I heard something that goes “if you’re gonna spend your life living in your head, at least make it a happy place to live” and that has stuck with me ever since
Yes I'm still learning the hard way. Such as people who don't communicate. Unpredictable. Not respecting your time and efforts in returns. If it feels one sided, it usually is.
Wao! Amazing !!!! I noticed that the more I have worked on healing and loving myself, the more aware I am becoming of my time . I am a people pleaser in recovery. Gave my time , my energy , and my money when I really needed it for me. The time one is a big one though! As we can’t get time back .
Marisa Peer is awesome. I took her course in Rapid Transformational Therapy and everyone loves it and comes out healed. I even had a client with a physical problem that went away, it’s magic.
I haven’t thought about the last one. I always gone beyond myself to help people and got hurtful feedbacks.... I shouldn't be doing that to myself.... thanks a lot ❤❤❤
I love her for saying this, thank you! Getting better so much better about my self talk recently. But I'm leaving any sort of mistreatment. And I'm done being a people pleaser.
This is a good way to make ppl with cptsd feel even worse about themselves. Those that were verbally abused will turn the abuser into an inner critic. To tell someone they don’t love themselves just makes them feel more broken. It’s a brain injury that needs to be dealt with not some positive bypassing. This takes time and a lot of work and self awareness. I hope those that feel broken will learn nothing is wrong with them, but something happened to them. And you can heal with real information. Pete Walker books. ❤
KIND to YOURSELF How do you treat yourself ? Do you binge watching something instead of treating yourself with your time and energy and love and attention??
I treat myself well, take care of myself and do stuff for my best interest like yoga and working out even when I don’t feel like it and it pays off over time! And meditation ❤ I also have never been a damn people pleaser lol if you owe me money I’m getting it back and if I don’t have shit to give I’m not gonna bend over backwards doing it… I think people like that are people who were raised without proper love maybe, always seeking validation
Yes they were raised in abusive households where they were always made responsible for others and their parents and thus they learn to tiptoe around others and never meet their own needs
Be SENSIBLE REASONABLE HONEST WITH ONES SELF! SELF-RESPECT IS HAPPINESS. 👍👍👍👍👍😺🐈😺⚖️⚖️ HYDRATION IS VITAL EVERY DAY. ALL DAY LONG PREVENTS ASTHMA Symptoms. Water is medicine for our bodies 💛💛💛💛💛🥇🥇🦉🦉💝💝💝💝💖💖💝
I have to disagree on the last point. Doing something for someone, and putting people first instead of yourself, doesn't mean you don't have self love, it means you're generous and consider that helping people is the most important thing in life.
I heard something that goes “if you’re gonna spend your life living in your head, at least make it a happy place to live” and that has stuck with me ever since
From someone with ocd, thx! That’s sticks ❤
Thank you ❤❤
I caught myself speaking meanly to myself the other day & told myself - Stop that! This is beautiful she is an angel ❤️
Beautiful! That has been dawning on me lately, thank you for confirmation.
Tell yourself every morning, I am beautiful inside and out. Look in the mirror and say it too.
Alright. Room for improvement. Always room for improvement. Growth is the mindset.
AMEN🙌🏾
That’s way it doesn’t love us
Absolutely not
We’re not a body
We’re spirit Divine
Stop 🛑 stop ✋ saying that
@@ivannagutierrez1009what are you saying???
@@lynellbohannon5191it's like Smeagol making a comment lol. "It burns us, stops us".😂
Short and straight to the point. Thank you dear lady for telling me exactly what I needed to hear.
Great way to differentiate between love and abuse. There’s no excuse for people treating you badly.
Yes I'm still learning the hard way. Such as people who don't communicate. Unpredictable. Not respecting your time and efforts in returns.
If it feels one sided, it usually is.
Subconscious mind listens to everything. She is so right. Only give yourself great messages. Positive words and thoughts. ❤.
#1 & #2 - check! #3 - not so much. Thank you for helping me see this behavior is not loving to myself. It’s abandoning myself. ❤
Love yourself, your life, your heart, your health... good night, you are loved 💗
Wao!
Amazing !!!!
I noticed that the more I have worked on healing and loving myself, the more aware I am becoming of my time . I am a people pleaser in recovery. Gave my time , my energy , and my money when I really needed it for me. The time one is a big one though! As we can’t get time back .
I fail on the last one, I am a recovering people pleaser. The first two I am in the process of changing. I have a lot to thank Marisa for ❤
Netflix and chilling all night long ALONE lol! That is self love! 😂
Actually it's not when u can be more productive. Find other ways to relax maybe an hour of Netflix that's it
Yeah , that is a form of self love as long as you are doing that on a weekend , and not when you have to get up early and go to work the next day 😊
@@09pari True lol. 👍
Once in a while yes. Not structurally I guess.
@@NoRevengeNeededThere's nothing more productive to me than giving myself joy and self care so...I make time for my fangirling.
I think I got my answer. I fail at all 3!
😅😅😅 don't say that. You can learn it step by step! ✌️❤️☀️💚
Ditto
I love u so much Melissa, u are truely an Angel on Earth❤🤗 Thank You
One thing I’m working on is not sabotage. You can eat a lot of food just to feel better. I’ve gotten better at it but I’m still working on it.
One word - Balance! ♥️
Overcome attachments and you will love yourself more
words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.
