Facts I’m a man of GOD but them pimp principles are simple but GOLDEN. choose the woman that chooses you it’s simple. I don’t condone a lot of things pimps do but that simple message can save any young man if he apply it
You can't negotiate attraction. If she puts you in the friend zone, you will be used for favors, time, money and as an emotional trashcan. Do not do it. Be number one or nothing at all.
Happiest and easiest dating has ever been for me is with the women who were not as conventionally beautiful, but had the kindest souls, were incredibly caring, fixed me a plate and wanted to please me. They were DOWN FOR ME and no one else! Currently head over heels for a woman who may not be as conventionally beautiful, has imperfections, flaws, etc. But - she will move mountains to be there for me. She gives 110% effort in our connection. She has softened my heart and is supporting me in my career, my mental health and personal struggles as I navigate the end of my 20's and heal from old hurts. Most importantly, and for the first time in my life - she makes me feel safe and seen. I am falling for her more and more every day.
It's because those less attractive women were forced to have a personality. Beautiful ones don't need to do any labor of any kind except maintain their illusion of attractiveness and power
Those are rare and have come across them but I’m not physically attracted to them. But I’ll lower my beauty standards because personality will sustain a longer relationship.
Facts 🎯 men don't want nothingness from a woman just like a woman doesn't want a man thats not the best version of himself it shows you have a covering of nothingness.
Thats why i dont chase women, if they choose me then ill take it from there. If a woman really desires you in 2024, she will make it known & obvious for you.
Hey Rom. I'm 48 been a widower 11years now. My wife was a stunner, never had any problems. And she chose me, so I agree with what ur spitting sir. Your favourite south African brother🇿🇦🇿🇦. Salute
@modalsoul6511 What type of signals like she ask you if you want her to fix you a plate ? She come close up to you ? She tells you hi bye and ask how you doing ? You both smile alot with each other ?
I’ll give you a real life example, strong eye contact or if you see her all the time ( at work , school etc) or if she says “ how are you “ and smiles etc … see for me I ONLY date women who are in proximity of me … like I said earlier ( school , work or anyplace where you will always see them …. I don’t suggest any guy approach a woman without her sending a signal that she wants to be approached.. she may even approach you but it won’t be obvious generally.
The toll on your dignity and maybe even self-esteem not being the 1st option isn’t worth it as a man. I’ve accepted being someone “settled for” and will never make that mistake again. Why? Most men can treat their Top 5 choices well while still be respectful towards those they haven’t chosen or will never choose - most women just can’t do that. The 5th option is considered too underwhelming, the 4th is for passing time in hopes of curing boredom, 3rd is considered disappointing to her, and the 2nd is considered settling. Listen to Rom Wills…be 1st.
I've made this observation as well. The vast majority of people settle, but men are usually content with what they settled for...if a woman settles, she won't be happy long term.
@@kgkg4118as a woman, this is what I’m trying to explain to ppl because I’ve been there and done it and I know what works for me or not. I looked back at my relationships. I just feel like a woman won’t most likely leave a relationship with a man she really wants. A lot of women settle and they be the ones easily walking away from those relationships. She settled with the men she don’t like that much , not the man she actually likes. A lot of time they ain’t happy especially when she is married but she treated marriage like it’s a prize and throwing it in other women’s face but don’t care about the man fr. it’s dangerous when a woman don’t like you fr, she will most likely cheats.
Right on time Unc. Talking to a chick who told me just yesterday. I don't chase men, but you weren't responding to me, so I have to ask you for a date. We sat and talk for over an hour.
@youngmeezy7635 We going on w date this weekend. We had lunch together today. Point being, some chick's will show you they like you. You don't have to chase.
Well I’ll give you some advice if you looking for a serious relationship or marriage don’t have sex with her. If you do outside of marriage it might be a wrap before it start.
So much better relationships with women who chose me. Chasing worked sometimes, but nah - too much work. Better to put that work into myself - my health, money and skills.
