It's a pain that is unreal. I know the pain because I have been through it. My 16 month old son passed away 11 & a half years ago. I was called a baby killer behind my back by my birth mother, as well as by people that I thought were my friends. I was accused by the state police. I was such a wreck. I couldn't understand how people that supposedly loved me, & cared about me, would say these awful things. I had 6 kids. He was my youngest, & last baby. I cut those people out of my life, including my birth mother. She's never been a mom, anyway. 🤷♀️
Not her mom talking about crocodile tears when she wasn’t even crying in the beginning. And to have the audacity to try to hug her after all of that hoopla.
I can't really blame the mom cause the girl must have been doing drugs for a while and leaving her kids who should be her sole responsibility, to her mom. Like which mom would not have had enough of this shit? Plus her addiction might have caused the accidental death of the baby ( even if it weren't the case this time, there's still a high chance)
I knew from the beginning when the mom was doing all that crying she was full of it. Imagine how she's probably told everyone in their town this lie and damaged her own child's reputation for sympathy. I have a mother just like that SMH. Prayers to the young lady
Ik its so sad seeing parents like that. I hate manipulative parents or narcissistic parents and of course attention seeking parents are among the worse
O yes my mother dearest x drove my dad to alcohol x but yet with my 2 brothers she was an still is different with them x me am the world's worst an yet am the one that's there for her x
Just the part where the grandma put a hand over her mouth and cried while STARING at Steve made me know she was seeking attention and sympathy and did not entirely believe her daughter did what she was accusing her of. The way her daughter told her story was the beginning of the truth and her ending with the thought of “if she had done this or that then the child would still be alive” is what sealed the deal for me that she didn’t do it on purpose. Tragic story I hope the family has found some relief after all these years. Thank you Steve and his crew for helping innocent people and finding the truth!
The daughter is a young mom with a three year of and an infant. She’s probably stressed beyond belief with both and since she is young she needed help. Regardless she was the one who birthed those babies she was YOUNG and needed extra support given it wasn’t a two parent household with a loving marriage and older and more situated in life. The grandmother has no one to blame but herself for the lack of guidance of her daughter and it sounded to me like the daugter had to help raise her siblings so the mother could do what she needed and wanted but now that her child has a a child she wants to use the “you made your bed” mentality when it never applied to her when she put major responsibilities on her daughter. I hate when I see that shit. The mother puts all these responsibilities on the daughter by making her babysit and participate in the raising of her younger kids but doesn’t want to help her own daughter ugh 🤦♀️
How can her baby father come at her like that when he was in jail. If he was doing right by the law he would’ve gotten the chance to be a father to his child… & her mom is absolutely wrong for how she treating her own daughter… smh. I hope this beautiful young lady heals from this & can at least continue to live her life peacefully 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He wanna yell and stutter, like she said you didn't "love me, didn't want the baby until you went to jail." I hope this young lady got away from both these losers. They're both trying to destroy her.
I might sound like a complete moron here but can someone explain what smh means?? I'm new to this text slang lol xxxx I'm a little conflicted with this one guys. I got pregnant at 16 yrs old so I put on my big girl pants and got on with it. I worked full time, attended night classes at university and also bought my first home. My mother wouldn't help me and I didn't expect her to. He was my responsibility. I paid his paternal auntie and grandmother to watch him while I worked because they were the only 2 people I trusted with my gorgeous boy. They were as daft and a pushover as I was so I never had to worry about him while I worked and the money helped them. I'm swaying more to the " she didn't really want the responsibility of this child" It's not her mother's or her siblings job to overwatch her. Unfortunately it ended in tragedy. It may take a village but there isn't always one available. Then it's up to you and you alone. You have to grow up fast and get on with it. If you don't want that responsibility give the child up. Lots of people out there cannot have children and would love to adopt, or even can have children but want to foster or adopt aswell. Failing that, take precautions to ensure it doesn't happen in the first place. Bit cynical of me guys today I think!!! Love and prayers 😘❤️🙏xxx
I really hate that mother's are guilted for needing help. Raising kids is hard. The whole "that's your baby, figure it out" is true but selfish. It takes a village and sometimes moms need help too. Not having support is hurtful, but to be accused of killing your own baby is unimaginable. And the jail bird wants to blame her but he wasn't there to help.
and from what grandma said there were many signs and what seemed to be cries for help, i mean asking her mom to stay or for the sister to stay? someone should have been there for her.
As someone who wants to be a father more than anything I will definitely be asking my mom for help to understand what I need to do and what to order and stuff.
The father is disgusting. How dare he blame the mom when his sorry ass was in jail for a year. He says he never got to hold his baby? No you didn't because you're a criminal. Where were you when your son needed you? Jail.
@@lilaidzz trying to blame and bash the mom when he wasn't there at all. he needs to take responsibility maybe if he wants locked up that never would have happened
You do NOT place blame like that, unless you know for a fact it happened. This was so heart shattering. I hope she gets some help through this difficult time 😞
The mom shouldn't even dare to mention her daughters tears. The mom is the queen of fake crying and not a single tear. That's what I call crocodile tears. Tearing your daughter apart in such a horrible mean way and when told she was innocent act apologetic. If that was my mom, she could leave me the heck alone forever. 😔
She needs to disown this family and find herself one that will love and appreciate her. You can see how much shes been through at the hands of people who should love her. Being treated like your a liar all the time is really damaging to your mental and emotional health. She is clearly struggling inside and just needs some companionship and support and when she needed it most she was told "it's your problem you deal with it" even though it wasnt JUST her problem. That baby is family, that makes it the families problem. The dads side shouldv stepped up to help her after he went to jail. What happened to this women was severely unjust and undeserved. I hope she can find a family who loves her and treats her the way she deserves. WITH RESPECT.
Seems like she was always getting help. They said his mother had the baby for the first 7 days! When the baby died he was 19 days old and that day she came in at 5 am!? Her mother said she had the baby for hours and brought him back , changed his pamper, put a clean onesie on him and gave him a bottle! Then she put him in the bassinet , the girl was still laying on the couch…. I wish I had even an ounce of that kind of help with my two kids.
