Dance music added to all toilets? *YES!* Even though there were many, many, *many* headache moments making this video, it was still a blast, and I bet we’ll see this subreddit covered again sometime in the future. Stay safe; know that you’re care for. Much love. 💜
Transphobe: "You'll never be a [insert gender the trans person isn't here]!" Trans person: "I'm [the gender the trans person is.] It is possible to pass, you know." Transphobe: INCONCIEVABLE
Maybe they wanted to take the joke further and be like "yep.... This is why we don't trust women to vote or be in any sort of power"? I mean I hope it's because they wanted to see if she could do well
Holy shit. It just occurred to me that there are people out there who believe “transwomen are women” is supposed to be an insult. Shhhhh. Don’t nobody tell them now.
Honestly, I got mixed up before someone explained it to me. I thought trans men were men who were trans and vice versa. I didn’t realize that the gender after the word trans referred to the gender that they are now instead of what they had been assigned to at birth. Transphobia had been ingrained into me when I was a kid, as most kids were taught. I made a transphobic comment once when I was young and I feel so bad and ashamed about it. I felt bad about it then, too, after my sister explained why there was a “guy” in the girl’s bathroom. What I wouldn’t give to take it all back.
how DARE this sub be not called AccidentALLY Edit: too many people liked this, too much anxiety for me. I friggin love you all and you can find me right under the 12 ancient blankets of dysphoric transylvania
over the past ten years, i have went from: -not understanding the lgbt+ community. -not understanding the lgbt+ community, but accepting those who are part of it. -not understanding the lgbt+ community, but supporting those who are part of it. -not understanding the lgbt+ community, but wanting to learn more about it. -not understanding the lgbt+ community, but learning more about it. -understanding and supporting the lgbt+ community. -understanding and supporting the lgbt+ community, and thinking that i might be gay.
ay nice! mine looked more like: -not knowing about the lgbtq+ community (when i was like six or seven lol) -not understanding it but not having a problem with it -understanding the sexualities that get representation (gay/lesbian, bi, that’s about it) and accepting it -finding out about being trans and not understanding but accepting it -finding out about being ace and accepting it -questioning being ace and understanding/accepting everything -going through a series of different aspec labels (graysexual, demisexual, etc) before landing on asexual -supporting the lgbtq+ community as a whole -starting to seek out learning more about the lgbtq+ community -questioning my gender and thinking i’m demigirl, non-binary, genderfluid, fluidflux, back to non-binary, and then settling on maleflux (a label i don’t really like since i’m hardly ever male, so ill use non-binary most of the time tbh) -gay supreme (“gay” being used as a blanket term for “not allocishet”) woah that was long lol, sorry 😅
In my case: What's your gender? "No" What's in your pants? "I don't wear pants bitch, I wear leggings, and I suffer because I don't have pockets most of the time"
It occurred to me recently that when people complain about they/them pronouns being "confusing" what they're really saying is "my language comprehension ability is substandard"
@@laurainathunderstorm I hope you're being genuine, but I literally had to teach a Mexican-American over two decades older than me and form whom Spanish is supposed to be an equal as their first-language alongside English, the grammatical use of the Spanish singular gender-neutral pronoun "Usted". Which conjugates the same as "El" ('he')/"Ella" ('she'), and which I cited his own comments wherein he conjugated verbs in third-person singular (El/Ella/Usted) having dropped the explicit pronoun due to referential context. ("Ella es mi hermana. Es una actriz y toca la guitarra." --> "She is my sister. (She) is an actress and plays guitar." I didn't repeat "Ella" because, like, I'm talking about the same person.) So, like, there are people whose literal grammar has a specific singular-they equivalent that they use frequently. A specific singular-they equivalent which is the default grammatical form called upon when someone is doing something. And yet they deny that such a word exists even as they use the word in their denial.
That's the thing. They/them is taught in literary classes as "what you use to refer to someone before you know what gender they are" so transphobes just assume that "oh they look like a girl so i can't use they/them anymore now that i know what gender that person is!" like no, honey. that's NOT how that works. People CAN choose to remain textually gender ambiguous if they want to.
@@OriginalCreatorSama Exactly. In a book, if you are describing a character but haven't said their gender yet you refer to them as they. 'They have long golden locks of blond hair.' Etc. Buuuuut I kind of get the feeling that these people don't pick up books...or at least not to read them.
@@OriginalCreatorSama yeah, the 2 defenitions of they according to the dictionary: 1. Used to refer to a group of people 2. Used to refer to someone of unkown gender • used to refer to someone whose gender is not within the binary of male and female Shows how transphobes never actually research anything.
If people are worried about getting peeped on in the bathroom, give us actual stalls with walls that go all the way to the ceiling and floor and the door all the way to the floor. Stop giving us crappy stalls ;-;
@@whutcat682 but yeah here in the U.S. we have stalls that are like a foot off the ground and extend to six feet off the ground with little pole legs and a door with a matching height. Might be hard to visualize but
@@justapuffin7303 yes, in fact. demisexual was my first guess, actually. it's somewhere between that and reciprosexual, but they're both on the Ace spectrum, so it's whatever
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly and it cant be switched it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@@LavaCreeperPeople yes biological sex is a thing that exists. but guess what, gender is made up. the words man and woman are made up. that men should have short hair and women should have long hair is made up. the social constructs surrounding gender identity are all made up. so why not just call people what they want to be called and leave them alone.
My mom used to be in a wheelchair for YEARS. I would push her around a lot, so I am VERY aware of just how much of a priviledge it is to walk. Crowds are honestly one of THE worst things, just....eugh. Bad enough when you're walking but when you have a wheelchair? Then it's EXTRA slow. You're going to bump into people. etc. I'm glad my Mom can walk now, though limited and still has issues standing due to pain. Still...I miss pushing her in her wheelchair and playing chicken with the walls in hallway outside our apartment. That was fun.
I understand how you feel my privilege to walk properly has been taken away for the majority of my life more recently wwe have been trying to fix it I hd to be in a wheelchair for a couple months with a metal plate in my hip and now I have to wear an immobilizing brace for my knee we just have to wait to do the other knee and maybe takr the plate out.
I love the saying "facts over feelings" because of the immense amount of facts that support gender identities, and those facts are more important than some small minded persons opinion on how other people's lives work
So true! Science shows that people with gender dysphoria can be treated by letting them transition, so in this case a transphobic person’s feelings mean nothing. It’s perfect
@@MurchescoBucket yeah, Im going to use a story of mine. I have started to transition socially (not able to medically but I do wish to) and my dysphoria has been better, I've been not wanting to k*** myself as much, and I actually view myself as a demi-boy (like physically)
Bigot on TikTok: period products should be taxed because everything else is taxed, what do you want next? Bread and milk to be tax-free???! Me: yep. exactly.
I don’t have the full context, but I think that this is just capitalism- food is objectively more necessary- you need it to live; modern society has, admittedly with reason, made it unacceptable to release blood everywhere, but you won’t, like, die- you might look it, because of all the blood, but it’s not going to kill you?
@@runeanonymous9760 girl... we are not about to fucking bleed everywhere because you deem it unessicary to wear tampons or whatever, like what even is your point??? you want us to bleed on everything???
it's more about how there are options. You don't need to use a tampon, you could use a pad, a cup, or reusable pads which you could actually make yourself or buy, either way. It's similar to why diapers are taxed. not because babies should be pooping everywhere, but because disposable diapers are an option you chose for convenience over cloth diapers that you can wash. For that matter, clothing is taxed even though it is illegal to run around naked.
As someone who's been sexually assaulted and know friends, including guys, who have been sexually assulted, I think that bathrooms should be merged, but made more secure. I'm not going into a merged bathroom with a foot or two of length under the door, and crappy cardboard-ish wood material for the walls and doors. Everyone deserves a safe place to do their business, and people shouldn't have to choose between two options that stress them out all on the name of conforming to society. At first, I was against merging bathrooms in general... but then realized my problem wasn't really with the merging, but rather the usually crappy design of most public bathrooms I've personally encountered.
North American public bathrooms sound so awful compared to what I’m used to in Europe. I’m from Norway, and most bathrooms don’t have enough of a gap underneath the dividers to crawl in, and _none_ that I’ve been to have had a gap large enough to do so without laying completely flat on the floor (ew; also, the ones that had such a large gaps were in school buildings that no longer exist, or have been completely gutted and turned into apartments), and the doors are just as tall as the dividers and close in such a way that they don’t have any gaps on the sides.
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly and it cant be switched it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@Melon Sauce to add, a lot of people are born with more than two sex chromosomes. There are people who have xxy or xyy that don't even notice for a long time.
I remember when I made a rainbow shirt on animal crossing that said “I’m not gay”... guess who was wrong and actually needed time to evaluate their sexuality and gender identity.
@@laurabrandao7729 If a person looks like a man, and a listener is told they are trans (female to male), they refuse to believe that they are that good at “acting like a man” so they assume that this man is identifying as female (male to female), since (by their logic) a person ‘cannot possibly be that good at doing what they want to do and being what they want to be’.
@@stingraystray_ing "Still don't get it. Too much a stre-" Was writing that when I got it. Still a stretch. It's literally easier to at least accept it. Geez, talk about denial. I'm impressed at how much a person can be willing to bend logic to be obnoxious
I think those are just people who dont know much about trans people and gets confused more than anything. They just want to give their opinion, dont dig any deeper than a surface, see trans and thats enought to get them to react. I dont think there is many people who would be told "this person wants to be called a woman, they were born with a willy and now are a girl" and go to a conclusion that they must be female to male transition.
Someone commented “Why are people so desperate to get unisex bathrooms?” Since they obviously didn’t support trans/non-binary folks, I used an argument that he might actually listen to: “Because some of us have children of the opposite gender and we would like to use the restroom without getting nasty looks.” Which has happened to me as a WOMAN with my FOUR YEAR OLD son. Not supporting one group of people has the potential of inconveniencing or even harming other groups.
My uncle is a trans man and, two stories, one he's been told the "You'll never be a woman!" thing, and once he was at a convention for trans dudes in Virginia and a woman saw all these well-dressed short guys and asked him "Is this a Christian boys' conference?" 😂😂
I feel like a lot of people take being "privileged" as being an inherently bad thing to feel guilty about. Like, no, you shouldn't feel guilty about things that are beyond your control even if it comes from a place of privilege. All we want is for less privileged people to be taken into consideration and treated with respect, that's all we're fucking saying.
thank you for clarifying this /gen, personally we're privileged because we are white, but we never understood why people said some of the things they do in reference to it, we cant think of any examples but it always made us think 'how do we stop doing that' when it's just something that happens because we're not a person of color (ps. the reason we didnt understand until you clarified was likely due to our autism)
Lots of people have a persecution complex-they want pity on one form or another, though many yearn for it anyway. I think it relates to the concept many Christian’s have of god giving people stuff. It’s helpful to think of privilege or as an extra gift, but as the privilege of not having certain obstacles. I have lots of privilege in my life. I still need to check myself. If it weren’t for people educating me throughout my life, I’d probably have that incorrect perception still
Exactly this. Saying "you're privileged to be able to walk up stairs, some people use wheelchairs" isn't demanding you feel guilty for having working legs, it's reminding you to build ramps. (And to be patient with/help out folks in wheelchairs in the meantime.)
