I was love bombed after 4 days of doing FaceTime. It was a long distance relationship Fast forward 3 wks he went out of town with sons and his ex , their mom for BUSINESS. Texting and calling changed for the 3 days they were out of town for their son’s enrollment in college. When he arrived at the airport to come back home, the calls and the text messages returned to normal. That’s when I dumped him.
I could have well written this myself! He is s col lieutenant in the army! I was told that he would even go to very very young women to tell that he loves them and promise to marry them all! There were many women along side me while I kept waiting for him say and night
The last lady gave the best advice in my opinion, I respect all of their inputs but her advice hit home Thank you for this video, I learned a few things ☺️💁🏽♀️
The lady who spoke about a man's clothes and car is totally wrong....🤷🏾♀️ My brother is a very clean and neat person, and his female friend thought a woman stayed with him. So ladies, don't go off what she said because you could be wrong
Exactly. Many of the men in my family are meticulous about being neat, organized, clean and presentable starting from my grandfather, my dad, my brother, my stepdad, my brother in law, my uncle and my cousins. My grandfather keeps his house very clean despite my grandmother not being there anymore. My dad when he was single after the divorce kept his home super clean. Ny brother is the most meticulous of them and his house makes other men jealous and his wife will tell you it's all him lol. My stepdad keeps the house cleaner than my mom does and she's pretty clean too. My brother in law cleans for my sister all the time...and so and so on.
Girl good for you ! I still can’t find one , that last one was so inconsistent I only saw him 1-2 a month . I never looked back and still single . I just stopped answering texts . I was sad at first but then now I’m not
@ysl23addidasq trust me when you focus on yourself and healing God does bring you what you want, it's like preparing yourself for the person for you. Praying 🙏 in the near future you find that special someone. ❤️😊
If I'm at the point in my relationship where I feel like the other person is losing interest I'm not about to bother with "ignoring them them months," like for what? Why should I have to "win someone back" when we're still together? Instead of playing games I'd rather have an adult conversation or just leave. 🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀
Hard pass on the scratch and sniff 😂 can you imagine?? Ladies , walking into your space and you see a man smelling your clothes?? Baby listen 😬 y'all please don't do this . Intuition is God given honey..
It's a problem if I do it. And I don't give a damn I still do it. These dudes are for everyone everything and everybody if they show them a little attention! No lie dudes are easy!!! And they actually believe that you like them 😂
preach..... these are the exact words i tell old men who hit on me and other younger women...... they show them a little attention! No lie dudes are easy!!! And they actually believe that you like them
oh wow sorry to hear that. Just don’t look back . Find someone who treats you better or you can be like me and just stay single . I got tired internally of talking to guys who talk to other women
He gonna cheat on her too trust you ain’t missing out on nothing. May seem like it now. But you’ll see. Be glad you are no longer attached to that thing.
There is no separation brother. We women are ONE. If there is "another" then there is separation and conflict within. We are all one in that sense and the same goddess. When a woman knows this she wins herself. It is then her true mirror appears 💫 Although you mean well, invoking separation only leads to that. Instead you can encourage women and men alike to love themselves ❣️
I know she meant well, but there's too many things wrong with what this woman said at 1:19. The same description she just gave to suggest that a man might have a woman are also the same signs that a man is gay .... so her advice isn't as sound that she thinks it is.
he doesn't have to have somebody else for some of these behaviors. maybe he is not invested but he could be alone. and what is "having someone else", sex or chatting or looking at Instagram...
Some men are clean and use nicely scented laundry detergent. Your jaded assumptions are wild and just means YOU hangout with dirty men who can only be clean if a woman is around. Sad
he can be attracted to some XY woman but I guess she asked are they in some hookup, not does he just likes her. or is she attractive more than her. that black guy with a cap
I’m so happy I don’t care about any of this anymore. You can feel how frantic these people are.
If he’s insecure and you pull away, he will freak out and cheat 😂 seriously. The pull away only works with secure men
I love how I was love bombed for months only to find out the hard way he was dating someone else
I was love bombed after 4 days of doing FaceTime. It was a long distance relationship Fast forward 3 wks he went out of town with sons and his ex , their mom for BUSINESS. Texting and calling changed for the 3 days they were out of town for their son’s enrollment in college. When he arrived at the airport to come back home, the calls and the text messages returned to normal. That’s when I dumped him.
@@Kiki-jx6by as you should! I’m proud of you 🥳💅🏾
I could have well written this myself! He is s col lieutenant in the army! I was told that he would even go to very very young women to tell that he loves them and promise to marry them all! There were many women along side me while I kept waiting for him say and night
I don't have a boyfriend, but I'm curious to know the details!😆👍
fax!! ain't nobody got time for shit like this 😂😂😂😂😂
Right lol 😂
The last lady gave the best advice in my opinion, I respect all of their inputs but her advice hit home Thank you for this video, I learned a few things ☺️💁🏽♀️
Glad you found it helpful! ☺️
The lady who spoke about a man's clothes and car is totally wrong....🤷🏾♀️ My brother is a very clean and neat person, and his female friend thought a woman stayed with him. So ladies, don't go off what she said because you could be wrong
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Correct 💯 That woman’s advice is BS to me.