*Mr Wills. Sir, I believe this is the cause of 90% of the frustration and pain in the dating market today. Men chasing women who don't even want them. Women who aren't checking for them like that* *A man should make himself the best version of himself, become the most attractive man he can be. Then GO OUTSIDE and have women choose up. When she wants to be with you, she makes it so much easier for the man*
we have to change our mindset and settle on beauty standards. Beauty id fleeting and not that rare anymore but I feminine women with great personality trumps all that
This is true. When I met my gf I gave her my number and put the ball in her court. After that she continued to text me first almost every morning. That showed me a lot
so true, I remember being young without any knowledge of game...analyzing every small detail trying to know if a woman liked me, what a joke...when they really do they will clearly come at you.
I was 24 when I learned this policy from a friend who was a great womaniser. He told me that having lots of girlfriends was easy, provided you know how to tell which ones want you. From that moment, my success rate with women went from below 50% to 100%. That included some very beautiful women that I had previously thought were out of my league until I learned to see the subtle signals that they had been giving me all along.
Facts you speaking O.G I don't even pay attention too these women I be so focused on me and my mission. Some women say that turns them on. Other women get mad. One girl in my neighborhood bust my car windows because I did not give her no play. Lol. And she was bad but her attitude i didn't like. Men should never chase a woman. That's being thirsty.
I never experienced a woman "choosing me" until quite late in life, this would have fallen on deaf ears before. I thought it was somehow noble to chase a woman, and that its how it was meant to be. But it's futile. If she doesn't like you more than you like her, don't waste your time. Don't invest too much in 1 woman, and always be prepared to walk away.
She have to chose you. In order to do that You have to escape first and let her chase You. The best option is to let her chose you, and play it right. The easiet relationship ever. But then, dont cut off the options.
Great advice.....! Never be a player, sit back and wait for her to make her move. Let her come to you and take your time. Good long term relationship qualities...
Guys just think about. This …..look back over all your relationships and i guarantee. You the ones you were in when the women chose you were more peaceful and healthy. It’s 1000 men chasing these women don’t be 1001 I’ve never had a problem with women but once I started investing in myself more I saw an even bigger difference. But I wasn’t even focused on them I was on my purpose and through the lord I found an amazing woman So fellas Read books Hit the gym Eat right atleast most of the time Practice semen retention Invest your money Wear cologne Indulge in self care Get your swag up If you do those things and be a master of them women will flock. Men will admire you and children will look at you like a hero. Trust me.
I agree with this statement! Working on yourself can really take you so far. Hygiene is also another one you can definitely tell who takes it seriously and those who don’t.
Just started listening to nice guys and players audiobook, so this message is perfect timing. And you’re right as always, never chase just focus on the high interest women only. At most give her a chance to choose you/show you her interest level.
I hear you and I know what you are saying is true. I’ve taken up the fools errand in the past of trying to chase a woman and I know it’s not worth it at the end of the day. But one of the things that is disturbing to me is that the women who consistently choose me are overweight, not thick either, but obese. I’m not into that. I know the BBWs are for some people, but they are not for me. I can deal with a woman with a little bit of weight on her, but obese? I can’t do it. I practice body game religiously and am into martial arts and I am a competitive long distance runner. I am also vegan. I am a ripped 145 lbs with visible abs. I am not working this hard to be healthy to date a woman who is a hog. My ex-wife is petite like less than a 120 lbs. The last woman I dealt with was not that petite but she was like 5’2” and maybe 150 lbs or so. She worked to lose like 40lbs during the time I was dealing with her. It’s just discouraging to have all of these women I don’t like trying to choose. I’m like man what the hell!!! lol. I guess I just have to be patient and get in front of more women. I’m outside a lot, but I’m usually going to the gym, running around with my two sons, or at the grocery store. Other than that, I’m going to work and going home. I’m one of those people who when I am doing something I’m focused on that. I don’t approach women when I’m working out because I’m focused on that.
Yeah I’m not pressed self development and helping others to be the best selves is what I put most of my time in. The ones less physically attractive are more cooperative but they had to do that to stand out I guess. Just like the equivalent of a shorter guy having to use other things than his physicality to attract them. However not everybody is not vain and following my purpose has shown me that
Either you need to get amongst better woman or you're sending those women the wrong messages, maybe you are too focused on goals and tasks and not so good at connecting with women, with that sexual charisma, etc. Hard to say from just a comment. Do you ever catch women looking at you?
