I feel the opposite actually. This kind of videos make me feel like I’m wasting my time watching dumb things ( not Jess and Gabriel but the TikTok’s) they don’t add anything to our lives. I miss the old content they made with just chill and spontaneous vlogs 😢
The amount of times I cringed at some of those tiktok advices is unreal. So refreshing to see you guys have such a healthy relationship. I always thought that the "game" or like the "chase" thing in like early relationships or on dates is absurd because if your interested in someone genuinely you should be able to show it truthfully and it shows that your putting efforts in spending time with them. Btw, love your videos, been binge watching the old ones and jess's pregnancy videos.
As someone that is single, these men that give these advice actually scare me! I know it’s not all men that have the same views but almost all the people my age consume content on social media and I don’t know how much of these views they have adapted to
The part where they try to recreate the one of the guy and the girl at 4:07 .. I laughed so hard I cried - especially when Gabe went in for the kiss the second time and half licked Jess’ face and her reaction 💀😂
I feel like not a lot of people wrote it yet, but your youtube game has stepped up!! 🎉 the thumbnail game, intros, etc. (though pls keep posting vlogs, we love those hehe🙌)
I've been subscribed for a few years but haven't been keeping up consistently so now I'm binging y'alls videos and I have to say you both are hilarious and make such entertaining and genuinely fun content
Well... to be honest, both Jess and Gabriel are one of a kind type of people 😅 Never the less, they still are and have what I'm looking for. I don't follow dating advice on TikTok, from people with nothing real to back up their saying. I follow people like jess and Gabriel who know something about it. I see them as light in this world regarding how to live, behave and just be, and I thank God for them! Once I saw what they have, and realize it was possible, I changed my mind about dating. I believe if I behave "like a Gabriel", I will find "my Jess".
I agree with you. But your last sentence... hit me in the feels! 😭Yup! You just keep doing what you need to do and the right one will come in the right time and in the right (most beautiful) way! 😊
I love how they’re like “these are all about play games” 😂 but literally when I was “dating” or like talking to people before I was in a relationship it was all about that. Not like playing a game with their feelings or anything like that, but like “playing a game” in a sense where you want to “appear” a certain way. Like I always didn’t want to appear “too available” desperate or clingy. So I had certain rules I put on myself. I guess I was playing a game in a sense because I wasn’t 100% myself. But I was always like, the person who really wants to meet me, will meet me eventually and that’s when I let my walls down and let them in because they had put in all that initial effort. Idk if it was the “right” thing to do, but that’s what I did and I have a boyfriend now so must have done something right 😂
You guys are goals, I would rather take advice from people in a happy healthy relationship than those TikTok advices where their main priority is bringing the girl to your uncle’s restaurant lol
I was trying to watch this while holding my asleep 8 month old. The part about slowly leaning in is too funny. Now I have to pause and resume later because I'm afraid I will wake him up if I continue 😂
For some reason I really saw both your personalities really shine through in this video. I’m not sure if it’s the type of content or the filming style or if it’s just that you guys are really starting to get comfortable in front of the camera, but I’m seriously loving it❤ Keep going!
I find it awfully intimidating how messed up this generation is, and what's more miserable is to dare and think we will find AND fall in true love, in this day and age.. the advice not just here, but everywhere on the internet, is always oscillating between keeping your guards up, to gaslighting, to treachery, to trashy mind games just to 'acquire'. What's funny though is majority of these people are hurt from deep within and lash out with extreme corrective measures that do more damage than good, kinda like to even the scores on the hurt chart. The rest just join in mindlessly to spill BS cuz this is content seriously consumed and thereby lucrative. Horrific and depressing! How did we turn into a bunch of hateful cynics when all we ever went out looking for, was love? Blessed are couples like Jess and Gabe who found each other and now help sustain the meaning of true love❤ You keep us hopeful
It's an old PUA tactic named shit test . They believe women test men this way to check whether a guy has strong frame or not . If the guy becomes defensive or emotional then he looses attraction.
I agree, guys, people should just be their authentic genuine selves and show respect to others. I think parents and schools should be teaching more about what healthy relationships are. It seems to be totally skipped in education broadly.
