Denying suicides always piss me off. When I hear them say “he wasn’t suicidal he liked living” what I’m hearing is they didn’t pay attention to him, he didn’t trust them enough to confide in them, and they ignored red flags and signs that people show before committing suicide. Shame.
Most people have few if any signs before suicide attempt. Many are actually quite upbeat in the days just before the suicide-they feel lighter because they’ve made a decision. They’re strangely relieved.
No many times those who commit suicide show no signs and suffer in silence 🥲 I understand what they are feeling because losing someone in such a way you don’t want to believe they choose to leave I lost my bestfriend over a month ago I wanted to blame the boyfriend because they faught that night but I had to come to terms with the truth and that’s she choose to leave 😭 not because she didn’t love us but because she was suffering and fighting demons and wanted peace it’s heartbreaking and I hope this can help get closure for them
That's exactly true. Same thing with my neice. Everytime said she wasn't suicidal. But she always told me she didn't want to be here. She overdose.. They said it was a accident.. It wasn't.. She wanted to go. She was tied and defeated.. People just don't know what's in other people's heads. Noone knows what's in mine..
That’s exactly what I was saying they don’t want except the fact that the Brother was at fault, and that none of this would’ve happened if he had never been putting his hands on her while she was driving.
The sad thing about that is that they could be incapable of accepting the fact that he would end his life. And that they somehow, in a inexplainable psychological manner, indeed NEED to have another person responsible for his death, just to be able to handle this intense pain of losing him. The girlfriend is, in that scenario, ‘collateral damage’ simply because she is around. Not even truly ‘out to get her’, more ‘impossible to do it differently’… Does NOT make it alright of course!! Just a possibility.
Yeah, I wasn’t getting any vibes that she caused that man’s death on purpose . He decided to get out of the car while it was moving just to avoid whatever consequences will come his way . But condolences for his family to say the least .
Exactly. We see it too much on this show. I feel that it is ignorant to say the deceased would never do that before you even know the truth because then youre refusing to think about the other possibilty and Im sure the deceased would want you to. I always wonder, if the deceased were alive and told some of these people the truth, would they listen or pretend everything is fine?
@@bristroyer1723 That's actually a good point. Ignoring the fact that it was a suicide is even more disrespectful to the deceased since it is disregarding the struggle and pain they had to face alone to make this choice. They should reflect on how they could have helped him to prevent it from happening to others and healing, instead of blindly accusing people who are in just as much pain as them.
So true I lost my bestfriend over a month ago and I would of never thought she would ever 😭 many times ppl are suffering more then we would ever know it’s hard to comes to terms with that they choose to leave but it’s not because they didn’t love you it’s because they wanted peace they wanted the pain to stop but continuing to be in denial is very unhealthy and will not help anything
The "girl'S ". Plural. They all acted like cheap ignorants. But the pain is real,tho. Sorrow when someone passes young,can be to hard. Angry is easyer.
I know Ulonda personally and I've known her for about 25 years but I've NEVER known her to cause anyone's death! She's one of the most sincere women I've ever gotten to know! I'm aware of what kind of relationship she had with him and yes, it was toxic but despite all the hell he put her through, she still tried to help him to the best of her ability. Unfortunately, the drugs did him in. I'm sorry for his sister's loss but she needs to accept the fact that her brother is gone and his kids are without a father! Yes, Ulonda is hurt but no one is hurt more than his kids! I'm glad although I'm not surprised Ulonda cleared her name and hopefully she can move forward from all this!
I wish she wouldnt have said "kiss my ass", because it brought her down to a cheap level , along with the sister. But only for a moment,and i understand she is angry. Who wouldnt be,getting blamed like that. Ulonda cane off very belivable. Good for her ! To sister defens (a bit hard,she acted bad,but...), when you loose a young person,the added sorrow is huge. So,angry is easyer. A sad story. Im not english(obviously, my grammar and spelling🙈)... So i had a hard time even understand their "english"... Do all people in that area really talk like that? I mean, i STILL have a issue with so many using "aks/ax", as in "i axed her", where i thought it should be "i asked". I always get a picture of the real deal in my head, a person "axing" someone,and its not good... YT is international . I know several languages (read,understand,but grammar and spelling is not up to par),but no language have more differences , then english. For a foreigner,its a struggle.
@TG-hp8og I understand what you're saying. I'm learning 4 different languages. I know two sign language and English. I agree with you. I'm more annoyed at the brothers sister. She acted childish in manner when he read the detectors results. I read her body language and I didn't like it.
@@TG-hp8og a lot of black americans speak african american english/ebonics. it's a dialect of english with its own grammar and slang. that's probably why you don't understand it, it's like a whole different kind of english. "axe" instead of "ask" is an example of a common speech impediment in english (or at least american english) children, but as black americans learned english as a result of slavery, and often were then segregated (forcibly and selectively) from primary english speakers, that mispronunciation frequently goes uncorrected. first gen black americans said it that way, then their kids, then their kids. it's how a lot of us say it. it's not uncommon to hear black people pronounce it as "axe" here's some basic ebonics to help you, but you'll understand it better the more you listen to it: traditional english: i often paint flowers with watercolors aae: i be painting flowers with watercolors traditional english: i don't have time to start a new painting aae: i ain't got time to start a new painting traditional english: i did that [painting] very well aae: i ate that up/no crumbs traditional english: i already finished that painting aae: i been done with that painting te: untrue, aae: cap te: going to (slang-gonna), aae: finna, finsta te: i dont, aae: ion te: be serious/honest, aae: be for real hope that helps
As I was listening to this story ! Based on on how she was telling what happened from her perspective , I wasn’t getting any vibes that she was lying or caused his death on purpose . I think that man’s family just wanted to pin the blame on her , all because of whatever mess that was going on between those two , leading up to him getting out of a moving car just to avoid consequences from the police . Condolences to the family by the way .
