"Nobody can get their feelings hurt, ever?" ACCIDENTALLY hurting someone's feelings is one thing, INTENTIONALLY hurting someone's feelings is something COMPLETELY different.
“Auggie can’t change the way he looks. So, maybe we can change the way we see.” I always loved that line. When I first saw this movie, I remember a few people in the audience clapped when he made that statement.
Yeah, I remember in a Ripley Believe or Not episode there was a man who was in an accident and some of his face had to be replace with skin prosthetics. And he had to live with the fact his face would never be the same. I know surgery has changed over the years but it won't always solve everything.
The scene was really well directed. Just look at how Julian’s mom behaved here and we will all understand why he was a bully. Nobody was born a bully or a harasser, they were raised into one
In the book his mother is actively antagonistic towards thr favt that Auggie is at the school and always refers him as having "special needs" and emailing the principal to kick him out because they are not an "inclusion" school. Everytime Julian goes home his mother has awful things to say about Augest. That isn't in the movie but I think it's an important detail to understand just how cruel she is
@@emmabennett7699 Sometimes less is more when it comes to visual mediums like movies. You can literally sum up what you said here in the book, in that scene alone. Her kid told another kid to die, based on his looks. She downplayed the situation as a kid hurting a kid's feelings and even that context makes it sound worse than she was trying to make it like. Then she admits to creating the photo that started the mess in the first place, as well as makes her bullying kid look like the victim, in turn making herself look like the victim, showing exactly what kind of cruel person she is that the book describes her to be. A cruel prejudiced sociopath who cares more about her self image than she does about the wellbeing, behavior and education of her son. I didn't even have to read this comment to know that. I just knew because I seen this stuff at my own school when I was young.
I admire how the principal is able to keep a calm confidence while they run their mouth and try to intimidate him. His words are few and precise and he seems genuinely sorry for the kid having those rotten people as parents.
He did. What Julian did was terrible, but when the principal interacted with the parents, I’m sure it was apparent that this boys transgressions were probably derived from his parents.
What I respect about Mr. Tushman is the restraint he shows in this scene. He never raises his voice, never scolds Julian for what he did, never calls out the mother for how utterly detestable she’s being. He shuts down their veiled threat with a single sentence.
It depends. Sometimes there parents raise them like that and other times, the bully has had a tragic past/childhood (past is for the bullies that are kids cause they are still going through their childhood)
Ocfan207 There was a follow up book to Wonder called “Auggie and me” and it was split into three different points of view (Julien,Christopher,and Charlotte) and it said in Julien’s segment that he had nightmares but did regret his actions and apologise to August.
This is literally the most accurate depiction of a bully. Not a bad kid, just taught he can get away with everything, and he suffered the consequences of his horrible parents actions. You definitely know who did and did not get bullied when the parents were in school
In the companion novel Julian spends time with his grandmother and realizes he's in the wrong, and funnily enough even the mother wants to drop the issue which shocks him.
I had a bully who's dad was a firefighter with my Uncle in the same department. My Uncle wasn't a fan of his dad. Of course I didn't understand at the time that bullying falls back on the parents first as it's either taught or uncorrected
“Two days for a couple of notes from a kid” You’d be surprised how effective notes are to kids and how some will go into depression and even go so far to commit suicide
Poor Julian he actually felt shame and remorse for what he did, I think in his heart he wanted to fix things and make things right again but he was worried about what his parents would think of him. I also feel that he didn’t know how to fix things. I don’t think he was a bad kid just a kid with incompetent role models who influenced his poor choices
Not at my middle school in fact I am the reason 25% of the football team got benched for a 3 weeks so never say that all schools don’t care about kids who get bullied
this is what really pisses me off the most. Parents making excuses and blaming on the other kid instead of their own Child. I've been bullied once and I talked to my parents about this and they help me through hard times. But when parents blame on other people's kids, then, they clearly have their heads inside their asses.
EXACTLY!!! Plus, why should someone hate you for being yourself? Someone in my class told me I say weird stuff that makes them hate me. YEAH, WELL.. I AM WEIRD!!! ITS MY PERSONALITY!! GET OVER IT!!! The mom was only trying for Julian to not get in trouble, probably to not ruin the families reputation.
Bro I feel the same but I didn't speak up Thiers no point I found in talking about bullying Trust me I got bullied from kindergarten to the 8th grade by my personality and appearance I learned to deal Thiers no point in speaking up
@@Fbitypeshit that a better way for the principal the writers should've rewrote that for the character that scene would've been more intense but justify at the same time and it will give this young man a lot to think about for the next time he wants to hurt ppl.
Actually, in the sequel to Wonder, Julian gets a POV where he just kinda breaks down in guilt. It was a really sad moment and I’d recommend getting the book to read it
@@noahsmith48771:01 Julian has had nightmares because of that kid did you know that we had to take him to a child psychologist to help him deal with his night terrors
Thats why I love this movie. Instead of continuing to make him a bully the whole movie, they show why he’s the way that he is. When the notes are reflected to him, it shows him how he is, and it absolutely destroy’s him in the process. It shows that we’re all human, and thats why I love this movie.
I once had a principal who screamed and yelled at the student who was bullying me. Now that I’m 24, I’m a high school teacher working for that same great man. Edit: Thank you so much everyone for all the likes and comments. Faith in humanity restored.
Had the same kind of principal. The bullying was so bad in our school though that most the bullies didn't care and even tried to get yelled yet because they knew that's all the principal had the power to do. Got even worse when the principal quit my senior yet, I basically didn't show up to school anymore and barely passed. Had to stay after school for the last month to make up hours
As a teacher myself, I hate bullying and I don't tolerate bullying in my class, but I wish I could yell and do things I'm not allowed to do to a bully but I can't, we can't even transfer or expell a student that is being threatening to another student until something bad happens, we really need to review our policies on how to handle a bully and their parents on behalf of the bullied student and their families..
Expelling them is a surface solution. They'll just go to another school and begin their shenanigans again. But this time theyll be more angry ( because they had to go to a new schoool).
I think another issue is that his parents were a bad influence together because part of me wonders if the mother actually reflects some of the actions that both she and her son took. Kids see what their parents do and think it's OK to do the same thing when his mother treated them like the kid didn't exist by taking him out of the photos. Part of me wishes that they had another scene where the mother saw that they took his son out of the photo to kind of make her realize her actions a little bit. But I have to say I've never experienced bullying but I have experienced isolation because of both parents and children when I was little and I respect teachers to show that it's OK to be different and to make other kids realize that that's what makes the world better not be in the same
I've said this before and I'll say it again until people get it; we need to bring back the paddle. Kids don't like being in trouble. They especially don't like it when that trouble comes with pain. The Paddle? It worked then, it'll work now.
@Josh Roberts yes I was bullied in primary school and my mam told me to stand up for myself and not let them wall all over me..only trouble was I got suspended and not them
@@Fl0k5ser sadly that doesn't work, regardless of evidence Parents will fight tooth and nail for their opinions, I know because my step mother and father are like this, except they're going against me. Everything has been pointed against them with multiple witnesses and they still deny it, so no, evidence means nothing to these types of parents.
My guy just sat back, propped his feet on the desk and clasped his hands. I could practically hear the: "I'm gonna do something called a pro gamer move"
“Two days from a couple of notes from a kid” Bish he literally tried to push a boy into suicide and you turn your back around and say “awe my boy is so innocent and kind, he doesn’t do anything bad.”
Andrew Melendez I think at the end of this scene, he took the necessary first step to grow up and realize how screwed up the situation is that his parents are justifying his actions when they should be punishing him for it
When kids bully others, they've been bullied themselves in the past. The parents are the ones to blame for it is because they don't care if they bully others just because they were bullied in the past.