It’s not anyone’s responsibility except hers and the father who she laid down with not her mom and definitely not her little sisters if she needed so much help maybe not have two young kids would’ve been a better option
OMG, the toxicity! Grandma fake crying, daddy wasn't there because he was in JAIL. Hello son, you had to do something to be put in jail! Momma ASKED FOR HELP and got the "it's your problem, you deal with it" response. The other grandmother is MIA. Someone tell me, whatever happened to the concept of FAMILY? Y'ALL blaming one person, you are ALL to blame!
*Would* he have helped her? I doubt it -- he's young, mouthy and stupid! He would have been out with his buddies proving what a "man" he was and ignoring the baby. I''m sure both the grandmother and the "baby-daddy" told the cops all about what a horrible person the infant's mother was, and the cops rolled their eyes and ignored those morons!
Exactly. He had no right to go off on her considering he wasn't even there. He was lucky ANYONE told him his child died after being sent to jail. He has no bearing in this, whatsoever and deserves no part in this.
This man sounds "mentally slow" and he goes off on her. Both the mom and the "so called dad" are both asswads. Blaming her for the death. Maybe they should have both did more to help this girl
If the father of the child would have been doing the right things in life maybe he would have been able to see his child. Nobody should be blaming this young mother when they don't know the truth. I feel so bad for this young mothers loss. I hope she has her other child back in her life now.
I could tell from the start she was innocent. You can just tell it in her face, her facial expressions, her increasing anger at her own mother saying she could of potentially done it on purpose. Just because one didn't cry doesn't mean they are lying. Everyone everywhere needs to understand people deal with situations in different ways. Some may become angry, some sad, some even completely numb to what was going on. You could she was hurting, but was just all together tired of being accused of something she never did intentionally. Very very sad story, I hope she finds peace in her heart soon 💓
I really wish people would have more sympathy to those suffering from postpartum depression. Insisting and saying “those your kids, you take care of them” when someone is asking for help can mean death for someone.
I'm a father and I can't imagine losing my first boy son and being accused of being responsible for it by my own mother. That would mess me up for years.
Well if the father was concerned about his child he would of been there since day one. He's trying to put full blame on her but he was very neglectful of his child
@@reginaharrigan7454 because if he wasn’t in jail, he would’ve been there to help. If the mom didn’t only give a fuck about herself and actually cared about her child her grandchild they would’ve helped her the girl literally begged for help.
I pray she keeps them both out her life....what a horrible tragedy for this young mother but then to be attacked instead of loved through this tragedy is gut wrenching
Being a young mum ain’t easy! I remember at 18 breastfeeding and falling asleep where I was so tired and nearly suffocating my babies! But I didn’t have a social life! I gave that up to be a mummy. ❤
If happened to me too. Feeling that new baby exhaustion, i fell asleep with her on my chest. Luckily, big sis heard her gasping for breath from the next room and came to the rescue. Otherwise, I wouldn't have my amazing eleven-year old today. Never realized this was so common, makes me wonder how many little angels go to heaven this way. 😢
The way that she sobbed when she said look at my grandson broke my heart to pieces. I just had a baby and I swear I would die if something ever happened to her 😢
60 years ago my neighbor's newborn died of SIDS. There's no way anyone can prepare for that -- it's like being hit by a meteor. The coroner said he was sleeping on his stomach and may have suffocated. She was in shock for weeks and could barely carry on a conversation. That mother blaming her daughter for the baby's death is entirely out of line -- the medical examiner made the determination of cause of death and for her not to accept the legal decision indicates something is VERY wrong with Grandma! If the father is so convinced the baby's mother was responsible, perhaps he should have stayed out of jail and not violated the law so he could have been around to protect his child. From what I heard, nobody has proven the infant's mother was on drugs at the time of death. The whole crazy family needs to back off until they can provide EVIDENCE instead of throwing blame around.
I had a son pass away. He was 16 months old. I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on anyone. It's an unnatural pain. Mothers are not supposed to bury their children. 😭😭 May 31st of this year will be 12 years that he has been gone from this Earth. I miss him every single day. 💔
Because it's wrong for woman to suffer PPD... How dare a mother have PPD they just need to snap out of it and if you don't have an immediate connection with your baby then you're labeled a bad mother. It's rare for people to help a mom with PPD it's easier to judge them. Anyway I think it's a major problem how our society deals with mental health as a whole.
I only had ppd with my new baby im a mom of three but when my boyfriend noticed I wasn't my self he took our baby to his mom so I could have some time to recollect myself. It was a couple days after we had gotten home from the hospital that I noticed I was dealing with ppd. I couldn't stop crying. But I didn't ask for help he helped me.
@@RainbowStarGumDrop didn’t have an immediate connection till maybe a week later my body was playing catch-up with the fact that my baby was now out of my body/it was like my baby and the baby I carried wasn’t the same/it was an odd feeling for sure(he’s definitely mine tho😂)
@@saharah101 I went through something similar due to a bunch of complications In my last trimester I had to be induced which resulted in an emergency c section to get him out alive. After he was born not even a few hours later he had low blood sugar and was jaundice so they took him to the NICU. Because of the drugs and how fast they took him from me I had no time to memorize his face so when I saw him again I thought he wasn't mine. I thought the people next door had my kid because the cry of that baby was similar it wasn't until my son made noise that it clicked that he was indeed my baby. Even then it was hard forming a bond for the first month due to being bombarded by wires and nurses and doctors and we had zero privacy to bond. I did my best to breast feed but because the nurses gave him bottles he refused to nurse. I felt like I was being rejected by my own son. I knew I had to keep trying but it wasn't until I got him home that we had the ability to better our bond. I always loved him it was just tough to feel our connection. For a while I felt like we were just going through the motions. I think when we had our special time that we finally bonded properly. But for about three months in I felt like I was the worst mom because he seemed to not want to look at me or feed from me. It was rough. Obviously we are as thick as thieves now as two years has passed since our rocky beginning.
That grandma saying her daughter is barely crying. That she has fake-ass crocodile tears. That grandma didn't cry at all!! They are just jumping on that young mother and that ain't ok.
