When I made girls the main focus of my life, everything else suffered. I couldn't focus at work, I skipped workouts to go on dates, absolutely no way I was waking up early to work on a side hustle. I know I could have put it in moderation, but honestly it's addictive - for all the reasons you mentioned. Imo this lifestyle only works if talking to girls and your line of work coincide (e.g. dating company, dating content creator) - but for everyone else I think it can get pretty destructive. I don't date lots of girls anymore, I date one girl, and every other area of my life improved
@@Denmosocial idk man even hamza has talked about settling down early and not chasing after girls, I'm not sure when I would get to a point where it wouldnt be addicting
I completely agree with you. It's addictive, distracting, and ultimately, unfulfilling. It ends up being impulsive pleasure without any depth. Dating multiple women is a "teenagers fantasy", nothing more.
I like Slovakia and I went there in winter and it is able to meet them (you said the thing of Slovakia in 24:27) By the way, you should do to the museums of Kosice (Slovakia) they are cool
Third secret word “King”. As a 22 year old that’s never been in a relationship (not by my own choice), it’s really hard for me to stay motivated cause I just feel unwanted. My biggest obstacle is getting a girl to hangout, I’ve talked/texted girls and gotten some numbers from the gym but it never gets past conversations and idk what else to do. I joined your discord today and introduced myself in the “introduce yourself” page and was considering the socializer thing cause idk what else to do. I just hate having this pressure on myself for being inexperienced and feeling behind
you have to flirt more and put them in a seductive mood, being to friendly turn woman off / be more funny, spontaneous and slip flirting in there from time to time... you 22 - you got time cuz (reference to meme)
Bro get your passport. This is a USA problem for the most part. Go to the Caribbean, Latin America, or southeast Asia. Your girl problems will disappear overnight.
I'm new to this so today I went to the grocery store with the goal of just talking to 1 cute girl. I walked in and they were everywhere. There were like 10 hot girls and they were all there by themselves. So I'm walking around and I was just going ask one what they are making, if they have any good recipes, let's exchange recipes, and so on. I walked around for 20 minutes and did not talk to one single girl. I didn't have the confidence. Then as I'm going through the check out line the old ass cashier lady goes, "So, what are you making?" And in that moment it's like the universe was calling me a pussy. That old lady had more balls than I did. I've got to fix this. It's pathetic. I'm going to try again tomorrow before work.
Don’t “try” anything bro, do it! Tell yourself you’re going to do it, don’t give your subconscious any possible way to talk you out of it. Make it a binary. You got this bro, I know you can do it! We all can!
Listen to the guy above me. Just open your mouth, possibly fumble, and regardless of whether you get her number or she has a boyfriend or not you're going to instantly feel better that you had the balls to do it. Then you'll do it multiple times before you even leave the store. You got this man.
No it wasn’t the universe calling you a pussy. What it was is that you saw how a human who has never consumed these RUclips videos, and has lived in a different time makes conversation with strangers. That’s it. Don’t build this up in your head as “approaching women” just go stand by them and look over and ask what they’re making or what they’re looking at and have a conversation.
king im a university student from asia &staying in europe, 2 months ago i broke up with my european gf, we spent 1 year together ..now my great grandma also passed away. im doughting about everything n im doing gym. i just spotted this channel, its amazing.
I hate to be that guy but from MY experience the only thing that girls and dating have done for me is waste my time, lower my self esteem, cause me to not trust people, lead to constant (and consistent) disappointment, and overall stress. Now the problems I’ve had my whole life with dating and girls people say it just because of what age I am, but I have been starting to not believe this because people my age have luck with it and they don’t really even do much while I’ve done my research and have tried pretty much everything in the book. Some people just “have it” and hearing and seeing the expectations with dating and relationships for certain ages does nothing but make me feel worse and loose more hope
Try a self-awareness / meditation routine bro, it can help you to let go of expectations and know yourself better. Then you can know who is worth your time.
Insane value here, Jack. To be honest, have not watched your video for a year or so now, I got more than enough from self-improvement content without being addicted to it. This was a great watch!
Slovakia mentioned 🤓 With more money you feel more confident... I am making about 9k euros netto per month and average here is like 1.2k netto. When I got to that level my confidence basically doubled.
@@Oixry you´re basing your confidence off money =external Real confidence comes from with in... Are you still that confident should you loose every thing tommorow!? ....
Denmo I just got the girl back after I fucked it up and lifes pretty great. Hitting the cold plunges, Going to gym even more consistently and cleaning up the enviorment of my life. Appreciate you getting me through it gang. Its been a struggle
I felt soo great when you said "if you solve your own problems first, you can start solving others problems, like you can find a cure to the cancer" because thats what my dream is. I am a medicine student and I was always interested in cancer cells since I started learning biology. The cure of the cancer is the thought whenever I think of a thing that will help humanity. Last day I gave this example for persuade my friend that solving my girl problem is actually going to make me a better person and make me do so much better stuff. Well then she said "I can do this by giving myself to work, I don't need anyone, I like being alone blah blah blah", maybe she is right for herself, everybody can have different ways but it makes me feel soo good to know that I am in the right way.
