American converts to Islam and retires in Malaysia (Malay subs)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @RodeyHamzaHamzah
    @RodeyHamzaHamzah 3 месяца назад +253

    This was my lecturer at UiTM Shah Alam teaching Phonetics and phonology (one of the subjects)... It's been almost 20 years since the last day I met him, and it seems he is still looking great!!! Alhamdulillah :)

    • @fadzilma5907
      @fadzilma5907 2 месяца назад +9

      Wow!

    • @asyikinaziz4890
      @asyikinaziz4890 2 месяца назад +2

      wahhh msih sihat segar lg igtn nye

    • @MDMASMR
      @MDMASMR 2 месяца назад

      Wey rodey! Jgn sebut brapa tahun lepas. 😂

  • @stevenhull5025
    @stevenhull5025 3 месяца назад +159

    I have been married to a Malaysian Chinese lady for the past 41 years and live in the UK. I am a Christian and she is buddhist. We have visited Malaysia and Singapore many times during those intervening years and have witnessed much change. All I can say, the Malaysians of all ethnic persuasions are some of the kindest and generous people I have had the pleasure to meet. A beautiful country, food to die for and welcoming people. I would retire there tomorrow if I could but my wife's health condition now prevents it. I end with this note: Keep Malaysian politics for the politicians.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +4

      Thank you for sharing your story

    • @jesusnotgod5635
      @jesusnotgod5635 3 месяца назад

      Try consuming habbatus sauda
      Good herbs for medicine

    • @human-wd8pg
      @human-wd8pg 2 месяца назад

      Malaysia is muslim dominant country right ?

    • @shahir7773
      @shahir7773 2 месяца назад +4

      Yeah u are right sir, as Malaysian we never care about politics.. stability is our priority

    • @noorsiahidris1204
      @noorsiahidris1204 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes true those get involved in politics are those of their kinds.....

  • @MaSa-bp5qe
    @MaSa-bp5qe 3 месяца назад +8

    Uncle Karmin is an amazing guy! God bless him and his family.

  • @eirk05
    @eirk05 3 месяца назад +5

    Alhamdulillah. I recommend to travel tru Malaysia meet the local people. InsyaAllah there the good experience around here especially the village mosque. Islam fosters a society that practices wasatiyyah.

  • @annieg.7051
    @annieg.7051 2 месяца назад +1

    I wish i could move Malaysia ❤

  • @The_Riddler21
    @The_Riddler21 2 месяца назад

    ✌️❤️👌

  • @stevekanna
    @stevekanna 3 месяца назад +351

    im Malaysian indian, im very grateful living in here. Despite some political racial issues. we have wonderful Malays, Chinese, Indian, Sabahan and Sarawakians.

    • @skaenthusiast
      @skaenthusiast 3 месяца назад +24

      I'm Malay,n i love u brother. May we never fell into political trap n keep our country harmony ❤

    • @zairulazrenzainalabidin
      @zairulazrenzainalabidin 3 месяца назад +17

      Yes I agreed! Politicians are dirty when they become greedy and divided us

    • @jka24529
      @jka24529 3 месяца назад

      And bangla, rohing, pakis, India from India and many more

    • @DrMox-ny8qs
      @DrMox-ny8qs 3 месяца назад

      Chinese & Indian aren't suppose to be there

    • @10yearsag0
      @10yearsag0 3 месяца назад +3

      🧠👍

  • @nurulizzatiahmadfaridBG
    @nurulizzatiahmadfaridBG 3 месяца назад +117

    I had the pleasure of being taught by Mr. Kieran and Prof. Bib during my university days. Both of them are absolutely wonderful!

  • @asrims3015
    @asrims3015 3 месяца назад +77

    I still remembered you said in our class that you couldnt speak Malay because everywhere you go, people would speak English with you.. the taxi drivers, the shopkeepers, the nasi lemak's seller by the street.. everybody speaks English with you.. theres no chance for you to learn to speak Malay..
    Thank you Sir for all the kindness and good memories.. Send my regards to Dr Bib.. I was in her class as well..💓

  • @zamanreds
    @zamanreds 3 месяца назад +106

    Funny guy. He will marry the same woman 4 times.. now that's commitment.

  • @userthreeseven9285
    @userthreeseven9285 2 месяца назад +35

    I am a revert born in malaysia. I feel so blessed to be born in malaysia since malaysia has a lot of halal things, many mosque, many good peoples, good place to learn islam. ❤❤❤ Alhamdulillah. Bravo malaysia. Although my family are not muslims, they still support me and we celebrate all the festival together 😂

    • @matpenodx2059
      @matpenodx2059 Месяц назад +1

      Allahu'Akbar Allhamdulillah bro 🥰🇲🇾❤️🤲

  • @alimmohd
    @alimmohd 3 месяца назад +265

    Uncle Karim…superb. Your wife must be flattered with all the nice words. His wife was a university professor and she is my aunt.