She sounded ridiculous actually whose sniffing clothing girl I don’t have time for that
Exactly. Many of the men in my family are meticulous about being neat, organized, clean and presentable starting from my grandfather, my dad, my brother, my stepdad, my brother in law, my uncle and my cousins. My grandfather keeps his house very clean despite my grandmother not being there anymore. My dad when he was single after the divorce kept his home super clean. Ny brother is the most meticulous of them and his house makes other men jealous and his wife will tell you it's all him lol. My stepdad keeps the house cleaner than my mom does and she's pretty clean too. My brother in law cleans for my sister all the time...and so and so on.
I was though the same thing. He could also be still living at home with his mama (also not good but the economy).
If he's talking, I'm talking... Baby we be having podcasts 🙃🙃
MATCH THEIR ENERGY LADIES 😉😉
(Or just leave them alone... It's up to you 🤷🏿♀️)
My 3 favorites are to control my emotions, alternate how I interact with them, delete his number and block☺️☺️☺️
The last girl is so right. I didn't take him back found a better man. Still with him and planning on getting married. Yeah bye boy lol ❤😅
Girl good for you ! I still can’t find one , that last one was so inconsistent I only saw him 1-2 a month . I never looked back and still single . I just stopped answering texts . I was sad at first but then now I’m not
@ysl23addidasq trust me when you focus on yourself and healing God does bring you what you want, it's like preparing yourself for the person for you. Praying 🙏 in the near future you find that special someone. ❤️😊
@@jeffanyfigueroa3359thank you that’s sweet merry Christmas and have a happy new year 🎆
I don’t mind him having a roaster cos I have one too. My problem is when they drag the talking stage out for months cos they can’t decide. Boy bye.
If I'm at the point in my relationship where I feel like the other person is losing interest I'm not about to bother with "ignoring them them months," like for what? Why should I have to "win someone back" when we're still together? Instead of playing games I'd rather have an adult conversation or just leave. 🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀
Definitely ! This is fast cause you get a direct resolution...!
😂 to the 2nd person the only tale- tale sign i got from this is that HE IS the other woman
😂😂😂😂
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@@hrosexo 😁
@@Exoticaworship7 they could
NEVER do what women do girl 😌🩷
Give him back the same energy.
Or just leave!
Hard pass on the scratch and sniff 😂 can you imagine?? Ladies , walking into your space and you see a man smelling your clothes?? Baby listen 😬 y'all please don't do this . Intuition is God given honey..
he might be using unstoppables
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😂😂😂 True
😂😂😂😂
What's that?
Women need to start asking better questions right of the bat. That simple.
Amen. ☝🏾
The amount of men who can't even genuinely consider having women friends is annoying and telling.
It's a problem if I do it. And I don't give a damn I still do it. These dudes are for everyone everything and everybody if they show them a little attention! No lie dudes are easy!!! And they actually believe that you like them 😂
😂😂😂
preach.....
these are the exact words i tell old men who hit on me and other younger women......
they show them a little attention! No lie dudes are easy!!! And they actually believe that you like them
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is getting married to the woman he cheated on me with.
oh wow sorry to hear that. Just don’t look back . Find someone who treats you better or you can be like me and just stay single . I got tired internally of talking to guys who talk to other women
He gonna cheat on her too trust you ain’t missing out on nothing. May seem like it now. But you’ll see. Be glad you are no longer attached to that thing.
There is no separation brother. We women are ONE.
If there is "another" then there is separation and conflict within.
We are all one in that sense and the same goddess. When a woman knows this she wins herself.
It is then her true mirror appears 💫
Although you mean well, invoking separation only leads to that. Instead you can encourage women and men alike to love themselves ❣️
Sorry but some of these men are just cheaters trying to justify themselves or women who state some outrageous stuff about tiny details😅😅😅
These men were always the village bicycles they only want what benefits them
I know she meant well, but there's too many things wrong with what this woman said at 1:19. The same description she just gave to suggest that a man might have a woman are also the same signs that a man is gay .... so her advice isn't as sound that she thinks it is.
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he doesn't have to have somebody else for some of these behaviors. maybe he is not invested but he could be alone. and what is "having someone else", sex or chatting or looking at Instagram...
16:00 yessssssss #shedaone
Amen!
Hmm
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Or, if he has a man, or 2.
Some men are clean and use nicely scented laundry detergent. Your jaded assumptions are wild and just means YOU hangout with dirty men who can only be clean if a woman is around. Sad
he can be attracted to some XY woman but I guess she asked are they in some hookup, not does he just likes her. or is she attractive more than her. that black guy with a cap