I took my first initiatives for approaching girls today. I asked 4 for girls I like for their number and got 3. I was then quite happy and told a friend who was like "that's dope". Someone else got that information out of me, and then proceeded to twist it in a weird way to make me seem like some kind of play boy. I get the point but throughout all my past relationship, I was always loyal and never wavered. I want to meet a girl I like and then stick with her, and the other can just become friends. Anyway, that guy is always depressed, does nothing to change his life, have no guts, but manage to make my first day of conquering my fears to approach, into an annoying day
Keep it up king. I went through a lot of dating courses and got coaches but my reason was I wanted to re-learn how to date coming out of a 5yr long relationship. I recently got really de-motivated to talking to women or wanting them in my life. Hoping to re-watch this video and get inspired by it. The points you make are great and I agree with them. The amount of advice online regarding girls is overwhelming to be honest but your message is more down to earth and I like the vibe. Thanks for putting it up!
My phone is constantly on sleep mode, this yellowish thing, my eyes even hurt if i look on a TV lmao 🤣 Don't know what's life-sucking blue light anymore. It's great! 😃
King! ;) Medical student here, that part about finding a cure for cancer after solving your girl problem, that's literally my life summed up. I was completely useless with girls, and that impacted my academic performance in mutliple ways. It was so bad that I had to take a break from trying to study just to lose my virginity and go on a bunch of dates, hook ups etc, and afterwards it got so much easier to concentrate on my studies and research project, it's wild.
I knew a guy in college who caught a false accusation-he came from a rich family and the girl he hooked up with felt jilted. Thankfully she was a dumbass about the whole thing (didn’t even make a police report), while he and his family treated it super seriously with lawyers. She ended up leaving the school over it, and if I recall correctly his family was at least considering suing her for defamation
Bros, don't be hard on yourself, I'm 21 and still having my "v" card. I tryed and nothing happened. Remember everyone has own path and who's not a 'v' will never have a chance to become a magician, hehe. Focus on career better or do things u love. Value the fate u were given cuz some of us are dieing of starvation like a tour guide from Tansaniya I had a conversation with or in trenches being shelled..
Dude I literally am dealing with this currently. My sons mom got a restraining order on me to keep our house and has been trying to keep my kid from me ever since. It’s been almost 3 years and ten grand down the hole for custody stuff and I’m still dealing with it.
King - this is the first of your videos I’ve seen. I’m trying to figure out if this is like Alex Hormozi doing a deep fake to get into another niche, or you’ve just cultivated your voice specific to sound like him. Either way- I’m stoked on your perspective. I’m reflecting on dudes in my life and how their strategies have panned out. All kinds of training- including dating seem to be or modern initiations. Men are made, not born.
Even if your busy stacking your money hitting the gym learning how to dress bettter it’s probably better to just have casual hook up/ getting to know females but nothing serious..once u get into some serious it drains your pockets/focus
Have to say, in the first minute in this vedio, as a female the feeling didn’t feel nice to me. But slowly moved on, especially the part about the pretty girl part, I really do agreed sooo much, as well as the part that the girl complained about a guy which she really knows nothing about him. Trad baddie!
I feel like the more time passes without me having the social life/dating life I want and still being a virgin, the more I hate myself. It’s getting bad
It`s 5:39 of the video so far! And I want to disagree so much hearing ,,If you haven`t had sex or had a girlfriend you are not real man, you are boy", but I will just shut up. I`m just done
I've historically just dated the girls that hang around me and say things like "hahaha hiiiiiiiiiiii:) I'm just wondering if uh you could help me find the uh... This uh file for this project". I have honestly never approached a girl I specifically wanted until recently. I'm not sure if this is really a good thing, like you said when you're younger you just sorta take whatever comes your way. Now's the time where I start choosing what I want (although, will I be able to say no to the next girl that walks up?)
Step 11 - false accusations, it blows my mind none of the guys who get accused never ask for a polygraph test to be done on the girl and him to prove his innocence, as a girl can't lie on a test
Grilled cheese. When I had a beautiful long term girlfriend I was invited out a lot more and had much more interest from competing women. Having a desirable girlfriend in the minds a lot of women means the guy she’s with must be valuable or desirable.
The only problem with getting it out of my system, is i have a girlfriend who is pregnant and that i wouldnt even wanna leave otherwise. I have a low bodycount about 5 and yeah even though i have a healthy relationship I have huge insecurities around this
The risk of a woman ruining my life just for saying hi to her despite how low it may be is enough for me to say no and only talk to them for work or something.
I actually loved how you talked about reaching a limit mark where, you should like start focusing on your life, i started approaching and like experience how i was just only wanting to keeop on goung but atleast there should be a limit
The problem with Denmo videos isn’t the messaging, it’s the belief that any guy can just go and get plenty of women to like him. The world doesn’t work like that for most men, which then makes the messaging basically meaningless
It actually does work like that for all men. The problem is your instant victim mentality. You already put the disbelief in your head therefore, you don't achieve. You can do it man.