@@blackout07blue the Democrats are infiltrating schools and expelling God loving conservative children because of consequences for their actions.really America is destroyed
There’s really not much the Democrats and Republicans have a lot involvement in school, there is no proof that Conservative kids are being expelled more than liberals, nor more liberals than Conservative. And Democrats have done little with school, only just increase funding for schools rather than reform the actual school system. So please for both of you, argue with reason, this is the exact reason why I’m an Independent
Exactly. It’s like when you hate the bully in a movie or tv show and they seem like a horrible person, but then you see them in interviews or behind the scenes stuff all nice and getting along with everyone and you’re like oh yeah, they’re not that bad in real life.
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The Woman all dialogue in summary: *Im Rich, I should receive attention* The Principle all dialogue In summary: I'm trying to help a deformed child not have as big a depression as the size of your ego
“Julian has had nightmares because of this kid, we’ve had to take him to counseling” *OH BOO HOO, LET ME PLAY YOU A SAD SONG ON THE WORLD’S SMALLEST VIOLIN*
“Two days for a couple of notes from a kid” Two days for a couple of notes that will damage a poor child's mental health for life. That's what i call merciful.
If you write someone a note telling them to kill themselves and they do, in my country you could get charged with instigation to suicide. So yeah it is that serious.
What I like about Mr. Tushman is that while he disciplines Julian for the abuse he inflicted on Augie, his look of disgust as they leave is not about Julian's behaviour but about how he is troublemaker due to lousy parenting. That's why he accepts his apology, because he's sorry for the kid being stuck with foolish parents who justify his wrongdoings.
Jc Parker I hope to never see this happen to my wife or children. I don't want no one to bully my children and if that happens I want them to talk to the teacher, the principal and to me and their mother.
I love how cool, calm and collected the Principal was to these parents with their snide and harmful comments towards him and Auggie. He displayed amazing composure and took the higher road.
I hate the “it’s my child so I’ll defend them even if they’re wrong” mindset. It’s just not fair to the real victims in those scenarios. In my own school years ago someone in my year was bullied to the point of feeling physically ill and stayed home for a week. The teachers got wind of it and suspended the bully and his parents were in the same day to complain saying the other boy needed to “grow a thicker skin”. Parental love can be amazing, but blind faith and support while overlooking their own child’s faults just lets them get away with anything
“He’s just a kid” “they’re too young to be dealing with this sort of thing” Yeah I mean augie is also just a kid who is to young to be reviving death threats but go off I guess
Love this scene. I actually know many sets of parents who operate like this. They think money is the answer to everything. Great that Julian realized the error of his ways and was prepared to say sorry.
i heard a similar story in here, one guy was copying on a test in university, a teacher saw him and tell him that he wouldnt expel him but he will get a zero, the guy screamed that he knew a lot of important people, the teacher said that he knew more, the guy got expelled and need to get a lawyer because the teacher denounced him against the authorities
The Bully in this is well done. Like a lot of people, he is fine with bullying someone (especially people online) if he doesn't see the affect on them. He is perfectly comfortable in the beginning of the scene. But once he sees all the notes and everything he starts to see where he went wrong. Very nice.
otakurocklee sadism is a very very rare mental condition. Most kids bully because it’s funny and they aren’t thinking about the effects they have on the people they are bullying. At least that’s why my classmates and I bullied each other
@@amasion2882 That's EXACTLY it! No consequenses = no regrets. In the real world, with most bullys, another step needs to be added though. No consequenses = no regrets. Confronted = fake regret. Real consequenses = real regret. To get from step 3 to actual life altering change is rare.
"He can't change the way he looks, so maybe we can change the way we see." This movie is fantastic and criminally underrated. The acting is phenomenal.
Z K if you have a good reputation with the school board, they will usually side with you vs what parents say about you unless they have very clear evidence of misconduct.
“These kids are too young to be dealing with this sort of thing.” Look Karen, if a bunch of kindergarteners can be best friends with a girl whose arm is permanently at a 90 degree angle and covered in scars and be nice about it, a bunch of 5th graders can leave a kid who has a few scars on his face alone. I got so pissed at this scene. Like cmon if kindergarteners can be nice to kids who look different then fifth graders can too. I write from personal experience and witness, I have a friend who’s right arm is twisted and paralyzed because and I quote “a nurse messed me up”.(her exact words idk the rest of the story). Look as far as I know everyone has been pretty nice about it and if 6yos can, then 11yos can
what if in his new school there are more kids w/ deformities? i like that the other kids came around. honestly at first people can be reluctant once they got to know him they were warmer towards him
I taught middle school. When kids turned 11 or 12, they start to change drastically. They start moving into "tribes". This is the period in life where kids are trying to make a name for themselves in middle school. Unfortunately, that involves a level of bullying other kids, or clowning them for the clothes they wear, or how much money they have, etc. Kindergartners are still innocent. They don't know themselves as well as middle schoolers. After middle school though, once kids reach high school, they are still judgmental but not so much. Teasing and bullying is not as intense.
And that scene pissed me off too. Because the principal did something against bullying, and the mother was like "taht's not how the real world works, you can't care about everyone's feelings, blah blah blah". What she says is basically "lmao you really trying to solve problems ? The world is what it is." And it pisses me off because that's the same type of response we get when we try to fight racism, sexism, LGBTQ+phobia, fatphobia, etc etc. Basically people do not care about others' feelings, they are too selfish and have too much ego to admit they are wrong. So that's why the world can not change. Because of the mentality of this mother. Because of the mentality of so many people.
Isaiah Daniel I think the Wife is in Control Of the situation, There’s some Rich Or Money lending parents who has Good Friends in the board, But There’s Some Relationships That the women Is in control, Cause Of Money But this is a movie but there’s some Parents who acts like that
I love how the principal did his absolute best to understand this situation from all sides, the victim's side, the bully's side and any other sides that might have been taken into account. He did the right thing, and I love how realistic this scene is. "He can't change the way he looks, so maybe we should change the way see." One of the best quotes in this movie masterpiece.
@@iskender1327 its case by case, to say never on either side is just highly ignorant. To act like parents dont play a part in a good/bad child is ignorant but thinking a child wont/cant do what they want is also very ignorant.
Hayden Graczyk they’re not brain dead. They just don’t think their child deserves getting punished for this so they try to act like it’s a little thing which is why she says they’re just a “couple of notes” and then tries to make it seem like a normal thing you can’t help since in the real world you get insulted all the time, and then they say they’ve done so much for the school because of the money they have along with the many friends in the school board as if they are important people that can take his job. These are all different ways of manipulation. So they seem to be somewhat smart in that regard, and not brain dead. Brain dead would be genuinely seeing nothing wrong in this whole thing and thinking their child is perfect. The parents know it’s wrong which is why the mom initially takes part of the blame in the beginning
Mandy uttered the line "I know you are, Julian" with the same lovely, deeply reflective tone of voice he used to say "I have been in the revenge business so long, now that it's over, I do not know what to do with the rest of my life." Which was also his favorite line, btw. I smiled really big.
Even more crushing knowing that the bully actually grew throughout the movie and learned to get along with the kid and understand what he did was wrong. Bad parents suck
This is my youngest son's favorite movie. He has watched it every year since grade 3 and I was very surprised when I sat down to watch it with him. For a young guy whose so tough and rough. Mischievous and hard of hearing, it opened him up and softened his ways. Nice flick that helps closed minds experience life in another's shoes.
Should've secretly had this conversation play over the P.A. system. That way every student, faculty and staff member in the building would hear these clowns.
“Nobody can get their feelings hurt ever?” Madam, there is a clear difference between accidentally hurting someone’s feelings and doing it intentionally. Perhaps you should try looking at how it affects, as you called it, “the real world” Also, damn Mandy Patinkin is a great actor and a national treasure.