I actually teared up a little listening to her tell certain parts of the story. Regardless of the yelling & chaos on stage and before they arrived…., you can tell she’s fed up & wants to move on.
Exactly even if you practice that shit once you put on the spot, you’re gonna mess it up. Because then your nerves are gonna get going and you’re gonna become scared that your story I’m gonna be enough, so you’re gonna mess up somewheres telling your story. This girl was spot on with everything in the raw emotion in her voice was enough for me to believe her right from the jump. I’m just really heartbroken for her because she wasn’t at fault at all. She had just had enough and just wanted him to get help so she was taking him to get help. He didn’t wanna go to jail. I don’t think he meant to kill himself. I don’t think he was trying to hurt himself. I think he was just trying to get away. But that just goes to show that a series accident that happened in a split second no matter how safe it seems like her car she was only driving 20 mph. It was still enough for him to kill himself. I hope the family gets off this girls back, and I hope that they can all come together and be there for each other and be able to finally grieve because you can tell that this poor girl has not had a chance to grieve. it seems like since he died, she’s been spending more time trying to prove your innocence rather than grieve the loss of her boyfriend. Yes, they had a very toxic relationship at the end of the day. That is the man that she loved through thick and thin.
This is how you wipe out any goodwill that your family enjoys in the community.....with the way she (the sister) is acting with her exaggerated facial expressions , it just kills any sympathy you have for them.....
Her hurt ass is still trying to blame her even after the truth came out . I had a feeling she still wouldn’t believe the results. I could barely get through the episode bc of her being ignorant and yelling every word she said
@@calynnchilds7907 girl I’m saying ik she lost a brother but that doesn’t justify her acting like an ignorant fool and still blaming the gf even after the results. Her brother’s actions got himself killed (I mean that in the most respectful way possible, I couldn’t think of another way to put it) harassing that lady isn’t going to bring him back. They want someone to blame instead of the truth
She called his death because she was taking him to the police station knowing he had drugs? Ok…. That don’t mean he had to jump out a moving car. I know you in pain but damn - that was ignorant as hell.
The fact that her story was so detailed, from the name of the streets she was on down to the turns that she made and everything thereafter shows that she wasn't lying. People always want someone to blame for a death weither it's that cut and dry or not.
Then sisters are in denial. Not only that their brother willfully and willingly did an incredibly stupid thing that led to his death…but also about his character. He sells drugs and beats his woman? Real stand up guy.
I feel for Vons family. They are hurting and confused and lashing out at the closest person they can. I don't think Von killed himself. I think it was a horrible accident. I feel for Ulonda, too. She lost someone she loved as well (even if they were toxic for each other)and hasn't been able to grieve properly bc of the accusations. I pray everyone involved can find peace and closure and start to heal soon.
Yeah, I feel you on that . At the same time I kind of feel like his family wanted to pin the blame on her all because of whatever mess that was going on between those two , leading to him, jumping out of a moving car .
13:04 This right here.. this is the biggest example of people who knew or didn't care for the truth and wanted drama. Why are you smiling about being proven wrong? Why are you smiling that the woman you accused of being a murderer was innocent? She never cared for her brother. If she did, she would have seen the signs before he attempted to even take his own life. She just wants to blame everyone but her brother for his actions and herself for never making any attempt to listen to her brothers inner demons
I am VERY sorry for their loss, I truly am. But it is very ignorant of them to say "he was not that type of person to commit suicide." My uncle was the MOST loving, caring, FUNNY, great sense of humor and always cutting up and making people laugh. He shot himself in the very next room with all of his family in the family home. No one could understand how or why because he also "did not seem the type." But it just shows that you do not truly know how someone feels inside of their soul. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🖤🖤
The only person I feel sorry is the daughter exposed to this toxic relationship. So much trauma for someone so young and she had no choice to be involved in it.
I really hate stories like this because they always want to blame somebody when they lose a loved one in a way that is difficult to understand. This man was selling drugs and did something stupid that got his life ended short that's not her fault but they want to blame her because they don't want to accept that he did this to himself. Both families need healing from this Because there is a lot of blame where it isn't needed and a lot of healing and it's all his fault.
9:50 aint no doctor say that. Going hard for your brother when he hits on females. I understand ppl gonna go hard for their ppl. However, if he was wrong HE WAS WROOONNNGGGG!!! Maybe if they had been got him some help he would still be here. Instead they wanted to blame everyone else. He wont ish admit it.
I can just imagine how many times his family made excuses and blamed EVERYBODy for his degenerate behavior, except him. This was ridiculous. He probably didn't try to commit suicide, but it was definitely his own fault that he died... His family needs therapy so they can accept the fact that he died due to his own actions.
I knew she didn’t do it before the gf even spoke. The sisters’ reason for why he wasn’t trying to do this to himself is that he wouldn’t hurt others. What? Also when people are having those sorts of thoughts and emotions they’re very good at not showing their unhappiness around people they don’t want to know. The sisters just needed someone to blame. I hope they all get peace from this
Your brother was hitting a woman as she drove. She was doing what she was supposed to do in driving his ass to the police station. Your brother decided to jump out of a moving car and died… and you’re mad at the person your brother was hitting, who was going to the police station to get his ass arrested.
Steve Wilkos show rule. During the pre interview the accused must be filmed in black and white and stare into the camera with the most guilty face you can make.
Losing someone is always hard! Depression doesn’t always looks like what people think it should. Some people just need someone to blame and in this case that’s what these sisters were doing!
They cant accept the fact that their brother wasnt healthy mentally and need someone to blame. Sadly in the black community talking about mental health is kinda taboo, in my family if u admit u have issues it puts a bad label on that person and they are at times ostracized
I was a cop for 13 years. Dealt with quite a few suicides. The families never accept it. They always say "He wouldn't do that!". But you don't know that. If you could pick out people who would or wouldn't kill themselves, you could go a long way in preventing it. But in this case...the girlfriends story made absolute sense.