I'm genderfluid and afab, so when I made dating profile and someone said "I will always be a man" on a masculine day, I felt so validated. Like, I still blocked them, but I said "hey thanks" first!!
(I'm joking) I imagine the wardrobe of clothes you have is like a whole other separate room with one side dedicated to your feminine day and the other dedicated to your masculine day.
Once a woman tried her best to be transphobic to me and I’m just a plain old cis woman 😂 it’s funny but it’s also hella sad that a completely random stranger felt the need to be transphobic to a cis woman just bc she “looked” like a trans person to her.
@@MYNAMEISJOHNMUSTARD Reminds me of another story. Some restaraunt place had a waiter stop a cis woman on the way to the bathroom because "they didn't want a person who used to be a man" in their women's bathroom-
Eyyyyyyyy another fellow genderfluid person!!!!! Yeah generally I don't really give a shit about passing either way but occasionally when I'm out and about someone will call me "sir" and it'll make my entire day hehe
This literally just happened with me. I mentioned I was transgender, and someone called me a man in an attempt to misgender me deliberately, saying I couldn't "pass". What they didn't know was that I'm genderfluid, and I literally cannot be misgendered either way 🙃. So I'd like to consider the hate as a compliment for being a passable man AND woman!
"those who identify as mothers" Thank you! I always get offended on mother's day because I don't have kids, but I helped raise my brothers to a degree that I'm called a 'second mom' as a joke, but often get overlooked on mother's day, when it would actually be nice to be appreciated for this role I didn't choose myself but put everything into regardless.
My dorm in college was gender-inclusive, and we had signs on our bathrooms that could be changed depending on who you were comfortable being in the restroom with. Turn it to W for women, M for men, E for everyone or reversed E for alone. Worked pretty well, nobody every complained. Literally just a slightly more restrictive version of a dry-erase board.
@Axl DaveYou're really unconvincing bait. Try your clown routine somewhere where people are more ignorant and I'm sure it'll work better. Here, it's just really funny. The way you talk is stilted and full of dog whistles.
That is why I think they should maybe make quiet rooms. So that no one can awkwardly hear the others in the bathroom, but those who need it can find a nice quiet place to relax.
@@nifelicio7752 At functioning well it's called sensory diet, at not working at sensory overload, and at disabling it's a sensory attack. I need to know these things to function and to measure what I can handle and when I need to get out of places.
_One time someone told me that I could never be a female because I was wearing masculine clothing and all I said was "Oh! Thank you?" I truly don't mind what gender I am defined as_
They literally can’t understand that when you use the words “woman” and “man,” it’s not about genitals. And yes, Abrahamic religions are largely to blame for this utter lack of comprehension.
I am a transgirl, and I came out to my bf when we were dating, and he didn't bat an eye and whispered in my ear... "It doesn't matter babe, I may not be gender fluid, but I can leave fluid in any gender" hilarious as hell Edit: I realize that umm, I am on my straight RUclips account.
this might be stupid question but is it transphobic or something to broke up with someone because they are trans??? i mean i think it's normal for (example:) heterosexual male to not want to be with trans man who came out while dating him (i'm talking about friendly broke up where you still try to be friends after breaking up) but i saw people calling it very transphobic ??? you can't just change your sexuality because your gf is actually your bf?? i feel like it's the same situation if you were heterosexual male who dated a girl and discovered [s]he is actually a crossdresser so you broke up with him.... sorry if it sounds weird, english is not my first language and i'm not sure how to explain it
@@sakiyoshida1788 the thing is, when I am in man mode, I am nothing like when I m being me, and so when I am doing my job in the army my bf doesn't like me much, but when I get home clean up and get comfy my whole attitude changes as I get out of work mode, and then my bf likes me a whole lot lol. The point I am getting at is transitioning changes how you broadcast your personality as you get the chance to stop pretending to be something your not.
@@sakiyoshida1788 As long as the reason isn't related to them being trans it's not transphobic I mean being trans doesn't mean you can't be an asshole or abusive
@@want-diversecontent3887 it's not transphobic even if it IS related to being trans... if I was gay and my gf came out, me breaking up w her would be bc I wouldn't be into girls
As someone who's trans (MTF) and has good friends who support me and defend me when I get transphobia'd, I can say with 100% certainty: having good friends can honestly save your life. It's a privilege that I will never stop being grateful for that. I have "friends" that are quite transphobic, so I don't count them as friends.
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly and it cant be switched it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@@LavaCreeperPeople as someone who is studying biology XX and XY chromosomes aren’t the only thing that influence sex. If it was then there wouldn’t be men with XX chromosomes or women with XY chromosomes. It can be something that people don’t realise unless they get their chromosomes tested. But if we are talking about trans people then there are a lot more processes that go on during the foetus’s development that influence if a child will be trans. For example the Neurons in the brain can form brain signals that are analogous to that of their opposite sex which can cause gender dysphoria. Sometimes there is a hormone imbalance (eg higher testosterone in females or more oestrogen in males) whilst they’re developing that can change how someone sees their own body. There are many more ways biology supports the existence of transgender people. A lot of it is really interesting if you’re willing to research it
@@LavaCreeperPeople I get you are trying to pull a “ha ha got ya!” moment but if you want to bring science into the equation, at least be updated on the current understanding of what you’re spitting.
@@LavaCreeperPeople Red hair is an anomaly, but we don't only group people as brunettes or blondes. Blue eyes are an anomaly, actually, no, unlike intersex people, it's actually a genetic defect, and yet we recognize their existence and don't try to exclude them. Intellectphobic is an interesting choice of wordage, seeing as you are also excluding the fact of XY cis women, and XX cis men. Or people born with differing sex identifiers. (And yes, sex is identified as more than your dick or vulva, hon.) And if you were an actual professional, you might actually know that sex is widely known in the scientific field to actually be a spectrum, and that the binary model was created based off of two peaks of a graph, basically cutting off 90% of the variations and saying "this'll do". Lastly, we do not actually know how many people are intersex. Karyotyping is very expensive, and often discouraged from students in the field to do on themselves, as the shock of finding out they actually don't conform to what they believed is known to be a bit much and not worth the emotional stress and price, as it would, likely impede on school abilities as well. And finally. Most people have brown eyes. Most people have brown hair. However, those are things we can see. Many people only find out their infertile after they have tests done, for example, despite being infertile from birth. Now, do tell me, have you been karyotyped? Because claiming to know your chromosomes, definitively, even in vague wording, is a bit disingenuous, not to mention claiming to know other people's, without the paperwork to prove that said person is in fact these specific chromosomes. So, unless you have genuine proof to show you not only know your own chromosomes, but also that you somehow have magically changed the mind of the general scientific consensus that backs up the mere fact that sex is a spectrum, then please do not try to claim I'm, what was it, "intellectphobic", for correcting your misinformation that you are spreading without any care for the impact it will have on others and how it could damage people's lives and perspectives. Information is very valuable, but if information was money, you would be handing out forgeries, kind stranger, so please, if you can prove me wrong, give me scientific studies and non-biased studies as well as all from non-biased sources, preferably more official like the governmental sites, as those tend to be more reliable. Officiality is key. I'll await said sources with great patience. :)
@@kiralonely and the funny thing is that we have known that XX and XY aren’t the only identifiers of sex since I think 2016 or maybe a bit earlier and nobody has been taught the up to date theory
I love this! The best accidental ally there is has to be when someone doesn't say they are mtf or ftm trans and just say "trans" and people accidentally use their preferred gender. i.e a trans woman gets told "They'll always be a woman no matter what" and cracks up becaus eit is true!! :)
I this that transphobes (wrongly) believe all trans people must pass poorly. I remember having a debate with my grandmother about tans people and one of her arguments against them existing was that they are just making themselves upset over wanting to be something they can't achieve... To her androgynous looking granddaughter (?) who obviously could look less like a girl with a haircut
It's become a running joke/validation thing my sister and I do. She randomly texts me that I'll never be a woman and I randomly text her she'll never be a man. Cracks us up so much.
Here's a story: my BF: When i met you i thought you were cis and straight Me: We met at pride BF: I thought you were just an ally Me: It was a trans group. BF: Maybe you were there for a friend? Me: IT WAS A HANGOUT FOR TRANS GAY MEN. BF: M-Maybe you were taken? Me: I ASKED YOU OUT THREE TIMES AND YOU THOUGHT I WAS KIDDING
Idk how it happened exactly but my sister is like, accidentally super supportive of enbies and gender non comforming people. Like, she keeps making jokes about how her stuffies "don't have genders, Martin identifies as Martin, Gerald is a girl", and the fact that my dad isn't that mature even though my sister is *making jokes,* is honestly just kinda sad. (I think I'm going to die if he says "woke nonsense" one more time. It's so stupid I can't-)
while this may not be the same thing, my 5 year old brother once named one of my stuffed animals, and he said it's name is daisy, but referred to it with he/him pronouns and.. idk i just love it. i kept his name too lmao, i'm never changing it
My kid asked me “If a man has surgery and becomes a woman, will she like men or women?”. Her and her friends are super supportive and open minded, but they had this whole debate, because they are still learning😂 And yes, I explained to her that a man does not become a woman, she always was a woman.
Reminds me when my dad thought (and probably still does) when after transgender people go through surgery, they'll be attracted toward the opposite gender.. I tried to tell him how it doesn't work that way for all trans people. Some may be attracted to the same gender, opposite, or multiple/all (whether that be queer-platonic, romantic, or so on). Although, I couldn't specifically say this to him due to him being trans/enby/bi-phobic (I wanted to avoid his 2-5 hour "lecture" that he does whenever someone has a disagreement with him). In his mind, being cishet is the default and that anything other than that is a sin (it makes me ill having to be in a heteronormative household; and he knows I'm gay too -_-)
They act like family bathrooms dont exist... "A bathroom that all genders can go in? Dispicable! We must remove this at once!" Family bathrooms: **Nervous sweating**
@@Alex_Vir oh well im not from america and idk if yall have it but usually, we would have a womens bathroom, a mens bathroom and a family/ neutral bathroom in malls. Its usually used for, lets say, you have a son but you are female, its fine to go to a female bathroom stall with your son but if you feel too uncomfortable, the family bathroom is there.
i'm not out to my brother, today he told me he doesnt have a sister anymore because he just generally dissapointed with me. did warm my enby heart a lil
Random paleo fact that no one asked for (again): a new species of dinosaur has recently been discovered and when i say recently i mean literally 3 days ago. It is in the hadrosaurid family, and belong to the parasaurolophini tribe, the same tribe as the famous parasaurolophus and its name is Tlatolophus galorum
I really need to know if this was supposed to read "*just* wash your hands", or is there some notoriously unhygienic Judy frequenting this coffee shop, to the point that they made a sign just for her?? 😆
@@dreamafterthoughts Well, I am the kind of person that knows that idependently how you dress or act, that does not really means that you are LGBT or not. Like me: I look and act stereotypically masculine, althought I am openly gay. She acting and dressing in a masculine way do not really means she is a lesbian. Not because I'm guessing, but, because she has stated several times she is heterosexual, and she has been in love with some guys. But, the thing I find stupid is that she puts X sexuality or gender to other people, based on dumb stereotypes, but she gets angry when other people think she is gay.
