If they start asking you for money whether through gift cards or sending the money to someone directly before meeting in person, it's always going to be a scam no matter what.
Upon al this white women can't listen and learn dating scam had been happening for years can't learn from other mistakes and stop those bastard from destroying your life?for God sake white women wiseup
@@egbulefuchristiana6056 No it is not. There are many fake woman profiles on FB and I fell victim to a gift card scam. She asked me for XBOX gift cards so the kids could use them for XBOX games at the baby sitter next door so we could be alone at her house. It was on 60 dollars but then she asked for more and more for gift cards for the other kids there at the house. I didn't know XBOX cards could be cashed in for cash. I lost a lot.
Ladies, they'll even use these tactics if you've met them in person. I had a Nigerian man share a sob story that involved him needing money. A man asking me for money is a red flag and I'm out immediately! Do not call me ever again... instead get your life together.
@@movingforward-fc4lg Rude, not everyone in this "new generation" (not sure if you mean millennials or gen Z) is hopeless. Or I assume that's what "ain't sh&t" means.
Especially when they have never seen a picture of you come on women we are strong. Don’t let these men take you for your money. Yes, one guy thought he could take me for my money. Started off with regular conversation. Call me, baby honey. He wanted me to do Amazon gift cards and then I said oh honey baby yeah just tell me where to send them to all these drillers are the worst. I told him I would see him $300 Amazon cards oh boy was he disappointed he did not get it and I expose him.
I would never fall for it but a lot of women make dumb decisions when it comes to relationships (men too but they maybe don't get quite as emotionally invested). I think the main tactic is for the scammer to talk to one of those women.
Ladies, c’mon. There is a difference in being on a romance site & being so desperate you will “pay” in order to get a man. Sending someone money you have never met is flat out desperation.🤷🏽♂️
To be fair it's usually because the guy says he needs the money for something, so they're not paying to get a man per se. But I still don't get how any girl would fall for those dumb scammers, it's understandable if they don't know about the scam yet but the scammers aren't remotely interesting or able to carry a normal conversation.
EXACTLY, I mean come on how desperate can you be? A man on Tik Tok just asked me for $2000.00 & he was supposedly a US Doctor working in Yemen. He was a Huge red flag & on fire.
We hear about robberies in America! There's no robberies in Nigeria and all African Countries and banks in Africa countries are very secure with solar, metal and security cameras and if you walked in with a gun and any weapon, you will be stopped or probably get shot in the leg or tasered, Nigeria police have remorse for victim and nice kind people because female bank tellers are nicer, so don't try to mess with them with police present!
I also got told recently by a romance scammer that I "ask too many questions". Did I come across "your" scammer? Mine claimed to be an artist in Colorado. Turned out he was no such thing. He didn't directly ask for money but he used a technic called "dry begging": he claimed he was ever so poor and living in terrible conditions. He thought I would be stupid enough to fall for it and send him money. I didn't. But many women do, I was by far not his only target and he has been scamming women like that for many years.
Not true. Men do spend hours on the phone. I've had several long-term boyfriends and a husband who have. Men fall for what they SEE. Women fall for what they HEAR. Everyone knows this.
@GodAboveitallhow about any PERSON asking you for money is a scammer. That includes women as well. Freeloading and scamming is far more prevalent amongst women in today’s culture due to women thinking that they deserve money from men for no reason. Full grown adults should not be asking other adults for money.
Don't you think your comment is a bit over the edge? Africans are also tired of your people coming down there stealing resources, doing sexual tourism and degrading young people. Scammers are everywhere, and they mostly target people that are vulnerable and naive.
How can I convince my mom this is happening to her. I literally showed her the proof using social catfish and when he sent voice messages you can clearly hear the Nigerian accent and that it’s not a US physician from North Carolina. 🤦♀️
Try telling her it’s common and unfortunately it happens to men and women of all ages. Unfortunately it’s like an addiction and some people never stop believing they are going to be sent an inheritance after sending some money. These Nigerians should have funded their whole country by now with money from United States victims. Maybe she will go to counseling?
Hi *Adrian notch* , I am a 64 year old grandmother from the U.K.and thanks to you I have been made aware of these scammers. If 1 I get a call now, I have a bit of fun before I let them know I'm on to them. Thanks so much for bringing this to our attention. What a star you're
Exceptional work, Adriannotch - I'm glad you're battling these jerks out there. We must take every precaution to safeguard the elderly and the general public from these disgusting scam artists! You've earned it!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for keeping us safe, brothers!!!
*ADRIAN NOTCH* , your efforts in fighting these scammers are truly commendable! We must do everything we can to shield the elderly and the public from these deceitful individuals. You're a true hero
Great work .Apexdeft - so glad you are out there fighting these lowlifes. We need to do all we can to spare the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers! Kudos to YOU!! You deserve the Nobel prize for keeping us safe big up brothers
Awesome work, Team *Adrian notch* ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!
It's not just white women being targeted. That book's title is inaccurate; they care more about the color of your money not the color of your skin. And the book had no author listed. That's so suspicious to me, cuz who is making money off this book? let's find THAT person! meanwhile I'm glad Chris finally grew a conscience.