@Brayden Pender elementary, bullied 3 years in a row by this same older kid that constantly picked on me about wearing the same clothes everyday, i wasn't broke i just didn't changing outfits, and had multiple sets of the same clothes, school did nothing after i reported it every month "we do our best to stop bullying" middle school, bullied by an older student that found humor and amusement in taking my writing utensils and either hiding them or leaving them where they were broken, only stopped when i got fed up and attempted to stab him with it, in which i was suspended, and he was slapped on the wrist, but stopped doing it "we do our best to stop bullying" high school, far too much to list, we all know what happens in high school, but "we do our best to stop bullying"
Julians dad actually looked like he understood what Julian did was terrible. But instead of arguing with his wife he just stayed quiet and tried to keep Julian in school.
I’ve read the Wonder book and yes it actually was true, Julian’s mom really did photoshop Auggie out cuz Julian was scared of his face and they really took him to a child psychologist cuz he was genuinely scared. but i can tell that at the end it all worked out for both of them and they became sorta friends. recommend the book 10/10
What I love the most about this scene is that it shows where Julian gets his close minded behavior. This scene proves that kids are products of their parents. I admire how this moment teaches Julian that his actions have consequences.
KaoticcKenzieRBLX ! I know this is an old comment, but it’s totally right. He isn’t going to go far in the world without being able to treat other people with basic human decency.
Would you tell me please? Why should we punish this unaware boy, seen as a bully, for 10000 other bullies in the comment section? A person in real life can easily piss off people and act as a bully in the comment section the same as this situation.
I love this scene cause I’m glad he realized how wrong his actions were. Like when he said “I’m really sorry” I believed him! You can obviously tell where he’s getting these POV’s from. It’s sad he had to leave the school that he really liked. His mother is stupid and ignorant. And the crazy thing is there are people like that irl. This was a wonder movie!!
"Auggie can't change the way he looks. Maybe we can change the way we see" Such powerful words that everyone needs to hear and absorb. I feel this movie is very underappreciated.
It made me think of how a lot of people like Julian's parents did not grow up with the experience of meeting different people with genetic mutations. They probably would have been nicer parents to Julian if that were to have happened in their pasts. They wouldn't be such snobs and defend Julian's bullying behavior towards Auggie, but rather confront him asap for being mean.
I think this movie was set at a public school. Rich people have much less power over a public school. They lied about the nightmares and the money they put into the school. In the Public school world they don't care much about the financial power of a students family.
@Brayden Pender really? From my experience they handle things better, as kids at private schools have similar backgrounds, and the schools have more power. Since private schools have better facilities the school is much more aware, which you know, is kind of unfair to everyone else
@@albozz4350 in my experience, as a student at a private school, with parents who are teachers at a private school- parents have power over everything. we've had cases where students were aggressive, or even went as far as to hurt staff, but the teachers were still blamed because the parents complained. in private schools, (as said above) money = power and control
One of the best scenes of the movie. We see things not just from Auggie’s perspective, but also Julian’s. He realises the mistake he’s made & genuinely feels bad about it. We’re shown that Julian isn’t really a bad kid, but that he’s simply doing what he thought was normal having never known any other way thanks to his pompous & shortsighted parents. It’s Mr Tushman who is true MVP in this scenario. He can see that it isn’t Julian’s fault the way he is, being gentle & soft spoken in reprimanding him. Even when Julian’s parents try to turn the tables to make their son look like the victim, he outwits them both with his both wise & witty words. Tushman remains calm despite the parents threatening him or when they degrade Auggie. It takes a great deal of strength for an adult not to lash out when a child is hurt, Tushman held it together incredibly well.
That Mom is so royally screwed up that by the time Julian is old enough to go to college he's never going to leave home because his parents will do everything for him and Julian is going to look his mother say I hate you because of everything that she put him through when he was just a kid. And the mom talking about Julian having nightmares think about ogie and how many times he's had to have surgery to fix his face and wake up in pain. In the words of CS Lewis "experience is a brutal teacher but you learn my god do you learn" OMG thanks for all the likes.
I disagree. Rich people like Julian's parents got connections. So any of Julian's parents friends can hire him after college. It is us the working class who have to fight for scraps.
Dude his mother is a liar she just wants her kid do not get suspended even when she knows he's a bully Edit:DANG THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I GET OVER 1.0K LIKES And also this vid Is just like r/entitledparents
Scarlet spider Thank you for putting that out. I read the book and Julian got exactly what he deserved. How is he sorry? He's a bully!!! He's a b****. Sorry for my language.
Julian's mom: "These kids are too young to be dealing with this sort of thing." Also Julian's mom: "Nobody could get their feelings hurt ever? You are not doing these kids any favors."
The book actually does a good job giving Julian a redemption. I won’t spoil it, but while he’s visiting his grandma in France he really reflects on his actions and even tells his mom off and says he was in the wrong. He does a good job coming back around, if I remember correctly he makes amends with Auggie too.
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The dad looked like he was remorseful for his son's actions. But his wife's attitude had that "side with me or we are going to have a problem" tone
@Ali Shabbiri "well, I have more" biggest flex ever
He would have raised him on his own and divorced that awful woman
I’d say her name is Karen, but that’d be redundant
@@rossdiamondthief6627 it was Sarah in the movie 🎥
In the spin off book, it’s showed that his dad really did acually care, he takes to him and scolleded him for what he did to auggie
“I have a lot of friends in the school board”
“Well, I have more”
I love that line so much
"More" is better than "A Lot" that principal ended the mom with those words already
That line made me spit my water out. You can see in the dads face that he knew he lost that one.
@@tylerdurden6574 he really said that
@@MyBitch925 mr. tushman is a badass
And then he proceeds to lean back in his chair, proving his dominance.
"Nobody can get their feelings hurt, ever?"
ACCIDENTALLY hurting someone's feelings is one thing, INTENTIONALLY hurting someone's feelings is something COMPLETELY different.
Can believe nobody can get their feeling hurt and then said Tell that to the real world.
And say you not doing these kid anything favours, Julien Mom is a Jerk and a complete hipocite.
Ryan Tiemann the principal should have said that to her.
@@lewisfoster4391 she is a dumbass like why is she talking let the dad speak.
Does that go for using the wrong pronouns 😂
“Auggie can’t change the way he looks. So, maybe we can change the way we see.”
I always loved that line. When I first saw this movie, I remember a few people in the audience clapped when he made that statement.
Get facial surgery
He had already had like 19 surgeries in the movie
@@liberalbias4462 surgery leaves scars. you can't 'surgery' an entirely new face out of nowhere.
Yeah, I remember in a Ripley Believe or Not episode there was a man who was in an accident and some of his face had to be replace with skin prosthetics. And he had to live with the fact his face would never be the same. I know surgery has changed over the years but it won't always solve everything.
@@breeeegs he had 27 surgeries
“People can’t change the way they look, but maybe we can change the way we see.”
You're right
That might be one of my favorite movie quotes ever
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By far one of the greatest quotes in movie history
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That Principal is such a boss, he actually punished the perpetrator and not the victim.
And he didn't have to do it with a sword this time.
Well, pretty much every principal does that. If you think otherwise, I have to say, that's a myth.
@@EndlessSummer888 "You hit my student. Prepare to die." :)
@@zacharysiple629 "You bullied a student. Prepare to be suspended."
@@EndlessSummer888 Yeah, actually that works/fits better. :)
So basically the parents are saying "It's okay for my son to bully this kid and hurt his feelings because he's just that ugly"
She shouldn't be allowed to have children
I mean it's facts
bUT hE cAN't bE MeaN tO My kID bECauSE I woRK HErE aND I aM a kaREn WhO CAN't ReaD SeNCe If It kILLeD mE.
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@@isaacmburu8455 What a big boy.