0:38 thanks gabe! most of these men sharing "dating advice" on tiktok are not only generalizing women but also normalizing sexist comments and behaviors, they have men like andrew tate as "mentors" selling the "alpha male" bs and its absolutely disgusting
Okay hear me out, but there’s an element (a tiny element) of truth to the whole “make them insecure/anxious” thing. If you read “mating in captivity” by Esther Perel, she talks about something similar but in long term relationships. It’s really interesting!
I think the best relationship advice is from the bible. It just helps us to put God first in relationships and what to do through and in your relationship - giving guidance of what a good relationship should be like. ❤❤
I hope those who take this advice seriously stumble across this video and just... you know... realize. I am just tired of all this make them chase you, be unavailable, give them some anxiety trauma (that was the worst one). Can we just be honest and normal and healthy, geez😅
I think as a believer myself and in reference to you both Jess and Gabriel, watching these kind of relationship advise videos will be difficult to watch because it’s not in align of what we know. These videos are something more around normal for people living those sort of lifestyles. Where we tend to view relationships and marriage as a gift from God. There is no room to play games in a God focused relationship.
MAY Allah (God) bless you both and your families and keep increasing your love and respect for each other.. Really a couple I admire.. Stay happy guys❤️✨
1 Timothy 2:5 KJV "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;" You must repent from your sins(Luke 13:5) and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ(John 3:16). Otherwise, you will die in your sins(John 8:24), and go to hell(Matthew 10:28).✝ John 3:36 KJV "He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him."
I didn't understand that inner arm thing that drives women crazy. Jess, can you shed more light on that? BTW, when my wife and I were dating she told me her parents were wealthy and soon to pass away... I asked her to marry me on the spot. Turned out they were healthy paupers. Go figure.
The red jacket lady killed it 😂😂
I’d love the link of that tik tok
you could search up the username too it’s in the video if you look closely
True
I love the new video and editing format. It's so much more mature and laid back and actually funnier than the videos pre-marriage lol
I feel the opposite actually. This kind of videos make me feel like I’m wasting my time watching dumb things ( not Jess and Gabriel but the TikTok’s) they don’t add anything to our lives. I miss the old content they made with just chill and spontaneous vlogs 😢
It's very well done
@@brunasantos-tk3ddthe vlogs were boring now they’re innovating with new era of RUclips
Every time I see Gabriel's expression, it gets funnier and I laugh out loud xD
Gabriel has become so mature in all these years! And Jess looks so cute here💛 love you guys💛
The amount of times I cringed at some of those tiktok advices is unreal. So refreshing to see you guys have such a healthy relationship. I always thought that the "game" or like the "chase" thing in like early relationships or on dates is absurd because if your interested in someone genuinely you should be able to show it truthfully and it shows that your putting efforts in spending time with them.
Btw, love your videos, been binge watching the old ones and jess's pregnancy videos.
Some of the advice on TikTok is so ridiculous loool
Never take relationship advice from TikTok, noted ✍🏼
You should bring back the "peace out from jess and Gabriel "thing
Peace out from Jess Gabrial & "Milo"
I know, they got rid of it a little while ago 😢
Aww the way you guys are with each other 🥹💆🏻♀️
As someone that is single, these men that give these advice actually scare me! I know it’s not all men that have the same views but almost all the people my age consume content on social media and I don’t know how much of these views they have adapted to
I was searching for a video to watch while having dinner and you uploaded!!! Perfect timing!!!
The anxiety bit was so good😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You guys are soooo funny and wholesome 😂❤️❤️ thanks video made my day, love you guys
The part where they try to recreate the one of the guy and the girl at 4:07 .. I laughed so hard I cried - especially when Gabe went in for the kiss the second time and half licked Jess’ face and her reaction 💀😂
I feel like not a lot of people wrote it yet, but your youtube game has stepped up!! 🎉 the thumbnail game, intros, etc. (though pls keep posting vlogs, we love those hehe🙌)
I've been subscribed for a few years but haven't been keeping up consistently so now I'm binging y'alls videos and I have to say you both are hilarious and make such entertaining and genuinely fun content
They're hilarious
Gabe is so funny and jess going along 😂😂😂
Well... to be honest, both Jess and Gabriel are one of a kind type of people 😅 Never the less, they still are and have what I'm looking for. I don't follow dating advice on TikTok, from people with nothing real to back up their saying. I follow people like jess and Gabriel who know something about it. I see them as light in this world regarding how to live, behave and just be, and I thank God for them! Once I saw what they have, and realize it was possible, I changed my mind about dating. I believe if I behave "like a Gabriel", I will find "my Jess".