I don’t really pay attention to who is looking at me when I’m out and about. I have had women staring at me in the past. Like the other day I was running in the park with my shirt off and a woman made a flirtatious comment about my body. I don’t see how I could be sending obese women the wrong message. I don’t even look at overweight women. And a lot of this choosing comes from online dating sites where these obese women are trying to “match” with me or something. There was this overweight bailiff one time who was talking about she’d do anything for me. I’m like whoa ma’am in my head. I didn’t say anything out loud. I kind of ignored the comment.
@adofominka8767 the same thing happens to me. I mean, it isn't ONLY overweight women choosing me, but I feel like at least half of them are a little overweight if not obese. There's this one chick I talked to once because she was in the snapchat community thing for my college. Well then she sent pics and I wasn't interested anymore due to her weight. This chick legit stalks me. I just deleted my dating apps today because I hate them (whole other story I'm not gonna get into in this comment) but whenever I would create a new account just for an algorithm reset, this chick would always send me a like. It's like she just wasn't taking the hint that I'm not interested. Pretty much she was doing what a lot of men do, chasing someone who doesn't even want her/him.
You're 100% right my brother. Men really like to think we out here running things but ultimately if a woman ain't really into you you're gonna find out painfully. Unfortunately us men like to learn things the hard way. I wish I would have realized this much earlier in life would have saved me some troubles and money but hey I can't complain because I ended up with a beautiful great woman and we've been married over 16 years now.
Right. I have the comnent many times, "what is she doing for you?" To guys, (even to myself), that wanted a certain girl. Then when you pull back, you will see if they do something or not, and if they don't, then leave them and don't waste your time.
Players get _selected_ by her in an attempt to see if she can outplay them. That’s not the same thing as a woman sending choosing signals because she is genuinely attracted or interested.
@ women choose in the game and women choose when she wants the real thing as well. In any case once she has made her decision the ball is in the man’s side of the court
@@qthequick If we are talking about most women…arousal and attraction aren’t the same thing *for them* - therefore selection and choice also aren’t the same thing *for them* . Most women (especially young) are _aroused_ by fun and so _select_ the men they think to be a worthy opponent in attempting to play or outplay the game of lust with. Most women (especially older) are _attracted_ to stability/security and then _choose_ men they think to be a worthy provider of those resources. We agree that regardless of her decisions, the ball is then in the man’s court - yes. But not differentiating their perspective on ‘selection vs choice’ is thinking like a man rather than a woman. Selection is typically swift, Choice is generally slow.
I have said this since I was a young guy, just let them see you and wait to find out witch ones like you, then decide who you want to get to know better. Avoid problems.
Unc you have no clue how much peace having this on the headphone while I'm working remote (tech) brings me. The Music in the background of your vids is healing for real. Appreciate you Keep rising everyone ! ❤
I’ve told every man I’ve ever known that very thing.The happiest ones are the ones that listened.True Players don’t chase nothing or roll around like a Pet Dog.
You know what's funny Rom, I even tell women that they choose up on a guy 3 weeks before the guy even says hi to her because that woman already was checking that dude out ahead of time. The women even agreed and said it was true!
This is true. It almost feels like an insult being around women that just want you for ehat you can do for them vs the ones that desire you huge difference
I’ve been out the comments awhile uncle rom as I’ve been in a relationship for coming up on a year next month … I’ve had the most dating success of my life the last two years with the info I’ve gotten from your YT and Patreon page .. one of the biggest pieces of advice is choosing who chooses you , thanks Unc and well wishes 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
You hit it out the park with this one 💯 My current relationship is with a fine ass woman I met in highschool. She DM me about meeting up at our class reunion and we've been rocking ever since. She's kind, sweet, thoughtful and shows up for me, and she's still fine!!
Not all the time sometimes they just like certain ethnicities and height. Seen women turned down a man with everything together but was 5’8 for a bum that was 6’2 with no career, ate garbages and was on drugs
@@sadarisbenjamin4203sad thing is alot of women will try to mold the man they like if he don’t have it all together vs a man healthier for them that might lack height lol
Hm as a highcaliber guy, almost every women choose you. The problem start when you approach them, and they feel insecure and not good enough for you. But thats a problem, that probably 1 out of 50‘000 men have. If you are that rare kind of womanizer, you know what im talking about. They feel intimidated and dont know what to do with you, because theyve never dealt with a handsome guy like that
man this is golden rule why don't they teach this in college, choice for chasing love is with women's and choice for giving attention and love is with men. Its that simple.. Men have choice to escalate relationship if good behaviour of women or pull back if bad behaviour. thats how men lead relationship thats why men establish dominance and then only women submit to man.