BEING ACCUSED OF MURDER IS HORRIBLE AND HURTFUL WEN IT'S UR MAN😢TRUST ME IK..MINES DIED IN HOUSE FIRE,HIS PEOPLE ACCUSED ME... KNOWING U INNOCENT IT CUTS U DEEP
I could tell by the emotion in her voice that she was telling the truth. She didn’t change any details. She wasn’t stuttering when she was talking she wasn’t stopping to think about what she was saying before she said it she just told the story for exactly what it was. I understand the family is upset and they just wanna know what happened. But unfortunately, the truth is what the girlfriend has stated. And they just don’t want to accept it. They don’t want to except the fact that their brother was wrong and was at fault because if he had never been fighting with her while she was driving none this would’ve ever happened. My heart really does go out to the family, but my heart also goes out to the girlfriend because not only did she had to suffer a loss but her daughter witnessed this and now she’s got to deal with backlash from the family that’s not fair to her she’s grieving too. Whether this family wants to admit it or not, she’s hurting too. The family needs to put their differences aside and they need to be there for the girlfriend just as well as a girlfriend needs to be there for the family. This is a time where they should all be together and there for each other. I hope the best for all parties involved, and I hope that they can put their differences aside to try to be there for each other the best way that they can.
his death is tragic no matter what, but there will always be a risk if you jump out of a moving car. it’s terrible losing someone you love, but there’s not always foul play involved with someone’s death. and the sister saying driving him to the police station is indirectly responsible for his death is just her showing that she’s not here for the truth, she’s here to blame and point fingers. i feel horrible for everyone involved who loved him
Families always believe their loved one would do no wrong. “If I had drugs and you’re taking me to a police station, I’d jump out of the car. That is causing his death.” Girl bffr. I know it’s your brother and that’s hard, but taking someone else down with him isn’t right. I really hope they all heal.
I'm sorry but she's trying to find someone to blame and it was a accident she didn't mean for him to die and he wasn't trying to kill himself.. However if you jump out of a moving vehicle it can be deadly ....Lady stop .Your brother jumped out that car by himself he should not have had drugs on him in the first place like TF
Tragic story all the way around. Condolences to the family but y'all gotta stop pointing the finger. He was acting a fool and this time unfortunately it went too far
They needed somebody to blame. They needed that peace of mind when in reality people go through so much you wouldn’t even know. You’d think they’re fine next minute they’re offing themselves. Heartbreaking.
This story is f’d up all the way around. As much yelling as there was from both sides, and while I understand people grieve differently, in their own way… I honestly felt more for Ulonda. None of them were/are perfect, that is a fact. Yeah she & Von had their ups and downs as a couple & it was definitely toxic (especially with and because of the drugs). But at the end of the day, I see why she’s hurt, fed up and over all the bs & is trying to move on with her life. Honestly listening to his sister (peanut) talk irritated me more. People have a hard time accepting that their loved ones don’t tell them everything, that there’s a good chance they didn’t know everything about them… or did and just don’t wanna accept it. They don’t wanna accept that things were so bad, they took their own life… or they were just so reckless that THEY put their own life in danger/at risk with their foolish choices. I understand wanting answers & justice.. but good grief!!! There’s nothing wrong with having a close relationship with your siblings, and of course it’s going to hurt a thousand times more when that sibling dies. But it is a problem when you can’t accept that your sibling is a grown ass adult & has a life outside of the relationship you have with them, whether you approve of it or not. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not excusing domestic violence, toxicity or erratic behavior in relationships (especially If there are children involved and my heart does break for the children in this situation)…. I’m not saying don’t be worried about your sibling, because of course you’re going to want to protect them. But some family members have an unhealthy attachment to their loved ones when it comes to them having a life without them. Again I know his family is hurting, but I understand Ulonda’s pain as well. Because if his family can’t accept that she’s telling the truth & passed… they’re going to keep this s**t going. They ALL need to move on & get some help with their grief… because at the rate they’re going, the denial his family in… Smh. Regardless of how strong their parents are, those babies are equally emotionally affected by this. It is f’d up that they can’t come together as a family.
Side note: Idk if the sisters don’t know how it works but you don’t kill yourself bc you’re violent towards others you usually do it bc you’re depressed and hopeless. So her saying he doesn’t hurt his family wouldn’t mean he wasn’t suicidal (I know this was an accident but in general)
based on this story I do believe that this was an accident Ulonda seems so innocent and I'm glad to know that she told the truth and peanut was just looking at someone to blame sorry for the loss of their brother but bickering back and fourth to each other isn't gonna bring him back but I hope they all find peace and happiness knowing that he's in a much better place!!!! 🙏💙
It REALLY HURTS to lose ur loved one, esp immediate family. So I get that! But u can't let emotions override ur logic. Man that was hard to watch, but I could tell she was being honest. I mean she even had her child in the car & just didn't want him having drugs on him risking their safety & he chose to do everything he did. They were clearly toxic. This is why u don't settle, or stay in a toxic relationship!!!
I always find it wild how easily people accuse other people of murder. It's like they never want to accept it could be a suicide. I understand grieving but trying to blame someone for it isn't right. Especially if you weren't there to witness anything.
Isn't it obvious that the deceased brother's' sisters didn't thought highly of their brother's fiance from the very start? They're so angry at the fact that their brother is gone that they want to blame someone, and how appropriate that they chose his fiance.