Last videos: girls, girls, girls, girls... We get it. Women are social proof, social proof attracts more social proof... okay. Then what besides women? I know it is marketing and mfs rather watch how to get women than how to better themselves or something like that. But something seems kinda off...
And if you play only by marketing, it's okay. I work with marketing too, but I'm just telling that the last few videos been concentrated on women. And as I said, I know if we get the analytics, the audience would rather watch that than something else (AMS already been there, done that). Not trying to criticize, I know it's part of the "game". Just commenting.
@Denmosocial I didn't mean to discredit your work. I understand and I've been there, and once in a while always pop a knowledge I didn't know before, even if I feel good with myself. I guess what I meant is that maybe there are other ways to work on this problem if we focus on some other things. Maybe mental health, therapy, study, exercise, etc. But I also get that you focus on one aspect of it, and this aspect usually get more views, and etc. And it's okay too. Maybe I'm just trying to say that even though these videos get more views, I also appreciate the other content you do. And I'm not trying to be selfish, I know I'm not your only viewer haha So do your thing, but keep that in mind.
bro u remember myself to much...we both have a weird ass name, we are like idk 5.8" and I went trough all the process you talk about here since I was like 15 and now I am 26 making bags trading crypto and working on legal from my laptop witouth even a degree...life gives you what you work for, and dating is key to success in any men's life.
As I'm watching this video (which is very entertaining) I'm asking myself this - "why would I want this?". When you're banging lots of chicks left and right, and putting your energy and focus on "getting" them, what is the end goal? If you want to build a relationship and family down the road this doesn't really sound like the way to go at it. Isn't chasing girls this way and building your confidence on the success of it almost like masturbating (but in status-gaining way) and continuing to act needy? Wouldn't the non-needy man choose to put his energy towards building himself and his character by fostering traits that are good for himself and society, acting in a way that doesn't treat other people as masturbatory objects? The mental picture I get of a one night stand is basically two people using eachother mutually but without real regard of the emotional well being and health of the other. It's more of a "I'll give you the least of what you need from me in order for you to give me what I crave in this moment from you". I get it, what is being said in this video is an interesting perspective about building ones confidence and experience but on what foundation is it being build upon? How good (and stable ) is confidence and attractiveness that is build on the accumulated approval of many, many one night stands and short hookups? This currency might be very good at attracting a woman, but then one might ask what kind of woman? The kind that will be a healthy mother for a child? I don't know. I personally want to be way less needy and less invested in the opinions of others for my confidence than I am today but it does seem like chasing girls and using the "success" of sleeping with them as a foundation for that confidence might be a shaky one to place it on top of. Anyways, I appreciate this video as it got me thinking and reflecting. Thanks :)
I would say skill building for the actual dating of who you want. But I feel this leads to dating imbalance, if women take only the attractive guys and eventually hope one of them will remain with them they might reject the others.
Meeting these girls are you guys using dating apps or are you talking to woman anywhere and everywhere in person? The gym has nice women, but the thing is if the woman says no or i got a boyfriend then it makes it awkward going back to gym to have a good workout. Also, my friend circle limited and only one is single and i rarely see him.... someone in my situation what are the best places to meet them
Grilled cheese.!! Like this video im only 16 starting to go out frequently with different women and am starting to see differences i think that because im still learning how to speak to them im taking the honesty approach where im honest with girls and if they do have like an annoying personality i challange them and idk if that makes me seem like arrogant or a dick or makes me seem like i stand my ground. I think my mistake is im prioritizing it right now getting out and talking to women.
As you said Denmo 😅 i am religious and i try to archive the dream that grandfather's had or not but yeah one right women is enough and if not than it is what it is. And thank you for your videos. But i disagree with you are still a boy if you did not lose your Virginity this is not determine if you are mature or not
@@jonathan6480 I am orthodox and yeah I believe we can get a women who Denmo said in the beginning the chances are low but there are outside also people like us so God knows what he is doing just believe in him and he will plan it all out 🙏
@@jonathan6480 well the best place as Denmo said in his other videos is outside and in church but even my Moslems friends said many girls are really unfaithful and already lost their virgintiy and fake it and I am scared that we end up with one but maybe she is the right one to many thoughts about that but God has his plans
"Getting it out of your system" is somewhat of a myth IMO when considering that even once you get it "out of your system" it returns after the refractory period. lol Maybe we're not fully on the same page, clearly I'm referring to sex drive. I'm over 30, definitely not a virgin but the desire is Always there and I believe it will always be there until I am loyal to my duty to procreate. Another reason I don't like the terminology you use is because a lot of men confuse lust with desire but lust is never fully satisfied and will always demand an additional sacrificial lamb.
Bike accident: you get helped after the crash False accusations: everyone sees you as a monster instantly. Still want to date a lot of girls as I got tired of pretending I don't quite a while ago, but I'm keeping my guard, trusting, talking to and looking at no one. Gone to therapy for a bit, seen a bit of progress, but still got a long way to go for me to look at, let alone date a woman.