The scene was really well directed. Just look at how Julian’s mom behaved here and we will all understand why he was a bully. Nobody was born a bully or a harasser, they were raised into one
learned behavior
In the book his mother is actively antagonistic towards thr favt that Auggie is at the school and always refers him as having "special needs" and emailing the principal to kick him out because they are not an "inclusion" school. Everytime Julian goes home his mother has awful things to say about Augest. That isn't in the movie but I think it's an important detail to understand just how cruel she is
@@emmabennett7699 yeah I read the book and his mother is worst in the book than in the movie
@@koolaiddudeawesome9850 I’m reading the book too in school and she is cruel
@@emmabennett7699 Sometimes less is more when it comes to visual mediums like movies. You can literally sum up what you said here in the book, in that scene alone. Her kid told another kid to die, based on his looks. She downplayed the situation as a kid hurting a kid's feelings and even that context makes it sound worse than she was trying to make it like. Then she admits to creating the photo that started the mess in the first place, as well as makes her bullying kid look like the victim, in turn making herself look like the victim, showing exactly what kind of cruel person she is that the book describes her to be. A cruel prejudiced sociopath who cares more about her self image than she does about the wellbeing, behavior and education of her son. I didn't even have to read this comment to know that. I just knew because I seen this stuff at my own school when I was young.
I admire how the principal is able to keep a calm confidence while they run their mouth and try to intimidate him. His words are few and precise and he seems genuinely sorry for the kid having those rotten people as parents.
We need real principals to be like this guy
@@callanightshade8079 lol no, they are just asses who are under qualified
Not the dad so much as the mom
It’s a film mate, relax
He did. What Julian did was terrible, but when the principal interacted with the parents, I’m sure it was apparent that this boys transgressions were probably derived from his parents.
"You cant change the way he looks. So... maybe we can change the way we see." - Mr. Tushman
Great quote.
Mr. Tushman is the best.
Tush
Albus Dumbledore reincarnated as a Muggle...
Tush
Its kinda a precept. And the one that says “you can’t blend in when you were born to stand out
I watched this at school and when Julian said “I’m really sorry” a kid yelled “NO YOURE NOT”
tinyrose yay I’m not the only one, also everyone at my school said his parents are... well since I’m still in school I can’t say it.
Tyron Is Back just say it no one in your school is looking
tinyrose watched it at school too.
Tbh it did seem that he was sorry.
He was sorry because he didn't want to get expelled. If he could, he would do it again.
What I respect about Mr. Tushman is the restraint he shows in this scene. He never raises his voice, never scolds Julian for what he did, never calls out the mother for how utterly detestable she’s being. He shuts down their veiled threat with a single sentence.
Yes, I concur.
Not only that, but the compassion and care he shows for all of his students makes him one of the best teachers in the media
@@LosmangosverdesHe’s the principal, not a teacher.
"Nobody can get their feelings hurt, ever?"
Your child is telling someone to literally die.
I know I got so mad atJullian when he wrote that
Rocky watching from the sky: I can’t believe this!
Well hey, they should be tough and not cry when people hurt them back.
So?
yeah, if I was mr tushman I would literally call child services
Bullies are some of the worst people in the world.
Parents who support their child for bullying others are ten times worse.
Just goes to show HOW people become bullies. It's always the parents!
The mom is a Karen
Couldn’t agree more
It depends. Sometimes there parents raise them like that and other times, the bully has had a tragic past/childhood (past is for the bullies that are kids cause they are still going through their childhood)
@Eggmun sometimes
“We had to take him to a child psychologist.”
Auggie had 30+ surgeries since birth
What nightmares anyway? He never once showed any emotion other than amusement toward Auggies face.
Ocfan207
There was a follow up book to Wonder called “Auggie and me” and it was split into three different points of view (Julien,Christopher,and Charlotte) and it said in Julien’s segment that he had nightmares but did regret his actions and apologise to August.
@@ghostieghost4158 whose Christopher.
@@gerdtt79 auggie's friend I believe
@@antonn.mp4 dont think that character exists in the movie.
This is literally the most accurate depiction of a bully. Not a bad kid, just taught he can get away with everything, and he suffered the consequences of his horrible parents actions.
You definitely know who did and did not get bullied when the parents were in school
nah hes a bad kid
In the companion novel Julian spends time with his grandmother and realizes he's in the wrong, and funnily enough even the mother wants to drop the issue which shocks him.
I had a bully who's dad was a firefighter with my Uncle in the same department. My Uncle wasn't a fan of his dad. Of course I didn't understand at the time that bullying falls back on the parents first as it's either taught or uncorrected
"These kids are too young to be dealing with this sort of thing."
Yeah. They are too young. Yet they ARE dealing with this sort of thing.
Oh your here lol
@@Green_Magic3226 fix your attitude before I fix you
@@megaxflame1539 what did they say, out of curiosity?
Oh you're here. Hoi
@@certiimxhzn bro I don't remember
“Two days for a couple of notes from a kid”
You’d be surprised how effective notes are to kids and how some will go into depression and even go so far to commit suicide
Conman 200605 should have been an automatic expulsion.
Words have more weight than people think. Whether it's written on paper or said out loud, they can still hurt
Don't worry, it's a movie😂
@@myspacevampire they call that Stockholm syndrome 😂😂
And she talks about going back to the real world.
“Julian had nightmares because of that kid”
That line just pissed me off.. and idk why
People also have nightmares cuz of tv shows. Is his mom gonna sue them?
THe mom has never imagine if she had a kid with the same disease as Auggie
Well, he is probably a crybaby if he gets scared so much by a kid's face
Well it’s not entirely his fault his mother is the cause of it because she raised him that way without even realizing it. She needs help as well.
@@Fl0k5ser *Medical condition, not disease.
Poor Julian he actually felt shame and remorse for what he did, I think in his heart he wanted to fix things and make things right again but he was worried about what his parents would think of him. I also feel that he didn’t know how to fix things. I don’t think he was a bad kid just a kid with incompetent role models who influenced his poor choices
Agreed. Kids aren’t born with a hateful attitude. It’s learned
its not an excuse what julian did tho
@@계정-k5n your right it did not excuse what he did, it was wrong
Yeah his arrogant and prideful mom and his remorseful dad.
@@계정-k5n not an excuse, just explains the why
Even though he bullied Auggie, Julian has more sense than his parents
They are why washing your hands has instructions, they literally say the word wash
Literally his father is the only parent that have some kind of sense but his mother, different story.
@Nathan Jereb IKR his mom is probably been raised by a Karen
yes
yes and Julien's grandmother had the most sense of all that family
Its really respectful that Julian understands his situation, better than his parents in this scene
At least Julian has a chance to change for the better
@@patrickacosta7031 I saw him near the end so I assumed he changed
The father is actually also understands Julian situation and feel remorse about it, his mother though is a different story.
@@dorourke105 there was another book with 3 different POVs, Julian’s part made me cry, I don’t remember exactly what happened but he did change :)
@@yzile6758 he talked to his grandma about the Holocaust and how she was saved by jack, a "cripple" as she said
The principle: helps a deformed child
Everyone: huzzah a man of quality
Nice "Flushed Away" reference.
Thx red five it felt right
Eeey my boy
Flushed away
A man of quality
Every one liked that
I’m here guessing that about 60% of people don’t get that reference
In the sequel when Julian visits his grandmother she reveals that she was saved by a boy with half a face during ww2
That story never fails to make me cry, no matter how many times I reread it.
Then the Germans killed him and his family because he was Jewish
Not half a face; disabled legs.
Wait his grandmother is jewish?
@@firemangan2731 No the people who helped his grandmother
principal: *actually does good for a bullied child*
**everyone liked that**
authorities of every school: we dont do that here
Not at my middle school in fact I am the reason 25% of the football team got benched for a 3 weeks so never say that all schools don’t care about kids who get bullied
I almost GOT KILLED and no teacher EVEN F***ING CARED!!!