I hate when people say “ they wasn’t suicidal they weren’t that type of person” you don’t know what a person is going through mentally they may smile but be in a dark place
I love black women and I love being a black woman HOWEVER, these type really annoy me and perpetuate a stereotype about us. Loud, angry, ignorant and the list goes on. I hate they all lost someone very special to them but we must learn to speak calmly, intelligently and handle situations like this with a lot more class. "She hurt(ed)) him" or "the tensions in his brain is tore up"....ma'am, please just read a book. Again, I am sorry they are going through this but I couldn't get past all the ignorance. Lastly, the sister said she came for closure, the results come back that GF told the TRUTH and she STILL wants to blame her! So she didn't come for closure. She came to be loud and blame someone for his death.
It’s always somebody accusing the girlfriend all and thinking they was involved or something like girl u wasn’t there so u can’t always assume tht the girlfriend did it or something
Soo Sad Praying For His Kid’s..Allll I Gotta Say Is I’m From The South&WestSide of Chicago…THEM Happy Sticks,Leaf,Wet Wet,PCP Is A dumb hallucinating Hella of A Drugs!🤬 I can’t STAND THAT ZOMBIE Azz Drug Wit A Passion!!!
Families blaming an innocent person has to cause some mental and emotional damage. The family member here in particular doesn’t care about the truth. They want comfort in blaming someone else but the dead person even though it’s illogical and messed up. He made the fatal decision. He could’ve waited and go out of the car like most people would. He likely would’ve ended up dead or in a bad shape one way or another since he was a drug addict for so long. She wants to keep glossing over it as if his addiction was new. They don’t want to admit that the same energy they are bashing the ex with they should’ve used to get him clean (though it appears he didn’t want to really be clean).
I'm sorry for the sister loss, but while the fiancé was talking a little aggressive, she was was still very respectful. That sister though all that yelling and screaming mm-mm.
They just didnt wanna accept that HE caused HIS OWN death 🙄 denial is a crazy thing and to go as far as to try and "justify" how it was still the GF's fault even AFTER her test came back that she passed. "If I got drugs on me and you taken me to the police station hell yea ima get out that car" sooo your saying your just as stupid as ur brother? 😐 "so its still her fault" no sis ur just REACHING coz ur in ✨️denial✨️
Their brother was a criminal, drug addict, and abused women.. and they blamed the victim. I know a family just like that. You hurt everyone else by doing that.
Denying suicides always piss me off. When I hear them say “he wasn’t suicidal he liked living” what I’m hearing is they didn’t pay attention to him, he didn’t trust them enough to confide in them, and they ignored red flags and signs that people show before committing suicide. Shame.
Plus some suicidal seem to be the happiest people. Some don’t show signs.
Most people have few if any signs before suicide attempt. Many are actually quite upbeat in the days just before the suicide-they feel lighter because they’ve made a decision. They’re strangely relieved.
No many times those who commit suicide show no signs and suffer in silence 🥲 I understand what they are feeling because losing someone in such a way you don’t want to believe they choose to leave I lost my bestfriend over a month ago I wanted to blame the boyfriend because they faught that night but I had to come to terms with the truth and that’s she choose to leave 😭 not because she didn’t love us but because she was suffering and fighting demons and wanted peace it’s heartbreaking and I hope this can help get closure for them
Extreme happiness is usually a sign that someone won’t be around for long before dying by their own hands.
That's exactly true. Same thing with my neice. Everytime said she wasn't suicidal. But she always told me she didn't want to be here. She overdose.. They said it was a accident.. It wasn't.. She wanted to go. She was tied and defeated.. People just don't know what's in other people's heads. Noone knows what's in mine..
They didn't want the truth, they wanted to blame someone other than the person who was responsible - their brother.
Facts: This happens way too often. They dragged her name through the mud on national TV for NOTHING.smdh.
That’s exactly what I was saying they don’t want except the fact that the Brother was at fault, and that none of this would’ve happened if he had never been putting his hands on her while she was driving.
The sad thing about that is that they could be incapable of accepting the fact that he would end his life.
And that they somehow, in a inexplainable psychological manner, indeed NEED to have another person responsible for his death, just to be able to handle this intense pain of losing him.
The girlfriend is, in that scenario, ‘collateral damage’ simply because she is around. Not even truly ‘out to get her’, more ‘impossible to do it differently’…
Does NOT make it alright of course!! Just a possibility.
The brother seemed irrational and violent, sad that he died but his own behavior seems to be the cause
Yess 👍🏻 you're exactly 💯 👌🏻 correct.
I knew she wasn’t lying cuz of how detail she had in her story
Yeah, I wasn’t getting any vibes that she caused that man’s death on purpose . He decided to get out of the car while it was moving just to avoid whatever consequences will come his way . But condolences for his family to say the least .
True
Fr usually when they lie they love to add on stuff that has nothing to do with it
Some of the most pathological liars I know are very detailed in their lies😂.
I didn't get the liar vibe from her tho.
Glad she cleared her name❤
And he had a history of doing that. His sister is delusional.
Losing a loved one is hard, but these sisters have no reason whatsoever to think the girlfriend did anything.
And her behavior being so crazy like that is making a circus of her brother’s death. It’s a shame
@@Notevenlistening. you’re right. He’ll never Rest In Peace until they stop making a spectacle of his death.
They barely could shed a tear fr
@@bratzdiorr4813yea, I agree.. they made it more about themselves, than him. The dry cry is so strange and cringe.
I blame the fiancé for the accident
They knew she had nothing to do with their brother’s death. They are in denial and just flat out playing the blame game
You can't say someone won't commit suicide or isn't the type to because you never really know what people are really going through.
FACTS !❤
Exactly. We see it too much on this show. I feel that it is ignorant to say the deceased would never do that before you even know the truth because then youre refusing to think about the other possibilty and Im sure the deceased would want you to. I always wonder, if the deceased were alive and told some of these people the truth, would they listen or pretend everything is fine?
@@bristroyer1723 That's actually a good point. Ignoring the fact that it was a suicide is even more disrespectful to the deceased since it is disregarding the struggle and pain they had to face alone to make this choice. They should reflect on how they could have helped him to prevent it from happening to others and healing, instead of blindly accusing people who are in just as much pain as them.