Exactly! And it's not just foreign men. Remember the recent Who The F-k Did I Marry saga on TikTok? That was also a romance scam. Just a different type.
Agreed but I don't think the scammer in Nigeria that made it cared about what skin color Americans have, they weren't trying to be inclusive to their victims.
I wanna know if he repaid any of his victims. " I was struggling to survive ", after making $80k. Scammers will leave you homeless in order for them to have a mansion. Scammers are thieves without a gun. The fact there are so many from Nigeria shows a major moral character flaw that stems from shameless behavior that goes un penalized.
Let me tell you! The last time Nigeria banks got robbed was probably before the pandemic or before Internet and solar; what I could say is probably the banks might be the ones to control the power because banks have power 24/7 and there's no way anyone could rob a bank now a days and especially no school shooting in African Countries too, you can ask anyone in Nigeria and all African Countries if there's as been school shooting or shooting anywhere!
Oh be quiet. There are scammers from all over the world. Nigeria is a popular country and is in the spotlight. Don’t turn around and make this a Nigerian character thing. That’s weird and racist af. There’s hella scammers in your own country and in your governments.
You are the best *Adrian notch* ! Remember to take care of yourself as well, I might be wrong but it feels like you're overwhelmed. This dedication to fight such toxicity can eat you from the inside. Still, you are the best but everybody here needs you to the best of your shape. Peace
I met my romance scammer in person. He even watched a movie with my dad in our house. I wired money for 8 months. He took a plane to the other side of the country and it was emergency after emergency. 👿💰Turns out, this guy has a long criminal record. I never looked it up until years after I was beyond broke filing for bankruptcy.
Looking back on it, what would you have done differently? What would you say was the vulnerability he saw in you since predators look for that when choosing their targets?
Great work, *Vortextrace* - I’m thrilled that you’re actively combatting these scammers. It’s crucial to prioritize the safety of the elderly and the public by taking every necessary measure to protect them. You truly deserve recognition for your efforts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The work you do is priceless. My wife would have been a victim of a popup and years ago if it wasn't for me being there to stop her. There are many people who have no one to keep them safe, stepping in like you do, *Adrian notch* is the only hope for many of these people
I wouldn't have that to spend. I'm trying not to be judgmental but it makes me upset that someone has that kind of money and isn't careful how they spend it.
Most of the victims who send money to their scammer are tricked into believing it's a loan and that they have the ability to pay it back. It's not meant to be a charitable contribution. Scammers can be very creative and manipulative. It's human nature to trust someone who appears professional and kind to you. Your defenses are not as keen when you are emotionally hooked. Scammers can be convincing liars as nothing is off limits to them. Something is going on when hundreds of thousands and millions of dollars are being lost to romance scammers online. Not everyone has been exposed to these low-lifes to such degree
TOKEN OF APPRECIATION Well done, *Adrian notch* ! I'm glad you're out there fighting these bad people. We need to do everything we can to keep these scumbags from taking advantage of the old and the general public. Good for YOU!! Big up brother, you should get the Nobel Prize for keeping us safe.
The problem is you thinking hes going to approach you looking like that. Did you think the old white women getting scammed think they are dating black men?
Bless your heart Adrian notch . Its so sad how the scammers prey on the elderly and the uninformed public. Bless you and all others who fight against these crimes.Its horrible how mainstream media is not doing the right thing by shining light on these things to help the public
I have had a few and all of them say the same pathetic love lines. Got one now. Started talking on FB yesterday. Wonder how long before he asks for gift cards?
Romance scammers ALWAYS start off asking for a small amount to see if you're gullible. Then it gets more often and higher amounts. They seem to have nothing but bad luck. So what I would do is even if I send $100. The very next time they come up with an emergency. I would tell them,"you know I have fallen in love with you. But it seems like every since I came into your life. You've had nothing but bad luck with money. So out of my love for you. I'm gonna let you go to end your streak of bad luck".
The problem here is that people love their ego boosted. I start thinking I am asperguer. I have always struggle with compliments. Not confortable at all. I measure peoples love by actions. But then Im also labeled as thoughf and very difficult 😅
A number of people have a natural _healthy_ skepticism. Struggling w/ compliments isn't natural nor healthy, so you should look into that, but *_FLATTERY is_** artificial, thus should be met with caution. There is always an intention.* (Fun fact: Flattery is also considered a sin in some religious texts.) Be well.
I don't know why every perfectly normal emotion or personality trait now has to get labeled a "mental illness". If you believe that you are mentally ill for having a normal and healthy amount of skepticism towards strangers, then you have fallen for the biggest con currently in existence: the "mental illness" industry.
God bless you. you bring balance to this world and I can only hope that you inspire more and more of this kind of heroic compassion for helping people who are being wronged. *Adrian notch* Good hearted people like you give me so much hope for the future and that someday the world can feel much less evil by over powering it with good. You have all my love and respect, Thank you so much
Anyone asks me for money, it's a deal breaker. I'll give all the emotional support you need. I'll stand by you. I'll be there for my partner. But I don't give money. It's a huge turn off to me.