    • @farahiah1
      @farahiah1 3 месяца назад +4

      whats her name? i wanna check out her google scholar and her publications

    • @eeramunirah68
      @eeramunirah68 3 месяца назад +26

      Both of them were my lecturers during U years❤️

    • @alimmohd
      @alimmohd 3 месяца назад +24

      @@farahiah1Prof Dr Habibah Ashari

    • @zbk343
      @zbk343 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@farahiah1
      Jgn gantung sangat ngan google

    • @srekashraff
      @srekashraff 2 месяца назад +2

      Is Albert one of their son?

  • @SUPERNOBODY-
    @SUPERNOBODY- 3 месяца назад +80

    Im living in US now and we are going back to Malaysia soon!

    • @raininoor3169
      @raininoor3169 3 месяца назад +5

      Welcome home dear

    • @SentimentaLfrend1818
      @SentimentaLfrend1818 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@@raininoor3169I am a 53 year old Indonesian, my job is as a security guard at a market in Sumatra, Indonesia... I have always wanted to live in Malaysia, not for a mission to find a job with a big salary but because Malaysia I know is a country that is calm, polite and obeying Islam

  • @cocobos
    @cocobos 3 месяца назад +392

    I have a uncle and he's from USA and reverted to Islam and staying here in Malaysia too. Have similar vibe with sir Karim here. He is a very good Muslim too.

    • @byteme9718
      @byteme9718 3 месяца назад +4

      There's no such thing as reversion.

    • @elbowstancenow1519
      @elbowstancenow1519 3 месяца назад +5

      What makes a good muslim is a person who does good deeds. Who gives charity. A good muslim does not associate others with Allah. A good muslim will not take their religious scholars as lords. A good muslim d, Salafi, oes not judge others. A muslim does not belong to a sect like Sunni, Shia, Ahmadiyyah, Sufi, Wahabi, Deobandi and Barelvi amongst others. [Quran 6:159] because Allah makes Muslims not sects, A true muslim will not uphold other books as guide besides the Quran. The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) follow only the Quran as salvation and he doesn't follow any other teachings.

    • @Sarcaustik
      @Sarcaustik 3 месяца назад +3

      Technically, he's been a Muslim longer than anyone here on the internet though.

    • @byteme9718
      @byteme9718 3 месяца назад +1

      @@elbowstancenow1519 Most Muslims give Hadith precedence over the Quran.

    • @thehimhim4198
      @thehimhim4198 3 месяца назад

      Wow. .. i agree with both byteme9718 and elbowstancenow1519 definitely agree ... Just some time its hard to explain to my friends

  • @nfmarketing5639
    @nfmarketing5639 3 месяца назад +238

    Auntie Bibi & Uncle Karim I know you, I always see you jogging at Tasik Shah Alam. I still remember seeing you in Bloomington, Indiana, & our families having picnics together ❤❤

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +7

      😍

    • @nfmarketing5639
      @nfmarketing5639 3 месяца назад +32

      Thanks so much for the vid Alex, gonna share with the family later. The memories are pouring in from my childhood in America. Its so good to see Uncle Karim so healthy & happy. I wish him good health & many more happy years.
      FYI, both my mother & father worked in UiTM, my father went for his Masters & PhD in Indiana University under MARA scholarship.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +9

      Wow that is so amazing
      I really appreciate you sharing that wih us!

    • @norliahsidek9168
      @norliahsidek9168 3 месяца назад

      ​@@nfmarketing5639 nice to see u

    • @gabangadgetmy
      @gabangadgetmy 3 месяца назад +3

      Wow they are shah alam folks? Me too!

  • @EncikKenny
    @EncikKenny 3 месяца назад +63

    That man there. Is one of the best lecturer I've learned from.

  • @abdulrashidzakaria2107
    @abdulrashidzakaria2107 3 месяца назад +50

    May Allah bless you bro Abdul Karim & yr wife Prof Dr Habibah. from ex INTEC UiTM staff❤

  • @EleanorMabel
    @EleanorMabel 2 месяца назад +270

    I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

    • @EleanorMabel
      @EleanorMabel 2 месяца назад +2

      @Margerat-x I will give this a look, thanks a bunch for sharing.