So true I lost my bestfriend over a month ago and I would of never thought she would ever 😭 many times ppl are suffering more then we would ever know it’s hard to comes to terms with that they choose to leave but it’s not because they didn’t love you it’s because they wanted peace they wanted the pain to stop but continuing to be in denial is very unhealthy and will not help anything
The sister is clearly way out of line. They need to stop. This girl is out of control and ignorant as hell.
The "girl'S ". Plural. They all acted like cheap ignorants.
But the pain is real,tho.
Sorrow when someone passes young,can be to hard. Angry is easyer.
@@TG-hp8ogI don't need a lesson is sorrow. My mom was murdered and I saw my sister die when I was 10 yrs old....
@@futuremrs.c1099 I'm sorry to hear about your mom. My mom passed on. I pray you and your family got JUSTICE AND MAY YOUR MOM REST IN PEACE 🙏💝🙏.
Well, somebody was involved with heinous act
I know Ulonda personally and I've known her for about 25 years but I've NEVER known her to cause anyone's death! She's one of the most sincere women I've ever gotten to know! I'm aware of what kind of relationship she had with him and yes, it was toxic but despite all the hell he put her through, she still tried to help him to the best of her ability. Unfortunately, the drugs did him in. I'm sorry for his sister's loss but she needs to accept the fact that her brother is gone and his kids are without a father! Yes, Ulonda is hurt but no one is hurt more than his kids! I'm glad although I'm not surprised Ulonda cleared her name and hopefully she can move forward from all this!
Oh wow! That's crazy that you know her. Well, God bless her and I am so sorry she and the rest of the family had to go through this tragedy.
I wish she wouldnt have said "kiss my ass", because it brought her down to a cheap level , along with the sister. But only for a moment,and i understand she is angry. Who wouldnt be,getting blamed like that. Ulonda cane off very belivable. Good for her !
To sister defens (a bit hard,she acted bad,but...), when you loose a young person,the added sorrow is huge. So,angry is easyer.
A sad story.
Im not english(obviously, my grammar and spelling🙈)...
So i had a hard time even understand their "english"...
Do all people in that area really talk like that? I mean, i STILL have a issue with so many using "aks/ax", as in "i axed her", where i thought it should be "i asked". I always get a picture of the real deal in my head, a person "axing" someone,and its not good...
YT is international . I know several languages (read,understand,but grammar and spelling is not up to par),but no language have more differences , then english. For a foreigner,its a struggle.
@TG-hp8og I understand what you're saying. I'm learning 4 different languages. I know two sign language and English. I agree with you. I'm more annoyed at the brothers sister. She acted childish in manner when he read the detectors results. I read her body language and I didn't like it.
@@TG-hp8og a lot of black americans speak african american english/ebonics. it's a dialect of english with its own grammar and slang. that's probably why you don't understand it, it's like a whole different kind of english.
"axe" instead of "ask" is an example of a common speech impediment in english (or at least american english) children, but as black americans learned english as a result of slavery, and often were then segregated (forcibly and selectively) from primary english speakers, that mispronunciation frequently goes uncorrected. first gen black americans said it that way, then their kids, then their kids. it's how a lot of us say it. it's not uncommon to hear black people pronounce it as "axe"
here's some basic ebonics to help you, but you'll understand it better the more you listen to it:
traditional english: i often paint flowers with watercolors
aae: i be painting flowers with watercolors
traditional english: i don't have time to start a new painting
aae: i ain't got time to start a new painting
traditional english: i did that [painting] very well
aae: i ate that up/no crumbs
traditional english: i already finished that painting
aae: i been done with that painting
te: untrue, aae: cap
te: going to (slang-gonna), aae: finna, finsta
te: i dont, aae: ion
te: be serious/honest, aae: be for real
hope that helps
What's up Ralph i can't believe my sister is on this show she didn't even tell me about it
As I was listening to this story ! Based on on how she was telling what happened from her perspective , I wasn’t getting any vibes that she was lying or caused his death on purpose . I think that man’s family just wanted to pin the blame on her , all because of whatever mess that was going on between those two , leading up to him getting out of a moving car just to avoid consequences from the police . Condolences to the family by the way .
I actually teared up a little listening to her tell certain parts of the story. Regardless of the yelling & chaos on stage and before they arrived…., you can tell she’s fed up & wants to move on.
@@ashleyingram2620 oh, most definitely .
@@ashleyingram2620 i guess so
The fiance couldn't be lying, she gave specific time, specific streets and addresses, how could you lie about all of that???
Exactly even if you practice that shit once you put on the spot, you’re gonna mess it up. Because then your nerves are gonna get going and you’re gonna become scared that your story I’m gonna be enough, so you’re gonna mess up somewheres telling your story. This girl was spot on with everything in the raw emotion in her voice was enough for me to believe her right from the jump. I’m just really heartbroken for her because she wasn’t at fault at all. She had just had enough and just wanted him to get help so she was taking him to get help. He didn’t wanna go to jail. I don’t think he meant to kill himself. I don’t think he was trying to hurt himself. I think he was just trying to get away. But that just goes to show that a series accident that happened in a split second no matter how safe it seems like her car she was only driving 20 mph. It was still enough for him to kill himself. I hope the family gets off this girls back, and I hope that they can all come together and be there for each other and be able to finally grieve because you can tell that this poor girl has not had a chance to grieve. it seems like since he died, she’s been spending more time trying to prove your innocence rather than grieve the loss of her boyfriend. Yes, they had a very toxic relationship at the end of the day. That is the man that she loved through thick and thin.
11:27 all that screaming and the “wawawa??” got me dead 💀😂😭
YESSSSS
Think Steve needs to tell these people they have microphones on. They do not need to scream to be heard.