That guy just stood there motionless after her results were read and he kept saying he never got to see his child because he was in jail well here something stay out of jail it’s definitely not her fault he was in jail it’s his fault he should have apologized to her
But let's be fair the jail situation is separate from a child dying. The child was only alive for 19 days. It's not fair to have empathy for her mistakes and then have absolutely none for his.
@@ravenviola7132 yes, bit she was still irresponsible and immature. Also she was abusing drugs. If your child died while you were away and you didn't find out a year later, how would you feel?
@@tricktracy2254 he was in jail because of his own doing he would’ve been able to see his child. Had he not been doing shit? She was pregnant before he went to jail so he knew, and he didn’t want nothing to do with her, until after he went to jail. She needed help and she was stressed. A lot of moms go through that needing something to help them. It sounds like she had postpartum and her mom didn’t care enough to leave a sibling there to help her because she was having severe migraines.
@@JustLikeAFlower yes he is fully responsible for going to jail unless he was actually innocent. Him going to jail did cause stress on her and caused her to have less help But his sentence isn't one of the events that ultimately leads to his son death. I understand she was under duress. But that doesn't excuse any of the irresponsible actions she took
I can’t imagine loosing your child and being accused of doing it or neglecting the child which caused the death when you didn’t…not only are you going through the pain of your loss but then to have to defend yourself and be told you’re guilty…breaks my heart
This is so heart breaking. This poor family… unfortunately things like this happen and it’s horrible. It’s absolutely horrible. Nothing will fix this.. nothing will bring that baby back.. they all need therapy to work through their trauma…
@@Veethedon1 He didn't ask a friend or relative to check on his child? Why do I get the feeling all his concern happened after he knew he'd be on Steve's show?
Explain how a guy who went to jail so he couldn't take care of nothing is telling her she's not taking care of things... blows my mind. He failed as a father.
@@SuperBRIANWILSON from what she said the chat was never on his watch until he was in jail. He didn’t care enough to go see the child before he went to jail
The father surprised me with the way he was speaking to her about not being a good mother when he was in prison. Yes she was on drugs which is completely wrong but there is no way you can be a good father from jail.
They just wanna be angry at someone, have someone to blame for this tragedy. Instead of pulling together for support they tar her with a scarlet letter when she needed help and support with her kids!
Father is talking about responsibility!? Man, you went to jail for not being responsible! If he would be a good father he wouldn't had go to jail in first place!
My son's father fell asleep with our 6day old son Eduardo Jr and rolled in him while sleeping. It was a complete accident and a tragic loss. Accidents can happen to ANYONE when you least expect it. I forgave him because I know he didn't mean to. We were young parents and caregivers to my autistic brother. It was one of the worst things I've gone through it changed me. But I spread the word on co sleeping with your young children and how dangerous it can be. It only takes one wrong mistake. Please be careful with small childre.
SIX DAYS OLD. AND WHAT Y'ALL TRYNA SAY?? and my baby daddy fell asleep with him while I was already taking a nap on the couch. HE ASSURED ME HE WOULD BE FINE WITH HIM. WHEN I WOKE UP I FOUND MY BABY UNDER MY BABY DADDY. IDK WHAT YOU GUYS TRYNA SAY BUT HOW WOULD A NEW BORN BE ABLE TO MAKE ANY NOISE IF HIS FATHER WAS ON HIM? AND AT THAT THE CORONER'S OFFICE SAID IT DOESN'T TAKE MUCH TIME FOR SMALL CHILD TO LOSE BRAIN ACTIVITY WHEN ACCIDENTS LIKE THIS HAPPEN.
@@beckydalton6777 becky nobody was saying anything. Someone just asked whether you meant 6 days or months old. Which you're right shouldn't matter because what happened was terrible.
I love how he calls her immature when he is the one that got locked up while she was pregnant. Maybe if he wasn't immature and cared about his baby, he wouldn't have broken the law, and he could have been there to help with the baby, and he would probably still be alive. This is such a tragic situation! I feel so bad she couldn't really grieve her baby because her family wasn't there for her.
the mom even telling this story was BS! she even stated how she seen her daughter acting “strange” and being “tired” “not like herself” she even asked for help that same day from one of her siblings and the mother denied it .. tears are fake - going from crying to normal … i feel so bad for that girl man
The father wants to talk about she’s immature and how it’s all her fault, where TH were you? Jail right? So tell me again how much talking room you have about maturity and responsibility?
The fact that he didn't know his child was dead for a year proves exactly what she said : NOBODY CARED. Your mom, brothers, sisters, aunt's, uncle's, or cousins, (pretty sure his pops wasn't around)didn't go by to check on/ see your lil man? Did he or his mother even inquire about the child for that entire year?
I hate how selective Steve is when it comes to calling out bullshit. All that hooting and hollering in agony and not a single tear fell from that grandmother
The mother kept crying but there was never a tear. She comes on national TV and expresses her concerns, but she goes farther than that and tries to make her daughter look as bad as possible. As if losing a baby wasn't bad enough. When the daughter came out she showed real emotion - not the fake stuff the mother had been showing up until that point. I think the mother is a narcissist. She took over the care of the baby, undermined and demonised her daughter, felt sorry for herself, acted and milked the attention on the show and did everything she could to destroy her daughter's reputation. Everything has to revolve around her. She cannot even respect her daughter's loss as being something sacred to her daughter as the mother of the child.
The daughter cried real tears, and the mother didn't have any tears, just made a lot of noise, it's pretty sad when a mother accuses her daughter of killing her own child. I felt sorry for the young girl. I'm glad she passed. The best part of watching Steve Wilkos on RUclips is you can fast forward all the yelling.
The grandmother and the father should be ashamed at how they treated her. The daughter asked her mother for help and was denied. The father was in jail and useless. No wonder she was tired
It is so crazy because I was thanking that mom was lying because I didn't see her tears coming out and daughter was not lying and and I see tears on her face
It was also his responsibility. No one told him to go to jail. She shouldn’t have been raising the kid alone. Like she said she was tired and he should’ve been there to pick up where she fell off. This is not only on her
Girl should not have fallen asleep with two young kids.. I'm thinking she took some medication for a migraine expecting mom to be there like normal.. then mom decided to go somewhere.. she t told her she was gonna fall asleep can sister stay too help with kids but mom didn't want to drive alone (really 7 kids and can't drive alone)..gm seems like the bad person in this deal.