God bless you for giving me faith, everything you said is happening with me and this girl I meet for the past 5 days she is always messaging me first have a great day, did you eat, and cooks for me like It was the opposite this whole time
Man I feel dissed because I have chose a lot of females that didn’t want me but now I feel better watching this video I know better now to never chase or initiate anything just like those women who like me🏆💯
5:05 this is a fact. Had a chick at work I ddnt see her that much then over a period of a few weeks all of a sudden I started to see her everyday everywhere and she brought me some random flyer just to talk to me. The play was set up frm the beginning
Been married to my hs sweetheart for 23 years and she has a crush on me when she was in middle school (I’m two grades older). We started dating when she was a freshman and been together ever since.
If she plays hard to get, then she automatically becomes hard to want and I move on. Great message uncle Rom.
How does this benefit my schmeckle
This alone will save you from a lot of trouble with women. Trust Rom. Thanks bro
Facts I’m a man of GOD but them pimp principles are simple but GOLDEN. choose the woman that chooses you it’s simple. I don’t condone a lot of things pimps do but that simple message can save any young man if he apply it
Best advice of the year.
Word up 🙌🏽
100%
Pure CHURCH 🙏 Amen 🙏
You can't negotiate attraction. If she puts you in the friend zone, you will be used for favors, time, money and as an emotional trashcan. Do not do it. Be number one or nothing at all.
TRUE WORDS SPOKEN RIGHT HERE. IF THEY ARE NOT CHASING YOU KEEP MOVING STAY ON FOCUSED YOURSELF AND YOUR $$$$$$$.
She has to show you she likes you way more than you liking her
But eventually she will mag you saying "you don't love me enough"
BINGO!!!!
THIS RIGHT HERE! I don’t think they heard you brother!
Happiest and easiest dating has ever been for me is with the women who were not as conventionally beautiful, but had the kindest souls, were incredibly caring, fixed me a plate and wanted to please me. They were DOWN FOR ME and no one else!
Currently head over heels for a woman who may not be as conventionally beautiful, has imperfections, flaws, etc. But - she will move mountains to be there for me. She gives 110% effort in our connection. She has softened my heart and is supporting me in my career, my mental health and personal struggles as I navigate the end of my 20's and heal from old hurts.
Most importantly, and for the first time in my life - she makes me feel safe and seen.
I am falling for her more and more every day.
This is beautiful man. You have what most of us want. You’re living the dream!
Don't break her heart for a prettier thot.
I wish you the best bro.
@@michaelangelo5783😂
It's because those less attractive women were forced to have a personality. Beautiful ones don't need to do any labor of any kind except maintain their illusion of attractiveness and power
Pay attention to the woman that want you focus on becoming your best self always have confidence and stay on your mission .
💯💯
Those are rare and have come across them but I’m not physically attracted to them. But I’ll lower my beauty standards because personality will sustain a longer relationship.
Big facts 💯
Facts 🎯 men don't want nothingness from a woman just like a woman doesn't want a man thats not the best version of himself it shows you have a covering of nothingness.
That's my mom. 😂
Thats why i dont chase women, if they choose me then ill take it from there. If a woman really desires you in 2024, she will make it known & obvious for you.
Hey Rom. I'm 48 been a widower 11years now. My wife was a stunner, never had any problems. And she chose me, so I agree with what ur spitting sir. Your favourite south African brother🇿🇦🇿🇦. Salute
Hey Brother, she is resting in peace. ❤ I'm 40 and single
@@jetpark3743 yeah she is thanks brother🤞🤝
Aweh my bra
@@jetpark3743my deepest condolences
My condolences to you. I bet she was beautiful
Thank you Bro. It boils down to what I argue with a lot of guys about; DON'T MARRY THE WOMAN YOU LOVE, MARRY THE WOMAN WHO LOVES YOU! period!