I agree with you. But your last sentence... hit me in the feels! 😭Yup! You just keep doing what you need to do and the right one will come in the right time and in the right (most beautiful) way! 😊
We see the upgrade on the RUclips guys!! You’re killing it.
Got notifications from Jess’s and this channel at the same time😂😂didn’t know which to watch first
Y’all are perfect for each other and i cant wait for the day I find someone who gets me like you guys do with each other!
I have faith that it will happen for you!
Omg such a funny video, am loving the newer content!! Excited for what's next!
so beautiful you guys!!
god bless you, your baby girl and your family 🥰💕 xx
You guys are hilarious 😂 thanks for making me genuinely laugh!
your reactions are the best 😂 laughed throughout the video
I miss the “peace out from Jess and Gabriel Conte”
this is the first video i’ve seen of y’all’s and the healthy relationship is so refreshing :)
Health relationships are the best
love this background and filming setup!!
I love how they’re like “these are all about play games” 😂 but literally when I was “dating” or like talking to people before I was in a relationship it was all about that. Not like playing a game with their feelings or anything like that, but like “playing a game” in a sense where you want to “appear” a certain way. Like I always didn’t want to appear “too available” desperate or clingy. So I had certain rules I put on myself. I guess I was playing a game in a sense because I wasn’t 100% myself. But I was always like, the person who really wants to meet me, will meet me eventually and that’s when I let my walls down and let them in because they had put in all that initial effort. Idk if it was the “right” thing to do, but that’s what I did and I have a boyfriend now so must have done something right 😂
Nothing like a good old anxiety to fall in love 😂😂😂
Absolutely loooool
Oh god I cringed hard but I loooove the original content you guys are putting out! Love youuu ❤
This video is so funny though lool
Naaaa bro! For the outro I need Gabe to keep shouting IIIIIIUU!!!!✌🏼 Lol God bless you guys!!
You guys are goals, I would rather take advice from people in a happy healthy relationship than those TikTok advices where their main priority is bringing the girl to your uncle’s restaurant lol
😂😂😂😂😂 its the reaction in the first for me. I love Jess so much lol. Shout out from 🇯🇲 Jamaica
i really hope to get a relationship as secure and mature as you both :”)
Never give up, that special someone is out there
I was trying to watch this while holding my asleep 8 month old. The part about slowly leaning in is too funny. Now I have to pause and resume later because I'm afraid I will wake him up if I continue 😂
Jess, I love your hair! It's so beautiful! ❤
Great new content and format.
It was funny! I was reacting with you guys haha love from Orlando❤
Gabriel's expressions... I can't 😂
watching u guys is a therapy
I enjoyed this so much haha
Love you both sooo much
Love you guys
Wow! That's insane! I have watched some good parenting and marriage advice on TikTok. But I have never seen those.
Hey, I miss yous "peace out from jess and Gabriel Conteeeer..eyyuuuppp"
Hair looking extra lushious today jess !
For some reason I really saw both your personalities really shine through in this video. I’m not sure if it’s the type of content or the filming style or if it’s just that you guys are really starting to get comfortable in front of the camera, but I’m seriously loving it❤ Keep going!
I find it awfully intimidating how messed up this generation is, and what's more miserable is to dare and think we will find AND fall in true love, in this day and age.. the advice not just here, but everywhere on the internet, is always oscillating between keeping your guards up, to gaslighting, to treachery, to trashy mind games just to 'acquire'. What's funny though is majority of these people are hurt from deep within and lash out with extreme corrective measures that do more damage than good, kinda like to even the scores on the hurt chart. The rest just join in mindlessly to spill BS cuz this is content seriously consumed and thereby lucrative. Horrific and depressing!
How did we turn into a bunch of hateful cynics when all we ever went out looking for, was love?
Blessed are couples like Jess and Gabe who found each other and now help sustain the meaning of true love❤ You keep us hopeful
This is hilarious 😂 moreee
Everything Gabe says I’m going “Righttt!” In agreement.
Yep, we are all guilty of censoring/modifying our text messages to seem fun and unattached.
Please make more of these vids
Jess is my absolute favourite 😂❤
The guy about being a player literally just taught us how to gaslight 🙄
It's an old PUA tactic named shit test . They believe women test men this way to check whether a guy has strong frame or not . If the guy becomes defensive or emotional then he looses attraction.