There's a difference beetween fun partying with girls and enjoying time alone in peace away from psycho head fcks who drain your sanity. Work on business first then, gym and get more money then focus on girls. The reason why men are unsuccessful is because they focus on pssy too much at the wrong time in their life. There's a time for everything.@@Denmosocial
Im from Italy, she is from Singapore.. she get in touch with me from Instagram..very hot, friendly .. she called me couple of time and go deep into thoughts about relationship and emotions.. we are going to settle a week holiday in Iceland (my idea).. how can I believe this is not a big SCAM?
I am still struggling in approaching girl didn't talk to girl in 2023 . In my gym ther is girl she is beautiful but i am sacred to talk to her because i dont know how to start conversation with her. On monday i only said to her are you using that dumbell then she said no then i take dumbell and done my exercise .please help me i want to talk to her 😭.
2 options maybe, either get yo money up 📈and improve yourself health, body, and spirit OR spend a few years trying to find your girl and lvl up together. (ignore this as i may just be saying incoherent stuff)
Actually, I'm a former powerlifter I'm 6ft tall studying Mechanical engineering (which is we don't have girls in our classes) and also I'm charismatic, good looking,and even i have a unique style of clothing and shoes and I'm in good shape Besides i have a lot of knowledge,a lot of people come to me and take my advice on life, relationships etc... But i don't know but when it comes to my private life is boring, disaster !!
I even 95% the hangs that I hang are alone without friends i go to a lot of concerts alone i mean i have a very good relationship with myself I'm really in good terms with my own skin but sometimes i feel i wanna to share these moments with someone or with a good group of real friends. Most of the time i feel like I'm not fit in !
When I made girls the main focus of my life, everything else suffered. I couldn't focus at work, I skipped workouts to go on dates, absolutely no way I was waking up early to work on a side hustle. I know I could have put it in moderation, but honestly it's addictive - for all the reasons you mentioned. Imo this lifestyle only works if talking to girls and your line of work coincide (e.g. dating company, dating content creator) - but for everyone else I think it can get pretty destructive. I don't date lots of girls anymore, I date one girl, and every other area of my life improved
interesting I can see how it can do that in the early days but once your life is dialed in you don't make the same mistakes
@@Denmosocial idk man even hamza has talked about settling down early and not chasing after girls, I'm not sure when I would get to a point where it wouldnt be addicting
I completely agree with you. It's addictive, distracting, and ultimately, unfulfilling. It ends up being impulsive pleasure without any depth. Dating multiple women is a "teenagers fantasy", nothing more.
Why did it help you in other areas in your life
@@nobodysperfect06 it frees up more time and more mental focus
Who here likes Grilled Cheese. www.denmo.social/socializer
I like Slovakia and I went there in winter and it is able to meet them (you said the thing of Slovakia in 24:27)
By the way, you should do to the museums of Kosice (Slovakia) they are cool
I love grilled cheese!!
Not me
Me ✋🏾
Depends on what kind of cheese it is
Third secret word “King”. As a 22 year old that’s never been in a relationship (not by my own choice), it’s really hard for me to stay motivated cause I just feel unwanted. My biggest obstacle is getting a girl to hangout, I’ve talked/texted girls and gotten some numbers from the gym but it never gets past conversations and idk what else to do. I joined your discord today and introduced myself in the “introduce yourself” page and was considering the socializer thing cause idk what else to do. I just hate having this pressure on myself for being inexperienced and feeling behind
Talk to everyone! And anyone.
you have to flirt more and put them in a seductive mood, being to friendly turn woman off / be more funny, spontaneous and slip flirting in there from time to time... you 22 - you got time cuz (reference to meme)
Bro get your passport. This is a USA problem for the most part. Go to the Caribbean, Latin America, or southeast Asia. Your girl problems will disappear overnight.
I'm new to this so today I went to the grocery store with the goal of just talking to 1 cute girl. I walked in and they were everywhere. There were like 10 hot girls and they were all there by themselves. So I'm walking around and I was just going ask one what they are making, if they have any good recipes, let's exchange recipes, and so on. I walked around for 20 minutes and did not talk to one single girl. I didn't have the confidence. Then as I'm going through the check out line the old ass cashier lady goes, "So, what are you making?" And in that moment it's like the universe was calling me a pussy. That old lady had more balls than I did. I've got to fix this. It's pathetic. I'm going to try again tomorrow before work.
Don’t “try” anything bro, do it! Tell yourself you’re going to do it, don’t give your subconscious any possible way to talk you out of it. Make it a binary.
You got this bro, I know you can do it! We all can!
Listen to the guy above me. Just open your mouth, possibly fumble, and regardless of whether you get her number or she has a boyfriend or not you're going to instantly feel better that you had the balls to do it. Then you'll do it multiple times before you even leave the store. You got this man.
sounds like you might need direct help brother. Denmo Social or Socializer, and if you cannot afford those, plenty of free resources on this channel
No it wasn’t the universe calling you a pussy. What it was is that you saw how a human who has never consumed these RUclips videos, and has lived in a different time makes conversation with strangers. That’s it. Don’t build this up in your head as “approaching women” just go stand by them and look over and ask what they’re making or what they’re looking at and have a conversation.