This is true, I always had much better relations with women who had interest in me first
"I like women that like me," is my motto.
“Choose who chooses you.”💯
My dad always told me let things come to you naturally
Best advice. Stop being a SIMP. Stop chasing. If you chase anything, chase excellence in your career, hobbies and self. Not women.
I agree ..50 years old, never married, no children , only choose women who send you a signal …. Makes dating a whole lot easier.
I salute you. Incredible resume
Yall n these signals 😂
It’s the truth.. she sends a signal she’s interested
She doesn’t send a signal… she’s not interested.
Simple.
@modalsoul6511 What type of signals like she ask you if you want her to fix you a plate ? She come close up to you ? She tells you hi bye and ask how you doing ? You both smile alot with each other ?
I’ll give you a real life example, strong eye contact or if you see her all the time ( at work , school etc) or if she says “ how are you “ and smiles etc … see for me I ONLY date women who are in proximity of me … like I said earlier ( school , work or anyplace where you will always see them …. I don’t suggest any guy approach a woman without her sending a signal that she wants to be approached.. she may even approach you but it won’t be obvious generally.
The toll on your dignity and maybe even self-esteem not being the 1st option isn’t worth it as a man. I’ve accepted being someone “settled for” and will never make that mistake again. Why? Most men can treat their Top 5 choices well while still be respectful towards those they haven’t chosen or will never choose - most women just can’t do that. The 5th option is considered too underwhelming, the 4th is for passing time in hopes of curing boredom, 3rd is considered disappointing to her, and the 2nd is considered settling. Listen to Rom Wills…be 1st.
I've made this observation as well. The vast majority of people settle, but men are usually content with what they settled for...if a woman settles, she won't be happy long term.
Facts
@@kgkg4118as a woman, this is what I’m trying to explain to ppl because I’ve been there and done it and I know what works for me or not. I looked back at my relationships. I just feel like a woman won’t most likely leave a relationship with a man she really wants. A lot of women settle and they be the ones easily walking away from those relationships. She settled with the men she don’t like that much , not the man she actually likes. A lot of time they ain’t happy especially when she is married but she treated marriage like it’s a prize and throwing it in other women’s face but don’t care about the man fr. it’s dangerous when a woman don’t like you fr, she will most likely cheats.
Right on time Unc. Talking to a chick who told me just yesterday. I don't chase men, but you weren't responding to me, so I have to ask you for a date. We sat and talk for over an hour.
And then?
@youngmeezy7635 We going on w date this weekend. We had lunch together today. Point being, some chick's will show you they like you. You don't have to chase.
@@MrCometcrusher78 Good boy Jimmy good luck!!
Well I’ll give you some advice if you looking for a serious relationship or marriage don’t have sex with her. If you do outside of marriage it might be a wrap before it start.
Totally agree! Only go after women who choose YOU! Don't waste your time or $ chasing shoulda or coulda!
So much better relationships with women who chose me. Chasing worked sometimes, but nah - too much work. Better to put that work into myself - my health, money and skills.
*Mr Wills. Sir, I believe this is the cause of 90% of the frustration and pain in the dating market today. Men chasing women who don't even want them. Women who aren't checking for them like that*
*A man should make himself the best version of himself, become the most attractive man he can be. Then GO OUTSIDE and have women choose up. When she wants to be with you, she makes it so much easier for the man*
we have to change our mindset and settle on beauty standards. Beauty id fleeting and not that rare anymore but I feminine women with great personality trumps all that
Just for the title alone...
Thanks for your support.
This is true. When I met my gf I gave her my number and put the ball in her court. After that she continued to text me first almost every morning.
That showed me a lot
so true, I remember being young without any knowledge of game...analyzing every small detail trying to know if a woman liked me, what a joke...when they really do they will clearly come at you.
Yup
Thats why Im chillin until she shows up lol
I was 24 when I learned this policy from a friend who was a great womaniser. He told me that having lots of girlfriends was easy, provided you know how to tell which ones want you. From that moment, my success rate with women went from below 50% to 100%. That included some very beautiful women that I had previously thought were out of my league until I learned to see the subtle signals that they had been giving me all along.