    • @MrZullekiflee
      @MrZullekiflee 2 месяца назад +4

      I think you all can easily take izrael citizenship as far I know

  • @AffyNoX
    @AffyNoX 3 месяца назад +54

    Bro Karim, the way you answer the interview is perfect. You did not say any bad things to anyone, any country… even when the question may lead towards that.

  • @Mrfit-m9x
    @Mrfit-m9x 3 месяца назад +88

    'solid stable culture ' ..it's quite true..I like that..good narration on the video too alex

  • @mohdshahrinidris
    @mohdshahrinidris 3 месяца назад +65

    "I live in shah alam 26 "KILOMETRES" from here".... yup... he's malaysian

    • @yooneunhyesarang9245
      @yooneunhyesarang9245 3 месяца назад +2

      Really he meant 26 miles. Shah Alam is that far/close.

    • @gabangadgetmy
      @gabangadgetmy 3 месяца назад +5

      @@yooneunhyesarang924526km not miles from kuala lumpur.

    • @malezyali79
      @malezyali79 2 месяца назад

      But Malaysians more commonly would mention the time it usually takes to travel between 2 places, for instance, 1 hour from KL.

  • @norsyahidahjaafar1635
    @norsyahidahjaafar1635 3 месяца назад +14

    I had the privilege of being his student for two semesters back in 2005. He taught me linguistics and literature. He is such a wonderful and down-to-earth guy, always carry some bananas around and will offer the bananas to us whenever we meet him for consultations (in my case he will force me to eat it because I don’t like bananas much 😂) “Why don’t you like bananas, they are good for you!” 😅😅😅 During those days he used to ride the pink mini bus to get around Shah Alam (and I have seen him carrying a bunch of bananas in the bus as well, such a banana lover he is 😅) Anyways it is lovely to see you looking so good Mr. Kieran, I pray that Allah bestow you with abundance of health and happiness always ❤ Thank you for everything you have taught me, and thank you for the bananas 😂

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for sharing that wonderful story

  • @klasikking9813
    @klasikking9813 3 месяца назад +183

    my brother in law is swiss nationality.. reverted to islam..
    happily married my sister over 30 yrs now.. have 2 children and has become more malaysian than most malaysian 😊..

    • @raininoor3169
      @raininoor3169 3 месяца назад +6

      👍🏻

    • @Veloce2000
      @Veloce2000 Месяц назад

      What wd u say ?? if the other way...Malaysian marries foreigner & becomes.....

    • @klasikking9813
      @klasikking9813 Месяц назад

      @@Veloce2000
      what i saw i believed..
      faith is not about what

  • @thomaslau8806
    @thomaslau8806 3 месяца назад +163

    I've visited KL five times in a span of 8 years and love it!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +10

      Wow thank you for sharing your experiences 🇲🇾🥳

  • @P4bLOinc
    @P4bLOinc 3 месяца назад +18

    marry 4 times with the same women, you truly in love & loyal sir

  • @AlfariziZakaria
    @AlfariziZakaria 3 месяца назад +212

    Malaysia is now a Top destination for western Muslims to move to Muslim countries, And I realized that Islam in Southeast Asia is the best version of Muslims such peacefull, Kindess,Politeness and Friendliness. In the midst of huge Islamophobia in the West, Malaysia can represent Good Muslim

    • @lartist-jk8fp
      @lartist-jk8fp 3 месяца назад +9

      Islam in the middle east and everywhere else is also good, maybe even betterbecausefor the muslim women in the middle east, they wont marry a man unless he converts for real, unlike with malay Muslims that will just marry a white man just because hes white even though he doesnt practice islam like this guy. My point is. Dont be arrogant please, no where is perfect but we are 1 ummah.

    • @subonium
      @subonium 3 месяца назад +42

      @@lartist-jk8fp funny...u said othes not to be arrogant, but then u jump to conclusion that "malay Muslims that will just marry a white man just because hes white"...BS

    • @masdo-ok5fy
      @masdo-ok5fy 3 месяца назад +15

      ​@@lartist-jk8fpu talking like a fool

    • @videoaku557
      @videoaku557 3 месяца назад +22

      @@lartist-jk8fp are you sure? that man already went for Hajj. And you assume he doesn't practice Islam? How dare you!

    • @nsaffini1975
      @nsaffini1975 3 месяца назад +11

      @@lartist-jk8fphow do u know he isn’t practicing? Suul zhonn at its best.