My son, adjust yourself and reapproach....
king
im a university student from asia &staying in europe, 2 months ago i broke up with my european gf, we spent 1 year together ..now my great grandma also passed away. im doughting about everything n im doing gym. i just spotted this channel, its amazing.
good man, glad you been getting help
I just got cheated on and left, my dog died, and my grandpa is sick. It has given me the strength to improve myself. You got this bro!
I hate to be that guy but from MY experience the only thing that girls and dating have done for me is waste my time, lower my self esteem, cause me to not trust people, lead to constant (and consistent) disappointment, and overall stress. Now the problems I’ve had my whole life with dating and girls people say it just because of what age I am, but I have been starting to not believe this because people my age have luck with it and they don’t really even do much while I’ve done my research and have tried pretty much everything in the book. Some people just “have it” and hearing and seeing the expectations with dating and relationships for certain ages does nothing but make me feel worse and loose more hope
Sorry that you had negative dating experiences bro
Try a self-awareness / meditation routine bro, it can help you to let go of expectations and know yourself better. Then you can know who is worth your time.
Insane value here, Jack. To be honest, have not watched your video for a year or so now, I got more than enough from self-improvement content without being addicted to it. This was a great watch!
awesome man send it to your friends, ill be uploading more longform content like this
Slovakia mentioned 🤓 With more money you feel more confident... I am making about 9k euros netto per month and average here is like 1.2k netto. When I got to that level my confidence basically doubled.
big shoutout to slovakia
Fake confidence...what you got is external
@@Proposal12 what do you mean?
@@Oixry you´re basing your confidence off money =external
Real confidence comes from with in...
Are you still that confident should you loose every thing tommorow!? ....
Just curious , What do you do to make 9k? Where i live we can't expect that salary not even as doctors
I actually really prefer the longer videos. Definitely value your perspective here
next few videos are gonna be hella long
Uploaded at the perfect time to listen to on my daily long ass walk to the gym
ayyy perfect
Denmo I just got the girl back after I fucked it up and lifes pretty great. Hitting the cold plunges, Going to gym even more consistently and cleaning up the enviorment of my life. Appreciate you getting me through it gang. Its been a struggle
I felt soo great when you said "if you solve your own problems first, you can start solving others problems, like you can find a cure to the cancer" because thats what my dream is. I am a medicine student and I was always interested in cancer cells since I started learning biology. The cure of the cancer is the thought whenever I think of a thing that will help humanity. Last day I gave this example for persuade my friend that solving my girl problem is actually going to make me a better person and make me do so much better stuff. Well then she said "I can do this by giving myself to work, I don't need anyone, I like being alone blah blah blah", maybe she is right for herself, everybody can have different ways but it makes me feel soo good to know that I am in the right way.
Glad you understood my point. Lots of angry people will not but this is super important
Ever heard about Doc Thomas Seyfried? He's been getting great results by zeroing sugar on diet and glutamine blockers definitely check it out.
I took my first initiatives for approaching girls today. I asked 4 for girls I like for their number and got 3. I was then quite happy and told a friend who was like "that's dope". Someone else got that information out of me, and then proceeded to twist it in a weird way to make me seem like some kind of play boy. I get the point but throughout all my past relationship, I was always loyal and never wavered. I want to meet a girl I like and then stick with her, and the other can just become friends. Anyway, that guy is always depressed, does nothing to change his life, have no guts, but manage to make my first day of conquering my fears to approach, into an annoying day
Super interested in the socialized school but can't afford. I'm only 20 and have just started with building a business wish me luck boys 💪💪
all good i still post free stuff on here keep up the good work
@@Denmosocial ❤️❤️❤️
Trad baddie 🤙 been watching your videos a lot lately, much love dawg!
Keep it up king. I went through a lot of dating courses and got coaches but my reason was I wanted to re-learn how to date coming out of a 5yr long relationship. I recently got really de-motivated to talking to women or wanting them in my life. Hoping to re-watch this video and get inspired by it. The points you make are great and I agree with them. The amount of advice online regarding girls is overwhelming to be honest but your message is more down to earth and I like the vibe. Thanks for putting it up!
Was a pleasure watching this HOUR LONG banger while in full BLACK AND WHITE 😎🤙 dopamine is kept to a MINIMUM these days, boys.
my man! Got lots of long videos dropping this month
My phone is constantly on sleep mode, this yellowish thing, my eyes even hurt if i look on a TV lmao 🤣
Don't know what's life-sucking blue light anymore. It's great! 😃
King! ;) Medical student here, that part about finding a cure for cancer after solving your girl problem, that's literally my life summed up. I was completely useless with girls, and that impacted my academic performance in mutliple ways. It was so bad that I had to take a break from trying to study just to lose my virginity and go on a bunch of dates, hook ups etc, and afterwards it got so much easier to concentrate on my studies and research project, it's wild.