I bet they both feel like real assholes. When a women with a newborn says that she needs help. Help her. Weather you have helped everyday that’s not the point. The person your helping the most is that baby. Such a devastating situation that I’m sure in her heart she beats herself up for and these people basically re-traumatizing her. I know they are all so hurt but they can’t un-say the things they’ve said. If I was her I wouldn’t want to talk to either of them for awhile.
Their were times I asked my mom for help n she denied me. Through prayer and meditation I raised my children successfully. When some one ask for help with their children HELP THEM!! IT COULD MEAN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIFE AND DEATH😥🙏
Where can I see the full episode? Edit: OH I've seen this episode before! I remember now. The grandmother p***ed me off! She's projecting her own guilt on to her daughter. She could've helped her daughter when she asked, but she refused. So sad... Even the baby's father blames the mother! Where the HELL was HE??! What a loser! Edit: Oh, right... he was in prison.
As if losing a baby isn't hard enough being blamed for it by everyone you care about must be a different type of pain that I never want to experience
It's a pain that is unreal. I know the pain because I have been through it. My 16 month old son passed away 11 & a half years ago. I was called a baby killer behind my back by my birth mother, as well as by people that I thought were my friends. I was accused by the state police. I was such a wreck. I couldn't understand how people that supposedly loved me, & cared about me, would say these awful things. I had 6 kids. He was my youngest, & last baby. I cut those people out of my life, including my birth mother. She's never been a mom, anyway. 🤷♀️
@@dysfnctional1978 I’m so sorry you went through this 💔
This is what you get for being an addict
@@mouli0235 tf is wrong with you
@@mouli0235 kid didn't freaking deserve to die, though!
Not her mom talking about crocodile tears when she wasn’t even crying in the beginning. And to have the audacity to try to hug her after all of that hoopla.
Love how she goes from crying to talking normal in a split second. 🤦🏻♀️
Sorry...people handle grief in different ways but, I can't get over that she has only crocodile tears.
People handle grief differently.
I can't really blame the mom cause the girl must have been doing drugs for a while and leaving her kids who should be her sole responsibility, to her mom. Like which mom would not have had enough of this shit? Plus her addiction might have caused the accidental death of the baby ( even if it weren't the case this time, there's still a high chance)
The mother is so full of it
That mum is the one to talk about “fake crocodile tears” when not a tear dropped from her eye when she was crying.
That's exactly what I thought
I knew from the beginning when the mom was doing all that crying she was full of it. Imagine how she's probably told everyone in their town this lie and damaged her own child's reputation for sympathy. I have a mother just like that SMH. Prayers to the young lady
Ik its so sad seeing parents like that. I hate manipulative parents or narcissistic parents and of course attention seeking parents are among the worse
Sadly, my mom is like that as well. Just always TEAM TOO MUCH🥺🤦🏾♀️
O yes my mother dearest x drove my dad to alcohol x but yet with my 2 brothers she was an still is different with them x me am the world's worst an yet am the one that's there for her x
No tears. Zero.
This!!!
Just the part where the grandma put a hand over her mouth and cried while STARING at Steve made me know she was seeking attention and sympathy and did not entirely believe her daughter did what she was accusing her of. The way her daughter told her story was the beginning of the truth and her ending with the thought of “if she had done this or that then the child would still be alive” is what sealed the deal for me that she didn’t do it on purpose. Tragic story I hope the family has found some relief after all these years. Thank you Steve and his crew for helping innocent people and finding the truth!
The daughter is a young mom with a three year of and an infant. She’s probably stressed beyond belief with both and since she is young she needed help. Regardless she was the one who birthed those babies she was YOUNG and needed extra support given it wasn’t a two parent household with a loving marriage and older and more situated in life. The grandmother has no one to blame but herself for the lack of guidance of her daughter and it sounded to me like the daugter had to help raise her siblings so the mother could do what she needed and wanted but now that her child has a a child she wants to use the “you made your bed” mentality when it never applied to her when she put major responsibilities on her daughter. I hate when I see that shit. The mother puts all these responsibilities on the daughter by making her babysit and participate in the raising of her younger kids but doesn’t want to help her own daughter ugh 🤦♀️
How can her baby father come at her like that when he was in jail. If he was doing right by the law he would’ve gotten the chance to be a father to his child… & her mom is absolutely wrong for how she treating her own daughter… smh. I hope this beautiful young lady heals from this & can at least continue to live her life peacefully 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
For real 😂 that’s what made me laugh…
He wanna yell and stutter, like she said you didn't "love me, didn't want the baby until you went to jail." I hope this young lady got away from both these losers. They're both trying to destroy her.
@@alysbaah-danso5278 lol fr tho. He coming out like he been doing something 🤣
@@brishaberries0101 that part
I might sound like a complete moron here but can someone explain what smh means?? I'm new to this text slang lol xxxx
I'm a little conflicted with this one guys. I got pregnant at 16 yrs old so I put on my big girl pants and got on with it. I worked full time, attended night classes at university and also bought my first home. My mother wouldn't help me and I didn't expect her to. He was my responsibility. I paid his paternal auntie and grandmother to watch him while I worked because they were the only 2 people I trusted with my gorgeous boy. They were as daft and a pushover as I was so I never had to worry about him while I worked and the money helped them. I'm swaying more to the " she didn't really want the responsibility of this child" It's not her mother's or her siblings job to overwatch her. Unfortunately it ended in tragedy. It may take a village but there isn't always one available. Then it's up to you and you alone. You have to grow up fast and get on with it. If you don't want that responsibility give the child up. Lots of people out there cannot have children and would love to adopt, or even can have children but want to foster or adopt aswell. Failing that, take precautions to ensure it doesn't happen in the first place. Bit cynical of me guys today I think!!! Love and prayers 😘❤️🙏xxx
I really hate that mother's are guilted for needing help. Raising kids is hard. The whole "that's your baby, figure it out" is true but selfish. It takes a village and sometimes moms need help too. Not having support is hurtful, but to be accused of killing your own baby is unimaginable. And the jail bird wants to blame her but he wasn't there to help.
and from what grandma said there were many signs and what seemed to be cries for help, i mean asking her mom to stay or for the sister to stay? someone should have been there for her.