@@same5952 Of course men should do their part in house chores too. It would be hypocritical if they expected to split finances 50/50 but left the burden of domestic work to the woman.
You're the best! We Beed more people like you to get these disgusting scammers to stop preying on innocent people. Keep up the good work *Adrian notch* ! Just $4Mill in and I'm crying. Priceless absolutely Priceless. love what you do keep up the good work
It is not only women who are scammed in romance scamming. Men are also being scammed. Most of these scammers are from West Africa, either Nigeria or Ghana. Become technology wise and identify the red flags.
Boy these scammers have a lot to answer for someday!! Its horrible and disgusting what they do to innocent, lonely, mostly older people! Some say, i had to live and eat, yes, you do but not at the expense of others emotions and finances! Go get a real job! Go work in the fields, on the construction line, whatever, but at least its honest work and your not hurting anyone!
Most of these "victims" would never donate regularly to any international cause or Charity, but they will most certainly pay to play with young men who need more than they want....it's shameful and it's embarrassing that western culture coddles these adults who have DECIDED to give their money and information away in the most blatant ways!
I have seen many of the scam list things being said to me. But I know there scammers and I like playing and wasting there time the more time they spend with me the less they have to con someone
I would say the main tactic is messaging women that are really gullible and not prone to making rational decisions and are the only types that would ever fall for these dumb scammers. Your standards are probably higher than that and that's good.
I am from America. I am really happy to see your work to expose people like this on web and make awareness among people. I had already shared this *GRIND TECHIEI* to all my foreign friends and ask them to share to others. Thank you again please keep the good work. Thank you again:
Strange how someone will start a relationship with someone online, yet refuse to engage with their own neighbors or family, or at least go to a church or bookstore for meeting someone.
Avoidance attachment style and/or it speaks to the person or implies the person is afraid of or doesn't really want true intimacy that face to face meetings may lead to.
I kind of understand that, personally I wouldn't date online but I do prefer writing to speaking. But I don't understand why someone would fall for these scammers 🤮. Or, similar to what you were saying, why someone would trust a stranger on the internet instead of a person who cares about them telling them it's a scam.
We need to have hero's like you guys *Adrian notch* . Some scammers are so sophisticated on making their accounts look convincing that they don't look like a scam accounts anymore. Anyway thanks for the recovery great skills
@@KeyshowJi That's such a wrongful excuse in defense of scammers. That's like saying that a dog wanted to feed the hungry fleas. The insidious scammers are taking advantage of other people's desire to find someone to love who will love them in return.
The Nigerian romance scammers don't use their OWN pictures! They create fake profiles using stolen social media pics of attractive middle-aged men (usually American or European). They make up a fake backstory for themselves and then woo older American women with money using romantic chats and messages. The women believe the person in the fake profile is real and is in love with them.
That's not the picture he used, but he's not ugly per se (kind of looks like Eddie Murphy but the lighting is unflattering), also some women don't care about appearances.
Because they have a fantasy about black men. It's exploiting on both sides only the scammer only sees you as a paycheck & isn't even truly attracted to you & thinks lowly of you already by the colour of YOUR skin.
I joined a dating site and did reverse photo searches on anyone that contacted me, they were all false and I reported all of them to the dating site and left, never to return. Best way to meet someone legit is by being involved with your community and be active in social gatherings. Other people of the community can vouch for that person.
I am a widow, but I never went on a dating site because my husband was my soulmate and when you had the best, there is no use looking anywhere else he died, loving me with his last breath. I will die, loving him with my last breath, but some people don’t meet there soulmates and you just got to be gentle and be kind and let them know that they are scammers, be more involved in her life at night call her at night when she’s the most loneliest that’s when I’m the most loneliest but I talk to my girls and I talk to Jesus just be there for her. That’s all you can do.
Just don't put your own picture out as a profile picture. If you do put one with you with a man with you. And don't reply to anyone sending you a message without first checking his profile. Don't take no chances don't be curious and reply to them thinking they are okay. I mean they are okay to get you to send money for them and their many girlfriends. 😊
God, you single mature women who have money need to be extra careful. These people will take all you are willing to give until you are broke. The stories are so sad 😞.
@@Lunafalls What you said, however I think someone was extradited because they encouraged a scam victim (teenage guy) to take their own life. Which is a lot worse imo than someone willingly sending money to a person they've never met.
It’s so sad and disgusting that they’re doing this to our elders. These people don’t know anything about this. They were raised in an era where you court to be married.😢
If you know how hard they suffered in Nigeria, you won’t blame them scamming, their government is corrupt and they not ready to help the adult, not even the youth with some work. I’m a black American I read their story and how they currently live
The economic situation of Nigeria and the corrupt government isn't an excuse for you to scam innocent and desperate people of their hard earned money , what's wrong is wrong. There are alot of Nigerians working very hard to make ends meet, the people that engages in scam are just lazy, careless, greedy and just want to enjoy fast money they didn't break a sweat for. N.B: I'm a Nigerian
First of all, who in the world would trust anything a total stranger says to you online or in person? A lonely desperate gullible person. That's who. Yes, scammers are master manipulaters, but if you get yourself mixed up in something like this, it was you who chose to continue communicating with a total stranger.