To be a king, don't chase after others, chase after the crown.
Also at 40:13 un oh.. coomer alert.
I knew a guy in college who caught a false accusation-he came from a rich family and the girl he hooked up with felt jilted. Thankfully she was a dumbass about the whole thing (didn’t even make a police report), while he and his family treated it super seriously with lawyers. She ended up leaving the school over it, and if I recall correctly his family was at least considering suing her for defamation
To be fair, filing a false police report would open herself up to even worse repercussions when proven false
Bros, don't be hard on yourself, I'm 21 and still having my "v" card. I tryed and nothing happened. Remember everyone has own path and who's not a 'v' will never have a chance to become a magician, hehe. Focus on career better or do things u love. Value the fate u were given cuz some of us are dieing of starvation like a tour guide from Tansaniya I had a conversation with or in trenches being shelled..
Dude I literally am dealing with this currently. My sons mom got a restraining order on me to keep our house and has been trying to keep my kid from me ever since. It’s been almost 3 years and ten grand down the hole for custody stuff and I’m still dealing with it.
King - this is the first of your videos I’ve seen. I’m trying to figure out if this is like Alex Hormozi doing a deep fake to get into another niche, or you’ve just cultivated your voice specific to sound like him. Either way- I’m stoked on your perspective. I’m reflecting on dudes in my life and how their strategies have panned out.
All kinds of training- including dating seem to be or modern initiations. Men are made, not born.
King! Appreciate your work, Denmo
gotchu bro
KING your second video I've watched good mindset Legend 👍
Trad Baddie, King. Appreciate the advice bro, you inspire me to talk to more women whenever i have the chance
Even if your busy stacking your money hitting the gym learning how to dress bettter it’s probably better to just have casual hook up/ getting to know females but nothing serious..once u get into some serious it drains your pockets/focus
I’ve always had social issues and a bit of autism. I’ve given up on getting girls I’m also unattractive. I’m lost. Grilled cheese
GRILLED CHEESE
Trąd baddie
KING
Theese longer videos are great
Have to say, in the first minute in this vedio, as a female the feeling didn’t feel nice to me. But slowly moved on, especially the part about the pretty girl part, I really do agreed sooo much, as well as the part that the girl complained about a guy which she really knows nothing about him.
Trad baddie!
I feel like the more time passes without me having the social life/dating life I want and still being a virgin, the more I hate myself. It’s getting bad
It`s 5:39 of the video so far!
And I want to disagree so much hearing ,,If you haven`t had sex or had a girlfriend you are not real man, you are boy", but I will just shut up. I`m just done
its true though bro you need to sort this out
Yeah sounds like its just contributing to the part of a bigger problem. Hopefully ppl don't actually take it seriously
@@Timmy-mi2ef People who tell this take it seriously
I've historically just dated the girls that hang around me and say things like "hahaha hiiiiiiiiiiii:) I'm just wondering if uh you could help me find the uh... This uh file for this project". I have honestly never approached a girl I specifically wanted until recently. I'm not sure if this is really a good thing, like you said when you're younger you just sorta take whatever comes your way. Now's the time where I start choosing what I want (although, will I be able to say no to the next girl that walks up?)
Step 11 - false accusations, it blows my mind none of the guys who get accused never ask for a polygraph test to be done on the girl and him to prove his innocence, as a girl can't lie on a test
Can't have a relationship without money. 💯💯
So stay in the bang phase, IF necessary. 🤷♂️👍
Thanks for the video man.appreciate you ❤❤❤❤
Grilled cheese. When I had a beautiful long term girlfriend I was invited out a lot more and had much more interest from competing women. Having a desirable girlfriend in the minds a lot of women means the guy she’s with must be valuable or desirable.
Grilling cheese for my trad baddie 😂 thanks Denmo.
The only problem with getting it out of my system, is i have a girlfriend who is pregnant and that i wouldnt even wanna leave otherwise. I have a low bodycount about 5 and yeah even though i have a healthy relationship I have huge insecurities around this
Thank you man, you are the true king, agree with all the points
TRAD BADDIE, Grilled Cheese! Been peeping Denmo content since the Hamilton party dayz lol😊
The risk of a woman ruining my life just for saying hi to her despite how low it may be is enough for me to say no and only talk to them for work or something.
Really silly lil bro, do you never enter a car because you could have a car crash? Look at the positives.
Love these long videos
love your comments they motivate me
Trad baddie. I'll continue when I'll finish my charge at work.
I actually loved how you talked about reaching a limit mark where, you should like start focusing on your life, i started approaching and like experience how i was just only wanting to keeop on goung but atleast there should be a limit
most men never get to that point, most women do
Yeah..
"Trad Baddie" i love these videos you put out Denmo!
cheers man
The problem with Denmo videos isn’t the messaging, it’s the belief that any guy can just go and get plenty of women to like him. The world doesn’t work like that for most men, which then makes the messaging basically meaningless
Any guy can. Go out and keep talking to multiple. Doesn’t matter if your Shrek.
