I love how people you didn't grow up in Congo or have left and haven't been nack since have so much to say about how people live in Congo. Do they think Congolese are village people with no education, with no access to technology and Clueless about what's happening in the world?
The lack of knowledge is alarming 😢 I literally grew up in Congo and I’ve seen and met people who poto doesn’t mean none to them and yes they are very comfortable in life.
First of all, why is a woman leaving her place to go find a husband ? Where is her dignity? Thank you, Dymund, for reminding us that prayer is the key to everything.
I did not appreciate some of these not yet married young people putting in their 2 cents. They have no marriage experience whatsover, this topic needed married women and men to give us opinion. Those still married those who are divorced so they can tell us exactly whats going on. Unfortunately here in north america and Europe a large number of parents are not taking their time to give proper guidance on how to be in a marriage. We have so much tubulance in marriages Only those with brave hearts are surviving its really a small amount of young couples that are making it. those who are committed, love each other genuinely, and put God first. Even though people are always bashing Gladys, she's still in her marriage doing well and praying for her marriage, same as Dymond. Some of these young, not yet married penalist were just saying lots of nonesense, especially the girl in the leather black dress. Like why would gou think all men in Congo are not educated, or dont earn. That girl's opions had alot of nonesense
Not bein married doesnt disqualify one from commenting or giving an opinion about mariage. Catholic priests are not married and they do it. Another example is, you might talk about politics or law but you have no experience in it, doesnt mean you cannot talk about the subject...we cannot use that argumentatuve fallacy to silence people
@Valan tu as raison qu'un grand nombre des parents de la diaspora ne prennent vraiment leur temps pour nous préparer sur le mariage... Mais je te conseillerai de leurs affronter avec le sujet concerné, car dans notre communauté il existe encore dans bcp des familles le problème de la communication. Certes les parents n'en prennent le temps mais tu peux oser à leur aborder et je suis sûre ça sera un début d'une longue séance. Car aucun parents souhaite le mal pour ses enfants avec les expériences vécues, ils te dirons même les sort des mauvaises gérances qu'ils subissent, te prevenir pour que tu ne tombes dessus. Nombreuses disent souvent omoni oyo nga nasala yo kosala yango te... Bref nos parents sont capables de nous préparer le problème n'est que la manque de communication, une fois osé Esilii
Elle est vraiment ignorante celle-là. Moi je connais des gens en RDC et au Congo Brazza qui sont riches et vivent largement mieux que les Congolais de l'Occident
Je n'ai qu'une seule chose à dire,lorsqu'un homme veut être traité comme un "roi" ou du moins un leader il est important qu'il agisse réèllement de la sorte,car un leader ne fait pas de 50/50, un leader est protecteur et assure la sécurité totale de sa famille ( femme et enfants). Les hommes qui savent qu'ils ne sont pas capables de leader doivent s'adapter à leur femmes. C'est à dire des femmes qui travaillent autant qu'eux et qui n'auront pas forcément le temps d'être tout le temps au petit soin et c'est juste normal. Si vous voulez des femmes totalement disponibles et performantes alors payez les factures seuls, comme ça vos femmes s'occuperont de vous sans se soucier des dépenses. C'est pour ça que je dis toujours aux femmes africaines que le 50/50 c'est de l'arnaque et ça créent énormément de conflit au sein des couples africains en Europe.
Syntiche is attacking Gladys and being a pick me meanwhile abala te . Zala humble yaya vie eza na ba surprise ebele Y’all are just speaking based off of stereotypes and not experience
Bolobela pe "Mibali ya poto bakabaka te!! Bizaleli mabé! Babondelaka basi te!! Soki bakeyi afrique bakomi kofutela basi nionso, kobondela basi, balomi ba big TeddyB"
Bien dit Trésor! Moi même si je suis attirée par un homme,je ne fais jamais le 1er pas! Il faut qu'il vienne vers moi; là je me sens aimée,respectée,considérée!
I just want to know if anyone of the panelists grew up in Kinshasa or any other parts of DRC to make bold statements like that. I grew up there and I don’t know where some of these statements come from. I’m quite shocked 😅
I don't like people that speak with no experience. It seems that Dorine makes up her point. Syntiche gives too many numbers as if they were scientifical findings. Jeffrey is impolite. Bobette, although sometimes she baffles me but at least she has experience. Besides Caroline, I don't like this new casting at all. Even last week's episode, I didn't like having Chloé there. She doesnt express herself properly. Je suis déçue. It low key feels like the old crew is annoyed with the new one.