Agreed!!
Facts
She made the decision to have a baby with that “jail bird”.
As someone who wants to be a father more than anything I will definitely be asking my mom for help to understand what I need to do and what to order and stuff.
That mother daughter relationship will never be the same. Especially as a woman you always want/need your mother in your corner. This is so sad
The grandmother with her loud mouth and that fake crying needs to take that funny looking baby daddy needs to go somewhere and sit down.
For a grandmother who's supposedly grieving the loss of her grandchild, not one tear is shed
I said that to
Facts
Speaking from experience, there's a point you reach when you've cried so much that it's hard to produce tears
Said the same thing. Then, talks so straight. Anyone can make themselves seem like they're 😭. Smdh
@@richardsalicejr5295people don’t understand real pain. Theres pain way beyond tears
The father is disgusting. How dare he blame the mom when his sorry ass was in jail for a year. He says he never got to hold his baby? No you didn't because you're a criminal. Where were you when your son needed you? Jail.
how is he disgusting?
@@lilaidzz trying to blame and bash the mom when he wasn't there at all. he needs to take responsibility maybe if he wants locked up that never would have happened
He shouldn't be in jail. It is partly his fault too.
she waited a year to tell the father of her dead son that his son died wtf?
@@lilaidzz he blamed the mom for the death of that baby when his sorry self was in jail he was wrong for that he Is just as guilty
You do NOT place blame like that, unless you know for a fact it happened. This was so heart shattering. I hope she gets some help through this difficult time 😞
The mom shouldn't even dare to mention her daughters tears. The mom is the queen of fake crying and not a single tear. That's what I call crocodile tears. Tearing your daughter apart in such a horrible mean way and when told she was innocent act apologetic. If that was my mom, she could leave me the heck alone forever. 😔
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The mama is full of ish,her behind wasn't crying either smh
U R rite fake as hell couldn't even bring out 1 little tear no sniffling no red eyes. Feel 4 the daughter.
Yes! I really feel for the young mother that is being scapegoated here.
I Strongly Agree
She needs to disown this family and find herself one that will love and appreciate her. You can see how much shes been through at the hands of people who should love her. Being treated like your a liar all the time is really damaging to your mental and emotional health. She is clearly struggling inside and just needs some companionship and support and when she needed it most she was told "it's your problem you deal with it" even though it wasnt JUST her problem. That baby is family, that makes it the families problem. The dads side shouldv stepped up to help her after he went to jail. What happened to this women was severely unjust and undeserved. I hope she can find a family who loves her and treats her the way she deserves. WITH RESPECT.
No she don't need to disown them, It's her damn fault💯💯
@@SnowieBlitz that’s why your shit green
@@SnowieBlitzshe had postpartum depression and no one helped her when she asked for help.
Facts 💯💯
This episode is heart wrenching. This poor family
I feel sorry for jasmine because she was asking for help that day.
Parents, need too help
yup @@jannettsnow
Seems like she was always getting help. They said his mother had the baby for the first 7 days! When the baby died he was 19 days old and that day she came in at 5 am!? Her mother said she had the baby for hours and brought him back , changed his pamper, put a clean onesie on him and gave him a bottle! Then she put him in the bassinet , the girl was still laying on the couch…. I wish I had even an ounce of that kind of help with my two kids.
It’s not anyone’s responsibility except hers and the father who she laid down with not her mom and definitely not her little sisters if she needed so much help maybe not have two young kids would’ve been a better option
@@debbies6494 exactly and she had a 3 yo idk why people want everyone to help raise kids they didn’t help make
They yelled and screamed in this poor girl's face. not giving her a chance to even justify herself...
OMG, the toxicity! Grandma fake crying, daddy wasn't there because he was in JAIL. Hello son, you had to do something to be put in jail! Momma ASKED FOR HELP and got the "it's your problem, you deal with it" response. The other grandmother is MIA. Someone tell me, whatever happened to the concept of FAMILY? Y'ALL blaming one person, you are ALL to blame!
The other grandma is in the audience
@@SJ-jd8uh Well, she should have been involved in that baby's life. She should have been HELPING the mother. IT TAKES A VILLAGE, REMEMBER THAT.
She begged the mom for help and the mother said no smh
The father saying that it is the young mother's fault. Maybe if he didn't break the law and go to jail he could have helped her with their son.
*Would* he have helped her? I doubt it -- he's young, mouthy and stupid! He would have been out with his buddies proving what a "man" he was and ignoring the baby. I''m sure both the grandmother and the "baby-daddy" told the cops all about what a horrible person the infant's mother was, and the cops rolled their eyes and ignored those morons!
Exactly. He had no right to go off on her considering he wasn't even there. He was lucky ANYONE told him his child died after being sent to jail. He has no bearing in this, whatsoever and deserves no part in this.
Facts preach
@@Ellis_AKA_Mr.Sunshine so because he was in jail he’s not allowed to care that his son is dead ? sound stupid as fuck lol
This man sounds "mentally slow" and he goes off on her. Both the mom and the "so called dad" are both asswads. Blaming her for the death. Maybe they should have both did more to help this girl
The way that mother was trying to cry. She would act like she was barely able to talk. Not one tear rolled down her cheek. She tried to fake cry!!!
If the father of the child would have been doing the right things in life maybe he would have been able to see his child. Nobody should be blaming this young mother when they don't know the truth. I feel so bad for this young mothers loss. I hope she has her other child back in her life now.
Exactly! He's up there acting self righteous.... Where was he when she got pregnant, delivered and was taking care of the baby
She shouldn’t have been doing drugs that’s a huge reason why he was pissed which is true she shouldn’t have been doing drugs period.
@@Mhel2023 she shouldn’t have been doing drugs. Simple as fucking that.