  • @JimySlow-wq9bw
    @JimySlow-wq9bw 3 месяца назад +35

    Beautiful story terima kasih-thx for share this video may Allah SWT bless n protect you both i'm chinese indonsia muslim living in jkrta proud to be part from this ummat-ummah sending salam ❤ to you all

  • @bakarmadiasin3806
    @bakarmadiasin3806 3 месяца назад +18

    Salam bro Hji...American
    .very interesting story of yours...I was a student at Indiana St University..1982..89 n really enjoyed my 5+ years stay there..
    Were u studying at Jndiana Univerity or ISU? IN FACT I love Indana state because we were well treated by the local People there..
    I m now 71 yrs old living in Kota Kinabalu city.the resort city.....with beautiful natural beauty...blue seas,white sand beaches ,green hills n cool mountain sites..Mt Kinabalu n our local New Zealand scenery that wloul offer u to tour in future...Hope to meet u here soon..welcome to Kota Kinabalu Sabah..east Malaysia.

  • @TheDidiButter
    @TheDidiButter 3 месяца назад +38

    I've travelled the world and I would still chose Malaysia although with its humidity and all. The only place I would consider maybe New Zealand, albeit its remote location.

    • @af4735
      @af4735 2 месяца назад +2

      I am a Malaysia and would not consider to move to other country. But if I have to migrate it would be NZ.. been there twice. Love it!

  • @bidadaricomel
    @bidadaricomel 3 месяца назад +112

    What a great loyal man u are. That's how u should love ur wife. Respect. 😍

  • @clamospro9539
    @clamospro9539 3 месяца назад +12

    done bring my whole family from LA to malaysia...better run away before collapsing happen...soon all Bank will shut down..the highest DEBT is scary

  • @Yukhairil
    @Yukhairil 3 месяца назад +122

    Please kept Malaysia always Hidden to preserve it's beautiful nature and culture from uncivilized person

    • @anyq_CS
      @anyq_CS 3 месяца назад +19

      i think malaysia will always be hidden. in between of famous thailand and singapore and west malaysia neighbors are Philippines and indonesia. malaysia will always be underrated.

    • @Aeybiseediy
      @Aeybiseediy 3 месяца назад +13

      ​@@anyq_CS yeah, i feel malaysia is a niche.. a toned down modest culture will never be popular, but those who are drawn to that will definitely seek it here.

    • @radziahradzi
      @radziahradzi 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@anyq_CS and that's not a bad thing

    • @anyq_CS
      @anyq_CS 3 месяца назад +2

      @@radziahradzi nobody say its a bad thing.

  • @norliahsidek9168
    @norliahsidek9168 3 месяца назад +23

    Alhamdulillah...hope u are always in Allah blessings sir....the best lecturer back in UITM 2002,MALAYSIA...

  • @ezafazim1327
    @ezafazim1327 3 месяца назад +56

    Wise honest man… come with open mind Thank you Kieran

  • @JohandariAber
    @JohandariAber 3 месяца назад +23

    Where is Malaysia? Let's keep it that way..its a treasure best kept to minorities😊

  • @azmilms
    @azmilms 3 месяца назад +56

    Mr Kieran sounds like a really cool, humble guy. Thank you sir for the kind words!

  • @mohdkhalidustati6983
    @mohdkhalidustati6983 3 месяца назад +17

    Learned a lot about literature, linguistics and life from Mr Kieran back in the year 2000. I have utmost respect for the man and his wife, Prof Habibah. May all your happenings bless both of you with good health and happiness every day.

  • @ipkb
    @ipkb 3 месяца назад +78

    Mr. Kieran is my lingusitic lecturer in UiTM. His classes were a joy (but i failed his class 😂)

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +6

      😅😅
      Thanks for sharing

    • @2ag789
      @2ag789 3 месяца назад +4

      Why, even under smart master's guidance..

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 3 месяца назад +2

      @@2ag789I’m doing literature, linguistics, and creative writing. Linguistics is just really hard even with a good teacher 😢

    • @2ag789
      @2ag789 3 месяца назад +1

      @@naylisyazwina6836 may Allah reward you Ameen

    • @ipkb
      @ipkb 3 месяца назад +2

      @@2ag789 because im dumb dumb, thats why.

  • @mohammadnajib8472
    @mohammadnajib8472 3 месяца назад +6

    Yeah.. People always comparing malaysia and others contries in SEA, especially thailand.. Which is best countries to live.. But in this situation(convert) , u better live in malaysia than thailand

  • @naemahbaharun5731
    @naemahbaharun5731 3 месяца назад +49

    Whenever Western people asking where is Malaysia 🇲🇾, my answer will always be... "You know Singapore? You know Thailand? We are beautiful country between that two countries"😊 😍 😊😊

    • @5bLucky
      @5bLucky 3 месяца назад +1

      In that case, you guys got the best of the two countries😊

    • @shastrihabib1382
      @shastrihabib1382 3 месяца назад +1

      Singapore Malaysia ; Malaysia Singapore @@@Malaya✌️

    • @junaidahjyaakup7639
      @junaidahjyaakup7639 3 месяца назад

      they only know malaysia when you said I from Kuala Lumpur.