If they start asking you for money whether through gift cards or sending the money to someone directly before meeting in person, it's always going to be a scam no matter what.
Amen sister
Looking for someone to scam on Facebook is hard, all romance scams always starts from any dating websites
@@egbulefuchristiana6056 and RUclips too
Upon al this white women can't listen and learn dating scam had been happening for years can't learn from other mistakes and stop those bastard from destroying your life?for God sake white women wiseup
@@egbulefuchristiana6056 No it is not. There are many fake woman profiles on FB and I fell victim to a gift card scam. She asked me for XBOX gift cards so the kids could use them for XBOX games at the baby sitter next door so we could be alone at her house. It was on 60 dollars but then she asked for more and more for gift cards for the other kids there at the house. I didn't know XBOX cards could be cashed in for cash. I lost a lot.
Ladies, they'll even use these tactics if you've met them in person. I had a Nigerian man share a sob story that involved him needing money. A man asking me for money is a red flag and I'm out immediately! Do not call me ever again... instead get your life together.
Right. They wouldn’t ever ask a Nigerian woman for money. They have to financially support Nigerian woman to just date them.
@@nursetinalouise
Same with a number of us _non-Nigerian_ women. Predators know their -prey- _marks._
Exactly I’m a black man come from a two parent household I’m 43 years old this new generation ain’t sh&t
@@movingforward-fc4lg Rude, not everyone in this "new generation" (not sure if you mean millennials or gen Z) is
hopeless. Or I assume that's what "ain't sh&t" means.
Ehhh. If you're wise the single fact: a NIGERIAN man should be a huge red flag!!!
"You look beautiful" 🤣🤣🤣 That shit wouldn't work on me! He needs a different book!!!
😂....like tell me something I don't know.
Especially when they have never seen a picture of you come on women we are strong. Don’t let these men take you for your money. Yes, one guy thought he could take me for my money. Started off with regular conversation. Call me, baby honey. He wanted me to do Amazon gift cards and then I said oh honey baby yeah just tell me where to send them to all these drillers are the worst. I told him I would see him $300 Amazon cards oh boy was he disappointed he did not get it and I expose him.
I would never fall for it but a lot of women make dumb decisions when it comes to relationships (men too but they maybe don't get quite as emotionally invested). I think the main tactic is for the scammer to talk to one of those women.
You look beautiful my queen. Now please send me twenty thousand US dollar so I can fly to be next from you
U looked beautiful
Ladies, c’mon. There is a difference in being on a romance site & being so desperate you will “pay” in order to get a man. Sending someone money you have never met is flat out desperation.🤷🏽♂️
Right
What if I tell you if foreign scammers would go to the length to go other country to kill a spouse and turn a spouse into a widower?
Yes
To be fair it's usually because the guy says he needs the money for something, so they're not paying to get a man per se. But I still don't get how any girl would fall for those dumb scammers, it's understandable if they don't know about the scam yet but the scammers aren't remotely interesting or able to carry a normal conversation.
EXACTLY, I mean come on how desperate can you be? A man on Tik Tok just asked me for $2000.00 & he was supposedly a US Doctor working in Yemen. He was a Huge red flag & on fire.
If he was really remoresefull he would refund all the money he scammed.
exactly
That's kind of impossible...he probably doesn't have all the money he stole. Scammers usually spend most of their money.
Or the book proceeds.
But that's all too much like right!😂😂😂😂
@@atuanyaalpheusparodychanne641 The person is maybe going to think it's just another scam, even if he does have their contact info.
We hear about robberies in America! There's no robberies in Nigeria and all African Countries and banks in Africa countries are very secure with solar, metal and security cameras and if you walked in with a gun and any weapon, you will be stopped or probably get shot in the leg or tasered, Nigeria police have remorse for victim and nice kind people because female bank tellers are nicer, so don't try to mess with them with police present!
That book seriously looks like something you'd find in a comedy movie.
Yet it works and it will continue to work
These women should buy it for their husbands
I know crazy right
@@nkd9560would it be evil if scammers made a packed to across the country to kill to get money?
I see nothing funny about any of this.
They tried with me to, but he told me I asking to much questions 😂 let him go until he asked gift cards, I told him I don’t have disposable income 😂
You should have told him you're a millionaire but it's all going to be left to your children and he's not getting one penny! 😆
Good for you!
I also got told recently by a romance scammer that I "ask too many questions". Did I come across "your" scammer? Mine claimed to be an artist in Colorado. Turned out he was no such thing. He didn't directly ask for money but he used a technic called "dry begging": he claimed he was ever so poor and living in terrible conditions. He thought I would be stupid enough to fall for it and send him money. I didn't. But many women do, I was by far not his only target and he has been scamming women like that for many years.
The first scam indicator is a man you first meet talking to you for hours. Men don’t begin relationships like that.
Exactly and when they start calling you, honey babe, that’s your sign
All romance scammers start from dating websites 100%
Not true. Men do spend hours on the phone. I've had several long-term boyfriends and a husband who have. Men fall for what they SEE. Women fall for what they HEAR. Everyone knows this.