This is how you wipe out any goodwill that your family enjoys in the community.....with the way she (the sister) is acting with her exaggerated facial expressions , it just kills any sympathy you have for them.....
Her hurt ass is still trying to blame her even after the truth came out . I had a feeling she still wouldn’t believe the results. I could barely get through the episode bc of her being ignorant and yelling every word she said
yes girl her ass is very hurt that was her brother and she had to pull the plug . what is you even sayin
@@calynnchilds7907 girl I’m saying ik she lost a brother but that doesn’t justify her acting like an ignorant fool and still blaming the gf even after the results. Her brother’s actions got himself killed (I mean that in the most respectful way possible, I couldn’t think of another way to put it) harassing that lady isn’t going to bring him back. They want someone to blame instead of the truth
Their brother seem to have major issues. He sounded reckless.
That family should be embarrassed of themselves.
They was reaching and for what no proof.
She called his death because she was taking him to the police station knowing he had drugs? Ok…. That don’t mean he had to jump out a moving car. I know you in pain but damn - that was ignorant as hell.
Steve’s poor ears. These people don’t want answers, they want drama. Fools.
well yeah. her smile after ullanda was proven to be innocent gave it all away
THEY ALWAYS HAVE TO YELL!!! Like, sshhhhh! WTF?
I'm sure they are told by the producers ahead of time to give it energy to make the show interesting.
They got drama, but they wanted the truth asking who,what, where, when, why, and how
Theres no way the doctor said "You're a liar, he was unresponsive" like that ☠️
I said dang the Dr wasn't playin,if he said all that😂
@iKnowUfawkinLying They aren't allowed to say shit like that 😹 she's living in her Grey's Anatomy delusion
Exactly
The fact that her story was so detailed, from the name of the streets she was on down to the turns that she made and everything thereafter shows that she wasn't lying. People always want someone to blame for a death weither it's that cut and dry or not.
Then sisters are in denial. Not only that their brother willfully and willingly did an incredibly stupid thing that led to his death…but also about his character. He sells drugs and beats his woman? Real stand up guy.
I feel for Vons family. They are hurting and confused and lashing out at the closest person they can. I don't think Von killed himself. I think it was a horrible accident. I feel for Ulonda, too. She lost someone she loved as well (even if they were toxic for each other)and hasn't been able to grieve properly bc of the accusations. I pray everyone involved can find peace and closure and start to heal soon.
I feel sorry for the kids,who were having to listen to,and watch,those two arguing,and then get in a terrible accident.
Sounds like dude was acting like a total fool.
She had alot of detail and her body language spoke truth..prayers to his sister its weighing on her alot
Yeah, I feel you on that . At the same time I kind of feel like his family wanted to pin the blame on her all because of whatever mess that was going on between those two , leading to him, jumping out of a moving car .
@@underscore55 they really did and just need to accept it like Steve said ..and asked where the drugs in his pocket was
the way they came on to the show you could tell they weren't gonna accept the test results. they really wanted someone to blame.
I think the true crime here is her eye lashes! Seriously every time she blinks it looks like spiders are crawling out of her eyes!
OMG i think the same..... why does any person wear these spriders on their eyes
Lord I was thinking the same thing😂😂😂 only thing she needs to be locked up for is those spider lashes...smh
ALL their lashes!!! It's insane and there is nothing cute about it
13:04
This right here.. this is the biggest example of people who knew or didn't care for the truth and wanted drama. Why are you smiling about being proven wrong? Why are you smiling that the woman you accused of being a murderer was innocent?
She never cared for her brother. If she did, she would have seen the signs before he attempted to even take his own life. She just wants to blame everyone but her brother for his actions and herself for never making any attempt to listen to her brothers inner demons
I am VERY sorry for their loss, I truly am. But it is very ignorant of them to say "he was not that type of person to commit suicide." My uncle was the MOST loving, caring, FUNNY, great sense of humor and always cutting up and making people laugh. He shot himself in the very next room with all of his family in the family home. No one could understand how or why because he also "did not seem the type." But it just shows that you do not truly know how someone feels inside of their soul. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🖤🖤
The only person I feel sorry is the daughter exposed to this toxic relationship. So much trauma for someone so young and she had no choice to be involved in it.
What I don’t understand if y’all thought she was a murderer, why invite her to the funeral? Lol.
I feel bad for the sisters for losing there brother but there is no way they should be putting the blame on her as she lost her boyfriend 😢💔
I really hate stories like this because they always want to blame somebody when they lose a loved one in a way that is difficult to understand. This man was selling drugs and did something stupid that got his life ended short that's not her fault but they want to blame her because they don't want to accept that he did this to himself. Both families need healing from this Because there is a lot of blame where it isn't needed and a lot of healing and it's all his fault.
Got to love the level of education associated with the "urban" in America
So many families can’t accept that it’s their family member that committed 😢
-They sound crazy and dont make a lock of sense. They just want to blame that lady for their own oersonal reasons.
9:50 aint no doctor say that. Going hard for your brother when he hits on females. I understand ppl gonna go hard for their ppl. However, if he was wrong HE WAS WROOONNNGGGG!!! Maybe if they had been got him some help he would still be here. Instead they wanted to blame everyone else. He wont ish admit it.
She doesn't wanna live with the fact her brother the reason.
I can just imagine how many times his family made excuses and blamed EVERYBODy for his degenerate behavior, except him.
This was ridiculous. He probably didn't try to commit suicide, but it was definitely his own fault that he died...
His family needs therapy so they can accept the fact that he died due to his own actions.
I knew she didn’t do it before the gf even spoke. The sisters’ reason for why he wasn’t trying to do this to himself is that he wouldn’t hurt others. What? Also when people are having those sorts of thoughts and emotions they’re very good at not showing their unhappiness around people they don’t want to know. The sisters just needed someone to blame. I hope they all get peace from this
Yeah she had so much detail in her story. I knew she wasn’t lying
Your brother was hitting a woman as she drove. She was doing what she was supposed to do in driving his ass to the police station. Your brother decided to jump out of a moving car and died… and you’re mad at the person your brother was hitting, who was going to the police station to get his ass arrested.