Like what?
@smokingcrab2290 There are many RUclips videos about that.
@@smokingcrab2290did u watch the video lol
Key to happiness & confident situations with women…
The title of the video nailed it. "Only Deal with Women Who Choose You" Brilliant advice.
Facts you speaking O.G I don't even pay attention too these women I be so focused on me and my mission. Some women say that turns them on. Other women get mad. One girl in my neighborhood bust my car windows because I did not give her no play. Lol. And she was bad but her attitude i didn't like. Men should never chase a woman. That's being thirsty.
Bro stay on that purpose and get closer to GOD the more you do the more those type of women will turn you off
Words of wisdom which couldn't be more true about getting with the right one.
So true chose woman that chose you out those options chose the best
Facts. A rough start gonna be a rough ride.
This guy is an OG
I asked my g.f ,why me . She said her heart choose me. I was surprised cause I didn't expect that reply .
I never experienced a woman "choosing me" until quite late in life, this would have fallen on deaf ears before. I thought it was somehow noble to chase a woman, and that its how it was meant to be. But it's futile. If she doesn't like you more than you like her, don't waste your time. Don't invest too much in 1 woman, and always be prepared to walk away.
She have to chose you. In order to do that You have to escape first and let her chase You. The best option is to let her chose you, and play it right. The easiet relationship ever. But then, dont cut off the options.
This guy is so concise and wise - the uncle I wish I had when I was younger. Thanks uncle Rom
I couldn't agree more than I do with this gentleman. You also deserve to receive the red carpet from your partner, nothing less. You're not a slave.
Every woman I’ve picked up in person, they all ALREADY knew me from her friends or seen me before 😂
Great advice.....! Never be a player, sit back and wait for her to make her move. Let her come to you and take your time. Good long term relationship qualities...
Guys just think about. This …..look back over all your relationships and i guarantee. You the ones you were in when the women chose you were more peaceful and healthy. It’s 1000 men chasing these women don’t be 1001 I’ve never had a problem with women but once I started investing in myself more I saw an even bigger difference. But I wasn’t even focused on them I was on my purpose and through the lord I found an amazing woman So fellas
Read books
Hit the gym
Eat right atleast most of the time
Practice semen retention
Invest your money
Wear cologne
Indulge in self care
Get your swag up
If you do those things and be a master of them women will flock. Men will admire you and children will look at you like a hero. Trust me.
Best comment I've seen here. Super combo.
I agree with this statement! Working on yourself can really take you so far. Hygiene is also another one you can definitely tell who takes it seriously and those who don’t.
@@takyi12 💯😎
@@starvinafricanchild6189 facts 💯💪🏾
Women choose men that choose themselves as the first order of business in life.
Just started listening to nice guys and players audiobook, so this message is perfect timing. And you’re right as always, never chase just focus on the high interest women only. At most give her a chance to choose you/show you her interest level.
I love listening to people who are older than me bcz they have experience and alot of wisdom thank you sir
This dude is right !! I’m 43 I have been around . Women choose you they respect you
Speaking truth! My girl chose me! Been together 3 yrs now!
I hear you and I know what you are saying is true. I’ve taken up the fools errand in the past of trying to chase a woman and I know it’s not worth it at the end of the day. But one of the things that is disturbing to me is that the women who consistently choose me are overweight, not thick either, but obese. I’m not into that. I know the BBWs are for some people, but they are not for me. I can deal with a woman with a little bit of weight on her, but obese? I can’t do it.
I practice body game religiously and am into martial arts and I am a competitive long distance runner. I am also vegan. I am a ripped 145 lbs with visible abs. I am not working this hard to be healthy to date a woman who is a hog.
My ex-wife is petite like less than a 120 lbs. The last woman I dealt with was not that petite but she was like 5’2” and maybe 150 lbs or so. She worked to lose like 40lbs during the time I was dealing with her.
It’s just discouraging to have all of these women I don’t like trying to choose. I’m like man what the hell!!! lol.
I guess I just have to be patient and get in front of more women. I’m outside a lot, but I’m usually going to the gym, running around with my two sons, or at the grocery store. Other than that, I’m going to work and going home.
