men who you wouldn’t need to play this game with anyway. Try this with an avoidant man and it’s “challenge accepted”.
Right the avoidant doesnt give 2 fucks about what your doing. He loves his freedom.
I think the avoidant starts to freak out if you walk away, could be wrong tho@@ladymiss9134
@@ladymiss9134anything is better than being with an avoidant
There's no such s thing as an avoidant, just a guy who doesn't love you enough.
@@nadiasympa1233 …patently false statement, but I’ll leave you to your opinion. As a guy who was anxious, and is now avoidant, I can tell you that betrayal will make you never trust or try again.
Standards & Boundaries over Emotions/Accolades/ sweetness
Thank you so much, Fareen. I met a wonderful man, he treats me like a queen and only because I stud for my standards and I am not afraid of losing him. I can feel he respects me. I heard your videos for the last 5 months, so I knew what I was supposed to do, and it went very well. You are great! Love you girl ❤
Love you too!
My friend is with a man for 4 years and he finally proposed but not a date set..they are living together, i believe she is wasting her time and he has a wandering eye...i also believe a man knows within a year and that is also my timeline in the future.
Good for you! Wandering eye.. yikes. If this is how it is now, it will be much worse later.
@@fareenashofficialI agree , I sat down with her many times but it's not working and I also deep down know that our friendship will be ending soon , I love surrounding myself with women who know their worth..
1 year? More like 1 month
A man with a wandering eye... not good. He sounds insecure and needy.
Give him the opportunity to rise up & be the best version of himself.
I left when I saw no integrity and disrespect but I didn’t voice the reason why I left. So I walked away from someone I cared about by saying “we’re not a good match” but I didn’t communicate the reasons why exactly. I assumed he knows why but also I don’t know how to communicate well
They always know 🤍
I did the same thing. I know he knows because I had talked to him about it a few times.
It's not your job to teach him
They KNOW! They want to argur
I just walked away from someone that was verbally telling me I was in the friendzone but his behavior was opposite... and I was totally chasing/mothering... I realized after hearing your videos this behavior and just felt so embarrassed and disgusted with myself. I cut it off immediately! I stopped responding instantly and took the items I had put in their locker back out, and I am not looking back. I actually got to this level of understanding my value on my own, like how dare I allow myself to be dragged along in someone's ego basking... I'm better than that, he wasn't even being that good of a friend either. did nothing nor offered anything for my birthday and barely remembered it. I'm so empowered right now.
he is acting as if he's mad, I've said nothing and I'm not treating him any way- not bad nothing, just like everyone else. I am ignoring his tantrum because he knew I had a crush, I sadly admitted it months ago when he replied "we are just friends, it has to stay that way".
and I didn't walk away then, but now I am.
I'm so happy I have your videos because this feels really right. and very good!
THANK YOU FOR helping me see the light ❤❤❤
I can't wait to save up for your book!
You didn't mention at all how difficult it is to walk away after you have slept with him. There's real biological bonding and attachment. No matter how strong you are, millions of years of DNA program is stronger.
Are ypu married to him? Why are you sleeping with him? You need to take accountability for opening your legs and creating a soul tie , that's on you..close your legs and keep your ears open
You are very right that it is difficult when the attachment is formed. The worth should be much higher and when we work on ourselves, nothing will prevent us from leaving, no matter how hard the conditioning. I hope you’re ok 🤍
Not difficult at all, it’s all in your head. Don’t place too much value on sex and you will be ok
I personally don’t find it difficult to walk away even if I’ve slept with him. Bad behavior is a huge turn off for me. So though it hurts, I leave. I’m also an Aquarius so there’s that lol
@TheSchoolOfQuantumLiving haha well welcome to my world:)
As a young woman in her 20’s this is great advice to avoid being gaslighted and/or manipulated.
Thank you, love your videos
I’m so happy to hear this thank you 🙏
Im the queen of walking away ❤️❤️❤️
Love it!
Guuuuurrl.... Fareen, you're going to blow up. You're so captivating, inspirational, strong, youthful, and wise. I haven't heard anyone else say the things you are in such a way that was able to speak to me on a soul-level, blessing me with so many epiphanies. Thanks to you, I was able to get the clarity I've longed for to get me out of the frozen trauma response state that I've been in for years. You're such a fucking badass !!!!! Keep it up 🥰
This is beautiful advice. I wish more women thought like this
Thank you 🙏 I wish this as well
Great video wow. Thank you for sharing, I subscribed ❤
100% do the inner work and raise your vibration! Talk is cheap energy never lies! Great video thank you new subscriber 💜
Such a great video!! ❤ Always always always goes back to doing the inner work! Love that! Really shows how we’re here for growth & expansion.
Thanks for the advice ❤
Your very welcome
New subbie ❤you told the truth!
A growth oriented fulfilling relationship is the end goal! YES 👍👍👍
I LOVE you Fareen! This one hit so well ❤❤❤
Thank you for your precious wisdom! 🙏
Yes!! I love you too! Happy you’ve found me!