    • @anonymousGI
      @anonymousGI 2 месяца назад +2

      I have been to Penang. I had a good time. Malaysia is worth a visit. Straights of Malacca are extremely busy…it’s an experience.

  • @ghrbaa6727
    @ghrbaa6727 3 месяца назад +18

    Some bitter comments in this section just because he talks about his conversion to Islam. If he didn’t mention that one bit, the comment section will not be as hateful 😂

  • @rubiahmatsom2253
    @rubiahmatsom2253 3 месяца назад +34

    It's a surprise to see Mr Karim after all these years here. So happy to hear that you're still very much in love with Dr Bib, she's so lucky to have you and you to have her. Still remember both of you from PPP ITM (1994-1996). Dr Bib helped me a lot in building my confidence as an individual back then. May both of you be blessed always by the Al-Mighty.

  • @varietychannelHD
    @varietychannelHD 2 месяца назад +6

    My beloved lecturer at UITM shah Alam 20 years ago, always positive and glad to see him well :) Living his best life.

  • @relaxationwithmaru8859
    @relaxationwithmaru8859 3 месяца назад +8

    Because this is the land of the Malay. We Melayu are soft and full of culture people, we from time immemorial were very accepting we never really hate any race but because we are so soft and hospitalizing that others take advantage of that. But regardless we will always be polite and be very hospitable to other race ESPECIALLY when you are Muslim In sha Allah.. cause we Melayu were never haters , we are lovers.

  • @ISMIHANI
    @ISMIHANI 3 месяца назад +15

    Alhamdullilah bro Karim. There is something special among Malay Muslims about faith in Islam which is called ' Tawheed' which could hardly defined as ' belief' in other religion. Anyway, you could find the word ' addeen' instead of religion as understood by non Muslims worldwide.

  • @myraizara2398
    @myraizara2398 3 месяца назад +54

    When he said the ladies here is solid.. ladies, we should keep the crown for ever. We are not like those in Thailand...😅😅😅 And probably, those who work in that area are mostly not Malaysian.

    • @Aeybiseediy
      @Aeybiseediy 3 месяца назад +2

      Tp sedih byk student uitm yg 'menjual'...

    • @thebeliever3270
      @thebeliever3270 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Aeybiseediy
      Mungkin ini lah sisi gelap segelintir University students di Malaysia.. mungkin terdesak dek masalah kewangan..

    • @nengcomel
      @nengcomel 3 месяца назад

      Masa belajar di UiTM, pernah seorang pakcik tua Melayu di stesen bas kenalkan saya kepada seorang lagi lelaki Melayu yang kononnya bekerja di pelantar minyak Terengganu. Selepas perjumpaan pertama, saya tak teruskan sebab rasa lain macam je vibe dia. Masa tu dia ajak karaoke je tapi saya tak tau masa akan datang apa dia akan buat jadi elok elak je la. Pada saya, gadis² naif kita ramai tak didedahkan kepada hal begini oleh parents depa. Parents saya langsung tak pernah sebut pasal hal grooming ni. Lelaki² tua dan gadis² yang sudah terlibat jadi groomer kepada gadis² naif yang baru masuk uni. Sama la kes dengan lelaki² seusia yang berpacaran dan groom gadis² naif untuk tidur bersama. Bukan semua gadis² kita lepas je dari pemantauan parents mencari benda macam tu. Ramai antara depa sudah dirosakkan groomer. Kalau bukan disebabkan groomer² ni, mana mungkin gadis² kita tau pasal hubungan luar nikah, apatah lagi zaman saya masa smartphone belum keluar lagi dan internet macam siput.😅
      Pernah juga ada warga asing gosok anu dia depan saya di pantai luar UiTM. Agaknya dia fikir semua gadis Melayu sama liar kot atau dia dengar ura-ura ke arah tu. Saya bangun, jalan ke arah guard UiTM dan report. Dari jauh nampak la dia cepat² beransur pergi tapi guard sudah cakna la kewujudan lelaki durjana macam tu. Terang² buat. Dah la masa tu ada program kayak kat pantai tu. Berani betul walaupun dia buat sorok² celah batu depan tempat duduk saya.😂

    • @shhas1483
      @shhas1483 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Aeybiseediydik, anak datuk pon ‘menjual’ kat kawan2 parents dia. Jaguar dtg jemput kat residential college. Nothing new.

