Insight into birth order effects can help even Hillary | Lisette Schuitemaker | TEDxFindhornSalon

Lisette Schuitemaker has long been puzzled by the tensions that arise between siblings who, in principle, love each other.
Using world leaders as examples, in this engaging and funny talk she shares powerful insights into how our place in the birth order forms us - and how we can avoid the birth order blind spot.
Lisette Schuitemaker has had a varied career in communications and initiatives for a better world.
As an author, she has immersed herself in the effects of the family birth order, concentrating on her own spot: the eldest daughter.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@lee3171]

so this has less tox do with birth order and everythingt do with being an eldest daughter

[@josephmcdonald9933]

Thank you. These fish fryers have lost their minds. So the first born women didnt have fathers

[@patrick707100]

Very good and birth order does inflence our personality and our life"s. Another very good TedTalk video on this topic is by a high school youngster , Finn McCarthy. It must be seem to understand the topic fully.

[@cherrymarie8502]

I have to agree with everything she said, I'm the oldest of 5 and I definitely behave that way. My younger siblings also fit their positions. I probably need to work on my blind spots

[@mollypinto4666]

Thank you 💓

[@maritzasoto1035]

Why does she switch back and forth from a British accent to an American accent? Interesting talk, loved it! Eldest daughters represent :)

[@lisetteschuit]

I think it is because I am Dutch and I am not really aware of when my accent is British or American ...

[@lisetteschuit]

Because I am Dutch and English is not my mother tongue. I was in the UK so my ear was trained to the British accent but I studied in the US so sometimes that comes through and I myself don't really hear the difference when I deliver a talk ;) does this explain it?

[@mayrafernandez7303]

Good ear, Maritza!

[@MsCuancuan]

it is all about the eldest daughter

[@v.dargain1678]

Because that is what she is .

[@debralittle1341]

What if someone is adopted and goes from being the youngest to being the oldest.

[@kauser1239]

Talk should be called eldest daughter not birth order typical first borns me me me centre of universe !!!! 😂

[@vervemdp4396]

But.... Trump DOESN'T get things done... ***confused face***

[@philipdixon6291]

She is not objective. She see’s everything thru the eyes of the first born. Terrible

[@jenniferngo7902]

But is she wrong?

[@cornflake40]

@@jenniferngo7902 middle children are negotiators.

[@eLprincipitoDeSonsonate]

negative political undertones towards Trump...invalidation to listen further!! ***thumbs down***