Pardon bolobaka lingala! Ata etengama eza kk lingala na biso ya poto. Pona Germany, Swiss ect pe balandaka bino. ❤ bana ya françe pe boyekola lingala please!
Just wanted to correct something that seems to have taken over in the Congolese Christian circle…. The Bible doesn’t say « bonne femme » but rather « femme »…. « Qui trouve un femme trouve le bonheur… ». It’s important to quote the Bible correctly.
Im in africa ,and proud but i think basi ya africa misusu bazalaka kaka neti ya poto ,parcq basalaka they make money, so some are jobless waiting all from the man so they have to do all
I find the panel very narrow-minded. One can find a good wife anywhere, women in congo arent better than the one here in poto. A person marries in congo cus he wants to, it is out of love cus if they do it thinking the woman will wash their feet etc then they are in for a surprise...i grew up until age 15 in congo i mever seen anyone feet being washed everyday. A bad woman or man will be so no matter where you get them. One musts make the effort to find a good partner and create their world together. We must drop the negative feminism and the toxic masculinity. Why are there only expectation for women in amariage but guys get away woth almost murder? Also we cant always see everything through the eyes of religion, not everyone is or believe in the same thing or faith system. People here need more argument based on rationality instead of logics...i sometimes dont watch because of that.
Bon mon frère Jeffrey d’un côté tu as raison mais d’un côté c’est juste une question d’éducation 😂😅 il y a des femmes née ici en France savent tellement prendre soin d’un homme et d’autre non mais pareil aussi au Congo Batika yo frérot 🤣😂😂
Peu importe le niveau du développement de la femme ou le développement du contré où elle habite le système sociale de son environnement savoir ce qu'elle est et son rôle est la base vis versa avec l'homme la relation entre humains a toujours de problème mais l'équilibre se situe au niveau du respect de tout un chacun en tenant compte du rôle que joue chacun
When you guys are talking , bo lobela par rapport y’a ba expérience na bino . Expérience is different. There are men who still go to shit their wives in Congo malgré que basi na bango baza ba soumise , propre et ba prenaka soins na bango .
Thanks for this Episode, The team 🤍 Ya Trésor and Mama D thanks for being wise. But to be honest yeah, This was my least favorite épisode, C’est tellement triste de se dire que y’a beaucoup de jeune congolais de nos jours qui pense que le Congo ressemble à un village. As much as the media show you the wrong side of Congo trust me, we live a better life then most people outside in uk and so…. For a women to go to Congo To get an husband she doesn’t have to be dumb and so for the man. Just like someone said, men look for peace and respect when they come home and women love and protection. It is as easy as it’s sound. Guys en Europe sont tellement et autant moins Sérieux et profiteurs que ceux sur qui vous tombé back home. Poto ekosayo bino te, ba congolais nioso bazala na besoin y’a ba papier te! Et c’est là qu’est le problème. Vous vous mariés par intérêt! Synthiche, ton discours peut facilement laisser faire croire au jeune que l’Europe c’est le paradis alors que y’a rien d’étonnant. You need to go back in Congo for a year and so … and see how men here are not the same. Jeffrey, if you wanna make a point you don’t need to gaslight or rabaisser les opinions des autres. I Hope we can see that side of you in other episodes. Na’o melela mibali na biso ngando te mais you guys gotta understand that even those you have there come from the Congo somehow . Big up to Dorine, je pense que ses bon opinions ont été étouffés, and it’s would be nice if those delicate subjects are handled with more maturity just like Ya Trésor and Mama D did .