@@nadie1868 i was trying to make a stupid joke but you're absolutely right :D stereotypes don't define us... she just fails to see the irony between saying that and then being angry when it's said back
@@nadie1868 Tbf, there's something to be said for the phrase "the lady doth protest too much, methinks." Whether that's the case for your sis, I don't know, but her attitude does make me wonder. Btw, I used to think was straight too, in all my tomboy girl-next-door glory. 😄 Now I'm pan and considering the nature of gender fluidity.
I don’t know if someone already said this, but my wife made a point about the Tigers. “There’s also Siberian Tigers that are naturally white, without being albino or leucistic. That’s just the color they are, and all white Tigers are still Tigers”.
I'm a trans man and there is a special kind of joy when a transphobe confuses what type of trans person you are. I had someone say to me, "You'll never be a girl!" Lmao, I responded with, "You're absolutely correct, thank you so much for supporting my trans male identity." Lmao they blocked me.
I'm not trans but I dress fairly androgynously at times, so people tend to confuse what my actual gender is (I'm a dude). And there is this woman who sees me all the time and refers to me with she pronouns when ever I try to correct her she goes like " no, 🙂" but it's in such a nice way I can't tell if she is trying to insult me or support me lol. Straight cis folks are confusing lol
6:43 Right here, this gets better when you remember that in 1887 women still didn't have the right to vote. So that 60% of the vote ALL came from men :) Regular, common men deliberately voting for a woman in that time period is really wholesome to me and must have been a really slap in the face to that political group XD
Raj talking about trains reminds me a lot of when I read a story where the OP said "I'm ambidextrous" and the guy he was talking to said "that's cool bro, love who you love" I hope I can find that Tweet (or whatever it was) again.
I love it when transphobes confuses “trans man” and “trans woman”😂 Omni-Man: Why would someone who identifies as a woman call themselves a trans “man”?! THINK TRANSPHOBES, THINK Edit: nothing against anyone who genuinely mixes them up👍
I would just like to say that not all who confuse the terms are transphobic... coming from someone who still get the terms mixed up. Took me a long time to actually work out which was which. All thanks to Eliot Page.
Yes but in my experience it is most often short for Omnisexual, that is why I initially thought it meant that, but that also is why I said "to realize" to say that I eventually realized that it meant omni as in all and not the sexuality, I'm sorry I should have made what I meant more obvious to avoid any confusion. That's my bad.
Not Transphobe but my brain runs slow and backwards and processes things weirdly and I only recently learned the difference and used to get it confused myself
A week ago, my 6th period class found out I was transmale ( ftm) and they kept calling me "it" and "they" as an insult, thing is my pronouns are he/him/they/them/it so they where accidentally being allies lmao
I love how, when people go to ‘misgender’ you, but instead say the correct gender For example, in that comic where the dude said ‘you’ll never be a real woman’ to a trans man. That’s what I love. You know why? Because I can prove my homophobic brother wrong.
@@kingcyclops4079 cowboy dude that’s what transman means. Ha! That said I live in the city, so not hats or ranches for me. Although my family does have a few guns despite our left leaning tendencies. But that’s Texas for ya.
One Topic has to be the most “Ally” person I have ever seen, and I personally love it. Especially as someone who has been struggling with the gender identity for a while now. It really makes me feel like their are people out their who are ready to learn and accept the LGBT Community, even if they may not be directly part of it. And that’s such a nice feeling to have. Thank you
I came out to my mom a few days ago and she’s not the most supportive but I just wanted to say thank you for being that support that I don’t have :) Edit: I usually hate making edits but I didn’t expect anyone to actually see this so THANK YOU TO EVERYONE BEING SO NICE!!! I AM CRYING LMAO
aw im sorry! but i want you to know that there are people out there who will support you and your identity, im also a baby non-binary and i want you to know your not alone and you will make it through 💛🤍💜🖤
My school doesn’t have assigned gender bathrooms but just little rooms with a toilet, soap dispenser and paper towel dispensers in a larger room. It’s honestly much better but they are assigned to classes now that it’s corona.
Currently closeted as heck, so I tend to use the girls' bathroom when my parents are nearby. A few weeks ago I'm casually washing my hands and a woman walks in, gasps a bit, looks at the sign to make sure she walked into the right bathroom, then nervously walks in, avoiding eye contact with me. Good to know she knew I was a dude I guess.
I just wanted to say thanks to OT, I was able to become more accepting to trans community and today one of my friends came out as non-binary! Love you Cricket!
A man on Facebook said to me just a few weeks ago "I can't tell if you're a man or woman, but let me know because I have an insult for both" and I told him "well, I really ain't either so thanks" and he lost his gotdang MIND I'll have to post the screencaps on r/AccidentalAlly 🤣
I came out to my parents two days ago and i just got 3 pride flags yesterday and i’m so happy- the only bad thing is that even though my parents accept me they think i’m too young to know my sexuality and they think there’s only two genders :/
Hopefully this will change with time as they get to know the real you instead of their preconceptions about what is possible with gender. The first rationalization can't last forever anyway, they'd have to be pretty thick-headed to be like "You're thirty, you don't know what your sexuality is!"
maybe just one bathroom isn't quite the right answer, but instead of having excessively gendered bathrooms, there's just two with no assigned gender, it's just one has urinals and the other has stalls and you can in whichever you feel comfortable in
this is a good idea. i’ve always thought that making bathrooms/sports teams/etc for amab people and afab people would be better than saying they’re for men/boys and women/girls-then transphobes can’t really complain about trans people making games unfair, but it will (hopefully) alleviate dysphoria that comes from saying it’s for people who are male/female, plus provide a place for non-binary/genderfluid people (as an afab enby, i’d prefer that at least, but i can’t speak for other trans people)
true, at my school there are some unisex bathrooms but they’re all for staff only, probably for that exact reason. i’m nb (i think i said that above so i apologize for repeating myself) so that kinda sucks, but i get why they don’t have unisex bathrooms for students
when i was a kid my mom dragged me to small festival in my city and when i had to use the bathroom the womans room was broken/somebody was already in there, so i had to use the boys room i, a little girl, did my business in a room with some whole adult men and nobody even made eye contact the whole time. nobody cared. we just minded our own. i wish everyone was like that, like i literally don't understand the bathroom panic.
There are worse coping mechanisms. Don't let the peer pressure get to you. We are twerking to allow you to twerk if you feel like twerking. If you don't feel the twerk, don't do the twerk. Apparently, I like typing twerk.
Reminder that all of y'all are valid in your identity and expression and deserve to be happy. And for any trans/enby folks reading this, if you feel your transition isn't going well, caterpillars literally become mush before being a butterfly, so maybe you're just in the mush stage :)
Honestly, I feel like due to how uneducated some of these people come across it kinda makes the points they were trying to make weaker. They are just hurting themselves in their own confusion.
Honestly, instead of having womens and mens bathrooms we should have adults bathrooms and kids bathrooms that they can enter with parents. Makes things much simpler
And what to do about predatory men? (I'm not asking this to be abbrasive, I genuinely liked your solution and am curious about your response. I've gotten this question in a defensive manner before and it sucks)
@@laurabrandao7729 the predators (mainly pedos) would then be separated from children, but in the joint adult bathrooms, there would be other men and women in the bathroom to help a lot of the time, otherwise I'm not sure. Possibly a panic button to alert people outside the facilities of the situation. People these days aren't safe anyway with people claiming to be the opposite gender just to sexually harass the gender in the bathroom they entered, and also for when people are getting harassed or attacked by their own gender when in the same gender bathrooms anyway. by rights there should be ways to alert people of situations like this in all bathrooms whether they are male and female or adult and children facilities.
@@laurabrandao7729 obviously this answer would include any predatory men or women in the current bathroom settings and my suggested ones. But there really should be ways to protect ourselves in bathrooms the way it is. I've never seen an alarm in a womens bathroom in case a guy runs in, this should be implemented
Bringing up PragerU again, it’s.. been a process for me. I FINALLY recently came into myself more, coming out as non-binary to myself, my mother, and, after a lot of turmoil and concern, my father and step-mother. The latter don’t use my pronouns, but I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt and assuming they just don’t remember very often. It wouldn’t be the first time they’ve easily forgotten something important to me. The first time I saw a PragerU ad, it was on one of OT’s videos, right at the start. It was not a good day, and I wanted to get some serotonin from cute lesbians. It was the first time I felt personally targeted by something like this - it’s always there, always affecting us and others, but until that very moment I never thought of it as being against me personally, just against us as a whole. That advertisement changed a lot for me. I didn’t want to watch it but I couldn’t hit the skip button. I’m near tears at this point just thinking about how I felt in that moment. It’s so hard to articulate, but I know everyone here will understand, or at least someone will. This is harder than it should be. We should not have to worry about being insulted and made fun of everywhere we go, even in our comfort spaces, like OT’s channel. It should be a default that everyone is accepting of every gender, sexuality, and identity. It should be a default that “changing your mind” is not seen as a fake attention grab. Everyone should be able to experiment with their own body and heart. These kinds of ads should be illegal. These kinds of people should be charged. This should be against the law. The fact that it’s so INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT to understand how we actually feel, coming from first hand experience, until we’re faced with a personal attack is not okay. And it’s not a dismissal or lack of care in most cases. Hell, I have been part of the LGBT community for years now, but only then did I feel just how horrible it is. It’s just hard to understand and hard to see until you’re in the shoes of the people trying to defend themselves against thief opposers. What has this come to? How do we fix it? How can we help it? How can we help other people understand without making them go through what we have? Romans accepted this. Accepted us. Greeks did too. In fact, supported and encouraged it. When did we become “sinners” for being who we are? When did the LGBT community stop being as clear and normal as having a black car or a red car? When did this world decide we no longer deserve to be human?