  • @fadhilmatpiahchannel6765
    @fadhilmatpiahchannel6765 3 месяца назад +13

    Hi Mr Kieran. I was one of your students. Good to see you again.😊

  • @fajarh979
    @fajarh979 3 месяца назад +25

    Brother Kieran makes a right choice of embracing Islam & moving to Malaysia.
    Malaysia is voted as among the top 10 destinations as the best retirement country in the world for 2024 by Retirement index.
    Malaysia is the only Asian & Muslim nation among those European & Latin american countries.
    Since he is from W.virginia, I would like to say Assalamualaikum & howdy to Bro Kieran. Used to study in Mississippi and really enjoy the southern hospitality of US southerners.

  • @damasrisan
    @damasrisan Месяц назад +3

    I met with Hj Karim & wife + his in-laws in Washington DC & Virginia.. Stay healthy.. have a good one

  • @nengcomel
    @nengcomel 3 месяца назад +23

    He reminded me of my mom's friend who married a white foreigner, her classmate when she studied abroad. The guy fell in love with her character and ethics. He first proposed to her there before they graduated but she rejected him as they were not of the same faith. After they graduated, she went back to Malaysia and he stayed back in his country. A few years later he went in search of her at her house. The friend's father rejected him the first time he proposed for her hand so he went back and learnt more then proposed again. He was finally accepted after the third attempt. He didn't give up and learnt about whatever he needed to be with her and I find that so lovely and endearing. I wish someone loved me enough to do such things but such men are rare gems.

    • @infj5196
      @infj5196 3 месяца назад +1

      Stop hoping to be served.

    • @nengcomel
      @nengcomel 2 месяца назад +8

      @@infj5196 You don't seem to understand the difference between being loved and appreciated with being served. No practicing Muslim women wish their husband to serve them. They wished to be treated with kindness and appreciation the way Rasulullah SAW encouraged men to treat their women. For you to think wishing such kind and loving gestures from ones husband is a bad thing or think of it as a type of servitude, may you get someone that fit your point where they don't serve you and you don't serve them. There are many men who demanded their women to serve them but I rarely see women demanding the same. Up till now, ones influenced by liberal thinking or westernisation are the ones demanding their men to serve them. You might want to brush up on your comprehension before claiming I wish my man to serve me. No part of my words wishing so. Even my bro-in-law said men who couldn't even do that much for their partner is not worth considering as that is proof of them being selfish egoists and doesn't think of their wife as the second pillar of the household after him. Wife aren't slaves or workers. They are partners. The least you could do is show them some love and appreciation instead of lifelong stress from ongoing demands and orders. Even work has holidays from the boss but wife doesn't get a holiday from boss-like husbands. Instead of being their boss, why not be their leader who leads by example, a partner and friend who supports each other through life's challenges? You are weird for thinking of it as servitude.

    • @theholyquranmadeeasy
      @theholyquranmadeeasy 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@nengcomel
      You explained it very well. What a weird comment you received- Comparing the desire for love and care to servitude. I wish people would understand what is takes to build a strong family. As you said, feminists are ones who want to be served, while muslim women are one of the pillars of the home, they take care of everybody, and maybe work too. A muslim woman wants her husband to show a bit of appreciation. A feminist wants to be served and to be appreciated for that.

    • @sharifahmalek1934
      @sharifahmalek1934 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@nengcomelwell said. Being served or having to serve is not key to happiness in marriage, it is about equal and mutual respect love consideration and understanding. May you find the beautiful relationship you are looking for.

  • @pawancheekmarican320
    @pawancheekmarican320 3 месяца назад +19

    A very good interview and good answers. Very enlightening.

  • @zassmedia5738
    @zassmedia5738 3 месяца назад +4

    wonder why does he look so familiar.... is he kieran johnston? with an architect son named adam johnston?

