I hope Britney is strong enough to go through with disowning her whole family. I hope she chooses life - I hope she chooses to make her own family and surround herself with nothing but love from here on out. Such a tragic situation.
As long as she doesn't cling to anger and resentment she should be fine. I've had toxic family members and it's more empowering to walk past the toxic people and not think twice about them. The greatest revenge is living your best life and leaving them in the dust. I'm sure she can do it! 🙏❤👏🌈🏅🎊👑♐
@@klbfarwell I had to cut contact with my whole family too. It’s hard but worth it. It takes constant discipline because they occasionally try to insert themselves back into my life. It’s kinda ironic that her situation turned out this way because I used to wish I had her family and her life when I was a kid. Now time has revealed the reality of her situation, I see how much we really have in common. I always thought she had the perfect life and family.
We are here for you, if you need to talk about the break up it helps to heal. A 6 year relationship is serious and was a big part of you and now its gone. Don't let this make you feel ugly.
Why do families do this to each other? Its so upsetting for me because my family is also wack full of assault and abuse while also making themselves out to be the good ones while the victims are constantly vilified. It's a hurt in my heart I don't know how to heal from. Britney is so incredibly strong. She has an incredible will to live.
I understand what you may be saying. They always talk shit about you and you’re known as the “bad one”. Little do people know, they abuse(d) you. It takes a lot to heal from, and it’s also ok if it takes decades . It’s also up to you to decide whether or not to keep them in your life, cut them off, and lessen the communication with them. Do what’s best FOR YOU. Family isn’t always through blood. You matter. You are worth wayyy more than how your abusers treat you.
You’d think that your family would be a safe space but a lot of the time they aren’t. Society and a lot of cultures preach about how family is above all and that no matter what you have to forgive family. This type of mindset is why abuse happens so much and is always brushed under the rug. To these people it’s a free pass to treat their families however they want to and that they won’t have to face many consequences because “family is forever.” Thankfully the younger generation is getting away from that mindset so abuse isn’t going to be as tolerated as before.
Good question. Family should be your safe space even if you don't agree on everything. Unhealthy families is our #1 problem. Don't feel guilty for saving yourself. Break the cycle for the next generation.
Me too Sloan. Just got dumped on New Year’s Day, 1 year and 9 months in. I feel so undesirable as well. And just worthless. I haven’t eaten since it happened. I am in pain with you, and many others are as well. You are gorgeous and have a great soul.
@akosiball...hi there, just to let you know i care and love you as a person. You are not alone in this moment. Yes it hurts but the hurt will slowly go away. By next month youll see the signs and move on. Just know you are not alone. Pray if you have faith believe me it helps alot. Take care and start eating you don't want t. o get sick during this pandemic. God bless you always...Michelle 🙋❤💪🙏☺💕
Don't allow others to Dictate your Worth, how you feel about yourself &/or the way you see yourself. You're better off w/out someone who can't or won't see how amazing you are! There's someone better for you! It Hurts now, but it won't always Hurt... When you find the Right Person, your Ex will be but a Distant Memory. A Grain of Sand in the Desert. They're not worth a Second Thought & don't for 1 Second question what YOU did Wrong & IF you do, remind yourself that the Answer is: NOTHING. Not Eating bc of Stress & being Hurt, SUCKS! Buttered Toast w/ a Mug of Hot Chocolate or PB Toast always did the Trick for me. Stay Strong!! 💙🦋💜
at least it's winter ...the weather mirrors your mood, and hopefully when the flowers begin to bloom, you will be out the other end of your break up. You are an amazing person and know that! Un the end he did you a favor, you want people who will stick around and share your joy....while it's time to wallow, know that you have a future yet to be lived ❤❤
I cannot imagine the feelings of pain and betrayal she feels by her family. They all acted like they had her best interest at heart when in reality they all wanted control of her money. Her parents let the money get to their heads and her sister is jealous of her and always has been. She should love, support and encourage her throughout the years....ESPECIALLY when she would've never had a career herself if Britney hadn't been famous. "More money more problems" is true most of the time unfortunately. If I were Britney, I wouldn't have crap to do with my family...I'd focus on my FREEDOM, do whatever the heck I wanted to do, focus on my kids and husband, career....wouldn't give her parents/sister the time of day.
"it's giving me ostrich" I WHEEZED. anyway, i do completely agree with britney's decision. im dealing with that rn with my mother tbh. it's really hard. i love her and i know she loves me but we do NOT mesh well and unfortunately she has chosen other things over me that she cannot give up. and I chose to live my life in freedom. it's a sad truth but just bc they're your family does NOT mean you owe them loyalty, or whatever you want to call it
I understand as well-I’ve been no contact with my abusive family members for over five years…it’s just better to be away from their toxicity. It’s really okay to put your own mental health and emotional stability first in life 💛💫
I fully can relate to having a toxic family and going no contact was the best thing I've ever done. I really hope she cuts them out of her life for some much needed peace and healing. I hope she does the Oprah interview,files lawsuits against them, and let's everyone know the truth. It's heartbreaking to see how much of her life they stole and the amount of time she missed out on her sons. I hope she gets more time with her boys.
the “breaking generational curses” thing just fully sends me. Jamie Lynn is so manipulative and shitty, and quite frankly just doesn’t know when to stop. she’s a full grown child.
Just a fun fact: This is an false brand of “Christianity” - she mentioned going back to her faith - that believes in generational curses. The cult promotes narcissism and toxic positivity.
Your vulnerability is admirable! We’ve all been there before. It’s ok to not be ok or feel desirable all the time we’re human. To be going through what you’re going through & still make content for us is amazing & honorable! You’re beautiful & you’re doing a great job!! ❤️
I just feel so bad for Britney. She’s been so used by literally everyone in her life. Her family is a sack of leeches. Seriously NONE of them would have anything without Britney’s success. Let’s not forget the interview back in 2002/2003 where the interviewer asked about how she and her mom had such a great relationship. The interviewer went on to ask how her mom has been with all the recent turmoil (ie the break up with Justin and moving on from that, the paparazzi flurry, etc) Britney literally tried to save face by saying her mom was amazing but she broke down crying in the middle of her comments. Lynne spears wasn’t shit either. She lucked up on a talented child and pimped her out for years, all while reaping the benefits of her daughter’s success. Britney’s family has a special place in hell as far as I’m concerned.