I’m one of those people who when I am doing something I’m focused on that. I don’t approach women when I’m working out because I’m focused on that.
Yeah I’m not pressed self development and helping others to be the best selves is what I put most of my time in. The ones less physically attractive are more cooperative but they had to do that to stand out I guess. Just like the equivalent of a shorter guy having to use other things than his physicality to attract them. However not everybody is not vain and following my purpose has shown me that
Either you need to get amongst better woman or you're sending those women the wrong messages, maybe you are too focused on goals and tasks and not so good at connecting with women, with that sexual charisma, etc. Hard to say from just a comment.
Do you ever catch women looking at you?
I don’t really pay attention to who is looking at me when I’m out and about. I have had women staring at me in the past. Like the other day I was running in the park with my shirt off and a woman made a flirtatious comment about my body.
I don’t see how I could be sending obese women the wrong message. I don’t even look at overweight women. And a lot of this choosing comes from online dating sites where these obese women are trying to “match” with me or something. There was this overweight bailiff one time who was talking about she’d do anything for me. I’m like whoa ma’am in my head. I didn’t say anything out loud. I kind of ignored the comment.
@adofominka8767 the same thing happens to me. I mean, it isn't ONLY overweight women choosing me, but I feel like at least half of them are a little overweight if not obese. There's this one chick I talked to once because she was in the snapchat community thing for my college. Well then she sent pics and I wasn't interested anymore due to her weight. This chick legit stalks me. I just deleted my dating apps today because I hate them (whole other story I'm not gonna get into in this comment) but whenever I would create a new account just for an algorithm reset, this chick would always send me a like. It's like she just wasn't taking the hint that I'm not interested. Pretty much she was doing what a lot of men do, chasing someone who doesn't even want her/him.
This man is spot on!! I’ve experienced everything he talking about
If you date mostly women who want you first, you will save yourself a TON of money.
You're 100% right my brother. Men really like to think we out here running things but ultimately if a woman ain't really into you you're gonna find out painfully. Unfortunately us men like to learn things the hard way. I wish I would have realized this much earlier in life would have saved me some troubles and money but hey I can't complain because I ended up with a beautiful great woman and we've been married over 16 years now.
Right. I have the comnent many times, "what is she doing for you?" To guys, (even to myself), that wanted a certain girl.
Then when you pull back, you will see if they do something or not, and if they don't, then leave them and don't waste your time.
Before I deal with a woman, my first question is what is her character like?
“Playas get chose…”
Players get _selected_ by her in an attempt to see if she can outplay them. That’s not the same thing as a woman sending choosing signals because she is genuinely attracted or interested.
@ women choose in the game and women choose when she wants the real thing as well. In any case once she has made her decision the ball is in the man’s side of the court
@@qthequick If we are talking about most women…arousal and attraction aren’t the same thing *for them* - therefore selection and choice also aren’t the same thing *for them* . Most women (especially young) are _aroused_ by fun and so _select_ the men they think to be a worthy opponent in attempting to play or outplay the game of lust with. Most women (especially older) are _attracted_ to stability/security and then _choose_ men they think to be a worthy provider of those resources.
We agree that regardless of her decisions, the ball is then in the man’s court - yes. But not differentiating their perspective on ‘selection vs choice’ is thinking like a man rather than a woman. Selection is typically swift, Choice is generally slow.
REAL TALK
Don't chase gifts or women. Let gifts or women chase you. Its a blessing plus great humble way staying humble no showoff or flaunts!
It's as simple as that this is the best way to live 🙌🏾🔥
I have said this since I was a young guy, just let them see you and wait to find out witch ones like you, then decide who you want to get to know better. Avoid problems.
I watch your videos on the regular in the morning, and Sir, this is the truth! Great video.
Unc you have no clue how much peace having this on the headphone while I'm working remote (tech) brings me. The Music in the background of your vids is healing for real. Appreciate you
Keep rising everyone ! ❤
I’ve told every man I’ve ever known that very thing.The happiest ones are the ones that listened.True Players don’t chase nothing or roll around like a Pet Dog.
You know what's funny Rom, I even tell women that they choose up on a guy 3 weeks before the guy even says hi to her because that woman already was checking that dude out ahead of time. The women even agreed and said it was true!
