How to Talk Minnesotan: The Power of the Negative

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @LibertyPrimeV1
    @LibertyPrimeV1 8 лет назад +1183

    As a Scandinavian, I think people from Minnesota understands us more than they might realize. This is beautiful.

    • @georules
      @georules 8 лет назад +46

      "This is beautiful." Translation please?

    • @ichbinein123
      @ichbinein123 8 лет назад +143

      A majority of Minnesotans originally comes from Scandinavia and northern Germany, so this makes perfect sense.

    • @LibertyPrimeV1
      @LibertyPrimeV1 8 лет назад +46

      georules
      I've seen better.

    • @ichbinein123
      @ichbinein123 8 лет назад +45

      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scandinavian_Americans You can see a map of the concentration of Americans with Scandinavian descent here.

    • @LibertyPrimeV1
      @LibertyPrimeV1 8 лет назад +40

      IchBinEin
      Wow you weren't kidding? 32.1%? It explains a lot actually. They even look kinda Scandinavian haha.
      Thanks for the info :) I didn't know any of this.

  • @TheFreeAmericanPress
    @TheFreeAmericanPress 7 лет назад +713

    A guy could almost enjoy this video if he wasn't careful.

  • @DerangedDurain
    @DerangedDurain 8 лет назад +329

    As a Minnesotan, this video would have been good enough to make me chuckle on the right kind of day. Maybe.

    • @megajmd1870
      @megajmd1870 6 лет назад +2

      me too

    • @davidritchie9344
      @davidritchie9344 5 лет назад +6

      Don't ya know it

    • @Daveyjdigital
      @Daveyjdigital 2 года назад

      I’m from Minnesota I’m the hood we say doe u kno. Example: I tried calling you when I was at the store doe u kno

  • @Christopherthomas123
    @Christopherthomas123 2 года назад +35

    As a native Minnesotan, the layers of humor and truth here are astounding.

  • @odinlindeberg4624
    @odinlindeberg4624 7 лет назад +129

    Some places in Norway, when you've found your new favorite food and want to remark on it, you say "this is really edible."

  • @speeballs9876
    @speeballs9876 3 года назад +17

    I am Minnesotan and my gosh this just hits home for sure. Every aspect is a literal truth. MN, the Canada of the States.

  • @miket9563
    @miket9563 9 лет назад +174

    This is one of the funniest things I've ever seen.
    "Not too bad. Pass the butter please."

  • @agentCDE
    @agentCDE 6 лет назад +66

    This video's not so bad. An improvement on all the other stuff on RUclips I wasted two minutes on.

  • @bjoernsjut9478
    @bjoernsjut9478 8 лет назад +209

    In the southern part of Germany, Swabia, there's a saying: "not condemning it is enough praise". ("Net gschimpft isch globt gnug"). Sounds they would get along well in Minnesota :)

    • @g00se0885
      @g00se0885 8 лет назад +28

      Actually early Minnesota consisted of a lot of people emigrated from the Germanic regions. So that makes a lot of sense.

    • @TelecastPropellor96
      @TelecastPropellor96 8 лет назад +6

      sounds like a stretch

    • @g00se0885
      @g00se0885 8 лет назад +13

      whatever floats yer boat.

    • @Soy_Sauce_Supreme
      @Soy_Sauce_Supreme 7 лет назад +3

      Bjoern Sjut seeing that a large group of the original settlers was German it makes sense that there's a shared sense of compliment

    • @johannesruf5903
      @johannesruf5903 6 лет назад +5

      Kinda the same in Altbayern. "Bassd scho" (It's alright/It's acceptable) is pretty much the highest compliment you can get...

  • @Corndogman5
    @Corndogman5 8 лет назад +200

    Native Minnesotan here; video isn't far off the mark.

    • @danzeman4520
      @danzeman4520 8 лет назад +10

      John Aldag I see what you did there!

    • @seltzer30
      @seltzer30 7 лет назад +7

      Not too bad.

    • @RJ_Ehlert
      @RJ_Ehlert 5 лет назад +3

      It could be worse, that's for sure.

    • @HighlyThoughtful
      @HighlyThoughtful 4 года назад +1

      "Not too bad" is a staple of this state

  • @bbcat-3972
    @bbcat-3972 7 лет назад +120

    As a Minnesotan born and raised now living in Japan, having this video pop up provides me a sudden realization I'm very far away from my kind.
    Well, things could be worse, I suppose.