Okay this is gonna sound insensitive but the reason is, the Catholic church and old British empire decided to take over the world and wipe out anybody whose studies and opinions didn't match theirs or who refused to change to match theirs, in other words, theirs potentially way more history behind the general old world of LGBT people that no longer exists because one culture decided to be judge jury and executioner over the whole world for a couple decades, and now well nobody really lives who realizes aside from us that the world isn't changing it's always been this way but was erased and forced to bend into a certain shape for the sake of control
It took me a loooooong time to come into my own on this, realizing I wasn't broken or weird for not wanting to sleep with anyone. I tried to force myself to be attracted to my Ex because it was expected of me... It ended horribly and I am still dealing with the emotional scars. But finally understanding what I am, I can say that I am Demisexual, Demiromantic, and DemiGirl.
Same, always hearing things like: 'you just didn't meet the right one' , 'it's just a PHASE' , 'the more you do it the more you will like it' etc etc. Is probably difficult for a lot of aces, aros and demis, but I'm glad there's so much info on this on the Internet now. So I hope other generations won't have this problem in the future. It helps a lot knowing you're not the only one ^^
My family thought i was just a late bloomer. A really, really late bloomer. As in, have yet to date by mid 20's. The problem is everyone who has approached me did so with the intent on having a sexual relationship and i'm just like "nah, and since you said that, i'm just gonna walk far away". I apparently need to be friends for 3+ years before i'd consider dating, but by then, everyone who'd be willing to date me has given up or is unavailable because they had to wait so long. One person said they liked me back, but then wouldn't make time for me or reach out to me for a year so my demi brain says it's a no go and the person is no longer dateable. Haha, i'm going to die alone
11:16 "We can always tell!" Yknow, I don't think they can ever tell Since they accused Jennifer Lopez, Michelle Obama, and more cis women as being trans
Dance music added to all toilets? *YES!*
Even though there were many, many, *many* headache moments making this video, it was still a blast, and I bet we’ll see this subreddit covered again sometime in the future.
Stay safe; know that you’re care for. Much love. 💜
❤️❤️
💜💜
💜💜
Yea
oh my god dance toilets sounds incredible
A kid on my track team tried to insult me by calling me a girl but he doesn’t know how much gender euphoria he gave me
Damn, that backfired for him, huh ?
More power to you then xD
It’s kinda funny when that happens lol, once someone said that ¡ look like ¡ change genders every other day, I’m genderfluid,
“HAHAHAHAHA!! FOOL!! YOU HAVE MADE ME AN ALL POWERFUL GODDESS!!!”
@@seafishluvrr6604 same
Holy hell I get you, my family already tries to tease me by saying I look like a boy but that juts gives me more bigender energy.
" you'll never be a real man
Yeah she's Samantha lux"
WHEN I TELL YOU I DIED
Transphobe: "You'll never be a [insert gender the trans person isn't here]!"
Trans person: "I'm [the gender the trans person is.] It is possible to pass, you know."
Transphobe: INCONCIEVABLE
I asked my mother for a binder, and she said yes! * happy enby noises*
add on 3 years later: i'm a dude now lmao
Good for you
That’s so amazing! I’m so happy for you ♥️
Yay! I’m happy for you
Hope it holds your school papers well
Ayy good for you!
Just an interesting addition: Susanna Saltzer was voted as first female mayor when only men could vote.
Maybe they wanted to take the joke further and be like "yep.... This is why we don't trust women to vote or be in any sort of power"? I mean I hope it's because they wanted to see if she could do well
I can imagine the look on the jokers who put here on the ballot, pecking *priceless*
Simps.
@SpaceBeezArt i’m pretty sure that was a joke? Since it was only men who were able to vote, and Susanna was voted, they’re simps? Idk man
*SUS*anna
Holy shit. It just occurred to me that there are people out there who believe “transwomen are women” is supposed to be an insult. Shhhhh. Don’t nobody tell them now.
Nobody tell em shhhhhhhh nobody... *shhhhhhh*
Honestly, I got mixed up before someone explained it to me. I thought trans men were men who were trans and vice versa. I didn’t realize that the gender after the word trans referred to the gender that they are now instead of what they had been assigned to at birth.
Transphobia had been ingrained into me when I was a kid, as most kids were taught. I made a transphobic comment once when I was young and I feel so bad and ashamed about it. I felt bad about it then, too, after my sister explained why there was a “guy” in the girl’s bathroom. What I wouldn’t give to take it all back.
@@lilybirdflowergum8683 thanks for sharing that story. It’s good of you to learn. 👍
@@lilybirdflowergum8683Keep learning! Much love.
how DARE this sub be not called AccidentALLY
Edit: too many people liked this, too much anxiety for me. I friggin love you all and you can find me right under the 12 ancient blankets of dysphoric transylvania
Wow I love that
Good lord.
I actually laughed at that it was so bad.
Exactly
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
Someone needs to tell the mods of the subreddit
over the past ten years, i have went from:
-not understanding the lgbt+ community.
-not understanding the lgbt+ community, but accepting those who are part of it.
-not understanding the lgbt+ community, but supporting those who are part of it.
-not understanding the lgbt+ community, but wanting to learn more about it.
-not understanding the lgbt+ community, but learning more about it.
-understanding and supporting the lgbt+ community.
-understanding and supporting the lgbt+ community, and thinking that i might be gay.
i still do have a lot to learn, but i am more than happy to continue to learn.
ay nice! mine looked more like:
-not knowing about the lgbtq+ community (when i was like six or seven lol)
-not understanding it but not having a problem with it
-understanding the sexualities that get representation (gay/lesbian, bi, that’s about it) and accepting it
-finding out about being trans and not understanding but accepting it
-finding out about being ace and accepting it
-questioning being ace and understanding/accepting everything
-going through a series of different aspec labels (graysexual, demisexual, etc) before landing on asexual
-supporting the lgbtq+ community as a whole
-starting to seek out learning more about the lgbtq+ community
-questioning my gender and thinking i’m demigirl, non-binary, genderfluid, fluidflux, back to non-binary, and then settling on maleflux (a label i don’t really like since i’m hardly ever male, so ill use non-binary most of the time tbh)
-gay supreme (“gay” being used as a blanket term for “not allocishet”)
woah that was long lol, sorry 😅
Hey, that's wonderful! You made the effort to be more understanding towards the LGBTQ+ community, and that's really praiseworthy of you 🤗
@@ashelliot2313 bars to you and rip to your fingers
I speedran this during the pandemic
“What’s your gender?”
“Yes.”
“No, what’s in your pants?”
“Legs.”
flesh
curly/bussy/hair
@@beidoumimujer7783 NOO
Yes
In my case:
What's your gender?
"No"
What's in your pants?
"I don't wear pants bitch, I wear leggings, and I suffer because I don't have pockets most of the time"
People sometimes call me a virgin who will never get a girl.
Thanks guys for being so supportive! I didn't know y'all knew I was aro/ace though...
lmao wow that is a slow burn right there
We support you homie
You’ll never get a girl >:)))) (ur valid!)
Eeeeey, fellow aro/ace!
Them: "You're never gonna have a relationship, you're just gonna have a bunch of friends!"
You: 😎
It occurred to me recently that when people complain about they/them pronouns being "confusing" what they're really saying is "my language comprehension ability is substandard"
Stfu
🌼 yes! Their grade 3 reading comprehension is really showing
Yes, because anyone with a brain can understand that singular them has always been a thing
@@laurainathunderstorm I hope you're being genuine, but I literally had to teach a Mexican-American over two decades older than me and form whom Spanish is supposed to be an equal as their first-language alongside English, the grammatical use of the Spanish singular gender-neutral pronoun "Usted". Which conjugates the same as "El" ('he')/"Ella" ('she'), and which I cited his own comments wherein he conjugated verbs in third-person singular (El/Ella/Usted) having dropped the explicit pronoun due to referential context. ("Ella es mi hermana. Es una actriz y toca la guitarra." --> "She is my sister. (She) is an actress and plays guitar." I didn't repeat "Ella" because, like, I'm talking about the same person.)
So, like, there are people whose literal grammar has a specific singular-they equivalent that they use frequently. A specific singular-they equivalent which is the default grammatical form called upon when someone is doing something. And yet they deny that such a word exists even as they use the word in their denial.
@@georgalliey2616 aww can’t take a factual insult? Woe is you
Mom: if i dont know what gender they are what to do i call them?
Me: YOU JUST DID
That's the thing.
They/them is taught in literary classes as "what you use to refer to someone before you know what gender they are" so transphobes just assume that "oh they look like a girl so i can't use they/them anymore now that i know what gender that person is!" like no, honey. that's NOT how that works. People CAN choose to remain textually gender ambiguous if they want to.
@@OriginalCreatorSama Exactly. In a book, if you are describing a character but haven't said their gender yet you refer to them as they. 'They have long golden locks of blond hair.' Etc. Buuuuut I kind of get the feeling that these people don't pick up books...or at least not to read them.
@@OriginalCreatorSama i wish we had this in Spanish, everything would be so easier-
@@OriginalCreatorSama yeah, the 2 defenitions of they according to the dictionary:
1. Used to refer to a group of people
2. Used to refer to someone of unkown gender
• used to refer to someone whose gender is not within the binary of male and female
Shows how transphobes never actually research anything.
@@OriginalCreatorSama I'm so lucky, my language doesn't have any gendered pronouns
“Stop saying you like girls. Men won’t like you that way” oh no! It’s almost like thats 😳🤭
The point was right there, yet you still missed it
....Yeah, that's the point.
And after all that, that sentence is a lie anyway because goddammit it doesn't work. They still won't leave us alone. 😫
420th like!
This deserves 1K+
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I agree with this reply above me ^
If people are worried about getting peeped on in the bathroom, give us actual stalls with walls that go all the way to the ceiling and floor and the door all the way to the floor. Stop giving us crappy stalls ;-;
I'll vote for you
Wait you guy don't have that here in Europe where I live we have separate room with doors for public bathrooms
@@whutcat682 in my country, you're lucky if the stalls have functioning doors, or doors at all, or even functioning bathrooms
@@whutcat682 why doesn't every place ever do that it just seems so right 😭
@@whutcat682 but yeah here in the U.S. we have stalls that are like a foot off the ground and extend to six feet off the ground with little pole legs and a door with a matching height. Might be hard to visualize but
Transphobe: *Trans women aren’t men and trans men aren’t women >:(*
Literally every trans person ever: ...... That’s kinda the point...
As a trans dude I can confirm that is very much so the point ~Kai
My dad says this and wonders why I'm not provoked by "transphobia" of his
Them: You're obviously never going to get laid
Me, ace(ish): yeah, that's the idea buddy
Them: oh so you're just an incel lol
Me: i mean take out the involuntary and uhhh yeah?