Marisa Peer is awesome. I took her course in Rapid Transformational Therapy and everyone loves it and comes out healed. I even had a client with a physical problem that went away, it’s magic.
May I know how much does it cost for the course?
Isn’t that course like 7k? Are you an RTT therapist now?
There is a rapid self hypnosis for abundance course in kind alley now. Much cheaper
I haven’t thought about the last one. I always gone beyond myself to help people and got hurtful feedbacks.... I shouldn't be doing that to myself.... thanks a lot ❤❤❤
Ohhh my❤ I'm always lend money others were I can't afford and give my All my energy
Thank you.
I learned something.
Indeed well said. I truly thank you Marissa, for waking me up ❤❤❤
Your advice is inspirational and meaningful. I LOVE IT. THANK YOU SO MUCH! ❤
Great. I have accomplish the big 3. ❤
I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
Perfect💕🥰 thank you I needed your Guidance I appreciate you Marisa so much 😘🥰
I like this, great insights...VERY TRUE. Thank you 💙 🙏
This right here was needed
Affirmation, treat yourself as your temple, and allow no one to overstep the boundaries of yourself got it.
I love her for saying this, thank you! Getting better so much better about my self talk recently. But I'm leaving any sort of mistreatment. And I'm done being a people pleaser.
Thanks, this is great
I love this
Yes yes !
Needed that !
Very eye opening 😮
I love you, Marisa! You're amazing ❤ the last line in this short... Wow!
❤ Thanks for this.. Really important and came in time 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Totally agreed 💯 thank you for sharing this message Marisa Peer💖💫
Love your Energy and Guidance Marisa🤗💃🏼✌️🥰
This is a good way to make ppl with cptsd feel even worse about themselves. Those that were verbally abused will turn the abuser into an inner critic. To tell someone they don’t love themselves just makes them feel more broken. It’s a brain injury that needs to be dealt with not some positive bypassing. This takes time and a lot of work and self awareness. I hope those that feel broken will learn nothing is wrong with them, but something happened to them. And you can heal with real information.
Pete Walker books. ❤
Thank You xxxxxxxxx
This is eye opening. Thank you ❤
That means I love myself the most😊
Damn so true
KIND to YOURSELF
How do you treat yourself ? Do you binge watching something instead of treating yourself with your time and energy and love and attention??
Wow.. periodt.
I loveee this so much. ❤❤❤
Omg so true
This is fire 🔥
She's a gem
Usually, it takes until older to realize these. Selflessness was taught in my generation. It's good sometimes, but grab the airbag.
Took me 30 years to learn some of these lessons!
I guess lack a bit of love for myself because I stay up late until I fall asleep lol
I am claiming I always self love and fill my own cup 🙏🏾
Damn. Ive been abusing myself forever. 😢
Right on spot
I love myself❤
I am GTG with the first two but I do go out of my way to help others.
In every video of marissa her hair is always in her eyes ....always.
Thank you 🕊️🙏😇
❤ thank you 🙏. I agree
I treat myself well, take care of myself and do stuff for my best interest like yoga and working out even when I don’t feel like it and it pays off over time! And meditation ❤
I also have never been a damn people pleaser lol if you owe me money I’m getting it back and if I don’t have shit to give I’m not gonna bend over backwards doing it… I think people like that are people who were raised without proper love maybe, always seeking validation
Thank you Beautiful for this reply ♥️
Yes they were raised in abusive households where they were always made responsible for others and their parents and thus they learn to tiptoe around others and never meet their own needs
I like and appreciate this info.❤
Love God ❤
Por favor en español gracias. Eres excelente Marisa
1. What i say to myself 2. How i treat myself 3. How i let others treat me
Much love to you ❤
Thankyou❤
Self talk is my problem .
Thank you.
Thank you ❤
Period
Nice...🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Love melissa ❤
I love this!
I used to abuse myself, and now I don't
Thank you mam 😊🙏
Yes the first one I’m guilty of
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mental health ❤
❤👌💯thank you😊😚🙏
Great points, Marissa! Insightful. Do you love yourself?
I only miss the second thing but I'mma get better 🤩🤩🤩🤩
And I’m the third one
I love myself too much to get up at 8 am.
Interesting way of looking at money
Be comfortable looking in the mirror and telling you you love you if you get to a sticking point examine why forgive or make amends Let It Go
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That's all me ... Idk how to love myself
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Full video?
Who is this woman? I can listen to her advice and voice for hours
Be SENSIBLE REASONABLE HONEST WITH ONES SELF! SELF-RESPECT IS HAPPINESS. 👍👍👍👍👍😺🐈😺⚖️⚖️ HYDRATION IS VITAL EVERY DAY. ALL DAY LONG PREVENTS ASTHMA Symptoms. Water is medicine for our bodies 💛💛💛💛💛🥇🥇🦉🦉💝💝💝💝💖💖💝
I don’t take care of myself . no one has ever taken care of me😢 illl be the first
Try it honey. Treat yourself the way you'd treat someone you love. Go out and do something that you enjoy! ❤
❤❤@@nancyayotte2297
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Including whoever had my damn devices hacked it's all going to come out regardless
I mean accurate
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I have to disagree on the last point. Doing something for someone, and putting people first instead of yourself, doesn't mean you don't have self love, it means you're generous and consider that helping people is the most important thing in life.
what if ur just learning how to love yourself at 46? where should i start?
What If You love All Those Things???
That In itself is love to me
Oh my god ,im abusing myself,whod have thought.