@@arielsanchez1522 that’s how it be doe 😂😭
One of the best principles in media because he acutally is a good one
Unlike a lot in real life
this is what really pisses me off the most. Parents making excuses and blaming on the other kid instead of their own Child. I've been bullied once and I talked to my parents about this and they help me through hard times. But when parents blame on other people's kids, then, they clearly have their heads inside their asses.
EXACTLY!!! Plus, why should someone hate you for being yourself? Someone in my class told me I say weird stuff that makes them hate me. YEAH, WELL.. I AM WEIRD!!! ITS MY PERSONALITY!! GET OVER IT!!! The mom was only trying for Julian to not get in trouble, probably to not ruin the families reputation.
In the short story he is terrified of auggie
@@snakeshifter02 the mom destroyed his own son , you cant help your child like that especially when your son is completely wrong about this
Andreas Olsen same I got bullied from p 1-3 and a bit in p 4-6, I feel your pain
Bro I feel the same but I didn't speak up
Thiers no point I found in talking about bullying
Trust me I got bullied from kindergarten to the 8th grade by my personality and appearance
I learned to deal
Thiers no point in speaking up
When Julian said “I’m really sorry” the principle should’ve said “Tell that to Auggie.”
He was suspended he couldn’t have said it.
“I’m not the one you should say that too”
@@Fbitypeshit that a better way for the principal the writers should've rewrote that for the character that scene would've been more intense but justify at the same time and it will give this young man a lot to think about for the next time he wants to hurt ppl.
Actually, in the sequel to Wonder, Julian gets a POV where he just kinda breaks down in guilt. It was a really sad moment and I’d recommend getting the book to read it
@@ThePlatinumDragon oh okay thank you.
Every school deserves a principal like him.
So true if only we had one like him
@@noahsmith48771:01 Julian has had nightmares because of that kid did you know that we had to take him to a child psychologist to help him deal with his night terrors
1:38 you are not doing these kids any favors
1:35 nobody can get their feelings hurt ever
Too Bad They Rarely Exist
So bullying is result of bad parenting
Kyle Campbell in lots of cases yes
Kyle Campbell yeah
Kyle Campbell it's the parents fault that their son to be a bully, and they don't do anything about it
ofc it is ... some people should just be sterilized
cyboINC that's because they don't pay attention to their child
Even Julian is embarrassed about his parents.
Yes
More he‘s embarrassed about his mother for how she behave !
Thats why I love this movie. Instead of continuing to make him a bully the whole movie, they show why he’s the way that he is. When the notes are reflected to him, it shows him how he is, and it absolutely destroy’s him in the process. It shows that we’re all human, and thats why I love this movie.
At least his father are feeling sorry, but on his mother, it's a different story.
if I had parents like that I'd call child services
I once had a principal who screamed and yelled at the student who was bullying me. Now that I’m 24, I’m a high school teacher working for that same great man.
Edit: Thank you so much everyone for all the likes and comments. Faith in humanity restored.
Aw what lovely couple ♥️🤗
@@teacup251 I ship it
As a former bullied kid, respect
It’s true. I was the bully. And everyone clapped.
Had the same kind of principal. The bullying was so bad in our school though that most the bullies didn't care and even tried to get yelled yet because they knew that's all the principal had the power to do.
Got even worse when the principal quit my senior yet, I basically didn't show up to school anymore and barely passed. Had to stay after school for the last month to make up hours
As a teacher myself, I hate bullying and I don't tolerate bullying in my class, but I wish I could yell and do things I'm not allowed to do to a bully but I can't, we can't even transfer or expell a student that is being threatening to another student until something bad happens, we really need to review our policies on how to handle a bully and their parents on behalf of the bullied student and their families..
yes please
Expelling them is a surface solution. They'll just go to another school and begin their shenanigans again. But this time theyll be more angry ( because they had to go to a new schoool).
I think another issue is that his parents were a bad influence together because part of me wonders if the mother actually reflects some of the actions that both she and her son took. Kids see what their parents do and think it's OK to do the same thing when his mother treated them like the kid didn't exist by taking him out of the photos. Part of me wishes that they had another scene where the mother saw that they took his son out of the photo to kind of make her realize her actions a little bit. But I have to say I've never experienced bullying but I have experienced isolation because of both parents and children when I was little and I respect teachers to show that it's OK to be different and to make other kids realize that that's what makes the world better not be in the same
I've said this before and I'll say it again until people get it; we need to bring back the paddle. Kids don't like being in trouble. They especially don't like it when that trouble comes with pain. The Paddle? It worked then, it'll work now.
@Josh Roberts yes I was bullied in primary school and my mam told me to stand up for myself and not let them wall all over me..only trouble was I got suspended and not them
"We have a lot of friends on the school board."
"Well, I have more."
Most badass principal to roam the planet.
Don't understand why in real life schools can't handle bullies like this!
@@Fl0k5ser Because of parents like this, they defend their child to the point where they will deny reality.
@@TheMr5x they just need proof for the bullying problems
@@Fl0k5ser sadly that doesn't work, regardless of evidence Parents will fight tooth and nail for their opinions, I know because my step mother and father are like this, except they're going against me. Everything has been pointed against them with multiple witnesses and they still deny it, so no, evidence means nothing to these types of parents.
My guy just sat back, propped his feet on the desk and clasped his hands. I could practically hear the: "I'm gonna do something called a pro gamer move"
“Two days from a couple of notes from a kid”
Bish he literally tried to push a boy into suicide and you turn your back around and say “awe my boy is so innocent and kind, he doesn’t do anything bad.”
Yep
He is vey nice idk what you guys ate talking about the bully is the best
Now I’ll wait for the hate
His mom is a trash Karen
Sounds like a Typical Karen to me
That woman’s name should definitely be Karen.
She’s gonna speak to the manager any day now
Definitely a Susan
Sora Delon got to agree, she’s 100% a Susan
shrug r/whoosh
Plankton does not approve this
Put Auggie’s mom and Julian’s mom in the same room, now that’s a conversation I would’ve loved to see
more like a fistfight
More like all out karen fight
@@birb353 But Auggie mom was nice
more like a death match
@@PolishAxolotl just bc shes nice doesnt mean shed tolerate a woman talking about her son!
Julian is just a kid, honestly I blame the parents
Kids eventually grow up, but parents like Julian’s is the reason why he was a bully
Andrew Melendez I think at the end of this scene, he took the necessary first step to grow up and realize how screwed up the situation is that his parents are justifying his actions when they should be punishing him for it
No, did you see how calm was Julian's parents! It's logic he never got a palm or something like that !he simple is a Bully!
Andrew Melendez yea! His parents are the ones to blame
When kids bully others, they've been bullied themselves in the past. The parents are the ones to blame for it is because they don't care if they bully others just because they were bullied in the past.
110% agreed.
Do everyone a favor and be a responsible mom
Sorry, julians mom is off in b**ch land. Please leave a message
Well said QuesBeyChannel QuesBeyChannel!
when the mom said that mr tushman not doing any kids a favor i said your not doing anyone a favor even your SON
Hxpanic
That would have been an awesome line for this movie.
You had me in the first half not gonna lie
Y’all gotta stop hating on Julian. His mom was the evil one that spoiled him and filled him with pride
Pride is the enemy
Yeah, but there's no excuse for what Julian did
The question is, does that really make the boy innocent? After all, he was the one who had done the bullying, not his mother
@@HanstheCapitalist but if you look clearly, his mom encouraged Julian to keep doing it just because it made him feel better
@@cringewars0162 still doesn't change that he started bullying him without her encouragement, he is also at fault
“Two days for a couple of notes?”
Lady, your son told someone to die.
Back when I was in grade school a kid got expelled for that
@@viksinha5410 That must've been a long time ago then
@@aiyanyaqoob2203 I was in elementary school so it was before 2015
Keep it up woman or it will be a week
Yup that should be a week or two, bro encouraged a kid to commit suicidal
If only all school authorities responded this way to bullying in real life.