Steve Wilkos show rule. During the pre interview the accused must be filmed in black and white and stare into the camera with the most guilty face you can make.
Losing someone is always hard! Depression doesn’t always looks like what people think it should. Some people just need someone to blame and in this case that’s what these sisters were doing!
"Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right"-Kevin Samuels
They cant accept the fact that their brother wasnt healthy mentally and need someone to blame. Sadly in the black community talking about mental health is kinda taboo, in my family if u admit u have issues it puts a bad label on that person and they are at times ostracized
I was a cop for 13 years. Dealt with quite a few suicides. The families never accept it. They always say "He wouldn't do that!". But you don't know that. If you could pick out people who would or wouldn't kill themselves, you could go a long way in preventing it.
But in this case...the girlfriends story made absolute sense.
The sister is so classy and good looking with a great body. She is incredibly well spoken a true queen of her kind.
She said I'm tired of screesssin.. 😆 🤣 😂
She also said I know he didn't suicide himself, used the word nephrews and said that they riskriked her from the hospital 🤦🏿♀️
BEING ACCUSED OF MURDER IS HORRIBLE AND HURTFUL WEN IT'S UR MAN😢TRUST ME IK..MINES DIED IN HOUSE FIRE,HIS PEOPLE ACCUSED ME... KNOWING U INNOCENT IT CUTS U DEEP
i'm sorry for your loss girl hang in there
@@applespotty2232 THANK YOU
they bogus for blaming her
HOLY LASHES BATMAN!
I could tell by the emotion in her voice that she was telling the truth. She didn’t change any details. She wasn’t stuttering when she was talking she wasn’t stopping to think about what she was saying before she said it she just told the story for exactly what it was. I understand the family is upset and they just wanna know what happened. But unfortunately, the truth is what the girlfriend has stated. And they just don’t want to accept it. They don’t want to except the fact that their brother was wrong and was at fault because if he had never been fighting with her while she was driving none this would’ve ever happened. My heart really does go out to the family, but my heart also goes out to the girlfriend because not only did she had to suffer a loss but her daughter witnessed this and now she’s got to deal with backlash from the family that’s not fair to her she’s grieving too. Whether this family wants to admit it or not, she’s hurting too. The family needs to put their differences aside and they need to be there for the girlfriend just as well as a girlfriend needs to be there for the family. This is a time where they should all be together and there for each other. I hope the best for all parties involved, and I hope that they can put their differences aside to try to be there for each other the best way that they can.
his death is tragic no matter what, but there will always be a risk if you jump out of a moving car. it’s terrible losing someone you love, but there’s not always foul play involved with someone’s death. and the sister saying driving him to the police station is indirectly responsible for his death is just her showing that she’s not here for the truth, she’s here to blame and point fingers. i feel horrible for everyone involved who loved him
This woman should have been trying to get her brother help. All that energy is guilt and the blame game. 14:51
I’m glad she cleared her name. I kno the sister loss her brother but can’t keep blaming her for the death. Hopefully, they can all move on from this.
It's not murder in the animal kingdom.. this is nature
A whole family who avoids accountability at all costs. Ew
11:26 😂🤣😭 wow!! She mad mad! Lmao
Sad but sometimes you don’t know what’s happening inside someone’s mind!God bless them all.
😂 yhe eyelashes though! 😮
Families always believe their loved one would do no wrong. “If I had drugs and you’re taking me to a police station, I’d jump out of the car. That is causing his death.” Girl bffr. I know it’s your brother and that’s hard, but taking someone else down with him isn’t right. I really hope they all heal.
One been "Skressin" since 2020, the other has bat wings on their eyes. More of a Jerry Springer episode
Murder of the English language
I'm sorry but she's trying to find someone to blame and it was a accident she didn't mean for him to die and he wasn't trying to kill himself.. However if you jump out of a moving vehicle it can be deadly ....Lady stop .Your brother jumped out that car by himself he should not have had drugs on him in the first place like TF
She been my friend for along time she has a heart of gold 💛 and wouldn't hurt a soul glad she got closure ulonda j the truth❤
"I been skressin sin 2021" these people are a piece of work!
Just lost a few more brain cells listening to "I know he di'int swooocide hisself. He always around his nice and nefroos"
Peanut got them CRAZY eyes when she's telling her side around 8:20 🥴
Yes sometimes nobody knows when you're suicidal sweetheart sending prayers😢
Just from this episode, it sounds more like an accident. He jumped out, like he had before, and fell.
Tragic story all the way around. Condolences to the family but y'all gotta stop pointing the finger. He was acting a fool and this time unfortunately it went too far
Saw this on the planet fitness TV’s when I was working out today, so pretty cool that I found it just now.
Yo same
“he did not tell the truth” that’s the moment he knew he’s going to prison! man started TWEAKING like an infant 😂
The sister, peanut... i can't understand a word what she's saying/ shouting.
They needed somebody to blame. They needed that peace of mind when in reality people go through so much you wouldn’t even know. You’d think they’re fine next minute they’re offing themselves. Heartbreaking.
“I went on social media and….” Like ffs we are grown asf. Not everything needs to be put on social media.