The best and most successful relationships have always been the ones where the woman is a little more into the man than the man is into the woman.
Yall are all on time
This is true. It almost feels like an insult being around women that just want you for ehat you can do for them vs the ones that desire you huge difference
Brother Rom is Back Guys 😃
Let her choose up. Big Facts!!!
GREAT ADVISE RIGHT HERE. GOOD VIDEO.
This is great advice for us men out here. Thank you brother.
I’ve been out the comments awhile uncle rom as I’ve been in a relationship for coming up on a year next month … I’ve had the most dating success of my life the last two years with the info I’ve gotten from your YT and Patreon page .. one of the biggest pieces of advice is choosing who chooses you , thanks Unc and well wishes 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
You hit it out the park with this one 💯 My current relationship is with a fine ass woman I met in highschool. She DM me about meeting up at our class reunion and we've been rocking ever since. She's kind, sweet, thoughtful and shows up for me, and she's still fine!!
Facts. If women aren't choosing you then that's a massive sign you haven't put enough work into your physical appearance and body game.
Don’t forget the character, too. Women reject men who have no substance, as well.
Don’t forgot some are born without beauty aesthetics. Humans are superficial.
Not all the time sometimes they just like certain ethnicities and height. Seen women turned down a man with everything together but was 5’8 for a bum that was 6’2 with no career, ate garbages and was on drugs
@@sadarisbenjamin4203sad thing is alot of women will try to mold the man they like if he don’t have it all together vs a man healthier for them that might lack height lol
Theirs guys who don’t have good looks yet women choose them… and guys who look decently who barely get chose
Hm as a highcaliber guy, almost every women choose you. The problem start when you approach them, and they feel insecure and not good enough for you. But thats a problem, that probably 1 out of 50‘000 men have. If you are that rare kind of womanizer, you know what im talking about. They feel intimidated and dont know what to do with you, because theyve never dealt with a handsome guy like that
You the truth Rom. Keep dropping that knowledge 💯
Uncle Rom layin it down
You have given me better advice than Uncle Ruckus (no relation) has ever given me.
Thank you.
man this is golden rule why don't they teach this in college, choice for chasing love is with women's and choice for giving attention and love is with men. Its that simple.. Men have choice to escalate relationship if good behaviour of women or pull back if bad behaviour. thats how men lead relationship thats why men establish dominance and then only women submit to man.
These videos are addicting thanks uncle rom
I had to learn this in high school. By senior year I had this pretty well figured out
Hey Rom, Your videos have helped me out so much at university!
Very correct..I show my interest in woman, I try to escalate, if she does not play along I dont chase. Even if it would work, I dont want too.
WELP women KNOW who they want, her ACTIONS will tell her story
Free game I was just thinking about this appreciate the wisdom and clarification
Spot on
God bless you for giving me faith, everything you said is happening with me and this girl I meet for the past 5 days she is always messaging me first have a great day, did you eat, and cooks for me like It was the opposite this whole time
Man I feel dissed because I have chose a lot of females that didn’t want me but now I feel better watching this video I know better now to never chase or initiate anything just like those women who like me🏆💯
Good stuff, Uncle Rom! The women make it obvious when they feeling you. Vice versa? They’ll do everything to avoid you. Peace and blessings!!
Wise man, 1,000 % correct
Good ole Ron Willis
5:05 this is a fact. Had a chick at work I ddnt see her that much then over a period of a few weeks all of a sudden I started to see her everyday everywhere and she brought me some random flyer just to talk to me. The play was set up frm the beginning
That’s Always Been my Rule , It’s Just Common Sense and I haven’t been broke since 82 😂
Thanks!
Thanks for your support.
Right on brother
Opposite of circle business 💯
Best advice & video ever!
Preach !!!!
Exactly 💯👏👏👏👏
All of my relationships with women who approached me turned out much better than if I approached them 🤷🏼♂️
Been married to my hs sweetheart for 23 years and she has a crush on me when she was in middle school (I’m two grades older). We started dating when she was a freshman and been together ever since.
Premium Game right here, choose women who choose you
Wow! It’s not about her looks as much as it is about her actions!!! Powerful brother
Yep got enough feeling me to where i dont ever have to chase ..