  • @nikku1166
    @nikku1166 8 лет назад +39

    Sounds like my kind of people. I'm from the West Coast, and people here think if you're not smiling you're not having fun. I never smile, and I have fun all the time (well, nobody has fun all the time, but you catch my drift). I don't need a stupid grin on my face to let people know things and going to bad for me.

    • @infctdppt
      @infctdppt 8 лет назад +10

      nick siden your profile pic checks out. You look like your not having to bad of a day.

    • @Farout397
      @Farout397 7 месяцев назад

      It’s good to see the ol winds haven’t started to blow your way

  • @onnirant
    @onnirant 8 лет назад +68

    As a Finn, this sounds completely normal. (A lot of Finns emigrated to the USA, especially to Minnesota)

    • @GuitarRulezd00d97
      @GuitarRulezd00d97 5 лет назад +4

      onnirant Hyvää pyvää, my family was included. So many similarities between Minnesota and Finland

    • @oliversoderberg299
      @oliversoderberg299 5 лет назад

      110% correct as my family comes from Finland and Sweden and im from MN!

    • @cavramau
      @cavramau 3 года назад

      That's not such a bad thing.

    • @HrHaakon
      @HrHaakon 3 года назад

      It's the same thing in Norway and Sweden too. And probably Denmark.

    • @JHaras
      @JHaras Год назад +1

      @@GuitarRulezd00d97I’m from Sweden, but that’s “Hyvää päivää”

  • @fredrichl
    @fredrichl 4 года назад +10

    Quite scandinavian, but not so scandinavian it outshines our northern scandinavians. I went to see a sousin some years back, drove 1500 km, haven't seen eachother for half my life. The guy just tossed his head and said "Jaha. Nå hej." which translates to something like "Oh...well, hello." And that was that.
    We're good at brevity, and at holding subtle eternal grudges.

  • @rookcrow1968
    @rookcrow1968 9 лет назад +6

    Lived in MN for a year and with a native Minnesotan... and this was life. LOL Love it.

  • @DCJello
    @DCJello 8 лет назад +10

    I lived in Minnesota from 1992 - 1996. This video was like a flashback to that time. Hilarious

  • @stevenseagal4987
    @stevenseagal4987 8 лет назад +355

    Not too bad, pass the butter please.

    • @KyleJo
      @KyleJo 7 лет назад +11

      Congratulations on your anniversary

    • @Y2Kvids
      @Y2Kvids 7 лет назад +15

      Wife:What's my purpose in Life?
      Husband: you pass butter.

  • @versnellingspookie
    @versnellingspookie 7 лет назад +21

    i'm from Groningen, which is a state in the northern part of the Netherlands, i think we're very similar to Minnesotans because we say things like "if you act normal you're already crazy enough" and "could be worse / could be less" all the time
    We have the reputation of being harsh and unfriendly people, but i feel that we're just very direct and no-nonsense, just like Minnesotans! I know which place im gonna visit if i ever get to America ;^). I love Minnesota already ❤

    • @cavramau
      @cavramau 3 года назад +2

      You mean you expect not to dislike Minnesota.

    • @versnellingspookie
      @versnellingspookie 3 года назад +1

      @@cavramau yes exactly Chris that is exactly what i wanted to say when i wrote this comment 4 years ago, however i wouldn't want you to think that i'm not thankful for your reply. Kind regards from over here 🙏

  • @Soren59
    @Soren59 8 лет назад +171

    Hey, that's not too bad.

    • @infctdppt
      @infctdppt 8 лет назад +11

      Xenos could be worse.

    • @InvisiMan2006
      @InvisiMan2006 8 лет назад +6

      The quality is not so good, though.

    • @ShadovvV
      @ShadovvV 7 лет назад

      In summary, it's called Political Correctness.

  • @Vaportrail70
    @Vaportrail70 2 года назад +2

    A guy could say this video is not too shabby

  • @davidkasquare
    @davidkasquare Год назад +1

    Yeah, this is just SO Nordic. ❤ (As in Scandinavia + Finland, and yeah, Iceland too)

  • @WitchyShelbs
    @WitchyShelbs 7 лет назад +7

    I know him! He is so great! Goes to my church.