It actually does work like that for all men. The problem is your instant victim mentality. You already put the disbelief in your head therefore, you don't achieve. You can do it man.
How you used that Jordan Peterson video is top notch!
This guys talk out of my soul …
meant to resonate with you bro
Last videos: girls, girls, girls, girls...
We get it. Women are social proof, social proof attracts more social proof... okay.
Then what besides women?
I know it is marketing and mfs rather watch how to get women than how to better themselves or something like that. But something seems kinda off...
And if you play only by marketing, it's okay. I work with marketing too, but I'm just telling that the last few videos been concentrated on women.
And as I said, I know if we get the analytics, the audience would rather watch that than something else (AMS already been there, done that).
Not trying to criticize, I know it's part of the "game". Just commenting.
these videos get the most views which means most men cannot solve other problems until they solve this one
@Denmosocial I didn't mean to discredit your work. I understand and I've been there, and once in a while always pop a knowledge I didn't know before, even if I feel good with myself.
I guess what I meant is that maybe there are other ways to work on this problem if we focus on some other things. Maybe mental health, therapy, study, exercise, etc.
But I also get that you focus on one aspect of it, and this aspect usually get more views, and etc. And it's okay too.
Maybe I'm just trying to say that even though these videos get more views, I also appreciate the other content you do. And I'm not trying to be selfish, I know I'm not your only viewer haha So do your thing, but keep that in mind.
King
- greetings from Bulgaria!
big shoutout to Bulgaria baby
@@Denmosocial Oldest country in Europe, babyy!!
You give me hope man
Grab life by the balls! Much praise and applause for these genius insights Bro! Learned a lot of insane value! 👏🔥✨
glad to hear brother
I appreciate the foresight.
gotcha bro keep working hard
Kinda feels hard getting dates for me cus I’m 5”3 people complain about being 5”9 it’s crazy
I can barely watch any these videos anymore really close to ending my life
Shut up bro I'm also 5'3
Just give up on dating become gay do anything but don't kill urself
I request u😢
Trap baddie out here getting some inspiration in!
I am a selfish guy im the type to wanna be single and eat whatever i want
bro u remember myself to much...we both have a weird ass name, we are like idk 5.8" and I went trough all the process you talk about here since I was like 15 and now I am 26 making bags trading crypto and working on legal from my laptop witouth even a degree...life gives you what you work for, and dating is key to success in any men's life.
As I'm watching this video (which is very entertaining) I'm asking myself this - "why would I want this?". When you're banging lots of chicks left and right, and putting your energy and focus on "getting" them, what is the end goal? If you want to build a relationship and family down the road this doesn't really sound like the way to go at it. Isn't chasing girls this way and building your confidence on the success of it almost like masturbating (but in status-gaining way) and continuing to act needy?
Wouldn't the non-needy man choose to put his energy towards building himself and his character by fostering traits that are good for himself and society, acting in a way that doesn't treat other people as masturbatory objects?
The mental picture I get of a one night stand is basically two people using eachother mutually but without real regard of the emotional well being and health of the other. It's more of a "I'll give you the least of what you need from me in order for you to give me what I crave in this moment from you".
I get it, what is being said in this video is an interesting perspective about building ones confidence and experience but on what foundation is it being build upon? How good (and stable ) is confidence and attractiveness that is build on the accumulated approval of many, many one night stands and short hookups? This currency might be very good at attracting a woman, but then one might ask what kind of woman? The kind that will be a healthy mother for a child? I don't know.
I personally want to be way less needy and less invested in the opinions of others for my confidence than I am today but it does seem like chasing girls and using the "success" of sleeping with them as a foundation for that confidence might be a shaky one to place it on top of.
Anyways, I appreciate this video as it got me thinking and reflecting. Thanks :)
I would say skill building for the actual dating of who you want. But I feel this leads to dating imbalance, if women take only the attractive guys and eventually hope one of them will remain with them they might reject the others.
Trad baddie. King. Thanks man!
Is grilled cheese still grilled cheese if you bake it in the oven only?
A trad baddie that makes bakey grilled cheese.
Is it okay to do my best friend every Sunday also go on simple dates during monk mode?
absolutely
Girls take me too much off focus well more than one does
4:30 relief disapearing? ahahahah
this guy actually predicted no one nwill see this video
Meeting these girls are you guys using dating apps or are you talking to woman anywhere and everywhere in person? The gym has nice women, but the thing is if the woman says no or i got a boyfriend then it makes it awkward going back to gym to have a good workout. Also, my friend circle limited and only one is single and i rarely see him.... someone in my situation what are the best places to meet them
The more social the setting is, the more chance you have to know to get each other and therefore you can pick up on the cues. So cannot rush it there.
Grilled cheese.!! Like this video im only 16 starting to go out frequently with different women and am starting to see differences i think that because im still learning how to speak to them im taking the honesty approach where im honest with girls and if they do have like an annoying personality i challange them and idk if that makes me seem like arrogant or a dick or makes me seem like i stand my ground. I think my mistake is im prioritizing it right now getting out and talking to women.
