What to Do If You Give Your Partner Herpes
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- Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
- In this video, Alexandra Harbushka from Life With Herpes shares what to do if your partner comes to you and says they got herpes. There are 3 scenarios either you disclosed, didn’t disclose or had no clue you had herpes. Learn what to do if this happens to you.
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Video - What Happens When You Don’t Disclose To your Partner - www.lifewithherpes.com/blog/3...
Video - I slept With Someone & Didn’t Tell Them - www.lifewithherpes.com/blog/1...
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What to say when your partner tells you they got herpes from you
When you’re diagnosed with herpes you’re thinking that you’ll never date or expose someone to herpes because you don’t want them to be in the physical pain or suffer from the emotional pain that you’re in. As time goes on you’ll begin to date and the fear of passing herpes to a partner will lessen. However what happens if you do give them herpes. Well it boils down to three scenarios; you disclosed, you didn’t disclose or you had no clue you had herpes. Alexandra breaks it down step by step and will walk you through what to do.
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Thank you so much. This made me feel much more comfortable. Disclosing bus so hard and it’s nice knowing you are here with these videos for this community.
I had a super minimal outbreak it was so minimal that I thought I had bug bites on my thigh and forearm and it didn’t even look like a lesion it 100% looked like a bug bite. I had a couple on my lower back and my forearm and again it look exactly like a bug bite I came back positive for hsv 1 and negative for hsv 2. Your channel is awesome and this shit ain’t gonna kill you. There’s millions of people in this world living with worse conditions that are 100x more deadly yet there’s at least a million people in the world right now that are walking around with this virus that don’t even have a clue they have it. Its not deadly and way blown outta proportion. I don’t know who I got it from but whoever it was they didn’t know most likely or they didn’t tell me and it was either back in 2017 or 2018. Ive never had an actual outbreak or cold sore before but your channel is awesome and helping me I didn’t know I had it until I had a cut on my lip and I thought that was from the herpes and I think it was. I subscribed and your content is awesome i just feel better knowing this condition isn’t deadly and there’s millions of people in this country walking around with heart diesease hiv kidney diesease cancer. There’s worse shit out there than herpes. Its not different than having acne or mosquito bites. Most people won’t get tested for it cause they know it isn’t deadly or a big deal so they don’t think it’s worth it and they don’t wanna soak up the shame of knowing they have a positive test.
Thank you sweetheart 💓
Thank you for you’re help guidance and answers I will pay for things like this. Do you have a go fund me page or donation page at all? i just want to show you how thankful I am to have been introduced to your Instagram and RUclips content!
Thank you! I've created a Patreon account if you want to donate. www.patreon.com/alexandraharbushka
Thank u
Explaining to new sexual partners is often a deal breaker and there's no argument
might be, but its the responsible thing to do and youre honestly an asshole if you don't. They deserve a choice. Maybe try and wait for the relationship to get more serious before telling. If you just want hookups, find certain websites.
well i came clean with it did not know i had it and got sued......
What was the outcome of that case ?
How do you know if your partner have you herpes after one is affected? And especially if the person hasn't tested.
If he doesn't have outbreaks and didn't get tested, you can't.
I gave one of my partners herpes with out me knowing, I didn’t know I had it.
He found out cause he got a rash but my other partner after him don’t go symptoms you think they have it ?
Didnt have*
The only way is for him to get tested and see
You are so beautiful and pretty most of us don't have that advantage
You can have horrible pain in your genitals and not know that you have herpes. You could have a horrible yeast infection that can become super painful specially if you’ve had sex and made it raw, you could have a UTI that is painful and burning. You don’t always have to have blisters with it outbreak. So of course there’s tons of things that can cause terrible vaginal pain. I didn’t know I had it because I didn’t have any blisters
You can have it and not have break outs
My boyfriend of 2 years just gave me herpes. I ended up in the hospital in horrible pain bc I couldn't pee and my bladder was distended and liver effected too. I hate him, want him to move out and pay my medical bills. I don't know what to do. I feel like he's destroyed my life and health. I don't know what to do
How were u feeling ? I’m having my first outbreak and I thought I had a UTI because it hurt to pee so badly my body is so achy I feel horrible
Did you know beforehand
@brieesdamn brieanna ur fine as hell.❤
If both in a couple have herpes, can they still have a healthy baby herpes free ?
Thanks
Yes, baby is save in the womb and it transmits with skin to skin contact, so if you have genital herpes, then you need to talk with your doctor how to lessen chances to minimum so you don't transmit during childbirth, which is very rare.
My ex gave me herpes damn well knowing she had it. Damn it sucks
What did you do?
The adult and mature thing to do is be straight forward from the beginning. You could get tested very easily especially if youve been unfaithful. What good is "oh im sorry. I didnt know" when all that could have been avoided. Just saying this from experience