Fox News and Republicans would go crazy if schools did something about it.
@@blackout07blue the Democrats are infiltrating schools and expelling God loving conservative children because of consequences for their actions.really America is destroyed
There’s really not much the Democrats and Republicans have a lot involvement in school, there is no proof that Conservative kids are being expelled more than liberals, nor more liberals than Conservative. And Democrats have done little with school, only just increase funding for schools rather than reform the actual school system. So please for both of you, argue with reason, this is the exact reason why I’m an Independent
@@literallytired5469 r/ wooooosh
@@sreechandprasad3544 oh
I wish there was a school like this where teachers actually care about bullying 😂
@Aidan Robert In fiction.
Same. Mine was a joke. Bully’s just got the same punishment if they were caught, no matter how many times they were caught.
So true! The bullies ran wild in most public schools I was stuck in for many years.
Thunderbird 1 everybody running around doing whatever they want is probably the reason why I believe in strong authority now
@Aidan Robert ye in my school
These people are really great actors because they make me wanna punch them
Yeah that’s how you know they are
Especially auggie and the principal Ikr
Exactly. It’s like when you hate the bully in a movie or tv show and they seem like a horrible person, but then you see them in interviews or behind the scenes stuff all nice and getting along with everyone and you’re like oh yeah, they’re not that bad in real life.
Except the principal hes actually protecting a kid
To think people like this are real
Auggie can’t change the way he looks. So, maybe we can change the way we see.
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL dialogue!!
❤❤ 👏There’s gonna be people in this world who we might not fond to like or get along with,But at the end of the day,We have to learn to how deal with it,Life is Not Fair,You can’t always get your way.❤
I’m Like No. 101
I'm surprised Julian's psychologist didn't say that.😮
@@RegularInvaderif that was even true. I bet it was a lie
The Woman all dialogue in summary: *Im Rich, I should receive attention*
The Principle all dialogue In summary: I'm trying to help a deformed child not have as big a depression as the size of your ego
Hit the nail on the head.
Karen’s in a nutshell
If I heard a principal say that to a karen, I'd be incredibly impressed and giving a thumbs up to him. While mentally screaming 'DAMN!'
😅 oof this comment cr
Geo pfp
“Julian has had nightmares because of this kid, we’ve had to take him to counseling”
*OH BOO HOO, LET ME PLAY YOU A SAD SONG ON THE WORLD’S SMALLEST VIOLIN*
This is serious!
@@EndlessSummer888 I know! This really is the world’s smallest violin!
@@EndlessSummer888 I know! This really is the smallest keyboard!
*LET ME PRESS F ON THE SMALLEST KEYBOARD!*
Hahahhahaha lloooooll LMFAS
“Two days for a couple of notes from a kid”
Two days for a couple of notes that will damage a poor child's mental health for life. That's what i call merciful.
That’s more than just a couple of notes. There has to be at least a dozen.
If you write someone a note telling them to kill themselves and they do, in my country you could get charged with instigation to suicide. So yeah it is that serious.
What I like about Mr. Tushman is that while he disciplines Julian for the abuse he inflicted on Augie, his look of disgust as they leave is not about Julian's behaviour but about how he is troublemaker due to lousy parenting. That's why he accepts his apology, because he's sorry for the kid being stuck with foolish parents who justify his wrongdoings.
And the mother is acting like the narcissist that she is. Disgusting.
Kid: *Gets bullied*
Principal: *Does something about it*
Education System: Wait. That's Illegal.
Asian Principal : thats usual
@@thatonekid4717 ehat?
@@theinternet6981 what ?
It should be mandatory for schools to punish bullying behaviour.
@@freedomstar3930 damn right
But why that guy said "Asian Principal: its usual"
The Best Principal I HAVE EVER SEEN 😁
LEARN GEO Dang right
I wish that he was my principal because I have the same thing as Auggie but not all the things I don't have a eating aid and other stuff.
I wish I had him as my principal because my principal sucks
He's Santa
Me too
Julian mom is being an abused parent, & his dad act like he doesn’t care get me the hell out of here.
Abusive* Act*
Julian*
Jc Parker I hope to never see this happen to my wife or children. I don't want no one to bully my children and if that happens I want them to talk to the teacher, the principal and to me and their mother.
I love how cool, calm and collected the Principal was to these parents with their snide and harmful comments towards him and Auggie. He displayed amazing composure and took the higher road.
Imagine if the mother went full karen mode lol
At least u could tell Julian was sorry. Can’t say the same for his mom🤨
Well she's a Karen that's how they are
I hate the “it’s my child so I’ll defend them even if they’re wrong” mindset. It’s just not fair to the real victims in those scenarios. In my own school years ago someone in my year was bullied to the point of feeling physically ill and stayed home for a week. The teachers got wind of it and suspended the bully and his parents were in the same day to complain saying the other boy needed to “grow a thicker skin”. Parental love can be amazing, but blind faith and support while overlooking their own child’s faults just lets them get away with anything
she was hot though
YeAh
Julian was taught and raised by awful parents, and was influenced heavily. I feel bad for him
Mom was never told no as a child.
Fr
Exactly smh she's spoiled.
She is the exact definition of a Karen.
Someone needs to give her the beating her parents never gave
Props to the acting for making her a piece of shish.
“He’s just a kid” “they’re too young to be dealing with this sort of thing”
Yeah I mean augie is also just a kid who is to young to be reviving death threats but go off I guess
receiving*
Love this scene. I actually know many sets of parents who operate like this. They think money is the answer to everything. Great that Julian realized the error of his ways and was prepared to say sorry.
in the spin off book "auggie and me" he did call auggie and tell him that he was sorry for what he did.
"We have friends here in this school"
*Well I have more*
Respect: 100
That was so gangsta
@@randyrichmondiii3415 Everybody gangsta till principal tushmen pulls up
*you have no power here*
@@The_General_Owl *begone mortal*
And they ripped away all of their sons friends away by moving him to a new school.
“We have a lot friends in the school board, Mr. Tushman.”
“Well... I have more.”
Lmaoo he really thought he was doing smth 🤣😬
Parents:We went be back in the fall
Principal:(thinking) good riddance
Khalilah Anderson tushman should've had thug life and glasses in that moment
i heard a similar story in here, one guy was copying on a test in university, a teacher saw him and tell him that he wouldnt expel him but he will get a zero, the guy screamed that he knew a lot of important people, the teacher said that he knew more, the guy got expelled and need to get a lawyer because the teacher denounced him against the authorities
The Bully in this is well done. Like a lot of people, he is fine with bullying someone (especially people online) if he doesn't see the affect on them. He is perfectly comfortable in the beginning of the scene. But once he sees all the notes and everything he starts to see where he went wrong. Very nice.
Nah... that's a very "romantic" idea. Most bullies bully precisely because they know the hurt and damage it causes. It's simple sadism.
hahahhaa yeah right
otakurocklee sadism is a very very rare mental condition. Most kids bully because it’s funny and they aren’t thinking about the effects they have on the people they are bullying. At least that’s why my classmates and I bullied each other
The bully is sorry because he has consequences to his actions.
@@amasion2882 That's EXACTLY it!
No consequenses = no regrets.
In the real world, with most bullys, another step needs to be added though.
No consequenses = no regrets.
Confronted = fake regret.
Real consequenses = real regret.
To get from step 3 to actual life altering change is rare.
"He can't change the way he looks, so maybe we can change the way we see." This movie is fantastic and criminally underrated. The acting is phenomenal.
Father : " we have a lot of friends in the school board"
Principal :" well i have more "
Get rekt
Best roast/comeback ever
Z K if you have a good reputation with the school board, they will usually side with you vs what parents say about you unless they have very clear evidence of misconduct.
R/greatcomeback
/ooooooooo/
Principal: "I am the school board."
“These kids are too young to be dealing with this sort of thing.”