Love your content
I just walked away from my guy friend because he is afraid to give me the commitment I deserve. We took things very slow. We did not have physical intimacy until 9 months into our friendship. He told me in the beginning he just wanted friendship, and I did my best, but I began developing feelings for him. I told him I did not want friends with benefits and that I need commitment. I told him I'm stepping away from this connection if he decides to not commit, and that it would be permanant because I am not going to stay friends because I will need to detach emotionally. I'm giving him a full 24 hours to change his mind. If by tomorrow he hasn't reached out, I am going to begin the detachment process by removing his phone number, deleting photos, etc. so that I can move on fully. I know my worth and value. If he doesn't want me, it just means he's not my forever guy.
Love it. Thank you love ♥️
I’m so glad! 🤍
Spot on jheez every single point was like yes yes yes!
I love hearing that 🤍🙏
Thank you so much your videos are Gold👌
True self worth is so important. Thank you for another great video Fareen 💕
My pleasure 😊 thank you for being here!
Hey Fareen, can you do a video on communicating boundaries within the relationship that demonstrate your standards for the man?
Oh my , how freaking exhausting this is! How anout we do like our parents and grandparents dod and just follow your heart and gut feelings. This is too much!
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Your videos are so helpful!
I’m so glad!
@@fareenashofficial please share guidance on how to deal with a high value man during first dates.
Love!!! Amazing message 🤍 I’m learning so much from you and all you’re teaching and modelling 🩷🩷🩷
Really just gotta do my own work. Most important thing 🥰
I was waiting for your message 😊
@@fareenashofficial 🥰🥰🥰
@@fareenashofficial I need all the repetition for reprogramming. Hearing you and feeling your message in all its facets and angles are helping so much. Love you! You’re the greatest 😍
Hi, first video I watch of yours. Well spoken, I like the way you talk respectfully yet straight to the point. A lot of men are trying to get away with the most they can get from a woman without the effort or commitment. Even proclaiming "after marriage "things" (read; sex) is going downhill. What is sad is that most single men are porn addicts, often drink too much, don't take good care of themselves and lack enough self worth to actually work on themselves. The women they attract are often for looks only to "improve their own image" of becoming an old lonely man. Often they say they "love you" when they actually only love the idea of being loved, fulfilled in a way. It is like they make a woman responsible for their happiness, allowing them to stay status quo and get a bonus without doing the extra work. Maybe I sound judgemental but these are my experiences unfortunately and I prefer staying single than being a surrogate mom for a guy who refuses to take really good care of himself first.
This is all so accurate
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Very good advice
I agree but I also agree that it’s the other way around too.
I showed up High Value, and didnt let him get away with anything, he was still abusive. Must have been a narcissist
I love this❤
Love hearing that 🤍
Her POV on marriage 🙌🙌 stop seeing it as the finale, the be all and end all x
Very true.
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A beautiful lady was playing that game with me and anyway I left her , now she wants to be my friend , figure it out.
those divine feminine bullshtters and redpillers give advice like this then all their followers act cool and want to be chased 😂
I don't afraid
Lots of good points in this video, but it is WAY harder to just walk away once you've been married for a significant amount of time. Your lives become deeply intertwined emotionally, logistically (such as raising kids together), and financially. It is dang hard to just walk away then.
These mind games not working any more
what does this mean ?
@@izy9911 the mind games she's teaching women to play are not working any more. Men are just ignoring women, majority of men. The men that play these games are the thrash demon men that just pump and dump you, and then you want the real men but can't find one.
As a man i would take it as she’s not interested making me feel shes not interested and walk away with my peace
Why would she walk away if you were doing your best? Women don't walk unless there is justification. She won't be back either if she has self respect.
What mic 🎙️ are you using?
Another great video Fareen❤️After a woman has walked away from a relationship less than a year. How long can it take for a man to realize that she’s the one?
It really depends on the circumstances of the relationship, usually if it’s the “right” woman and she’s conducted herself properly, he’ll know he’s messed up RIGHT away!
@@fareenashofficial was just curious. I definitely have shown up the right way, no nagging, begging, complaining telling what to do, threats none of the low value behaviors and communication. I simply said, I don’t like how this relationship is going, I’m taking a break from it. I walked away 2 weeks ago. Still moving forward with my life regardless if he’s in it or not. This was done innately, you only confirmed what I knew to do. Thank you😊
Yep!
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So good!
Thank you ! 🤍
Hi Fareen!
How exactly do you walk away? Eg Should you warn him that you may walk away? Or should you just communicate what bothers you, wait to see if he changes, then walk away without him even really being prepared for that?
I like this idea of being a quality woman.
The one scary thing is the gaslighting and love bombing that can happen before marriage, which can be very confusing.
True, True
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Well my dad waited 7yrs until he and my mom married & they're still married 30yrs later 🤷🏼♀️
Completely different time and era. And they were young. They weren't 35 plus.. You have to be careful when you are very young. You don't know yourself. No life experience.
@jessicahitchens6926 No, it was because they broke up 3x & even dated people in between until they both wanted to marry at the same time. Most ppl got married younger those days, so they were older when they married.
How can I address his neglect though? I tried giving him space. I've gotten emotional about it. I've broken up with him... Before I let him go for good, how do I behave on our next date?