  • @JackFlakne
    @JackFlakne 2 года назад +1

    I recall seeing this back in the 90s. It's not to bad a deal to rediscover it now.

  • @noiserrr
    @noiserrr 8 лет назад +21

    was gonna say reminds me of how people express themselves in sweden, then i realized we're talking about minnesota lol, where all the swedes ended up during the 1800's.

  • @Amon-LOK
    @Amon-LOK 5 лет назад +27

    This is about as accurate of a video of MN as it gets (coming from a Minnesotan). It's not like those videos where people are over exaggerating on the "DONTCHA KNOW" thing knowing almost none of Central and Northern MN says something like that. Not to bad. The video could use a little more depth so those who don't know can understand, but overall, not to bad indeed.

    • @stubbystudios9811
      @stubbystudios9811 3 года назад

      I know that the Dontcha Know is more on the heavier accent of minnesotans. sadly the heavier accents have pretty much died out. but a lot of stuff in the video is still accurate.

    • @reventanhume185
      @reventanhume185 2 года назад +1

      You know, this comment wouldn’t be too bad if you hadn’t used the wrong form of too

    • @john-paul9551
      @john-paul9551 2 года назад

      There's a lot of depth in this video, it's a full half hour special actually when seen in its entirety, and it's not too bad at all

  • @jfuite
    @jfuite 7 лет назад +4

    We just made some preserves at home today with berries from my wife's garden. I tasted the first batch, was quite pleased, and said, 'you know Honey, that's not too bad!'. Then I thought of this video.

  • @pwrofrob
    @pwrofrob Год назад +1

    From NJ, living in NC...talking like this sounds exhausting but folksy, so I like it...lol

  • @jcbarber
    @jcbarber 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you for posting! This segment and the rest of the video are so funny... because it's all true!

  • @abbigalechacich4030
    @abbigalechacich4030 9 лет назад +1

    This is really relatable. I live in MN

  • @Fluffimuff
    @Fluffimuff 5 лет назад +1

    The video shapes up pretty well for the shape its in

  • @patrickbecher4677
    @patrickbecher4677 9 лет назад +11

    Hahahahahaha I've lived in Minnesota my whole life this is so relatable I'm actually tearing up oh my god.

    • @LeahLuciB
      @LeahLuciB 9 лет назад

      +Patrick Becher Have you seen the whole thing? It cracks me up every time. This guy just nails it.

  • @maccraft2014
    @maccraft2014 6 лет назад +4

    I'm from the south and I say "not bad", "not too bad", and "not that bad" on a regular basis. I feel like my spirit is Minnesotan.

  • @alexdr8595
    @alexdr8595 Год назад +2

    I think Finns have spread their optimism in Minnesota

  • @wholesome122
    @wholesome122 8 лет назад +96

    this applies to Michigan and Wisconsin to some extent too lol

  • @dawaigocha
    @dawaigocha 8 лет назад +32

    This video's not as bad as it could've been. I almost liked it.

  • @EasterIsland_EGO
    @EasterIsland_EGO 7 лет назад +2

    I just thought this was common English vernacular. Well, i haven't really been out of Minnesota much so I never really heard otherwise...

  • @AlphaKenyThing
    @AlphaKenyThing 7 лет назад +6

    Well, this video was an improvement on that other stuff we sat through a 30 second ad to watch and have people dump Pepsi down our necks and ask us to subscribe through the whole thing.

  • @NEWYORKERZ360
    @NEWYORKERZ360 3 года назад +2

    A very Scandinavian mentality 😂 that gives you the the superpower of never getting disappointed !

    • @ChrisMenning
      @ChrisMenning  3 года назад +2

      This is my philosophy in life. Expect the worst, and everything else is a bonus!

    • @copymizer
      @copymizer Год назад +1

      @@ChrisMenning in denmark we say, expect the worst, but hope for the best

  • @natefliszar1348
    @natefliszar1348 7 лет назад +2

    I'm from Minnesota and I can't complain he is kinda right on how I talk

  • @WakeSideLife
    @WakeSideLife 8 лет назад +513

    my favorite is California english
    Yeah no: no
    No yeah: yes
    Yeah no definitely: yes for sure

    • @Fudz4
      @Fudz4 8 лет назад +18

      My brain hurts.