@@aprilhunter well you tell a scammer if you know what to look for
@GodAboveitallhow about any PERSON asking you for money is a scammer. That includes women as well. Freeloading and scamming is far more prevalent amongst women in today’s culture due to women thinking that they deserve money from men for no reason. Full grown adults should not be asking other adults for money.
Do not send money no matter what!!!
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They don't ask for money, they pretend to have money and know a good place to invest and lead you to scam websites and ask you to invest.
I’m so tired of these foreign men they are all over dating sites
American men do it also. Texas man gets 20 years.
@@princesssharoni oh please
Don't you think your comment is a bit over the edge? Africans are also tired of your people coming down there stealing resources, doing sexual tourism and degrading young people. Scammers are everywhere, and they mostly target people that are vulnerable and naive.
Especially Nigerians and Indians
@@favoredsoul4288 so cringy those 2
How can I convince my mom this is happening to her. I literally showed her the proof using social catfish and when he sent voice messages you can clearly hear the Nigerian accent and that it’s not a US physician from North Carolina. 🤦♀️
Try telling her it’s common and unfortunately it happens to men and women of all ages. Unfortunately it’s like an addiction and some people never stop believing they are going to be sent an inheritance after sending some money. These Nigerians should have funded their whole country by now with money from United States victims. Maybe she will go to counseling?
Take all her money first so she has nothing to give to him. Then give it back later.
Blood of Jesus and the Holy Ghost. There is voodoo (black magic) involved.
ask her to stop thinking emotionally and to exercise her critical thinking, i.e., logic - ask her if it were you what would she tell you
@@StainsStainsStainsMate, it is not her fault , she has been hypnotised. It is completely beyond her control .
Thank you for this information! Especially older vulnerable people 😢it’s so sad how many are scammed!
Hi *Adrian notch* , I am a 64 year old grandmother from the U.K.and thanks to you I have been made aware of these scammers. If 1 I get a call now, I have a bit of fun before I let them know I'm on to them. Thanks so much for bringing this to our attention. What a star you're
Exceptional work, Adriannotch - I'm glad you're battling these jerks out there. We must take every precaution to safeguard the elderly and the general public from these disgusting scam artists! You've earned it!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for keeping us safe, brothers!!!
*ADRIAN NOTCH* , your efforts in fighting these scammers are truly commendable! We must do everything we can to shield the elderly and the public from these deceitful individuals. You're a true hero
Great work .Apexdeft - so glad you are out there fighting these lowlifes. We need to do all we can to spare the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers! Kudos to YOU!! You deserve the Nobel prize for keeping us safe big up brothers
Awesome work, Team *Adrian notch* ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!
It's not just white women being targeted. That book's title is inaccurate; they care more about the color of your money not the color of your skin. And the book had no author listed. That's so suspicious to me, cuz who is making money off this book? let's find THAT person! meanwhile I'm glad Chris finally grew a conscience.
Let’s be real it’s mostly white men/women being targeted because they’re the most slow
Exactly!
And it's not just foreign men.
Remember the recent Who The F-k Did I Marry saga on TikTok? That was also a romance scam. Just a different type.
maybe
Agreed but I don't think the scammer in Nigeria that made it cared about what skin color Americans have, they weren't trying to be inclusive to their victims.
Tbf it’s mostly white women that fall for this shit 😅
I wanna know if he repaid any of his victims. " I was struggling to survive ", after making $80k. Scammers will leave you homeless in order for them to have a mansion. Scammers are thieves without a gun. The fact there are so many from Nigeria shows a major moral character flaw that stems from shameless behavior that goes un penalized.
Let me tell you! The last time Nigeria banks got robbed was probably before the pandemic or before Internet and solar; what I could say is probably the banks might be the ones to control the power because banks have power 24/7 and there's no way anyone could rob a bank now a days and especially no school shooting in African Countries too, you can ask anyone in Nigeria and all African Countries if there's as been school shooting or shooting anywhere!
Yes you are right 👍
It's part of the culture I lived in Nigeria basically dog eat dog world
Oh be quiet. There are scammers from all over the world. Nigeria is a popular country and is in the spotlight. Don’t turn around and make this a Nigerian character thing. That’s weird and racist af. There’s hella scammers in your own country and in your governments.
You are the best *Adrian notch* ! Remember to take care of yourself as well, I might be wrong but it feels like you're overwhelmed. This dedication to fight such toxicity can eat you from the inside. Still, you are the best but everybody here needs you to the best of your shape. Peace
I met my romance scammer in person. He even watched a movie with my dad in our house. I wired money for 8 months. He took a plane to the other side of the country and it was emergency after emergency. 👿💰Turns out, this guy has a long criminal record. I never looked it up until years after I was beyond broke filing for bankruptcy.