Why is she screaming like that lol
This story is f’d up all the way around. As much yelling as there was from both sides, and while I understand people grieve differently, in their own way… I honestly felt more for Ulonda. None of them were/are perfect, that is a fact. Yeah she & Von had their ups and downs as a couple & it was definitely toxic (especially with and because of the drugs). But at the end of the day, I see why she’s hurt, fed up and over all the bs & is trying to move on with her life. Honestly listening to his sister (peanut) talk irritated me more. People have a hard time accepting that their loved ones don’t tell them everything, that there’s a good chance they didn’t know everything about them… or did and just don’t wanna accept it. They don’t wanna accept that things were so bad, they took their own life… or they were just so reckless that THEY put their own life in danger/at risk with their foolish choices. I understand wanting answers & justice.. but good grief!!! There’s nothing wrong with having a close relationship with your siblings, and of course it’s going to hurt a thousand times more when that sibling dies. But it is a problem when you can’t accept that your sibling is a grown ass adult & has a life outside of the relationship you have with them, whether you approve of it or not. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not excusing domestic violence, toxicity or erratic behavior in relationships (especially If there are children involved and my heart does break for the children in this situation)…. I’m not saying don’t be worried about your sibling, because of course you’re going to want to protect them. But some family members have an unhealthy attachment to their loved ones when it comes to them having a life without them. Again I know his family is hurting, but I understand Ulonda’s pain as well. Because if his family can’t accept that she’s telling the truth & passed… they’re going to keep this s**t going. They ALL need to move on & get some help with their grief… because at the rate they’re going, the denial his family in… Smh. Regardless of how strong their parents are, those babies are equally emotionally affected by this. It is f’d up that they can’t come together as a family.
The story was very well tile even though it was so sad but clearly she did tell the story from details to details/specifics.🤷🏽♀️
Side note: Idk if the sisters don’t know how it works but you don’t kill yourself bc you’re violent towards others you usually do it bc you’re depressed and hopeless. So her saying he doesn’t hurt his family wouldn’t mean he wasn’t suicidal (I know this was an accident but in general)
This situation is unfortunate. People love to blame people even after they know the truth. The sister needs a mental cleanse and pray for clarity.
based on this story I do believe that this was an accident Ulonda seems so innocent and I'm glad to know that she told the truth and peanut was just looking at someone to blame sorry for the loss of their brother but bickering back and fourth to each other isn't gonna bring him back but I hope they all find peace and happiness knowing that he's in a much better place!!!! 🙏💙
Like a wild animal onstage. She’s the violent type. She didn’t want answers; just wanted someone to blame and ofc fight…
They killed their brother. They are the ones who pulled the plug without giving his body time to heal from traumatic injuries.
He had a serious drug issue and that’s what ultimately caused his death. Very sad that there is all this drama.
It REALLY HURTS to lose ur loved one, esp immediate family. So I get that!
But u can't let emotions override ur logic. Man that was hard to watch, but I could tell she was being honest. I mean she even had her child in the car & just didn't want him having drugs on him risking their safety & he chose to do everything he did. They were clearly toxic. This is why u don't settle, or stay in a toxic relationship!!!
Their brother sounds like an abusive dude anyway
I always find it wild how easily people accuse other people of murder. It's like they never want to accept it could be a suicide. I understand grieving but trying to blame someone for it isn't right. Especially if you weren't there to witness anything.
Damn look at them eyelashes!!!
Isn't it obvious that the deceased brother's' sisters didn't thought highly of their brother's fiance from the very start? They're so angry at the fact that their brother is gone that they want to blame someone, and how appropriate that they chose his fiance.
This family just dont wanna look at the son and that his actions led to his death
I hate when people say “ they wasn’t suicidal they weren’t that type of person” you don’t know what a person is going through mentally they may smile but be in a dark place
I love black women and I love being a black woman HOWEVER, these type really annoy me and perpetuate a stereotype about us. Loud, angry, ignorant and the list goes on. I hate they all lost someone very special to them but we must learn to speak calmly, intelligently and handle situations like this with a lot more class. "She hurt(ed)) him" or "the tensions in his brain is tore up"....ma'am, please just read a book. Again, I am sorry they are going through this but I couldn't get past all the ignorance. Lastly, the sister said she came for closure, the results come back that GF told the TRUTH and she STILL wants to blame her! So she didn't come for closure. She came to be loud and blame someone for his death.
It’s always somebody accusing the girlfriend all and thinking they was involved or something like girl u wasn’t there so u can’t always assume tht the girlfriend did it or something
Soo Sad Praying For His Kid’s..Allll I Gotta Say Is I’m From The South&WestSide of Chicago…THEM Happy Sticks,Leaf,Wet Wet,PCP Is A dumb hallucinating Hella of A Drugs!🤬 I can’t STAND THAT ZOMBIE Azz Drug Wit A Passion!!!
I agree it should have never led to that…both should have been left each other alone smh
Families blaming an innocent person has to cause some mental and emotional damage. The family member here in particular doesn’t care about the truth. They want comfort in blaming someone else but the dead person even though it’s illogical and messed up. He made the fatal decision. He could’ve waited and go out of the car like most people would. He likely would’ve ended up dead or in a bad shape one way or another since he was a drug addict for so long. She wants to keep glossing over it as if his addiction was new. They don’t want to admit that the same energy they are bashing the ex with they should’ve used to get him clean (though it appears he didn’t want to really be clean).
8:39 alright Martha Luther queen😂
5:08 Rogers Park Marshfield this happened in LA ? 😂
I'm sorry for the sister loss, but while the fiancé was talking a little aggressive, she was was still very respectful. That sister though all that yelling and screaming mm-mm.
They just didnt wanna accept that HE caused HIS OWN death 🙄 denial is a crazy thing and to go as far as to try and "justify" how it was still the GF's fault even AFTER her test came back that she passed. "If I got drugs on me and you taken me to the police station hell yea ima get out that car" sooo your saying your just as stupid as ur brother? 😐 "so its still her fault" no sis ur just REACHING coz ur in ✨️denial✨️
Their brother was a criminal, drug addict, and abused women.. and they blamed the victim. I know a family just like that. You hurt everyone else by doing that.
A drug addict acted irrationally and died. Unfortunately that happens but they need someone to blame.
Pause so y’all pulled the plug on him yet y’all blaming her wtf