  • @bboysjb
    @bboysjb 3 месяца назад +22

    this man is wise and full with experience, i am married with moroccan and live here in KL from past 15 years we really enjoy live in Malaysia

  • @Dr.M.Wahid-U-zzaman
    @Dr.M.Wahid-U-zzaman 2 месяца назад +3

    From Bangladesh. Brother please hold the rope of Allah SWT and his Rosul SA firmly and then Allah will guide you towards the truth. May Allah bless you and grant you jannatul Ferdows. Ameen

  • @AnisaMandahiling-hp2fk
    @AnisaMandahiling-hp2fk 3 месяца назад +8

    my first 2 seconds of impression looking at his face : wow "sejuk" betul muka dia... 'soft' aura beaming out of his face LOVE LOVE LOVE😍😍😍

  • @fisophia1734
    @fisophia1734 3 месяца назад +3

    He talk with full heart,u can't found this type of pure on usa politicians face 😈,😂😂😂

  • @mohammad_muda535
    @mohammad_muda535 3 месяца назад +4

    Dr. Kieran! "Don't be punctual, be early"

  • @NurulAina-rm8lq
    @NurulAina-rm8lq 3 месяца назад +25

    Thanks a lot Kieran,you already promote my country M'sia,and I hope many touris will visit M'sia enjoy the M'sia Culture and beautiful view KL city and the beautiful island Like pulau Tioman and Langkawi.Good job mr.kieran,tq very much.

  • @fritsmoranduzzo8259
    @fritsmoranduzzo8259 2 месяца назад +3

    Asalamualaikum am hope to meet u

  • @teachersyu1206
    @teachersyu1206 2 месяца назад +2

    Mr. Kieran! A great lecturer he is..
    I am honoured to be taught by him. Phonetics & phonology, and literature.
    It's good to see him after 18 years.. I pray that he will always be healthy. Good man, great educator 😘

  • @kamilmhpet
    @kamilmhpet 3 месяца назад +7

    May Allah bless you and your family, InsyaAllah.

  • @casusbelli8222
    @casusbelli8222 3 месяца назад +7

    May Allah SWT Bless and Protect you Sir, Abdul Karim and Prof Dr Habibah. Aamiinn.

  • @NorhanitaAWahid
    @NorhanitaAWahid 3 месяца назад +4

    I love Malaysia and its people too! Hope that we could retire there someday

  • @TheWizcakes
    @TheWizcakes 2 месяца назад +4

    Such a sweet man. May you n your lovely wife live a happilly ever after till Jannah. Amiiin.

  • @Kelapamuda126
    @Kelapamuda126 3 месяца назад +7

    Great explanation...👍👍as a Malaysian..i totally agree with you

  • @pakngah3715
    @pakngah3715 3 месяца назад +2

    2;06 That is not Habiba. Too young to have grandchildren.

  • @nurulainimuhammad9407
    @nurulainimuhammad9407 3 месяца назад +5

    Great beautiful people, Mr. Kieran and Dr. Bib

  • @abhs1141
    @abhs1141 3 месяца назад +12

    MasyAllah my brother , you are in safe environment in Malaysia imsyAllah ..

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 3 месяца назад

      InshaAllah

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 3 месяца назад +1

      When I was 9, my mom warned me about kidnappers and chopping up my body and selling it in the black market so she can never see me again. Worked well as a warning.
      It is def a lot safer than the US though which is why they feel safe here

  • @Veloce2000
    @Veloce2000 Месяц назад +1

    "American becomes muslim. Iranian becomes Christian. Syrian becomes Buddhist" and the list goes on & on....# Big Deal, So what??? Meanwhile all the Gods & Beings in Heaven go without a label .

  • @kausamsalam8543
    @kausamsalam8543 2 месяца назад +2

    MashaAllah. “No guns. No aggressive culture…..No hungry people that I know of.” Sounds like a blessed place, Subhanallah. 💜

  • @nellyzainal
    @nellyzainal 3 месяца назад +4

    He was my lecturer!!!!

  • @J-S.I
    @J-S.I 2 месяца назад +3

    All I can say I do relate to his sentiments of the spring and autumn smells in the air yet my advice to him to get serious about committing to the deen of Islam since he is retired now and is getting closer to meet Allah.

  • @nass7197
    @nass7197 2 месяца назад +1

    why do people always think.its only western countries that are advanced, they are actually behind compared to the global south, look ag UK economy, its downhill and the nhs is the worse health care in western

  • @jakemir558
    @jakemir558 3 месяца назад +10

    Alhamdullilah hirabbil aaalamin . Thanks Tn Karim

  • @A5J4DX
    @A5J4DX 2 месяца назад +3

    This just appeared on my feed and what a great interview... A great man indeed. May Allah SWT keep you steadfast ameen thumma ameen

  • @papadougpapadougsadventures
    @papadougpapadougsadventures 3 месяца назад +13

    I really enjoyed this interview

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank You for watching and for your positive feedback 🥳

  • @Freedmona
    @Freedmona 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow amazing man !!!! I want toarry 4 wives but they are all her. God Bless you Habiba and all your family.