Jamie Lynne has been jealous of Britney her whole life. Britney is the one with the talent, success and the looks! Jamie Lynne only got the crumbs that fell from Britney’s table. She was in her element when daddy Spears had Britney trapped in that conservatorship, the Spears family are vile!
My dad told me that when I have negative, mean thoughts, to literally tell them to go away. And there's a quote that says, "Thoughts only have power if you give it to them." Idk of that helps, but those are the two things I think of when I get stuck in a darker place. We love you, Sloan!! 💕
Omg I’m just now hearing about your break up. I’m sorry and it will get better in time ok. Sometimes we need to take the road less traveled and sometimes we need to do it alone but I’m sure you’ll find a greater happiness at the end of the road. Lots of love from Georgia. Buena suerte muchacho. 🍑💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
“This too shall pass” has been the best 4 words I have ever been taught in life. It’s helped me so much when life feels like it’s in a hurricane. There’s a lesson to be learned in every challenge we face. When you are emotionally ready…step back and think about all the beautiful lessons you have received from your relationship. You will only be stronger as a result and eventually you can turn your sadness and hurt into strength. Also, now you can learn what you don’t want in your next relationship. ❤️
I applaud Britney for being strong enough to cut off her toxic family and live her life. She is an inspiration to me. I decided to cut off my father and most of my family. Im only close with my grandmother. My father wasn’t in my life at all and he treated me like I wasn’t a priority in my life. My other family members have made disturbing comments about me after I was assaulted and my mom was abusive to me when I was a teenager. I still love my mom but I’m still traumatized by what she did in the past. It’s time I move on and live my life.
Move on and move up, baby. Parent the inner child that was neglected and abused, by making the best decisions for yourself and your future. Nurture and grow that inner child with kindness and shake off the past pain by thriving. I wish you the best. I’ve been there. It is very hard and I would never minimize what you’re going through because I KNOW. You are seen and heard. ❤️
Sam’s plea to fans to contact producers after he got an audition is so cringe 🤦🏻♀️ They asked him to send a dance reel, so just ask Britney to show you a few moves?? It’s embarrassing he thinks he just deserves a part (or a role created specifically for him WHAT) with no actual work put in. Wasn’t there a clip of him talking to paparazzi while getting in his car and saying “put in a good word for me if you see Channing” or something?
Puts me in mind of a line of thought I read from an obviously narcissistic character - the character looks at the DJ table and muses that "only a tin ear and a complete lack of talent stood between him and a future at the (DJ) tables". A lot of these folks seem to forget that it's kind of pointless having music/dance aspirations if you have no talent in the relevant music and/or dance. And it's always music/dance with these guys (maybe because the practice of that isn't straightforward and yet these talents aren't consistently vastly underestimated the way gymnastics frequently is)
Slo4n, your absolutely right! Your instincts are spot on. I forgot to mention (in my last rant) he’s absolutely “entitled”. Absolutely feels that way, without a doubt. He will break her heart one of these days.
That isn’t family, As a parent there’s no way I could ever do that too one of my kids. How could she ever trust them again, I think she needs to block them and forget about them. Just like they did her when she needed them the most. #moneychangespeople
Sometimes, I say most of the time money shows people true colors, but sadly a lot of parents right now don't realize their children are not objects to dress up and parade around, they are living beings with emotions and needs but glad you are good
We love you Sloan! Half a million people support you and have your back. Don‘t let a few negative comments make you think otherwise. We are here for you!
Aw Slo4n I think you are going through your Saturn Return and will have a spiritual awakening soon. I went through a tough breakup after seven years in July 2020 (your videos actually helped me so much) and all I can say is I am so proud of you for taking time to be yourself and continue to create amazing content, you are becoming your highest self and will attract unconditional love and abundance soon
Sloan, your content and your voice is so important and valuable. It’s clear you put a lot of work and dedication into your content, and it obviously comes from a place of wanting the best for others. You have a way of making each video about advocating for those who have been wronged, either celebrities who are victims, victims of celebrities, or both. I don’t remember how I found your videos, but I keep coming back because you’re so genuine and good. I admire your strength in being honest and vulnerable about where you’re at. I’m sorry you’re going through a rough time with your recent breakup and with Covid, and I wanted to send you some love because you are so very deserving of it. 💖
I hope this new year brings you genuine happiness and endless self love, Sloan! Thank you for caring so much about others and always putting yourself on the line in order to get the truth out there. Your openness about your personal struggles is inspiring and I hope you know you are never alone! You are so loved and appreciated and we are so happy you’re here! 🖤
I'm so unsettled by Sam. Obviously I want Britney to be happy but I'm getting more dismayed why she's with someone who is so fame hungry and entitled when all she wants is a quiet life? Anyway.... Sloan you are a beautiful human being. Apart from your videos being awesome, you make us feel like we have a friend when we need one. Keep on doing your thing! We are lucky to have you. Wishing you a great 2022 🎉
I agree about Sam. Britney definitely deserves all the happiness in the world and I wanna be happy for them but something about Sam just rubs me the wrong way and I can't help but think he's an opportunist basking in her fame. And seeing that story video of his here where he feels entitled to a role in Magic Mike 3 despite not knowing at all how to dance doesn't really put him in a flattering light either. And how does talking shit about a show get you anywhere? lmao...just no. I see red flags about this guy.
I was diagnosed with COVID a month and a half before giving birth on 12/21/20. It was absolutely horrible. My heart goes out to you!! I turned 31 on 12/12. Thank you for being here for vulnerable people like us and just pushing through the ADVERSITY, because I think that is what it is to be a strong person. I have a lot of private things going on that I never thought I would have to go through at this moment, but my one year old and I escaped a very dangerous situation. (Feel free to contact me somehow if you want to know the story & hear the POSITIVE effect (sp)? that your coverage of Britney has had on me. I have had a go back packed since the month I found your channel. Just trying to keep faith in God that somehow or another ONE day we can get through a safe night under this roof financially as mother and son. so long as I keep doing what's right and BREAKING THESE GENERATIONAL CURSES and protecting him in every way. WE will ALL be okay, I am sure. We are not alone! SO MANY HUGS YOUR WAY! MUCH LOVE -C-
Sloan, I think you're great. You need to look into the positive things that can happen because of the "bad" things that went down. Now is the time to love yourself and do things for YOU!