@@jaeveinberry3147 this comment is about the father not her doing drugs💀
@@ccb3519 both of them at the wrong end of the day !
The daughter begged her mom for help. She was tired. 😢
This really made me cry..so sorry for the young mother .my condolences to her.
I could tell from the start she was innocent. You can just tell it in her face, her facial expressions, her increasing anger at her own mother saying she could of potentially done it on purpose. Just because one didn't cry doesn't mean they are lying. Everyone everywhere needs to understand people deal with situations in different ways. Some may become angry, some sad, some even completely numb to what was going on. You could she was hurting, but was just all together tired of being accused of something she never did intentionally. Very very sad story, I hope she finds peace in her heart soon 💓
I really wish people would have more sympathy to those suffering from postpartum depression. Insisting and saying “those your kids, you take care of them” when someone is asking for help can mean death for someone.
I’d never talk to either of them again.
I'm a father and I can't imagine losing my first boy son and being accused of being responsible for it by my own mother. That would mess me up for years.
For life
Wow she is one hell of an actress! She sure sounds hysterical, and yet not one tear dropped from her eyes. Unreal… 😑
She almost killed the boys father with her stare! "
Who the hell are you to question me you bum"
Well if the father was concerned about his child he would of been there since day one. He's trying to put full blame on her but he was very neglectful of his child
He wasn’t there to begin with to be neglectful
@@Itsayarnthing that what neglect means. Not being there. The amount of people who liked your illogical comment is alarming.
How is it the father fault that insane he was not even there
@@reginaharrigan7454 because if he wasn’t in jail, he would’ve been there to help. If the mom didn’t only give a fuck about herself and actually cared about her child her grandchild they would’ve helped her the girl literally begged for help.
@BaddASSPink you sound stupid ya blame the guy that wasn't there and not the mother that was there ya that makes sense.
I pray she keeps them both out her life....what a horrible tragedy for this young mother but then to be attacked instead of loved through this tragedy is gut wrenching
Being a young mum ain’t easy! I remember at 18 breastfeeding and falling asleep where I was so tired and nearly suffocating my babies! But I didn’t have a social life! I gave that up to be a mummy. ❤
How many babys that's bad if it's a few 😂😂❤ least they're okay though !! ❤❤😂😂
Good job for being responsible so young! I struggled with exhaustion and I was 26 lol
But you didn't party , do drugs and neglect your lil one that's the difference
lol wat
If happened to me too. Feeling that new baby exhaustion, i fell asleep with her on my chest. Luckily, big sis heard her gasping for breath from the next room and came to the rescue. Otherwise, I wouldn't have my amazing eleven-year old today. Never realized this was so common, makes me wonder how many little angels go to heaven this way. 😢
The way that she sobbed when she said look at my grandson broke my heart to pieces. I just had a baby and I swear I would die if something ever happened to her 😢
i broke into tear instantly i cant
Congratulations! Sending love for you and your baby!!💖💖💖💖💖💖
60 years ago my neighbor's newborn died of SIDS. There's no way anyone can prepare for that -- it's like being hit by a meteor. The coroner said he was sleeping on his stomach and may have suffocated. She was in shock for weeks and could barely carry on a conversation.
That mother blaming her daughter for the baby's death is entirely out of line -- the medical examiner made the determination of cause of death and for her not to accept the legal decision indicates something is VERY wrong with Grandma!
If the father is so convinced the baby's mother was responsible, perhaps he should have stayed out of jail and not violated the law so he could have been around to protect his child. From what I heard, nobody has proven the infant's mother was on drugs at the time of death. The whole crazy family needs to back off until they can provide EVIDENCE instead of throwing blame around.
Yet, not 1 tear out of her eyes, interesting
I had a son pass away. He was 16 months old. I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on anyone. It's an unnatural pain. Mothers are not supposed to bury their children. 😭😭 May 31st of this year will be 12 years that he has been gone from this Earth. I miss him every single day. 💔
I stutter as well, but I can't stop laughing.
Same 😂 it’s like it’s always funny when someone else does it
The grandma and dad have some nerve. I would never talk to them again. Also if she noticed she had PPD why wouldn’t she try to get her help
Because it's wrong for woman to suffer PPD... How dare a mother have PPD they just need to snap out of it and if you don't have an immediate connection with your baby then you're labeled a bad mother. It's rare for people to help a mom with PPD it's easier to judge them. Anyway I think it's a major problem how our society deals with mental health as a whole.
I only had ppd with my new baby im a mom of three but when my boyfriend noticed I wasn't my self he took our baby to his mom so I could have some time to recollect myself. It was a couple days after we had gotten home from the hospital that I noticed I was dealing with ppd. I couldn't stop crying. But I didn't ask for help he helped me.
Because she’s dead ass wrong tryna blame everyone but herself for some so stupid and irresponsible
@@RainbowStarGumDrop didn’t have an immediate connection till maybe a week later my body was playing catch-up with the fact that my baby was now out of my body/it was like my baby and the baby I carried wasn’t the same/it was an odd feeling for sure(he’s definitely mine tho😂)
@@saharah101 I went through something similar due to a bunch of complications In my last trimester I had to be induced which resulted in an emergency c section to get him out alive. After he was born not even a few hours later he had low blood sugar and was jaundice so they took him to the NICU. Because of the drugs and how fast they took him from me I had no time to memorize his face so when I saw him again I thought he wasn't mine. I thought the people next door had my kid because the cry of that baby was similar it wasn't until my son made noise that it clicked that he was indeed my baby. Even then it was hard forming a bond for the first month due to being bombarded by wires and nurses and doctors and we had zero privacy to bond. I did my best to breast feed but because the nurses gave him bottles he refused to nurse. I felt like I was being rejected by my own son. I knew I had to keep trying but it wasn't until I got him home that we had the ability to better our bond. I always loved him it was just tough to feel our connection. For a while I felt like we were just going through the motions. I think when we had our special time that we finally bonded properly. But for about three months in I felt like I was the worst mom because he seemed to not want to look at me or feed from me. It was rough. Obviously we are as thick as thieves now as two years has passed since our rocky beginning.
The dad came out and messed my head up. Real emotions.
This one was sad.
