Being In Love Is A Choice: Valerie & Daniel | ZULA Features | EP 11
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- At 20, Valerie almost broke up with her now-husband Danial, until a surprise pregnancy and the birth of their first daughter brought them back together. 8 years on, this is how Valerie learnt that love is a choice, not just a feeling.
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ok, tbh when she said “his dad didn’t want him to raise the baby cos he’s too young”, i thought he’d be way younger than her but he’s only one year younger lol. isn’t she as young as him then?? how unfair for her and seems so entitled on his father’s part
I really applaud Valerie for accepting back Daniel into her life without holding any resentment further and letting go of the hurtful past.
Can't imagine being pregnant for 9 months and not even notice it! ( Is this rly scientifically possible )
Shanice Teo TLC has a entire series called I didn't know i was pregnant so yeah its possible HAHAHA
Yes.
Not the first defo not the last.
Yes. Everyone experiences pregnancy differently. Some people don’t even get a baby bump.
9 months without a period would be slightly worrying though...
and then give birth 3 days after finding out, i would have a mental breakdOWN
I LOVE YOUR STORY SO MUCH. It really is so comforting knowing that there is someone as strong willed as you, Valerie. I hope i dont ever relate to your situation HAHAA but you have made my problems thats my feelings feel small. And not in an intruding way. Thank you for inspiring me today zula.
Just wanted to say that she is really brave and I really admire her for that ! :) you are doing great!
By far my one of my favourite serieses not only on Zula but on yt
this was beautiful! 💕
Am I the only one that's pissed off he knock her up and then almost got away with it coz she considered raising the baby herself???!! Where are their morals...'being young' is not an excuse..
What honesty and perspective. Thanks for sharing! Interestingly, Valerie does not seem to have converted, I guess they had a civil marriage.
Nicole they did? You sure? what about the kids though I wonder? Follow which religion?
Faizal Hassan leave them alone
I like how their love developed
Your kids are gorgeous!!! 💛💛 and this story was beautiful :)
Beautiful..cheering you both always
I dont understand at which part is inspiring...
this is beautiful ❤
Such a sweet couple❤️Stay blessed❤️
so rare tbh, nowadays everyone little thing just sua dont care break up already
My wife is Muslim and I am Hindu,neither of us forced the other to convert because we knew we love each other to know that religion is not the thing that bonded us. I will fast with her for Ramadhan most times and she has agreed not to cook or bring beef at home out my religious duty. She comes to the temple with me and I have followed her to some religious dakwah. Even when some people of her faith tries to goad me into saying I have to be Muslim, I know she has my back to tell people to mind their own business. Religion only becomes a barrier when you let it.
My bro, love one thing, faith another. In fact Islam discouraged a muslimat married to a non Muslim, except she has an in-depth knowledge of her religion, so that she can guide the husband in all aspects of life. Of course, the husband still the man who lead the institutions, & respected by the wife's. Marriage in Islam is about unity,& faith & practices. It can't be separation between the two. On the Day Of Resurrection,both husband,wife & family members will be judged. I believe, your wife knew precisely about this. Hidayah belongs to Allah SWT, I wish you'll be chosen, InsyaAllah,.
@@ruslanmuhd5032 , Religion is just a guide and moderation is key... Letting religion rule your life and dictate how you live your life is wrong... Nobody follows everything 100%, even the most fanatical do not do that.
@@ruslanmuhd5032 sorry by this logic, I believe I was led by my God to lead her to Hinduism and let her accept Shiva in her heart which can you refute since I am her husband and her duty is to follow and obey her husband, see how sexist that was? Her connection to religion is to her God and mine is to my God. I can already tell we pray to the same God just different ways, I respect her as Muslim and she respects me as a Hindu. Allah and Shiva/Yahweh is the same cosmic energy, all our different paths will eventually lead to the same road. Anyone telling me only their religion is right is insecure or don't understand their religion well enough because I know for a fact that is not what Allah would want his followers to do.
@@sairen5121 well actually when u go for religious studies and do some research, theres only one religion and the rest are man-made teachings. The reason why "all' religion lead to the same destination is because theres only 1 religion to follow. If you follow a "man-made" religion then theres where you are wrong because its more a teachings than a religion. Of course this statement would be very offensive. Which is the real one? Thats up to u to decipher and find out urself and follow. :)
@@usagiunagi4195 Mine doesn't, yours does and this is based on Hindu scriptures thousands years before Islam and Christianity even. I'm happy my wife has her faith and she is happy I have mine. We both are good people and we never let religion divide us. Our time in earth is limited so I want to create happy memories with her, I suggest you do with your loved ones instead of going on a pointless charade on how two people lead their lives.
It's a great video, please do more "Love is a choice" videos
LMAO its pretty much he was left with no other choice but to take responsibility.
LOVE!
......lovely family......
❤ congrats ❤
Preach 😩
Encourage family
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Is it possible for her not to convert ?
It is possible that they had a civil marriage.
nope he or she married to a Muslim person should revert to islam that most beautiful way of life.
@@ebonyloveivory A must. But one don't have to be a Malay & embrace its culture.
@@ruslanmuhd5032 A must what? If they are not practicing muslims, then it is possible she did not convert.
@@ebonyloveivory ..even before the would be wife/husband to a non Muslim,one should equipped themself with knowledge of the religion,in a distance to guide their partner, as well non stop attending a religious classes/kuliah, many Malays been brought up without a proper lesson, or they might have studied, yet stray from the right path..
Man , i need to be featured at zula... im marries to my lovebird troy.