RUclips needs to stop playing with your account and let you upload when you want!!! Love you sloan I hope you’re doing okay♥️ and thank you for uploading when you can it’s getting me through hard times so thank you so much for that
Thank you for continued time, energy, and passion that you put into every video Sloan, especially when you are feeling so sick. You are seriously loved and appreciated deeply, that feeling will only multiply as you give yourself that same kindness and consideration that you afford to others. Self love hits best but thats why it can feel like such a battle. For me, I’ve realized its not so much about trying harder to love myself as i am, and more so about letting go and deconstructing the negative beliefs i have about myself. Letting go let’s you accept who you are, for all that you are, the beautiful, the ugly, the true uniqueness of your light that only you have in this world. Ofc its easier said than done but truly our authenticity and impact is something to be proud of and protected, from others and our own demons. Much love to all reading, we are all on our own parallel paths to true self love and compassion.
I actually have watched Sweet Magnolias and LOVE the show! I really hope that Jaime Lynn being on it doesn't ruin it for those that would love for the show to continue or for those that are apart of the show who work hard to make it happen. She's not a main character where the show won't go on without her, so they should just cut her so they don't have to cancel the show
yes! i love sweet magnolias too but i’m not a jamie lynn fan at all… they could easily write her character off, and then the show would be even better because jamie lynn (even playing someone else) just puts a bad taste in my mouth because of everything she’s done to britney
I love the show and her character! It doesn’t ruin it for me, but they didn’t need to put her back in or they could’ve recasted (hate when shows do this, but they could have if her character is important to the story line).
I don't think that she should lose her job because of her personal life. Did she partake in the systematic abuse of her sister, yes, but she was also a child. When trying to get justice it's always important to not become the very people who we are trying to hold accountable. I think people take it to far. It's complicated, she was a victim to abusive parents as well. I find it quite ironic that those upset about Britney being abuse; are abusing her sister online.
@@charissa6648 my intentions with my comment was to not abuse anyone. I honestly don't want to have any opinion when it comes to the spears family. Just like you feel that she shouldn't lose her job because of her personal life, that was the point I was trying to make with my comment. The show should not be canceled due to controversy over one actress. Its too good of a show and so many people are involved for that to happen. Quite honestly, I like having her on the show. It makes for a good plot line, but if it gets canceled and others lose their job, that's where I personally would think to cut her before they cut the whole show
Oh my gosh! Hearing you talk about yourself BROKE my heart. Sloan, you’re beautiful. 💕 your videos have gotten me through some tough times and you talk about topics so many are too scared to. Stay strong! 💕
Sloan, you are so sweet and so strong. It sounds like you are going through a lot right now, but you are at least recognizing these thoughts/feelings and, in my opinion, that shows growth. I hope that you are proud of yourself and remember how much you’ve accomplished thus far. There will always be mean comments, some lingering in your head longer than others, but I know that you are strong! So many of us are rooting for you - remember that. 💜
Jamie Lynn Spears also used to bully Alexa Nikolas. I’m so glad that Britney Spears unfollowed her. Why can’t Britney Spears just block her? Alexa Nikolas also unfollowed Jamie Lynn Spears.
We love how genuinely kind and warm you are, Sloan! But please don’t think you are not also a cutie (esp with your eyes and smile)! You deserve the same grace and positivity that you give others. Any guy would be lucky to have you. You exude an amazing energy from the inside out!
I agree with you Sloan. Sam isn’t making his own way. If anything he’s begging for a customized role in a well known film with well known and established actors. His weird rehearsed video was embarrassing. Instead of taking advantage of the fact that Brit is a literal dancer and performer who could help him get a routine down for the role, he’s basically refusing to do it as if he’s already an established outstanding actor. He’s not Channing Tatum, and that was begging for a handout because of who he’s dating. Honestly, Sam seems to want to do absolutely nothing, yet be in a huge production and be loved by everyone which is what he seems to be doing in real life. Sam essentially does not want to be an actor because he really just wants to play himself🤷🏽♀️
16:20 I'm so sorry you've been so down lately.. I just want you to know that so many of us love you and want you to be well! Yes we might not know you but as any human being who is caring and has empathy we do know how breakups, covid, being harsh on yourself, etc can have such an impact. Hope you get stronger soon! ❤️
The only reason in my opinion is that Britney Spears follows her sister , Jamie Lynn is to keep tabs on her.Keep your friends close and keep your enemies really closer closer
aw sloan, i’m going through a breakup right now too so i know exactly what you mean when you say you feel undesirable. i also am my own worst critic and have a very negative mindset, i hate that you’re hurting but it’s gonna get better. you are such a pure and kind hearted person, you care about people so much, you’re gonna find someone that just absolutely adores you and treats you the way you deserve. keep your head up babe, you are beautiful on the inside and out and it certainly shows ❤️❤️
Dear Sloan, you are truly beautiful inside and out. Don’t let life get you down. I got COVID too and felt the same way. I thought twice, ok I’m out now, and made my peace with it. I’m still here, as you are. We survived. It takes all your strength to bounce back. You must because I love listening to you. You have loads of support and supporters and you deserve them. I love your open and honest way. Keep up the great spirit. Big hug from Germany, yes, that’s how far you stretch! Love Yessamyn
It's definitely okay to not feel like yourself 100% of the time and I hope you feel better soon with your covid. And I hope you have a great year this year!
First-time commenter, long-time viewer... Sloan, I felt so sad when you described how you've been feeling about yourself lately. It kinda blows my mind you feel that way because I think you're such a beautiful person. You have the most magical eyes and gorgeous skin. Not only that but you're funny, you're kind, you're grateful, you're wise. Your videos provide me with entertainment during times where I don't feel so great about myself or my own life. I don't like the thought of a negative comment being the focus in your mind so had to tell you my own thoughts. I am so glad to have discovered your channel. I notice the amount of effort you put into your research, your content, and your frequency of posting. You are so awesome! I wouldn't take the time to comment if I truly didn't mean it. Thank you for being you, you wonderful human. Wishing you a blessed start to the new year. All my love, from England - Jessy xo
Not to mention that Lynn Spears have tons of pictures of the kids in her IG. I think JL is trying to do what other celebs do, like Kristen Bell but Bell has been doing this since her kids were born, JL is just out of the blue deciding to cover their faces and don't even get her family on board with her decision.
Omg sending love to you from Florida Sloan!! Tons of Friends of mine over here in Broward and Miami who have been vaccinated and already had that last strain are now catching this new strain and are very sick. Everyone be safe!! I would be broken if we lost Sloan!