Too bad he was in jail 🤦🏽♀️
Who? That deadbeat? He should close his mouth!!
No good or bad out of this. But i guess you're right...
Real emotion???? He was in jail, he should be out being a good man n stay out a jail
That grandma saying her daughter is barely crying. That she has fake-ass crocodile tears. That grandma didn't cry at all!! They are just jumping on that young mother and that ain't ok.
Actually she said Fake crocodile ass tears
That guy just stood there motionless after her results were read and he kept saying he never got to see his child because he was in jail well here something stay out of jail it’s definitely not her fault he was in jail it’s his fault he should have apologized to her
But let's be fair the jail situation is separate from a child dying. The child was only alive for 19 days. It's not fair to have empathy for her mistakes and then have absolutely none for his.
@@tricktracy2254 she past a lie detector test
@@ravenviola7132 yes, bit she was still irresponsible and immature. Also she was abusing drugs. If your child died while you were away and you didn't find out a year later, how would you feel?
@@tricktracy2254 he was in jail because of his own doing he would’ve been able to see his child. Had he not been doing shit? She was pregnant before he went to jail so he knew, and he didn’t want nothing to do with her, until after he went to jail. She needed help and she was stressed. A lot of moms go through that needing something to help them. It sounds like she had postpartum and her mom didn’t care enough to leave a sibling there to help her because she was having severe migraines.
@@JustLikeAFlower yes he is fully responsible for going to jail unless he was actually innocent. Him going to jail did cause stress on her and caused her to have less help But his sentence isn't one of the events that ultimately leads to his son death.
I understand she was under duress. But that doesn't excuse any of the irresponsible actions she took
I can’t imagine loosing your child and being accused of doing it or neglecting the child which caused the death when you didn’t…not only are you going through the pain of your loss but then to have to defend yourself and be told you’re guilty…breaks my heart
It takes a village to raise a child. She needed help. She reached out for a hand. And no one helped her
This is so heart breaking. This poor family… unfortunately things like this happen and it’s horrible. It’s absolutely horrible. Nothing will fix this.. nothing will bring that baby back.. they all need therapy to work through their trauma…
I knew it! Plus the dad has nothing to say when he was in jail.
Right people who truly care abt they kids avoid going to jail for them💀
I mean who tf wants to go to jail??? That’s not his fault the mother still killed her baby an waited a year to tell him
@@Veethedon1 she waited a year, yes that was wrong. But why was he in jail?
@@Veethedon1 He didn't ask a friend or relative to check on his child? Why do I get the feeling all his concern happened after he knew he'd be on Steve's show?
@@Veethedon1 she didn’t kill her baby fat hoe
Explain how a guy who went to jail so he couldn't take care of nothing is telling her she's not taking care of things... blows my mind. He failed as a father.
That might be true but his kid ain’t die on his watch. So I understand when it comes to that
@@SuperBRIANWILSON from what she said the chat was never on his watch until he was in jail. He didn’t care enough to go see the child before he went to jail
@@JustLikeAFlower that’s bs my brother is close friends with dude before he got locked up he couldn’t wait to be father to his son god rest his soul.
I would’ve pushed my mom off the stage if she would’ve tried to hug me
Facts 😂💯💯
This girl was alone in her soul.. but to have her mom not support her like that is what hurt her almost as bad as loosing her baby.
I can’t even take the father serious all that yelling and stuttering 😭😭
He’s hurting
@@RealAdrianReactions no he ain't he knew he had a kid on the way and still went to jail
@@Miyanybria lol and
@@RealAdrianReactions so wtf you said is not right
I almost wonder if he was trying to remember all of his words or if there's something wrong with his jaw.
The father surprised me with the way he was speaking to her about not being a good mother when he was in prison. Yes she was on drugs which is completely wrong but there is no way you can be a good father from jail.
I feel awful for her. Hearing her mom come out and tell her to get out the chair broke my heart.
They just wanna be angry at someone, have someone to blame for this tragedy. Instead of pulling together for support they tar her with a scarlet letter when she needed help and support with her kids!
Yep. Horrible people.
Father is talking about responsibility!? Man, you went to jail for not being responsible! If he would be a good father he wouldn't had go to jail in first place!
The dad just keept saying the same thing when he came out,it’s like arguing with a robot
You could literally feel the pain and sadness coming from the father like damn
He should’ve been around and not in prison.
@@Thinktanker24 still totally sad for him though
@@Thinktanker24 EXACTLY.
They were so mean to that poor girl. 😞✝️🙏🏻
Never a real tear from these drama mamas!
that’s a lot of noise for no tears. i feel for the young mother. i hope she heals.
My son's father fell asleep with our 6day old son Eduardo Jr and rolled in him while sleeping. It was a complete accident and a tragic loss. Accidents can happen to ANYONE when you least expect it. I forgave him because I know he didn't mean to. We were young parents and caregivers to my autistic brother. It was one of the worst things I've gone through it changed me. But I spread the word on co sleeping with your young children and how dangerous it can be. It only takes one wrong mistake. Please be careful with small childre.
My condolences to you and your family 💜🙏🏾👼
6 years-old.It’s unusual,for a child,of that age,to not wake up,and shout.Did you mean 6 months?
@eh-i1841 she said six days old. 🙃
SIX DAYS OLD. AND WHAT Y'ALL TRYNA SAY?? and my baby daddy fell asleep with him while I was already taking a nap on the couch. HE ASSURED ME HE WOULD BE FINE WITH HIM. WHEN I WOKE UP I FOUND MY BABY UNDER MY BABY DADDY. IDK WHAT YOU GUYS TRYNA SAY BUT HOW WOULD A NEW BORN BE ABLE TO MAKE ANY NOISE IF HIS FATHER WAS ON HIM? AND AT THAT THE CORONER'S OFFICE SAID IT DOESN'T TAKE MUCH TIME FOR SMALL CHILD TO LOSE BRAIN ACTIVITY WHEN ACCIDENTS LIKE THIS HAPPEN.
@@beckydalton6777 becky nobody was saying anything. Someone just asked whether you meant 6 days or months old. Which you're right shouldn't matter because what happened was terrible.