That is terrible!! With him coming to see you, no wonder you believed him!! I’m so sorry you were scammed!
a man even remotely resembling a man, would never ask a woman for money. Simple.
exercise critical thinking, stop thinking emotionally, use logic
Looking back on it, what would you have done differently? What would you say was the vulnerability he saw in you since predators look for that when choosing their targets?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never date a broke man! Never put up with a man that asks for money! 😂😂😂😂😂
Great work, *Vortextrace* - I’m thrilled that you’re actively combatting these scammers. It’s crucial to prioritize the safety of the elderly and the public by taking every necessary measure to protect them. You truly deserve recognition for your efforts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The work you do is priceless. My wife would have been a victim of a popup and years ago if it wasn't for me being there to stop her. There are many people who have no one to keep them safe, stepping in like you do, *Adrian notch* is the only hope for many of these people
When I say that men play out of the same playbook, I was being facetious
And military don’t need money to come home
Thats crazy. Most people rather they admit it or not, wouldnt even send 70k to their own fucking mother. Let alone to someone to solely know online.
Right
I wouldn't have that to spend. I'm trying not to be judgmental but it makes me upset that someone has that kind of money and isn't careful how they spend it.
Most of the victims who send money to their scammer are tricked into believing it's a loan and that they have the ability to pay it back. It's not meant to be a charitable contribution. Scammers can be very creative and manipulative. It's human nature to trust someone who appears professional and kind to you. Your defenses are not as keen when you are emotionally hooked. Scammers can be convincing liars as nothing is off limits to them. Something is going on when hundreds of thousands and millions of dollars are being lost to romance scammers online. Not everyone has been exposed to these low-lifes to such degree
TOKEN OF APPRECIATION Well done, *Adrian notch* ! I'm glad you're out there fighting these bad people. We need to do everything we can to keep these scumbags from taking advantage of the old and the general public. Good for YOU!! Big up brother, you should get the Nobel Prize for keeping us safe.
I'm over 40 and I would NEVER date a guy like that!! 👎 Even if he was the last man on earth he wouldn't get a cent from me or anything else.
The problem is you thinking hes going to approach you looking like that. Did you think the old white women getting scammed think they are dating black men?
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Never send money to anyone you have not met in person. Online texting is not a date.
And it's not a "relationship" either.
You can have met someone in person and he could still be a scammer. Most scam and abuse victims report having met their scammer/abuser in person.
Bless your heart Adrian notch . Its so sad how the scammers prey on the elderly and the uninformed public. Bless you and all others who fight against these crimes.Its horrible how mainstream media is not doing the right thing by shining light on these things to help the public
I have had a few and all of them say the same pathetic love lines. Got one now. Started talking on FB yesterday. Wonder how long before he asks for gift cards?
Say goodbye first sign of love bombing, and money talk.
Romance scammers ALWAYS start off asking for a small amount to see if you're gullible. Then it gets more often and higher amounts. They seem to have nothing but bad luck. So what I would do is even if I send $100. The very next time they come up with an emergency. I would tell them,"you know I have fallen in love with you. But it seems like every since I came into your life. You've had nothing but bad luck with money. So out of my love for you. I'm gonna let you go to end your streak of bad luck".
Smart!
No they don’t. Some romance scammers don’t ask for money until much later.
Yes some will wait for the perfect time that way can build trust with their potential victims ,it’s very disappointing and disgusting
lol
Sending money at all is completely dumb
So no one noticed the title of the book???? 🤣
Yup....fell out laughing😂. They love those African men 🍆tho.
The problem here is that people love their ego boosted. I start thinking I am asperguer. I have always struggle with compliments. Not confortable at all. I measure peoples love by actions. But then Im also labeled as thoughf and very difficult 😅
You nailed that. "Words are cheap". . . . so true
A number of people have a natural _healthy_ skepticism.
Struggling w/ compliments isn't natural nor healthy, so you should look into that, but *_FLATTERY is_** artificial, thus should be met with caution. There is always an intention.*
(Fun fact: Flattery is also considered a sin in some religious texts.)
Be well.
You are a mature adult. That is not Asperger’s.
I don't know why every perfectly normal emotion or personality trait now has to get labeled a "mental illness". If you believe that you are mentally ill for having a normal and healthy amount of skepticism towards strangers, then you have fallen for the biggest con currently in existence: the "mental illness" industry.
God bless you. you bring balance to this world and I can only hope that you inspire more and more of this kind of heroic compassion for helping people who are being wronged. *Adrian notch* Good hearted people like you give me so much hope for the future and that someday the world can feel much less evil by over powering it with good. You have all my love and respect, Thank you so much
I will never be scammed my daddy told me never give a man money!
Anyone asks me for money, it's a deal breaker. I'll give all the emotional support you need. I'll stand by you. I'll be there for my partner.
But I don't give money. It's a huge turn off to me.
Me too. A grown man asking a woman for money is low life and disgusting.
@@princesssharoniWomen asking men for money is also disgusting. They should get jobs it's 2024 not the "forties"
@@shadrachemmanuel1720 Totally agree as long as men share ALL household and parental duties EQUALLY. As you said, it's 2024 and not "forties:.
@@same5952 Of course men should do their part in house chores too. It would be hypocritical if they expected to split finances 50/50 but left the burden of domestic work to the woman.
He thinks he's all that. Just a POS scammer.
Literally. And do you see some of these comments “good for you!” What in the actual f.