I remember when Britney first broke in to the pop world and her family, in front of the camera, seemed very supportive at the time. It became obvious (at least in my eyes) during Britney’s breakdowns that this was not the case. It’s so sad the way things turned out with Britney and her family. I did not have the conservatorship situation but money tore my family and I apart. It took 20+ years before my family and I started to communicate again when I found out via email, from a family member, that my father was ill. I took the high road and called my parents and let bygones be bygones. I hope someday, when the notoriety of this situation dissipates, there’s forgiveness 🙏🏼.
It is nice that you found peace, but your situation sounds very different. This goes way beyond money. Her family enslaved Britney, spied on her and fleeced her. Wirst of all they took away her chance to fully be a mom to her beloved sons. When you lose such precious irreplaceable time it is pretty impossible to forgive. It looks like she has a long way to go before she heals.
If it helps her, I hope Britney does forgive, but I also hope she NEVER communicates with them again. They’d better be giving her kidneys or something before she contacts them again. They’re garbage.
@@FacheChanteDeux - As I’ve stated, I did not have the conservatorship situation, but losing a family is not any different. Finding peace in yourself and peace with God can take days, months, years, and I hope Britney can find it in her self to heal and forgive because regret can cause a lot of pain in the end.
Her family is a pack of wolves.GOOD RIDDANCE. Sometimes you need to cut the negativity out even if that means your own family. Blood doesn't make you family now a days and i totally can relate! You go brit!♡
Jamie Lynn's face in that photo 🤣 It's like my face after taking a bowel prep (laxative) before surgery last week. 😂 It took a while to start working but when it did, - Enter : JAMIE LYNNS FACE- boy did it work!! I took a bucket with me in the car.. y'know just in case... and my butt got stuck in the bucket 🤣 It made a comical sqeaky noise as I freed each buttock 🤣 but I indeed *just* made it to hospital with my dignity intact. 🤣🤣🤣 The End. Lol 🤣 #Picolax #BeautifulStory #lol🤣 #ImminentPooFace
YESSSSSS!!! And Sloan, I understand struggling with self love. I struggle with it too. You're a very handsome man. I wish we could get you to see that!!
“It’s giving me ostrich and idk maybe a little….snake “ 😂 the pause got me. I feel like this pic was posted as a joke. I mean, maybe she’s trolling lol
Sloan, I am SO sorry for what you are going through. I also have covid right now, and like you, I'm never sick. Well, this has shocked me how bad I feel, I feel like I'm never going to feel better. I'm a fitness instructor, so this has really set me back. We will get through this. What I wanted to tell you is about your break-up, I am so deeply sorry for what you are going through. I think you are so handsome, and such a great person. I'm sure that your ex- feels the same way, unfortunately sometimes people just aren't meant to be. And that's all it is. It has nothing to do with you because you are physically gorgeous. The advice I can give you is to put your health and well being first. Once you feel better, start exercising and doing things to make you feel good & healthy. Fitness changed my life, and made me a better person . YOu will be in my prayers, just give yourself time and patience.
I hope Britney is strong enough to go through with disowning her whole family. I hope she chooses life - I hope she chooses to make her own family and surround herself with nothing but love from here on out. Such a tragic situation.
As long as she doesn't cling to anger and resentment she should be fine. I've had toxic family members and it's more empowering to walk past the toxic people and not think twice about them. The greatest revenge is living your best life and leaving them in the dust. I'm sure she can do it! 🙏❤👏🌈🏅🎊👑♐
@@klbfarwell I had to cut contact with my whole family too. It’s hard but worth it. It takes constant discipline because they occasionally try to insert themselves back into my life.
It’s kinda ironic that her situation turned out this way because I used to wish I had her family and her life when I was a kid. Now time has revealed the reality of her situation, I see how much we really have in common. I always thought she had the perfect life and family.
She never really had a real family anyways.
@@RellupNorth Well aren't you a peach. Jesus Christ.
@@collinkeyser6827 No, her sons are the family she has already begun to create.
Jaimie Lynn's face 😂😂😂😂
It makes a great meme face 😂
He said OSTRICH lolol
Part of me wants to laugh another part wants to cry 😭 😭😭😭😭
A bag of hammers and worms
She looks like she's smelling her own stank
We only know Jamie due to her iconic sister and we’ll forget her in no time
Jamie Lynn
@@joankgillette mmm hmm
@@collinkeyser6827 Yeah but would she have ever got that role without Britney's fame??
Sloan you had me crackling!! 😂🤣. “She’s giving me ostrich and snake”. “I low key wish this was the cover of her book” I’m dead 😂
Your chuckle when you said "the book ain't gonna sell itself" KILLED me 😂😂
“It’s giving me ostrich?? Maybe a little snake?” 😭😂
Snakestrich 😂😂😂
I’m not gonna lie I would’ve fought Jamie if I had her as a sister. The disrespect and disloyalty is next level. Britney’s family is just terrible
I agree.
YES!!! Their “THE FAMILY FROM HELL!!”
Same they’re disgusting
@I Am Annaleigh 💯 They’re horrible
Right? Snakes like her make me glad I don't have any sisters. The disgusting greed is next level with this family!
We are here for you, if you need to talk about the break up it helps to heal. A 6 year relationship is serious and was a big part of you and now its gone. Don't let this make you feel ugly.
Speaking of ugly, that’s what Britney’s family is!
Why do families do this to each other? Its so upsetting for me because my family is also wack full of assault and abuse while also making themselves out to be the good ones while the victims are constantly vilified. It's a hurt in my heart I don't know how to heal from. Britney is so incredibly strong. She has an incredible will to live.
I understand what you may be saying. They always talk shit about you and you’re known as the “bad one”. Little do people know, they abuse(d) you. It takes a lot to heal from, and it’s also ok if it takes decades . It’s also up to you to decide whether or not to keep them in your life, cut them off, and lessen the communication with them. Do what’s best FOR YOU. Family isn’t always through blood. You matter. You are worth wayyy more than how your abusers treat you.
thank you for finding these words.
You’d think that your family would be a safe space but a lot of the time they aren’t. Society and a lot of cultures preach about how family is above all and that no matter what you have to forgive family. This type of mindset is why abuse happens so much and is always brushed under the rug. To these people it’s a free pass to treat their families however they want to and that they won’t have to face many consequences because “family is forever.”