@@remusteahan3521 a volcel lol
Ace pog
In regards to the ace(ish), have you ever considered Demisexual? It’s essentially the feeling half way between Asexual (that’s what the Demi means)
@@justapuffin7303
yes, in fact. demisexual was my first guess, actually. it's somewhere between that and reciprosexual, but they're both on the Ace spectrum, so it's whatever
Ppl: "Gender Neutral Bathrooms Are Bad!!!"
Me: Y'know the bathroom in your house is gender neutral right...?
True
Also the family bathroom is also gender neutral?
I literally don’t get it, it’s just a toilet, who cares?
@@alyssamay9237 Cuz people think peeing and pooping are apparently inherently sexual apparently.
Lol
the phrase "butt funtime" may be more censor-friendly but somehow it sounds so much more obscene
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly
and it cant be switched
it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says
saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@@LavaCreeperPeople yes biological sex is a thing that exists. but guess what, gender is made up. the words man and woman are made up. that men should have short hair and women should have long hair is made up. the social constructs surrounding gender identity are all made up. so why not just call people what they want to be called and leave them alone.
@@LavaCreeperPeople also this was a weird place to leave this comment. why under the "butt funtime person"?
@@LavaCreeperPeople not true! Some people are born with other chromosomes ♡
@@LavaCreeperPeople what does this have to do with butt funtime
Privilege is not a benefit you get for being something, it is a lack of a struggle you get for not being something
As someone who’s forced into a wheelchair to avoid stress on my heart in the Hospital, it’s a privilege to walk. Thank you for your time 😍
I'm so sorry, I accidentally unliked your comment
We take our legs for granted 😔
@@5Demona5 yep, sometimes it’s hard not to take things for granite (intentional)
My mom used to be in a wheelchair for YEARS. I would push her around a lot, so I am VERY aware of just how much of a priviledge it is to walk.
Crowds are honestly one of THE worst things, just....eugh. Bad enough when you're walking but when you have a wheelchair? Then it's EXTRA slow. You're going to bump into people. etc.
I'm glad my Mom can walk now, though limited and still has issues standing due to pain.
Still...I miss pushing her in her wheelchair and playing chicken with the walls in hallway outside our apartment. That was fun.
I understand how you feel my privilege to walk properly has been taken away for the majority of my life more recently wwe have been trying to fix it I hd to be in a wheelchair for a couple months with a metal plate in my hip and now I have to wear an immobilizing brace for my knee we just have to wait to do the other knee and maybe takr the plate out.
I love the saying "facts over feelings" because of the immense amount of facts that support gender identities, and those facts are more important than some small minded persons opinion on how other people's lives work
So true! Science shows that people with gender dysphoria can be treated by letting them transition, so in this case a transphobic person’s feelings mean nothing. It’s perfect
@@MurchescoBucket yeah, Im going to use a story of mine. I have started to transition socially (not able to medically but I do wish to) and my dysphoria has been better, I've been not wanting to k*** myself as much, and I actually view myself as a demi-boy (like physically)
@@KatKitty_ kudos to you! That’s awesome
lmao transphobia is ✨dumb
@@AceofSpades4004 you are right, that is a very stupid word!
r/AccidentalAllies is the subreddit embodiment of "Congratulations, you played yaself"
Tried so hard, and got so far...
"Let's say this person had good intentions." Ot, the world needs more people like you!
Bigot on TikTok: period products should be taxed because everything else is taxed, what do you want next? Bread and milk to be tax-free???!
Me: yep. exactly.
I don’t have the full context, but I think that this is just capitalism- food is objectively more necessary- you need it to live; modern society has, admittedly with reason, made it unacceptable to release blood everywhere, but you won’t, like, die- you might look it, because of all the blood, but it’s not going to kill you?
There are definitely stores where food is tax-free. I remember my mom talking about it when I was younger.
@@runeanonymous9760 girl... we are not about to fucking bleed everywhere because you deem it unessicary to wear tampons or whatever, like what even is your point??? you want us to bleed on everything???
@@runeanonymous9760 living is so much more than avoiding things that kill you, it's about quality of life too
it's more about how there are options. You don't need to use a tampon, you could use a pad, a cup, or reusable pads which you could actually make yourself or buy, either way. It's similar to why diapers are taxed. not because babies should be pooping everywhere, but because disposable diapers are an option you chose for convenience over cloth diapers that you can wash.
For that matter, clothing is taxed even though it is illegal to run around naked.
As someone who's been sexually assaulted and know friends, including guys, who have been sexually assulted, I think that bathrooms should be merged, but made more secure. I'm not going into a merged bathroom with a foot or two of length under the door, and crappy cardboard-ish wood material for the walls and doors. Everyone deserves a safe place to do their business, and people shouldn't have to choose between two options that stress them out all on the name of conforming to society. At first, I was against merging bathrooms in general... but then realized my problem wasn't really with the merging, but rather the usually crappy design of most public bathrooms I've personally encountered.
yeah, the problem was directed in the wrong area, that's why education on these ideas is so important
Oh my god I’m so sorry for you
Wait, how would that work? 🤔 I can't picture a more secure merged bathroom for some reason... I immediately envisioned security guards....... 😅
North American public bathrooms sound so awful compared to what I’m used to in Europe. I’m from Norway, and most bathrooms don’t have enough of a gap underneath the dividers to crawl in, and _none_ that I’ve been to have had a gap large enough to do so without laying completely flat on the floor (ew; also, the ones that had such a large gaps were in school buildings that no longer exist, or have been completely gutted and turned into apartments), and the doors are just as tall as the dividers and close in such a way that they don’t have any gaps on the sides.
@@RosheenQuynhStalls that actually touch the ceilings and walls with no gaps, for instance. Or locks that properly lock a stall.
"Only god is genderless."
me: _ITS TOUGH TO BE A GOD_
How can you be non binary and lesbian? they are mutually exclusive
@@peenyyt4921 bruh non binary is fake, we live in a simulation.
Simulations are made of binary.
Case closed
@@GutsVod you cant actually be serious rn..........
@@dooda9566 yeah I can't
I'm not
@@GutsVod Oh ok have a nice day lmao
Love how they forgot that unisex bathrooms have existed for a *loooooooooong* time
Even my childhood park had one
Also literally every home, flat, dorm, bungalow, mansion etc etc
PORDAPOTY
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly
and it cant be switched
it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says
saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@Melon Sauce to add, a lot of people are born with more than two sex chromosomes. There are people who have xxy or xyy that don't even notice for a long time.
@@LavaCreeperPeople
dude just wrote such a long comment only to be absolutely shredded by facts and logic below
I remember when I made a rainbow shirt on animal crossing that said “I’m not gay”... guess who was wrong and actually needed time to evaluate their sexuality and gender identity.
*quickly erases the "I'm not"*
"There, now it's perfect!"
@@charliefinnmichael4770 Neptunic? Your a mermaid?
Ha-ha.. meanwhile here i am asexual and nonbonary and it totally makes sense
Ironic
@@charliefinnmichael4770 please tell me what Neptunic is 😳
The train guy was just so wholesome
the trains man is good for training more trains people so more trains
I like trains
* crash *
Asdf fan anyone?
My favorites are when someone won't accept how well someone passes so they tell themselves the person is transitioning the other way
My brain freezed. I don't get it, obviouslly someone is going to be more beautiful in their own skin
What is transitioning the other way?
@@laurabrandao7729 If a person looks like a man, and a listener is told they are trans (female to male), they refuse to believe that they are that good at “acting like a man” so they assume that this man is identifying as female (male to female), since (by their logic) a person ‘cannot possibly be that good at doing what they want to do and being what they want to be’.
@@stingraystray_ing "Still don't get it. Too much a stre-" Was writing that when I got it. Still a stretch. It's literally easier to at least accept it.
Geez, talk about denial. I'm impressed at how much a person can be willing to bend logic to be obnoxious
I think those are just people who dont know much about trans people and gets confused more than anything. They just want to give their opinion, dont dig any deeper than a surface, see trans and thats enought to get them to react. I dont think there is many people who would be told "this person wants to be called a woman, they were born with a willy and now are a girl" and go to a conclusion that they must be female to male transition.
Someone commented “Why are people so desperate to get unisex bathrooms?” Since they obviously didn’t support trans/non-binary folks, I used an argument that he might actually listen to: “Because some of us have children of the opposite gender and we would like to use the restroom without getting nasty looks.” Which has happened to me as a WOMAN with my FOUR YEAR OLD son. Not supporting one group of people has the potential of inconveniencing or even harming other groups.
Thats tru...
I work at a restaurant and the amount of times parents ask me to check on their children in the bathroom really affirms this is a necessity
My uncle is a trans man and, two stories, one he's been told the "You'll never be a woman!" thing, and once he was at a convention for trans dudes in Virginia and a woman saw all these well-dressed short guys and asked him "Is this a Christian boys' conference?" 😂😂
did he say yes????
Omgh
Me a formal transguy: Hi I'm here for the ummm Christian Boys Conference
THE SECOND ONE LMAO
I feel like a lot of people take being "privileged" as being an inherently bad thing to feel guilty about. Like, no, you shouldn't feel guilty about things that are beyond your control even if it comes from a place of privilege. All we want is for less privileged people to be taken into consideration and treated with respect, that's all we're fucking saying.
thank you for clarifying this /gen, personally we're privileged because we are white, but we never understood why people said some of the things they do in reference to it, we cant think of any examples but it always made us think 'how do we stop doing that' when it's just something that happens because we're not a person of color (ps. the reason we didnt understand until you clarified was likely due to our autism)
This!
Lots of people have a persecution complex-they want pity on one form or another, though many yearn for it anyway. I think it relates to the concept many Christian’s have of god giving people stuff. It’s helpful to think of privilege or as an extra gift, but as the privilege of not having certain obstacles.
I have lots of privilege in my life. I still need to check myself. If it weren’t for people educating me throughout my life, I’d probably have that incorrect perception still
Exactly this. Saying "you're privileged to be able to walk up stairs, some people use wheelchairs" isn't demanding you feel guilty for having working legs, it's reminding you to build ramps. (And to be patient with/help out folks in wheelchairs in the meantime.)
My Acesexual Friend In The Hall Told Me As A Joke "Imagine Being Allo"
And I Miss Heard Him And Casually Said "Yea Fuck Owls"
aCeSeXuAl/j
well, you’re a very supportive friend
PFTTT-
Poor owls :(
I'm genderfluid and afab, so when I made dating profile and someone said "I will always be a man" on a masculine day, I felt so validated. Like, I still blocked them, but I said "hey thanks" first!!
(I'm joking) I imagine the wardrobe of clothes you have is like a whole other separate room with one side dedicated to your feminine day and the other dedicated to your masculine day.
@@kingcyclops4079 Ngl, that would be amazing lol.