Look Karen, if a bunch of kindergarteners can be best friends with a girl whose arm is permanently at a 90 degree angle and covered in scars and be nice about it, a bunch of 5th graders can leave a kid who has a few scars on his face alone.
I got so pissed at this scene. Like cmon if kindergarteners can be nice to kids who look different then fifth graders can too. I write from personal experience and witness, I have a friend who’s right arm is twisted and paralyzed because and I quote “a nurse messed me up”.(her exact words idk the rest of the story). Look as far as I know everyone has been pretty nice about it and if 6yos can, then 11yos can
what if in his new school there are more kids w/ deformities? i like that the other kids came around. honestly at first people can be reluctant once they got to know him they were warmer towards him
I taught middle school. When kids turned 11 or 12, they start to change drastically. They start moving into "tribes". This is the period in life where kids are trying to make a name for themselves in middle school. Unfortunately, that involves a level of bullying other kids, or clowning them for the clothes they wear, or how much money they have, etc. Kindergartners are still innocent. They don't know themselves as well as middle schoolers. After middle school though, once kids reach high school, they are still judgmental but not so much. Teasing and bullying is not as intense.
And that scene pissed me off too.
Because the principal did something against bullying, and the mother was like "taht's not how the real world works, you can't care about everyone's feelings, blah blah blah". What she says is basically "lmao you really trying to solve problems ? The world is what it is."
And it pisses me off because that's the same type of response we get when we try to fight racism, sexism, LGBTQ+phobia, fatphobia, etc etc. Basically people do not care about others' feelings, they are too selfish and have too much ego to admit they are wrong.
So that's why the world can not change. Because of the mentality of this mother. Because of the mentality of so many people.
0:30 I think the dad for a moment thought: “Well even I think that was bullshit.”
He should have said something right there
Odd Freaks I know i was thinking the same thing
Isaiah Daniel I think the Wife is in Control Of the situation, There’s some Rich Or Money lending parents who has Good Friends in the board, But There’s Some Relationships That the women Is in control, Cause Of Money
But this is a movie but there’s some Parents who acts like that
The whip sound effect is appropriate in this moment.
Odd Freaks It seemed like he didn’t really wanna go along with it, but didn’t wanna speak against her either
I love how the principal did his absolute best to understand this situation from all sides, the victim's side, the bully's side and any other sides that might have been taken into account. He did the right thing, and I love how realistic this scene is. "He can't change the way he looks, so maybe we should change the way see." One of the best quotes in this movie masterpiece.
"Never blame the children. Blame their parents."
Don't blame them, blame both, the parent let the child do this, and the child did the wrong too, so, goodbye to both of them
@@crazywildegg54 sometimes the kid has not experienced enough to know better - but the parents have. The parents have no excuse
@@crazywildegg54 Please never work with kids.
sometimes the kid is the rotten one and the parents are actually good yk
@@iskender1327 its case by case, to say never on either side is just highly ignorant. To act like parents dont play a part in a good/bad child is ignorant but thinking a child wont/cant do what they want is also very ignorant.
Mom:a two day suspension for a couple of notes
Me: A couple of notes that say that can end somebody’s life
Exactly!!!
A couple. As in more than one. A repeated pattern of behaviour and bullying.
Does she not even listen to herself 😂
@@vexxama when she says I will be sure to tell that to the real world I say and I'll be sure to tell what u just said to the real world.
Hayden Graczyk they’re not brain dead. They just don’t think their child deserves getting punished for this so they try to act like it’s a little thing which is why she says they’re just a “couple of notes” and then tries to make it seem like a normal thing you can’t help since in the real world you get insulted all the time, and then they say they’ve done so much for the school because of the money they have along with the many friends in the school board as if they are important people that can take his job. These are all different ways of manipulation. So they seem to be somewhat smart in that regard, and not brain dead. Brain dead would be genuinely seeing nothing wrong in this whole thing and thinking their child is perfect. The parents know it’s wrong which is why the mom initially takes part of the blame in the beginning
@@slauderek3195 I wouldn't say she's taking the blame since she doesn't seem to feel even remotely guilty.
“ I know people in the school board”
“Well I know more.”
👏🏾
Lighting pack Water pack hahaha buuurrrrrrn
Nip in the bud
Right slap back in the face from mister tishman to that rich father
And the principal is saying “are you serious”.
Mandy uttered the line "I know you are, Julian" with the same lovely, deeply reflective tone of voice he used to say "I have been in the revenge business so long, now that it's over, I do not know what to do with the rest of my life."
Which was also his favorite line, btw.
I smiled really big.
“Auggie can’t change the way he looks, but maybe we can change the way we speak”
*deep*
Angietheunicorn change the way we see 👍🏼
Angietheunicorn my favorite line from
The whole movie
Bruh
Lane Ethridge u have me respect
The way we SEE, lol
Auggie is such an angel
*looks at good boys*
Salty Mcnugget haha I felt the same way after I saw that movie
@@nippy7425 that movie was good!
Eric Cartman agreed it was hilarious
Prince Vegeta no it wasn’t they are both good
Lol that was what I was thinking too
(I love both the movies though)
Even more crushing knowing that the bully actually grew throughout the movie and learned to get along with the kid and understand what he did was wrong. Bad parents suck
This is my youngest son's favorite movie. He has watched it every year since grade 3 and I was very surprised when I sat down to watch it with him. For a young guy whose so tough and rough. Mischievous and hard of hearing, it opened him up and softened his ways. Nice flick that helps closed minds experience life in another's shoes.
I feel bad for Julian. He’s just a kid, he has time to change, but because of his narrow minded parents he is never given the chance to change
Yea, and you can tell that he changed during this clip.
The principal giving Julian a consequence was good for him too in the long run.
I still wanted to put him through a table
John Lime he changed cuz he got in trouble
Read the book. He's actually not a bad kid
it just a two day freakin' suspension! What is the mom's problem?
Jacob Sherman Yeah!
Jacob Sherman was yeah! My mom would be upset, but she wouldn’t take it that seriously!
She is such an arrogant A**hole that she thinks she can walk all over everyone even her son
673
Jacob Sherman entitlement
Should've secretly had this conversation play over the P.A. system.
That way every student, faculty and staff member in the building would hear these clowns.
I just think that’s too goofy in a movie so realistic and grounded in reality like this. That would have been hilarious though
Exactly!
Actually list of the parents knew what they thought about Aggie
“Nobody can get their feelings hurt ever?”
Madam, there is a clear difference between accidentally hurting someone’s feelings and doing it intentionally. Perhaps you should try looking at how it affects, as you called it, “the real world”
Also, damn Mandy Patinkin is a great actor and a national treasure.
This scene in a nutshell:
“Hello! My name is Principal Tushman! You bullied my student! Prepare to get suspended!”
He was a AMAZING principal!!
And he didn't even need to use his sword this time !
You did not get it
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When schools that actually care about stopping bullies are only in movies
*[Insert Mike and Sully face swap meme here]*
this movie is unrealistic asf
my school cars about bullying too.
Eat your cereal
@FeS FeO2 But why?
Not funny
It’s sad that Hollywood thinks schools actually care about bullying
I hate that real schools don’t
Apparently, when kids are getting bullied they tell you, just ignore them, but when you put on a hoodie, they actually do something about it.
Some do some don't
@Brayden Pender
elementary, bullied 3 years in a row by this same older kid that constantly picked on me about wearing the same clothes everyday, i wasn't broke i just didn't changing outfits, and had multiple sets of the same clothes, school did nothing after i reported it every month
"we do our best to stop bullying"
middle school, bullied by an older student that found humor and amusement in taking my writing utensils and either hiding them or leaving them where they were broken, only stopped when i got fed up and attempted to stab him with it, in which i was suspended, and he was slapped on the wrist, but stopped doing it
"we do our best to stop bullying"
high school, far too much to list, we all know what happens in high school, but
"we do our best to stop bullying"
@Brayden Pender and only if the bullied one was the one who pulled the first punch
Julians dad actually looked like he understood what Julian did was terrible. But instead of arguing with his wife he just stayed quiet and tried to keep Julian in school.