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You're the best! We Beed more people like you to get these disgusting scammers to stop preying on innocent people. Keep up the good work *Adrian notch* ! Just $4Mill in and I'm crying. Priceless absolutely Priceless. love what you do keep up the good work
They all want gift cards. 😂
It is not only women who are scammed in romance scamming. Men are also being scammed. Most of these scammers are from West Africa, either Nigeria or Ghana. Become technology wise and identify the red flags.
Not really, there are scammer operations popping up in all the foreign countries.
Hi How are you, have you been scammed by fake profiles pretending to be someone else?
@@HackerOwen I've reported and blocked many possible scammers.
You felt bad?! Did you pay back the money?
Sad. God is watching
does he ever actually do anything or just watch and laugh
Amen and God says vengeance is mine! They will have to answer to HIM someday. 🙌🏽✝️🙌🏽
You light up my life when you work and get your own cash. 💵
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Boy these scammers have a lot to answer for someday!! Its horrible and disgusting what they do to innocent, lonely, mostly older people! Some say, i had to live and eat, yes, you do but not at the expense of others emotions and finances! Go get a real job! Go work in the fields, on the construction line, whatever, but at least its honest work and your not hurting anyone!
"Your presence fills my world with warmth, and every moment with you feels like a beautiful dream. 🌟❤️"
Most of these "victims" would never donate regularly to any international cause or Charity, but they will most certainly pay to play with young men who need more than they want....it's shameful and it's embarrassing that western culture coddles these adults who have DECIDED to give their money and information away in the most blatant ways!
I have seen many of the scam list things being said to me.
But I know there scammers and I like playing and wasting there time the more time they spend with me the less they have to con someone
I have to get a copy of this book. It’s hilarious.
Real🤣🤣🤣
Care? Love ? You know that’s a scam! 😂😂😂
Yet I can’t get a text back.
Same
@@Pamela_Lopezs Don’t worry, there’ll always be plenty of wine and/or whiskey (depending on your preference) to go around.
I would say the main tactic is messaging women that are really gullible and not prone to making rational decisions and are the only types that would ever fall for these dumb scammers. Your standards are probably higher than that and that's good.
@@sarahberkner Appreciate the kind words, Ms. Sarah!
As soon as I hear his voice.....it's a hard NO!
I am from America. I am really happy to see your work to expose people like this on web and make awareness among people. I had already shared this *GRIND TECHIEI* to all my foreign friends and ask them to share to others. Thank you again please keep the good work. Thank you again:
Hi How are you, have you been scammed by fake profiles pretending to be someone else?
Strange how someone will start a relationship with someone online, yet refuse to engage with their own neighbors or family, or at least go to a church or bookstore for meeting someone.
Avoidance attachment style and/or it speaks to the person or implies the person is afraid of or doesn't really want true intimacy that face to face meetings may lead to.
I kind of understand that, personally I wouldn't date online but I do prefer writing to speaking.
But I don't understand why someone would fall for these scammers 🤮. Or, similar to what you were saying, why someone would trust a stranger on the internet instead of a person who cares about them telling them it's a scam.
@@sarahberkner The scammers found their weak spot(s). Even Superman crumbles when exposed to Kryptonite.
We need to have hero's like you guys *Adrian notch* . Some scammers are so sophisticated on making their accounts look convincing that they don't look like a scam accounts anymore. Anyway thanks for the recovery great skills
HAH! The women didn't fall in love, they fell in bullsh*t, just didn't know the difference.
"Your presence fills my world with warmth, and every moment with you feels like a beautiful dream. 🌟❤️"
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@@TED-BUNDY-7
They WANT to be scammed…
@@KeyshowJi That's such a wrongful excuse in defense of scammers. That's like saying that a dog wanted to feed the hungry fleas. The insidious scammers are taking advantage of other people's desire to find someone to love who will love them in return.
This man has a thick accent, how can these women miss this? Any time they ask for me that is a big red flag.
The thing is, you can tell by the language they use. It's not the way an American would speak.
May God have mercy on the souls of those that choose to scam. We reap what we sow.
Why would these women want a relationship with something that looks like something the neighbor's cat dragged in?
The Nigerian romance scammers don't use their OWN pictures! They create fake profiles using stolen social media pics of attractive middle-aged men (usually American or European). They make up a fake backstory for themselves and then woo older American women with money using romantic chats and messages. The women believe the person in the fake profile is real and is in love with them.
That's not the picture he used, but he's not ugly per se (kind of looks like Eddie Murphy but the lighting is unflattering), also some women don't care about appearances.
He looks normal, you are exaggerating.
Because they have a fantasy about black men. It's exploiting on both sides only the scammer only sees you as a paycheck & isn't even truly attracted to you & thinks lowly of you already by the colour of YOUR skin.
Chris Maxwell !? 😂😂😂😂 he scammed y’all too with that fake name
No, never heard of him, but so glad you brought his name out so
Other women could be aware of him thank you
😂😂😂😂😂
Dating sites should CLAMP DOWN!
I joined a dating site and did reverse photo searches on anyone that contacted me, they were all false and I reported all of them to the dating site and left, never to return. Best way to meet someone legit is by being involved with your community and be active in social gatherings. Other people of the community can vouch for that person.
@@bonnie_gail Yes, thank you.
they won't because they take a cut.