Thankfully the younger generation is getting away from that mindset so abuse isn’t going to be as tolerated as before.
Good question. Family should be your safe space even if you don't agree on everything. Unhealthy families is our #1 problem. Don't feel guilty for saving yourself. Break the cycle for the next generation.
Your family is probably narcissistic. Check out Dr. Ramani here on RUclips. She's a psychologist specialized in narcissism.
Me too Sloan. Just got dumped on New Year’s Day, 1 year and 9 months in. I feel so undesirable as well. And just worthless. I haven’t eaten since it happened. I am in pain with you, and many others are as well. You are gorgeous and have a great soul.
I know you don’t know me, but I hope you feel better and I wish you can have a great year :)
I’m so sorry that happened to you 😭 remember it’s never your fault ❤️
@akosiball...hi there, just to let you know i care and love you as a person. You are not alone in this moment. Yes it hurts but the hurt will slowly go away. By next month youll see the signs and move on. Just know you are not alone. Pray if you have faith believe me it helps alot. Take care and start eating you don't want t. o get sick during this pandemic. God bless you always...Michelle 🙋❤💪🙏☺💕
Don't allow others to Dictate your Worth, how you feel about yourself &/or the way you see yourself. You're better off w/out someone who can't or won't see how amazing you are! There's someone better for you! It Hurts now, but it won't always Hurt... When you find the Right Person, your Ex will be but a Distant Memory. A Grain of Sand in the Desert. They're not worth a Second Thought & don't for 1 Second question what YOU did Wrong & IF you do, remind yourself that the Answer is: NOTHING. Not Eating bc of Stress & being Hurt, SUCKS! Buttered Toast w/ a Mug of Hot Chocolate or PB Toast always did the Trick for me. Stay Strong!! 💙🦋💜
at least it's winter ...the weather mirrors your mood, and hopefully when the flowers begin to bloom, you will be out the other end of your break up. You are an amazing person and know that! Un the end he did you a favor, you want people who will stick around and share your joy....while it's time to wallow, know that you have a future yet to be lived ❤❤
“It’s giving me ostrich” 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
I DIED 😭😭😂😂😂😂
😂😂💀💀
I cannot imagine the feelings of pain and betrayal she feels by her family. They all acted like they had her best interest at heart when in reality they all wanted control of her money. Her parents let the money get to their heads and her sister is jealous of her and always has been. She should love, support and encourage her throughout the years....ESPECIALLY when she would've never had a career herself if Britney hadn't been famous. "More money more problems" is true most of the time unfortunately. If I were Britney, I wouldn't have crap to do with my family...I'd focus on my FREEDOM, do whatever the heck I wanted to do, focus on my kids and husband, career....wouldn't give her parents/sister the time of day.
"it's giving me ostrich" I WHEEZED.
anyway, i do completely agree with britney's decision. im dealing with that rn with my mother tbh. it's really hard. i love her and i know she loves me but we do NOT mesh well and unfortunately she has chosen other things over me that she cannot give up. and I chose to live my life in freedom. it's a sad truth but just bc they're your family does NOT mean you owe them loyalty, or whatever you want to call it
Looks like she smelled crap or something
@@jannyhawkins7135 It’s so ODD,like WHY did she take that lol 🧐😂 🐍 snakelike or somethin!
I understand as well-I’ve been no contact with my abusive family members for over five years…it’s just better to be away from their toxicity. It’s really okay to put your own mental health and emotional stability first in life 💛💫
@@lunakat6369 agreed!!
Same 😭😂😂😂😂😂
Lmfao that picture of JL!! I couldn’t think of what bird.. you nailed it!! Ostrich 😂😂😂😂 omg
I fully can relate to having a toxic family and going no contact was the best thing I've ever done. I really hope she cuts them out of her life for some much needed peace and healing. I hope she does the Oprah interview,files lawsuits against them, and let's everyone know the truth. It's heartbreaking to see how much of her life they stole and the amount of time she missed out on her sons. I hope she gets more time with her boys.
OPRAH is the last person she should sit down with 🤮
Toxicity in the family is probably the hardest to deal with. The people you trust the most can cause the most harm.
Sloan: "I can't even make that face!"
Immediately does the face 🤣
the “breaking generational curses” thing just fully sends me. Jamie Lynn is so manipulative and shitty, and quite frankly just doesn’t know when to stop. she’s a full grown child.
Just a fun fact:
This is an false brand of “Christianity” - she mentioned going back to her faith - that believes in generational curses. The cult promotes narcissism and toxic positivity.
@@peakay390 facts.
Whether it is “Christianity“ or any other practice religion, I think it will be helpful
“I low key wish this was the cover of her book” almost killed me off 😂😂👋
Your vulnerability is admirable! We’ve all been there before. It’s ok to not be ok or feel desirable all the time we’re human. To be going through what you’re going through & still make content for us is amazing & honorable! You’re beautiful & you’re doing a great job!! ❤️
To Brit’s Family: What you’re not gonna do is act like you were doing something in my best interest
About time. Britney has every right to see whom she wants and also be done with those that abused their power
i would literally move my schedule around if Britney did a tell-all interview!
It's coming
I just feel so bad for Britney. She’s been so used by literally everyone in her life. Her family is a sack of leeches. Seriously NONE of them would have anything without Britney’s success. Let’s not forget the interview back in 2002/2003 where the interviewer asked about how she and her mom had such a great relationship. The interviewer went on to ask how her mom has been with all the recent turmoil (ie the break up with Justin and moving on from that, the paparazzi flurry, etc) Britney literally tried to save face by saying her mom was amazing but she broke down crying in the middle of her comments. Lynne spears wasn’t shit either. She lucked up on a talented child and pimped her out for years, all while reaping the benefits of her daughter’s success. Britney’s family has a special place in hell as far as I’m concerned.
LMAOOOO when he said, “oh my god girl, I would delay the release” 😹😹😹😹 how can you be so sweet AND shady at the same time hahaha. I LOVE U
I hope you feel better soon, Sloan. You have a whole community here that loves you. Take care xx
Jamie Lynne has been jealous of Britney her whole life. Britney is the one with the talent, success and the looks! Jamie Lynne only got the crumbs that fell from Britney’s table. She was in her element when daddy Spears had Britney trapped in that conservatorship, the Spears family are vile!