I love how he calls her immature when he is the one that got locked up while she was pregnant. Maybe if he wasn't immature and cared about his baby, he wouldn't have broken the law, and he could have been there to help with the baby, and he would probably still be alive. This is such a tragic situation! I feel so bad she couldn't really grieve her baby because her family wasn't there for her.
The father is ridiculous. You were in jail! You were unable to provide any support, yet you take no accountability. Pathetic
that poor girl deserves better instead of these toxic people
Something is not right with the grand Mother...she is not even crying! I don't believe a Word she said
Always stand by your child/ even an adult child. Place no judgement. Work together as a family.
All that crying and not one tear on her cheek, like stfu whatever vendetta you have against your daughter needs to be dealt with in therapy
THE MUM NEEDS A LIE DETECTOR TEST
Why?
the mom even telling this story was BS! she even stated how she seen her daughter acting “strange” and being “tired” “not like herself” she even asked for help that same day from one of her siblings and the mother denied it .. tears are fake - going from crying to normal … i feel so bad for that girl man
The father wants to talk about she’s immature and how it’s all her fault, where TH were you? Jail right? So tell me again how much talking room you have about maturity and responsibility?
That postpartum is no joke she should’ve took that baby elsewhere when she seen the signs
The fact that he didn't know his child was dead for a year proves exactly what she said : NOBODY CARED. Your mom, brothers, sisters, aunt's, uncle's, or cousins, (pretty sure his pops wasn't around)didn't go by to check on/ see your lil man? Did he or his mother even inquire about the child for that entire year?
I hate how selective Steve is when it comes to calling out bullshit. All that hooting and hollering in agony and not a single tear fell from that grandmother
This fake cry and then talking normal is killing meee …. Feel sooo sorry for the young girl 😢
Wow going from greaving to straight face in secunds from grandma
Literally no tears coming out of the grandma’s eyes 2:18
Yelling in someones face is so disrespectful and so unnecessary
I hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday!!! 🙏🏻✌🏻
you too love
She needed her mother. Shame on that grandmother
The mother kept crying but there was never a tear. She comes on national TV and expresses her concerns, but she goes farther than that and tries to make her daughter look as bad as possible. As if losing a baby wasn't bad enough. When the daughter came out she showed real emotion - not the fake stuff the mother had been showing up until that point. I think the mother is a narcissist. She took over the care of the baby, undermined and demonised her daughter, felt sorry for herself, acted and milked the attention on the show and did everything she could to destroy her daughter's reputation. Everything has to revolve around her. She cannot even respect her daughter's loss as being something sacred to her daughter as the mother of the child.
The daughter cried real tears, and the mother didn't have any tears, just made a lot of noise, it's pretty sad when a mother accuses her daughter of killing her own child. I felt sorry for the young girl. I'm glad she passed. The best part of watching Steve Wilkos on RUclips is you can fast forward all the yelling.
the mom talking about fake tears she ain’t have no tears either
She had to go through losing her child and getting blamed that’s crazy she cried more than her mother
The grandmother and the father should be ashamed at how they treated her. The daughter asked her mother for help and was denied. The father was in jail and useless. No wonder she was tired
Not feeling right about the girls mother, somethings off.
All kids deserve parents,
not all parents deserve kids
No tears!! Knew there was a issue and left her alone with him.
Little boy if you where not getting in trouble and going to jail. Shut your mouth. You are as much as fault.
Walk never forgive them. Take your son and run. The only one with real tears
I'm not even her mum and I could see she was telling the truth.
The mother crying but no tears 😂 ps the daughter tryna switch it in him being at jail when it was her responsibility smh
Yep... whole lot og gaslighting
They always “care” after they go to jail💀she isnt wrong abt that part and even after he found out she was telling the truth he stood there pouting😂
It is so crazy because I was thanking that mom was lying because I didn't see her tears coming out and daughter was not lying and and I see tears on her face
Uhhh... If his criminal ass hadn't been in jail, she woulda had help with her 2 kids maybe?
It was also his responsibility. No one told him to go to jail. She shouldn’t have been raising the kid alone. Like she said she was tired and he should’ve been there to pick up where she fell off. This is not only on her
Girl should not have fallen asleep with two young kids.. I'm thinking she took some medication for a migraine expecting mom to be there like normal.. then mom decided to go somewhere.. she t told her she was gonna fall asleep can sister stay too help with kids but mom didn't want to drive alone (really 7 kids and can't drive alone)..gm seems like the bad person in this deal.
got my grown ass crying my fucking eyes out jesus christ
Damn I’m early not even comments letting me know who did it lol
LMFAO NO LITERALLY
I've never actually seen someone cry that hard with zero tears wtf is she serious
The mother of the baby is so beautiful. She has a beautiful face.
The father should have stayed out of jail.
Mom should talk about fake crying. I noticed immediately that even though she seemed to be crying there were absolutely no tears. Something fishy
This broke my heart…
in balling watching them argue this is raw af
A whole lot of gaslighting going on here.
Now that I have 2 beautiful granddaughters. We do everything we can if needed. To help out with those beautiful innocent babies. It's a privilege.
I bet they both feel like real assholes. When a women with a newborn says that she needs help. Help her. Weather you have helped everyday that’s not the point. The person your helping the most is that baby. Such a devastating situation that I’m sure in her heart she beats herself up for and these people basically re-traumatizing her. I know they are all so hurt but they can’t un-say the things they’ve said. If I was her I wouldn’t want to talk to either of them for awhile.
My god the poor girl. I hope shes doing okay now..
I can’t even watch this. Where are the grandmothers tears? It feels like a show
Their were times I asked my mom for help n she denied me.
Through prayer and meditation I raised my children successfully.
When some one ask for help with their children HELP THEM!!
IT COULD MEAN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIFE AND DEATH😥🙏
Where can I see the full episode? Edit: OH I've seen this episode before! I remember now. The grandmother p***ed me off! She's projecting her own guilt on to her daughter. She could've helped her daughter when she asked, but she refused. So sad... Even the baby's father blames the mother! Where the HELL was HE??! What a loser! Edit: Oh, right... he was in prison.