I am a widow, but I never went on a dating site because my husband was my soulmate and when you had the best, there is no use looking anywhere else he died, loving me with his last breath. I will die, loving him with my last breath, but some people don’t meet there soulmates and you just got to be gentle and be kind and let them know that they are scammers, be more involved in her life at night call her at night when she’s the most loneliest that’s when I’m the most loneliest but I talk to my girls and I talk to Jesus just be there for her. That’s all you can do.
@@patriciaspires5450 BLESS YOU!
The victim does all the work.
I don't communicate with people to long
On the third day he asked me about my financial situation😂,of course,I was already alert,all that day and next morning were enough to send him away.
40yrs and over, her own $ and only talk about her, unfortunately he's definitely describing American women.
No honey they scam UK woman plus South African women plus now Brazilian women 🥵
Theses people need to be STOPPED
Instead of interviewing the guy on line, why not send a hit man to do the interview in person.
Excellent comment 💯
I had this problem from 2012 to 2015 online and i blocked and unfriend each and every last one of them,they some greedy mongrels.
Hi How are you, have you been scammed by fake profiles pretending to be someone else?
Just don't put your own picture out as a profile picture. If you do put one with you with a man with you. And don't reply to anyone sending you a message without first checking his profile. Don't take no chances don't be curious and reply to them thinking they are okay. I mean they are okay to get you to send money for them and their many girlfriends. 😊
God, you single mature women who have money need to be extra careful. These people will take all you are willing to give until you are broke. The stories are so sad 😞.
Would we call them mature? I wouldn't. Emotionally vulnerable and desperate and ignoring red flags, sounds more like a stereotypical teenage girl.
He should be in jail, not talking to you. How come you don’t do anything , make sure police arrest
him. You seem to think this is ok to scam people.
I agree! He needs to be behind bars.
American law enforcement can't arrest people in other countries.
@@Lunafalls What you said, however I think someone was extradited because they encouraged a scam victim (teenage guy) to take their own life. Which is a lot worse imo than someone willingly sending money to a person they've never met.
It’s disgusting 🥵
Scamming is terrible yet these women often know and just want the attention and will do anything for it
emotinal thinking can become an addiction
Nigerians 😂😂😂😂 I'm sorry to the victims but them boys are LEGENDS.
How are these woman able to understand him?!?!?!
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Did he feel bad enough to give them their money back?
hell no they stole my money too idc about them nigerian mf
Notice the reporters/interviewers DID NOT MENTION THE "White Women" part of his book title?😅😅😅😅😅
It’s so sad and disgusting that they’re doing this to our elders. These people don’t know anything about this. They were raised in an era where you court to be married.😢
Falling in love is very important for most people.
Not for me to me Love sucks. I am happier & I have a Hobby to keep me occupied I don't need people.
@kerry1979 I wish I had never fallen in love. Love always leads to heartbreak through either a breakup or illness or d3ath.
@@Starscream2588liar
They don't cost Americans. These woman do it at will
That book is wild 😂
“Chris Maxwell”
Thanks for the update
They are not only online, people like them in America 🇺🇸 are making connections for them with us women in USA
It's such a cruel thing to do to someone , and more peoolr need yo be educated on internet safety.
The tech age we are in ,so inhumane.
who else thinks these scammers should be paid, not easy to make an 80year old feel loved again.
Best therapists out there
Yes I been through that 😊
1 BILLION DOLLARS! DUDE!
Ikr!!!! At this point. She's a DUMB A$$.
If you know how hard they suffered in Nigeria, you won’t blame them scamming, their government is corrupt and they not ready to help the adult, not even the youth with some work.
I’m a black American I read their story and how they currently live
The economic situation of Nigeria and the corrupt government isn't an excuse for you to scam innocent and desperate people of their hard earned money , what's wrong is wrong. There are alot of Nigerians working very hard to make ends meet, the people that engages in scam are just lazy, careless, greedy and just want to enjoy fast money they didn't break a sweat for.
N.B: I'm a Nigerian
@@samueladelayo6898 na your own problem con be that one oh
None scammers men need to get a hold of this manual. Lol
Good thing he came clean geez awful that many don’t have a conscience
But this man still put out a book informing other scammers how to do it - sounds like a great guy, I don't think.
The book was already published in Nigeria and he learned from it.
Where can I find the book or script?😅😅😅
I was also blackmailed just few minutes ago let me show you the only person that help me out of this situation immediately,,,
Toolxbos is the person name,,,
His on TLGM,,,
I know hate is a bad word but that's how I feel about him and other Nigerians that scam people
First of all, who in the world would trust anything a total stranger says to you online or in person? A lonely desperate gullible person. That's who. Yes, scammers are master manipulaters, but if you get yourself mixed up in something like this, it was you who chose to continue communicating with a total stranger.
Nigeria is a shame for the whole world
Some Nigerians
Bro i need that book😅
I need one for scamming scammers😂
@@mariagrobler837 not y I need it..
It's online. Google: *Nigerian Scammers Playbook.*
People like that need to be charged as hard as times are inflation. They need to get up and go to work instead of looking for a hand out
Mine chats. His accent gives him away