My dad told me that when I have negative, mean thoughts, to literally tell them to go away. And there's a quote that says, "Thoughts only have power if you give it to them." Idk of that helps, but those are the two things I think of when I get stuck in a darker place. We love you, Sloan!! 💕
Omg I’m just now hearing about your break up. I’m sorry and it will get better in time ok. Sometimes we need to take the road less traveled and sometimes we need to do it alone but I’m sure you’ll find a greater happiness at the end of the road. Lots of love from Georgia. Buena suerte muchacho. 🍑💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
“This too shall pass” has been the best 4 words I have ever been taught in life.
It’s helped me so much when life feels like it’s in a hurricane. There’s a lesson to be learned in every challenge we face. When you are emotionally ready…step back and think about all the beautiful lessons you have received from your relationship. You will only be stronger as a result and eventually you can turn your sadness and hurt into strength.
Also, now you can learn what you don’t want in your next relationship. ❤️
I applaud Britney for being strong enough to cut off her toxic family and live her life. She is an inspiration to me. I decided to cut off my father and most of my family. Im only close with my grandmother. My father wasn’t in my life at all and he treated me like I wasn’t a priority in my life. My other family members have made disturbing comments about me after I was assaulted and my mom was abusive to me when I was a teenager. I still love my mom but I’m still traumatized by what she did in the past. It’s time I move on and live my life.
Move on and move up, baby. Parent the inner child that was neglected and abused, by making the best decisions for yourself and your future. Nurture and grow that inner child with kindness and shake off the past pain by thriving. I wish you the best. I’ve been there. It is very hard and I would never minimize what you’re going through because I KNOW. You are seen and heard. ❤️
Sam’s plea to fans to contact producers after he got an audition is so cringe 🤦🏻♀️ They asked him to send a dance reel, so just ask Britney to show you a few moves?? It’s embarrassing he thinks he just deserves a part (or a role created specifically for him WHAT) with no actual work put in.
Wasn’t there a clip of him talking to paparazzi while getting in his car and saying “put in a good word for me if you see Channing” or something?
Hes a typical clout chaser.
So, Britney’s fiancé wants to be in a dance movie, but doesn’t wanna dance? What’s the point then?
Puts me in mind of a line of thought I read from an obviously narcissistic character - the character looks at the DJ table and muses that "only a tin ear and a complete lack of talent stood between him and a future at the (DJ) tables". A lot of these folks seem to forget that it's kind of pointless having music/dance aspirations if you have no talent in the relevant music and/or dance. And it's always music/dance with these guys (maybe because the practice of that isn't straightforward and yet these talents aren't consistently vastly underestimated the way gymnastics frequently is)
It's just so weird but yeah def also pointless ugh I hate the way his vid made me feel.
LMAOOOOO SLOAN YOURE SO FUNNY @3:37 “ ostrich snake vibes” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 “I wish this was the cover of her book “ 💀💀💀💀💀
Slo4n, your absolutely right! Your instincts are spot on. I forgot to mention (in my last rant) he’s absolutely “entitled”. Absolutely feels that way, without a doubt. He will break her heart one of these days.
Sl0an: “I don’t want to be mean to Jamie Lynn Spears, but I low-key wish this was the cover of her book.”
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
That isn’t family, As a parent there’s no way I could ever do that too one of my kids. How could she ever trust them again, I think she needs to block them and forget about them. Just like they did her when she needed them the most. #moneychangespeople
Sometimes, I say most of the time money shows people true colors, but sadly a lot of parents right now don't realize their children are not objects to dress up and parade around, they are living beings with emotions and needs but glad you are good
"It's giving me #ostrich..." 👀😩
Sloan, your reads are 💯😂🤦
We love you Sloan! Half a million people support you and have your back. Don‘t let a few negative comments make you think otherwise. We are here for you!
Aw Slo4n I think you are going through your Saturn Return and will have a spiritual awakening soon. I went through a tough breakup after seven years in July 2020 (your videos actually helped me so much) and all I can say is I am so proud of you for taking time to be yourself and continue to create amazing content, you are becoming your highest self and will attract unconditional love and abundance soon
Sloan, your content and your voice is so important and valuable. It’s clear you put a lot of work and dedication into your content, and it obviously comes from a place of wanting the best for others. You have a way of making each video about advocating for those who have been wronged, either celebrities who are victims, victims of celebrities, or both.
I don’t remember how I found your videos, but I keep coming back because you’re so genuine and good. I admire your strength in being honest and vulnerable about where you’re at.
I’m sorry you’re going through a rough time with your recent breakup and with Covid, and I wanted to send you some love because you are so very deserving of it. 💖
We’re ALL DONE with Jamie Lynn!!
I hope this new year brings you genuine happiness and endless self love, Sloan! Thank you for caring so much about others and always putting yourself on the line in order to get the truth out there. Your openness about your personal struggles is inspiring and I hope you know you are never alone! You are so loved and appreciated and we are so happy you’re here! 🖤
I'm so unsettled by Sam. Obviously I want Britney to be happy but I'm getting more dismayed why she's with someone who is so fame hungry and entitled when all she wants is a quiet life? Anyway.... Sloan you are a beautiful human being. Apart from your videos being awesome, you make us feel like we have a friend when we need one. Keep on doing your thing! We are lucky to have you. Wishing you a great 2022 🎉
I agree about Sam. Britney definitely deserves all the happiness in the world and I wanna be happy for them but something about Sam just rubs me the wrong way and I can't help but think he's an opportunist basking in her fame. And seeing that story video of his here where he feels entitled to a role in Magic Mike 3 despite not knowing at all how to dance doesn't really put him in a flattering light either. And how does talking shit about a show get you anywhere? lmao...just no. I see red flags about this guy.
Elvis is a hunk and so are you! Sending you all the love ❤️
I was diagnosed with COVID a month and a half before giving birth on 12/21/20. It was absolutely horrible. My heart goes out to you!!
I turned 31 on 12/12.
Thank you for being here for vulnerable people like us and just pushing through the ADVERSITY, because I think that is what it is to be a strong person.
I have a lot of private things going on that I never thought I would have to go through at this moment, but my one year old and I escaped a very dangerous situation. (Feel free to contact me somehow if you want to know the story & hear the POSITIVE effect (sp)? that your coverage of Britney has had on me. I have had a go back packed since the month I found your channel.