Once a woman tried her best to be transphobic to me and I’m just a plain old cis woman 😂 it’s funny but it’s also hella sad that a completely random stranger felt the need to be transphobic to a cis woman just bc she “looked” like a trans person to her.
@@MYNAMEISJOHNMUSTARD Reminds me of another story. Some restaraunt place had a waiter stop a cis woman on the way to the bathroom because "they didn't want a person who used to be a man" in their women's bathroom-
Eyyyyyyyy another fellow genderfluid person!!!!!
Yeah generally I don't really give a shit about passing either way but occasionally when I'm out and about someone will call me "sir" and it'll make my entire day hehe
This literally just happened with me. I mentioned I was transgender, and someone called me a man in an attempt to misgender me deliberately, saying I couldn't "pass". What they didn't know was that I'm genderfluid, and I literally cannot be misgendered either way 🙃. So I'd like to consider the hate as a compliment for being a passable man AND woman!
Now that's a "pro gamer move" 👍😏
1) Good for you!
2) My firstborn is non-binary, and named themself Phoenix!
3) Good day to you, dear person!
@@missnaomi613 Aw, thank you!!😊💖
@@missnaomi613 Phoenix is such a cool name!
We are too powerful, their gendered hands cannot hurt us.
"those who identify as mothers"
Thank you! I always get offended on mother's day because I don't have kids, but I helped raise my brothers to a degree that I'm called a 'second mom' as a joke, but often get overlooked on mother's day, when it would actually be nice to be appreciated for this role I didn't choose myself but put everything into regardless.
My dorm in college was gender-inclusive, and we had signs on our bathrooms that could be changed depending on who you were comfortable being in the restroom with. Turn it to W for women, M for men, E for everyone or reversed E for alone. Worked pretty well, nobody every complained. Literally just a slightly more restrictive version of a dry-erase board.
That sounds absolutely amazing. I have really bad bathroom anxiety around others, so being able to designate that i would rather be alone is nice.
your PFP is kinda weirdchamp NGL but good on you
@Axl Dave E is for everyone... we're all people
But couldn’t some ass just come by and change it to alone and spend like 2 hours in there?
@Axl DaveYou're really unconvincing bait. Try your clown routine somewhere where people are more ignorant and I'm sure it'll work better. Here, it's just really funny. The way you talk is stilted and full of dog whistles.
Nonononononono no loud music in bathrooms. They're often the quietest places i can find when having a panic attack
Yes, it's a good place to rush for when sounds get too much (I forgot the word for that)!!
@@nifelicio7752 its called sensory overload, when something (like a sound or light or smell) gets too much to handle
That is why I think they should maybe make quiet rooms. So that no one can awkwardly hear the others in the bathroom, but those who need it can find a nice quiet place to relax.
Yeah same response from otherwise nerodiverse.
@@nifelicio7752 At functioning well it's called sensory diet, at not working at sensory overload, and at disabling it's a sensory attack. I need to know these things to function and to measure what I can handle and when I need to get out of places.
_One time someone told me that I could never be a female because I was wearing masculine clothing and all I said was "Oh! Thank you?" I truly don't mind what gender I am defined as_
But the pokets is a plus, huh?
@@BUnitMN-T You mean pockets?
Oh that's cool!
Plus who cares about the clothing like seriously... 😂 You dress as you want!
@@psyche_the_cat Exactly!!
"You'll never be a real man!" Well yeah, that's the point of being a trans _woman._
They literally can’t understand that when you use the words “woman” and “man,” it’s not about genitals. And yes, Abrahamic religions are largely to blame for this utter lack of comprehension.
That's what I'm saying!!
I’m very upset the name of the subreddit is not “AccidentAlly” as a play on words between Accidentally and Ally
it was probably already taken
I'm a sucker for wordplay, I love this
accidentallally. im just gonna start saying this instead of accidentally bc anytime you can be extra, be it :D
but...it is???
This gives the vibes of, “YOU TRY SO HARD, AND GET SO FAAAAAR. IN THE END, IT DOESN’T EVEN MAAAAATTER”
OMG LMFAOO
LP fan as well?
I am a transgirl, and I came out to my bf when we were dating, and he didn't bat an eye and whispered in my ear... "It doesn't matter babe, I may not be gender fluid, but I can leave fluid in any gender" hilarious as hell
Edit: I realize that umm, I am on my straight RUclips account.
this might be stupid question but is it transphobic or something to broke up with someone because they are trans??? i mean i think it's normal for (example:) heterosexual male to not want to be with trans man who came out while dating him (i'm talking about friendly broke up where you still try to be friends after breaking up) but i saw people calling it very transphobic ??? you can't just change your sexuality because your gf is actually your bf?? i feel like it's the same situation if you were heterosexual male who dated a girl and discovered [s]he is actually a crossdresser so you broke up with him.... sorry if it sounds weird, english is not my first language and i'm not sure how to explain it
@@sakiyoshida1788 I don't think it's transphobic if you realize you are not compatible with your partner.
@@sakiyoshida1788 the thing is, when I am in man mode, I am nothing like when I m being me, and so when I am doing my job in the army my bf doesn't like me much, but when I get home clean up and get comfy my whole attitude changes as I get out of work mode, and then my bf likes me a whole lot lol. The point I am getting at is transitioning changes how you broadcast your personality as you get the chance to stop pretending to be something your not.
@@sakiyoshida1788 As long as the reason isn't related to them being trans it's not transphobic
I mean being trans doesn't mean you can't be an asshole or abusive
@@want-diversecontent3887 it's not transphobic even if it IS related to being trans... if I was gay and my gf came out, me breaking up w her would be bc I wouldn't be into girls
As someone who's trans (MTF) and has good friends who support me and defend me when I get transphobia'd, I can say with 100% certainty: having good friends can honestly save your life. It's a privilege that I will never stop being grateful for that. I have "friends" that are quite transphobic, so I don't count them as friends.
You’ll never be a man and you never were a man!
Lol
5:05 this is basically like saying “Typically people are right handed and sometimes they are left handed.”
Thanks for stating the obvious lmao
there is only xx and xy anything else is anamoly
and it cant be switched
it's not discrimatory or an opinion, thats a highly known and agreen on biological known hard unchangeable fact of life and mammals by over 99.99+% of the population and scientists, no matter what poor barely supported research gender studies or twittcrap user or SJW or reddit fanboy says
saying otherwise is intellectphobic
@@LavaCreeperPeople as someone who is studying biology XX and XY chromosomes aren’t the only thing that influence sex. If it was then there wouldn’t be men with XX chromosomes or women with XY chromosomes. It can be something that people don’t realise unless they get their chromosomes tested. But if we are talking about trans people then there are a lot more processes that go on during the foetus’s development that influence if a child will be trans. For example the Neurons in the brain can form brain signals that are analogous to that of their opposite sex which can cause gender dysphoria. Sometimes there is a hormone imbalance (eg higher testosterone in females or more oestrogen in males) whilst they’re developing that can change how someone sees their own body.
There are many more ways biology supports the existence of transgender people. A lot of it is really interesting if you’re willing to research it
@@LavaCreeperPeople I get you are trying to pull a “ha ha got ya!” moment but if you want to bring science into the equation, at least be updated on the current understanding of what you’re spitting.
@@LavaCreeperPeople Red hair is an anomaly, but we don't only group people as brunettes or blondes. Blue eyes are an anomaly, actually, no, unlike intersex people, it's actually a genetic defect, and yet we recognize their existence and don't try to exclude them.
Intellectphobic is an interesting choice of wordage, seeing as you are also excluding the fact of XY cis women, and XX cis men. Or people born with differing sex identifiers. (And yes, sex is identified as more than your dick or vulva, hon.)
And if you were an actual professional, you might actually know that sex is widely known in the scientific field to actually be a spectrum, and that the binary model was created based off of two peaks of a graph, basically cutting off 90% of the variations and saying "this'll do".
Lastly, we do not actually know how many people are intersex. Karyotyping is very expensive, and often discouraged from students in the field to do on themselves, as the shock of finding out they actually don't conform to what they believed is known to be a bit much and not worth the emotional stress and price, as it would, likely impede on school abilities as well.
And finally. Most people have brown eyes. Most people have brown hair. However, those are things we can see. Many people only find out their infertile after they have tests done, for example, despite being infertile from birth.
Now, do tell me, have you been karyotyped? Because claiming to know your chromosomes, definitively, even in vague wording, is a bit disingenuous, not to mention claiming to know other people's, without the paperwork to prove that said person is in fact these specific chromosomes.
So, unless you have genuine proof to show you not only know your own chromosomes, but also that you somehow have magically changed the mind of the general scientific consensus that backs up the mere fact that sex is a spectrum, then please do not try to claim I'm, what was it, "intellectphobic", for correcting your misinformation that you are spreading without any care for the impact it will have on others and how it could damage people's lives and perspectives. Information is very valuable, but if information was money, you would be handing out forgeries, kind stranger, so please, if you can prove me wrong, give me scientific studies and non-biased studies as well as all from non-biased sources, preferably more official like the governmental sites, as those tend to be more reliable. Officiality is key. I'll await said sources with great patience. :)
@@kiralonely and the funny thing is that we have known that XX and XY aren’t the only identifiers of sex since I think 2016 or maybe a bit earlier and nobody has been taught the up to date theory
I love this! The best accidental ally there is has to be when someone doesn't say they are mtf or ftm trans and just say "trans" and people accidentally use their preferred gender. i.e a trans woman gets told "They'll always be a woman no matter what" and cracks up becaus eit is true!! :)
I once had someone tell me that my gender didn't exist I'm aromatic it was very validating even though they were trying to be transphobic
I this that transphobes (wrongly) believe all trans people must pass poorly. I remember having a debate with my grandmother about tans people and one of her arguments against them existing was that they are just making themselves upset over wanting to be something they can't achieve... To her androgynous looking granddaughter (?) who obviously could look less like a girl with a haircut
@Foliage yeah I'm both but my keyboard sometimes autocorrects it
It's become a running joke/validation thing my sister and I do. She randomly texts me that I'll never be a woman and I randomly text her she'll never be a man. Cracks us up so much.
This sub can be summed up by the phrase “face first into the point and you still missed it”. Also please do this again it was hilarious
i love how almost all of them are confused on the "trans woman" and "trans men" thing lol
Trans men is a male who transitioned from being a female? cause like im still confused asf
@@4CHAMUKA trans men is female to male transition
@@TheAlicePerson Your pfp is so cute! 😍🤩
@@asherikamichaela8425 thx so much it's a drawing I made
@@TheAlicePerson I wish I could draw 😆
Here's a story:
my BF: When i met you i thought you were cis and straight
Me: We met at pride
BF: I thought you were just an ally
Me: It was a trans group.
BF: Maybe you were there for a friend?