Jeeeffff noko tia na se mon frère😂.... N'attaques surtout pas ainsi pour la prochaine numéro tes copanalistes. Veilles sur ta façon de ta façon de critiquer et de reprocher. Tes dires sur Bobette otaper à côté.. Sinon je partage la majorité de tes propos Maman présentatrice, ce numéro chapeau bas! Oke nango très bien, mua lingala ebele anglais mukie, je vois que bo considéré ba rémarques ya l'autre numéro Concernant Bobette naseki nanu😂😂😂ye il faut lui laisser du temps ya kosilisa ses idées jusqu'au bout po sinon te tokozua kipelekese avant Syntiche je comprend ce que tu veux dire avec makemba et bien la majorité des femmes qui vont se mettre en couple au pays sont ceux là comme Dymund a dit batula et puis ba malmena vie na bango na Europe et leur espoir ezala na Kin en utilisant ki muana poto ayebi que ba kinois irresponsable ba kueyaka nango Dorine des belles opinions bravo👏🏾 mais to zo observer yo nanu😂 13-Image & Dymund Trèees bien✅ Merci Solola Bien bokomi kozonga👌🏾🇨🇩🔥
Dorine, Dymund et Ya Trésor vraiment rien à dire Bobette trop agitée. Syntiche lingala please tu dis des choses intéressantes mais on te suit pas trop mélanger stp yaya
Seriously, I think u chose not to understand me.😅 I made it clear that women in congo lower their standards for European men. They allow all the holes in their bodies to be used for special treatment to keep European men. Once they arrive in Europe, they change, why because they no longer have to do so much to come to Europe, they become like European women. Us European women don't like men for any interest, but women in congo do, they are after European men for money or to come to Europe. A European man might be ugly and has no money or even a job as soon as he lands in congo he comes handsome and rich in the eyes of these women in congo. They think all these European men have money and a better lifestyle for them. But that is not true. Poverty is the cause of many women in congo to be attractive to European men and lower their values just for money or to come to Europe.
I love how people you didn't grow up in Congo or have left and haven't been nack since have so much to say about how people live in Congo. Do they think Congolese are village people with no education, with no access to technology and Clueless about what's happening in the world?
Right!
You can say that again hey
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💯!! The audacity
The lack of knowledge is alarming 😢 I literally grew up in Congo and I’ve seen and met people who poto doesn’t mean none to them and yes they are very comfortable in life.
Eh ya Tresor today you killed it! I'm with you 100%!
KING TRÉSOR ! QUEEN DIAMOND 🏆
First of all, why is a woman leaving her place to go find a husband ?
Where is her dignity?
Thank you, Dymund, for reminding us that prayer is the key to everything.
That microphone 🎤 got me dead. the guy with dreadlocks definitely got his heart broken because. There no way !!!!!!
😅😅😅
Dymund, Bobette, Trésor 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽Jeff est impoli et agressif!!
Jeffrey il prend des airs neti mutu ako loba makambu ya malonga mais en vrai il raconte que son expérience personnelle qui lui fait mal.
Il fallait bazua Kongo Boi au lieu de lui il est tellement ridicule
Jeffrey aza blessé de guerre na moni 😂 il m’a tué de rire
Ya trésor and Diamond 💎👏👏👏👏👌👌
Now this is what you call ko solola bien, Great Episode 👏🏾
I enjoyed it as well. It wasn't boring 😅😅
Very good episode 😂
I did not appreciate some of these not yet married young people putting in their 2 cents. They have no marriage experience whatsover, this topic needed married women and men to give us opinion. Those still married those who are divorced so they can tell us exactly whats going on.
Unfortunately here in north america and Europe a large number of parents are not taking their time to give proper guidance on how to be in a marriage. We have so much tubulance in marriages
Only those with brave hearts are surviving its really a small amount of young couples that are making it. those who are committed, love each other genuinely, and put God first.
Even though people are always bashing Gladys, she's still in her marriage doing well and praying for her marriage, same as Dymond.
Some of these young, not yet married penalist were just saying lots of nonesense, especially the girl in the leather black dress. Like why would gou think all men in Congo are not educated, or dont earn. That girl's opions had alot of nonesense
A.k. bobette. I'm married also. I have experience 😊
Not bein married doesnt disqualify one from commenting or giving an opinion about mariage. Catholic priests are not married and they do it. Another example is, you might talk about politics or law but you have no experience in it, doesnt mean you cannot talk about the subject...we cannot use that argumentatuve fallacy to silence people
@Valan tu as raison qu'un grand nombre des parents de la diaspora ne prennent vraiment leur temps pour nous préparer sur le mariage... Mais je te conseillerai de leurs affronter avec le sujet concerné, car dans notre communauté il existe encore dans bcp des familles le problème de la communication. Certes les parents n'en prennent le temps mais tu peux oser à leur aborder et je suis sûre ça sera un début d'une longue séance. Car aucun parents souhaite le mal pour ses enfants avec les expériences vécues, ils te dirons même les sort des mauvaises gérances qu'ils subissent, te prevenir pour que tu ne tombes dessus. Nombreuses disent souvent omoni oyo nga nasala yo kosala yango te...