Just trying to keep faith in God that somehow or another ONE day we can get through a safe night under this roof financially as mother and son. so long as I keep doing what's right and BREAKING THESE GENERATIONAL CURSES and protecting him in every way.
WE will ALL be okay, I am sure. We are not alone!
SO MANY HUGS YOUR WAY!
MUCH LOVE
-C-
My cousin Is now pregnant and with Covid! I am so worried about this situation, and how It could affect the baby 🐥
She doesn’t care about protecting her kids’ identities. She’s just virtue signaling. She’s so annoying 🙄
I see sloan, I instantly click 🤷♀️🥰
The thumbnail pic of Jamie S. 🤣🤣🤣
I died at “it’s giving me….ostrich?“ 🤣🤣💀💀
Sloan, I think you're great. You need to look into the positive things that can happen because of the "bad" things that went down. Now is the time to love yourself and do things for YOU!
RUclips needs to stop playing with your account and let you upload when you want!!! Love you sloan I hope you’re doing okay♥️ and thank you for uploading when you can it’s getting me through hard times so thank you so much for that
Thank you for continued time, energy, and passion that you put into every video Sloan, especially when you are feeling so sick. You are seriously loved and appreciated deeply, that feeling will only multiply as you give yourself that same kindness and consideration that you afford to others. Self love hits best but thats why it can feel like such a battle. For me, I’ve realized its not so much about trying harder to love myself as i am, and more so about letting go and deconstructing the negative beliefs i have about myself. Letting go let’s you accept who you are, for all that you are, the beautiful, the ugly, the true uniqueness of your light that only you have in this world. Ofc its easier said than done but truly our authenticity and impact is something to be proud of and protected, from others and our own demons. Much love to all reading, we are all on our own parallel paths to true self love and compassion.
I actually have watched Sweet Magnolias and LOVE the show! I really hope that Jaime Lynn being on it doesn't ruin it for those that would love for the show to continue or for those that are apart of the show who work hard to make it happen. She's not a main character where the show won't go on without her, so they should just cut her so they don't have to cancel the show
yes! i love sweet magnolias too but i’m not a jamie lynn fan at all… they could easily write her character off, and then the show would be even better because jamie lynn (even playing someone else) just puts a bad taste in my mouth because of everything she’s done to britney
I love the show and her character! It doesn’t ruin it for me, but they didn’t need to put her back in or they could’ve recasted (hate when shows do this, but they could have if her character is important to the story line).
what is sweet magnolias about?
I don't think that she should lose her job because of her personal life. Did she partake in the systematic abuse of her sister, yes, but she was also a child.
When trying to get justice it's always important to not become the very people who we are trying to hold accountable.
I think people take it to far.
It's complicated, she was a victim to abusive parents as well. I find it quite ironic that those upset about Britney being abuse; are abusing her sister online.
@@charissa6648 my intentions with my comment was to not abuse anyone. I honestly don't want to have any opinion when it comes to the spears family. Just like you feel that she shouldn't lose her job because of her personal life, that was the point I was trying to make with my comment. The show should not be canceled due to controversy over one actress. Its too good of a show and so many people are involved for that to happen. Quite honestly, I like having her on the show. It makes for a good plot line, but if it gets canceled and others lose their job, that's where I personally would think to cut her before they cut the whole show
Oh my gosh! Hearing you talk about yourself BROKE my heart. Sloan, you’re beautiful. 💕 your videos have gotten me through some tough times and you talk about topics so many are too scared to. Stay strong! 💕
Sloan, you are so sweet and so strong. It sounds like you are going through a lot right now, but you are at least recognizing these thoughts/feelings and, in my opinion, that shows growth. I hope that you are proud of yourself and remember how much you’ve accomplished thus far.
There will always be mean comments, some lingering in your head longer than others, but I know that you are strong! So many of us are rooting for you - remember that. 💜
Jamie Lynn Spears also used to bully Alexa Nikolas. I’m so glad that Britney Spears unfollowed her. Why can’t Britney Spears just block her? Alexa Nikolas also unfollowed Jamie Lynn Spears.
We love how genuinely kind and warm you are, Sloan! But please don’t think you are not also a cutie (esp with your eyes and smile)! You deserve the same grace and positivity that you give others. Any guy would be lucky to have you. You exude an amazing energy from the inside out!
I agree with you Sloan. Sam isn’t making his own way. If anything he’s begging for a customized role in a well known film with well known and established actors. His weird rehearsed video was embarrassing. Instead of taking advantage of the fact that Brit is a literal dancer and performer who could help him get a routine down for the role, he’s basically refusing to do it as if he’s already an established outstanding actor. He’s not Channing Tatum, and that was begging for a handout because of who he’s dating. Honestly, Sam seems to want to do absolutely nothing, yet be in a huge production and be loved by everyone which is what he seems to be doing in real life. Sam essentially does not want to be an actor because he really just wants to play himself🤷🏽♀️
Spot on, perfectly said 👏🏼
Sorry you’re feeling so down, sending love and support.
Excited to see your videos up again 🤩💛
16:20 I'm so sorry you've been so down lately.. I just want you to know that so many of us love you and want you to be well! Yes we might not know you but as any human being who is caring and has empathy we do know how breakups, covid, being harsh on yourself, etc can have such an impact. Hope you get stronger soon! ❤️
You did the right thing my queen.
That face tho
You're right!
That picture should've been the cover of her book 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm in tears laughing 🙌🏻
"He actually can't dance, which I'm not surprised he looks like a box" 😭🤣
Love ya Sloan
So happy to see the new posts today!!
The only reason in my opinion is that Britney Spears follows her sister , Jamie Lynn is to keep tabs on her.Keep your friends close and keep your enemies really closer closer
Sloan making me emotional at the end ❤️
aw sloan, i’m going through a breakup right now too so i know exactly what you mean when you say you feel undesirable. i also am my own worst critic and have a very negative mindset, i hate that you’re hurting but it’s gonna get better. you are such a pure and kind hearted person, you care about people so much, you’re gonna find someone that just absolutely adores you and treats you the way you deserve. keep your head up babe, you are beautiful on the inside and out and it certainly shows ❤️❤️
Dear Sloan, you are truly beautiful inside and out. Don’t let life get you down. I got COVID too and felt the same way. I thought twice, ok I’m out now, and made my peace with it. I’m still here, as you are. We survived. It takes all your strength to bounce back. You must because I love listening to you. You have loads of support and supporters and you deserve them. I love your open and honest way. Keep up the great spirit.