Me: IT WAS A HANGOUT FOR TRANS GAY MEN.
BF: M-Maybe you were taken?
Me: I ASKED YOU OUT THREE TIMES AND YOU THOUGHT I WAS KIDDING
All the signs were there i-💀🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
My guy is taking obviousness to a whole new level.
BAHA-
Oh god 😂
I guess he’s Adrian Agreste-
Idk how it happened exactly but my sister is like, accidentally super supportive of enbies and gender non comforming people. Like, she keeps making jokes about how her stuffies "don't have genders, Martin identifies as Martin, Gerald is a girl", and the fact that my dad isn't that mature even though my sister is *making jokes,* is honestly just kinda sad. (I think I'm going to die if he says "woke nonsense" one more time. It's so stupid I can't-)
Well at lest you have maybe your sister sport
while this may not be the same thing, my 5 year old brother once named one of my stuffed animals, and he said it's name is daisy, but referred to it with he/him pronouns and.. idk i just love it. i kept his name too lmao, i'm never changing it
“martin identifies as martin” PLEASE I CAN’T THAT’S AMAZING
Fun fact: In Japan in some bathrooms, they’ll play nature sounds in the stall as soon as you go in to cover the noise of you doing your business!! 👌😌
This is why Japan is better than America
*NATURE NOISES INTENSIFY*
Lmfao ben shapiro saying that he is a meaningless cluster of cells is something he's actually right about.
All humans are born meaningless clusters of cells. It is on the way through life that we give ourselves a meaning.
@@baofleurence7650 i love when people take shitposts and turn them into profound quotes
@@kgamesnyc When did I write that ? I don't remember writing this.
My kid asked me “If a man has surgery and becomes a woman, will she like men or women?”. Her and her friends are super supportive and open minded, but they had this whole debate, because they are still learning😂 And yes, I explained to her that a man does not become a woman, she always was a woman.
Cuuuuuttteeee💖💖💖💖👍👍
*dear straight people voice* gender and sexuality......two different things
(it’s up to them who they like)
Both
Reminds me when my dad thought (and probably still does) when after transgender people go through surgery, they'll be attracted toward the opposite gender.. I tried to tell him how it doesn't work that way for all trans people. Some may be attracted to the same gender, opposite, or multiple/all (whether that be queer-platonic, romantic, or so on). Although, I couldn't specifically say this to him due to him being trans/enby/bi-phobic (I wanted to avoid his 2-5 hour "lecture" that he does whenever someone has a disagreement with him). In his mind, being cishet is the default and that anything other than that is a sin (it makes me ill having to be in a heteronormative household; and he knows I'm gay too -_-)
It’s so funny to me seeing accidental allies cause it’s like watching a kid understand that multiplication is an advanced form of addition
They act like family bathrooms dont exist...
"A bathroom that all genders can go in? Dispicable! We must remove this at once!"
Family bathrooms: **Nervous sweating**
What is a family bathroom, and where does it exist?
LMAOO IKR??💀
@@Alex_Vir we live in the cities~ 😩
@@Alex_Vir oh well im not from america and idk if yall have it but usually, we would have a womens bathroom, a mens bathroom and a family/ neutral bathroom in malls. Its usually used for, lets say, you have a son but you are female, its fine to go to a female bathroom stall with your son but if you feel too uncomfortable, the family bathroom is there.
@@RusticRito I'm from germany, where I (as far as I can remember) never saw one.
i'm not out to my brother, today he told me he doesnt have a sister anymore because he just generally dissapointed with me. did warm my enby heart a lil
Random paleo fact that no one asked for (again): a new species of dinosaur has recently been discovered and when i say recently i mean literally 3 days ago. It is in the hadrosaurid family, and belong to the parasaurolophini tribe, the same tribe as the famous parasaurolophus and its name is Tlatolophus galorum
Dino lover here, this is FANTASTIC news
Wonderful, the more dinosaurs the merrier, the more jurassic Park exhibits, the merrier
Waw thanks for the random fact
cool
thank you for this.
“Well can your _science_ explain how it rains?”
“....YES! YES IT CAN!!!”
Omg! This is the perfect quote to use on this video
@@laurainathunderstorm It’s exactly what they all reminded me of-
😲🙂🙂😀😃😄😁😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 HELL YE ATLA FOR LIFE
Thats a mood and I get it
There's this coffee shop near my old school where the bathrooms all say "whatever, just wash your hands" And it's honestly awesome
I really need to know if this was supposed to read "*just* wash your hands", or is there some notoriously unhygienic Judy frequenting this coffee shop, to the point that they made a sign just for her?? 😆
@@shilohstuart3841 thank you, I hadn't realized I made that mistake😆
My tomboy straight sis: "Lesbian masculine women feel like they are men, and feminine gay guys, women"
Me: 🙄 *Intense sigh
maybe she's trying to out herself subconsciously ;D (?
@@dreamafterthoughts Well, I am the kind of person that knows that idependently how you dress or act, that does not really means that you are LGBT or not.
Like me: I look and act stereotypically masculine, althought I am openly gay.
She acting and dressing in a masculine way do not really means she is a lesbian.
Not because I'm guessing, but, because she has stated several times she is heterosexual, and she has been in love with some guys.
But, the thing I find stupid is that she puts X sexuality or gender to other people, based on dumb stereotypes, but she gets angry when other people think she is gay.
@@nadie1868 i was trying to make a stupid joke but you're absolutely right :D stereotypes don't define us... she just fails to see the irony between saying that and then being angry when it's said back
As a fellow strait tomboy I feel the need to ask....what?
@@nadie1868 Tbf, there's something to be said for the phrase "the lady doth protest too much, methinks." Whether that's the case for your sis, I don't know, but her attitude does make me wonder.
Btw, I used to think was straight too, in all my tomboy girl-next-door glory. 😄 Now I'm pan and considering the nature of gender fluidity.
I don’t know if someone already said this, but my wife made a point about the Tigers. “There’s also Siberian Tigers that are naturally white, without being albino or leucistic. That’s just the color they are, and all white Tigers are still Tigers”.
I'm a trans man and there is a special kind of joy when a transphobe confuses what type of trans person you are. I had someone say to me, "You'll never be a girl!" Lmao, I responded with, "You're absolutely correct, thank you so much for supporting my trans male identity." Lmao they blocked me.
king behavior
I'm not trans but I dress fairly androgynously at times, so people tend to confuse what my actual gender is (I'm a dude). And there is this woman who sees me all the time and refers to me with she pronouns when ever I try to correct her she goes like " no, 🙂" but it's in such a nice way I can't tell if she is trying to insult me or support me lol. Straight cis folks are confusing lol
6:43 Right here, this gets better when you remember that in 1887 women still didn't have the right to vote. So that 60% of the vote ALL came from men :)
Regular, common men deliberately voting for a woman in that time period is really wholesome to me and must have been a really slap in the face to that political group XD
:D (i dunno why I commented on a 3 year old comment)
When he sang "When you try so hard but you can't succeed"
my soul was lifted from hell how -
Raj talking about trains reminds me a lot of when I read a story where the OP said "I'm ambidextrous" and the guy he was talking to said "that's cool bro, love who you love"
I hope I can find that Tweet (or whatever it was) again.
I love it when transphobes confuses “trans man” and “trans woman”😂
Omni-Man: Why would someone who identifies as a woman call themselves a trans “man”?! THINK TRANSPHOBES, THINK
Edit: nothing against anyone who genuinely mixes them up👍
I would just like to say that not all who confuse the terms are transphobic... coming from someone who still get the terms mixed up.
Took me a long time to actually work out which was which. All thanks to Eliot Page.
Omni is short for Omnisexual so I was completely confused on how that makes someone transphobic and had to reread that like 20 times to realize 😂
@@ISeeYouJeffery Actually, omni just means "all". Just look at omnipotent or omnidirectional.
Yes but in my experience it is most often short for Omnisexual, that is why I initially thought it meant that, but that also is why I said "to realize" to say that I eventually realized that it meant omni as in all and not the sexuality, I'm sorry I should have made what I meant more obvious to avoid any confusion. That's my bad.
Not Transphobe but my brain runs slow and backwards and processes things weirdly and I only recently learned the difference and used to get it confused myself
A week ago, my 6th period class found out I was transmale ( ftm) and they kept calling me "it" and "they" as an insult, thing is my pronouns are he/him/they/them/it so they where accidentally being allies lmao
That's a lot of prounous. You're making it really hard to misgender you, you know that ?
@@baofleurence7650 gow to not get misgendered: USE EVERY PROUNONS HEHE WHAT ARE THE TERFS GONNA DO NOW????? MOJAHAHAHAAH
@@baofleurence7650That’s a good thing then.
Ha! That's always funny to see them trying and failing
@@JennaTheFox277 it was lol, but omg I totally forgot about this lol
Summary of this entire subreddit: "It hurt itself in its confusion!"
This is what I was saying to my teenager the whole time were watching this!
Have a good day, dear person!
This subreddit is the personification of "It hurt itself in its confusion!" from Pokemon
* pansexual non-binary twerking *
Same
( *_aggressive closeted pan twerking_* )
Yaaasss
OH MY GOD NOT HERE TOO
i fuckin missed something obviously i have no clue whats happening but-
*panromantic transgender twerking*
I love how, when people go to ‘misgender’ you, but instead say the correct gender
For example, in that comic where the dude said ‘you’ll never be a real woman’ to a trans man. That’s what I love.
You know why? Because I can prove my homophobic brother wrong.
* polysexual transmasc twerking *
👑
I have a question. What's with all of the twerking trend?
@@LemonLoserLover because
Me: *a trans man in Texas
Also me: *supportive and loving parents and siblings
:)
eyy same!! I'm really grateful that I have such supportive family members and friends :-]
So are ya a cowgirl or cowboy, partner? Or....... a cowperson ig
@@kingcyclops4079 cowboy dude that’s what transman means. Ha! That said I live in the city, so not hats or ranches for me. Although my family does have a few guns despite our left leaning tendencies. But that’s Texas for ya.
@@87andRisetmntfan well either way, howdy partner
Hello fellow Texan
One Topic has to be the most “Ally” person I have ever seen, and I personally love it. Especially as someone who has been struggling with the gender identity for a while now. It really makes me feel like their are people out their who are ready to learn and accept the LGBT Community, even if they may not be directly part of it. And that’s such a nice feeling to have. Thank you
The, "If you keep saying you're a lesbian no man is gonna want to date you," one made me; "... what?" Re watches it, "..." bursts out laughing.