Bref nos parents sont capables de nous préparer le problème n'est que la manque de communication, une fois osé Esilii
Bobette is making good points that have been dismissed.
mais synthiche elle croit au congo on vit encore en foret ou quoi?
Elle est vraiment ignorante celle-là. Moi je connais des gens en RDC et au Congo Brazza qui sont riches et vivent largement mieux que les Congolais de l'Occident
Bravo Trezor. 👏🏾👏🏾
Je n'ai qu'une seule chose à dire,lorsqu'un homme veut être traité comme un "roi" ou du moins un leader il est important qu'il agisse réèllement de la sorte,car un leader ne fait pas de 50/50, un leader est protecteur et assure la sécurité totale de sa famille ( femme et enfants). Les hommes qui savent qu'ils ne sont pas capables de leader doivent s'adapter à leur femmes. C'est à dire des femmes qui travaillent autant qu'eux et qui n'auront pas forcément le temps d'être tout le temps au petit soin et c'est juste normal. Si vous voulez des femmes totalement disponibles et performantes alors payez les factures seuls, comme ça vos femmes s'occuperont de vous sans se soucier des dépenses.
C'est pour ça que je dis toujours aux femmes africaines que le 50/50 c'est de l'arnaque et ça créent énormément de conflit au sein des couples africains en Europe.
The guy with locks was doing a bit too much for me it’s not that serious, he was talking down on some of the women.
Les sujets manquent de profondeur, c’est dommage.
Ça commence directement avec des bombes et ça reste superficielle tellement dommage
Syntiche is attacking Gladys and being a pick me meanwhile abala te . Zala humble yaya vie eza na ba surprise ebele Y’all are just speaking based off of stereotypes and not experience
frrr
Yes I understand that was uncalled for 🙏🏾
These girls are not married yet,it's both sides for a marriage to work
"pick me" ? are you 16 years old
Bolobela pe "Mibali ya poto bakabaka te!! Bizaleli mabé! Babondelaka basi te!! Soki bakeyi afrique bakomi kofutela basi nionso, kobondela basi, balomi ba big TeddyB"
Bien dit Trésor! Moi même si je suis attirée par un homme,je ne fais jamais le 1er pas! Il faut qu'il vienne vers moi; là je me sens aimée,respectée,considérée!
Dymund God bless you ! Abakisa yo mayele mère ! Wumela❤
Where is carolina at? she would have been a good feat.
Lelo en tout cas papa Tresor na mamu Diamond niveau 👍🏿👏🏿
@nkt9957no one said she wasn’t it’s simply referring to her as mum in Tshiluba chill mate
The new contestant are quite interesting I do prefer the oldies 🙈🙈🙈
I just want to know if anyone of the panelists grew up in Kinshasa or any other parts of DRC to make bold statements like that. I grew up there and I don’t know where some of these statements come from. I’m quite shocked 😅
ahh oui tresor you are correct well spoken
Great episode Ya Dymund 👏 bravo 🎈🎊🎉🍾 you made the best comment ever and papa Tresor, il faut bien leur tirer les oreilles 👂
Jeffrey is petty. 😂😂
I don't like people that speak with no experience. It seems that Dorine makes up her point. Syntiche gives too many numbers as if they were scientifical findings. Jeffrey is impolite. Bobette, although sometimes she baffles me but at least she has experience. Besides Caroline, I don't like this new casting at all. Even last week's episode, I didn't like having Chloé there. She doesnt express herself properly.
Je suis déçue. It low key feels like the old crew is annoyed with the new one.
Yo bongo 😂😂
Tu as raison sur toute la ligne
Pardon bolobaka lingala! Ata etengama eza kk lingala na biso ya poto. Pona Germany, Swiss ect pe balandaka bino. ❤ bana ya françe pe boyekola lingala please!