Great
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What if my husband was drawn to a lawyer mistress he thought would help him from his financial instability? He’s broke and he thought I bring hin bad luck and this lawyer helps him financially and he saw stability on that person?
I walk away.when i say no i mean it. Result is am single but i like to take my time.
Thank u Fareen from Morocco 🇲🇦,How we can do that in Long distance relationship?
You’re very welcome! It depends on the situation. You can write me or book a session for specific input 🤍
@@fareenashofficial ❤❤
Could you do a video on your take on ex girlfriends still in the picture?
I made great mistakes, no more.
You’ve gained new awareness 🤍
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HOW DO YOU WALK AWAY ELEGANTLY?
When you’ve shown up a certain way (read my books), you’ll understand deeper
What if you want to wait to be physically intimate but to him he can get another girl for that if it’s needed for him no matter if he respect you. He can find someone else that gives him that and respect him.
So he not for u.
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You're so beautiful Fareen :).
Thank you 😊
This is great, but how do you let them know you are willing to walk away without threatening to leave
Say even though I love you unconditionally. I am not going to take any of your bullshit. I can love you and walk away and won't look back. It's my superpower 😅. Say that.
You have got to love yourself more than you love them.
A man can “feel” it in the way we carry ourselves
I try to understand why marriage should be a woman's goal.
I follow you and like your message, but that's the thing that I dont get to understand fully.
Lots of women complaining about men when women are actually the problem and can’t walk away when a relationship isn’t fulfilling or when a man is no longer on his toes to win you over or KEEP you won over.
9:10 how do you communicate that in a feminine energy?
It depends on the specific situation
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Men have more options and choices when it comes to dating. Any woman who doesn't reciprocate or appreciate your time and efforts must be dumped or replaced.
Keep riding the carousel to nowhere. Let's see you at 60 🤡
He's very growth oriented, but he also thinks I'm too good for him. How to change this mindset.
If that's what he believes, he'll probably self-sabotage. He needs to believe he's good enough for you in order for him not to give up bc he believes it's too hard/impossible. If you're affirming him already and it still is enough, you will have to keep helping him with his esteem and lack of confidence gets very unattractive the longer you see it.
He should try therapy. If he's willing, that's a good sign. But it's not your responsibility to change his mindset
@@amandapierre-louis9039 thank you for your replies. I agree.
* it still is NOT enough
My bad!
And All love 😊
I would need to get into your specific situation privately to advice you accurately
How does a woman walk away? Could you please provide an example or two? Thanks
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Stop talking to his ass … cold turkey ., weather you want to give him an explanation or not is on you
Disengage with no contact. Or tell him this isn't working for me. I'm moving on. Delete his number.
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Games
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mind games...
Mind games isn't walking away. Mind games is telling a woman you care yet do nothing to prove it. Wasting time..
Stupid games. Just be in love.
These are games.
Men love sports and all sorts of games.
How does one show they’re willing to walk away? How do you demonstrate this without a lot of conflict or drama in the relationship?
Love is not in a wheel of relative sides that mark caused to reach him at s-even after commanding her to only tempt at six. One at six is s-even as a false Heaven he calls sex. one star finds six at one while the other has six as who L L Y finds the open space of curved light at the center of the star He brewed where s-even goes out of the O and into gods curved light. walk away is to learn what love really is..why do you walk back is the question? The answer is that Mark hid the other Lord when he commanded you to only tempt the lord when you arrive at true love... then the relative response is to ride a red [re and de] horse back to the false lord who will blame you next time because you came to him for your needs instead of love you should have learned by now from "follow the lord" [means never reach] uses the false love first to learn from and then .."fear the Lord" as the false lord you follow but can never reach because that kind of love is only to learn from and never go to again..if you want to get out of HE-LL at six [LL] the first time..or love him his WAY [sides of thought double crossed to send themselves to him after he told them to appear as if they are alone to him to tempt the lord who knows already that she is with him because she must always give it away the first day or it might look like love that did not tempt him right away to go after her. "I" have no need of false love left behind except to exhort truth to save those from returning again as good slaves in the past called ISIL.
How can a woman feels like she is worthy of something better when all her life she was never pursued by any man?
Even if she thinks there are options out there, but she does not feel so..
Inner work… my ebooks and course will help
I heard not one lie!! I wish I could send this to my homegirl because she is literally begging/waiting for this one guy. She has a whole life planned with him in her mind , but he doesn’t call and disappears on her often. She gets excited when he replies to one of her instagram stories 🤦🏼♀️. She recently asked him “what are we?” And he laughed and said “Are you crazy.” There’s nothing I can tell her to leave this man alone, so Im just waiting for her to come to her senses smh.
@@Seraphina93 hmmm you said nothing about him NOT being a great man though 🤔. I actually do let her be in love! As I said Im waiting for her to come to her senses. Everything I said is the truth 🤷🏼♀️ And I don’t talk to anyone about this! This video peaked my interest because of her situation! And I listened to find any advice I can give to her without being mean.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hope she is young. Because that kind of desperation is pathetic if you are mature. Its delusion and obsession.
This is wild.
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