I came out to my mom a few days ago and she’s not the most supportive but I just wanted to say thank you for being that support that I don’t have :)
Edit: I usually hate making edits but I didn’t expect anyone to actually see this so THANK YOU TO EVERYONE BEING SO NICE!!! I AM CRYING LMAO
Aww I’m sorry that’s wasn’t supportivd
aw im sorry! but i want you to know that there are people out there who will support you and your identity, im also a baby non-binary and i want you to know your not alone and you will make it through 💛🤍💜🖤
nice pfp
Tell you what, I'm probably your mum's age. I'm proud of you, and fully support whatever makes you happy.
I feel your pain, lots of love and support from a fellow enby
If i ever get a public toilet myself, I’m gonna write “ no one bothers, just wash your hands and be nice to others” on it.
It's funny conservatives say 'facts over feelings' when what motivates them is 'feelings over fact.'
Exhibit A: their Bible.
@@The_Animasters mald
@@jadeamulet2339 ok
Facts
My school doesn’t have assigned gender bathrooms but just little rooms with a toilet, soap dispenser and paper towel dispensers in a larger room. It’s honestly much better but they are assigned to classes now that it’s corona.
Thank you for featuring my “Confusion” comic,
-Nash
Ayyyyy, Pog!
Your art is very nice, Nash!
I honestly wonder if the whole Potatohead Argument was just to try and force Hasbro to give Potatohead a glorious carbohydrate packed package.
A French fry
I love your r/suddenlygay r/lgbtq and r/lesbain videos and now r/acsidentlyally amazing
Currently closeted as heck, so I tend to use the girls' bathroom when my parents are nearby. A few weeks ago I'm casually washing my hands and a woman walks in, gasps a bit, looks at the sign to make sure she walked into the right bathroom, then nervously walks in, avoiding eye contact with me. Good to know she knew I was a dude I guess.
I just wanted to say thanks to OT, I was able to become more accepting to trans community and today one of my friends came out as non-binary! Love you Cricket!
A man on Facebook said to me just a few weeks ago
"I can't tell if you're a man or woman, but let me know because I have an insult for both" and I told him "well, I really ain't either so thanks" and he lost his gotdang MIND
I'll have to post the screencaps on r/AccidentalAlly 🤣
that sounds amazing
"please give me your pronouns so I can insult you" 😂😂
What a respectful asshole lmao
EPIC!
I came out to my parents two days ago and i just got 3 pride flags yesterday and i’m so happy- the only bad thing is that even though my parents accept me they think i’m too young to know my sexuality and they think there’s only two genders :/
Welp at least they accept and do what other parents do
I hope they understand soon though
I'm glad they accept you but they'll surely understand soon,,love
🌼 baby steps
Congrats! They'll understand you eventually
Hopefully this will change with time as they get to know the real you instead of their preconceptions about what is possible with gender. The first rationalization can't last forever anyway, they'd have to be pretty thick-headed to be like "You're thirty, you don't know what your sexuality is!"
Not sure if this sounds weird or creepy but your laugh is literally so adorable
It’s honestly contagious and really wholesome sounding
Agreed
I like how they call it a ‘potato toy’ like a mom trying to reason with an angry five year old
That post about ben shapiro has made me decide to call babies a 'meaningless cluster of cells'
that post was just... So awful it was brilliant.
Croch goblins, hell spawns and meaningless cluster of cells, the only valid ways to refere to someones meaningless croch spawns.
Aren't we all meaningless clusters of cells lol
@@Lisa_Flowers ben shapiro may be meaningless, but the rest of us sure aren't.
I’m a meaningless cluster of cells that resemble numerous flaming bees shaped in a way that makes it basically human, so.
maybe just one bathroom isn't quite the right answer, but instead of having excessively gendered bathrooms, there's just two with no assigned gender, it's just one has urinals and the other has stalls and you can in whichever you feel comfortable in
Pretty much how it is in the camping I go to. It may have been intended as gendered at a point, but no one really care
I like this idea. We just need twice as many stalls as urinals. Easy fix. Love it!
this is a good idea. i’ve always thought that making bathrooms/sports teams/etc for amab people and afab people would be better than saying they’re for men/boys and women/girls-then transphobes can’t really complain about trans people making games unfair, but it will (hopefully) alleviate dysphoria that comes from saying it’s for people who are male/female, plus provide a place for non-binary/genderfluid people (as an afab enby, i’d prefer that at least, but i can’t speak for other trans people)
Agreed, would be cool if more places had family bathrooms
Except in school, some kids can and will make out in there
true, at my school there are some unisex bathrooms but they’re all for staff only, probably for that exact reason. i’m nb (i think i said that above so i apologize for repeating myself) so that kinda sucks, but i get why they don’t have unisex bathrooms for students
when i was a kid my mom dragged me to small festival in my city and when i had to use the bathroom the womans room was broken/somebody was already in there, so i had to use the boys room
i, a little girl, did my business in a room with some whole adult men and nobody even made eye contact the whole time.
nobody cared. we just minded our own.
i wish everyone was like that, like i literally don't understand the bathroom panic.
**confused bi ace twerking cause everyone is twerking**
*confused ally Twerking, and validating you*
There are worse coping mechanisms. Don't let the peer pressure get to you. We are twerking to allow you to twerk if you feel like twerking. If you don't feel the twerk, don't do the twerk.
Apparently, I like typing twerk.
@@goldengryphon I can’t tell you how much I loved your comment
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ayy me too! :D
Reminder that all of y'all are valid in your identity and expression and deserve to be happy. And for any trans/enby folks reading this, if you feel your transition isn't going well, caterpillars literally become mush before being a butterfly, so maybe you're just in the mush stage :)
I'm in the mush stage and this made me feel better about it. thanks!
Honestly, I feel like due to how uneducated some of these people come across it kinda makes the points they were trying to make weaker.
They are just hurting themselves in their own confusion.
Honestly, instead of having womens and mens bathrooms we should have adults bathrooms and kids bathrooms that they can enter with parents. Makes things much simpler
And what to do about predatory men? (I'm not asking this to be abbrasive, I genuinely liked your solution and am curious about your response. I've gotten this question in a defensive manner before and it sucks)
@@laurabrandao7729 the predators (mainly pedos) would then be separated from children, but in the joint adult bathrooms, there would be other men and women in the bathroom to help a lot of the time, otherwise I'm not sure. Possibly a panic button to alert people outside the facilities of the situation.
People these days aren't safe anyway with people claiming to be the opposite gender just to sexually harass the gender in the bathroom they entered, and also for when people are getting harassed or attacked by their own gender when in the same gender bathrooms anyway. by rights there should be ways to alert people of situations like this in all bathrooms whether they are male and female or adult and children facilities.
@@laurabrandao7729 obviously this answer would include any predatory men or women in the current bathroom settings and my suggested ones. But there really should be ways to protect ourselves in bathrooms the way it is. I've never seen an alarm in a womens bathroom in case a guy runs in, this should be implemented
@@laurabrandao7729 great question by the way. Really got me thinking
@@laurabrandao7729 they get swirlied to death
Bringing up PragerU again, it’s.. been a process for me. I FINALLY recently came into myself more, coming out as non-binary to myself, my mother, and, after a lot of turmoil and concern, my father and step-mother. The latter don’t use my pronouns, but I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt and assuming they just don’t remember very often. It wouldn’t be the first time they’ve easily forgotten something important to me. The first time I saw a PragerU ad, it was on one of OT’s videos, right at the start. It was not a good day, and I wanted to get some serotonin from cute lesbians. It was the first time I felt personally targeted by something like this - it’s always there, always affecting us and others, but until that very moment I never thought of it as being against me personally, just against us as a whole. That advertisement changed a lot for me. I didn’t want to watch it but I couldn’t hit the skip button. I’m near tears at this point just thinking about how I felt in that moment. It’s so hard to articulate, but I know everyone here will understand, or at least someone will. This is harder than it should be. We should not have to worry about being insulted and made fun of everywhere we go, even in our comfort spaces, like OT’s channel. It should be a default that everyone is accepting of every gender, sexuality, and identity. It should be a default that “changing your mind” is not seen as a fake attention grab. Everyone should be able to experiment with their own body and heart. These kinds of ads should be illegal. These kinds of people should be charged. This should be against the law. The fact that it’s so INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT to understand how we actually feel, coming from first hand experience, until we’re faced with a personal attack is not okay. And it’s not a dismissal or lack of care in most cases. Hell, I have been part of the LGBT community for years now, but only then did I feel just how horrible it is. It’s just hard to understand and hard to see until you’re in the shoes of the people trying to defend themselves against thief opposers. What has this come to? How do we fix it? How can we help it? How can we help other people understand without making them go through what we have?
Romans accepted this. Accepted us. Greeks did too. In fact, supported and encouraged it. When did we become “sinners” for being who we are? When did the LGBT community stop being as clear and normal as having a black car or a red car? When did this world decide we no longer deserve to be human?
Okay this is gonna sound insensitive but the reason is, the Catholic church and old British empire decided to take over the world and wipe out anybody whose studies and opinions didn't match theirs or who refused to change to match theirs, in other words, theirs potentially way more history behind the general old world of LGBT people that no longer exists because one culture decided to be judge jury and executioner over the whole world for a couple decades, and now well nobody really lives who realizes aside from us that the world isn't changing it's always been this way but was erased and forced to bend into a certain shape for the sake of control
Unrelated, but while I was watching this video, when OT starts using a voice, my sister asked me "Is that Plankton?"
What did you say?
It took me a loooooong time to come into my own on this, realizing I wasn't broken or weird for not wanting to sleep with anyone. I tried to force myself to be attracted to my Ex because it was expected of me... It ended horribly and I am still dealing with the emotional scars.
But finally understanding what I am, I can say that I am Demisexual, Demiromantic, and DemiGirl.
So can I call you Triple D?
Same, always hearing things like: 'you just didn't meet the right one' , 'it's just a PHASE' , 'the more you do it the more you will like it' etc etc. Is probably difficult for a lot of aces, aros and demis, but I'm glad there's so much info on this on the Internet now. So I hope other generations won't have this problem in the future. It helps a lot knowing you're not the only one ^^
My family thought i was just a late bloomer. A really, really late bloomer. As in, have yet to date by mid 20's.
The problem is everyone who has approached me did so with the intent on having a sexual relationship and i'm just like "nah, and since you said that, i'm just gonna walk far away". I apparently need to be friends for 3+ years before i'd consider dating, but by then, everyone who'd be willing to date me has given up or is unavailable because they had to wait so long.
One person said they liked me back, but then wouldn't make time for me or reach out to me for a year so my demi brain says it's a no go and the person is no longer dateable.
Haha, i'm going to die alone
@@possums154 I SAW THIS COMMENT AND WENT TO REPLY THIS BUT YOU BEAT ME TO IT TWO FUCKIN WEEKS AGO, GOD DAMMIT LMAO
@@yikes404 :)
11:16 "We can always tell!"
Yknow, I don't think they can ever tell
Since they accused Jennifer Lopez, Michelle Obama, and more cis women as being trans