Jeffrey quand tu dit basi y’a poto ba tula j’espère ba ndeko nayo ya basi pe o compter ba ngo ? Merci !
Ah papa tresor lelo o lobi tre bein 👏👏👏
Just wanted to correct something that seems to have taken over in the Congolese Christian circle…. The Bible doesn’t say « bonne femme » but rather « femme »…. « Qui trouve un femme trouve le bonheur… ». It’s important to quote the Bible correctly.
Why subjects turn only against women ?
Good question!!
Im in africa ,and proud but i think basi ya africa misusu bazalaka kaka neti ya poto ,parcq basalaka they make money, so some are jobless waiting all from the man so they have to do all
Thank you very much Tresor very well put 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
C’est dommage qu’au début il n’y a pas de son. J’aime trop cette émission
Hello, some discussion have to be with 3-4 people. It will be much nicer
Dymund 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 give me five 😃😅 oso solola bien 🤩
Papa Trésor olobi malamu😊
Thanks to Mr.Trésor and Mrs. Dymond!
I find the panel very narrow-minded. One can find a good wife anywhere, women in congo arent better than the one here in poto. A person marries in congo cus he wants to, it is out of love cus if they do it thinking the woman will wash their feet etc then they are in for a surprise...i grew up until age 15 in congo i mever seen anyone feet being washed everyday.
A bad woman or man will be so no matter where you get them. One musts make the effort to find a good partner and create their world together. We must drop the negative feminism and the toxic masculinity. Why are there only expectation for women in amariage but guys get away woth almost murder?
Also we cant always see everything through the eyes of religion, not everyone is or believe in the same thing or faith system.
People here need more argument based on rationality instead of logics...i sometimes dont watch because of that.
Ba theme oyo ezo pesa ngai kands
Wapi Gladice????? Apapula bino?!
Miss D(Double),osololi bien👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤
Sister dymund toujours sage
Tozongisa bolingo na bolingo nde toko tosana❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤tokos missio❤❤❤❤❤❤
Pas de sous-titres disponible pour cette vidéo c'est dommage 😢😢
Bon mon frère Jeffrey d’un côté tu as raison mais d’un côté c’est juste une question d’éducation 😂😅 il y a des femmes née ici en France savent tellement prendre soin d’un homme et d’autre non mais pareil aussi au Congo
Batika yo frérot 🤣😂😂
Yango bobette aboya jeff to nini aza n'a kanda n'a ye makassi eeeeh aza pe munoko awa
Mibali ya poto bokabaka te
I don't know whats happening but something is wrong with the sound I only heared the panelist speaking by 8:29 min. whats going on?
Oui mais les mibali ya poto aussi ça ne va pas deh. Faut se revoir parfois 😂
Dymund Voluuuuuuuume❤❤❤❤❤
Peu importe le niveau du développement de la femme ou le développement du contré où elle habite le système sociale de son environnement savoir ce qu'elle est et son rôle est la base vis versa avec l'homme la relation entre humains a toujours de problème mais l'équilibre se situe au niveau du respect de tout un chacun en tenant compte du rôle que joue chacun
Tresor ezalaka te, nous savons prendre soin de nos femme
Dorine wisdom
Syntche lingala pasi, na français eloko tsé .. 😂 boni ozo attaquée Gladys ? Dégage la bas di
Syntche is literally the VOICE OF REASON🙌🏾 I love how she is able to tell women the truth and not gaslight them like most women do 🤧
Who is Jeffrey? Not even married 😂 I don’t understand him is he traumatized of something?! 🤔
King Tresor and Queen Diamond go forward 👍🏽
Le gars à la 15ieme minutes connait les hommes
Ya Trésor 👏🏽
When you guys are talking , bo lobela par rapport y’a ba expérience na bino . Expérience is different. There are men who still go to shit their wives in Congo malgré que basi na bango baza ba soumise , propre et ba prenaka soins na bango .
Y’a Kinshasa nde baza makolo???
DYMUND na ya Tresor bo sololi bien …
Sérieusement Basi ya poto bazali très très mal bouche, mais aussi, balati infidélité lokola elemba to Bijoux… kobala te, ou alors NZAMBE alobela yo.