    • @ZoomZip
      @ZoomZip 8 лет назад +17

      yeah i saw that meme

    • @Kelsie154
      @Kelsie154 8 лет назад +16

      We use 'yeah no' and 'yeah no definitely' in Ohio, as well...
      But 'no yeah' just sounds so weird. 😂
      And "Yeah no" means yes and no, depending on the context.

    • @gamingnewscloud7156
      @gamingnewscloud7156 8 лет назад +8

      Kelsie LeCrone it's pronounced "nooo yeah".
      My only way of explaining is no is meant to be like why would you assume it wasn't a yes? followed by a yeah which is correcting their thought that it might be a no.

    • @youcanhaveacoke1
      @youcanhaveacoke1 8 лет назад +26

      everybody in the world talks like this

  • @mikethemaniac1
    @mikethemaniac1 7 лет назад +2

    This reminds me of when I went to Wisconsin, where Ma's side of the family is from. I just talked like my uncle and they hardly noticed I don't live there. I mean, keeping the profanity in check was a bit of a thing to be conscious of, but besides that, I'd be pretty difficult to catch in a crowd.

  • @TrustATinOwl
    @TrustATinOwl 8 лет назад +5

    As a Scottish man, I have literally no frame of reference for this.

  • @burhanbudak6041
    @burhanbudak6041 Год назад +3

    As a swede, I approve

  • @PercivalC
    @PercivalC 8 лет назад +48

    We Canadians talk just like this too. Must be the cold. Maybe it's just me. I'm part Swedish myself, that might explain it.

    • @Checkedbox
      @Checkedbox 7 лет назад

      Gravsten A lot of people I know are like this over here in England.

    • @nokomismn9685
      @nokomismn9685 7 лет назад +2

      I'm a Minnesotan of Irish ancestry. Maybe that explains why I'm a bit more communicative than the average Minnesotan. Which isn't saying much. ;-)

  • @nsxdarin
    @nsxdarin Год назад +2

    Minnesotan here. don't just use the negative, use the triple negative, which counts as negative but with extra negatives.

  • @TheRoshan89
    @TheRoshan89 6 лет назад +14

    "If you're feeling average or okay, which is about all a guy can expect really So true!"" 😂😂😂 So true!

  • @whycuds
    @whycuds 8 лет назад

    1990's, aye. Love the motif.

  • @MorticiaObscurum
    @MorticiaObscurum 8 лет назад +3

    Starting to feel like my soul was born there

  • @infectedmethod
    @infectedmethod 7 лет назад +3

    Rumor has it, that every cast member of Fargo (TV Series) has to watch this RUclips Video, to be an approved cast member.

  • @ironhead108
    @ironhead108 4 года назад +1

    Now that’s it’s been explained to me as a native St. Louisan, I can see it’s not so bad up there in MN.

  • @氵每夕卜
    @氵每夕卜 5 лет назад +5

    being asian myself, this is like how the elders talk most of the time tbh

  • @Ricardo1906
    @Ricardo1906 8 лет назад +5

    The moment I realise that Minnesotan people use more or less the same expressions that we use in Portugal.

  • @Mooncalf2012
    @Mooncalf2012 5 лет назад +2

    I'm not going to say this video wasn't helpful, but then I did grow up in the midwest.

  • @CiudadanaHerzeleid
    @CiudadanaHerzeleid 4 года назад +5

    Dear lord! I'm teaching a student to understand how minesotans speak, ad now I'm here...
    And besides that we both are mexicans 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    It helps, i'll use it 😁

  • @bobloblaw10001
    @bobloblaw10001 8 лет назад

    I grew up in Texas of northern european stock and I can't escape this way of talking..

  • @ampersandman757
    @ampersandman757 7 лет назад +2

    I can't wait for Ingmar Bergman to be reborn Minnesotan

  • @bobbyf640
    @bobbyf640 7 лет назад

    This video is enough to pass the time

  • @biophyser
    @biophyser 8 лет назад +1

    I've slept "not too good" on a guest bed with a bar in my back and said it was "not too bad."

  • @stannisthemannisbaratheon1039
    @stannisthemannisbaratheon1039 8 лет назад

    I can't complain about this video

  • @HansBomers
    @HansBomers 8 лет назад +16

    I think this is a northern thing. In the Netherlands, people from Twente (part of Overijssel) are known for expressing their 'excitement' this way.
    Let's have some fun, this is gonna be a great evening --> 'Kieken wa-t-wordt.' (Let's see what we can expect.)
    I'm feeling great! --> 'Kon minder..." (Could be worse.)