Freaking love you guys, soo funny
I agree, guys, people should just be their authentic genuine selves and show respect to others. I think parents and schools should be teaching more about what healthy relationships are. It seems to be totally skipped in education broadly.
I’ll never understand “dating games” each year it gets so bizzare and for whatt.
Gabe at the slow moving thing 😅💀
Died when Jess did the eye thing😂😂😂😂
first!!
Miss your spontaneous vlogs 😢
I miss the old Jess and Gabriel videos for real.
I am from india and you guys are amazing!!!
I miss peace out from Jess and Gabriel Conte🥺
0:38 thanks gabe! most of these men sharing "dating advice" on tiktok are not only generalizing women but also normalizing sexist comments and behaviors, they have men like andrew tate as "mentors" selling the "alpha male" bs and its absolutely disgusting
the video on jess’s face was “showing my husband a 3rd degree child birth tear”…..
great dating advice 😅
Jess is so perfect 🤩
gabriel's maturity 👏
Hey Jess and Gabe ❤
i was so eagerly waiting for your videooo.........
I love you guysss...from INDIA
lol commenting on every video expecting you will reply mee T T
Okay hear me out, but there’s an element (a tiny element) of truth to the whole “make them insecure/anxious” thing. If you read “mating in captivity” by Esther Perel, she talks about something similar but in long term relationships. It’s really interesting!
I will not go to tictock for dating advice I"ll just come to your channel...
Gabe is soo funny Were you like this you two started dating in person?
I miss the outro you guys do
I think the best relationship advice is from the bible. It just helps us to put God first in relationships and what to do through and in your relationship - giving guidance of what a good relationship should be like. ❤❤
I loved this but cringed so hard 😅😅😅 especially when Gabe was trying to kiss Jess 😅😂🫠
Why'd you guys stop saying "peace out from Jess & Gabriel Conte" at the end of your videos? Love u guys!!
I hope those who take this advice seriously stumble across this video and just... you know... realize.
I am just tired of all this make them chase you, be unavailable, give them some anxiety trauma (that was the worst one). Can we just be honest and normal and healthy, geez😅
Ugh, everytime I watch the videos i wonder why we stopped with the outro 😢 I miss it - anyone else notice?
No one was prepared for these videos😅
Coach Kyle! W Coach Kyle! Data my boy!!
I lovvvve you guys soooo much
Bring back the prompt us pod
hahahahahahhaha Gabe's faces
I was laughing the whole time lmao!
Good thing those cringy useless advice were never in my fyp. Not sure from this point forward tho . . .
Very funny 😂😂😂
Jess @ 6:20 😂😂😂
I think as a believer myself and in reference to you both Jess and Gabriel, watching these kind of relationship advise videos will be difficult to watch because it’s not in align of what we know. These videos are something more around normal for people living those sort of lifestyles.
Where we tend to view relationships and marriage as a gift from God. There is no room to play games in a God focused relationship.
Where was your "peace out..." outroo😭
They got rid of it a little while ago and replaced it with "byeee ✌️" 😭😭😭
@@molliefitzpatrick8157 oh no, so sad:(
SO glad I'm not dating now
MAY Allah (God) bless you both and your families and keep increasing your love and respect for each other.. Really a couple I admire.. Stay happy guys❤️✨
1 Timothy 2:5 KJV
"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;"
You must repent from your sins(Luke 13:5) and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ(John 3:16). Otherwise, you will die in your sins(John 8:24), and go to hell(Matthew 10:28).✝
John 3:36 KJV
"He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him."
this is not the way to give the good news of Christ.@@elbertrobles8784
"welcome to America" 😂
Most of these people giving advices like that probably haven't moved past the first dates in a while!
I didn't understand that inner arm thing that drives women crazy. Jess, can you shed more light on that? BTW, when my wife and I were dating she told me her parents were wealthy and soon to pass away... I asked her to marry me on the spot. Turned out they were healthy paupers. Go figure.
People are clearly desperate for a relationship
Hmm, go figure... I guess tiktok isn't a good place to find relationship advice! 🤷🏻♀️
Omg .. some people have no idea so dumb these videos it’s sad!
I think girl 5:39 has a russian accent..😅
I saw Jess’s cringe and had to watch 😂
so much bad advice. so much gaslighting in those TikToks.