  • @AidanZO305
    @AidanZO305 3 месяца назад +7

    You are very inspiring sir! How u were raised and your family in Malaysia and your overall attitude, demeanor, Mashallah I hope I am as content as you are. I live in Miami and its very different here, guns for one thing … living in Florida! Wish your family and you, great health and happiness, Ameen

  • @caspeansea9619
    @caspeansea9619 2 месяца назад +1

    Which branch of UiTM he worked as a lecturer.? Shah Alam I guess.? But I don't remember seeing a white professor in my four years studying there.

  • @Number-lq9jb
    @Number-lq9jb Месяц назад +1

    yea,colonized by japan ,british,dutch ,Portuguese and so on..

  • @fuadarif4056
    @fuadarif4056 3 месяца назад +2

    I know him. He used to lecture semiotic.

  • @mehmetozkan6510
    @mehmetozkan6510 2 месяца назад +4

    Masallah brother, welcome to Islam

  • @arivfotomoto3642
    @arivfotomoto3642 3 месяца назад +12

    Wonderful listening to you sir. God bless

  • @doriasalmon4790
    @doriasalmon4790 2 месяца назад +3

    What a delightful man
    Good attitude
    Just a pleasure watching and listening to him

  • @zackywacky5581
    @zackywacky5581 2 месяца назад +1

    Love him saying he would marry his only wife 4x over❤❤❤❤ that's a real man😂😂😂😂

  • @rumbling3991
    @rumbling3991 3 месяца назад +4

    Hello Adam Johnston's dad 😂

  • @SaidOsman-x5t
    @SaidOsman-x5t 3 месяца назад +46

    That's is true.Many westerner still don't know where is Malaysia.Thank you Haji tell the truth about our country.One of the safest country in the world.Malaysia is a great country.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +6

      I completely agreed.I had a great time talking to this gentleman 🇲🇾🥳

    • @Eye-xg9bz
      @Eye-xg9bz 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Livingabroadalexthe next time i will interview you.. 😅

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +2

      Deal!

  • @wannasir5167
    @wannasir5167 3 месяца назад +3

    Habibah works in kpp shah alam. And husband kieren? I remember them.. My x bos patricia biddinger? Am I wright?

  • @tajabdullah.malaysia
    @tajabdullah.malaysia 22 дня назад +1

    Masy'Allah Allahuakbar Permudahkan urusan kami semuanya aamiin 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @abangjohariabangsharbini1493
    @abangjohariabangsharbini1493 3 месяца назад +8

    textbook answers given his background. enjoyed the interview

    • @iwanxangoman
      @iwanxangoman 3 месяца назад +1

      Have lower expectation, and open your mind wherever and whatever you do.

  • @naginurlan6542
    @naginurlan6542 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes I thought also about the weather there must be bored to have same weather all year around! I prefer to live where all seasons during the year

  • @ksskchannel6978
    @ksskchannel6978 2 месяца назад +4

    What a lovely & positive man

  • @jothybaran6801
    @jothybaran6801 2 месяца назад +1

    If a person convert from heart . Not for sex or money .

  • @Yasin_Affandi
    @Yasin_Affandi 3 месяца назад +10

    What a wonderful video. It's a very interesting interview. Lovely.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts as always Yasin!

    • @Yasin_Affandi
      @Yasin_Affandi 3 месяца назад +2

      @@Livingabroadalex Thank you too. 😀

  • @normahothman3198
    @normahothman3198 2 месяца назад +1

    Dr Bib was my bos at UiTM. Wonderful bos. 😊

  • @safuwanfauzi5014
    @safuwanfauzi5014 3 месяца назад +3

    I also have tropical garden and tropical plant collection, yes mosquito is problem especially if you collect or grow plant like "colocasia' or taro, or talas in malay. and land taro like caladium/keladi and alacosia/birah, aquatic plant, and even you dont have it, mosquito love to hidden at your garden, and your greenhouse where your plant collection grow.

  • @bazmsc
    @bazmsc 2 месяца назад +2

    Wowww man… congratulation to you man. 👍👍👍😁😁😁

  • @zcemn01
    @zcemn01 2 месяца назад +1

    terkejut tengok uncle karim popped up on youtube

  • @norama3998
    @norama3998 2 месяца назад +2

    أنت على رجاحة عقل في إسلامك ..اللًهم ثبات لك على دينه الحقّ بطول عمرك ..
    آمين .. آمين ..🇩🇿

  • @MM-tj3ko
    @MM-tj3ko 3 месяца назад +4

    I don't mind the sweating, it's natural. But the mosquitos bug me to no end, you can use repellant but it smells lemony and artificial haha