    • @Alex1710XVII
      @Alex1710XVII 8 лет назад +1

      dank je! Ik woon in Twente sinds drie jaar en nu pas merkte ik op waarom mijn manier van emoties uitdrukken altijd wat...ongepast lijkt

    • @thomasdequincey8227
      @thomasdequincey8227 7 лет назад

      Google Translate says 'Kieken wa-t-wordt"means "Chicks wake up". So... to have a great evening, you wake up the chickens? That's kind of messed up, dude.

  • @markcollins8326
    @markcollins8326 7 лет назад

    True scandinavians - well put - as an american in sweden I loved it!

  • @lazlo09
    @lazlo09 3 года назад +14

    Minnesotans would fit right in in Scandinavia, especially in Sweden and Finland. But then again a lot of Minnesotans have scandinavian ancestry so no wonder.

    • @KaedonVik
      @KaedonVik 3 года назад +1

      Yes we are love you guys ❤️

  • @Yoshgunn
    @Yoshgunn 7 лет назад +1

    I wouldn't want you to think I don't like this

  • @mplsridah
    @mplsridah 6 лет назад +2

    Minesotan: How's it goin'
    Me: I've had better days, ya know

  • @koselig402
    @koselig402 7 лет назад

    i didnt even realize this, born and raised minnesotan too. haha

  • @Dhruvbala
    @Dhruvbala 5 лет назад +1

    As a Minnesotan, I agree with the first part, but the examples in the quiz were way off

    • @stubbystudios9811
      @stubbystudios9811 3 года назад

      not for off. It depends on the situation. But I believe they used it to make it a tough quiz. an easy quiz would be to easy.

  • @eeengineer8851
    @eeengineer8851 3 месяца назад

    I've seen this whole series before... But, just recently was explaining to a immigrant lady at the office the difference between "not too bad" and "not too good"....

  • @raider54DJ
    @raider54DJ 8 лет назад +4

    god damn it this was accurate. I'm from Minnesota.

    • @unslept_em
      @unslept_em 7 лет назад

      I can't say I'm from minnesota, but it's certainly not far off the mark

  • @cellytron
    @cellytron 6 лет назад

    Can't complain.

  • @henningberg7975
    @henningberg7975 2 года назад +1

    Jesus this sounds like me and i am from Norway... i think you guys got some of my genes

  • @tonymusic720
    @tonymusic720 7 лет назад +1

    I'm terrified of negative numbers...
    I'll stop at nothing to avoid them.

  • @gusugsugus
    @gusugsugus 7 лет назад

    damn i immediately tried to press that play button at the start of the video god damn

  • @jorgeclarkson4639
    @jorgeclarkson4639 7 лет назад +1

    As a brit I think I would enjoy living in Minnesota.

    • @veggiesarefruits
      @veggiesarefruits 7 лет назад

      Jorge Clarkson nobody enjoys living in Minnesota. Especially people from Minnesota.

    • @nokomismn9685
      @nokomismn9685 7 лет назад

      I'm a lifelong Minnesotan of Irish/English descent. Come on over as I delight in the British accent and British humor, not to mention Irish storytelling. Maybe I'm slightly out of place here as many Minnesotans seem to be less expressive.

  • @me-fv4qy
    @me-fv4qy 2 года назад

    Where is the long goodbye one? Great work by the way. Ty

  • @Towert7
    @Towert7 8 лет назад

    Please tell me there are other parts to this series! I could eat these all up!

  • @caseybeck7010
    @caseybeck7010 8 лет назад

    As a North Dakotan. can confirm this works here also

  • @Sebman1113
    @Sebman1113 7 месяцев назад

    I love being Minnesotan

  • @h8potus972
    @h8potus972 8 лет назад +3

    "Borrow me twenty bucks..." means you want your friend to lend you $20.00...always thought this was odd. :)

  • @AmyAnnLand
    @AmyAnnLand 4 года назад

    I moved from Minnesota to California 20 years ago and holy crap, I still use these phrases. I know this is satire, but I didn't know those phrases were specific to MN.