I like you, bro 👊
"Spit on my face!" Thank you Jordan Peterson lol
Bruh, lemme slurp the knowledge out of you 😭
Where are you guys meeting 2 new women every week??? 🤣
But what if I want to have that lifestyle my grandparents had 😓
Then Bro, u born in the wrong gen
King 👑
As you said Denmo 😅 i am religious and i try to archive the dream that grandfather's had or not but yeah one right women is enough and if not than it is what it is. And thank you for your videos. But i disagree with you are still a boy if you did not lose your Virginity this is not determine if you are mature or not
I'm Catholic, how about you? Agreed with everything you said.
@@jonathan6480 I am orthodox and yeah I believe we can get a women who Denmo said in the beginning the chances are low but there are outside also people like us so God knows what he is doing just believe in him and he will plan it all out 🙏
@@jonnyblaze6153 Orthodox Jewish? I'm trying to find Catholic groups to join to meet girls with the same faith.
@@jonathan6480 orthodox greek I did not know orthodox Jewish existed xd
@@jonathan6480 well the best place as Denmo said in his other videos is outside and in church but even my Moslems friends said many girls are really unfaithful and already lost their virgintiy and fake it and I am scared that we end up with one but maybe she is the right one to many thoughts about that but God has his plans
"Getting it out of your system"
is somewhat of a myth IMO when considering that even once you get it "out of your system" it returns after the refractory period. lol
Maybe we're not fully on the same page, clearly I'm referring to sex drive.
I'm over 30, definitely not a virgin but the desire is Always there and I believe it will always be there until I am loyal to my duty to procreate.
Another reason I don't like the terminology you use is because a lot of men confuse lust with desire but lust is never fully satisfied and will always demand an additional sacrificial lamb.
King!
Bike accident: you get helped after the crash
False accusations: everyone sees you as a monster instantly.
Still want to date a lot of girls as I got tired of pretending I don't quite a while ago, but I'm keeping my guard, trusting, talking to and looking at no one. Gone to therapy for a bit, seen a bit of progress, but still got a long way to go for me to look at, let alone date a woman.
Well that’s just not an option for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂I think I’m going to remain single for good
King👑
King cheese trad baddie. Funny guy, like the rants...
as a girl i need to know that🙃
grilled cheese, trad baddie, king
Is this possible at 29
King!
I think my head would explode
it might but it would feel unreal
There's a difference beetween fun partying with girls and enjoying time alone in peace away from psycho head fcks who drain your sanity. Work on business first then, gym and get more money then focus on girls. The reason why men are unsuccessful is because they focus on pssy too much at the wrong time in their life. There's a time for everything.@@Denmosocial
1M hours in CoD? Rookie numbers.
bruh
Im from Italy, she is from Singapore.. she get in touch with me from Instagram..very hot, friendly .. she called me couple of time and go deep into thoughts about relationship and emotions.. we are going to settle a week holiday in Iceland (my idea).. how can I believe this is not a big SCAM?
It’s a scam if you gotta send money.
bro its a scam lol
chilled geese
I am still struggling in approaching girl didn't talk to girl in 2023 . In my gym ther is girl she is beautiful but i am sacred to talk to her because i dont know how to start conversation with her. On monday i only said to her are you using that dumbell then she said no then i take dumbell and done my exercise .please help me i want to talk to her 😭.
MORE BETTER GIRLS LIFE Damn click bait thumbnail got my ass
Nah jk enjoyed the video man watched all the way to the end
Grilled cheese, baby... grilled cheese.
Grilled cheese bro. LOL.
I'm 26 and I'm still vergin'! I wonder how it feels to be with a girl !!
2 options maybe, either get yo money up 📈and improve yourself health, body, and spirit OR spend a few years trying to find your girl and lvl up together.
(ignore this as i may just be saying incoherent stuff)
@@Noname-zv9cz Yea get ya money up so them gold diggers can break yo pockets
Actually, I'm a former powerlifter I'm 6ft tall studying Mechanical engineering (which is we don't have girls in our classes) and also I'm charismatic, good looking,and even i have a unique style of clothing and shoes and I'm in good shape
Besides i have a lot of knowledge,a lot of people come to me and take my advice on life, relationships etc...
But i don't know but when it comes to my private life is boring, disaster !!
I even 95% the hangs that I hang are alone without friends i go to a lot of concerts alone i mean i have a very good relationship with myself I'm really in good terms with my own skin but sometimes i feel i wanna to share these moments with someone or with a good group of real friends.
Most of the time i feel like I'm not fit in !
@shaun3713 They also give yu diseases too. I'll pass on that
Grilled cheese, bro! Cheers👍
I highly doubt that. Probably 8/10 of them would be unbearable and cause you more headaches in the long run
sounds like someone who has no positive experience with women
@@Denmosocial Most men dont wanna deal wihh headaches dawgg
Grilled cheese for the algorithm.
chilled grease, veit grideo
But gets your afterlife 10x tougher.
These first 10 seconds have me dead💀💀💀
bro rough times lmao
King