Big hug from Germany, yes, that’s how far you stretch!
Love Yessamyn
It's definitely okay to not feel like yourself 100% of the time and I hope you feel better soon with your covid. And I hope you have a great year this year!
I know that you were sick in this video, but you freaking killed it!!! You’re a bad ass Sloan!! Keep it up ❤️❤️
First-time commenter, long-time viewer... Sloan, I felt so sad when you described how you've been feeling about yourself lately. It kinda blows my mind you feel that way because I think you're such a beautiful person. You have the most magical eyes and gorgeous skin. Not only that but you're funny, you're kind, you're grateful, you're wise. Your videos provide me with entertainment during times where I don't feel so great about myself or my own life. I don't like the thought of a negative comment being the focus in your mind so had to tell you my own thoughts. I am so glad to have discovered your channel. I notice the amount of effort you put into your research, your content, and your frequency of posting. You are so awesome! I wouldn't take the time to comment if I truly didn't mean it. Thank you for being you, you wonderful human. Wishing you a blessed start to the new year. All my love, from England - Jessy xo
You're hilarious Sloan...." I'm getting like Ostrich/snake, I low key wish this was the cover on her book"🤣🤣🤣🤣 You kill me!!!😆😆
That letter is so correct , you are amazing!!! ❤️
Not to mention that Lynn Spears have tons of pictures of the kids in her IG. I think JL is trying to do what other celebs do, like Kristen Bell but Bell has been doing this since her kids were born, JL is just out of the blue deciding to cover their faces and don't even get her family on board with her decision.
When you posted the picture of Jamie I died “it’s giving me ostrich” “she is smelling something bad” 😂🤦♀️ LOL you kill me
Poor Brit she has been thru so much I hope she is taking therapy
The end was so relatable! Be gentle with yourself! You’re beautiful inside and out
Sloan you have such a beautiful soul. You are loved by so many of us.
she's starting off the new year right 👏🏽
Sloan, you are such a beautiful person inside and out! Im so sorry you’re going through so much. I hope you feel better. Much love sent to you. ♥️
I see a new Sloan video I click!
Get better soon, Sloan! You are a beautiful person inside and out.
Omg sending love to you from Florida Sloan!! Tons of Friends of mine over here in Broward and Miami who have been vaccinated and already had that last strain are now catching this new strain and are very sick. Everyone be safe!! I would be broken if we lost Sloan!
Netflix:
Creating a documentary about free Britney
Also Netflix:
Letting Jamie (Britney’s abuser) to continue of their show
Your strength and positive mindset is so inspiring. This is all SO what I needed today. 😘❤️U Sloan!
I remember when Britney first broke in to the pop world and her family, in front of the camera, seemed very supportive at the time. It became obvious (at least in my eyes) during Britney’s breakdowns that this was not the case. It’s so sad the way things turned out with Britney and her family. I did not have the conservatorship situation but money tore my family and I apart. It took 20+ years before my family and I started to communicate again when I found out via email, from a family member, that my father was ill. I took the high road and called my parents and let bygones be bygones. I hope someday, when the notoriety of this situation dissipates, there’s forgiveness 🙏🏼.
Why should Britney forgive her family especially her father for ruining her life for 13 years !!!
I hope so too, honestly. You only get one life and you can’t take anything with you when you leave it.
It is nice that you found peace, but your situation sounds very different. This goes way beyond money. Her family enslaved Britney, spied on her and fleeced her. Wirst of all they took away her chance to fully be a mom to her beloved sons. When you lose such precious irreplaceable time it is pretty impossible to forgive. It looks like she has a long way to go before she heals.
If it helps her, I hope Britney does forgive, but I also hope she NEVER communicates with them again. They’d better be giving her kidneys or something before she contacts them again. They’re garbage.
@@FacheChanteDeux - As I’ve stated, I did not have the conservatorship situation, but losing a family is not any different. Finding peace in yourself and peace with God can take days, months, years, and I hope Britney can find it in her self to heal and forgive because regret can cause a lot of pain in the end.
Her family is a pack of wolves.GOOD RIDDANCE. Sometimes you need to cut the negativity out even if that means your own family. Blood doesn't make you family now a days and i totally can relate! You go brit!♡
Jamie Lynn's face in that photo 🤣 It's like my face after taking a bowel prep (laxative) before surgery last week. 😂
It took a while to start working but when it did, - Enter : JAMIE LYNNS FACE- boy did it work!! I took a bucket with me in the car.. y'know just in case... and my butt got stuck in the bucket 🤣 It made a comical sqeaky noise as I freed each buttock 🤣 but I indeed *just* made it to hospital with my dignity intact. 🤣🤣🤣
The End. Lol 🤣
#Picolax #BeautifulStory #lol🤣 #ImminentPooFace
I love you sloan💖 here for you, you deserve to give yourself love no matter whats going on in your life
Oh my god I'm so sorry you're so sick! I'm glad to see you doing ok in this video 🥰 If it helps, I couldn't even tell that you weren't feeling well.
YESSSSSS!!!
And Sloan, I understand struggling with self love. I struggle with it too. You're a very handsome man. I wish we could get you to see that!!
“It’s giving me ostrich and idk maybe a little….snake “ 😂 the pause got me. I feel like this pic was posted as a joke. I mean, maybe she’s trolling lol
“I lowkey wish this was the cover of her book” me too Sloan, me too 😂💀
Happy New Year Sloan and everyone reading this 🎇
Her head looks like it’s on backwards in that photo 😂😂
Sloan, I am SO sorry for what you are going through. I also have covid right now, and like you, I'm never sick. Well, this has shocked me how bad I feel, I feel like I'm never going to feel better. I'm a fitness instructor, so this has really set me back. We will get through this.
What I wanted to tell you is about your break-up, I am so deeply sorry for what you are going through. I think you are so handsome, and such a great person. I'm sure that your ex- feels the same way, unfortunately sometimes people just aren't meant to be. And that's all it is. It has nothing to do with you because you are physically gorgeous.
The advice I can give you is to put your health and well being first. Once you feel better, start exercising and doing things to make you feel good & healthy. Fitness changed my life, and made me a better person . YOu will be in my prayers, just give yourself time and patience.
Omg I died when u said it’s giving me…Ostrich!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀
Kathleen thank you for making our boy smile. He needed that