I can't stand bystanders. They know something is wrong, yet choose to look the other way. Shame on them.
Instead of having an argument with his wife he stayed quiet.
Yes in the book he talks a lot more
Everyone in 2017: Omg I actually hate Julian's mom
Everyone in 2019: Omg Julian's mom is such a Karen
Commando Jeff she’s entitled
Everyone in 2020: yep she’s still a karen
Love her or hate her she spittin straight lies
Or a Susan, the richer version of Karen.
GoldenKnight Productions everyone now is sayin it while looking for toilet paper tho
I’ve read the Wonder book and yes it actually was true, Julian’s mom really did photoshop Auggie out cuz Julian was scared of his face and they really took him to a child psychologist cuz he was genuinely scared. but i can tell that at the end it all worked out for both of them and they became sorta friends. recommend the book 10/10
That's the one thing I didn't like about the movie
Really? I thought she's lying
Rahadian Yamin no, I think Jullian only bullied him because that was the only way he felt not scared of Auggie as he was intimidating him
Sonny Fox but like that’s not an excuse
The book is actually really good. I finished it in 3-4 days lmao-
What I love the most about this scene is that it shows where Julian gets his close minded behavior. This scene proves that kids are products of their parents. I admire how this moment teaches Julian that his actions have consequences.
They way Julian apologizes got me it shows that he is truly sorry for what he did
“You Are Not Doing These Kids Any Favors!”
Me: You Are Not Doing Your Son Any Favor!
KaoticcKenzieRBLX ! I know this is an old comment, but it’s totally right. He isn’t going to go far in the world without being able to treat other people with basic human decency.
I freaking hate parents who back up their son even though they know he deserves it
Oh I don't think they deserve it I believe they're literally that trash where the poor boy is only like that because of them
Would you tell me please? Why should we punish this unaware boy, seen as a bully, for 10000 other bullies in the comment section? A person in real life can easily piss off people and act as a bully in the comment section the same as this situation.
"He cant change the way he looks, so... maybe we can change the way we see"
- Wisest words of the century
I love this scene cause I’m glad he realized how wrong his actions were. Like when he said “I’m really sorry” I believed him! You can obviously tell where he’s getting these POV’s from. It’s sad he had to leave the school that he really liked. His mother is stupid and ignorant. And the crazy thing is there are people like that irl. This was a wonder movie!!
I love when the principal says “Auggie can’t change the way he looks so maybe we can change the way we see.” So emotional ❤️😭
"Auggie can't change the way he looks. Maybe we can change the way we see" Such powerful words that everyone needs to hear and absorb. I feel this movie is very underappreciated.
It made me think of how a lot of people like Julian's parents did not grow up with the experience of meeting different people with genetic mutations. They probably would have been nicer parents to Julian if that were to have happened in their pasts. They wouldn't be such snobs and defend Julian's bullying behavior towards Auggie, but rather confront him asap for being mean.
@@RegularInvader Well, there is a prequel coming out soon. So, we'll probably get some insight on Julian's family.
Let’s be honest the chances of the Principal in real life doing something is very little especially at a Private School...
I would have thought it would be more likely at a private school.
@crowthrone having go through they system myself and with my kids, that is very true
I think this movie was set at a public school. Rich people have much less power over a public school. They lied about the nightmares and the money they put into the school. In the Public school world they don't care much about the financial power of a students family.
@Brayden Pender really? From my experience they handle things better, as kids at private schools have similar backgrounds, and the schools have more power. Since private schools have better facilities the school is much more aware, which you know, is kind of unfair to everyone else
@@albozz4350 in my experience, as a student at a private school, with parents who are teachers at a private school- parents have power over everything. we've had cases where students were aggressive, or even went as far as to hurt staff, but the teachers were still blamed because the parents complained. in private schools, (as said above) money = power and control
One of the best scenes of the movie. We see things not just from Auggie’s perspective, but also Julian’s. He realises the mistake he’s made & genuinely feels bad about it. We’re shown that Julian isn’t really a bad kid, but that he’s simply doing what he thought was normal having never known any other way thanks to his pompous & shortsighted parents.
It’s Mr Tushman who is true MVP in this scenario. He can see that it isn’t Julian’s fault the way he is, being gentle & soft spoken in reprimanding him. Even when Julian’s parents try to turn the tables to make their son look like the victim, he outwits them both with his both wise & witty words. Tushman remains calm despite the parents threatening him or when they degrade Auggie. It takes a great deal of strength for an adult not to lash out when a child is hurt, Tushman held it together incredibly well.
That Mom is so royally screwed up that by the time Julian is old enough to go to college he's never going to leave home because his parents will do everything for him and Julian is going to look his mother say I hate you because of everything that she put him through when he was just a kid. And the mom talking about Julian having nightmares think about ogie and how many times he's had to have surgery to fix his face and wake up in pain. In the words of CS Lewis "experience is a brutal teacher but you learn my god do you learn"
OMG thanks for all the likes.
I disagree. Rich people like Julian's parents got connections. So any of Julian's parents friends can hire him after college. It is us the working class who have to fight for scraps.
@@saprissa9 but will he be able to KEEP a job for long?
Dude his mother is a liar she just wants her kid do not get suspended even when she knows he's a bully
Edit:DANG THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I GET OVER 1.0K LIKES
And also this vid Is just like r/entitledparents
Scarlet spider Thank you for putting that out. I read the book and Julian got exactly what he deserved. How is he sorry? He's a bully!!! He's a b****. Sorry for my language.
Lazer thank you
Lazer i put that comment in there because all my life i have been a detective even when my family doesn't know
Lazer also thanks for calling me sherlock
Gianna is singing so you have the freedom to use profanity as you wish if it illustrates a point.
Julian’s dad: “We have a lot of friends in the school board Mr. Tushman.”
Mr. Tushman: *exhales* “well I have more”
DAMN
Everybody gangsta until Tushman comes in with the school board
AIR HORN
When I watched this in high school my HS was like “oooooooooooo”
Now that’s a lot of damage!
Reminds me of a similar exchange in the movie Leatherheads:
"I'll fight you in court."
"You get your lawyer, I'll get mine."
"You are not doing these kids any favors."
You're the one to talk, lady. You're not giving your kid any favor, either.
"Nobody can get their feelings hurt?"
Yeah I guess me being bullied for 4 years straight because of my voice doesn't mean anything
I'm sure your voice is beautiful
Or me, for being my Autistic self.
I may be weird, but at least I'm kind.
@@camerakitty8167 Kids with autism, unite.
I say that as one myself.
Me being bullied for being bi for 6 years at school didn't mean anything at all (it's still happening to)
I was bullied middle school and high school for being autistic
Julian's mom: "These kids are too young to be dealing with this sort of thing."
Also Julian's mom: "Nobody could get their feelings hurt ever? You are not doing these kids any favors."
But evidently they're not too young to learn from their 'holier-than-thou' parents how to be a bully
Shame on Julian and his family. No one calls Auggie a freak and gets away with it.
The principal had a point, Auggie can't change the way he looks, then they have to change the way they saw.
Grace Benjamin Julian is just a kid it is his parents he was raised to do whatever he wanted
+B B Although he was just a kid, he does have to take responsibility of his own actions
Elisha beep-boop-beepbeep-pang he's a bully
I don’t blame Julian, I blame his parents for the way they brought him up.
The book actually does a good job giving Julian a redemption. I won’t spoil it, but while he’s visiting his grandma in France he really reflects on his actions and even tells his mom off and says he was in the wrong. He does a good job coming back around, if I remember correctly he makes amends with Auggie too.
That's A Good Ending 👍