    • @triton199
      @triton199 4 года назад

      more generally midwestern than minnesota exclusive. def minnesota, iowa, wisconsin for sure

    • @tetsatou2815
      @tetsatou2815 Год назад

      They're not. They're quite common through most of the Great Lakes region that I've been through over the past few decades.

  • @sarcasmo57
    @sarcasmo57 7 лет назад

    Got two weeks of vacation time coming after working all year down at big Roy's heating and plumbing. Ya'll still got that big ball of twine there?

  • @flo201
    @flo201 8 лет назад +1

    Absolutely hilarious! Made my day :)

  • @warrenphillips69
    @warrenphillips69 7 лет назад

    It's like a video of how to understand Kimi Raikkonen.

  • @TheCrusaderRabbits
    @TheCrusaderRabbits 8 лет назад

    As a Canadian, I speak Minnosotan and never knew it.

  • @StandingNomad
    @StandingNomad 8 лет назад +6

    I wonder if Minnesota had a lot of German immigrants, because this is a very German way of doing things. In Germany they say "nicht schlecht" which is literally "not bad", but it's used as a replacement for "pretty good".

    • @Yuttles
      @Yuttles 8 лет назад +5

      You're correct on that assumption

    • @zabunia
      @zabunia 8 лет назад +8

      Yes, you're definitely right. Germans made up the single biggest immigrant group in Minnesota, followed by Scandinavians.About 70% of the population can trace their ancestry back to those two groups. A lot of what's said in the video feels very familiar to me as a Swede.

    • @nokomismn9685
      @nokomismn9685 7 лет назад

      My former in-laws were Minnesotans of German descent. Very stoical and unemotional in my view.

  • @Sunnytales
    @Sunnytales 8 лет назад

    as a minnesotanthis is spot on

  • @mythofechelon
    @mythofechelon 7 лет назад +1

    This is very similar to the UK.

  • @rodrigovitorino3750
    @rodrigovitorino3750 8 лет назад +22

    Not too bad

  • @JeremiahBurns
    @JeremiahBurns 8 лет назад +26

    _Not too bad. Pass the butter, please._

  • @SWEmanque
    @SWEmanque 7 лет назад +7

    Feels like we Swedes should fit quite well in Minnesota..

    • @DW-bj5wr
      @DW-bj5wr 4 года назад

      Yabetcha!

    • @starvingindiedeveloper1020
      @starvingindiedeveloper1020 4 года назад

      32% of Minnesotans are descended from Swedes and Norwegians. There are numerous families named Carlson, Larson, Nordstrom, Nordquist, Sandquist, Lund, Lundstrom, etc, etc.

  • @jamesmack5110
    @jamesmack5110 8 лет назад

    Now my family will understand

  • @winniepor3038
    @winniepor3038 6 лет назад

    Yea! fir sure! You betcha!

  • @nsavage1995
    @nsavage1995 8 лет назад

    Not all heros wear capes.

  • @ramennoodle36
    @ramennoodle36 7 лет назад

    I watched this not well known but very informative movie called Inside Out and the documented were from Minnesota so I can confirm this is very helpful and accurate.

  • @JesseDylanMusic
    @JesseDylanMusic 7 лет назад

    If I may refrain from speaking like a North Dakotan for a moment, this video is fricking amazing. First time I've laughed in a week. Oh sorry, I mean, this video isn't too bad.

  • @Ellie_3621
    @Ellie_3621 4 года назад

    The marriage part is so true

  • @TheNerdyCoty
    @TheNerdyCoty 7 лет назад

    I want to move to Minnesota now

  • @Jasonf79
    @Jasonf79 4 года назад +1

    Don't Cha Know

  • @harveyatlaw
    @harveyatlaw 8 лет назад +1

    Was that.. Bruce Campbell in the foreign phrases?

  • @zhukie
    @zhukie 7 лет назад

    This is also what we say in Australia

  • @nickleclaire8545
    @nickleclaire8545 6 лет назад

    Having grown up in a smaller town and having parents who wouldn't even taint purity by spending anytime in the "Cities" (Hey, should we go to your cousin's wedding in St. Paul?? - - "Maybe just send a card with some cash, I wanted to go to the cabin.") -- The nature up there is to not be a bother and shield yourself so you can be pleasantly surprised. (Because it could be worse after all.)