Thanks for this Episode, The team 🤍
Ya Trésor and Mama D thanks for being wise.
But to be honest yeah, This was my least favorite épisode, C’est tellement triste de se dire que y’a beaucoup de jeune congolais de nos jours qui pense que le Congo ressemble à un village. As much as the media show you the wrong side of Congo trust me, we live a better life then most people outside in uk and so…. For a women to go to Congo To get an husband she doesn’t have to be dumb and so for the man. Just like someone said, men look for peace and respect when they come home and women love and protection. It is as easy as it’s sound. Guys en Europe sont tellement et autant moins Sérieux et profiteurs que ceux sur qui vous tombé back home. Poto ekosayo bino te, ba congolais nioso bazala na besoin y’a ba papier te! Et c’est là qu’est le problème. Vous vous mariés par intérêt!
Synthiche, ton discours peut facilement laisser faire croire au jeune que l’Europe c’est le paradis alors que y’a rien d’étonnant. You need to go back in Congo for a year and so … and see how men here are not the same.
Jeffrey, if you wanna make a point you don’t need to gaslight or rabaisser les opinions des autres. I Hope we can see that side of you in other episodes.
Na’o melela mibali na biso ngando te mais you guys gotta understand that even those you have there come from the Congo somehow .
Big up to Dorine, je pense que ses bon opinions ont été étouffés, and it’s would be nice if those delicate subjects are handled with more maturity just like Ya Trésor and Mama D did .
Thank u 🙏🏾
❤❤❤❤❤❤✅✅✅✅
Jeeeffff noko tia na se mon frère😂.... N'attaques surtout pas ainsi pour la prochaine numéro tes copanalistes. Veilles sur ta façon de ta façon de critiquer et de reprocher. Tes dires sur Bobette otaper à côté..
Sinon je partage la majorité de tes propos
Maman présentatrice, ce numéro chapeau bas! Oke nango très bien, mua lingala ebele anglais mukie, je vois que bo considéré ba rémarques ya l'autre numéro
Concernant Bobette naseki nanu😂😂😂ye il faut lui laisser du temps ya kosilisa ses idées jusqu'au bout po sinon te tokozua kipelekese avant
Syntiche je comprend ce que tu veux dire avec makemba et bien la majorité des femmes qui vont se mettre en couple au pays sont ceux là comme Dymund a dit batula et puis ba malmena vie na bango na Europe et leur espoir ezala na Kin en utilisant ki muana poto ayebi que ba kinois irresponsable ba kueyaka nango
Dorine des belles opinions bravo👏🏾 mais to zo observer yo nanu😂
13-Image & Dymund Trèees bien✅
Merci Solola Bien bokomi kozonga👌🏾🇨🇩🔥
😂 observer kassi
everything that come out of syntichh mouth make no sense!
Jeffrey very toxic approach to this conversation 😂
Jeffre your annoying when you keep on cutting people off while it their turn to talk 🙄
Jeffrey a bomi nga 🤣🤣🤣😂
Karinini AKENDA wapi?
Si vous n‘avez pas d’inspiration pour les sujets dites moi, pcq ça devient gênant
😭😭😂😂🤣😅😭😭 na matisi bino mafuta bo supporter kaka eza vie
You sound disrespectful, change how you address your cast mates.
Dorine, Dymund et Ya Trésor vraiment rien à dire
Bobette trop agitée.
Syntiche lingala please tu dis des choses intéressantes mais on te suit pas trop mélanger stp yaya
y'all still getting married? hahahaha in 2023 smh
Yango Bobette bozui ye wapi? Ba argument moko ezanga mutu na makolo 🤦🏽♀️🤣
Seriously, I think u chose not to understand me.😅 I made it clear that women in congo lower their standards for European men. They allow all the holes in their bodies to be used for special treatment to keep European men. Once they arrive in Europe, they change, why because they no longer have to do so much to come to Europe, they become like European women. Us European women don't like men for any interest, but women in congo do, they are after European men for money or to come to Europe. A European man might be ugly and has no money or even a job as soon as he lands in congo he comes handsome and rich in the eyes of these women in congo. They think all these European men have money and a better lifestyle for them. But that is not true. Poverty is the cause of many women in congo to be attractive to European men and lower their values just for money or to come to Europe.
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